The Reason Why Your Hair Keeps Breaking Off. Why Your Hair Won't Retain Length. IN DEPTH Breakdown

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How to Stop Breakage on Natural Hair. Natural hair growth. Why Your Hair Seems Like its not Growing Because it Breaks off so Fast. How to avoid or reduce breakage on natural hair
How to stop natural hair from breaking and shedding. How to stop hair breakage and avoid 4c hair breakage or hair breakage on any hair type. In this video, I discuss how to fix breakage on natural hair through first prevention and how to properly detangle and handle natural hair, and secondly though natural hair breakage repair through things such as protein treatments for breakage and deep conditioning natural hair to avoid breakage. I also discuss the power of low manipulation and protective styling for length retention and how to retain length on natural hair or relaxed hair or any hair type through these things. Hair breakage can occur at the crown, at the nape, at the hairline, or all over. In this video I give tips on how to avoid this and discuss the things that you may be doing that are causing your hair breakage. I hope it helps you!
Top Mistakes You Do That Cause Your BREAKAGE. HOW TO STOP BREAKAGE ON NATURAL HAIR
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The TOP MISTAKES You Do That Cause Your BREAKAGE. HOW TO STOP BREAKAGE ON NATURAL HAIR

[@chinenyeb.akunne7197]

I just love how you broke the hair stereotype. You hair was long relaxed and now your hair is long natural. No one can make any excuse.

[@amib6887]

literally

[@nazzindajudith2166]

Your smile is infectious baby girl, keep smiling...

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you!!

[@tw6873]

Yes, she's a beautiful girl.

[@neilybugg]

Absolutely! I LOVE her smile! Such a beauty..

[@irenecampo8029]

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[@stay1ify]

1:48, I've had every hairdresser I've gone to over the last 10 years do just that. The last one, when I stopped her she said, "that's what you get for being natural". That's when I should have left. I no longer go to the hairdresser. Never again.

[@ledladies2038]

You right they tear up your head

[@fionafornarina7625]

I also don't go to a hairdresser since fourteen years. You feel best what's good for your hair.

[@marleyhill34]

tragic that hairdressers do this to us.....it was only when I went to non-black hairstylists that I realised how rough we are on your hair and scalps. I have a Polynesian/Maori stylist now for 6 years. He never damages my hair and he always cuts it in a style that I can manage and feel confident in. My trichologists are black and mixed race. While they never damage my hair, soothe my scalp and help my hair to grow, I find that sometimes they cut it into a style that I can't manage when I get home. They can be a little rough but not that crazy kind of rip out hair rough!

[@marleyhill34]

@@fionafornarina7625 I go to a white salon but my stylist has curly hair and is Maori Polynesian.

[@fionafornarina7625]

@@marleyhill34 Hi Marley☺ When I was at a hairstylist, there were only one in years who knew how to comb my hair. And I don't have even much curls or more. They just don't learn it in their vocational training and the one lady I trusted had gone into hiding after I came back from pregnancy and infant pause. I wanted to have hair lights again and nobody could tell me, where she went to or which colleague could manage long hair. The receptionist told me: Everybody does it his/her way. I hung up the phone and never went there again. Your Polynesian/Maori stylist sounds very good. I wish he will be around your hair forever.🤞

[@Jasmine-uu2xo]

Following Seun's protective styling regimen has allowed me to retain 12" of new growth from quarantine era to now. It feels so affirming to watch her chop her hair and re-grow it and take us on her journey 🥰

[@naturalglory6311]

What is Seun’s protective styling Regimen? Could you explain it please or tell me the title of the video, I’d love to try it 😊

[@Jasmine-uu2xo]

