I'm amazed at how something so simple can be so impactful... to think that it's not about grand gestures but just genuine acknowledgement of someone's value seems really doable
@corkyamos12 күн бұрын
Interesting how appreciation can boost productivity. I guess having our efforts recognized makes all the difference
@Elusive-KhanАй бұрын
I like the idea of appreciation being not just some abstract idea, but something that can have a tangible impact on our lives.
@xanderselester18 күн бұрын
The idea of appreciation as a practice rather than just a spontaneous act is intriguing. Like any habit, it probably takes time to develop. But the potential benefits for relationships and overall wellbeing seem worth the effort.
@gemi10togood22 күн бұрын
I love how this talk bridges the gap between personal and professional life. The principles apply everywhere!
@mikerobbinsvideo22 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@venmfate11 күн бұрын
The science behind appreciation raising serotonin levels is cool. Free happiness boost!
@moyaresgardАй бұрын
The concept of looking for things to appreciate is so simple, yet so profound. It's like training your brain to focus on the positive. I can see how this could be a real mood-booster, especially on tough days.
@mikerobbinsvideo27 күн бұрын
Indeed!
@dr.timwallsАй бұрын
As someone who struggles with accepting compliments, the part about graciously receiving appreciation made me think... I always thought I was being humble, but maybe I've been unintentionally rejecting people's kindness
@cameoserdert671926 күн бұрын
I wish more leaders understood this concept. So many workplaces focus on empty recognition programs, but miss the mark on genuine appreciation. Imagine how different things could be if managers took the time to really see and value their team members as people!
@ralsharp601328 күн бұрын
😊 What a confident, positive man, author& public speaker! Thank you! I appreciate youtube so very much for bringing me Ted talks! Including this upload! ✔️🗝🙏🏽
@mikerobbinsvideo27 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words!
@ralsharp601326 күн бұрын
@@mikerobbinsvideo Thank you for the confidence🗝🙏🏽⚖️
@cagneyddАй бұрын
As someone who's struggled with self-worth, the idea that appreciation is about who you are, not just what you do, is really powerful. Makes me think about how I can start appreciating myself more, not just for my achievements, but for who I am as a person.
@josiemartaine47433 жыл бұрын
That's right. If you don't feel appreciated you won't work at your full capacity. Even money won't fix a situation like that
@IAmAnInfluensterАй бұрын
This talk really challenged my perspective on how I interact with others. I tend to be pretty task-focused, but I can see how taking the time to appreciate people could actually make everything run smoother.
@thecurenotthesymptomАй бұрын
"celebrate what you want to see more of." such a great quote!
@annemery8853 жыл бұрын
The care factor is so important, not just in business relationships but all. When we appreciate, respect and understand, it sets us up for much more fulfilling connections
@linuspears3 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more - anytime I have felt or seen genuine care from a person it has allowed me to put trust and faith into the person, which is rare
@jovitasardens2073 жыл бұрын
Noticing the past few years that it is becoming trendy to be kind and care again, which is nice to see
@1henrythomas29 күн бұрын
We're so focused on performance that we forget the human element. I've definitely been that person sitting alone in the dugout after a failure, wishing someone would just acknowledge my effort.
@xavierdistaple86203 жыл бұрын
I have had so many jobs where I have run myself into the ground for them yet it was never enough. One time, they decided to show me their gratitude by giving me a $50 voucher….sweet, yup, that didn’t even come close to the overtime I had given to them that day alone. I didn’t need a gift voucher, I wanted to feel that my hard work had been important and appreciated. They was the moment I stopped doing any over time and started drawing boundaries. Suddenly they were very interested in my well-being because I wasn’t doing all the work they had come to just expect for free.
@michael-rivera3 жыл бұрын
Thats my life too!
@brianlkeithbk9 ай бұрын
Creating boundaries was the best move ever. It probably saved your sanity, maybe your life, and possibly got you a promotion. Thanks for your words.
@maddoxreynolds3 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly believe this should be at the forefront of all relationships - work, family, neighbours. If we just appreciated each other a little more, appreciated the differences in journey and skill, we would all get a lot more out of life.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes, a little bit of appreciation goes a long way.
@justinberdand2 жыл бұрын
I think an inability to appreciate others comes from insecurity. If someone is doing well, it feels as if you are not doing well enough, or if they make a mistake despite their efforts, it can validate and made you feel like you are right and ‘better’. Someone who is secure in themselves has no fear, experiences no loss and actually greatly benefits from others succeeding and being their wonderful selves.
