The Quarantine Effect: how lockdown is changing us

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Stepsof2Foreigners

Stepsof2Foreigners

Күн бұрын

We're Adam and Bernardo, sharing how this crazy time at home is teaching us some different things about ourselves. From kitchen fails to big thoughts about life, we're finding happiness and growing stronger together during quarantine. Intro and Outro written by: Bernardo Vespermann
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Who are we?
We are Adam (North American) and Bernardo (Brazilian) and we are husbands whose paths crossed back in 2016, when we both still lived in Brazil. Since the very beginning, we shared a common passion for travel and nature, which has only grown over the years and led us to this unexpected journey on KZbin, which has allowed us to connect with an amazing community that we’re beyond grateful for. “Go out and make memories” is our motto of living and a constant reminder for us that true happiness doesn’t come from the material wealth we accumulate, but from the memories we create and share with our loved ones throughout our existence. We invite you to join us in our crazy journey in life and hopefully we can inspire you to go out and make some memories on your own. Welcome aboard!

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@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon from Portland, Oregon and welcome back :). It took us a while for this one but we wanted to make sure we were proud of it. I do have to say the writing at the beginning and end was from Bernardo but I used my voice to express his thoughts. We tried something a bit different and wanted to give a different spin on our quarantine life. We hope everyone is staying safe and healthy during this crazy time but remember, we are all in this together. We can't thank you all enough for watching our videos and see you all next week. A+B
@cynthiabalag
@cynthiabalag 4 жыл бұрын
Be safe dears . Happy to see you again . Wow Good tossing Bernardo 🤩
@umustcthis9412
@umustcthis9412 4 жыл бұрын
Hi lovely couple! Im your number fan here in Thailand! Im a filipino working here.
@ismailyldrm8867
@ismailyldrm8867 4 жыл бұрын
Greetings from Turkey .. Stay at home ..
@gene6095
@gene6095 4 жыл бұрын
Stepsof2Foreigners I love you both Adam & Bernard...I am glad that I can say that y’all are my brothers! Love always ❤️
@dancoulterjr
@dancoulterjr 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Bernardo's ability to express his feelings and create such beautiful literary works never ceases to amaze me. Adam, your voice is so calming and peaceful. With your reciting of the prologue, my tensions from today all but disappeared. From someone who has been viewing your videos from the beginning, I can definitely see an improvement. Not that your videos were ever bad; but, your goal to continuously improve shows abundantly. Keep up the great work. As always, sending many positive thoughts and prayers your way. :)
@claudiogonzalez5494
@claudiogonzalez5494 4 жыл бұрын
Excelente chicos saludos desde la provincia de Corrientes en la República Argentina 🇦🇷🇦🇷🇦🇷
@foudilb.4681
@foudilb.4681 4 жыл бұрын
I love how Bernardo's writings are interpreted by Adam's voice ; these are couple goals ! Stay safe till the next video ❤
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Fodil. We hope you are staying safe and healthy as well.
@levitoromero6660
@levitoromero6660 4 жыл бұрын
I love you Bernardo.
@kenjomonsale8007
@kenjomonsale8007 4 жыл бұрын
I hope and pray to God that I'll meet a good, kind-hearted, God fearing, understanding, and loving man someday. 🙏🏼
@empressmira8043
@empressmira8043 3 жыл бұрын
Amennn
@fifilamour3859
@fifilamour3859 3 жыл бұрын
Not God fearing please - no such thing as God!!
@jamesbjames9555
@jamesbjames9555 4 жыл бұрын
I love how you two interact with each other. Shows your love! Thanks for sharing.
@susiew.9012
@susiew.9012 4 жыл бұрын
Yay, you're back. Glad you're both safe and well. Adam your voice is so soothing. I'm so glad your making strides to heal your soul Adam, you will come through this because we can see that you're a strong person under your boyish charm. Also you have the ultimate weapon of support in Bernardo. You compliment each other so well, it shines from you both. In the words of the song. You will survive, cos as long as you know how to love you'll always stay alive! Stay safe love and hugs 😍💝🏳️‍🌈😷
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Susie. We took our time with this video and didn't want to stress out about it. We're proud of the final product and glad to hear you thought my voice was soothing. I was reading the words written by Bernardo.
@susiew.9012
@susiew.9012 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners Bernardo your words were beautiful and very eloquent, thank you 🙏💝
@peggyesquibel8353
@peggyesquibel8353 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo you write beautifully! The intro and closing of the video were eloquently insightful!❤️
@sadeghjabbari5434
@sadeghjabbari5434 4 жыл бұрын
That intro and the narratives at the end of the video were the best and the most inspiring things I've heard since the beginning of this madness.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Sadegh, wow, what a beautiful comment. I will make sure Bernardo reads this one. He reads most of the comments but responds to the ones in Portuguese. Thank you for this comment.
