The Problem with Desi Culture...again.

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[@princ3zzh33ra]

Thank you for touching on the discrimination towards single Desi women! Before my wedding this past March, from around age 21, I was treated like I was invisible and not worth talking to (unless a rishta aunty was approaching me). And the very few times I was spoken to it was to ask when I'm getting married so I can stop being a burden on my family. My younger sister got married before me, and I started to notice how different people treated us. I was always happy she found someone, but instead of letting me enjoy her wedding, aunties were just harassing me about my situation. It's like they couldn't tolerate me and my contentment. Then it all changed when my engagement was announced this year. People started being really nice to me and it felt fake and off putting. Like how does my being married change your lives? How am I worthy of being seen as a human being all of a sudden? I was always me and I'm still me? I said this to a friend the other day "bachelors, masters, PhD Kuch nahi jab tak larki Mrs nahi Karti." Oof our culture makes me cringe sometimes.

[@lubnaabdulrehman4431]

I hate that some people justify honor culture by saying that it puts women in check so that they don't commit any sins. They fail to realise that most of these sins are initiated by men , and that they should be held equally responsible for their action if they commit a sin. There's also this saying that my mom always uses , " A woman is like a white cloth, any little stain will ruin the cloth similar to her honour and reputation in society" ... I hate this so much that we have to constantly live in fear of not living up to our parents' expectations or god-forbid lose all our honour and end up dead.

[@zanethepain8915]

Bs whilst I agree thT pakistani culture places more emphasis on women's virtue and honour than over men protecting and taking care of our women is an Islamic concept

[@ye23.]

@@zanethepain8915 caring for women may be Islamic but how many Muslim men actually follow what the religion says? Honestly most muslim countries place a greater emphasis on culture instead of religion and they warp the two together which is a recipe for disaster bcus the culture is usually very misogynistic

[@zuhairfan2490]

@@zanethepain8915 As a Pakistani, I can confirm that.

[@zanethepain8915]

@@zuhairfan2490 I'm also pakistani, born brought up in UK but were not a monolith there's a massive gulf in between educated families and non educated families traditional families and non traditional families

[@zanethepain8915]

@@ye23. yes you're absolutely right the culture is derived feom Hinduism more so than islam and I think that some ppl don't know the difference

[@imrannazir6931]

Connected with this, we should also call out the brothers with double standards. These guys do it all before marriage and then all of a sudden they become religious. They grow a beard and want to 'good' virgin wife. They also start lecturing others. Weddings have become 'lavish' only recently when Pakistanis from the cities started arriving in the west. When I was a kid and it was mainly Kashmiris outside of Pakistan the wedding was simple, on tables with a paper covering, and everyone helped out serving and cleaning the tables. Bling bling weddings have gradually crept in over the past 20 years.

[@ye23.]

I like that you include those pakistani dramas. Im not pakistani but Ive seen snippets of those dramas as my family members occasionally watch them and I feel like those dramas are so toxic and normalize abuse.

[@getricked17]

They're not there to normalize it but to raise awareness...... And it's been "raised" to such an extent where now we're suffering from 3rd wave feminism.....

[@sheeats4019]

So true, as a non Asian I’ve gotten into Pakistani dramas and there’s so many toxic practices that are normalised and it’s nuts

[@misbahailia3345]

My Mum proudly says, "Pakistani dramas, are even famous in India!"

[@Jeongyeongiloveyou]

Im pakistani (half saudi) and the fact one of those dramas contained a woman MARRYING her cousin. HER COUSIN. That same woman appeared in a drama where she played as a 20 year old marrying a 40 year old. She is nuts 😐

[@imnotawake99]

Ive seen a drama where a 13 year old marries a 40+ year old man. They even depict the process of grooming her by promising her gifts and candy etc etc. She eventually gets pregnant (of course years later, but who really knows how long they waited) and gets a daughter to the husbands dismay. They show the husband and daughter growing a bond despite his wishes of wanting all sons, and totally gloss over the “13 year old getting married to a man” plot which i guess was never even a conflict to begin with

[@LackaLackster]

I’m a marriage and family therapist licensed in New York and a lot of my clients come from non-white immigrant backgrounds here in America. Thank you for speaking about this!