@FlameChumpАй бұрын
I think appreciation is also important because when you express it - especially for a person - you kind of leave yourself open to a type of vulnerability that you wouldn't otherwise experience.
@mikerobbinsvideoАй бұрын
Indeed!
@shystrshystr3 жыл бұрын
I don't think people realise just how important is to be aware enough to recognise the trials and suffering someone can endure - appreciating some one's journey is how we create more empathy.
@alexBBmichaels3 жыл бұрын
this is rad Shawn, awesome views here.
@jimwebbjr3 жыл бұрын
Empathy is something I'm just starting to understand.
@danabailey38873 жыл бұрын
Appreciation has an amazing influence on people. That's for sure.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed, it does!
@jeffgoldygold3 жыл бұрын
When we can stop to appreciate the small things, the big things and just each other - life seems to have a much natural flow and it's a lot easier to cope.
@danabailey38873 жыл бұрын
@@jeffgoldygold yes true!
@danabailey38873 жыл бұрын
@@mikerobbinsvideo 👍
@the-coffee-lover3 жыл бұрын
Society focuses so much on what we haven’t got and struggling to get more. SO rarely do we stop and appreciate what we actually have and what we have achieved. We need to learn to appreciate ourselves more often!
@jorgeestoban3 жыл бұрын
And appreciate others and their struggles, also very important.
@therealjuanschmidt2 жыл бұрын
This is a man sharing his experience so we don’t have to live through it to learn the lesson. Much appreciated.
@gastonedupriese3 жыл бұрын
Appreciation. Such a tremendous word, but often is forgotten...
@charlottewebbnotthebook3 жыл бұрын
I predict that Mike will be at the forefront of ensuring morale within huge companies is kept high and that works are actually treated as people
@Chelsea-Chelsea3 жыл бұрын
Char
@Me-lolahernandez3 жыл бұрын
@@Chelsea-Chelsea I hope ya'll showed him this clip!
@jacey-morgan2 жыл бұрын
I love the distinction he makes between recognition and appreciation! They are definitely two very different things.
@the-organic-way3 жыл бұрын
Saying please and thank you and verbalizing is so important!
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@dancingshade53442 жыл бұрын
I am an engineer. I focus almost all of my time on climbing the corporate ladder and I have made it very high up and now I can finally life without worry of finances. I realize that I am fortunate to be where I am. After watching this I realized that I have always brushed off my accomplishments and any gratitude given to me. Always thinking, "this accomplishment doesn't deserve recognition" and "I could have done better" and just focused on climbing the next step of the ladder. Though I have always celebrated the accomplishments of others, I now think it's appropriate for me to celebrate myself also.
@edolieshars3 жыл бұрын
So many of us think and feel kind things towards people but never say anything. Listening to Mike's talk I realise that so much of why we aren't being more supportive of one another is not knowing how to articulate half the time.
@saleisalovic3 жыл бұрын
Thats true we do!
@joedoe59383 жыл бұрын
I always remember how appreciation is important. It helps me in my private life as well as in my career. If you show your appreciation people usually shows it back!
@thegreatemilianosantiago3 жыл бұрын
takes a lot of the discomfort out of life being appreciative.
@halinatomczyk17142 жыл бұрын
The things he talks about around 7:30 are an especially important part of this! It's easy to appreciate someone when they're doing well but letting them know they're still important and valued when they aren't performing at their best is way more difficult.
@ekimoduarte3 жыл бұрын
I love positive reinforcement and appreciation. I am such a more relaxed person when I know my energy and effort is going un-noticed.
@-attemptingtherandom-27775 жыл бұрын
The more you appreciate the more you see Love in you life and the more you can give Love away to others.
@awakenthegreatnesswithin5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@katiaromanow2 жыл бұрын
10:20 To appreciate doesn’t mean to like, agree with or lets be friends. It is about seeing the value of what a person offers. This is a lesson I am still learning, to appreciate and value someone even if I personally don’t bond with them.
@merlemackenzie2 жыл бұрын
Appreciation can carry a whole team as far as I am concerned.
@suko80194 ай бұрын
how so
@ulisseditaqueАй бұрын
we often wait too long to show our appreciation to the people who matter most, I know I've been guilty of that
@theheadzombie2 жыл бұрын
“I could have used some appreciation, not for what I had done, but for who I am” This hit me hard.
