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@MayaVogt-m4b
@MayaVogt-m4b 10 ай бұрын
"You are not nervous, you are exited" love it!
@justadandak
@justadandak 10 ай бұрын
Many thanks - hope it helps 🙂
@TheAnswer201
@TheAnswer201 3 ай бұрын
Lfg
@SriGoverdhanSam
@SriGoverdhanSam Жыл бұрын
3 points to note when presenting (and preparing) 1. Grace 2. Credibility 3. Resonance Change the perspective of "I am nervous" to "I am excited."! and Box breathing.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Great summary - thanks for watching / sharing!
@Ionic457
@Ionic457 Жыл бұрын
Based comment
@riccanourma
@riccanourma Жыл бұрын
Thanx for your notes
@soujiroshinmercado3805
@soujiroshinmercado3805 Жыл бұрын
s🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:01 Overcoming *fear of public speaking involves mastering three key elements: Grace, Credibility, and Resonance.* 01:41 The *speaker shares a personal journey of overcoming a hearing impairment and turning a deficiency into a speaking skill.* 03:34 The *importance of vulnerability in public speaking is highlighted, with an example of a successful and impactful talk that involved audience interaction and dancing.* 04:30 The *key components of a great talk are revealed: Grace (how you say it), Credibility (what you say), and Resonance (how the audience feels).* 05:28 The *speaker discusses the importance of physicality, focusing on avoiding distracting movements like the "hip Bop" and "one-legged walk-in," and introduces the "soft rock star pose."* 07:33 Techniques *to control body movements are shared, such as avoiding excessive swiveling and addressing shaking hands by giving them a purpose.* 08:57 The *pitfalls of using a script in public speaking are outlined, emphasizing the negative impact of visible nervousness when holding a script.* 11:14 The *influence of TED talks on raising audience expectations is discussed, and the speaker advises on crafting a great story with brevity and lived experience.* 14:30 The *speaker warns against using bullet points in presentations, stressing the importance of breaking up complex information to maintain audience attention.* 15:54 Resonance *is introduced as the emotional connection with the audience, and the speaker emphasizes the need to humanize information and consider the emotional spectrum.* 17:30 A *Jedi mind trick involving a breathing exercise is shared to help speakers overcome nervousness by reframing it as excitement.* Made with HARPA AIu
@RiccardoCugnasco
@RiccardoCugnasco Жыл бұрын
Very cool speech! "You're not nervous, you're excited." Changed everything for me🔥
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to watch and so glad reframing your nerves to excitement had such a positive impact 🙂
@RiccardoCugnasco
@RiccardoCugnasco Жыл бұрын
@@justadandak 🙏♥️🔥
@XMostaxX
@XMostaxX Жыл бұрын
I think that's lying to yourself, but if it works then that's great. I believe you should acknowledge that you have a problem and work on it, instead of calling it something that it is not it.
@rwatson2609
@rwatson2609 Жыл бұрын
@@XMostaxX That would be true with driving a car, performing ballet or even being into an MMA fight. With those things the result could be bad if you really weren't any good. But if what separates you from a regular conversation with your friends that flows well, and a complete washout of a conversation, is 150 pairs of eyes, then lying to yourself is Legit. Matter of fact, I seriously thought of putting on glasses that blurred everything.
@ma.2733
@ma.2733 11 ай бұрын
I never knew the difference of nervous/excited either when I was young but, I knew I was good at what I was about to do everytime
@Denisebemmett
@Denisebemmett 9 ай бұрын
God bless you for this information. Everything you said was very helpful. I am so glad you had caring parents that made sure you had the necessary medical tear with your hearing and speech. God is Grace! May God continue blessing you with public speaking. I pray I can keep an audience attention when I speak. Blessings! 🙏🙏
@justadandak
@justadandak 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words
@brittanyjordanaj
@brittanyjordanaj 11 ай бұрын
I listened this ted talk maybe a year or two ago. I was doing some research on Public Speaking again and came across this video. At the time I didn't think I had seen it before, until I realized I have utilized his tips without even knowing it. Awesome.
