The Rainbow Bridge, Animals in Transition | Joan Ranquet | TEDxWilmingtonWomen

[@everyone8043]

When my sister was dying of cancer, she began to see her beloved deceased yorkie roaming the house. Then her husband saw him too. I believe her dog came to guide her home.

[@everyone8043]

@Maria Bykofsky I'm sorry for your losses. I can relate. Over the years I have rescued many senior dogs, rewarding but painful. Bless your dear heart.

[@chrissyp3065]

I'm so sorry about your sister. I had a friend who was in hospice dying of cancer and when I visited him to say goodbye, he asked me if I saw his dog at the front desk. His dog had passed about a year before him. I do believe that our pets are in our heaven waiting for us. I just lost my cockapoo last friday and so this thought gives my broken heart some hope. God bless.

[@everyone8043]

@@chrissyp3065 I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what I would have done throughout my life if it wasn't for the companionship of animals. They seem to know who you really are and love you regardless of flaws, in a way that most people don't.

[@YasmineSNunez]

My mom saw our first cat in the house after it’s passing. My second cat stayed about two weeks sitting on my lap and meowing into my ear to wake me up after it’s passing. It made me realize that the energy of the animal (soul) never dies, just the body.

[@everyone8043]

@@YasmineSNunez Powerful! Love is also eternal.

[@sparqule]

I lost my dog 2 nights ago. I feel so completely broken, and it just hurts so much. I miss her every single day. opening the door to my house and not seeing her come and greet me makes my heart hurt. I really do believe that she's in a better place, but I just miss her so much and I wish I could bring her back.

[@dankinder5139]

I also lost my dog 2 days ago and I still can't stop crying. She was only 7 years old and to think my neighbor took her life with a bullet to the chest sickens me. I'm so distraught I can't even sleep or eat. This is my first loss, my first death and I don't know how to grieve

[@nygal5689]

Dan kinder I am so sorry for your loss, I understand what you are going through. I just lost my 16 year old fur baby and today was unbearable having to find out how to cremate and move her. This dog had been with me for over half my life. The unconditional love BOTH our babies gave us is something we can never forget. If you need someone to talk to, I am here to listen. I know you loved your dog as much as I loved mine. I am so sorry someone took your baby away, but I know this is something we can both make it through.

[@Yanie313]

I lost my doggy a week ago. She was my first dog and lived for 13 years and was my best friend. I’m just so sad. Exactly what you described 😔

[@nygal5689]

Esme I just lost my very first dog of 16 years on Wednesday and I am absolutely heartbroken. I completely understand your pain as I am currently going through it right now. If you need anybody to talk to, even though I am a stranger, I am here for you. Just reach out if you want to talk. I am so sorry for your loss 😞

[@iscopeopps-hxte-8533]

mari’s makeup corner pls talk to me about it because I just lost my dog

[@carloshathcock5333]

I would gladly give up some of my lifespan to my dogs, so they could live longer.

[@LaceFX]

Same. That’s amazing

[@Timeira]

I would give my whole life span to sweetie(my puppy)

[@emke9326]

Same here

[@aml-zq5mc]

I would shave off years of my life just to hold my dog again.

[@vegmonster8757]

It is said that by remembering our pets and living a long life we give them a measure of eternity they could never have dreamed of. My 1st dog still lives, though she's been gone for 45 years. A place in my heart to which she roams freely no matter where I am or how long the time has been. Your dogs are alive, in you heart and memory, and so are mine.

[@sohooded]

I am 81 years old and my 13 year old cat was euthanized today. We have been a family for 10 close years. We loved each other and were inseparable. I am in so much pain, miss him so much, I am hoping I will heal.. I am grateful for videos like this. .

[@JacquelineRogers]

I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful cat. I understand your pain and wish you so much peace

[@patriciaschuster1371]

So sorry. I am 71 and like I said, my two birds passed within days of each other. Think the second missed the first too much. I know a little of how you feel. You are in mybprayers.

[@lucasbaldridge9407]

My heart goes out to you, and I hope you have been able to heal from your loss. God bless✨

[@pennydubose9867]

I hope you are doing better now. I lost my sweet kitty to a dog attack one month ago, and I’m heartbroken. I’m slowly getting better. I still cry most days, it just wells up out of nowhere, but it isn’t happening quite as much. The raw pain is diminishing, but I feel bruised and sore. I miss her terribly, and believe me, I know how you feel. I hope you are healing, and maybe someday you can love another cat again and let it love you. ♥️

[@dorothywalters7448]

So sorry for your loss. My baby of 11 yrs died Monday, but he was so very sick and his symptoms finally slipped through his stoic personality. We'll love them forever. Peace soon my friend

[@Yves-i8i]

I just want him back, he was my everything, I wish I could go back in time.

[@julilla1]

It's so hard, isn't it? I've been thinking that if I had it all to do over again and I knew I would feel this much pain when we adopted our kitty, would we do it again? And I say yes. Every moment of joy he brought us was worth it.The pain we have now is worth it for all the love he gave us.

[@teslasulu6305]

I understand. here's a hug. hold it as long and hard as you need

[@Johuraldn]

I lost my cat Rocco last year October it’s finally been a year. I miss him soo much. He was on his way home when he got run over by a car, I live on the main road. It’s my fault I let him go out. He was coming home to me. He wanted me to pet him but it was too late. He can’t anymore. I’m Muslim so inshallah when I go heaven I’m gonna ask Allah for my animals back. And apparently in heaven you can customise anything. I know Rocco would want big paws 😂😂 so I’m gonna ask God to make him enormous😂🫶🏼 my tiger!!! inshallah

[@erinmcnamara7603]

it's what I keep saying, I just want her back.

[@Random_Patriot]

I lost mine this week. I get it. I've been begging the universe to wake me up from this nightmare. It hurts to even breathe.

[@PaulYorkandBabyVegan]

I have had this experience too. It's true that animal-human relationships are far deeper than most human-human.

[@michelemcguire8995]

My daughter Amber who's never had children or ever married..knows all to well..how her cats meant n to her... Elliott lived three years longer then his brother ..it was intense..when they passed.. although she's looking vto get two more from the humane society..she's still greiving them.. because to her they were her CHILDREN..

[@theresistance3818]

@@michelemcguire8995 yes, me too... You NEVER get over the loss of a child, even if they are canine.

[@theresistance3818]

Dogs love us in ways that human beings are incapable of

[@-lost-417]

@@theresistance3818 And not only dogs.

[@chriscoleman6411]

I agree with that statement 100%

[@mariamshah7026]

I lost my cat Leo five days ago and am currently severely depressed. I’m an introvert who barely leaves the house so we would spend every second together. Life isn’t the same without him. My room feels empty and so does my heart. He taught me to love animals and it was only after I got him that I developed an insane love for animals and began rescuing them. Thank you for making me a better person Leo. God knows I don’t have that sort of connection with any human being. Until we meet again best friend, I will never forget u.

[@mircat28]

Volunteer with the SPCA or animal control or a local rescue and be a foster home to honor the memory of your pet.

[@mariefc8504]

My heart is with you. I just lost my beloved cat today, she was 17. I have been sobbing all day. But I can tell you this. Your heart WILL make room for the grief you feel, and you will love another companion. They are Angel among us. Give it time, open the door to another wee one that is waiting for you. Blessings to you, we will get through this.

[@mariamshah7026]

Marie Field-Carpenter thank you so much for the love and kindness, I wish you comfort and peace ❤️ time heals all wounds, I hope in time you will find the courage to deal with the loss as well ❤️

[@mariefc8504]

Miriam, thank you. ❤❤❤

[@audreydayton7042]

I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Wishing you so much peace at this time.

[@jennytaylor3324]

"It's just a cat" It's the loneliest thing when you're freshly grieving your lost friend, and there's no one around to take it seriously - to 'hold space' for you. That happened to me when my 6 year old stray cat died of acute renal failure. I sat and sobbed for hours in another part of the house while my uncle and brother made small talk with each other only a few rooms away. Neither of them once checked on me. I don't know if they genuinely didn't get it, or where just too cowardly to deal with me in the state I was in. Hard to forget. This was a really important talk for me to hear.

[@speakeasydoorman4966]

Jenny....lost my cat "Splash" yesterday 7/27/2019...... a rescue cat from a forest fire in Sept. 2008/Oregon They are so much more than "just a cat" Some guys get it......some don't Your kitty is in a place of joy They are Lions made just for us, amazing animals beyond what most people know Keep in in mind that you gave love,care & respect to a soul that most likely would have never had Think of the joy you gave to your little one, you made a loving difference That is a key point in life.......you made a loving difference, their existence mattered because of you Hold your love for them always, you will be with them again

[@dflores1790]

Jenny, some people don’t know how to deal with such pain and suffering of another person. They may have cared but didn’t know what to say. Maybe they didn’t want to make it worse for you, or say something that would hurt you. Let that go, and don’t carry that bitterness with you. You’ll see your sweet cat again.

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

I understand.Don't ever let anyone undermine your relationship with your cat. I can love my cats no matter what! Not so with humans.