@@naturalglory6311 My hair maintenance routine is as follows, I learned all of this from watching Seun's videos but tailored them for my hair type: Products: Cantu Root Rinse. tea tree oil, lightweight oil of your choice, 2 spray bottles, cloth head wrap, satin head wrap, Nairobi mouse (I avoid putting any products on the actual hair itself unless it is the Nairobi hair foaming mouse or mixing a nice smelling leave-in conditioner with water. Too much water on the hair will cause your real hair to pull out of the braid., so if you need a freshener MIST your hair with leave in + water Hair type: High porosity, dense, thin, type 4 hair 1) whenever you are active/sweaty be sure to cleanse your SCALP after each workout/days when you sweat a lot. (I generally prefer doing this in the night time so you don't have your hair frizzy in the daytime) 2) After your shower ( after b/c you still sweat under your shower cap sometimes) mist your hair with a water spray bottle- try to mist the scalp area and not the hair itself, do not over saturate the scalp with a a lot of water 3) In a spray bottle, mix the cantu root rinse with water and tea tree oil. If the spray bottle is 8 oz. then use 3-4 oz of the root rinse and dilute it with water and add 10 drops of tea trea oil or whatever amount of smell from the tea tree oil you can tolerate. The product smell mixes well with the tea tree oil 😁 4) Spray the cantu root mix directly on your scalp. DO NOT SCRATCH THE SCALP. Simply let it soak under the braid. You should feel an intense tingle similar to head and shoulders 5) Once the solution has dried (typically 5-10 minutes) Spray the scalp area with water, let it air dry for a few minutes and then wrap your hair with a cloth head wrap so that it sets/reduces frizzing 6) Before you go to sleep (hopefully your scalp is dry by then) use a lightweight oil of your choice and put it around your edge area and the back of your neck. Wrap the hair in satin. I say grease the edges because the bonnet/scarf is typically tightest around the edges of your hair so the oil prevents any irritation and allows your edges to slip past the scarf/bonnet. (Seun mentioned this in one of her videos) 7) Oiling the scalp is not necessary every single day, just do this when you notice your scalp is SUPER dry, avoid using thick creams on the scalp. It is not necessary and it will cause buildup. 8) Keep your styles in for 3 months minimum. It does not make sense to manipulate the hair so much and only keep them in for 1-2 months. 9) To extend hair life, wash your protective style once a month and secure the tops with rubber bands (assuming you have a lot of new growth). I watched Seun Okimi's videos on how to wash box braids- I recommend that as well as her whole channel on hair growth. 10) physical activity boosts hair growth!!!! without being active, hair grows 1/2 an inch per month. When I was active it as at 1- 1.25 inch per month, when I was inactive it as .5- .75 inches per month Use this regimen for any protective style, I currently have in spring twists/locs with no extensions and I still use this regimen. Recently I got a bad reaction to aloe vera which caused me to flake up so I made a stronger root rinse solution and I use anti-fungal shampoo to get rid of it. Your scalp health is far more important then your hair. If you get psoriasis or dandruff often, make a stronger solution or mix anti-dandruff shampoo with water and tea tree oil and put in a spray bottle-but remember to use a lot of water to get it out of your scalp. This helped me retain 9"-12"" of growth throughout my hair in 1 year. I chopped my dead ends and took a 4 month break from wearing extensions. I do think it's healthy to give your hair a break after wearing extensions. I give my hair 3 weeks before its back in another style,

[@naturalglory6311]

@@Jasmine-uu2xo Omg thank you so much. It’s so detailed 🤩💕 I have low/medium porosity, thin/fine type 4 hair that is medium density but I’ll use a lot of the same ideas as you and Seun. I have a few questions to ask, hope it’s okay 🥺 Do you use this routine for only braids styles or also on cornrow styles for weaves/wigs? Also what kind of exercise do you do to keep fit that has helped your hair grow and how long do you exercise for each day/week? So do you wash your hair after every workout? My hair gets frizzy really quickly especially if I wash, could I reduce the amount I have to wash my if i do low impact exercise where I don’t sweat? And what is your diet like? What leave in conditioner and grease do you use? The biggest problem I have is breakage because my hair strands are thin. Do you have any suggestions for how to reduce breakage? I’ve managed to reach bra strap length but it’s taken like 6 years because of the amount of breakage I get even though I’m gentle with my hair 😩 My current routine is to shampoo and deep condition my hair every weekend. I wash my hair in 6 twist sections, no pre poo detangling, no detangling while shampooing or with deep conditioner. When I get out the shower I detangle each section one at a time with leave in conditioner and Shea butter then put my each twist section into a braid so I end up with 6 braids that I leave like that for the whole week and I put a wig on if I’m going out. I’m putting my hair in braids tomorrow and it’s it’s my time after 1 year but I’m excited to start my protective style journey to see how much length I retain. Thank you again for your reply 😊