@justadandak
@justadandak 10 ай бұрын
Glad it had a positive impact 🙂
@SumariBasumatary
@SumariBasumatary 2 ай бұрын
Who came here after watching reel😂
@Voice_of_Pradeep_
@Voice_of_Pradeep_ 2 ай бұрын
Yes Onnume Puriyalanga 😂
@AllMoneyIn-rb5ds
@AllMoneyIn-rb5ds 2 ай бұрын
Me.. 🫣
@justadandak
@justadandak 2 ай бұрын
What reel please? Thanks
@Shanthi-ln2tk
@Shanthi-ln2tk Ай бұрын
Mee
@factsnap75
@factsnap75 Ай бұрын
Mee
@waelhmadi1740
@waelhmadi1740 2 ай бұрын
Three main points: 1. Grace: it's not what you say but how you say it (physically) 2. Credibility: tell me what you gonna tell me, tell me, tell me what you've told me 3. Resonance: it's what you made your audiance feel
@justadandak
@justadandak 2 ай бұрын
Nailed it-thanks :-)
@adnansamir1288
@adnansamir1288 10 ай бұрын
In summary : Learn the importance of grace, credibility, and resonance when delivering a great talk. Use the "soft rock star pose" to exude confidence, condense your script to tell lived experience stories, and engage the audience emotionally for better resonance.
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Boom - nailed it 🙂
@delilah8482
@delilah8482 Жыл бұрын
watching this before my speech that's happening in 12 hours, let me tell you, it made me very excited, not nervous at all thank you sir
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
WONDERFUL - how did it go?
@goldenspark24
@goldenspark24 Жыл бұрын
This is Golden I'm not nervous, I'm Excited... - Grace, Credibility and Resonance
@justadandak
@justadandak 11 ай бұрын
You are Golden!
@leratomangena514
@leratomangena514 Жыл бұрын
You helped come to the realisation that I get excited more than I get nervous about the opportunity to MC events at work. Thank you for your work.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the comment and attention - all the best in your future MC work :-)
@raiderkeno
@raiderkeno Жыл бұрын
I used to be terrified to speak in front of crowds. Even very small Crowds. The build up And anticipating going into the meeting gets super physical, shaking, sweating, can’t breathe. I have even had to excuse myself, horrible. My high paying job required me to do this. I contemplated quitting my job it was bad because I have a family to take care of. I ended up going to the doctors and they were able to give me something which really helped me get through a couple years and then it got to the point I needed less, and then none. I had built my confidence up enough and I realized I wasn’t going to die standing up there. Another life hurdle behind me.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Great to hear you were able to tackle the challenge and now flourishing!
@Brainbuster
@Brainbuster 9 ай бұрын
What did the doctor give you?
@raiderkeno
@raiderkeno 9 ай бұрын
@@Brainbuster Propranolol
@Brainbuster
@Brainbuster 9 ай бұрын
@@raiderkeno Thank you.
@drbenirusani
@drbenirusani 7 ай бұрын
@@raiderkeno a beta blocker
@PeteChatteris
@PeteChatteris 5 ай бұрын
I run to the stage bringing a speech, that inspires and entralls. I'm paid to do that. Love every second
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
Living the dream then :-)
@1arrrcane6
@1arrrcane6 Жыл бұрын
Tbh this is one of the best videos I've seen on public speaking. Great advice, hope it helps me next week! 😬 (excited, not nervous)😁
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you and wishing you all the best for next week, you got this!
@sabrasheedy9205
@sabrasheedy9205 Жыл бұрын
I Could Not Agree with you More. I'm going To be presenting a seminar in the Very near future.
@ZIDANz
@ZIDANz Жыл бұрын
and after 6 months I'm curious what happened in the session?
@Doomman213
@Doomman213 Жыл бұрын
How did it go
@1arrrcane6
@1arrrcane6 Жыл бұрын
@@ZIDANz so I totally forgot to reply...lol. It went well, I was obv nervous and my voice was cracking AND I AM SO GLAD IT'S OVER😅 We got all the points, so that's great, there were also nice comments by my colleagues. But damn that was such a scary thing😭
@kingofwakanda091
@kingofwakanda091 10 ай бұрын
He changed the way I speak and think about public speaking. I wish I could have seen this video earlier!🔥
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for leaving the comment and all the best in your current & future speaking endeavours!