@thegreatemilianosantiago2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate appreciation!
@gabrielawolf36814 жыл бұрын
I just needed to hear that showing appreciation is not a thing I personally grave but something that is good management practice if not just a great way to be with another human being. Because I don't receive it doesn't mean that it is not valuable. I will apply it to my life wherever it makes sense. Thank you for this wonderful talk.
@amberdenkinsАй бұрын
I LOVE this talk and the message Mike is trying to get across.
@blaisedominique3 жыл бұрын
I try to teach my children that when their teachers or friends do kind things for them, to always tell them thank you and why they are thankful. I believe appreciation is such an important part of ability to make long last connections and learn all that we can from each other.
@ermacohen3 жыл бұрын
I love to hear that, you are teaching them well
@IHaveDenverSoul2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more about appreciating something while it's happening.
@rubyguil46222 жыл бұрын
When there's appreciation there is understanding and respect and these are things that really help in every day life.
@mikerobbinsvideo2 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@carolinechery2 жыл бұрын
I could not agree more with this talk, expressing appreciation for a thing kind of allows you to experience it on a whole other, deeper level.
@immayasass2 жыл бұрын
This talk was given 9 years ago but is still so f*&!ing relevant.
@kanejsloane2 жыл бұрын
I really love this guys story and demeanor. It would have been so easy for him to get wrapped up in the defeat of his injury and become a miserable person. The fact that he's done the opposite is such a great display of resilience!
@colbyjames48433 жыл бұрын
Appreciation is a feeling., The trick is to tell people as you think and feel it.
@mylescolton3 жыл бұрын
When I feel appreciated it always lifts me up.
@yuvallove3 жыл бұрын
Terrific send Myles!
@mylescolton3 жыл бұрын
@@yuvallove ☺️ 😊
@yuvallove3 жыл бұрын
@@mylescolton 👍👍
@dianalorenaarevalosuarez3 жыл бұрын
This gave me a burst of hope for humanity that I've been lacking recently.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
That is nice to hear!
@julestempest2 жыл бұрын
This is important in every aspect of life!
@chantalbrovic2 жыл бұрын
the whole world needs to see this
@WEisMEnow2 жыл бұрын
It's such a lovely feeling when you know you're being appreciated, sort of like you have even more desire to do the things people will appreciate. Like you might have done them anyway but knowing they get noticed and actually mean something to another person makes it that much more worth it.
@mikerobbinsvideo2 жыл бұрын
So true
@carllokit2 жыл бұрын
I have spent most of my life looking ahead. This talk makes it so clear that real life is here and now. Thanks Mike!
@calvinhostetler2 жыл бұрын
The difference between recognition and appreciation was a great insight. I had never really thought about that before. And I felt it viscerally- I can remember times in my past where I have been recognised for my work and how ‘functional’ it felt, versus feeling truly appreciated.
@elainaarenz2 жыл бұрын
He's definitely right about how we often don't appreciate the things we have while we have them. Such a shame that we take things for granted so quickly.
@iamthefootyfan3 жыл бұрын
Appreciation can lead to so many good things. Appreciating someone's experience, their drive, their story, their journey, their abilities or their weaknesses. I was stoked to see this come up on suggested video. Mike is on point. I mean, what he had to go through to get there is pretty unfortunate but it's funny that when we think we are at our lowest, it's when we find our purpose. Excellent topic, excellent speaker.
@izayahmayson2 жыл бұрын
I wish ppl could be this kind and understanding in day to day life but it's just so hard
@wandamccauley3 жыл бұрын
The power of appreciation and gratitude is immense. The only problem is that I keep forgetting about it, then when I bring it back into my life I am amazed all over again. Thank you for this reminder- I found this video at the perfect time
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome. Yes...appreciation is so powerful, and simple to practice (when we remember)
@shannonnikita3 жыл бұрын
People connecting with people. It is such common sense yet we keep missing the mark on this and focusing on accomplishments and successes. Being understood and heard as a human being rather than your results is empowering.
@zoezanders3 жыл бұрын
and liberating!
@oscarnotreallyawiener3 жыл бұрын
Good link to send Shannon, thanks for the share.
@bigthinking17153 жыл бұрын
Saw this in group too Shannon, very cool.