[@chb8982]

I literally just lost my cat, Ebby today due to the same reason. I am still crying right now even after watching this wonderful talk. Ebby was my only best friend because I would always take him with me, into my room and just talked to him about my problems. Now that he’s gone and I didn’t even get to say my last words to him, I am feeling so much worst than i have ever felt before. ☹️😭

[@jennytaylor3324]

@@chb8982 I'm so sorry for your loss, honey. I have a similar relationship with my present cat. I hardly see anyone,irrespective of any global 'lockdowns', so he's probably more important to me than he should be. He's always there. My old cat, who died felt like my only and best friend. We loved each other, and losing her at 6 was the worst grief I think I've ever been through. This is only my opinion, but I think if you can think about the bit of yourself you were able to access in Ebby's presence, you might be able to better understand your grief, and what it's made up of. What I missed about my cat was that I was able to access the pure, soft child part of me, that no one else sees, and I think losing her made me feel cut off from that connection to ME. What I'm saying is that I think some of the grief is about the animal, and some about how much we are hurting all the time, and the cat gave us the space to connect with ourselves, if that makes sense? It's way too early for you to want to do this, but I think, when you are ready, a wonderful way to honour Ebby would be to adopt a stray cat from a shelter. I was lucky, because my 6 yr old cat who died was trying to get us to adopt her when my old 24 yr old cat died! She'd been hanging around in the garden for months, and my old cat hated her! The last thing I wanted was to let in a new cat, but you know what, she helped me heal, and I knew I was helping her by letting her in to our family and giving her a home. For now, know that Ebby's love is always there in your heart. he is safe and well, and he's so thankful to you for giving him a loving, safe home, when some cats never have anyone to care for them their whole lives. Don't fear your sadness. No matter how much it hurts, stay close to your child self and listen to what he/she has to say. It WILL get better with every passing day. Trust me. And one day in the near future you will be sent another cat who needs your love. Is here anybody you can talk to about it? If so, talk to them, or just tell them how bad you feel. It will help. Take care tonight, and be kind and patient with yourself. : )

[@chynnhowe]

I lost my golden yesterday. Honest to god I had a stronger bond with him than some of my own immediate family members. I didn’t even know you could fall in love with a dog until I met him. He changed my life and he showed me real unconditional love. I will miss him deeply until the day that I die.

[@jennymanker6478]

Just lost my malinois Thursday and your words covered my feelings.

[@chynnhowe]

@@jennymanker6478 I am so so sorry. It’s an indescribable pain. Nothing can replace them. It’s been 2 months so far and I still miss him so much and think of him a million times a day. I will say that the pain eventually does become more manageable especially if you have a good support system. For now, don’t blame yourself or think you’re crazy for drowning in the grief. It’s perfectly natural and understandable. You will always miss them but you will make it through. Again, my heart is with you and I hope our dogs are playing together on the other side❤️

[@margaretmanzer2194]

ours will be put down on Saturday we are absolutely devastated. On Wednesday she would have been 14. I am so sorry for your loss and pain.

[@karissakline6765]

Our dog was just diagnosed with cancer of the spine and the prognosis is not good. I feel like I need to be strong, but I also feel like I am a puddle on the ground. I have to face his mortality and never imagined it being right now, this soon. He is a pillar for me and has been with me through thick and thin…he hasn’t technically died, but seeing him in pain and not himself makes me feel like he already has. The pain is unbearable, but what choice do we have if we choose the lifetime love of a pet?

[@karissakline6765]

@@margaretmanzer2194 I’m so sorry Margaret. We are facing the same right now…I pray you are in a better place today.

[@edward9099]

My dog crossed the rainbow bridge 3 days ago. 🌈 The complete devastation I’m feeling is indescribable. I felt like a piece of me was lost that day. 11 1/2 years wasn’t long enough. But the love and joy she brought to my wife and I made me a better man and our family stronger. I just miss her so much, idk what to do 💔💔🥺

[@edwardzhou8590]

i’m so sorry. I lost my best friend, superstar and amazing soul Frankie yesterday. I relate with you completely. After the euthanization I was in denial, disbelief, shock, and devastation all at the same time. it was a truly traumatic experience. It brings me comfort know these animals fulfilled their purpose, and down the line we WILL see them again. But for now we have to live their dream of happiness and light for them❤️❤️

[@andrewjennings3493]

i know how you feel i just lost my cat she was my daughter i don’t care what people think i loves her as much i loved my own flesh and blood. does it get easier?

[@KH-nt7ej]

​@@andrewjennings3493Yes, eventually but don't rush things. It is different for everyone.

[@aaronphillips2728]

Sorry for you your loss even know it's been 6 months ago. Your blessed to have that amount of time you did. Its never long enough man. Just lost my dog of 9 years..I'd kill to have even a week more. But I'm blessed to even known my baby

[@edward9099]

@@aaronphillips2728 Thank you man! Ugh, so sorry for your loss. That as to be hard! 💙

[@Priya-lz8id]

I really do believe that pets go to the Rainbow Bridge once they pass on. Last year me and my parents had to put our dog down. I remember on our way to the vet, there was no rainbow in the sky. But shortly after he was put to sleep, I remember seeing a rainbow in the sky appear after. I'd like to believe that's where he went. I miss him every single day, and know that we'll reunite again :')

[@kirrasdad]

That literally just happened to me. On my way home from dropping her body off I saw a double rainbow

[@cherokeeheartct8633]

@@curtislarry540 I just lost my baby she was a yorkie and she was 14 she passed in my arms I miss her everyday

[@elizabethlinsay9193]

Please believe that that's where he went. He is looking down on you every minute and will be there for you when the time comes. I believe this. God bless you both.

[@dflores1790]

Oh my gosh! I had to say goodbye to my sweet Dachshund two days ago. It almost killed me. The next day, while driving home from work, I was stopped, waiting for the light to change. There was a motorcyclist in front of me looking off to the right, up at the sky, and he was pointing upward. I thought it was pretty weird, and I couldn’t figure out what he was doing. As I inched closer I could see he was pointing at a rainbow and it hadn’t even rained! I told my husband “There must be moisture in the air for there to be a rainbow.” I had no idea what the rainbow bridge was at that time, and after reading your comment, for some reason that incident just popped into my head. God used the rainbow for a specific sign. Now I believe that was God, letting me know not to worry...He has everything under control. My Sadie is in the hands of her Creator. Wow. Just had to share that!

[@Marciusha]

My dog was in such a bad condition but when the vet came home to stop his suffering he wailed his tail. He liked that vet, he knew this vet only wants him to be happy, i hope he is now. We sat next to him and it looked like he didn't feel any pain, he just got into a deep sleep...we hugged him and kissed him before we burried him in our garden...i still can't believe it, it was yesterday 😭

[@Blahhhblahhhblahhhhh]

i just lost my dog. watching this for some kind of help because i miss him desperately

[@victoriacampbell5877]

Just lost my cat today....looking for comfort......

[@hawks7897]

Same here. I lost her yesterday. 😭

[@marleydhdhevhs9315]

my dog just died about 40 minutes ago. i feel y’all

[@JOHNSONT100]

@@marleydhdhevhs9315 So sorry for your lost. I just lost my six month old dog today

[@rolandosoliza7485]

Just lost my dog 2 days ago, didn't imagine it would feel this bad...

[@MarkCordell]

My cat Lacey was euthanized today. She was the love of my life and we did everything together. I would not travel unless she could come with me. Summer vacations were planned with her in mind. I walked home from the vet and cried the entire way. Twenty blocks through Manhattan with tears and an empty carrier. I am sure people who saw me put two & two together and knew what happened. I know loss and mourning but this is different. This grief is so profound and I cannot even begin to describe what I feel.

[@Vewtle]

Oh my god I'm, I'm so sorry. My dog, his name is Ozzy, within the timespan of 6 hours he had gotten so sick from cancer, we had to euthanize him. This happened yesterday, one minute he was fine, the next he was about to drop down and croak. That isnt an exaggeration. He was like my left arm, in the sense that he followed me and my mom anywhere we went. I know how it feels, you can't even describe in words how much you love that pet. Just something as simple as bumping into a bowl can lead to an outburst of tears, right? But, in the words of my dad, dont frown because it's over, smile because it happened.

[@dummythicc3732]

@@Vewtle you are so strong. My dog passed away today and she was also my best friend. We will get through this. You and I got this.

[@Vewtle]

@@dummythicc3732 ❤

[@countzero5150]

My dog Damon had to be euthanized yesterday afternoon. I knew it was coming, time finally caught up with him and he was deteriorating rapidly. But I wasn't ready for it, no matter how much I told myself I was. It was all I could do to hold myself together long enough to make it to my car. When I got home it was worse. My entire life revolved around him being part of it. We were never apart for more than a couple days over all the years I had him. Everywhere I look, every little thing reminds me of him. It was worse today, coming home from work and for the first time he's not there to greet me, I can't go into the living room to pet him and ask if he was a good boy while I was gone. I keep looking to where he would be in the room without thinking before I remember that he isn't here anymore. Everytime it's like having a peice of your soul ripped out. Like there was a hole in me that he filled that's empty now and I feel hollow inside. The grief comes in waves, one minute I'm fine and the next there's some little thing that reminds me of him and I can barely hold it together long enough to get out of the room. Part of me doesn't want to remember because it's so painful and part of me wants to remember every little detail and feels guilty for ever thinking that in the first place. All I can offer to anyone who is also going through this right now is you aren't alone in your grief and maybe just in knowing that, the burden of it isn't quite so heavy.

[@Hypnohealersarah]

I’m so sorry, I hope your heart has healed now. Pets are so special and irreplaceable. ❤️🌈

[@vijeevaraj8833]

Reading these comments brings me comfort knowing I’m not alone in losing my best friend too... he was with me for 15+ years and I miss him dearly... We’ll all see our fur babies again one day ❤️

[@desireebryant9523]

Sorry for your loss I just lost my Rottweiler had him 11 years I miss him a lot

[@karissakline6765]

@@desireebryant9523 hope you are in a better place friend. We are facing cancer with our boy rn, it brings comfort that others understand this pain and loss. You are not alone ❤

[@zackfair6791]

@@karissakline6765 I wish i had a chance to fight cancer with my cat because i think i had a good chance of curing her...but the vet killed her before that could happen. Devastated.

