The Quiet Luxury Trend | Let's Discuss...

[@barbr100]

Unpopular opinion…Quiet luxury is not really a trend and has been around for decades. Someone on the internet coined the term to differentiate it from the more ostentatious or outwardly flaunting of labels or wealth. In fact, most of the true quiet luxury probably isn’t seen on social media where luxury (or anything) is rarely quiet.😂

[@cateivy9747]

This was going to be my exact comment! Quiet luxury is classy- am I the only one that thinks showy logos are tacky? If you actually have money, you don't wear that. That was created for people who want others to think they have money.

[@lachicagitana2676]

@@cateivy9747 Bravo

[@RuRuJewels]

@@cateivy9747 that’s why the cheapest Louis Vuitton are the ones with the logo all over. I don’t care, because I like the neverfull and it’s classic. But it’s true logos are for people who want others to think they’re rich.

[@LisaLisaD1]

Thank you, Barb!! Agree! 🩷 Lisa

[@jacquelinehillson9589]

People with real money don’t flash the cash , they don’t care , they have nothing to prove , especially if it’s old money, you wouldn’t even know ,especially in Europe and the uk.

[@AyH25]

This is only an internet thing. Nobody in real life cares about loud or quiet or whatever lol. It’s important to touch grass sometimes and remember what reality is and not be so worked-up

[@EmmaDee]

I owned a boutique for many years and when folks would see me out, they always assumed I had on some high end designer piece. The funniest time was when I was out of town, totally unplanned without clothes so had to go to the only open store in that town (Rue 21??). When I met people (bunch of prestigious snobs) out for dinner, in my $29 dress, they all thought it was some damn Gucci dress!😂😂😂😂. This is a true story that just goes to show how people do try to judge by a cover and they couldn’t be more wrong!!

[@pancakesandlippies3646]

Quiet Luxury isn't a trend.

[@karenwade6713]

I think of Carolyn Bessette Kennedy when I think of this style.

[@lisajan580]

She was beautiful,Rest in piece

[@JanetLiberto]

The older I get the more I’m interested in quality and classic pieces. I actually hate the word “classy.” Too many variables. It’s more about kindness, manners and how someone treats people. Someone could be dressed head to toe in designer clothes but if they aren’t kind it all doesn’t matter.

[@TheRayjane]

Great comment Janet, I agree. The heart of someone is what matters.

[@rhondablackburn3713]

So very true ☺️

[@kristenb5177]

I'm more into one of kind homemade bags / purses

[@heathergustafson4237]

Class is not head to toe designer. Your putting way too much into the word. Class is something taught for years. The clothes are a second in line

[@antoniafoster8264]

Your words are the definition of classy. Wealth and designer labels have nothing to do with class. It’s taking the best care of your self, you can, living with dignity, treating others with kindness and having manners. Those traits will get you so much further than flashy, expensive labels.

[@SugarPuffAndFluff]

Fashion is so much fun, who wants to be quiet about it? (if you love fashion) Give me frills and feathers any day, I often wish I could wear a wedding hat/fascinator to a supermarket 🤣🤣🤣but I am not brave enough, where I live no one dresses up and I often feel overdressed. I would say that my mum is "lauder" in her fashion than me and at 72 she would not be seen dead in something understated lol she probably has more clothes than me. xox Nisha

[@LisaLisaD1]

I agree!! We love our sparkles! Thank you, Nisha! 💖🥰😘 Lisa

[@sueanderson9860]

There’s our Nisha, preaching the gospel according to your own personal style. Wear what makes you feel good! That should be the only rule! Xxx

[@missglamorous2008]

You say you made this video so people wouldn't feel "less than" but how do you think you made the people feel who actually enjoys quiet luxury how you enjoy trends? Also, saying that people who enjoys that style or look likes to brag about what is they spend is wild. just like you wouldn't want people judging you for the trends.

[@rcherry762]

I honestly shop about 90% vintage. It’s well made, it’s fashionable (just look at Daisy Jones and the Six. I like Camila’s style.), it’s ecologically responsible and it CAN be cheaper (but I have even found Gucci and Halston for only a few hundred dollars. I usually top out at like $75 though if it’s a whole outfit, likes dress or jumpsuit).

[@ABeautyAddict]

I’m not wealthy but I can say I don’t like logos all over an outfit. I do buy quality pieces and material is very important to me. Also, I don’t like giving free advertising to expensive brands.😂😂😂😂

[@susanjones4954]

Exactly.

[@giaw7867]

totally agree

[@zandraperry-ogbomo6438]

Your sweet, gentle spirit comes across in all your videos. Thanks for being you and sharing your thoughts, opinions, and style. You are a blessing to those who watch.

[@MarshaColtonJohnson]

The difference is "money" times are hard and women want to still look nice but don't want to spend the money, especially single Mothers. Spending excessively these days to them is being wasteful when they have kids to raise and groceries are at an all time high! I think the quiet luxury is a way of keeping the look and saving the money.