[@mk-ld8ih]

Good to hear that there's asian women in this field.Are you married yourself?

[@hamzaasif8902]

I totally agree with the last point on men being involved. Men need to be allies and speak up for the women of their family. Not just get activated when there is a perceived slight on the "honor" of the family. Stand up for your mothers, sisters, daughters. If you don't then you're just as bad, in my opinion, as the people doing the honor killings because you aren't doing anything to stop it.

[@g.s.632]

I completely agree.

[@dariyabadra9804]

*Stand up for your wives for the love Allah for once too you know, they’re not your maids, before anything else, they’re also the creation of Allah Swt, and you’ll (general not specifically just you) be asked on the day of judgement if you took advantage or misused/disrespected her rights….

[@azh.a.2618]

I'm kurdish and us kurdish women can totally relate to everything you said.

[@DearBill]

Kurdish are kinda secular. Pakistani are hardcore Islamists.

[@HalfBananaWoman]

“No because I’m not a man. Make your own video” THIS. We should be able to talk about the burdens put on women without having to qualify that oh yes men also have their own struggles and burdens. Both are important, but this video is about women and that’s okay

[@amateurplasticsurgeon5617]

Literally nobody cares about men issues. The spotlight is always on women.

[@mk-ld8ih]

I agree and thats exactly why women need to stop moaning and grumbling on 'manosphere' videos about struggles that men fave and how to overcome them

[@inherblues7261]

@@mk-ld8ih they don't. yet every weak ass man will be on women's issus videos. go cry about it.

[@hithere1113]

Love that you covered this topic! I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. I’m 25 and unmarried and I feel like some people just don’t respect me as much as they respect my married friends/family members. I also feel like my life can’t truly begin until I have a husband-something I’m working hard to unlearn. Girl don’t even get me started on visiting back home-I live in US and visited India this past summer lol, everyone was pitying me so much and bringing up my unmarried self at every opportunity; the way Desis can relate anything to marriage should be considered an art form.

[@misbahailia3345]

I play dumb when they talk about marriage. I literally ask, "what's marriage?" "I don't understand". They'll get tired lol. No one should make you tired for your own choices.

[@amyj8183]

Love the topic, thank-you. As a second generation Muslim South African Indian, the younger generation is now educating themselves more on the difference of culture and religion, which is so important to stamp out especially the haraam practice of "honour killing" and the other negatives. I love my culture and my heritage, but Allah's Truth comes before anything. I can practice my culture as long as it doesn't conflict with my religion. Take care, love your content

[@shanijawakhaniwaja6648]

U r not Indian u r African moslem

[@aryastar2464]

Dude, I’m a first gen Indian American and Hindu and it’s legit the same. There’s a reason I’m 37 and distanced from my family and not married… oh the haram of it all 🤣 Love your videos! Just found them and you got an instant subscribe while I’ve been binge watching 💗

[@kaceobrwa7039]

no its not hindu culture , get basic education .

[@DearBill]

@@kaceobrwa7039 Muslim Desi put a bad name on Hindu Desi and Sikh Desi. I agree that they are the LAME in your whole diaspora.

[@monat9248]

Good for pointing out the misogyny in the desi culture !!.. another desi lady from UK was also describing the same problem in the desi community in UK

[@Aieshoo]

Also, in law abuse is normalized. Literally every woman in my family has said that their in laws mistreated them.

[@milkchocolate6719]

The amount of times I wish I could force my relatives to sit down and watch your videos, I swear the minute you bring serious issues about desi culture with them they very conveniently leave the convo or get busy. But they have no issue lecturing us for our about their distorted opinions on who WE should be.

[@zuhairfan2490]

same!..This is hypocrisy at it's highest.

[@how-to-live-right]

is there media control or government opression?