@sadeghjabbari5434
@sadeghjabbari5434 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners You're welcome! But seriously, with this writing skill you have, I believe someday your diaries (journals) will be good autobiographies to read. So, keep it up boys...🙌 Love you both. ❤️
@luisalfonsoescobarnarvaez750
@luisalfonsoescobarnarvaez750 4 жыл бұрын
Nonononononononononononono
@sdfry40
@sdfry40 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video. great to see our smiling faces. I think it is truly profound what your channel has turned into. There is nothing but heart with you two...and it is shining bright!!
@justyouraverageintrovert8487
@justyouraverageintrovert8487 4 жыл бұрын
I literally shuttered when I saw how uncomfortable you became just saying the phrase “gay conversion therapy.” I appreciate the amount of rawness you guys share in your videos and would have to say it’s the smallest of details that I love the most...such as the cotton smelling candle being your favorite. While there’s too many of us to get to know, we all have gotten to know you and hope you realize you’ve made friends all around the world. May the love continue to spread...
@irfanmohammed3754
@irfanmohammed3754 4 жыл бұрын
Hi
@Steven-sm2yw
@Steven-sm2yw 4 жыл бұрын
Just Your Average Introvert Your assessment of those two is right on. 😘💕💖
@abukhaled6811
@abukhaled6811 4 жыл бұрын
hai..u from
@rajesh6743
@rajesh6743 4 жыл бұрын
@just... Yup hope I sud get same
@jonereylozano5961
@jonereylozano5961 4 жыл бұрын
Hi...helow
@dansovel
@dansovel 4 жыл бұрын
I celebrate life, love and passion. I celebrate meeting you and that you fill my heart with so many beautiful stories. Thanks guys! Thank you! I love you both. Daniel de Mar cel Plata city Argentina. THANK YOU 💜💜
@michaelkonig4704
@michaelkonig4704 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly if Hugh Jackmann cant play "Wolverine" Bernardo is the right Man to play that role and Adam as "Thor" First Gay Superhero Couple# love u guys from Germany
@myristicanz
@myristicanz 4 жыл бұрын
Michael König I’d love to see that 👍
@kakade3402
@kakade3402 4 жыл бұрын
@@jamurjamur4195 तुमारानामकेग
@leesam3358
@leesam3358 4 жыл бұрын
Please be safe guys ... love you with big hug
@jeffleo3634
@jeffleo3634 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful, profound, authentic, honest and full of integrity. Thank you Adam and Bernardo for showing these qualities to the world.
@witgob
@witgob 4 жыл бұрын
There is a depth to your posting that hasn't been there before. Both of you have grown so much, and it's a credit to your willingness to adapt and change.
@renatomendes9395
@renatomendes9395 4 жыл бұрын
É maravilhoso saber que vocês tem um ao outro pra lidar com os problemas e imprevistos que tem acontecido. Saibam que nós apoiamos vocês, por serem simplesmente incríveis! Bjs do Brasil 😘
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Olá, Renato! Esperamos que esteja tudo bem aí com você. Obrigado pelo apoio! Realmente, ter um ao outro neste momento ajuda demais! Beijo grande!
@heatherstringer7722
@heatherstringer7722 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo the words to this Intro and Outro are simply beautiful. You really should keep on writing you have a talent. Adam you read the words so lovingly its beautiful. Love that you both have me time to work on things you want or need to. Keep shining!!
@TodayisMyBirthday1997
@TodayisMyBirthday1997 4 жыл бұрын
I think even in quarantine,you two have the whole world with it's whole beauty when you have each other...love from iran @Stepsof2Foreigners
@amadorbalanquit613
@amadorbalanquit613 3 жыл бұрын
Very cute Adam and Bernardo😍😍😍
@robertcrundwell2782
@robertcrundwell2782 4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you both in you're searches. You both have hidden depths to explore. I wrote this during a personal search.: I AM THE WIND I am the wind in the pines in late December; I am the shadow under the full moon. I am the whisper above the leaves, and the morning star that wakes the lovers. I am the teacher who has lived a thousand years, shed a billion tears. I am a rock contemplating an eternity of tomorrows. I am the dream who takes those who can’t dream, to places only dreamt of. And I am the river beneath the desert, there for the taking if someone would only look. Stay safe.
@jonereylozano5961
@jonereylozano5961 4 жыл бұрын
Hi helow
@PriyanshuDasDcode-
@PriyanshuDasDcode- 4 жыл бұрын
Intro was beautiful !!
@yun-pg8cr
@yun-pg8cr 4 жыл бұрын
bernardo's words are extremely true, great awareness and honesty
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much. I'm so glad he is using his voice through words and proud of him for writing such an impactful statement. Big hugs to you.
@fajarmanggar6620
@fajarmanggar6620 4 жыл бұрын
I like pancake
@merryEngland
@merryEngland 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful beautiful beautiful. Thank you A+B for the words and for the voice. Stay safe and beloved!