@insightjobwithmaryjey
@insightjobwithmaryjey Жыл бұрын
A person like me who wants to become an effective communicator, Tedtalk has been a huge help. Thank you for your good platform.👏
@justadandak
@justadandak 10 ай бұрын
Glad it had a positive impact. All the best with your journey 🙂
@musical-021-2
@musical-021-2 Жыл бұрын
its very wise to teach people on public speaking
@justadandak
@justadandak 11 ай бұрын
I think so as well 🙂
@LandoPiastri
@LandoPiastri Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this and all your content! This channel helps so many people from all walks of life and it is so underrated. Keep giving education and the internet a good name please
@lolalee6256
@lolalee6256 Жыл бұрын
The most practical public speaking advice I've been given! Thank you for this great gift! Looking forward to showing my students your video next week.
@justadandak
@justadandak 11 ай бұрын
Appreciate those very kind words - an easy gift to share and love the re-gifting now to your students 😉
@lolalee6256
@lolalee6256 11 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰@@justadandak
@happinessyogateacher
@happinessyogateacher Жыл бұрын
Best vocal quality I’ve heard yet on TED. Someone get all the tech details and let us know. Fabulously rich baritone vocals help, too!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
All down to the TEDxNelson tech crew (plus my parents and their genes along with growing up in the valleys of South Wales) 🙂
@amaangamer9607
@amaangamer9607 11 ай бұрын
A very good speech to tell us that you are not nervous but you are just excited
@justadandak
@justadandak 10 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@ChristianaOtoo-z8v
@ChristianaOtoo-z8v Жыл бұрын
The speech is really incredible. Most non verbal cues like the shaking of hands are not intentional. It's a ashamed that I'm that kind of person.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thank you for such kind words and no reason to be ashamed of shaking - I used to for years then after lots of exposure and preparedness I no longer shake :-)
@mariastevenson1291
@mariastevenson1291 Жыл бұрын
Hearing this segment helped out a lot because I have to a speech and I am terrible about speaking in public, especially to people whom I don't know. Thanks again for this!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
And thank you for leaving such a lovely comment - wishing you all the success in future speeches you have!
@netaro1890
@netaro1890 Жыл бұрын
That’s the opposite for me, it’s more my colleagues / peers I get more nervous with. Awesome video though
@LittleChimpZerg
@LittleChimpZerg Жыл бұрын
​@@netaro1890I'm with you bud
@daveanthony6710
@daveanthony6710 Жыл бұрын
@@justadandak pop
@daveanthony6710
@daveanthony6710 Жыл бұрын
@@justadandak ppp
@Stephanie-vy4zs
@Stephanie-vy4zs 2 жыл бұрын
This was wonderful advice. I will be taking my first public speaking class in college this January and I will be returning to this video for pointers!
@JohnFitzgeraldKennedy.
@JohnFitzgeraldKennedy. Жыл бұрын
Hey Stephanie I hope it went great....🤜🏽🤛🏽
@sarasavanovic6708
@sarasavanovic6708 Жыл бұрын
Let us know how it went. 😊
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Truly hope the class went well and you were able to apply some of the lessons here, there 🙂
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Sorry I missed this comment and thanks for the compliment - do hope it helped in your class :-)
@Nisaa587
@Nisaa587 Жыл бұрын
This language is very important and use develope our knowledge
@sabrasheedy9205
@sabrasheedy9205 Жыл бұрын
Thank You So Much for this. I'm Going Too Be presenting a seminar in the Very near future. I'm excited about Doing this. Can't Wait. Watching And getting What I needed You Gave me. I thank you So Much. I'm So Ready for This seminar it's So Very important! Given to what's going on in the world. I would Love To see More of Your speaking. Thanks again for your help and Time.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to watch and all the best with the presentation you're giving - please do let us know how it goes and remember: you're not nervous you're excited!