[@donnawashburn1638]

Well said! I don’t follow trends anyway I want to look nice and comfortable! I have found awesome clothes at the thrift stores and I’ve got so many compliments! It is wasteful to spend thousands of dollars on one pair of shoes when there are starving children in this country! Love you comment! 🥰

[@staceywood7800]

Live your best life.. in Walmart or name brand. One’s worth is NOT in the clothing!!!! I Love you and God loves you 💛🌷💪

[@rhondablackburn3713]

@@donnawashburn1638 I’m wearing a complete outfit from a thrift store today! I cannot tell you how many times I’ve had a compliment on it! Also I recently wore something that I literally got dirt cheap at an end of the summer sale about 4 years ago. When I wore it two weeks ago, people were bowled over when I confided in where it came from! Then I have tank tops and sun glasses that cost more than a whole outfit I wore another time!

[@donnawashburn1638]

@@rhondablackburn3713 yes! Love this !

[@LisaLisaD1]

Good point!! I see what you mean!! 👌🏻🥰😘 Lisa

[@annetteincairns3528]

🧡💜❤️ Enjoyed this video. Thank you. I’m 72 years of age and am trendy. I love high end, old money style, bohoho and classic. I love clothing. It’s Art, is it not? ❤️💜🧡

[@judyescobedo4769]

I agree with you, fashion and beauty is creative and fun. I watch your channel because of you. I have days when I get really down and I am so glad I can turn your video on. You are so bright, happy, funny, sweet and kind. I always feel better. Thank you!😊

[@AyH25]

Quiet luxury isn’t about looking stylish. It’s about looking rich. But no matter how you dress, you can’t trick people into think you’re rich if you don’t have multiple homes and business and private plans and a lofty social network. And who cares. Who needs that? Who are you trying to fool?

[@RuRuJewels]

This is why I don’t like it! I’m not trying to look like something I’m not.

[@Gypsy3009]

So true Lisa, we shouldn’t pretend we’re someone we’re not. The trend should be ‘authenticity’ in everything! 😘

[@rebeccalandersbrown2781]

Yes! Yes! Yes! Everyone’s individuality and authenticity is what makes life interesting. One can look classy with vibrant colors and with flair as long as they reflect their own style. How sad to think people are being persuaded to tone down there personal style, much like our society is telling us to tone down our own personal opinion. Viva la difference!!!

[@maniwyatt6559]

I am sick, sick, sick of "quiet luxury"! I have had decades of the corporate world, void of personality, void of expression, void of color, peoples homes looking the same as they dress, beige everywhere as if there are NO other colors in the world; everyone in black as if they are going to a funeral, it's BORING, DULL, LIFELESS. Bring on the Boho, bring on the color, patterns and charm, bring on vivaciousness. Women use to dress as beautiful flowers now most of them just look like they rolled out of bed OR they are wearing a corporate uniform. I love your style Lisa, keep it up, you are an inspiration. The wealthiest women wear colorful trendy clothes, they don't dress to please others or their boss, they dress to please themselves cause they are BOSS, they are their own woman! You can dress your best when nobody RULES over you. Luv ya, Lisa!

[@cathycorrea541]

Hear, hear!! Preach sister, I totally agree 👍

[@dutchgirl7947]

I HEAR YA! You hit the nail on the head!!! Best comment.

[@skypastle]

I think there's a big difference in the mentality of new money vs. old money. New money loves labels, old money looks down on anything ostentatious. None of it matters to me--just do what you like!

[@elizabethgirard3625]

Both my parents are from generational wealth and I remember I made friends with this girl. Her mom didn’t have any college education and her dad was a construction worker that owned a company. That company was doing quite well. They clearly had a middle class background. I was in 6th grade. My parents tried to do things as couples/ families but my dad said they were not on the same level. Dad said we were “old money” and they were “new money” and my dad was annoyed by them. After a while Stacy started to annoy me and I quietly stopped being her friend. It got super weird at the country Club and school but… The new money v old money is a REAL thing.

[@karenhecht2342]

I wouldn’t probably recognize a designer handbag if it bit me, but I do like to look as good & put together as I can afford. I think “classy” or perhaps any other style is in the eye of the beholder. I’ve actually never heard the term “quiet luxury”, but I say to each his own. Like my grandmother always said, “pretty is as pretty does”. I think kind, open minded, open hearted people are probably pretty classy❤️

[@joliejolie6201]

Personally I do not like logos...I feel like you are a walking advertisement without getting paid. Maybe because when I worked as a model I got paid for wearing logos in photos. Nowadays in my neighborhood and also traveling (I just came back from Tahiti) I notice how people with money don't really wear logos and have this simple sophisticated style which I like...for nails, for hair, for clothes, for makeup. To me the more simple the more beautiful.