@biga36695
@biga36695 4 жыл бұрын
Adam, I’m glad you are reading The Body Keeps Score. My counselor recommended that for me several years ago and had made the observation that I suffer from PTSD. While my experience is not the same as yours, I think many of us share a similar story of trauma and sometimes not knowing who we are because society has a very powerful sway over who we should be and uses it’s forces to bend and sometimes break our will. I know you are strong and you finally have the love and support you have needed for a long time, so everything will be better from this point forward. I’m sending my love and support to you and Bernardo today and I’m really glad I stumbled upon your channel and compelling story. - Mike
@squeakyz4787
@squeakyz4787 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my. The beauty and flow of the prose in the beginning. Exquisite.
@malinowsky22
@malinowsky22 4 жыл бұрын
I love you guys, literally you are so true and full of love and passion for life and passion for each other . I need to say massive thank you, because of you I decided to live my life and don’t wait for what people say and what tomorrow brings. Because of you I proposed to my BF (he is Brazilian I am from UK) and he said yes . I wish you all the best guys And please make more videos ❤️❤️❤️
@RBS_
@RBS_ 4 жыл бұрын
....congrads, Bubby, on the engagement, if 'Nardo tagught us anything, it's if it's Brazilian, put a RING on it!! ...ha-HAAA!, enjoy LIFE, and LOVE, it's yours..... ; )
@hkmichael3395
@hkmichael3395 4 жыл бұрын
HK Michael here. Woke up at 3am just to watch your awaited video! I just wanted to say how amazed I am with your work, words and the love you show for each other. Both of you are so eloquent and are able to express your feelings and reflect in the, 'Now'. A lot of people will be inspired by your narrative and take comfort that we will get through these crazy times together. Barnardo, your English is flawless and it's better than what I could ever write, even though I'm a native speaker! Thank you for showing your life under quarantine and the fun parts shaving! I'm sure you're bring joy and hope to thousands of your supporters and subscribers in these difficult times. Lots of love from your Patreon Family 💛
@jger419
@jger419 4 жыл бұрын
That opening was thoughtful and so beautifully expressed! Perfect for what we're going through right now, especially the optimistic closing sentiment. It's always a pleasure to watch your videos.
@SABOREAME68
@SABOREAME68 4 жыл бұрын
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Another beautiful memory video to watch after working 18 or 20 hrs. at the hospital. Please keep yourselves safe & healthy. May happiness, health, prosperity, and love, knock at your door forever... Abrazos
@KS-in3mj
@KS-in3mj 4 жыл бұрын
Hola, soy relativamente nueva en su canal, aunque debo admitir que el Sr. Bernardo tiene mucho que ver. Pero me ha enamorado la calidad de sus vídeos (contenido, fotografía, escenarios y sonido). Ha sido todo un gusto haberlos encontrado y son mi elección favorita para aligerar mi cuarentena en México. El amor que se tienen y los mimos traspasan pantallas y fronteras. Sigan siendo auténticos.
@joaoantoniotelles3011
@joaoantoniotelles3011 3 жыл бұрын
Love this couple!
@toddbooth-smith5474
@toddbooth-smith5474 4 жыл бұрын
The introduction was incredible, full of thought and meaning. I'm amazed at the love that you two share and my heart is touched. Thank you so very much for sharing your lives with us. It truly is a ray of sunshine in all of this darkness. Love from North Carolina.
@juliansmith8330
@juliansmith8330 4 жыл бұрын
Adam, I feel the candle is a symbol of hope for you and Bernardo; something that shines through the darkness at times. Remember, you are both loved and keep doing what you're doing, cos it's a great support for so many of us ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@TheTadghB
@TheTadghB 4 жыл бұрын
"Now we have the time to face old demons, recognise and change old self-destructive behaviours, grow stronger as individuals, as partners as sons, and as friends". I love this line. Such a beautiful video guys. ❤️❤️
@lesleymcconnach671
@lesleymcconnach671 4 жыл бұрын
Hi tadgh Wood like be friends with me lesleymcconnach
@lesleymcconnach671
@lesleymcconnach671 4 жыл бұрын
Hi tadgh Brennan Wood like be friends with me lesleymcconnach
@laurapickman9415
@laurapickman9415 4 жыл бұрын
As I quarantine solo and on the eve of my birthday, I enjoyed spending this precious moment with you two. My heart smiles when I see you 2 together. I loved hearing about how you 2 are reinventing yourselves. I admit, I found myself getting more angry about what conversion"therapy" put Adam through. Then my heart soard when Bernardo shared his interest in improving his cursive writing and how journalizing is helping you both. I too light a candle each night. The glow is soothing. Try wicker candles. They sound like fire places. All my love you guys. We will get through this together. Stay safe and strong.💗
@shielamae3187
@shielamae3187 4 жыл бұрын
The earliest I've ever been! Its 2am here and was about to sleep but change of plans
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Oh no, you woke up for us. Go back to sleep :). We thank you for watching our video super early.