[@cobusthuynsma9541]

I lost my dearest King Charles Spaniel Snoekie on the 21 Of January 2021at the age of 11 years. She was my whole life, the reason why a woke up every morning. She slept every night on her pillow next to my head. Even though se wasn't well for the past year she never showed that and always pulled through regardless of all her health issues she had. The void she has left in my heart is so painful that no word can describe how a feel. I feel broken, pain, anger and always thinking that what if we have done that or that? Thanks for this lovely video, the grief would take a lot of time but nice to feel some comfort after watching this. Rest in peace my dearest Snoekie, I will love you for always and ever one day we will meet on Rainbow Bridge.

[@lucerobarona2511]

I lost my dog 13 hours ago. I feel like my heart is on fire. He died in my arms and I was so lucky that I could say goodbye. I’m still in shock, but I know that he is on heaven and I will see him again. I love you Bobby Benny and thank you, it was my privilege and my honor to be your best friend 2019|2022

[@rileyrauch9710]

it’s been four months and i can’t stop crying every single night

[@karissakline6765]

Our boy was just diagnosed with cancer, I am so sorry for your loss and hope we can both be in a better place soon.

[@jesse_-]

I am sorry for your loss. It will get easier, especially if you get a new pet to focus on. That said, you will never forget. I have lost many cats and dogs over the years, and I think about all of them quite frequently, and it make me cry. I just lost one of my 3 dogs yesterday, and I have probably cried 100 times since Monday, when I made the appoint for the vet to come to my house and euthanize her. I am heartbroken, but I saved her from a horrible life and gave her the best life any dog could possible have. She was a very special dog and I will miss her immensely. The good thing is with our pets, we will meet again, and when we do, we will be together for eternity.

[@christopherclark5604]

I'm sorry. I hope it's getting easier. You'll see your friend again.🙏

[@LOGOS_Official]

It’s been a year and I still can’t get over it.

[@tanujsharma4406]

​@@karissakline6765 my cat cherry was murdered by some morons because she was haunting something, love of life was cruely hit by sticks. My cat was stray kitten who was left by her mom. we adopted her, she was 4 months old . seriously i wish i cud give her my life . she loved everyone .

[@zoejofeh9811]

My family had to suddenly put my 11yo cat to sleep 4 days ago. The grief is like nothing I've ever experienced, worse than for any person I've lost in my life. I love my boy more than anybody else in the world. He's the love of my life. It's a physical and emotional grief more powerful than I can explain. I'm sharing sympathy with anybody going through the same devastation.

[@nguyenthixuannguyen7275]

We lost our cat yesterday and I feel exactly the same. My whole world falls apart. I dont know if I can ever be trully happy again without him - my baby Krupke.

[@ThePlutonicWay]

​@@nguyenthixuannguyen7275 I lost my boy, my beautiful cat on Monday. It feels so empty without him. I loved that little being so much.

[@JMBuLLeTCL]

:((

[@abbyleyden187]

@@ThePlutonicWay i lost my cat on saturday, he was my little baby boy, made it to 14 but it’ll never be enough time. i’m sorry you’re going through this but just know that they are in a happier place than we could ever even imagine. even though it’s hard find comfort in the fact that they had a wonderful life and i truly do believe you will be reunited with all those amazing bonds when your time is right

[@ThePlutonicWay]

@@abbyleyden187 thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss and I feel your pain. I was in such a daze the first few days. I believe that too, truly and the strangest thing happened the night before last. I was wide awake in bed and I heard him meow, loud and clear as day. It sent goosebumps all over me but i knew it was him saying he's still with me and telling me I'll be alright. He was always such a spiritual cat, we used to get this knocking from the flat above after that neighbour was taken into hospital. Two knocks, always loud, always intentional and at night. Donny, my cat, started scratching at the door to let him out so that he could sit outside that flats front door. I knew it was something I couldn't understand but didn't realise why. It was only when the neighbour came back and told me his mom's ashes (she had recently passed) had been taken there whilst he was in hospital, that it made sense. After they were reunited the knocking stopped and Donny stopped sitting outside the door. He was reassuring her that it was okay, he was such a beautiful soul. So I know, he would have no problem reaching out to me and it was lovely to hear his meow the other night. They are incredible and we will see them again, meanwhile they're having the time of their afterlives!

[@sunnytian4551]

We have just lost our fur boy yesterday. I am here to read everyone's comments to get comforts. My heart is in such a constant pain that is so hard to bear! 💔

[@TheYazmanian]

We buried our boy on Monday and I don't know what to do with myself. For so many years I took great care of him and then he became quite sick the last 8 months and my whole life revolved around taking care of him

[@sunnytian4551]

So sorry for your lost! I am with you. It is so hard to deal with. What helped me is I went to animal shelters to start foster animals. It helped me with contine my daily routine. I know it's not the same as our lost one, but to share our love to our lost one with the animals inneed from the shelter and give them a comfort place to stay has gradually brighten my life. It didn't take me long to end up adopted one of my own. My pain has eased by welcome a new family member.

[@royalpeachzen3204]

I lost my beloved baby 5 hours ago and I haven't stopped crying since. I feel so empty and lost.. the house feels so empty without his presence, every corner I turn to I could imagine him just playing not caring about the ruthless people outside..my baby so innocent and pure he was only 6 month old and yet he was taken from us so soon. My baby wherever you are right now please know that I love you very much and I am very sorry I failed to protect you. Fly high my baby.

[@molly5262]

I am so very sorry for your loss. It is sooo very painful. My heart goes out to you 💜

[@paulaschroeder2193]

I lost my pug Buster 43 yrs ago. I'm still not over it. I feel guilty...thinking I could have done more for him. I've not had a pet since then. I just can't endure that pain again. ....Not another pet could ever take his place. I pray for everyone who is going thru this unbearable loss and pain. ,GOD BLESS.❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@terminatorx2545]

Ive lost many humans in my life but it hurts extra bad when your animal buddy dies.

[@LePetitChatNoir79]

Terminator X I’m relieved I’m not the only one. I’ve never grieved this hard over a person.

[@kkdream99]

It’s very different yes, I too have lost both humans and today I lost my animal, this is just unbearably painful, I truly feel suicidal

[@nicoleedwards4310]

It really does. 😔

[@mariebrandt7694]

Losing our beloved ones, either people or fur babies is just horrible, but losing my fur angel this year broke my heart the worst way. And it still hurts a lot. It was worse than losing people. I thought it was just me.

[@juliestewart3031]

Yes, this is true for me as well. My cat died 3 days ago, and I've not stopped crying. When a family member died, I did not cry like this. Strange...I accepted that, but having a harder time accepting my Cat's death...hmmm.

[@marianaptks9933]

It's been 4 months and i'm here bawling like a baby. She waited for me to come home. So we could say goodbye to eachother. That's love.

[@Mr11damien11]

My baby just died 8 hours ago and Ive been holding him in my arms since until the morning we take him to get cemeted. My heart is gone with him, he's my soul my everything

[@kpaxian6044]

My baby passed yesterday. I am heartbroken. :( Sending you love.

[@sharonschlegel3960]

My yorky Chico left me to cross the rainbow bridge 2 weeks now. I am so happy to have started a pet cemetery in 1984 so I am fortunate enough to visit my last 4 loves of my life each & every day. Planting flowers, saying prayers to each one gives me such peace. God bless my babies....Amen

[@Thenosferatu1900]

My sweet sweet cat of 18 years died yesterday. I miss her so much!! 😢

[@celladoor9696]

My dog crossed the rainbow bridge two days ago, words can’t express how much it hurts to have lost my 13 year old best friend 🌈💜😓

[@Kellacroix]

I’m going through this now

[@celladoor9696]

@@Kellacroix I’m so sorry💜 It’s hard, but knowing your best friend is not hurting is what helped get me through a lot of the grieving; not a day goes by that I Don’t think about him but just have peace knowing they’ll be waiting for you whenever we cross over our “rainbow bridge” My heart goes out to you!!!

[@gabrielamendoza842]

My dog passed away yesterday after 13 years. It was very traumatic. I watched him suffocate to death in our front yard at 6 in the morning. I’m destroyed

[@Kellacroix]

@@gabrielamendoza842 oh… I’m so sorry to hear :( heartbreaking. What’s your pets name? Ive been praying for people and their pets. The only thing I can think is how grateful I am that I was lucky enough to have that selfless love. They are so much more worthy of love and they would love us though anything. Try to hold yourself in light and hope… light of the love and hope that we will see them again.

[@tantalos60]

I lost my best friend 4 days ago. She loved without reservation. Decided that when I die her ashes will be mingled with mine. I hope you are doing well...I'm not doing so well. I'm 62. Her life was a frction of mine in time spent. She loved a lifetime.

[@iknowwhatyoudidlastsummer6813]

I'm so glad I found this. Lost my 19 year old cat yesterday. I've lost my child, since I can't have "children" he has filled any hole I thought my life would have. I can't believe he is physically gone. I'm beyond heartbroken

[@FRANCESCA01234]

Im very sorry for your loss. It is horrible.

[@jbar_85]

Me too. Our little Rylie of 15.5 years. Had to go on the Rainbow Bridge. I’m so upset.

[@nancyrubio5969]

Omg i am so sorry. 💙 I hope you are feeling a little better. I just lost my furr companion 3 weeks ago. I'm beyond heartbroken. I feel your pain. It's harder than people understand.

[@cici5904]

I’m so sorry for your loss💔🖤. I just lost my Jake who just turned 12 today. All the sudden stopped eating and drinking and using litter box.. well today I had to put him down. It was the hardest thing I ever did and I’m heartbroken! 💔altho he was in pain with cancer( happened in two weeks time)and I’m still in shock . I know he’s crossing rainbow 🌈 bridge today but it does not make the excruciating pain any easier .Sending prayers💙🙏💎🤍 of healing to all dealing with this . Someone said to me today it’s not a person Just a cat and this enraged me. II said this was My angel and my baby and ii don’t have kids .. he was my baby 🐱💗 how dare someone belittle the love and connection you had with your pet. We need to talk more about This in. Society!