@Justiceforboys0
@Justiceforboys0 19 күн бұрын
You are not nervous you are excited... You are the hope of this universe.... The truth of this world.. The ultimate saver of your world
@ramsesrameez5430
@ramsesrameez5430 Жыл бұрын
Well speaking power comes when your are confident and good at your emotional
@justadandak
@justadandak 11 ай бұрын
You are right - such a challenge for many to control both aspects though hence the talk 🙂
@ОльгаВатафакова
@ОльгаВатафакова 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this information. Watching it 30 min before presenting my big project. I was so nervous, but you inspired me. Now I’m excited to tell everyone how hard I worked for this project. ❤
@justadandak
@justadandak 7 ай бұрын
Wonderful to hear my talk helped before yours in turning those nerves into excitement 🙂
@traciblom
@traciblom Жыл бұрын
“Speaking is more about listening than talking.” If you get the right components together, you can get people to move. GRACE - It’s not what you say; it’s how you say it. Feet Stop the Hip Bop. Lean on one hip. Then lean on the other. Stop One-Leg Walking. Step forward with one foot again and again. Do the Soft Rock Star Pose. Squarely plant your feet shoulder width apart. Stand first before you speak. Waist Do not do the Swivel Around move. Hands Hand gestures are good, but doing a hand gesture for every point is distracting. Shaking. Give the hands something to do instead (like hold the clicker by the side of the body). Hold onto a hankie and put your hand into your pocket. Don’t use a script Paper begins to rock for you since your hands are shaking. You can’t practice public speaking. You can only prepare how you’re going to feel (physiological responses) when you do public speaking. Condense speech down to bullet points. They become what you say and the stories you tell. CREDIBILITY - The stories you choose to tell and how you tell them. Woodrow Wilson - “If I am to speak for ten minutes, I need a week for preparation; if fifteen minutes, three days, if half an hour, two days; if an hour, I am ready now.” Brevity is tough to do. Use any of the many outline options. It can be as simple as the basic “Tell me what you’re going to tell me. Tell me. Tell me what you told me.” Tell lived-experienced stories. If you use bullet points, start with the picture first. Then add the bullet point after you have finished. Then talk about the next point before showing it on the screen. If all the bullet points are on the screen, people will be reading. RESONANCE - Audience’s role in the talk. It’s how you leave them feeling. Maya Angelou - “...People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” You don’t want people to leave with a sense of meh - no feeling; just information. Instead, humanize the information as much as possible. The presenter of the information needs to give emotional cues to the audience about how they should be feeling at certain points in the story. People will mirror your emotions. JEDI MIND TRICK Calm parasympathetic system before you begin. Breathe deeply and yawn as you match your breathing to the breathing circle that goes in and out. Tell yourself, “You’re not nervous; you’re excited.”
@guisellavillavicencio2721
@guisellavillavicencio2721 Жыл бұрын
Wow thanks
@mandianthony7065
@mandianthony7065 Жыл бұрын
@abasionojohn4040
@abasionojohn4040 Жыл бұрын
You're awesome for doing this! Thanks!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Impressive notes that - thanks for doing that for others and for your time 🙂
@rajatjhingan8258
@rajatjhingan8258 Жыл бұрын
God Bless You
@francescomanier1246
@francescomanier1246 Жыл бұрын
13:30 lived experience stories is the main message from this speech!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Boom - definitely an important element in delivering great presentations!
@learnenglishwithpallavianand
@learnenglishwithpallavianand 9 ай бұрын
Absolutely wonderful presentation dear speaker. Thanks for sharing your insights! 👍
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for the wonderful comment - all the best!
@Maynificent
@Maynificent Жыл бұрын
I'm preparing for big job interview tomorrow and I feel like I'm spiraling into a nervous breakdown lol but hearing this reminds me to see it as a something cool and fun I get to experience. Excited, not nervous! Thank you 🫶
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
WONDERFUL to hear it had such a positive impact in reframing those nerves - how did the interview go?
@OmerAsh
@OmerAsh Жыл бұрын
Yo we need an update.
@sabrasheedy9205
@sabrasheedy9205 Жыл бұрын
You'll Do Awesomely.