@armanz2392
@armanz2392 4 жыл бұрын
Love you both...you guys continue to inpire so many of us...your positivity is infectious! Thank you once again for sharing beautiful moments ,of love and togetherness, in these bleak times. Take care and stay safe! God bless!
@stevec404
@stevec404 4 жыл бұрын
"Should have done that much sooner..." Me too. My PTSD moment (at the age of seven) went undiagnosed for over fifty years! Best to get through our sorrow; and move onward with a better mindset. XOXO
@anacatalina7690
@anacatalina7690 4 жыл бұрын
Hermosa introducción ..el mundo nos cambió a todos..nos ha enseñado a compartir unos bellos momentos que habíamos olvidado..un abrazo....
@ronitasarkar2221
@ronitasarkar2221 4 жыл бұрын
omg...the intro was superb..seeing u guys after so long made me so happy...stay safe ...yourr love is so insipiring...It makes me still believe in love...
@irfanmohammed3754
@irfanmohammed3754 4 жыл бұрын
Hii
@ronitasarkar2221
@ronitasarkar2221 4 жыл бұрын
@@irfanmohammed3754 Hiiiiiii...Helloooo
@irfanmohammed3754
@irfanmohammed3754 4 жыл бұрын
@@ronitasarkar2221 hi madam how are you fine
@linneabrown2131
@linneabrown2131 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video!! You guys work so well together, drawing on each others strengths. Love you.
@r.glez.466
@r.glez.466 4 жыл бұрын
A big hug for you two, especially for Adam
@johnbrassey5481
@johnbrassey5481 4 жыл бұрын
This is a fascinating glimpse into your lives. It also shows You guys relaxed and in a jovial mood, with heart warming banter at breakfast. At the start and end of the video, A&B show a fine talent in writing. One of their high quality videos for which they are well known.
@rjmanch
@rjmanch 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo, congratulations on being smart enough to recognize the importance of cursive writing. Sadly, in this county, many republican legislatures did away with teaching cursive writing because they decided it was no longer needed due to the use of computers. So now we have a whole generation of people who are semi-literate. They are unable to read cursive and are therefore not able to read old letters in the family, old records, and many other important ties to the past. So applause, applause. You are a smart man. Thank you for sharing this because maybe it will prompt others to follow your example.
@dondouglass8665
@dondouglass8665 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you are both okay coming thru this dark and dangerous situation. Was beginning to be concerned about my superstar friends. I know that you’ll have a massive response to read through, but must take a moment to remark about the growth I’ve seen in the two of you. Adan you have developed way beyond what I believe you are able to see. Continued success on your journey. Bernardo the deep meaningful words coming from your soul and spoken by Adam at the beginning of the video are extremely remarkable. Showing a depth of spirit that is very rare. Together you lead the way for thousands to follow. Thank You for your honesty and humility. And as always, especially in these perilous times, stay strong,safe and sure.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Don. Just reading through some older comments and this one was very kind and touched me (Adam). It's been a long journey and still continuing with therapy outside of rehab. I want to thank you for this nice comment which I read through when going through some darker days. Thank you for bringing a smile to my face.
@pierrebeukes6315
@pierrebeukes6315 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo: "Where's the body?" Adam: "In the tiger." I had to laugh. You guys are cute. Thanks for the video it was very nice. Happy to see you guys.
@rokrxxx
@rokrxxx 4 жыл бұрын
I know I did the same they are so cute
@jeannedagonese3448
@jeannedagonese3448 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to see you on KZbin. From Jeanne
@RamaHarita
@RamaHarita 4 жыл бұрын
I love you
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
It seems like we can never agree on things like who killed Carol's husband. :)
@inkreo65
@inkreo65 4 жыл бұрын
I like how you made this a positive video about what we CAN do, and not waht we CANNOT do. Focus on the positives and acknowlege the true situation. What can we learn from this. This event should make us all stronger and hopefully better.
@joshbaker430
@joshbaker430 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome back! We are glad to see you both are doing well. The haircutting scene was hilarious. Thanks for giving me something to smile about today. Nice to see some butt slapping.😀Be safe. 😀❤️🌈
@sandraouellette1069
@sandraouellette1069 4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you both are doing well I hope to see in the next video
@Mark-tb3dw
@Mark-tb3dw 4 жыл бұрын
As always I enjoy your videos. Glad your still posting videos, it shows how we're all in this together regarding the covid crisis. I do believe we're connected with nature. God is trying to tell us something. It shouldn't be business as usual once we slowly get back to what we consider normal. This is a wake up call on what we'll need to do towards helping each other, and saving what's left of our enviorment . Our world as we know it is changing. More bacteria/viruses will become more common due to global warming ( in my opinion) there's cause and effect for everything. We just have to become smart and change to adapt. Stay safe you two, God bless!