[@chibi0025]

@@nancyrubio5969I am sorry for your loss... I lost my cat yesterday. I have so much guilt as this happened suddenly and while I was away.. My heart is really heavy. She loved me unconditionally and she had been there for me during my hard time in life... I don't know how to go one with my life... I feel so lost

[@bettylopez6709]

I am grieving and that is so true . people tell me its just a dog. But that dog gave me the purest real unconditional love that humans can't give. This is why i am dovorcing my husband. My pet's death was the reason for me to realize what true love is and that i need to let others go if i dont see that love back. I miss you Chilindrina 16 years old. She is incredibly smart, beautiful, unlike any other dog i ever met. I hope to see you again in eternity. 💘💘🐶🐶

[@wordsculpt]

When it comes to love, loyalty, and selflessness, we have much to learn from our animals

[@eleanorlondon1961]

It is NEVER just a Dog. It's your best friend and your whole heart. God bless you ❤️❤️

[@PeachyPaigeMusic]

I left an abusive ex because of my dog too

[@llopez6491]

Betty, I can relate to you. My baby girl Mia passed away a few weeks ago. She was the link to my marriage. When she passed away, I don't feel the same way for my husband. I keep pushing him away. I want my daughter back .My home and my whole world is so empty without her. I will never find another like her. She was the sweetest bundle of joy which I greatly regret not giving her more hugs and kisses.

[@a.m.7910]

Just a dog… our dog is our life..

[@leotardbanshee]

I lost my doggy yesterday and i miss her so much. This has been the loneliest morning. everything that was lonely before is even more lonesome.

[@sarah06324]

leotardbanshee Same here. I lost my baby girl yesterday. She had congestive heart failure. If I had known she was as bad as she was I would’ve put her down. My heart is in pieces. My only wish is that in the 12 years she was here with me, I was able to make her feel immensely loved. It was gut-wrenching waking up this morning and seeing her little bed empty. I send you hugs.

[@leotardbanshee]

Hugs right back to you❤️ my sweet girl had congestive heart failure too. Everything is just so empty now. I know it will get easier with time but for now our hearts are broken. Sending you lots of love during this time, your little girl was so blessed to have a friend like you who allowed your heart to be broken❤️

[@ChickenAmerica]

So sorry for your loss, I know what you are talking about. For me, I said goodnight knowing I’d have to say goodbye in a couple of days, only to wake up to a seemingly normal morning, only for my mom to call me in shock, telling me that my best friend was gone. Like a sister to me. I didn’t cry until I saw her, I was full of disbelief and shock and felt so guilty that I didn’t get to hold her as she passed letting her know it was ok and that she was the best thing to happen to me. I don’t regret every moment I had with her, and while I’d always want to have done more I honestly did so much with her and all I’m regretting is her being gone. It’s been 4 months, but I still feel empty every time I get home from a fun day at school, only to see that my best friend isn’t there to see me.

[@lilymiller3522]

I’m so sorry for your loss💜 I pray your mornings have gotten brighter. I could use some hope . It’s been 6 months since I lost my best friend in the world, Cupcake.I’m still heartbroken and miss her so much everyday , I can’t stop the tears. Sometimes I do not realize they’re falling.

[@leotardbanshee]

@@lilymiller3522 i believe what has helped me to cope the most is to remember how much she taught me about being a better person. She taught me how to care for someone, how to be consistent, how to love and be patient. Those things she taught me will never go away. I used to give her medication every day, so when she passed away, i started gardening, and i have to water the garden every day just like i gave her her medication, and what she taught me about being responsible even when its difficult will never go away. There is room for other love in your life, but it won't fill the same holes, the holes are always there but you learn to accept them as part of you. I still miss her so much but i know she would comfort me if i were sad, so i try to remember what she would have wanted rather than focusing just on my sadness. It is hard, it doesn't get easier, you just change as time passes and your sadness changes and it becomes love, and there is no love like loving a dog.

[@MegaPargan]

Lost my dog last night, cant bear the pain man, loved .my dog, i never can be the same anymore

[@baldrthebraveandnursechris7346]

Bless you

[@natk137]

I get this. I know u commented 8 months ago but I just lost my dog 2 days ago. He was my best friend and got me through so much. I’ll never be the same. A piece of me died with him

[@lilidots1913]

Lost mine last night, I’m completely broken 💔💔💔

[@MegaPargan]

@@lilidots1913 hey, i understand your pain, truly. It will take time. Its been a year now since my dog passed but hes in a better place. Hes not in pain no more. I currently have a new 3 month old pup and the void has been filled but i know my old pup is proud of me

[@lilidots1913]

ant p thank u for the support, he left behind 2 pups that I have with me, and 1 of them looks just like him, I atleast have that. My dog that passed was absolutely in love with me & so was I. Followed me around everywhere 24/7. I need to be strong for him, I know he’d want to see me happy ❤️

[@dukeman7595]

Take comfort knowing we will all see our pets again. It is written in the book of Isaiah that our animals are in Heaven, and happy, we will see them there. Amen Halleluiah!!

[@mememichelle1026]

My dog bam bam just cross over the rainbow brigde just yesterday. He died from heart failure and I miss him so much. My heart to completely broken. I cried myself to sleep yesterday and woke up and seen a rainbow down my hallway shining underneath my hallway light. Then on the T.V. little house on the parie was playing and Laura, said where's bam bam at. Broke me down to tears. So many signs i recieved yesterday to let me know that he is in a better place. The house is so lonely without him and i miss him so much all i can do is cry.

[@Etigress]

My dog had the heart of a lion, even when he was sick, he was still wagging his tail. He had a tumor in his stomach that was causing him to vomit blood after he ate. The vet gave him a week to live. That evening I put him down it was gloomy, then after he went to sleep the setting sun came out with not a cloud in the sky. It was a peaceful sign from God. I'm gonna miss him, he was my best friend . But I know he's ok and I'll see him again someday.

[@ricks8845]

Etigress you definitely will. You are brave and god will bless both your cute baby and you.❤️

[@Marciusha]

The same with us. Our dog had a big tumor on his adrenal glands and his organs almost failed, he was vomiting and not eating for a week, we tried to help him with perfusions but only one day without it his sugar got to almost zero...he could not live one day without perfusions. We decided the vet to do an operation to see his organs. His liver was in pain and all the organs were in a bad condition so the vet suggested our options or to help release his pain. We decided to take him home and asked the vet to come home, we wanted our dog to die at home with us, he wailed his tail when he saw the vet entering, it was his favourite vet and he knew when seeing him means feeling better, i guess he is feeling no pain now....we feel so sad today... I guess i will always remember him, we loved him so much

[@nolanat504]

Putting my kitty down today , same, tumor on his side, cant eat, throwing up what he does...plus kidney failure...but it's still hard

[@scoobydadog246]

@Michelle Boutwell I happened to be here., after replying to someone else, and saw you just wrote this, so knew I had to tell you how sorry I am, and I am sending you prayers and love. I lost my dog 3 months ago, although I can hardly believe it has been this long. I think it hurts so much because it is our only experience of unconditional love. He will never be replaced, and I don't like the words 'get over it' - because that might not be true.. but you will change from feeling the way you do now. Because you and he had such a great love - only good can come from that. it will make you strong - the love will take over for the pain - gradually. I don't know if I will ever get over it either, but I guess we don't have any choice - so know that you are not alone, and I understand.

[@beverlybalius9303]

They are our Babies!!!! They are not just a dog or cat or horse or rabbit or whatever!!!! They are precious children to us!

[@ashleighhennessy]

I held my cat Luna while she was put to sleep. Im so glad I did because most pets last thoughts are wondering where their owner is. Am glad I was brave enough to carry her over. I will always love her and miss her so much xx

[@matthewdunne8432]

Ashleigh Hennessy Official I just had to do the same with my Dylan 6 days ago. He died in my arms. I’m an absolute disaster

[@daisymaefrench4041]

Me too. Just two hours ago I had to put my beloved cat, Tobey, to sleep. He was with me for 17 years. I have tears running down my face as I type. I know he's not suffering anymore, but it's hard to accept that he's gone.

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

Me too. I always want my cats to be looking in my eyes when they die.I'll never ever let them wonder where I am.

[@sz7689]

I am feeling insane guilt because I could not be with my cats final moments because of Covid . I had to wait in my car while the vet put my sick cat down.. it’s a feeling that I hope no one has to go thru.. I want to know the details of her passing but I just can’t ask... I am severely heartbroken... I feel like my cat is made at me and doesn’t love me anymore

[@ashleighhennessy]

@@sz7689 You poor thing, thats awful! Don't worry, you did your best with what you were allowed to do, and the vets are mostly lovely, am sure they cuddled her and loooked after her well, so she wont be mad at you! You could try and send her a message to tell her that you love her? I did this and i had a lucid dream where my cat showed me what the vets did with her after I left when she was at the evening vets getting washed and x rayed. In the dream i felt the warm temperature of the water on my skin, she was showing me that she was well looked after as im sure your kitty was too! Just before you go to bed tonight, i know that sounds crazy but if you just relax, maybe do a 5 minute stress relief meditation before bed, and then just talk to her either in your head or out loud, tell her that u love her and will see her again soon. Picture her as vividly as you can in your head when you do this. It might work it might not, but u may get a dream about her that helps you get closure and some believe you genuinely make contact with your loved lost ones this way. Thats what i believe. Anyway, sorry to sound crazy, hope this helps you bring some better closure and have a few more moments together!!