[@lizvalentyne8659]

Sorry Lisa...I love you, I love, "Your" Style" and your sweetness. You just don't get the quiet luxury. it doesn't have anything to do with where you live or who who recognizes the brands you wear. It's a mindset,good or bad, it's how you value and look at things.

[@NYEmma]

1. "I protect my peace." 2. "There is more than one way to dress classy." Both excellent points.

[@Lolaglowskincare]

I guess I was wrong with my take on quiet luxury. I thought it was like my chandeliers and furniture. I don’t have many people over because I’m private but I have those expensive things because they make me happy. I don’t tell people how much they cost. Or, my expensive perfume I spray and no one knows I paid a lot for it. When I dress like a bum at home in my ridiculously expensive sweats. No one sees me. No one knows how much they cost. But the fabric is amazing so I enjoy them.

[@SassyLittleFrassie]

Gosh you look so pretty in that orange red! And love your eye makeup!!

[@meganryan9945]

Lisa my my mother was in her 20s in the 1940s living in NYC. She only wore dresses and usually with a hat and gloves. She always said, you don’t have to spend a lot of money to look nice.

[@heatherpelley6490]

FAXXX about nasty attitudes & classless personalities. Working in health care I get to experience people at their most vulnerable, old money/quiet luxury folks serve the most dishonest & insecure lives.

[@cynthiahowe]

This makes me think of the style icon Iris Apfel. A wealthy woman who embraces with gusto the bold, fun style that she loves but also exudes class and kindness. 💖 She always says we should dress for ourselves and wear what makes us happy 🙂

[@Karen.c.h]

Everyone should develop their own style. Trends are not a personal style , but some may fit into your style. Rather than thinking of it as stealth wealth or quiet luxury consider it building an investment wardrobe. It is a style that heavily leans into impeccable fit, tailoring and quality fabrics. Doesn’t have to be stuffy but can be boring to some. Think Mark Zuckerberg very casual but those grey tshirts cost over $300. What it is not is flashy. Nothing wrong with flashy but not for me.

[@nikkilynndefilippo5756]

I’m certainly not Uber wealthy but I enjoy luxury goods. I do think I’ve toned things down the last couple years because the world is a mess and I feel uncomfortable wearing certain things at work… around clients… coworkers

[@kreeativeme]

Carolyn Bissette Kennedy comes to mind. Her style always stood out to me. I think you’re right. We should all dress (and live) in a way that makes us happy.

[@happymunchkin2812]

I’m a quiet Luxury not because of the trend. I always like to wear stuff that doesn’t show the logos unless I have no choice. I live in Orange County California and people around me seems a little bit noise and always judge and talk about someone else so I decided that what I would like to wear.

[@Connie-S]

Interesting video. Funny this subject was actually on the news the other day because Succession was ending. I could not get into that show at all. I might have to try again but not sure I really want to. Anyway, when I first started following people in the beauty/fashion community, a lot of times I was directed to people in the UK. I stopped following all three of the people I was watching. I found them to be very shallow, unlikeable, covered head to toe in FREE luxury items. One was caught lying in her photos of where she was but is still on KZbin and it kind of goes on and on and I just found myself in a yucky place so I stopped watching all of them. Luckily I found Ms. Tammy and through her Ms. Lisa. I love Angie from Hot and Flashy but I also watch a lovely 86 year old woman who does KZbin videos and rediscovered makeup. She is wonderful. I find when I stick to genuine people, they are my quiet luxury. I have felt a Chanel bag before and could understand immediately the quality of that bag. I could have squished that thing all damn day. LOL I will never own one but that is okay. I can enjoy watching people who get them get all excited and share. I am retired, 71 and I still wear edgy clothes and if I like something that is five years old I still wear it. I do not care what other people think. Anyway, it is a fun subject and I would imagine could get quite in depth if looking into older, wealthy families. Have a great day Lisa.

[@LittleMissDeeDee]

Great Video - I honestly think there are people who lack self identity and perhaps have low self-esteem which makes them cling onto any and every trend or image they feel adds to their self-worth and value. "If I appear rich, maybe people will value me." Personally, I love colour! Red, Yellow, Orange, Metallics - I love it all and it looks fantastic against my skin tone. As much as I live for a black monochrome outfit, I am not doing myself any justice wearing muted colours around the clock. The concept of quiet luxury is ridiculous in itself because those who know the brand will recognise it without logos or branded prints, and I say this as someone who went to private school and rubbed shoulders with people from wealthy backgrounds. They also wear "loud" luxury clothes or none at all. Barbour and Ralph Lauren is as luxury as it gets for some. Members of the royal family have been known to wear branded clothing and accessories - The Lady Dior bag was named after Princess Diana and has a noisy keychain attached to it - hardly quiet.

[@donnawashburn1638]

Never heard of quiet Luxury but I don’t dress to impress or get noticed or to get compliments! I do love compliments on a cheap outfits I bought at the thrift store though! Lol !