[@dm_1236]

The severe illiteracy and lack of education in desi societies is the main reason for these issues imo.

[@bablu9002]

Nah. Even high flying "educated" families do this. You'd be amazed at just How many highly "educated" men would take offense at the very thought of living separately next door to his parents to avoid the drama

[@kaiser1295]

I'm an unmarried 26 year old Indian woman. Indians won't stop asking me why I'm not married yet.

[@SirAgravaine]

It's so frustrating to be around my mom and women her age because they all tell me that I am getting old and I need to be married or... something bad will happen? What is the nebulous bad thing? I'm not sure. I tell them that I want to be with someone who respects me and they all get annoyed and tell me that I'm asking for too much. Like... y'all say you love me but you're OK if I end up with an abusive man who repeatedly knocks me up because at least that "looks good"??? All my cousins tell me don't get married and if I do, do not marry a Desi man.

[@piqueny8872]

Find someone who will Make you happy respect you appreciate and be the support you need in life Even if he’s not desi

[@banirahman4926]

That’s really sad!

[@mk-ld8ih]

Your cousins are giving silly advice. Marriage is a beautiful institution allowing you to grow with a partner and have children to raise together into outstanding people. Also nothing wrong with a desi man. Just find someone who's mature and brought up in the uk. Also marrying outside of your culture is fine, so as long as they or the family dont exhibit racism towards you. Unfortunately too many asian women marry a white man and develop some inferiority conplex and self loathe lol its sad honestly.

[@misbahailia3345]

@@piqueny8872 What if she doesn't want to get married at all? Did you think about that?

[@misbahailia3345]

@@mk-ld8ih Desi women marrying white men, self loath because their desi ex husband treated them like garbage. 🤷‍♀️ So yes, that is sad.

[@laraibq.7620]

Omg! Thanks for speaking out on the topic. A lot of us might get killed just for speaking about it. The standard of morality and accountability are just hypocritically disproportionate between men and women.

[@ryumitsurugi2088]

Men, we need to educate ourselves and each other. Get education from people who are not men, and learn from a different perspective. And then TEACH OTHER MEN. As guys, we have a responsibility to hold each other accountable for our actions. It's not manly to let other guys act like idiots in society. That's the real meaning of honor.

[@BIL-T]

I love how you compared marriage to fast fashion - I had to watch that bit twice. Thank you for talking about this so openly and being honest I think the "honour" system is deeply rooted in the old, tribal, feudal systems where mistakes were paid for using someone's life and disputes were not settled in a civilised way, but with physical fights, and of course whoever won the fight would have their prestige restored. I think this affected both sexes, but at the same time, it probably mutated to involve only women as these "bargaining chips" and even if men were fighting, for some reason, the women would be dragged into it in order to disgrace and humiliate the family. It's all one big branch of this huge monster called patriarchy and sadly, no place on Earth is protected from this monster This system is probably centuries and centuries old and definitely nothing new or brought in by colonialism Thank you again for talking about this, your channel is great, so many funny vids too

[@tacrewgirl]

Yeah I liked that analogy too.

[@Cupcakenerdy692]

“Go make your own video”😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@zuhairfan2490]

I'm Pakistani n I absolutely agree. Syed Muzzamil from Pakistan also discusses these problamtic issue. This honour issue is not just in Pakistan but the whole subcontinental region.

[@banirahman4926]

The honor thing happens especially in India and Pakistan. It doesn’t happen in Bangladesh. Though there are many other similar problems Bangladeshi women face.

[@mk-ld8ih]

@@banirahman4926 true. We do have a problem of black magic within the bengali community. Too many snakes in our families want to cause us harm

[@aleezae]

@@mk-ld8ih Black magic is common in Pakistan too sadly.

[@kumarvikramaditya9636]

@@banirahman4926 per capita, India is lowest

[@harperproduction3935]

You're a star. Keeping bringing light to these issues.

[@misbahailia3345]

This is why I love your channel. You don't shy away from these topics.

[@kiran7722]

As always smart, informative, well articulated, important content by you! Couldn't agree more with your points.