@moircandlecompany
@moircandlecompany Жыл бұрын
Hope your interview went well🎉
@thekaywehtv
@thekaywehtv 2 жыл бұрын
This was so awesome. It definitely motivated me to make my next KZbin video literally right now! Thank you for this. Wow!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Whoop whoop!
@DearDragonfly
@DearDragonfly 2 жыл бұрын
Engaging presentation with great tips and advice. I have favourited this video so I can revisit it again in the future :)
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
*double thumbs up*
@yobertgamer9195
@yobertgamer9195 8 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed that I’m pretty good at public speaking and I have to say I think you made a great point throughout which you kept touching on and I cannot express how important body language is.
@justadandak
@justadandak 7 ай бұрын
Appreciate the kind words.
@ramsesrameez5430
@ramsesrameez5430 Жыл бұрын
Indeed having fun sometime even you are alone creates a huge change into your mind and your body behaviour
@The_success_witch
@The_success_witch Жыл бұрын
Loved this ❤ very engaging talk with some great tips , agree with the last bit about excitement… My personal definition of fear is FEELING EXCITED AND READY 🔥🔥🔥
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making the time to watch and leave the kind comment - great reframe of 'fear' here as well, totally energising.
@godivaodonata
@godivaodonata 9 ай бұрын
DK-great Talk! (And, if you haven't already, you should check out the graphic novel, El Deafo.) Looking forward to more from you! 👏
@justadandak
@justadandak 8 ай бұрын
Thank you and yes will check it out
@JamesVibbert-j1w
@JamesVibbert-j1w 3 ай бұрын
This content consistently brings practical takeaways.
@webbfamily3694
@webbfamily3694 Жыл бұрын
As someone who is hearing impaired and scheduled to tell my story in front of 130 ppl. I’m running to it. Ty!!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Wow wishing you nothing but positivity and I have no doubt it will be a great experience for all - let us know how it went!
@paulicious2309
@paulicious2309 6 ай бұрын
Highlights: 1. GRACE. The soft rockstar pose. Get your feet slightly wider apart and stay steady. 2. CREDIBILITY. Tell a story from your experience. Don't use notes on paper. When you show a quote, let people read it themselves. Don't show all your bullet points at once. 2. RESONANCE. The Jedi Mind Trick. "You're not nervous, you're excited."
@justadandak
@justadandak 6 ай бұрын
Always fun to read other peoples summaries from my talk - thanks for watching / sharing :-)
@garettjohnson6978
@garettjohnson6978 12 сағат бұрын
LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! I have to do a Ted Talk for Educators Rising soon, and I have the presentation and all that largwly sorted out, but what better preparation than to watch some examples? And this helped tremendously, well done sir, very well done!!!
@graceHumphreyy
@graceHumphreyy 10 ай бұрын
After watching this video, I feel empowered!
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Amazing to hear - makes it worthwhile 🙂
@pharmclare
@pharmclare 9 ай бұрын
Resonate indeed. Thank you for sharing
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
And thank you for watching / leaving a thanks 🙂
@pherltv
@pherltv 3 ай бұрын
One of my dream is to speak in public and deliver my life story and tell them how i become a confident woman specially in public speaking. As if it happened already since when I made my KZbin Channel, i got the chance to speak my mind from time to time whenever i do my KZbin live. I hope one day, Tedxtalk will invite me too and let me stand in front of hundred of Audience who will be willing to listen to what i am about to stay ..😊
@soulfitlitinft
@soulfitlitinft 9 ай бұрын
Very professional very top g class
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Thank you
@pollybuthelezi8889
@pollybuthelezi8889 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Nelson 💫
@nikhilkjoshi
@nikhilkjoshi Жыл бұрын
Thank you DK - Jedi trick is awesome
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Appreciated and glad you liked the little trick ;-)
@That.Is.The.Future.Us.3000
@That.Is.The.Future.Us.3000 3 ай бұрын
"Turn your nerves into excitement"
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
Totally :-)
@NicoleDMunoz
@NicoleDMunoz Жыл бұрын
I’m not nervous to speak, im excited ❤
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
That you are 🙂
@TrueCrimeDime
@TrueCrimeDime 8 ай бұрын
Great speech! Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
@justadandak
@justadandak 8 ай бұрын
Many thanks for the kind words and your attention - appreciated!