[@Brublondie1]

Great video, Lisa! I love quiet, luxury and I love Loud Luxury! I think whatever brings you joy is what you should wear! Hope you have a blessed and beautiful day!

[@vanessalambert4286]

Hi Lisa! Love love love.. your videos. Everyday I look forward to your videos, it’s not a secret you are my number 1. My #2 is Monroe Steele. My mom says she misses working because she got to dress up. Now that she is in Dialysis she dresses up and puts on different perfumes, and she says I’m going to work.😊that keeps her motivated and she makes friends. All woman need to feel the fashion vibe and be able to talk about it. Her and I talk about fashion a lot over the phone; she is in WI and I’m in PR🤭. Me I’m 56 have multiple sclerosis and arthritis so I dress up to go to gym and to my appointments and to church. I’m thinking about dressing up to be at home. When I go to the stores many people ask for my opinion on makeup, skin care, fashion style, religion and health. Oh I watch Kaye she dupes everyone’s style and I wish she would do it more often. But your idea of having all of us talk about Fashion is a terrific idea, at least once or twice a month.

[@bevmaybe2112]

You have an amazing way of expressing yourself! You seem to be totally talking off the cuff with no notes in front of you but very articulate in what you are trying to get across to your audience. How do you do that? It's awesome! Appreciate your honestly and openness. I haven't heard of Quiet Luxury either. Makes me curious to check those videos out.

[@dutchgirl7947]

Lisa is a very smart gal.

[@Nicolef888]

I had to think this through and it took me a while (I’m also the equestrian you mentioned in your vlog). Before I comment, I just wanted to say that I love your fashion style and enjoy your video posts! I don’t think ‘quiet luxury’ is new or a trend, people just like to label things. As I mentioned before, I am an equestrian and the people I hang around with people have a lot of money. Most dress in the ‘quiet luxury’ style including myself. Is this new? No. I’ve known many of these people and been riding with some of these people for 10+ years. They dressed in ‘quiet luxury’ 10+ years ago. Do I have a closet full of designer hand bags? No. Do I want a closet full of designer hand bags? No, but I have six custom handmade saddles that range from $6500 all the way up to $20k. No one would know this unless they knew something about saddles. My horse was imported from Germany, people don’t know this and I rarely mention it. Did I pay more for him than most people pay for their cars? Yes. Did I put him on a plane and fly him horse first class to the US, yes. Do I tell people this? No. I guess you can consider that ‘quiet luxury.’ For those Negative Nelly’s out there, I am only mentioning this because of the subject matter of this blog. I think people who wear a lot of flashy labels want to portray an image and tell the world either they have money or want to look like they have money. That is totally fine and if that makes them happy, I’m all for it. I don’t want to tell people anything. I am just as happy wearing my $39.95 dress from Walmart as I am wearing my $1000 t - shirt I got from Tom Ford (with no logo) about a week and a half ago. Another thing about flashy labels is that there are so many good fakes out there that I assume most people have fake designer so it has become meaningless to me.

[@EmmaDee]

Love this comment!!

[@AliseL22]

For me, there was nothing classy about what Gwyneth said to the gentleman (it came across as fake and done just for the camera). Let's be frank and remember that she is an actress (and a very talented one) and everything she did/said/wore was preplanned. Her business is image, and if here eyewear choice is any indication - she and her team are very good at what they do. As an aside I recall an interview I think was in Vogue with Bunny Williams (or perhaps an old monied socialite who I cannot recall) and she said your name should only ever be in print 3 times in your life - 1) your birth announcement, 2) your wedding announcement and 3) your death notice. Always thought that was an interesting comment. Like many women, I have always marched to my own beat and buy/wear what I truly enjoy. I will admit I work in profession that I feel needs me to dress a certain way to ensure my patients feel comfortable and that is paramount for me. In my personal life, I take some fashion finds/advice from people I enjoy (such as yourself and a few others) then make it my own to fit my style. Always be kind, be yourself and purchase whatever makes your heart sing - life really is too short to worry about what other people think. People will either like you or not and it has nothing to do with what you are wearing/driving - you can just "feel" a good person. 🦋

[@JenLong1904]

Life is short, wear what makes you FEEL good and makes you happy. Whether it’s loud or subtle! It carries over into your attitude and relationships.

[@isabelle5003]

The beauty of fashion is that it is an incredibly powerful form of self-expression.

[@Dr-Alexandria]

I don’t really consume fashion content (I’m a surgeon so I basically wear scrubs everyday) but KZbin suggested your video to me and I just had to stay and leave a comment to say I just love who you are as a person. It just radiates through the screen! You were so authentic, genuine, classy, and just everything I love and a good southern women. Thank you for being some joy in my day. I hope you have a blessed day also! I definitely think I’ll check out future videos of yours.