[@SeunOkimi]

Aw, That makes me really happy to know!!!!❤️ I love how much you've written out! I agree! And I love 2-3 month styles as well! When its a more intricate style that I only leave in for a few weeks, that's when I find that it starts becoming more manipulation to put in and take down those types of styles so often. I also talk more about protective styling in the second half of this video @NaturalGlory, and a more in this video as well!! : kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqPOZIGmeJusp6s

[@melaninweirdo1476]

@@Jasmine-uu2xo love how detailed this is! Thank you so much Jasmine 💗💗

[@emahpurple]

I love the fact that Seun gives actual useful tips and doesn't just dump product names.

[@WLHMCALLNATURAL]

Finger detangling is great 👍🏻 for length retention.Conditioner helps a lot to reduce breakage

[@Buggu3]

Even my finger tip my hair out… it’s a matted mess if I don’t comb thru

[@dvmn444]

I second this 💗💗

[@marshaytrue]

@@Buggu3 yes my hair needs a comb 😅

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

@@Buggu3 😁 what about a combination of both? My hair loves both

[@okedorcas1727]

Having fine hair strands is sooo annoying😪 It’s literally everywhere breakage 😪

[@obsidyenneg4333]

Your facial features are beautiful. I do agree that protective style is part 1 for length retention for me. My hair is dense but my strands are super fine. I’ve retained more length after I stopped using a flat iron.

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you!!! Yes!

[@Juliana-tk5yf]

YES! I'm doing everything right OMG. I've been natural all my life but my mother was rough with my hair, as an African woman used to short hair that's all she knew. But as of covid, we've been learning how to be gentle, and our hair is growing so well! I'm happy to see how your hair is growing and your natural hair journey From one Nigerian sistah to another!

[@SeunOkimi]

❤️❤️❤️❤️🇳🇬

[@belori.e]

Same! I’m on this journey on my own though but I’m willing to make a sacrifice to help my hair!

[@elizabethangel7947]

Same. I convinced my mom to transition to natural hair. Our hair has been making so much progress since we started being gentle with it. ❤❤

[@ladydiaspora807]

I've tried to explain this sooooo many times to people. I'm so glad you demonstrated this so that people get the picture.

[@SeunOkimi]

Yes! I'm glad it was helpful!

[@racheloshaksmusic]

“Approaching your hair like a battleground” that just makes me laugh 😂😂😂😂. This video is SO GOOD! I was really interested to hear what you’d say about breakage and you didn’t disappoint! You said what most KZbinrs do not say, maybe they are not aware of it and you said it in love and care. I appreciate the knowledge you shared, your a HUGE help to the natural hair community! Keep being a great leader, example and inspiration to us! God bless you in Jesus name amen. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏾

[@SeunOkimi]

Aw thank you! I really glad you liked the video!❤️❤️

[@racheloshaksmusic]

@@SeunOkimi ❤️❤️

[@tootybrgr]

I have watched a ton of natural hair videos and your description of hard hair and soft hair was the simplest and most helpful piece of information. I have soft hair that breaks easily and I thought I had to use more deep conditioners. I stayed clear of protein thinking that was the issue. Great information!!!

[@SeunOkimi]

Im so glad that it was helpful!!!

[@tinaallen5761]

Yes, Seun, I don't mind longer videos as long as they stay on topic and the information is relevant to the purpose of the video.

[@SeunOkimi]

Awesome!! Noted!❤️

[@BrittanyKatherine]

I loved watching your videos go from permed to natural and just seeing that transition.