@zoezanders3 жыл бұрын
@@bigthinking1715 it is isnt it?
@jackcryner3 жыл бұрын
How quickly we forget about common sense though
@Me-lolahernandez3 жыл бұрын
Amazing things happen on a team or in a relationship when all parties involved feel appreciated, heard, respected. I want to read Mike's books! I think this perspective is so important as we so much dis-ease everywhere, from home, work.... All of it.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching the video Lola and your interest in my work. Yes, appreciation creates amazing things.
@pamcampbell39203 жыл бұрын
hence the title i suppose, there is serious power in appreciation
@averyrothschild2 жыл бұрын
“Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.” ― Marcus Aurelius
@egyptianqueen40072 жыл бұрын
I love that quote
@alice-jayne3 жыл бұрын
Such a simple thing that offers such fulfillment for people!
@pagetderosier52672 жыл бұрын
Lots of heart in this talk.
@anupmukherjee67162 жыл бұрын
You are amazing Mike. Lovely way of story telling. Positivity all around. Thats the power of appreciation. Love it.
@mikerobbinsvideo2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@mikedrawley3 жыл бұрын
To appreciate, is to respect. Regardless of class, circumstance and the like.
@suehawke2 жыл бұрын
So many times I have come to the end of an experience and realised that I didn’t enjoy the time I had and take it all in while I could. Moments are fleeting and this is a painful truth of being human.
@farahjuniper92143 жыл бұрын
I am a manager and I have about 50 people I have to manage. This talk gave me the insight that I had I forgotten how important appreciation is. I forget that when I graduated from university and started my first job. I had a manager who came to me, patted me on the back and said that he believes in me. I still remember that moment.
@thipparatchuri-nagrusk3 жыл бұрын
Similar experience here, a manager I had from 20 years ago is still why I think kindness and guidance are the best tools when managing people. I'll forever appreciate that.
@6misslyss3 жыл бұрын
This is being shared right away. Especially as we are coming out of the hardest time for most of us, or still in it. We need to appreciate more!
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! Yes...so important for us to appreciate, especially right now.
@IamLegoMan2 жыл бұрын
An important message for people in leadership roles and who want to make a real difference in their work
@mycrazylifeismine2 жыл бұрын
Scheduling in appreciation might seem a little disingenuous at first, but even the effort to Scheduling in the reminder is an act of kindness. I like this.
@sophiawalters69082 жыл бұрын
I have had many jobs where I was given little gifts, like gift cards or something after I had done some significant work. Usually the gift was minuscule in comparison to the work and effort I had given, it was symbolic and felt like a strategic move on the part of the company to keep me calm and keep me giving more than what my job description entailed. It was only recognition, I never felt appreciated by my management, it was never acknowledged that I had given so much of myself and my time. That was the elephant in the room because the minute they appreciated me it means they were admitting they had asked too much.
@regina-reda3 жыл бұрын
What a journey and what a message. I appreciate this and appreciate we are becoming kinder and more considerate beings.
@sadiaykor3 жыл бұрын
and I appreciate you sending this!
@nothx32992 жыл бұрын
I think expressing appreciation for a person is also really important because it means they're never going to feel like you're taking them for granted.
@valteradnan2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate, appreciation!
@arnafieldsteen2 жыл бұрын
We were literally have a team building day last week and discussing how we could all tackle burn out and one of the things was through transparency! I can't wait to show my boss this!! Thank you!
@Eritb22884 жыл бұрын
This is powerful. I am not the person to cry easily but, this hit home. I appreciate you making this video for us. Thank you
@elaineclouston2 жыл бұрын
So many athletes must go through this in some capacity. You don’t just cruise your way through to retirement in sports, you gotta perform.
@erickiskandar16 жыл бұрын
I highly recommend this talk to my clients about the power of appreciation. A very powerful speech! Thank you Mike Robbins
@sherylrinkler3 жыл бұрын
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. We all need them, we all want them. Recognition in reality is far more over rated than appreciation is ever verbalized or embraced.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@pierrevilleneu3 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is a great insight. Thank you
@hubert-olszewski2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspective Michael! It takes such courage to work through the kind of moment he talks about at 1:15.
@Mrholmeslecount9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mike, yes we all need to feel and know we're appreciated, our inner self feels gratitude when this process takes place, it encourages us to do more without thinking about the process.
@mikerobbinsvideo9 жыл бұрын
Lecount Holmes - you are welcome!