[@makeuplover6852]

Welcome! I am a 55 year old retired retail executive, I discovered Lisa eight years ago. Lisa is without a doubt one of the most authentic, kind, funny and incredibly intelligent women Ive had the great pleasure to meet over the years on social media. When she deciedes shes interested in a topic she somehow gains an encylopedic level knowledge around that topic which I immdiately was drawn too, well that and her very open love for her parents, her husband, her children and God. I hope when you have some time you maybe take a look around her massive library of videos, while she is definitly known for her Friday hauls of beauty and fashion the true Lisa is the smart badass who doesnt have to shout from the tree tops how smart she is, come to think of it...instead of "quiet luxury", Lisa is "quiet intelligence".

[@Dr-Alexandria]

@@makeuplover6852 I love that. Thank you for this beautiful reply. I’m definitely going to watch some of her videos this weekend.

[@Evija7]

You said it so beautifully and with grace ! You are classy and honest and those qualities are rare to see . It doesn't matter how much money is in the bank account, the way how you act will tell how rich you are . Love you, soul sister ❤️

[@Amandaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

Lovely video Lisa, embrace your stye. The Only thing I don't get is why people want to "look" rich? Shouldn't they work in their net worth growth instead of trying to look something they are not. The whole obsession about quiet luxury is just trying to look like someone else. Embrace your truth, your self, wear what you love

[@becuteforme]

It's pretty ridiculous! 😂

[@candacethompson-johnson3568]

Lisa, you look amazing always! I agree with you. Wear what makes you feel good.

[@LisaLisaD1]

Thank you, Candace! 🥰😘

[@janac2881]

I love “protect my peace”. I had to do this not long ago after a woman said unkind gossipy things about me. I had to just get myself far away I just didn’t know what to call it. Thank you Lisa. You are so kind. I love these talks. Hugs to the kitties. Jana - Texas

[@stargazerbird]

I have a few of the brands. The quality is what makes you look rich. The clothes hang in flattering ways, the fabrics are sensuous, the colours subtle and rich. Lining where needed to smooth the outline and well sewn seams, more shaping with darts. It all makes you look like a super model.

[@HollyL56]

Life is short, I personally don’t care about these types of things that go around. I think as I’ve gotten older I’ve realized it just doesn’t matter. Everyone should do what makes them feel good and be happy with who they are. We are all different and what’s important to one person, may not be to another. I think the most beautiful thing in a person isn’t what they choose to wear, but how they treat others. Lisa your style is you and you do it so well. Stay true to who you are and that’s all that matters. That’s why I always come back, because of who you are on the inside, the rest is just a nice bonus. 💜 Thank you for sharing this, it was interesting and fun.🌸💕

[@rxstrmom]

No, thank you Lisa. Thank you for being YOU! I have so much to say about the subject of this video…and it’s not about quiet luxury. We each should be and do and look exactly how we want to look and not be told in videos how not to look “frumpy” or “old” or our hair is too long. Uugg! If I did not truly know who I am and saw a video on how to not look frumpy, my first thought could be …uh oh…maybe I’m frumpy. I’m emailing you. I have so much more to say. Again, thank you. Patti 🌷🍃

[@charlottemilam2733]

I say do what and wear what makes you feel like a woman. Time is short and nothing is going with us anyways. As long as you're not hurting someone and not big time into sinful stuff, have at it.

[@cynthiaswank6678]

Lisa are materialistic women every happy..I admire your taste it keeps me from looking dumpy it reminds me at 66 its just a number.We all want to please our hubbie but it should be for us which is hard. I believe in donating what we have when we're tired of it.part of love is sharing giving.

[@angelahackbart7770]

Being true to yourself makes you classy. The world is full of posers. You do you, Lisa

[@dutchgirl7947]

I feel guilty buying myself too expensive anything, it's like im throwing money away. Im one of those who gives my money to charity, mostly animal ones. There i said it! I buy a lot my looks at Walmart or WHERE EVER and i look and feel pretty good in it too. 😂😂😂 And I love a bargin. I like looking at beauty and color, a woman all dolled up is enjoyable to look at and not boring at all. Sometimes we like to blend but not often. Like you said Lisa its being true to yourself and don't judge. It was good to see Brook's cameo. She's all grown up. Such a doll.

[@blaircharlie3630]

If something makes me feel good, it can be from Walmart, thrifting, or a high end store. I am put off by people who flaunt there money. I don’t watch the unboxing of very expensive handbags, I find it to be off putting and unattainable.

[@kimjones246]

Nope, not a quiet luxury person. I enjoy being trendy! If it’s a “limited edition” bag, I’ve GOT to have it and those are always trendy. As far as clothing goes, you have to have stupid money for quiet luxury. Like Cristiano Ronaldo money (although he wears a lot of labels). With that being said, life is too short to dress for other people. Be true to YOUR style.