@ericjhoffer1483
@ericjhoffer1483 4 жыл бұрын
I totally enjoy your posts and many of the post of those who follow the two of yo. Your friendship and love for one another is ever so tender. I bless it and pray as you grow older with each other, your bodies remain strong as your love for each other.
@siphocollendhlamini5267
@siphocollendhlamini5267 4 жыл бұрын
OMG😭 THE OPENING🌹🌹 GOD I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH❤
@eddieindallas
@eddieindallas 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sheltering in place and giving great recommendations to your viewers. We healthcare providers really appreciate that there are guys like you that help us keep everyone safe. ❤️
@elvisalves5905
@elvisalves5905 4 жыл бұрын
Os vídeos de vocês são da mais alta qualidade, isso é realmente incrível !!! Parabéns pelo trabalho de vocês. Tenho certeza que vocês inspiram várias pessoas e ajudam elas. AMO O CANAL DE VOCÊS, VOCÊS SÃO M A R A V I L H O S O S !!!!!!
@forestnj
@forestnj 4 жыл бұрын
You are individually equally amazing in complementary ways. Together what you create is often healing and transformational. I appreciate how you are mindful of the power of your reach on social media and how caring and thoughtful you are in your messaging.
@DeryckAmaral
@DeryckAmaral 4 жыл бұрын
Belas palavras, Adam! Essa introdução ficou perfeita, o texto, a música e a bela seleção de imagens. Parabéns meninos😍
@cici-zv1uy
@cici-zv1uy 4 жыл бұрын
It's so great to see how you both show your love for each other. I'm happy for you both.
@jaseb4174
@jaseb4174 4 жыл бұрын
I just found your KZbin channel! Where am I been?? I’ve been binge watching it. I really really enjoy your interactions, your content and your personalities. It’s refreshing and always makes me smile. Much needed right now. Thanks for what you do. Can’t wait to see you next video.
@richardblackwell1230
@richardblackwell1230 4 жыл бұрын
So glad that you are both coping well during the lockdown. Bernardo’s words at the beginning and end are really thoughtful and beautiful. So glad that you are now understanding PTSD and the reason for it, so you can deal with it in the correct way. Stay safe 😘😘
@Annie-jf2wy
@Annie-jf2wy 4 жыл бұрын
Adam's speech in and as the introduction as well as the outro with the background music 🎶 was soo soothing and peaceful. It was so relaxing that I can hear it on loop and still will be so fresh! You both are doing a wonderful job. Keep it up! Stay safe!
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Annie. We're so glad you enjoyed the intro. My voice was just reading the words written by Bernardo. We're so glad it was relaxing to listen to. We are now on the vibe of relaxation :).
@robertengel8610
@robertengel8610 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners Bernardo"s words are so inspiring and make a lasting impression, but Adam, you weren't just reading them, you were saying them with love, and your voice is so soothing to the soul. I've seen all you you tube vids and this is up there with the proposal and wedding ceremony.
@soymanuelmartinez6109
@soymanuelmartinez6109 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know how they manage to make me feel good with their videos, especially in this situation that we are currently experiencing. You transmit a beautiful energy. I really like what you shared with us today thanks guys. I love you guys ❤️💌
@nickdelorean8610
@nickdelorean8610 4 жыл бұрын
I am 24 years old and I live in Italy. Quarantine is getting havier. I didn't think that my world would completely change one month and a half ago. I feel lost. I know that we face a global crisis and this thought makes me feel anxious. I am also reconsidering my life choices. These weeks are so hard. I spend too much time thinking. Anyway, thank you for sharing this moment! Your channel made me feel good these days! :) (I know that my English is not that good, Italians are so bad at speaking English 😂)
@deown5545
@deown5545 4 жыл бұрын
Ur English aren't that bad tho😂
@bowhunter8235
@bowhunter8235 4 жыл бұрын
WOW... You have a beautiful voice for narration. The videography, lighting, mix of indoors/outdoors and mix of mental awareness and physical interaction; all, superlative. Your admonition of changing the world, one man at a time begins with self but too, offers opportunity to be patient and kind to others when we do venture out again. I must first be patient, kind and caring to self before I can give to another. So proud and grateful to you both for making Portland so very beautiful. TY. --Bow
@alexandernascimento6889
@alexandernascimento6889 4 жыл бұрын
Meninos, achei que já tinham se esquecido de nós... 😢😢😢 Lindos como sempre. Forças para o Adam, ele está melhor? Gostando do cabelo, Bernardo, te deixou mais novo. Muito amor para o casal... 😍😍 Acho que o Bernardo está ficando atrapalhado também... 😅 😂 😂
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Fala, Alexander! Quanto tempo! Sempre bom te ver por aqui! Jamais esqueceremos de vocês! O Adam está bem melhor...não tem nem comparação! Ele está apenas no começo da terapia e ainda precisa entender muita coisa do passado, principalmente questões relacionadas à "terapia" de conversão pela qual ele passou. Muita estrada pela frente, mas agora estamos no caminho certo. Os últimos meses foram assustadores e agora estamos respirando bem mais aliviados. Esperamos que esteja tudo bem com você aí no Brasil. Cuide-se! Um abraço gigante meu e do Adam!