[@fountainofworshipwithelsie1325]

I love longer videos. You get more in-depth knowledge on how to care for your hair. Thanks for actually demonstrating it. Most of the Hair salons available to me are very ruff with my hair. I also find it difficult and stressful washing my own hair. My last big chop was on December 2020 and sincerely I feel like chopping it again. I need Help

[@SeunOkimi]

I'm glad it was helpful!! I feel you! You got this!! I hope my wash day videos can help! And a low cut could also be a vibe if it works better for you!

[@Meloyadina]

Always enjoy your in-depth explanation videos. Thanks Seun 💛

[@SeunOkimi]

I'm really glad it is helpful!❤️

[@lynylyn316]

I like longer videos that have helpful info, like this one. Thanks for sharing!

[@SeunOkimi]

Awesome! I'm really glad it was helpful!!

[@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers]

Me too!

[@winnierodriguez3764]

I love your demo on properly caring for your hair.

[@ms.charlotte4027]

You are the greatest Hair Professor on KZbin! Because of you, my hair is now past my shoulders. It's been years since my hair has been this long. Thank you so much!

[@SeunOkimi]

Aw Im so glad these have been helpful to you!!

[@adrenna1973]

Helpful! I use a detangle pick and my fingers. Keeping my hair in a stretched state is ideal. When it gets to a certain length I texturize 2-3 times a year. Less bteakage while keeping my waves, kinks and coils.

[@SeunOkimi]

Nice!!

[@ncmomof3961]

Seun is my hero I needed a family member like her.

[@SeunOkimi]

It makes me really really happy to be able to help!❤️

[@ncmomof3961]

@@SeunOkimi thanks you should feature me in one of your videos 😉

[@reneetaylor8837]

love the longer video! this was awesome!

[@candyc6057]

I love ur authenticity and all the detailed information you provided in the video. Your hair has grown back so fast beautiful 🥰🥰

[@SeunOkimi]

thank you!!

[@ogonwaneri5553]

So happy to see your video on my feed :)

[@lisaj4441]

Great video. You are such a natural teacher. Keep it up sis.

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you!!❤️

[@breekwhal]

This was fantastic and really informative and made me think about things I never considered. My mom was always rough with my hair and I grew up doing the same but now I will treat it better!

[@SeunOkimi]

I'm so glad that it was helpful!!

[@bee7962]

hey seun! I love your hair videos because they make me really love my natural hair more ❤. I also appreciate you not trying to sell us products (lol)! Keep going + never feel discouraged!!

[@SeunOkimi]

Aw thank you!❤️ That makes me really really happy to know!!

[@sarahroyer9953]

Your skinnnnn😍 is glowing

[@naf3802]

Why hello stranger 😊🥰 I'm glad to see a new upload from you love. Thanks for sharing your knowledge 👸🏾

[@SeunOkimi]

heyy🥰 You are very welcome❤️

[@islandgyal3730]

Amazing growth!!! Beautiful!😍👸🏽💕💕

[@daysofOurcaregivingLives]

I like both long and short videos! Thank you for the tips!

[@iiamtianaxo]

you’re so pretty i love your hair videos

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you so much!

[@Tinablackberryrose]

Great video as always. Ty sharing tips that can help us all with breakage.

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you!!!

[@holly_kalonji]

You're so beautiful!🥺 Also, I love how passionately you speak on all things hair! I wish to be as informed on it as much as you!🤞🏾❤️

[@sesordaed__8916]

Longer videos please I love the advice and education I get from watching your videos

[@SeunOkimi]

Awesome! Noted!! Thank you!!

[@janeirohaywood8681]

Love your content -- Longer videos for me are fine 😄 I love the in-depth information -- I have truly learned a lot from your videos -- My hair is now just at BSL and I keep doing my protective styles -- braids, sew-in's and understand -- that patience with taking my hair down is key.. My hair has been put up for months and that I MUST be rested and take my time. I have watch your video "How to properly take down hair from a protective style" Love it.. Thank you Seun ☺

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you so much! I'm so glad!❤️

[@bjmorgan3092]

When I first went natural, I was losing so much hair. All I kept hearing is " you shed 100 hairs a day ". I could not accept that was my issue. I now 7 years later got the breakage under control.