[@MultiMelcat]

If you are dressing in any way SIMPLY to convey that you have the means to afford luxury items, that isn’t style. I have luxury items that don’t feel like me any more and I don’t use them, but I have some I will never stop wearing. I have some things that are from thrift stores that I love, stuff from Amazon, Abercrombie and also some things that are so expensive it could be embarrassing. I have some pieces that are “trendy” now, some so old the trend has now come back around. 😂 I’m currently living my best life at 40 loving everything I see in the malls because I wore it all in high school. Sometimes I look classy and classic and sometimes I want to look like I’m still 21. My 20 year old daughter still steals all of it no matter the cost or the designer. My one rule is that if it doesn’t feel like ME on THAT DAY, I don’t wear it. The absolute best thing a woman can wear is CONFIDENCE. I adore you Lisa. ❤

[@jdoe981]

I sometimes think the logos make the "look" of the bag, shoes, etc. So the logo becomes a part of the design itself. I have Vuitton, Burberry, and Valentino, some quiet, some not, but never tacky in head to toe logos. My rule: ONE logo showing, not forty 😂🤣

[@classylady828]

I am a combination - I have a very classic style and a very boho side of me. For some reason, I do not care about designers anymore. I used to, but I currently live in an area where no one cares. I used to live somewhere where it mattered. I am definitely not loud . . . I can take your styles and change it to mine or just not wear any of it. You can wear red - pair it with tan accessories - it is NOT boring really. OH, I beg to differ about judging people - people are always judging people on their appearance - that will never stop.

[@tristris3421]

Great video I really enjoyed it. Wasn’t quite sure where you were going with the quite luxury thing. But, I totally understand everything and agree with what you were saying. I think I am more of a quiet luxury type person. Not that if someone is wearing something that is designer and it’s got a big label on it… I looked down on them, or judge them in a certain way I accept them for what they’re wearing because that’s just their personality. It’s just not mine. Like you said we all have our own style. I have no problem carrying a Louis Vuitton, Gucci bag and I got on a Walmart shirt. I just like what I like. I don’t like wearing logos if it’s not my initials. Especially, some thing that’s going to be really prominent. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and I love your style and the fact that you wear some things that I wouldn’t wear but I still like them on you.❤❤

[@makeuplover6852]

I have been in fashion for most of my adult life, over 25 years witth another 8 focusing on a broader range of retailers and systems. I was a private shopper as a side hustle in my 30's when I was also a Dr. in a fashion company. I have always loved fashion and beauty. I grrew up fairly poor in a small farming town with only the Sears catelogue to shop from, I was overweight my entire childhood so most of my clothes my Mom made. In the summer between grade 8 and 9 I lost a fair bit of weight, I could finally wear a regular size large or a 12/14. There was one small boutique in the town where my Mother was the Librarian and I went to school. By then I worked every night, after school, all weekend, and the entire summer, so I had a good amount of money saved up. I will never ever forget the night my Mom picked me up from my job and said that Susan, the shop owner, had agreed that my Mom and I could go in and have a look after hours. I was thrilled. I remember crying in the change room as for the first time in my life I was putting on clothes that some of the "in girls" in my school where wearing. This was the 70's and Hang Ten was all the range. I remember getting a Hang Ten short set in purple, mauve matching Nike running shoes and several other things. I was over joyed. The first day of grade 9 was the first time in about 6 years I didnt have a cold sore on the 1st day of school. I developed those very young due to such high anxiety about returning to school. Fashion and our personal relationship with clothes, what and how we choose to dress is extremley personal, for a thousand reasons why. I've just shared a tiny snippet of why I have such a love affair with fashion, shopping, taking so much time and care to pick out things that make ME feel my best, not someone else, ME. The women that I did personal shopping for where Lawyers, one was a Judge and two were doctors, they despised shopping, absolutely despised it, they had very different relationships with their clothes and again, for their own personal reasons, one I will share with you. Despite being a brilliant woman who graduated top of her class and is in the top of her field she was bullied mercilessly in school for her looks, her style. She never really got over that. Clothes to her do not bring her any joy what so ever, she is so much more comfortable in the uniform required to do her job, but hey...she has to wear something, so enter a personal stylist and shopper, me. We all have a different and unique relationship with clothing and makeup and how we look, and how we feel the most comfortable in our own skin. The richest people in the world may not have any confidence in their looks, despite being able to own their own island and many homes etc. It is short sighted for anyone to think that the most wealthy people in this world have so much confidence they just want to wear "quiet" styles. Wrong. Many dress that way because in reality, all the money in the world cannot fix a lifetime of being told you are not attractive or you are not smart or you will never make it on your own. This nonsense about quiet luxury is just that, nonsense. It is just one more made up term to throw around social media, new fodder for those who think they are to good to wear a visable label and to be insufferably ostentacious about it while throwing around "quiet luxury" as some sort of superiority complex, its ridicilous and laughable. If a person have to get on social media to look down on anyone for how they choose to dress or wear their makeup, then that person needs to check the mirror. Real class is knowing when and how to keep "inside thoughts" inside, people who were either taught how to be "classy" as children or learned it along the way, already know this. Being kind is the common denominator that knows no wealth boundaries. The wealthiest people in this world are some of the most classless and some of the most empoverishd have it to spare. Thanks for coming to my unintended by not unispired, Ted Talk on the fake "quiet luxury" and what class really is, which is kindness, which costs not a single solitary cent.