[@mooktakim]

Wedding romanticising is same for west too, the Disney influence.

[@ijuneberry]

Love the new strategies you are trying out for the video! Also great topic I believe all communities have things they need to work on and desi / arab the biggest is honor killings, it’s haram!!! It’s murder

[@JuzlaJeffry]

YAAAS SHE'S BACK!!

[@jfederle1872]

Great video! Jazaki Allahu khair for saying what needed to be said🌺

[@bensonbeebarry2055]

You're honestly like the older sister I never had and I can come to you for advice, thank you so much for this!

[@esthellakomerl8084]

So well said. ❤️

[@fahadalvi9606]

MashaALLAH good points and views, more sequels are needed.

[@hammadshaikh4278]

You r a gem 💎, tazzy. You r speaking for oppressed.

[@juhisaleem]

Awesome video as always! Been watching you since 2010! Needs to be addressed how people are being killed and murdered for Honor that’s insane! May allah guide us on the straight path, ameen!

[@StudentOfTheUniverse]

I just finished watching this video and I could agree with a lot of points. However I think it does come down tomorrow have a deep-rooted problem and I think the only solution is education. Unfortunately people are not transparent like this should be in a lot of cultures. Great video!

[@salena6590]

Completely agree with you Tazzy! Keep up this content :)

[@shamsafgh]

Love yout topics. Highly relevant as usual, 😉

[@bootsmade4walking]

Tazzy always coming with that quality content

[@arcadecaptainYT]

I’m never complaining about my family’s expectations ever again

[@zoyadean2884]

I’m Fijian Muslim but similarities to Pakistani culture is astounding(aside from honour killings). I’ve been lucky to have parents that are pretty modern but there have been times before I got married when honour has been mentioned by family regarding how I chose to dress or whenever I would go out at night. My answer was always the same but thankfully my parents never made it a huge deal and let me live my life, which I’m very grateful for

[@Aliya2367]

100% agree. There’s so much more to be added. Just yesterday a weather shaikh was asked what can a women do if her husband keeps threaten her with divorce, literally what spined it as, make sure you’re not doing anything to make him feel like this.. 🤦🏽‍♀️ One piece of advice, ladies if you’re going through marriage problems do go to a male figure in the community because more often then not they cause more harm for you then benefit. You’re much better off going to professional therapist and marriage counsellors.

[@hayaq9991]

I lived in a desi shelter as an african American women.. it was alot.. i have so much respect for Pakistani women and some of the stories ive heard… whoooh smh i just wish women rights change globally

[@fanofnormalclips]

Such a great video!!

[@aliviablount]

Women being sold elephant honor culture - is a great way of putting it

[@imacarguy4065]

Valid points but there is far more intricacies to explore. Plus, this isn't just a desi thing.

[@and.p.146]

Love this discussion 👏👏👏. I don't know if it's me, but the sound of the video was a bit off, louder and quieter ...

[@reyaandbubu3819]

I'm desi, my parents didn't even meet each other before marriage, I come from a Rajput family, everyone before me married only a Rajput, my parents had no issues with my German partner. I'm blessed to have traditional and accepting family, not just me even brother and cousins married outside the community and no one had an issue with it.This is my personal experience with desi culture, I came across this video and wanted my share my experience.

[@getricked17]

Awesome video sis, I only wish our societies could be educated on these matters on a larger scale

[@nimrarashid552]

honestly i love her. can you also talk about how hard it is to earn as a pakiatsni women in pakistan. there is a friend of mine whose aunt dosent get patients as a heart surgeon. because people thi9ink women are incapable.

[@silverstarlight9395]

Ask the aunt to go to the UK. There's a need for good heart surgeons there.

[@nimrarashid552]

@@silverstarlight9395 she already went.

[@DearBill]

@@nimrarashid552maybe you can leave Islam … it is the sharia law in your country don’t you ?