[@liliazvolska6974]

I`m here to support everyone who has lost their pet. My dachshund has passed away this morning in front of my eyes. My sweet boy Charlie. Heart attack. I`m devastated. He`s been my best friend for 12 years since I was a kid. We are to be grateful for all the happy moments we shared together and always remmember them 💔 Don`t be shy to express your grief, write a thank-you letter or make something in his (her) memory. I`m about to paint a picture. God rest his (her) soul 🙏

[@PetaPinkGirl]

I lost my dog 3 days ago now. I have never ever felt such a horrible pain in my heart. There is something to pure and so unconditional about a pets love. there's nothing else like it. Forever in my heart Bentley

[@thegteam4349]

Sincere condolences to you, Megan. I lost my lab two days ago. Such horrible pain.

[@jakesherman8080]

I lost my 14 week old puppy last night, I have never felt such a pain in my entire life, I am in just so much sadness right now

[@raedarden9830]

@@jakesherman8080 So sorry for your loss, Jake.

[@bradleyjames7411]

Just had to say goodbye to my buddy rocky. Had him since I was 11, got him when he was a puppy. 15 good years with you bud. Missing you.

[@dylannoonan260]

icey crocs icey socks I’m going through the same thing I’ve known my Miley sine I was 6 and now I’m 17 She was a family member now it’s time to cherish memories and never let go . We can get through this for bud and Miley.

[@rosievarriale33]

I just lost my rocky 3 days ago. May our Rockies Rest In Peace and we will see them again some day.. ❤️🙏

[@cis85198]

I lost my buddy rocky too, he was a beautiful 15 years golden retriever. RIP

[@sweetpea7815]

Said goodbye to my pup Rocky today. Hurts so much, I've lost my sidekick. Wishing everyone peace while figuring out these missing piece's of our lives. Rest in peace dear sweet one ❤

[@Shelbsalexis]

I just lost my Jasper. 15 years old. Put him to sleep today. He was the best dog in the world. I’m torn inside. I just hope he’s at peace. I’ve never felt this sad in my life.

[@CBRN-115]

I lost my dog that I had for 10 years few days ago. She had a kidney failure. We went through all the funeral process but, knowing that I won't be hearing her welcoming barks everytime I go home still makes my heart hurt God I miss her. She gave us unconditional love and I wish I could've done better for her. I hope you rest in peace, Jenny.

[@barbarasolha]

역병으사 my yorkie died this morning with a kidney failure. Still trying to accept that this happened. He was 9.

[@justinerocchio1469]

@@barbarasolha I lost my 16 year old yorkie 3 weeks ago to kidney failure :/ I hope you’re doing okay ❤️

[@barbarasolha]

@@justinerocchio1469 I’m so sorry for your loss. Im sure our furbabies are having the time of their life together, watching over us. Sending you strength and love ♥️🐾✨ the pain you feel in your heart is their tail wagging happily

[@ErockHQ]

Did it ever get better?

[@emmaprice6573]

I just lost my kitty to kidney failure. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through

[@kyle-tg7bi]

Anyone watching this who is about to lose or just lost a beloved animal, know that it’s the worst thing in the world, but you can get through this. You animal will be waiting for you at the rainbow bridge, I truely believe that. Stay positive and look ahead 💞

[@ed_avila1029]

I just lost my dog unexpectedly I don’t want her to wait for me like 100 years I wanna be with her right now

[@kyle-tg7bi]

Youth_avila I know how you feel. I lost my dog on the 12th of December, of last year. I still think about him everyday. But I promise you, you will always face these deaths in life and unfortunately you can’t stop that. But what we can do is appreciate the time we had with our pets. Stay strong, I love you 💕

[@karissakline6765]

I know this comment was from 3 years ago now…but I needed to hear this as we are facing the end with my best friend. We never thought it would be this soon, hate cancer. I need to be reminded there is hope beyond this because I cannot see it rn.

[@Revelation21-4-]

Thank you I really needed that. Just lost our beloved hamster last night, been crying on and of all the time and not eating much and doing nothing :(

[@EclipsedAngel1]

The cat companion I've had for 18 years passed away day before yesterday, 48 hours ago, after an 8-day-long gradual decline. She died peacefully at sunset, with its rays beaming through the window upon us and catching crystals that created little rainbows all over. I know she's gone, but still feels like she's here, and I find myself reaching over to pet her but her spot next to me is empty and it feels like I've lost her again, over and over and over again. I've cried so much every day since I knew she'd be leaving me, and even more since she's gone. People who've not gone through this have no idea of its profound pain and sense of devastating loss, and alone-ness. No more does she purr me to sleep as our days ended, no more does she give me the morning greetings that started our days. To all suffering like this, my heart goes out to you. God bless.

[@isabelcranberry1249]

I just lost my 2 year old boy Miles very suddenly the other day on the 11th but what you said really hits home :(

[@allencastleman7617]

I'm 61. I've had pets since 4-H and still do. It NEVER gets easier no matter how many times. They've each gotten a piece of my heart until we're all reunited again in Heaven. I absolutely feel your grief. God Bless. ❤

[@capnohan]

My dog Louie departed 8 days ago, and the pain and anguish is almost unbearable. Guilt, regret, grief, and second guessing are the emotions that fuel my racing mind. It's a horrible experience that I have unfortunately been through 5 times. But I know that he loved me, and wanted only to make me happy, and that is a beautiful thing. All of the love, laughter, loyalty, and devotion are given to us on credit, and in the end, we pay dearly for it. So is it worth it? I take great comfort in knowing that he spent his life with me. I cannot imagine not knowing him, or how hollow my heart would be had our lives not intersected. Yes it is absolutely worth it! 100 percent. I would do anything for him, including going through this horrible pain and grief. I miss you Louie, more than words can describe.

[@Michal-ke6lu]

I am sorry for your loss. Louie had a good life with you.

[@ruthvidal6466]

ty..had my baby put to sleep yesterday... unexpected... been listening to these videos... very helpful ty

[@clp5682]

Three days ago, my cat, Simon, crossed the rainbow bridge. I was 16 years old when I found him outside- he was only four months old. We grew up together. I spent almost everyday with him for the last 18 years that I couldn't remember what life was like before him... I know his health was on the decline but this is the most painful thing I've ever experienced in my life so far. Not only was he a family member, he was also my soul cat and best friend. I literally feel so lost without him and miss him so, so much. 😭💔

[@Phill51588]

I lost my cat 3 days ago and i miss him so much, he was the best pet my family has ever had. He was family and we all feel so empty without him but he is in a better place now. Condolences to everyone else that has recently lost a pet.

[@derekparker2534]

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[@LavenderFieldsForever]

People who say: it's just a cat.....they don't feel deeply....Losing your pet is absolutely the hardest thing in life.....thank you for this talk

[@rickskidmore3112]

I lost my little Hissy 2 days ago. She was a 6 pound Yorkie and my best friend for 17 years. I am beyond heartbroken and feel like my own life stopped. Every fiber in my body aches. Our dogs love us, heal us and understand us in ways human's can't. RIP sweet girl.

[@Mediocre_JT]

I'd never imagined that losing a pet would hurt this much. After my brother passed away and after I've gotten my heart broken in relationships, I stopped getting close to people out of fear of a broken heart again. Well, my sister's cat had nobody to take care of her because my sister had a new baby, so I took her cat Angel and made her my own. I lost every single friend that I had when I had gotten sober and Angel was with me the entire time. She was the most dog like cat you'd ever see, she would lick my hand and lay with me all night. She could barely walk, but she always walked as fast as she could to the door to meet me, and when she couldn't make that trip, she would wait and watch for me at my bedroom door, her excitement was like a dog. I thought that she would make it another five years until she started having digestion issues. I took her to the vet twice, then I couldn't afford to take her again when something happened, she started breathing extremely quickly and her arms were stiff. She was crying and couldn't move. I had to put her down, I gave her some methadone until her breathing and heart eventually slowed down until she took her last few big deep breaths in my arms. I've cried every day since it happened a week ago. My heart can't take it, I still haven't gotten used to waking up and not seeing her right beside me. I don't care how sad or lonely I am, I just pray that she's happy and staying with my brother in heaven until I get there.

[@frankappice7306]

Yes, It,s true. The more people I meet ; The more I love my animals. God Bless every one of them. ( near & far )

[@Johuraldn]

I lost my cat Rocco last year October it’s finally been a year. I miss him soo much. He was on his way home when he got run over by a car, I live on the main road. It’s my fault I let him go out. He was coming home to me. He wanted me to pet him but it was too late. He can’t anymore. I’m Muslim so inshallah when I go heaven I’m gonna ask Allah for my animals back. And apparently in heaven you can customise anything. I know Rocco would want big paws 😂😂 so I’m gonna ask God to make him enormous😂🫶🏼 my tiger!!! My cats taught me to love every animal no matter how vicious I just look into their eyes and see my pets lool. There’s cruel people in this world who harm animals and remembering that spookes my life and I cry everytime. But I wish the best always.

[@lenkarka23]

I lost my cat, my best buddy and snuggler Miki 2 days ago. He fought so hard with heart and kidney disease for 2 years. I’m grateful he gave me those extra 2 years. The last few months were hard and especially the last week when he deteriorated. I had a feeling a month ago when I saw him look up at the ceiling at the vets office that his time was coming. Out of love I had to make the decision to help him pass over the rainbow bridge. Hardest decision ever. I miss him so much and I hope he is happy and healthy in the meadows watching down on us. He gave us 13 unforgettable years.

[@issysthegreat1318]

I lost my dog of 15 years yesterday which I considered my child. It’s taking a toll on me . I cannot eat nor sleep. My family and I tried to prepare ourselves for this moment as we knew he was getting older. Watching him be so sick and nothing we could do will forever haunt me. Trying to be t peace with his passing but i miss him so much. I will never be the same ever

[@leannem2159]

I lost my wonderful dog last night. This was the first video I watched that brought me any level of comfort and then my distracted head realised it was a “Ted talk”. My little man was called Ted

[@wiley3840]

Oh my gosh, that is so perfect. :)

[@horsebhhbghgg]

I lost my beloved dog yesterday afternoon. Rip Domi, thank you for those 16 years. I’ll see you again soon ❤️

[@milloexplorationvlogs3658]

same here, i lost my baby last night. She was 14

[@jayumana7880]

I’m going through this right now. After 14 years of having the best dog in the world, I have to say goodbye. It doesn’t feel real.