[@Hollyfae]

YES! I love this! When I think of quiet luxury I think of Martha Stewart, Cape Cod, Connecticut. It's never been my style, but I love that everyone has their own thing. I LOVE your style, but some of it isn't me (in part because I'm a pale redhead and I just don't feel like myself in colorful things) but I wouldn't have it any other way. I wish everyone did their thing to the fullest. It would be so boring if we all liked the same things. 😂❤️

[@julies508]

I keep seeing videos about quiet luxury and it’s tie to old money. I don’t come from old money. I don’t care about how much money anyone has. I do like quality things but I don’t think we need to judge other people over money and labels. I think as long as you’re not being vulgar of offensive, wear what makes you happy.

[@Mariloualba]

I remmeber you mentioned in a video that you have a Stellium in Virgo with a rising in Sagittarius and it shows a lot in your fashion !! 🩷🩷

[@meggilmore2032]

Lisa, i always enjoy your chatty videos but can I just mention the editing programme you are using makes the film very jerky and spoils your normal relaxed presentation. It. Comes across as very unnatural. Sorry to criticise but it’s not so enjoyable to watch as it is distracting from the content.

[@RuRuJewels]

I don’t know why Quiet Luxury is a trend, I could care less. On the other hand I have never liked labels. I’m not rich lol, if i buy a Chanel wallet it better have a logo on it.

[@nolankylie]

I love your videos Lisa! I was wondering what type of camera do you use for your vlogs? You always look so amazing x

[@heathergustafson4237]

Honestly, luxury is not a trend or a popular thing to do. If you know quality and high end anything then you know. The people that know know, it’s nothing to point out, period. Traveling is where the shopping comes in and personal shoppers.

[@dawnsullivan192]

I love when you said you have to protect your peace. I listened yesterday to this video and that really resinated with me. I am going to protect my peace. Thanks, Lisa. You are a light.

[@tht8916]

I had no idea what "quiet luxury" meant, but I'm thinking I'm a peaceful, calm and quiet person so this may be how I've been dressing most of my life and just didn't know it...I don't like to be the person that stands out in a crowd because of my clothes, but I do like to look put together, neat and look like I care. I definitely am not trendy...nothing wrong with that if that suits you, just doesn't suit me. And I so agree with the curse words. If I click on any video and that person no matter how attractive or how interesting I thought they were, if they curse, I'm done. By the way, I love the top you have on, the color looks great on you.

[@belleboutiquebylynbella]

The “quiet luxury” trend seems to follow “old money”.

[@destinywhite6972]

Our clothes Lisa will stand the test of time we will always look stylish sexy love you girlfriend I

[@dianecourtney2724]

“ I don’t wear labels “ is a label in a way .

[@sussannekeith5676]

Logos everywhere, all the time is all about quiet desperation that be noticed, but for the wrong reasons.

[@theniknasty]

“I’m always the same person….” Gosh I just love you to death💕💕💕 I’ve been watching you forever and I just love your videos. And it’s true… you’ve always stayed true to who you are💕💕💕

[@kathydoran6176]

I really don't like to watch live videos, they are something I avoid and even if it's a favorite person, I don't like them. I think it's a perception of quiet luxury. Just saying. You're fine just the way you are.

[@lisafalcon4286]

I agree...people should be who they are and be happy with themselves. I would consider my style very ordinary...a nice pair of slacks with a bodysuit...I always feel beautiful when I wear these things. People are all different and that is what makes this world so beautiful. Great video Lisa❤🌹Thank you.

[@raspberrykissable]

We’re all different! I am young but I am all about quiet luxury. I have been this way my whole life. It’s my style. I enjoy quality. I do not like name brands all over me. I am not a billboard. Shopping I’m Italy I found so many quality pieces with no name. Just what I like 😊

[@NCGirl9ify]

Others may be and look more classy, but you are WAY more fun! Love you and your style!❤❤❤

[@sandrag6500]

Others may be more conservative and Lisa is always classy. Crazy but classy! Hehe

[@considergoodthings7749]

I’ve learned in my life to be true to ME…. I wear what makes ME feel beautiful. What others think of me is not my business ~ however my joy is my business. There’s no joy in trying to please others when it goes against my true self. I choose ME.