[@nimrarashid552]

leave is lslam??? are u dumb y would i do that? islam dosent forbade women to work. heck the first university in the world was established by a muslim women. you thought she build a uni in home???@@DearBill

[@matthewmann8969]

Desi on Desi racism is a big thing just like other kinds of isms and doubtings yeah.

[@ahmedfaraz8595]

Thank you for making this video, I hope it's enlightening to other people, But why don't I see men making videos like this or the physiological trauma they go through in a desi house-hold family. Any thoughts ?

[@kainat.]

Im a British and a Kashmiri Pakistani. I can relate to this entire video.

[@NN-hl6nt]

Yup yup all true

[@rasanjaligunaratne5300]

From Sri Lanka... You can't be correct anymore. In our country women have little bit more freedom more than Pakistani women because of the religious background I guess. In this area of the world you become impure to marriage when you are a victim of rape, and it's completely your fault to get raped, they try to blame on your dress, if they failed to blame on that then they turn to the place you have been, if still can't detect anything they just say women should be women. What an enlightened region!! In our country women are not allowed to many religious places because we are impure and buddhist monks fearlessly preach men how to mistreat women. So yeah, South Asia is a fucked up place which is a iced 💩 ! Culture is every thing which is demeaning and hazardous to its people.

[@xSunnyDaysx]

It has nothing to do with the religion. It’s the culture. Islam says everyone is accountable for their own doings/sins. Sins can’t be transferred. And killing is totally forbidden.

[@rasanjaligunaratne5300]

@@xSunnyDaysx Religions are vastly changed by the time with the culture. But I have seen misogyny is so common in every muslim country. Middle east, South asia, africa. Even in our country muslim girls suffer way more than other girls. So I think assuming like that is some what okay

[@xSunnyDaysx]

@@rasanjaligunaratne5300 It’s not okay to assume! Read the scriptures and see what it says. People act however they like, they are weak creatures to begin with. Just because some muslim act like that it doesn’t mean that’s what their religion tells them to or where they got there ‘inspirations’ from. And i am telling you now, all the shit ladies in muslim countries are facing is not because of Islam!

[@ummiehummie]

@@rasanjaligunaratne5300 That's because muslims aren't following the religion appropriately, that's why it's harder for these girls. Unfortunately men cherry-pick verses and manipulate the meaning of it. Which is very haram, but they would do everything to cater to their needs

[@rasanjaligunaratne5300]

@@ummiehummie Trust me cherry picking is a huge thing in buddhism too. They say only men can be the buddha, so men are great, but no man is still became one after 2500 years. Buddhist monks are so eagerly making a huge gender gap in our country. So on and on. Like the Quran we have a holy book called thripitaka which was written after thousand years of buddha's departure and it has so many lies sometimes. So I think every religion is spoiled and exploited by MEN and what we should do is taking the good and throwing the rest.

[@hoperiki4390]

Thx

[@jasmineflowers3583]

Men hold the sole responsibility of earning and giving their families a good life - paying for education, medical bills, food etc. That is a gigantic pressure and I really feel bad for them too. Societies taunts affect everyone, boys also get comments constantly, when will you get a serious job, why don’t you have a baby yet, why don’t you have your own house yet. It also puts them in a lot of pressure and I’ve seen many times the mental effect on them.

[@silverstarlight9395]

At least men can buy their own house. Women can't even do that in Desi culture

[@mk-ld8ih]

@@silverstarlight9395 nah not really an issue any more. There are plenty of asian women working and buying houses to put on rent and its great to see. In some cases their father, if wealthy, purchases it for her as an asset.