[@lisamarie6411]

Mackenzie Haverstock, I translate, and just before I watched this thread I got a pic of the Probert vs Domi fight. (Not sure what that means to you) I never read comments however swiping I saw the name Domi. Reading your post, I realized I was getting a message that was acknowledging your Thank yous. Hope this message reaches you. Xo

[@thetree7694]

How long do dogs live?

[@siadawn]

@@thetree7694 Small ones (like the one I had, a chihuahua) can live at least until they're 18 -20, with good care. Mine died at 20 - and not from a "natural" cause; but from a rattlesnake bite, sadly. Bigger dogs, only until they're around 10, I believe. ❤️My mom was into showing and breeding Alaskan Malamutes (a large breed); not many of hers lived past that age.

[@gmgarza231]

My kitty boy Bandit went to wait for me up above yesterday. I was there for him in his last hours right up until he was euthanized. The sweetest most loving cat I've ever had, I'll carry his love with me until we reunite again. My heart goes out to all of us grieving our little friends, thank you all for your comments under this video, it's so therapeutic

[@joymantilla4750]

I lost my cat Tammy yesterday. She’s just 5 years old. I’m feeling guilty that I wasn’t able to save her life and make her live longer. I watched a video about pet loss and it says animals are better at forgiveness than humans. I have been crying endlessly. In my ❤ I believe in Rainbow Bridge. Tammy will be waiting there for me with the rest of the other cats I’ve loved.

[@rum878]

Thankyou for this. I'm looking for a forgiveness from my cat cause i took him late to the vet.

[@amberausburn]

I put my 16 year old Chihuahua/Jack Russell mix down two days ago. It’s been absolutely unbearable. I can’t stop crying. My sweet Anna girl was my whole world. I miss her dearly. I am really struggling with it all. She was my comfort, support, safe place, and best friend. She was always there for me. I am so blessed to have the love of a wonderful dog. I hope she knows just how deeply I loved her. I go and sit with her at her grave for hours just talking to her. I feel such guilt for putting her down but she was in so much pain. I didn't even know this kind of emotional pain existed. It hurts more than I can even express. My heart is so broken. She and I love each other unconditionally. I’m going to miss her until we meet again in Heaven.

[@JNgo303]

My dog gave me life. He was there for me during my addiction and helped me through everything. He passed away 2 months ago and I miss him dearly

[@TheMrSavageMan]

I’m 20 years old. Just lost one of my cats yesterday he was 15 and sadly died of cancer. I’ve never cried so much in my life. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Pets are family and when you lose a family member it is tragic. This video was very helpful however and don’t let anyone ever tell you it’s “just a pet”, it’s more like family in our eyes. Rest in piece Stitch❤️ See you at the Rainbow Bridge someday.

[@johncumbo9111]

So glad I found this. Woke up at 2AM (2 hours ago) to a text from my mom out of state that our family golden died. It’s a grief that we are not equipped to process. I’ll love you forever Boone ❤❤

[@mrstucko]

My golden Ziggy passed 2 weeks ago. Hopefully him and Boone are playing together someplace.

[@IH8Grifters]

We had to say goodbye to our beagle today. I feel like he took a huge part of our hearts with him. The tears won’t stop.

[@Anandrielle]

Lost my beloved cat Max yesterday and there's just this giant hole in my heart. I want to believe that the soul exists and that his is somewhere watching over me waiting until I can join him but I just don't. I don't have the ability (without concrete verifiable proof) to believe in the afterlife. Out of all the cats I have and have had, Max was the most loveable. He truly gave me unconditional love. He would lay on my chest and as I pet him, he'd lick my nose and occasionally tiny bites and it was special. I know people say that it gets better and you'll get used to it, but I don't want to get used to life without him. I shouldn't have to. He was only a year old.

[@jianxiong69]

I lost Kuai, my beloved goat to a dog back in June. I was devastated and guilt-ridden because I felt it was my fault for not securing the goats pen against dogs and also she was nursing twin baby goats at the time. She was such a beautiful goat and because of her I bought more goats later and started a small goat farm. She also helped connecting to the local farming community. The story is, she ran off the first day I bought her and before long everyone in the village came to hear about it and was out trying to look for her. She was brought back to me after almost 3 weeks and has since had two pair of gorgeous twin kids. I will love you forever my beautiful Kuai, alive or dead. I promise I will make sure your two orphaned kids grow as strong and beautiful as you were. Wait for me at the rainbow bridge...

[@Priyanka-jg4xt]

I lost my cat last morning. Never felt so empty in my life. All I think about is I wish I could bring him back. One last chance to bring him back...

[@ashesoflovexo]

January 14th of this year, I had to say goodbye to my miniature pinscher Luke. He was suffering from pancreatitis, and later at the vet developed pneumonia. Since his passing, I've been overwhelmed with guilt. If only I had caught it sooner, or taken him to the vet sooner, or just done everything differently. Everyday since I have cried, held his urn, and told him how sorry I was. I do have some comfort, that upon arriving to the vet that day, he stood up, wagged his tail, and gave me kisses before laying down and passing away. However my heart is completely broken. I believe in the rainbow bridge, and I want to believe my baby is there, healthy, and running free. And someday, I truly hope that when my time is up, I will be greated by him, and my other dogs who one day will follow. I hope he knows how much I love and miss him, and that if I could do it over again I'd be a better owner. Luke, I love you baby boy. Until we meet again at the rainbow bridge

[@piercec7496]

I have no doubt you will see Luke again, god accepts all animals into his kingdom

[@crinklescat1871]

I lost my dog today. She was my world and I am experiencing the same feelings of guilt that you are. If only I had caught it sooner, if only I have been better, if only I had known last night would be her last night on Earth with me then I would have given her the piece of chocolate that I was eating. But I can tell you this much, you did the best you could and that's all you can do. You loved your dog unconditionally just as he loved you. And like I said I am experienceing those exact same emotions right now. But please remember that you did the best you could. It wasn't your fault, and maybe taking him to the vet would not have caught it. You never know. But please know you're not alone and your comment really touched me because I'm going through the same thing and typing this with tears in my eyes. Sending you much love and comfort.

[@rubenharo2221]

Thank u. I lost my alpha male today at 5 am ´cause I fed him the wrong food a couple of days ago. I can not bear my guilt and shame and distress. Although I have lost so many, it still feels the same or greater pain. I am with you in your mourning and I know I can contact my pets, it is my desire that you do the same, if that be your desire We should BE TOLD from the start, or if it is the only thing we should recall when we incarnate: The "veil" is getting thinner by the day. It is my most positive intent that I will contact my pets, so I can be the evidence for others to see and be able to help them; If it is the last thing I do, So help me, Source-God! Would you like to do the same? Thank you for your time and forgive me if I said something wrong. LOVE and LIGHT to you

[@hayleygirardier4208]

You will see Luke again pets wait for you in spirit form / you’ll be reunited and healthy and happy together ❤️🐶

[@j_l713]

I too am dealing with the guilt. My schnauzer took her last breath as I picked her up running into the emergency vet. She died of heart failure and to feel broken hearted is an under statement. My heart goes out to everyone who has lost their best friend. May all of our best friends Rest In Peace and know how much love and joy they brought into our lives.

[@LindseyPixiehorn2]

I lost my budgie Tom Tom 10 days ago. I had a bond with him that can not be explained. I have never experienced grief like this. I love him so much and will miss him forever.

[@tiaryan1350]

I have an appointment to put my 16 year old Jack Russell baby girl down... Two days from now. My mom wanted a dog, when I was 12. We got Mollie in December. My mom passed away the following month in January. I know Mollie was there to be my support animal at the perfect time... she watched me grow up, go through puberty, relationships, being a teen, & a mother...I'm sad to say goodbye, however I do feel greatful. This video is comforting. Thank you for speaking on this hard subject.

[@LisaFrancesJudd]

Lost my beloved cat last week. She was very sick and needed help to leave via euthanasia. I know Lola is just fine over the rainbow bridge, however I am in human grief for her loss. A little loving cat who was with me for 13.5 years meant more to me than many people I know. 💔

[@abashedAuthor]

my ferret passed just a few hours ago, i'm so distraught in his passing, he was so young and he was the only animal that made me feel joy in the first time in five years, i miss him every second.

[@jeoniecookie9697]

Just lost my dog today. I'm mourning all day. I watch this coz I really miss her. She's one of the brightest dog I've ever love

[@garypritchett8136]

I lost my beloved cat yesterday morning and I am completely heartbroken, it feels like some part of me has been ripped out and lost forever. She was there for our family through some tough times, like another soul giving us comfort that everything will be ok. She was more than a pet to us, she was like another member of the family, always there. She had become ill a short while ago, but something gave inside her and it was time for her to go. The little things like being at the door, in the window, meeting me on the drive, lying on the bed, on my lap, even her usually consistent meowing. I haven’t even had the strength to watch this video yet, if I ever will. We had lots of good times, but I am eaten by guilt that if I ever ignored her when I was tired or never gave her the attention I should. Only a cat some might say, but anyone else who has had this bond will understand. I like to think her spirit is running free and happy somewhere in a garden, where she loved to be and that one day I can hold her again. She was a gift to us and helped us through times when we struggling. To all those in the same position, I hope time will heal us all🙏

[@sabinekoch3448]

Just lost my sweetie yesterday🥲

[@garypritchett8136]

@@sabinekoch3448 so sorry to hear, I feel your pain. One day at a time is all we can do, whilst always remembering the good times 💔

[@karabrowwn2072]

I lost my cat 2 nights ago and I’m just absolutely broken. He got me through 4 family deaths and it just completely guts me that I had such a raw and emotional connection. I’m not new to death, all my grandparents at 10 and my dad at 23 but losing my cat 25 is killing me. I love him and can’t wait to see him again

[@katec9893]

I can really relate, I have a similar story. How are you feeling now? I've just lost my beloved cat this week and the shock and pain is unbearable. She comforted me through a lot of really awful challenging times including multiple family bereavements and to now lose her feels unimaginably cruel. I'm just taking it one day at a time but sometimes it's hard to know how I can go on. I don't have a partner or children so me and her were a family unit. I always thought she'd live well into old age but she died of cancer quite suddenly. I'm still in shock and can't quite believe this has happened.