@suzannemacnish86756 жыл бұрын
I have just started listening to Mike's podcast "Bring Your Whole Self to Work" and I am just so inspired by it. When he spoke about his TED Talks, I had to hunt them out once again, love, love, love the content. What a beautiful story to round off a great TED Talk! Thank you Mike for all you bring into the world. You new book is on it's way to me in Australia and I can't wait to read it.
@ameyhousten3 жыл бұрын
Important taok at a really important time for me. I love TED talks I always seem to hear what I need. Maybe I am appreciating this!
@floridaman69823 жыл бұрын
Before seeing this i made a “people” list. Based on who has given me the best memories and care since I was young and even recently... I’m going to make sure I show them I appreciate them and what they have given me. I feel like I’ve been so worried about myself and achievements, this the piece of life I am missing.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
That is great...reaching out to let those people know you appreciate them will make their day
@maddoxreynolds3 жыл бұрын
I've actually thought of doing this myself!
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
@@maddoxreynolds - sounds like a simple yet powerful thing to do. Have fun.
@pierrevilleneu3 жыл бұрын
Maybe even the people who aren't high on that list could use that appreciation too, spread it further
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
@@pierrevilleneu - that is also true...everyone wants and deserves to be appreciated.
@sammypdennison3 жыл бұрын
This is so needed right now at the end (we hope) of this terrible Pandemic!
@madisongrace91463 жыл бұрын
yes, thanks for the send
@winnipooh32122 жыл бұрын
Mike, you are onto something here! This would be a great talk for schools and work places.
@chandrazu10852 жыл бұрын
This is such a nice talk, and so true! It's such a lovely concept, not just feeling appreciated but also expressing appreciation. It's amazing how a small compliment or even just acknowledgement can totally lift someone and make them feel valued.
@billyzwilliams2 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine how difficult it would be to refocus your purpose after literally dedicating your whole life to doing that one thing that you now can't.
@candicetriley3 жыл бұрын
I have seen another one of Mike's talk and I have to say, after coming across this one I cannot WAIT to read his books. Definitely starting with the Be Yourself one.
@emilmalthe98613 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sending this to me
@mystermix3 жыл бұрын
He's a brilliant man!
@JusCoolin752 жыл бұрын
Great talk. I thought he was going to say his mom passed away before his story was published and to appreciate people while they are with us.
@aylamorris2 жыл бұрын
YES! and gratitude which I guess is the same thing in ways.
@luisbrezer2 жыл бұрын
What a fantastic message. Needed for everyone, not just those in business!
@FreshAirRules3 жыл бұрын
Fabulous talk. You are a very gifted speaker. Obviously you've had lots of practice to hone this to such a high level but also there's a communicative talent you radiate so profusely. Just so easy to listen to. The only way to improve this would have been to acknowledge at the end of the talk, the wisdom of your wife to delay the news of that story to your mom (and everyone else to be sure). This was her doing. And it was brilliant. It shows a keen understanding of human emotions.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words about me, my communication approach, and this talk. And, yes, you are right about my wife Michelle...she's amazing and so emotionally aware. I'm a lucky man.
@sherylrinkler3 жыл бұрын
@@mikerobbinsvideo Well that was super sweet.
@TheRealJay-Jay3 жыл бұрын
@@mikerobbinsvideo team work makes the dream work!
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
@@TheRealJay-Jay - yes it does
@TheRealJay-Jay3 жыл бұрын
@@mikerobbinsvideo yes!!!
@Nyasananda511 жыл бұрын
Mike, Like the other comments you've received, I wanted to sincerely say thanks for sharing your personal narratives on how appreciation and recognition impact life. Cheers brother!
@mikerobbinsvideo11 жыл бұрын
You are welcome - thanks for watching and for your kind words!
@jessyclastonАй бұрын
Great subject, and yes I appreciate this talk...
@IAmTheRealMagicMan2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this talk! 😀 😃 😄 😁
@mikerobbinsvideo2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :-)
@haganbenson6 жыл бұрын
His hand movements really add to the experience.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much :-)
@pamcampbell39203 жыл бұрын
A splendid talk to come across. Especially atm where a lot of my city is starting to have to go back to work and deal with each other face to face. Oh joy.
@mikerobbinsvideo3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@jason-childers2 жыл бұрын
The arm blow out story happened really early in this talk. This is how I knew it was going top be a good one