[@idi.h5460]

Lol 90% of men can’t even provide to begin with in this current economy so idk why you’re crying for them when majority of their wives also work to provide

[@jasmineflowers3583]

@@idi.h5460 I’m talking about Pakistan I dunno where you live

[@ibrahimm2012]

Listening to woman’s perspective was awesome. I guess the toxic dramas should be banned . Right now in my head is Kyun aaj-kal neend kam khwab zyada hai Lagta khuda ka koi naik irada hai Kal tha fakeer, aaj dil shehzada hai Lagta khuda ka koi naik irada hai

[@abumaliha7266]

they believe women are not guarding their chastity

[@abumaliha7266]

their are certain families where the men cant protect honour of family

[@airkatmama4]

I wonder what standards are put on the woman that marry into desi culture , like will still be expected to keep the family honor ¿

[@laurenaaliyah133]

Not married into desi culture but another country with honour culture. In my experience, if they (the women mainly) don’t approve of you, they will go ten-toes-down into character assassination (to remove the little honour you did have), and others that don’t partake, will remain quite so they are not in the out-group too. Luckily, because you are from outside that culture, in the real world, it’s not too impactful (unless you live with them).

[@michellej9488]

We need to protect this sister at all costs

[@daniellewillis2767]

Is there any kind of Underground Railroad to help women who are marked for honour killing to go into hiding or get far enough away from their families? If not there needs to be.

[@BiancaPagnon]

Patriarchy.

[@agt313]

Calibrate with a credible nonprofit organization to aid the climate disasters with floodwater in Pakistan.

[@Kat_Rat1998]

Welcome to my channel, where aieeeeeee am annoying. rofl

[@finalflash98]

this makes me sad

[@ryumitsurugi2088]

Heeyyýoooooooo

[@KhanFQx]

Can people SAY ONE THING, only one thing, atleast 1/2 a thing that is acceptable as a desi culture! THERE is literally NOTHING!

[@mraheem9214]

Make America great again 😭

[@razer0072073]

Islam solves this

[@DearBill]

Never 👎

[@12villages]

You are essentially talking about tribal culture.

[@user-bl8uu6rq4z]

[@mozzymozzy7053]

The most ugly thing about desi culture is "THOSE AUNTIES"

[@bistander]

Women perpetuating their own oppression

[@ashleyoasis7948]

Yeah as a Pakistani Male I feel like they just expect this 1950s lifestyle of I go to school I go to college I graduate I get a job i now have the big flashy wedding the house car and wife.heck some will call you a fauilure or bitter if you fail to met these life expectations.and these dudes be 3G in and have yet still not integrated and fall into this culture.thats becuse of racially IQ which I won’t get into becuse a lot of ppl from South Asia tend to marry there cousion causing lots of inbreeding and health problems.some woman just use them for the passport or other way round.then they all squash into the hillbilly inbreed Alabama house all hate eachother but refuse to leave becuse my god the shock and horror of what other ppl might think of us.so they deliberately oppress themselves to these woman you can legally divorce these men if you refuse due to social reasons that’s ur own fault the court is not gonna side with you if you use the excuse I was afraid of what others may think.also these woman know islamphobic sterotypes and will infact use islamphobia and western ignorance to leave there husbands by doing the typical he imposed shariah law on me he was typical Taliban and the courts fall for it.even tho Indians do thus way more than Muslims but Hindus dont get nearly enough slack as Muslims do when it comes to femanisium.so yeah sure the western way of being a step dad to someone’s seconds who pumped and dumped will gross all men out from all cultures.so that’s not a cultural thing at all also once these Indian desi woman get married it’s the if I have a PHD he must have a Masters that men are just giving up on these aggressive entitled Karen’s who have been emboldened by femanisium LGBT and other Woke movements.just watch the Netflix trailer Indian match making and you see why these men run away from woman like that.also there is a video called the “sand man” who just made a video on these westernised desi woman as a white polish guy.but back on topic yeah it’s a very tribalistic collective culture that I think my cousion got drunk and hit a guy at the night club and got charged for assault and why on Earth was my entire family being judged for it.even in big cities they still centralise and gossip and still turn east London into a Pakistani villiage.as to why sometimes I just lie and say I’m Mexican when I get a cab becuse the guy is gonna want so much info on me,so yeah the gossip is very annoying social media has only made this worse.also there is no love in these relationship you have to met someone there has to be some form of physical and personal attraction.other races are naturally selected we are domesticated it’s like a zoo with the rishtas like a job interview and come one how can you expect a romantic relationship of that and the topic of the conversation is just economic flexing.other races met via activities clubs the gym school natural ways to met ppl.arranged marriage is not natural.and becuse of this many south Asians lack game charisma and style to even have a conversation with the opposite gender here in the UK majority of the sex offenders are Indian becuse you have these men brought for economic reasons can’t import there wife’s don’t know how to get white woman and then they say weird stuff on social media or they even stalk and groupe that blonde girl who unlike a desi is gonna throw the book on his ass.so now raja the accountant is in jail for sexuail assault.western woman don’t care about ur job ur income ur family status.that I think Pakistani men are starting to feel this as well as East Asian men who have honour culture.however East Asian woman have just moved onto white guys I don’t see if we’re so bad you guys just don’t do the same thing becuse you’re still that scared of being judged my god.so these woman choose there own oppression go out with a western guy then they still never do atleast yellow woman have relised this and just Leaft for white men.but then if you open up more we will now get to the point of no slut shaming kink only fans and other degenerate shit we have today so Ive seen if you open Pandora’s box like the west that’s what ur gonna get.so ppl might have been more open minded if this Woke crap never took over.then they bring Islam into thus when I was in Egypt I seen guys and girls mixing so the Arabs and Turks are abit more liberal but Indians and Pakistanis are not but that’s what western ppl will think Islam is.when it’s not