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Ah, o cabelo está longo por falta de opção mesmo. haha Muita gente tem dito o mesmo que você...que me deixa mais novo. As trapalhadas do Adam são altamente contagiosas...pior do que corona. Abração!
@alexandernascimento6889
@alexandernascimento6889 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners seus lindos! Somem não que já ficamos com saudades... 😍😍😍 Sei bem como é ser gay e evangélico, não passei por terapia de conversão mas crescer nesse meio é traumático, perdi muito tempo na vida por causa disso. Muita luz e força para o Adam, o amor de vocês vai superar e vencer essa fase, estou na torcida. Nos cuidarmos aqui no Brasil você sabe como é complicado, o governo não ajuda e consequentemente o povo também não, difícil manter a sanidade nesse hospício de país, ainda bem que você fez uma escolha mais assertiva a ficar por aqui... Muito amor para o casal!!! 😍 😍
@alexandernascimento6889
@alexandernascimento6889 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners deixa ele ler que você está comparando com o Corona... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Que bom que não sou o único, devia adotar esse corte a partir de agora, ficou ótimo.
@16Alain
@16Alain 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much guys! Thank you for the calm and the serenity, it's doing so much good, in this lonely stressful time of COVID-19. Take care, stay safe and healthy.
@wagnersansuy2865
@wagnersansuy2865 4 жыл бұрын
Boa Tarde e saudações respeitosas do Brasil devido ao fuso horário. Têm um bom tempo que não assisto vossos vídeos aqui no KZbin. A quarentena me possibilitou esse tempo. Fico contente por vocês dois estarem bem, notei que o Adam Pate está mais seguro, confiante, cheio de vida e o Bernardo Vespermann mergulhando em uma jornada de autoconhecimento que esse confinamento nos impõe. Essa imposição vem ensinar a humanidade a não repetir os erros do passado e trabalharmos juntos para um futuro melhor através de valores altruístas.
@LucasSantos-rd7sz
@LucasSantos-rd7sz 4 жыл бұрын
Rapaz... Parabéns! Irei anotar vossas palavras para redação do Enem kkkkk
@wagnersansuy2865
@wagnersansuy2865 4 жыл бұрын
@@LucasSantos-rd7sz Disponha.
@ScooterYamaha
@ScooterYamaha 4 жыл бұрын
what are you saying?
@denisewarrin6833
@denisewarrin6833 4 жыл бұрын
My gosh you guys are a handsome couple
@joeyqu817
@joeyqu817 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys😘. We can still feel the love in quarantine😘. I love getting up in the morning and seeing the sun shine on my bed☀️
@giovanniapostoli5304
@giovanniapostoli5304 4 жыл бұрын
i love you guys, this video bring me a lot of peaceful, thank you guy... you are so beautiful couple♥️
@cutedream6956
@cutedream6956 4 жыл бұрын
This video made me very depressed, not in that the content itself was depressing(quite the opposite) but the inner reflection that it inspired in me. In these trying times at least you have each other, many people have no one to comfort and for us it is a difficult time indeed. Stay busy, read, excise, start a hobby etc etc but your still alone and it’s hard being in an empty apartment. Social media is good for many things but being actually with someone is what many of us are missing. Sending good vibes to you from Wisconsin.
@jjguillermo1798
@jjguillermo1798 3 жыл бұрын
@Mike Hagen, sending my virtual hugs! ❤️😊
@reitorch7435
@reitorch7435 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you're okay, you doing fine
@ronaldoabdalla4274
@ronaldoabdalla4274 4 жыл бұрын
Aii meninos que bom ver que estão bem! Continuem seguros .... Quarentena está sendo difícil para todos. Grande abraço
@sharhukkhan7643
@sharhukkhan7643 4 жыл бұрын
Hi
@sharhukkhan7643
@sharhukkhan7643 4 жыл бұрын
Back to call me......yaar ....8882983227..........8700334468
@TheGaloof
@TheGaloof 4 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you guys are doing ok. Seeing the love between you guys makes me feel happy on the inside. You're both very lucky to have found each other!