[@KB-ic9by]

I just lost my little girl (senior dog) 2 days ago. Though it was 100% her time, it still hurts to know that she is gone. I had her for almost 14 years and one second does not go by that I do not think her. I am glad that I found this TedTalk. It obviously does not make the pain and loneliness go away but it is nice to know that I am not alone in how I feel. It is 100% ok to feel so heartbroken. I hope well all find some comfort soon.

[@Spacesprocketz]

Just loss my pit bull of 9 years to a snake bite.. Never in 100 years did I ever think he would have to be put down like that.. I'm grateful for all the steak dinners we had but I regret every walk I didn't take with him. I'm taking some of his ashes this summer to Norman's Cay in the Bahamas because that's where I got his name from.. Rip Diego

[@bettylopez6709]

Thats what grieving does it brings guilt. Don't feel bad he loved you unconditionally the same way ypu will love others with no conditions

[@garym2293]

one of mine has liver cancer my 11 year old pit such a tough dog he is im so tore up over this i love him so much i dont want to say goodbye so hard digging his grave sorry you lost yours to a snake mine rocky boy would get tore up fighting javelina so many times got bit in face by a diamondback rattlesnake thought that was it he had an amazing life though just not ready to say goodbye this is same emotions as when cancer took my dad I have so much love for the Rocky Boy one of a kind for sure :((

[@alexanderlee7894]

Know how you feel, RIP. Hope you feel better

[@ehr79]

My boy is named Diego too! You are the first person I've seen that named their dog Diego. Sadly he recently transitioned on 5/21/20. I hope you're Diego is happy in the Bahamas! ❤ I figured I would get an urn necklace so that my best friend can still go with me on walks and vacations. It's the only thing I can 'kind of' give him other than talking to him. Long live our Diegos!!! ❤💫🐕🙌

[@baldrthebraveandnursechris7346]

My Diego was just put down on Thursday. I’m decaying inside and I feel the same as you do about all the moments where I could have made the choice to give him more happy time and walks.

[@veroniquehill9314]

I lost my cat just this morning 21/7/19 at 06:25 and she was the only cat I ever allowed myself to love again after the death of my cat that I had for 12 years 2 years ago. I feel lost and as if I have nothing left. Most people I meet don't seem to understand the bond between humans and their pets but the unconditional love my two cats have given me is better than any human could. The only thing that holds me together in these times is the thought of them together up there and that I will see them again. Some people may find it silly but I really wish for the existence of a 'rainbow bridge' or kitty heaven, where I can see my angels again. Miss you dearly and forever will. R.I.P. 😿

[@alkittycat]

I know exactly how you feel, I lost my cat thumper 7/19/19 he was my first cat and I honestly don't know how to function without him. But I know he's free from his pain, and I will see him again. Sorry for your loss. We'll both see our kids again~

[@CaptainSmith23]

The bond between me and my Sheila was something that I can explain. My Sheila love me even when I was not so nice of a person to others, she never judged me but she loved me for 13 years and I loved my Sheila from the moment that we met. when I lost Sheila I wanted to go with her. Animals are always there for people no matter what.

[@alizen987]

That's really traumatic. Especially after having lost your first cat, then again so soon. They were lucky to have you. And you should have another cat when you're ready, because you have such a deep love for them!

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's one of the most tormenting things that can happen to a perso.💕

[@priscillaarce5681]

I lost my kitty Sunday. I’m so devastated. Sudden, and random. I miss her so much. I feel like I’ve lost my child and I’m waiting for her to come to me. I don’t want to be without her.

[@guaceldono7231]

I lost my best friend last night. I miss him so, so, so much. I know one day I’ll see him and my other friends by the Rainbow Bridge, and I will keep them all in my heart until then.

[@tinkmarz1]

For those who grieve with the loss of a pet, hope this helps. We've had two dogs that we've had to have put down. The first one, Mitzi, pained me so much. We had to have her put down at only 7 years old because of complications of a kidney infection the vet missed. At this time I didn't believe in an after life. I'm a 6 foot 200 lb. man and I cried like a baby for three days. Luckily, I was on vacation at that time. On my way to work the first morning back to work I felt her presence with me (it was amazing...but despite my prior convictions was open (being an open minded person) and went with it). I "felt" her saying "I just want to see where you go every morning...it must be a wonderful place because you go there so much." I told her I was happy she came to find out. I went to work, and time to go home I felt her presence again. Lol...she said "that's it? that's where you go? What a boring disappointment...!...why do you go there?". I told her that humans have tasks to perform for other humans, and because we do those tasks we get money to buy things we need to live. She didn't understand the money part, so I told her money is like a treat, we trade that money for a place to live and food to buy. Lol...I felt she somewhat understood that but got the distinct feeling she thought it was a very silly way to do things. We got a second dog a couple years later. We named her "Cookie". A couple years later, I'd had a heart attack and flat lined and had an amazing NDE. A few years later we had to have Cookie put down (she was 14 and had developed severe arthritis). At the vet when we had her put down, I cried for her, but it was different because I now understood that death isn't death, but a rebirth. I felt Cookie's presence and wondrous joy from her and she told me that had she known we were going to put her down she would have not wanted that, but after the fact was so thankful. A couple months later I felt her presence again and she said excitedly "I graduated!". I don't know what that meant, but she was so happy and I was happy for her. So, for the grief stricken who've lost a pet/pets please don't think about the loss. Think about the joy and love they gave you. They don't want to see you so sad and burdened in grief, they want you to remember only the good and the incredible moment that you'll see each other again. The Rainbow Bridge isn't just about pets...it's for all consciousness.

[@aftonstoashes]

Five days ago I lost my best friend of 16 years. I swear he was a human in a cat's body. What hurts the most is that he was planning on dying, I knew he was in pain and he had started hiding... I called the vet in hopes of making an appointment in what I knew in my heart was going to result in putting him to sleep. They were booked until the next day. I had planned on getting home from work and spending the entire night with him (I work 2nd shift). When I had gotten home I found him in extremely bad shape, and rushed him to an animal hospital about 40 minutes away. He held on for the whole ride, I left the door of the carrier open so I could pet him on the way there (I wasn't the one driving). When we arrived, the staff rushed him into an operating room in an attempt to stabilize him, and he lasted about 5-10 minutes after we got him there. I wasn't able to be there when it happened, they only let me in the back to see him after his heart had stopped. I wanted to be there for him, but instead he died alone on a cold, metal table... Who knows, maybe being apart from me made it easier for him to let go... I should have made the decision to put him to rest sooner, so he wouldn't be in so much pain... I don't share quite as much of a bond with my other cats like I did with him, he genuinely loved me and he and I needed each other in our lives. I feel so lonely without him. The only reason I've been holding myself together is that I've been researching pets in the afterlife these past five days, stories of experiences with pet mediums, receiving signs from a deceased pet, pet reincarnation, etc. I'm hoping for a sign so badly. That he's happy and not hurting, and that I'll see him again, someday... I miss him more than anything. Sorry this is so long, I needed to get this out somewhere and off of my chest.

[@leesadoe2440]

thats what 24/7 emergency vets are for. I guess you didnt want to pay a little extra

[@dawnhardin8881]

I just lost my almost 15 year old bichon 2 days ago. The grief is crushing...I pray I’ll see him again...

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

You will.

[@carlosurbina8252]

I lost my 19 year old bichon 6 days ago. I feel broken. Lost. Had him since I was 12. I knew his parents way before he was born. Brought him home at 4 weeks. Also brought him home the day he was born. Now my home is empty. Everywhere I walk reminds me of him. I’ve been crying for a week straight. He was fine a week ago despite his age.

[@llopez6491]

@@carlosurbina8252 I'm so sorry to hear about your bichon what a blessing to have him that long. How are you coping? I just lost my beloved chihuhua Mia, 12 days ago. My husband and I adopted her from the animal shelter 7 years ago. She was the sweetest and bravest girl. We knew she had illnesses that would eventually progress but I would never think this day would come. I'm broken, I no longer enjoy eating, I cannot focus on school work, she was the link to my marriage. She was our only daughter. I love her and miss her so much I want her back :'(''''''''''

[@LDUBB619]

I just lost my almost 15 year old bichon just hours ago. I feel the same. Love to you

[@Diskii100]

I just lost my 16 year old bichon as well. We'll see our dogs again for sure one day.

[@sarahalex3835]

My precious, loving, kind Tyson passed away yesterday of cancer. I have never felt so helpless, heartbroken, sad, lost, and empty in my entire life. I am beside myself. Frustration comes with all these other emotions too. He was the glue that held my family together. I walked into the house tonight for the first time without him barking and running up to happily greet me. I just know this pain is never gonna stop. I just want him back. I want him home.