[@nemrutbaba]

I listened to the rant. Now my response is. Ladies. Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Life is hard for everyone. Just carrry on honourably.

[@LittLeBaRbiEx0]

Albanian culture is the same

[@DearBill]

Why those Serbian and Greek aren’t the same ?

[@LittLeBaRbiEx0]

Albanian , Serbian and Greek are three completely different ethnicities with completely different languages and completely different ancestors. I am Albanian therefore I can’t speak for neither Greeks nor Serbs. The only thing I can say is that majority of Albanians are Muslim whereas the majority of Serbs and Greeks are Eastern Orthodox.

[@DearBill]

@@LittLeBaRbiEx0 i meant Serbian and Greek communities haven’t the same issues. I don’t like Albanian. I tell you : you ain’t white because your blood is Turkish.

[@EV-EV-EV]

Honour culture is good. Only a closet murtadd will feel otherwise

[@DearBill]

Islamophobic and proud !

[@famousfolks7074]

Count yourself lucky that your parents took you out of the Pakistan and thank them daily and don't be hypocrite like I am Pakistani and American,Just be one.

[@mraheem9214]

Stop being confused 🤔 n vote trump

[@comradca7]

Pakistani aren't Desi we are Turkish Iranic people

[@DearBill]

😂😂😂😂 Hindu Christian and Sikh Pakistani are Turkish Iranic ? No I don’t think so !

[@zainzaman1116]

Wtf???

[@Donotcare6]

Ohh look "another victim woman"😂.

[@shaheenakhter9975]

You don't understand these things because you aren't inside the culture. America and US are like apples and oranges. There are somethings that I don't like about our norms and culture, but overall it's good. This culture developed on a period of thousands of years, it's meant and suitable for us. These two centuries of radical thoughts and ideologies in the Western part of Europe are not going to make us forget it. Our culture is Stable, it is still here because it works; we will get rid of unislamic things but nothing else. The normal of Western psyche and the Normal of Eastern one aren't compatible. I can't tell you that you're wrong if you do the most outrageous things in the Human History, even though they are wrong according to me. Like wise you can't dictate to me that my culture is backwards, uncivilized etc. I can say these things too because our normal is very different. To understand a Culture, become it's part. Sorry for the whole article, but it is well deserved because of the constant rants of people who have adjusted in the West and can no longer understand our Culture.

[@baileymadison9019]

Killing a woman for a man’s sin will never be a stable system. Especially when the culture relies so heavily on women. Eventually women will revolt if you do not change.

[@almurabitun]

Family honour is needed Anyone who says it's old fashion is a degenerate

[@SaraM-ej5iy]

Yeah but men also should carry a family honor not just women !