@thetravellinghobitt
@thetravellinghobitt 4 жыл бұрын
Hello my lovelies! I believe in changes too and positive changes for the better! 👍🏼 still in quarantine here too in london. Haha a”pen” to follow the lines in a haircut?! I had mine done yesterday too by my partner! Stay safe guys! We are all in this together! sending lots of hugs and more hugs! 👍🏼👍🏼😘😘
@andreabucci8681
@andreabucci8681 4 жыл бұрын
I saw 99% of your videos, many beautiful beautiful places, cities, people, but this video is on the top. Very high level of quality, inspiration and full of love. This one best rapresent your love ❤️
@MrBlank-qx5mm
@MrBlank-qx5mm 4 жыл бұрын
Loooool Adam take showers for almost two hours!Finally know someone take a longer shower than I do.
@maxblackso488
@maxblackso488 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not even 1min into the video and I'm already obsessed with it. You guys have changed my life in a way you will never understand or might think it's crazy. Your genuineness makes me so happy and gives me hope for my future. I love you
@jacko5565
@jacko5565 4 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! First time I see that haircut technique of drawing a line to make it straight. That's Hilarious!
@RBS_
@RBS_ 4 жыл бұрын
....talk about 'pen'-manship, ha-HAAA!!! >ouchbaybeeeethatBIChurtsz
@NWooo
@NWooo 4 жыл бұрын
Hands down my favorite video of yours, besides the wedding one, the vacation one, the scaring your husband ones...I think I mean to say, you guys are awesome!! Thank you for sharing parts of your life with us, it’s not only your amazing editing skills, inspiring writings, but also your openness, honesty and faith in love and in human beings in general that remind all of us: this is a life worth living, no matter gay or straight, black or white, rich or poor, so long we still believe in humans and love. Love from China, Niklas.
@ronaldlabieniec987
@ronaldlabieniec987 4 жыл бұрын
Oops! Didn't read about Bernardo composing the opening and closing before I sent my last comment 😕 Well done, Bernardo! You too, Adam.
@TexasEdd
@TexasEdd 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your day(s) with us and I hope y'all are keeping your heads above water during this... Interesting time in our lives. You guys take care and again, thanks for sharing your world : )
@РадикХафизов-х5э
@РадикХафизов-х5э 4 жыл бұрын
Good evening! I'm from Russia and I don't understand your language, but you are so cool. My wife is thrilled. How are you doing with this virus? Greetings from Russia!
@randallross1703
@randallross1703 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of your best videos. I like the introspection and poetic narration about what changes we are all going through in this world during this pandemic. It is like an evolutionary leap in happening..Growth is painful and scary as we deal with the unknown and see the horror of loss and suffering of many and the lack of physical contact we are forced to endure. Pollution is at the lowest levels in 75 years as people are not driving and factories and society is shut down. It is time for us all to go inward as you said. Be safe be well. Cyber hugs! ❤
@johnsmith4589
@johnsmith4589 4 жыл бұрын
Well, if you gotta be trapped inside with someone, you two each won the “looks” lottery... Be well in spirit, mind, and body. 😎
@alcidespaes655
@alcidespaes655 3 жыл бұрын
Uma boa noite para vocês 👍 Deus os abençoe! Forte abraço! bjs
@billm6052
@billm6052 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing another glimpse in to your lives. You both are really special person. Take care and be safe! 💜❤💚💙
@jimpiper1
@jimpiper1 4 жыл бұрын
"Where's the body?"... "In the tigers!" LOL! I love it!
@RBS_
@RBS_ 4 жыл бұрын
.....yum, YUM! ....ha-HAAA!! >baybeeemytummyhurtz
@COQUIRICKY
@COQUIRICKY 4 жыл бұрын
i understand you why i'm also have panic attacks but for 8 years i have been taking medications and meditation and that make me feel much better; take care yourself and a big hug for you guys.
@SandraRegina-tl2be
@SandraRegina-tl2be 4 жыл бұрын
Me apaixono por vcs a cada vídeo é de um amor puro 😍
@benventer3546
@benventer3546 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much guys. You two are really an inspiration for me. Busy binge watching your content. Keep up the good love, friensdhip, marriage, work and everything you both do and love in this world! Much love from South Africa.
@josephfernandesjr5595
@josephfernandesjr5595 4 жыл бұрын
B : Where's the body? A: In the tiger! That part killed me 😂😂
@primrosecullen8488
@primrosecullen8488 4 жыл бұрын
Everybody is talking about tiger king...is it safe for animals lovers to watch?
@josephfernandesjr5595
@josephfernandesjr5595 4 жыл бұрын
@@primrosecullen8488 I'm not sure, I was thinking the same thing myself because I know ill be pissed if I watch it and somthing happens to the animals
@augusts1
@augusts1 4 жыл бұрын
@@primrosecullen8488 considering the main star of the show is an animal abuser & murderer I'd say no. I've not watched it but know enough about it from what others have said & interviews I've watched w/the stars of the show. Apparently the murdering & abuse of the animals (not just tigers) was far worse than shown on camera.