[@Thirdeyespy147-p9o]

I lost my cat three nights ago. He got sick pretty quickly and I had to take him to the ER vet on Thanksgiving night, he was suffering, couldn’t breathe, and I had to make a decision I was not prepared for at all. I’ve been completely grief stricken. Even as a trained end of life Doula, have helped many friends with this process, I have been helping being cross over for decades, I have personally lost many loved ones and other pets, but this was so different. I had taken Titus in only about a year ago, but he was so very special, and he brought such joy to the rest of our home, communicated in such a unique way. I set up a kitty hospice at home, for about a week, playing healing frequencies, sending him reiki, but he quickly became so ill, it was such an emergent situation, I had to race him to the hospital on a dark rainy night, and could hear his cries, through the halls, as We both went into shock. I loved him so deeply,and was so connected with him, that I could feel his fear, and pain, and I became unhinged. I have so much guilt for the very final moments, not being able to comfort him, as he had lost so much blood, (anemic and lymphoma) that his body went into shock. I couldn’t keep it together, I tried, I promise you, by the time he had the first injection, I felt him slip away, and then felt him leave with the second one, before she confirmed it. Holding him, while this happened was extremely difficult, and I feel like I should have done so much better, but I wasn’t prepared for that yet, I was taken by surprise - I’d thought he just needed a treatment of some kind and we’d go home and have another month together. Leaving without him was surreal, living without him had been extremely painful, I haven’t gotten out of bed all day today. RIP sweet boy, thank you for sharing your life me, your sissy, and brother and kitten. I can’t wait to see you again.

[@jeffreyfife5293]

Lost my best friend today. Known him ever since my brain started developing consciousness and was able to create memories and every single one of them is nothing short of a long lasting miracle. It is an absolutely gut wrenching and eye gouging feeling to come home and not hear him bark at me and run up to me. But I know he’s in a much better place than we can ever imagine and the only solace I can get out of it is that nothing is really dead as long as you have those memories for them. Love you and miss you so much rocky it’s painful every day without you.

[@irinasibef5011]

I lost my cat, my best friend, my baby, my sidekick, my everything , Heblu almost a month ago. I cry and miss him everyday. Actually the pain grows more and more everyday....i still can't believe he's not here phisically, i can't believe that he will no longer be next to me in my times and memories to come...and i hope and i pray that he knows how much me and my family loved him.

[@sorrelblushes3860]

i lost my dog just 2 months ago, she was my bestfriend, we always did stuff together,run,play and watch tv. I went on a trip for two weeks, and came back home. One week after arriving, she gets sick, it has happened before so i gave her this treatment that would usually help me,it didnt this time. My father took her to the vet, telling us, she doesn’t have many days left. That hurt so much, and then the next day i was the last one to see her smile, we went to pick up my sister,coming back home, i was the first one to find her and last one to touch her.the only fact that hurts me is that i cant hear her barking when i get home.

[@nataliefletcher]

I lost my best friend today. He was 12 and a half, and was with me for just about most of my life. I'll never forget him, and I miss him so much already. Benji, my dog, had kidney disease and we made the super difficult decision to let him go over this last weekend. He helped me through everything bad in my life, was my comfort and my best friend. He made me happy, and he made me not feel so lonely. My bond with him was unique and amazing, and I'm so sad I'll never cuddle him again.

[@cassiekloss9872]

I lost my childhood dog who I grew up with yesterday very suddenly and expectedly. He was with me through so many stages of my life and comforted me during many hardships and heartbreaks. I miss him so so much.

[@ratfiendz]

watching this video for some kind of relief. just two hours ago i had to put down my best friend of 15 years. it hurts especially bad because she had helped me through some of the darkest points in my youth... rest easy, zuzu. and try not to be too grumpy with all the others waiting with you!

[@Tim1968-l9l]

On Tuesday I finally had to say goodbye to my beloved little girl cat Lulu aged nearly 20. she has been my shadow for 17 years since i picked her up from the rescue shelter. She was a tiny, stroppy, funny, totally independent, dear little soul who kept this silly human sane when everything seemed to be falling apart. Lulu, Papa loves you so much, we'll be together again one day my darling. x

[@angelorivera9061]

My 4-month old male kitten died today from accident. He was the only surviving kitten after my female cat lost two kittens three months ago. After supper, my dad was preparing food for the cats but the kitten was not present. We just thought he's stuck inside a room or just sleeping. When we can't see him inside the house, we searched outside and boom he was there one meter outside our gate lying dead with a severed hand. We suspect a vehicle run over him. It was surprising and saddening, I felt helpless and guilty at the same time. I had lost and grieved many pets but not as sudden as this. He was a very curious and playful kitten, never really liked being carried or cuddled, but still very lovable. Hope you're happy in kitty heaven, buddy. We miss you.

[@blythe4567]

I believe the indescribable pain we feel from their loss is a testament to the amount of importance and love they were in our lives

[@brendadrew834]

Lost one of my precious furbaby cats last Thurs afternoon after I had taken her to the vet. She was a beautiful gray and white tuxedo cat who was absolutely adorable as a kitten and a beauty when she got older. She was so sweet and affectionate! I've lost many cats over the years and it always hurts. But last night she came to me in a dream larger than life and i actually felt myself stroking her little nose and patting her head in the dream. I asked her to visit me and she did and I know she's safe and happy and with me always in spirit and in my heart forever! Have gone through a lot of loss with people as well, my whole family of origin, one of my three daughters to coma and brain injury and my husband five years ago after 42 years. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger"! I believe in the Rainbow Bridge and an after life! What comes after the winter of our lives..Spring again....life is eternal and even if people don't make it to the winter of their life, it goes on in spirit..."we're all spirits having a human experience" or an animal experience....keep the faith! I've seen signs from the Other Side! Thanks for sharing this beautiful talk, much appreciated and healing!

[@roniellecopeland]

I lost my baby two days ago after 10 years to kidney failure. We had to put him down on Saturday. I screamed and hollered when they told me I had to make that decision. I miss him so much… I’m currently trying to find videos that would help me through my grief I feel so bad and guilty giving the okay but I also knew the discomfort he may have went through… it’s so different not having him in my bed or following me around anymore after 10 years!!!! Pray for me. 😢🌈😩💛

[@melissam9391]

I just lost my dog Santi tonight. He was an older dog and was definitely struggling... I had to put my fear and sadness of losing him aside to do what was best for him. He's no longer in pain but I feel like a piece of my heart has gone. I hope he knows how much I love him

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

He does.His spirit is still around you.❤

[@wendyeskelin8765]

If I was God I would also want to make animals live longer. They are so amazing and bring so much love into our lives. I love the words you use of living in preciousville. I try to live there a lot with my dog. I am thankful to be able to spend so much time together and so thankful we found each other.

[@JoanRanquet]

:) I love Preciousville!

[@Johuraldn]

No they should only exist in heaven. Because people on earth harm animals well the vicious humans. And when we die that’s when we should experience animal love and kingdom it would be soo marvellous. This world is unsafe weird and sad and I feel trapped here.

[@kristinnoguera8632]

This video is helping me. I have to put my 12 year old pug down in a couple days and I can’t deal. He was my first baby. I rescued him bc no one wanted him. He had been brought back three times. I took him and it was the hardest two weeks of my life. All he did was howl and jump up and down off the bed all night long. We remained very patient with him. Then suddenly he transformed after 2 weeks. He became the most amazing loyal, obedient, loving dog you could imagine.

[@flowdoze9683]

i lost my father in may. right now i’m sitting next to my 14 yr old german shepherd in his death bed, having decided tomorrow should be his last day. i had always said i would never put him down, you wouldn’t do it to a family member. but after watching him in pain. i want to let him rest but i know this is the last night ever that i can pet him. highs in life are really nice, but the lows. oh the lows. they make you ask yourself are the highs worth it? mountains and valleys; mountains and deep sea trenches.

[@milkatt4604]

I lost my cat Billy 2 days ago suddenly and the pain and sadness I feel is excruciating. Knowing I couldn’t help him or do anything is breaking my heart but I know he is at peace and I will be with him again one day, I hope in his short life he felt all the love he was given every day from his family, and knows how much we will miss him

[@OrchidKeeper]

Sending love and prayers for you. I have a sweet dog that I was lucky enough to have chosen me as her person. I know I am going to have to deal with the grief that is just on the extremely close horizon and it is getting ever closer. I will consider myself blessed to have just one more day with her. I am searching for some comfort just like you. I know that she will never truly leave me but this knowledge doesn’t make it easier. But how beautiful it is that the both of us were able to experience this amazing connection with our animals. I am forever grateful. Sending hugs for you.

[@holhawk1866]

I had to say goodbye to my beloved Salome 2 days ago. I knew she would not be returning home the way she was once we went to the vet. I prayed it was something simple but the vet said she had cancer. I told her without me hesitation it’s time to send her home. Salome knew and was so peaceful. She meowed to me and gave me love as she ways did and there was no fight. I was not prepared but I thanked God for her and how much of a gift she was. I held her as she took her last day breath on earth and she was released. I am grieving but I know where she is. I felt her that night on the bed little feet walking to go nite nite but I looked and nothing was there, but I knew. She is still present and she comes and goes. I call them fur angels.

[@Rawrdoll]

I just lost my 11-12 year old rescued cat. It was traumaric, sudden. This is helping me cope

[@Rawrdoll]

Alisha Dan Thanks.

[@bug4505]

even though i’m a year late i’m currently in the same boat but i know i’ll be okay

[@thatal3058]

I felt the same warmth and feeling of peace right when we stepped out of the vets office after putting my 14 year cat to sleep last month. Sadness was gone, but memories lives forever. It will get better everyone, one step at a time.

[@michaelJpurp]

I lost my 10 year old English Springer Spaniel 6 days ago. He had lung cancer and declined heavily over the past few weeks. In hindsight I know that Euthanasia was the best thing for him but I can't shake my heartbreak, guilt, shame, and tremendous sadness. I would give anything for one last high five, ear scratch, or snuggle. All I can think about was all my shortcomings as his owner, even if he lived an overall good life. The biggest lesson I've learned from this is to get my priorities in line, and appreciate the time I have with those I love. Never forget to tell your loved ones that you love them. I miss my boy so much.