[@timothyc.8666]

I refused to accept that too. I feel that the loss of "100 hairs a day" is the total hairs on your body and not solely the scalp. Because would have been bald a longggg time ago 😂.

[@semoneg2826]

@@timothyc.8666 Lol true

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

🙌🏾 that's what's up, different pace to each as long as as you progress in your hair journey. Love that for you 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@calvinedwards2799]

How did you get it under control?

[@bjmorgan3092]

@@calvinedwards2799 I wash my hair and then deep condition with a conditioner with slip. Before getting under the hair dryer I put it in 4 sections. After deep conditioning is complete, I detangle each section while the conditioner is still on. I retwist each section. I rinse while in section. I then add my leave in to each section on soaking wet hair. For me slip and keeping hair moist while working with it made all the difference. I wash weekly, do LCO, and sleeping in a bonnet keeps my hair from drying out. I do about 5 quick bans nightly. It sounds like a lot but it is not.

[@eo4345]

I’ve been natural for years and finger detangled for years. I find that no matter how many hours u spend finger detangling ur roots will never be really detangled without a tool. And this affects ur growth when ur roots are matted and tangled. I use Denman paddle brush (it’s not the classic denman, it has soft rubber cushion instead of the hard one that slides out, and the bristles are denman style without balls on the end the white needles)

[@talyadraper3221]

I love the tangle teezer! I try to avoid any brushes that have the balls on the end, because the hair will sometimes get tangled around it. I don't use a comb unless I'm cutting my ends.

[@SeunOkimi]

yes! its definitely a good alternative!

[@bootsmade4walking]

Your skin looks so beautiful! GLOWING! Keeping glowing inside and out

[@marleyhill34]

Isn't her skin just JUST!!

[@SeunOkimi]

thank you!!!❤️

[@_.CHI._]

Needed this 🙌🏾

[@yahushasdaughter9106]

Welcome back sis....thank you for posting

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you too❤️

[@FineNaturalHairROCKS]

Always such excellent advice! Detangling is absolutely the worst for imparting unnecessary breakage. I’m so here for more stretched styles as opposed to letting the hair shrink up on itself. Great video Seun!!

[@semoneg2826]

Yes I need to stretch alot

[@SeunOkimi]

Yes!❤❤

[@nanaakosuaadutwumwaa3505]

Love long educative videos ...thanks Seun for sharing with us ❤🇬🇭

[@SeunOkimi]

I'm really glad! Thank you as well!!❤️

[@mahtemefeleke9648]

I love your long videos!

[@kemi.a.2000]

I detangle my hair with a conditioner first before going into the shower. I use a wide tooth comb and it has worked for me. I never comb my hair dry.

[@atinukeoyinbo]

You are so beautiful and inspirational ❤ Excellent video as always!!

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you so much!!

[@mias.4840]

this was so helpful! thank you 💌 also you & your energy are so beautiful & soothing.

[@SeunOkimi]

You are so welcome! I'm really glad it was helpful!

[@baansiin]

Seun is fine sha. Like, I hear all what you’ve said, but damnnn, baby yii fine mehn. You guys be gentle with your hair o👽👽

[@SeunOkimi]

😂😆😆 thank you!!

[@lucilleokonkwo5821]

Seun on the natural hair train, what I've been waiting for 😩 Cant wait for tips on detangling, SSKs and the rest.

[@carmenbailey3218]

I enjoy your videos and yes longer videos are a plus factor. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 🧚

[@SeunOkimi]

So glad!!!

[@yhvhislove]

Very informative video!