@zengjingwang8177
@zengjingwang8177 3 ай бұрын
TAUGHT ME SOooo much!!!!!😊
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful to hear :-)
@Morena_do_Rei
@Morena_do_Rei 4 ай бұрын
This has inspired me to tell my story in a more effective manner. Thank you DK, from Just J 😉
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful to read and all the best with your storytelling journey :-)
@sulbhakuttabadkar
@sulbhakuttabadkar Жыл бұрын
Very good presenting by the person
@rezkinaitlaziz1040
@rezkinaitlaziz1040 Жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much I did great just by applying your advices 🙏
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thank you for leaving a comment and letting us know it had a positive impact - brilliant to hear 😊
@liveagaincoachingministry1319
@liveagaincoachingministry1319 17 күн бұрын
Great tips! Thanks!
@womayibrian3845
@womayibrian3845 Жыл бұрын
Have a presentation tomorrow.Thought i was nervous.....turns out am just excited.Good luck to me
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Good luck indeed - sorry I missed the opportunity to say that before your presentation - how did it go with your new found excitement?
@Shahd-n9f
@Shahd-n9f 5 ай бұрын
❤❤ a brilliant one thanks for this so much ❤❤
@justadandak
@justadandak 5 ай бұрын
So very kind of you to say 🙂
@teresiadlamini138
@teresiadlamini138 9 ай бұрын
This was well presented.
@justadandak
@justadandak 8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@ramsesrameez5430
@ramsesrameez5430 Жыл бұрын
Just take sometime for your self go and chill out do what ever is your passion you will aromatically be at your peak of your good emotional
@wealthynotrichwnr6874
@wealthynotrichwnr6874 Жыл бұрын
I wish I watched this earlier , great video!!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the compliment :-)
@ramsesrameez5430
@ramsesrameez5430 Жыл бұрын
It's simple like you have to be in focused you have to mind your self your thoughts. Speak Valve words and only speak when others are interested in you want you to listen.
@IRossi01
@IRossi01 3 ай бұрын
This was brilliant, than you!!!
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
Thank you :-)
@_NAANMIBAWA_
@_NAANMIBAWA_ Жыл бұрын
This was a great talk. Thank you.🤗
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to watch and leave a kind message 🙂
@TheCodeCobalt
@TheCodeCobalt Жыл бұрын
This is good. Thanks so much for this.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thanks for spending time watching and sharing such a positive review 🙂
@FKU7777
@FKU7777 2 жыл бұрын
Great speech mate. I breathe really shallow and run out of breath due to massive anxiety, it’s so bad it’s a vicious circle as I’m anticipating the short breaths. Would be good to see how to combat this in terms of breathing cadence.
@johnmaclean9915
@johnmaclean9915 2 жыл бұрын
I had anxiety about public speaking, so I joined Toastmasters. It's been a huge help to me.
@financefoundations
@financefoundations Жыл бұрын
You’re not anxious, you’re excited ☺️
@wendylorimer5663
@wendylorimer5663 Жыл бұрын
Maybe do some breathing exercise without thinking about the public speaking part?
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
I hear you and used to be like that. If you practice breathing slow before any talk for a few minutes then attempt to slow your speaking down a little also, you'll hopefully find that has a massive impact in your oratory practice. You can also add in pauses between your statements, to break up the pattern of speech, which in turn gives you time to deeply inhale as well. Hope that helps and all the best in your future talks.
@praburaj1127
@praburaj1127 Жыл бұрын
* tell me what you gonna tell me ; tell me ; tell me what you toll me ; * Nancy Duarte - The secret structure of great talks
@paulinewachira5839
@paulinewachira5839 Жыл бұрын
1.simple speech model: Glet up,tell me what you gonna tell me,tell me,tell me what you told me 2.Segmetize_bullet points kill attention 3.Grace, credibility &resonance
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Nailed it - thanks for taking the time to watch and leaving these summarising breadcrumbs for others to find 🙂
@paulinewachira5839
@paulinewachira5839 Жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@rwatson2609
@rwatson2609 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice, I really never thought of how I looked on stage, will need a bit of glue on my shoes to solve that problem. Great Ted talk, Also, Nice old 2 stroke 250.