[@SharrellKline]

I like Gwyneth but I guess I'm not a fan of classic luxury because I felt like her fashion during that trial was as ugly as the Olsen twins dress, like a homeless person with ill-fitting garment s from Goodwill.

[@lailapapin6487]

Wonderful video Lisa!!!

[@meglane1907]

Live and let live, to each his own, etc. Fashion delights with possibilities and choices. Different fabrics, price points and styles offer an abundance of whatever it is that floats your boat. It’s just so much fun to let fashion help you be you. And maybe a different you sometimes!😘

[@angelaforbes1882]

You can't take anything with you.

[@christinadaggett6024]

I watch your channel, because although I have a different style from yours, you inspire me to be my best authentic self.

[@barbaraioanna9214]

Amen Lisa!! I understand the concept of quiet luxury...and I wish people well in whatever statement they wish to make....as long as it doesn't disclude someone else. And.. I fear on some cases, this aesthetic does when touted by certain individuals. I applauded when you referenced being kind and classy and "quiet luxury" INSIDE. Treat people with grace and respect. I too get conflicted with the quiet luxury issue as I am also a creative person and just like what i like..especially at 52 years young. Keep up the FABULOUS content. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@stephanieburris]

You are class, class, class inside and out. Thank you for reminding us to be the best version of ourselves, quiet luxury or not.

[@LisaLisaD1]

Thank you so much, very nice! 🥰 Lisa

[@allison4227]

I love how you mention to protect yourself it is very wise to guard our hearts. It all starts inside.❤ thank you for your wisdom. Very refreshing video clip. 🎉

[@BethInstaNow]

I agree with you 100% I love your style and you as a person which is why I’ve followed you for so many years.

[@janicejune]

You are so articulate in how you speak. I love it. 🥰 All very good points, and all things I have thought, but you just made it make sense. I was also raised middle class. I have never thought negatively about money. For me, I strive to always work hard and make more. It makes me feel good. I get bored if I am not working. No matter what it is. Whether at home cleaning or putting items on Poshmark, or going into the office to work. I love making money. My friends have different opinions about it, but that speaks to their experiences. I do not let it affect me. To each their own.

[@367Play]

Best not to try to “be” anything other than ourselves. Whatever that looks like. We’ll evolve-and that’s interesting and fun (and humorous in retrospect). New terms most often are not new ideas. Sometimes the conversation around them are taken way to seriously. I’m with you, #1 just be yourself.

[@honiib7328]

I personally don’t think this trend is NOT going to last long. Ppl are going to buy what they want .. no matter what..

[@tamitigner264]

Thank you for sharing, I truly appreciate your discussion videos and sharing with us your authentic self! Each season of our lives is a learning curve and comes with new discoveries. I am learning to be my authentic self and it’s being noticed by those around me. There will always be fad terms like “quiet luxury.” However, no matter what is “in” we should be raising each other up, no mater what style choices one makes. Like the saying goes “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.”

[@carolineirvin7105]

Well said Lisa!!!! I couldn't agree with you more!!! My mom and sister dress more in a classic manner and I am more trendy🤗. I have fun with my clothes and it is a frelection of my personality. We have the same taste. I bought those pink cargo pants from zara and am loving them.!!!! It's best to be yourself.

[@danielastoyanov2998]

Great content Lisa! You’re my favorite stylish gal out there and I’m so glad that you’ve been recognized finally with more subscribers for your great taste, personality and graciousness! Of course , I can go on and on❤❤❤ I really liked your interview last night with “5 Minute Body”. Yes, girl I’m on carnivore for the last 8 months and feel amazing! It’s all because of you!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I would love to see another video of you on carnivore! Much love❤️🥰❤️

[@-sismeistere1343]

The most beautiful outlook on life and style Lisa! But I already knew you have the biggest heart♥

[@artikarna3377]

I love that your style personality is so varied and broad and that you own it. Their is nothing wrong with being trendy! You are so right it’s just another style, just like minimalism- neither is better than the other. It’s just what feels good and fun for you.

[@farialaziz1620]

Love the color of your dress !

[@SherryBaby1107]

The mindset changed so much due to social media and celebrity in my opinion…imitating the style of the latest Tik Tok trend which at the moment is “quiet luxury “ tomorrow it could be something totally different! Most wealthy have clothes personally tailored not purchasing on line or shopping in department stores because as you stated the quality of fabric and the fit are of the upmost importance! I think as individuals especially of our generation we are going to dress exactly as you stated with what makes us feel good whether it’s trendy neutral or a mix of both and I think that as long as your clothes are clean pressed and you feel confident and comfortable wearing them then your going to feel luxurious no matter what label is in your collar😘

[@GinaR96]

Love your videos. I can tell just by watching your videos that you have the sweetest soul. Love how genuine you are❤

[@dutchgirl7947]

She does.

[@becuteforme]

My style is patchwork and bright pink and yellows! I guess I'm not part of that world, ha ha!