[@himynameiscandle7002]

I have a "hand in fro" problem, I'm constantly pulling and tugging at my hair till it breaks 😭 And I have fine hair 😭

[@marleyhill34]

I had that problem until I learnt to start putting my hair away. My trichologists recommend that I don't wear my hair out so I try to remember that especially in winter! I keep it wrapped at home and in winter I keep it wrapped at work.

[@sassouusasoo3607]

@@marleyhill34 Then what's the purpose of having hair if it's always away 🤔. JUST SHAVE IT .

[@marleyhill34]

@@sassouusasoo3607 lol! I would love to shave it but I live somewhere cold in winter and hair keeps my head warm. Lol! Sometimes it's so cold I wear a wig as a hair hat in addition to my wool hat. Lol! Ok seriously the trichologists didn't say never to wear it out. Just to keep it in a protective style about 5 days out of 7. If I move to the tropics, I would have a blond buzz cut.

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

@@sassouusasoo3607 your comment 😁😁😁 I told the same thing to my cousin. Natural for over 6 years but she swears by braids back to back. What's the point? Never got that part

[@sassouusasoo3607]

@@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick lol.She probably is ashamed of her natural hair. 😕

[@TheseWordsTouch]

Your skin is immaculate ❤ you are GORGEOUS

[@nkosikadzi6273]

Very informative Seun. Learnt something 💕❤️

[@SeunOkimi]

I'm really glad!

[@briannaboyce3032]

The longer videos are perfect❤

[@TiarreaB.Naturally]

Very nice video Queen.

[@star0138]

Right …, we need to be patient and take our time.

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

Yeah that's the ultimate key while manipulating african textured hair 💯

[@Hannah-um5fp]

love your videos!❤️

[@SeunOkimi]

I'm so glad!!!

[@itz_soso6627]

I needed this

[@sinqobilemabuza8145]

You’re so beautiful inside and out, there’s just a beautiful aura about you. I’m taking notes 📝

[@SeunOkimi]

Aw thank you!!

[@aishalong9735]

your hair grew out fast. it looks awesome

[@nashira222]

Great video! You've helped me and my son take it to the next level. Also, I've noticed that I can't wash my hair in hot water. Thank you much ❤ from baltimore.

[@michelleroberts9335]

This was a wonderful video. Thanks.

[@rachel12127]

U look so gooddd!!

[@lundisoso]

thanks for you help this break down is easily comprehended

My problem before was constantly dyeing my hair. I could not leave my hair alone for the life of me. Now, I have a terrible habit of putting my hands in my hair (an anxiety problem) so lately, I've been doing more protective styles so I don't have access to it 😂

[@rhyuh]

me tooooo

[@yakwtfgoidgafwabgtsam]

this is so true hahaha. when my hair was growing the most, I consistently finger detangled. All of a sudden, I decided to use combs and brushes to detangle for some silly reason. My hair started to break so often that I was having to cut it every few months. When I realized this, I stopped using tools and being so rough on my hair, and started gently finger detangling in the shower with deep conditioner. My hair is flourishing now!

[@SeunOkimi]

this is so important!

[@YvonneOnline]

22 minutes is fairly good [nods]since you’ve been hiding, hi Seun 😅 good to see you 😊

[@SeunOkimi]

lol, heyyy❤️ haha, thank you!!🥰

[@marleyhill34]

It makes up for all the short videos we are missing. Lol! It's fine you have a life outside of KZbin!!

[@afeahstacy9543]

Your hair is so long now,more natural hair videos pls🥰

[@tammeracalisha5575]

EXCELLENT video!😊

[@rosemakeupxo8221]

This is sooo helpful thank you for your knowledge ❤

[@SeunOkimi]

You're so welcome!❤️❤️

[@deborahthompson5041]

You are very knowledgeable. I have done of the issues you mentioned. Not anymore. Thank you soo much. 4c girl with relaxed hair..

[@TheElay30]

Thanks for this very useful video!! You look FINE girl!!

[@SeunOkimi]

thank you!!

[@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers]

I love longer videos because there's more to talk about in the comments.

[@SeunOkimi]

lol!