@silvertopaz509
@silvertopaz509 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both, your videos really help me. I enjoy write letters to my sisters. Its enjoyable to me, I still call them as well. I just like it. Please take care, you are loved by so many people around the world. Big hugs.
@Billy-dj8zw
@Billy-dj8zw 4 жыл бұрын
I had a boss who was a bully and homophobe, and who did HORRENDOUS things to me. I left my job and suffered from PTSD for many years. It was a long time until I healed and got my life back in motion.
@Steven-sm2yw
@Steven-sm2yw 4 жыл бұрын
Lucius Vorenus Congratulations on fighting that demon AND winning. Not everyone does. I know also from first hand experience how horrible it can be.
@enzomartinez8083
@enzomartinez8083 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that...those kind of people are just crap...glad to know you get your life back
@anthoinedeparis4585
@anthoinedeparis4585 4 жыл бұрын
Man we cannot accept beeing abused because of our sexuality. These kind of people must be sued. I Don't know where you live but the place where i live homophobia is punished by low.
@triryche3
@triryche3 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are (along with my parents, who made it 39 3/4 years before my Moms passing) my ultimate couple goals, warts & all. Much love, happiness, & soul repair to each of you during these troubled times
@philipferraz
@philipferraz 4 жыл бұрын
Vocês não tem receio que um leia o diário do outro? Amo vcs!!!
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Olá, Philip! Já falei pro Adam que darei um coro nele se ele encostar no meu diário. hahaha Brincadeira à parte, a gente respeita bastante o espaço um do outro. Seria muito invasivo fazer isso um com o outro. Esperamos que esteja tudo bem por aí, dentro do possível. Um grande abraço! Amamos vocês também!
@sunnymarshall2656
@sunnymarshall2656 4 жыл бұрын
The love, affection and respect you show for each other make all your videos memorable. Thank you guys for sharing your life with us. Much love to you.
@libradragon934
@libradragon934 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo: Wheres the evidence? Adam: Well, in a tiger! 😂😂😂
@jonathangrivera987
@jonathangrivera987 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to watch your video and show other how to keep healthy during this hard time we are all going through and I know it’s not easy to do that but I’m so happy now to know I’m your best fan and I hope you guys enjoy your day please don’t forget to love yourself and make memories and keep it up the good work you guys are doing I may not have my own brother or sister to share my life with but you guys are like a little family to me thank you for everything
@ningthoujamgyandash1017
@ningthoujamgyandash1017 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo is more and more hot🔥 day by day and Adam is more and more sassy🤪🥰... you two are my perfect guys.. love you xoxoxo much..♥️. Perfect pancake flip Bernardo 😋😉
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Haha, I'll take the sassy but I agree, he just gets hotter and hotter as the days pass. We love you right back. Big hugs.
@ningthoujamgyandash1017
@ningthoujamgyandash1017 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners oh my..... you make my day.... i am so excited🥰...... thank you for the reply... Biggest hug.♥️
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
@@ningthoujamgyandash1017 Thanks so much for watching and commenting. We really do appreciate it :). Two big hugs from us.
@ningthoujamgyandash1017
@ningthoujamgyandash1017 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners I have watched almost all of your videos starting from your Thailand trip to Oregon. I cried watching and listening to your wedding vows. Friendship, caring, Support, no words to describe the love you two share. Ok this is too much typing haha😂😂.. stay safe ♥️. Stay at home and make memories
@RBS_
@RBS_ 4 жыл бұрын
....he cooks, writes, has an INCREDIBLE bod, sincere, intelligent, emphatic, adorable, has GREAT skin....THAT'S not 'day to day', it's RARE, & Adam put a RING on it, the lucky, LUCKY sod! ...ha-HAA! >greatloversmakeGREATERhubbies
@vivekuppin1633
@vivekuppin1633 4 жыл бұрын
God to know that you both are well. Please do take care in these times.
@kewalpatil
@kewalpatil 4 жыл бұрын
The intro by Adam (voice) and Bernardo (words) is so poignant!!!
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much. I was just the voice of Bernardo's writing. Kudos to him and his beautiful writing.
@kewalpatil
@kewalpatil 4 жыл бұрын
I just read your explanation in the pinned post . That's like perfect teamwork!! You guys give others relationship goals!! I mean seriously....
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners 4 жыл бұрын
@@kewalpatil How kind, thank you :). Also, thanks for reading the pinned post :)
@kewalpatil
@kewalpatil 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stepsof2Foreigners There!!! I corrected my original comment!!👍☺️
@tplmic5866
@tplmic5866 4 жыл бұрын
I always love to see your next post. I love to see your interactions and how much you love each other. But what absolutely touched me today was the statement "to see the evolution in ourselves". I have never thought of this crisis as that. But it touches me. Thank you so much for posting. I have tears in my eyes when I hear you and see you. Love.
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