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
So glad it resonated - in the past I've put some tape on the bottoms of my clients shoes to make then 'feel' how much they were walking, try that 😉 thanks again!
@bhavyasharma9655
@bhavyasharma9655 4 ай бұрын
This was so good ❤
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
Appreciated :-)
@jhonrylruizjornalestero
@jhonrylruizjornalestero 2 ай бұрын
Very cool speech! 😊
@justadandak
@justadandak 2 ай бұрын
So kind and appreciate your attention :-)
@Nisaa587
@Nisaa587 Жыл бұрын
Public speech is very clear....and easy
@susinayatapia87
@susinayatapia87 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much....this talk has literally helped me overcome my nervousness and fear...❤🙏
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear about the positive impact and thanks for leaving the comment.
@omotoshopius4900
@omotoshopius4900 Жыл бұрын
Hi susina
@susinayatapia87
@susinayatapia87 Жыл бұрын
@@omotoshopius4900 hello
@yashodalakshmaiah7157
@yashodalakshmaiah7157 8 ай бұрын
I am being a confident person while I am typing this lesson
@justadandak
@justadandak 8 ай бұрын
Yeh you are :-)
@oisikabhanja
@oisikabhanja 10 ай бұрын
excellent!! so cool!! thanks :)
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙂
@osmansow320
@osmansow320 4 ай бұрын
Amazing!
@justadandak
@justadandak 3 ай бұрын
You're amazing! :-)
@rosenatasha2734
@rosenatasha2734 10 ай бұрын
I rarely feel anxious or feel fear before and during public speaking. It's the aftermath when I start wondering about any mistakes and things I didn't say but should have said. Also, any tips to keep speeches much shorter but sweet?
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Ah yeh that negative reflective loop and regret - this could be about spending more time preparing what you're going to say. Simple bullet points of stories and how they relate to the topic being discussed. This will help with brevity also (a skill to master) - my fav quote on this is: "Make sure that you have finished speaking before your audience has finished listening! " -Dorothy Sarnoff -> again this is about being that preparation - good luck 🙂
@ramsesrameez5430
@ramsesrameez5430 Жыл бұрын
Well indeed you have given a good advise to your listeners..
@thetwistedhealer
@thetwistedhealer Жыл бұрын
I really needed this!! Loved it❤
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Many thanks 🙂
@challengeyourperception
@challengeyourperception Жыл бұрын
He made some good points
@akaKendraProctor
@akaKendraProctor 10 ай бұрын
This was a gem! 💎
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
You're a 💎
@sortasussy
@sortasussy Жыл бұрын
This is very helpful for pace🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Great that it aids 🙂
@CarolyneMukopi
@CarolyneMukopi 2 ай бұрын
oh, my! this is what i have been looking for. Can i ask a question plz ? Can i learn public speaking online and become one? If yes, give me directions on what to do and how you can help.
@justadandak
@justadandak 2 ай бұрын
Great to hear it was of use - yes there's lots of resources online to help you get better although I will say speaking (with reflection) is the best way to learn how to speak (as I say in the talk you can't practice only prepare). All the best with your journey :-)
@CarolyneMukopi
@CarolyneMukopi 2 ай бұрын
@@justadandak thanks
@dm9193
@dm9193 8 ай бұрын
Why is it I can stand up and sing in a room full of people but get very nervous and shaking voice when presenting a presentation 🤷‍♂️ I can’t understand it… please help
@justadandak
@justadandak 8 ай бұрын
Hi there - it could be many reasons with the most common one being that a song has the melody, words and backing (music) already established, so the structure and delivery is already there to be performed. Speaking (especially without a script) without the musical accompaniment would be more exposing for many. However, if you're already a performer you can tap into that muscle memory of being seen and the trust you have built up experiencing this then transfer that into your next speaking opportunity - plus add in all the lessons shared in the talk above. Good luck with it and do hope you start to feel the confidence build plus the voice stops shaking.
@shukeelc5177
@shukeelc5177 4 ай бұрын
. I'm a speaker trainer. It's because when you're probably good at singing with a decent level of skill. We almost always enjoy doing something we're good at. However you've probably never worked on developed your speaking skill, and so you don't look forward to it. When you decide to develop this and you start making progress I guarantee you'll start enjoying it and you'll be happy to perform regularly to a room full of people
@zylinekaffey-smith2823
@zylinekaffey-smith2823 3 ай бұрын
Same here. It's so embarrassing 😢
@fatimahyahya2694
@fatimahyahya2694 5 ай бұрын
Such a dream of mine to be able to deliver a speech in TedTalks
@Maryikwuegbu
@Maryikwuegbu 4 ай бұрын
Rooting for you. 🥳🥳
@LeeannSmith-wz4lp
@LeeannSmith-wz4lp 4 ай бұрын
It terrifies me so I want to do it to overcome that fear and gain confidence and also share my experiences
@user-dp9vt3ui8o
@user-dp9vt3ui8o Жыл бұрын
I just watched a master at work Thank you sir for your advice 🫡
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Ah so kind of you to say, thank you for your attention.
@rahmaba4793
@rahmaba4793 Жыл бұрын
I liked the bullet point slide 😅
@thepeckhampoet1909
@thepeckhampoet1909 9 ай бұрын
I'm a hip hoper, I never noticed it while on stage I only noticed it when watching a video back I noticed me swaying side to side.
@justadandak
@justadandak 9 ай бұрын
Hope the 'soft rockstar pose' helps you going forward - a fun thing to do is watch yourself back via a recording that's sped up and then you'll see more clearly the repeated nuances 🙂
@thepeckhampoet1909
@thepeckhampoet1909 9 ай бұрын
@@justadandak thanks, that's a good idea watching it back speeded up a little. Cheers
@zeus-he9vo
@zeus-he9vo 6 ай бұрын
I've got a speech on stage that will decide if Im getting a high role in the Student Council at our school, wish me luck for next week.
@justadandak
@justadandak 6 ай бұрын
Wishing you all the best with it and let us know how it went... :-)
@HYPOTHALAMUS99
@HYPOTHALAMUS99 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, amazing speech!
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@vikivoicecoach
@vikivoicecoach Жыл бұрын
hands down one of the best speeches ever :)
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Wow that's such high praise - thank you!!!
@ROHITMEENA-xl4cq
@ROHITMEENA-xl4cq 2 ай бұрын
Kon kon h yha Jo ise Sandeep maheswari sir smj k aaya h🤩🤩
@justadandak
@justadandak 2 ай бұрын
Check the description and links there and you'll find me :-)
@onaopemipodara1634
@onaopemipodara1634 Жыл бұрын
Nailed it!👏
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
*bows*
@IbrohimSobirjanov-f2n
@IbrohimSobirjanov-f2n Жыл бұрын
Very great speech
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your time in watching :-)
@WilliesDET
@WilliesDET 5 ай бұрын
Excellent
@justadandak
@justadandak 5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@dr.aanotnot3726
@dr.aanotnot3726 2 жыл бұрын
Why is not anyone laughing 😭
@obeserage3075
@obeserage3075 Жыл бұрын
Why is English broken 😂
@Shadoufang
@Shadoufang Жыл бұрын
Member cause the mic isn't picking up the extra sounds such as laughter and squeaky seats.
@leprotagonist2197
@leprotagonist2197 Жыл бұрын
That’s New Zealand for you 🧐
@hello5007
@hello5007 Жыл бұрын
They’re not a very responsive audience, are they? Poor guy (unless the mic is just not picking up the sounds from the audience).
@francescomanier1246
@francescomanier1246 Жыл бұрын
They laughed once, if I counted correctly!
@openwindowsopendoors2688
@openwindowsopendoors2688 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome job!!!❤
@justadandak
@justadandak Жыл бұрын
*bows*
@marcohinojosa1997
@marcohinojosa1997 11 ай бұрын
Sooooo good
@justadandak
@justadandak 10 ай бұрын
Appreciated.
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