[@nay2670]

So beautiful😍 great tips❣️

[@vanessaahialaka7858]

I just love you💖...Thanks for the tips

[@SeunOkimi]

❤️❤️❤️ You are so welcome!

[@tiananelson9146]

My mother...everyone's mother needs to watch ths first part of this video.

[@MoneyMagnet2222]

How do you keep all these video clips organized? The details are immaculate! 💅🏽

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you!

[@________1516]

You’re awesome!

[@victoriadime9057]

Wow you’re aging so beautifully 🥰

[@bertvarner7492]

Thank you Seun! God Bless!

[@Rosemjlifestyle]

You look so good 👍 this video is helpful

[@ndumifakudze]

Your hair is amazing. OMG😍. You are amazing.

[@bleurose1502]

This and a couple other things has seen me retain the 0.5 inches my hair grows a month (average) for the first time in my life and I'm not even consistently eating healthy. I have no doubt I can grow long hair now. So I hope this helps my 4c sisters. But whenever I do my hair (I usually keep protective styles in for a month) I make sure it's a chill day I have movie marathons and put on music and podcasts. I have it set in my calendar and I relax and clear the weekend. I don't wait to have to rush and get stressed. Then I end up fighting for my life with detangling. Ultimately being too rough and doing more damage than good. I'm a 4c girl and I'm a big believer in finger detangling with lubrication. When I use a fine tooth comb after just to see if its detangles it doesn't snag/pull out hairs so I know I can detangle effectively with my fingers alone. I also wash in twists most of the time (big or small). When I just wash my hair all together it definitely creates so many knots all my strands start scrapping with each other under the shower. Washing in twists alone solved half my detangling problems.

[@SeunOkimi]

I love this!

[@louise3611]

Thanks for the info 👍 and long videos are fine

[@SeunOkimi]

You're very welcome!!

[@LoveLove-ct7jw]

🥰I really like your videos, thank you so much dear.

[@patienceorlando7632]

Great video! Would love to see an apartment update also. Take care.

[@shernetbrown4883]

girl I miss you, I wondering when I'll be seeing more content, still love your vids although I'm relaxed, your hair looks beautiful

[@SeunOkimi]

thank you!!!

[@oluchiosakwe]

Love this

[@nusaibaumarmadaki3418]

Seeing you use comb today make me realize I have never seen you use comb on your natural hair.

[@akanibaone7082]

Thanks very helpful content, and greatly appreciated. I've got super soft thin 4c hair and with gentle handling and have applied all your tips, it ends up as broken clumps at the tips of my hair. Help. Also going back to the Motherland, loadshedding, Data, and if the length of your contents are too long, may be a challenge.😪 But great 👍 content. Stay blessed ❤️✌️

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

Go get yourself checked, it could be you have an internal issue that's not noticeable from outside impacting the quality of your hair.

[@brittanycurrency2941]

The way your hair is growing though 😍

[@roseoliver7179]

So very true everything that you are saying I am natural for 3 years

[@becominglala9365]

Really really helpful

[@SeunOkimi]

So glad to hear!

[@goodwork887]

Very helpful. Thanks, sis.

[@SeunOkimi]

So glad!

[@naturalgirllynette]

All great suggest! Also, another tip is to trim your ends.

[@msafful]

Informative video!

[@SeunOkimi]

Glad it was helpful!

[@msafful]

@@SeunOkimi 😊

[@chocolatecoils8200]

I feel this so much and I see so much hair coke out when styling sometimes, just whole strands but I realized that when I look at the hairs that are coming out they have white buds on the end so it may just be loose shed hair and it calms my anxiety

[@msboro]

My hair has become so hard, feeling like wire when dry. I think it got worse after I "fried" my hair by putting shea butter on it and then blow drying on a very high heat. I planned to get a protein treatment so I'm so glad you've said deep conditioning instead of protein. Thank you very much. I'll watch anything you put out, young lady. You give very useful advice so I don't mind how long your videos are. 🇬🇭🇬🇧❤️

[@SeunOkimi]

Thank you!! It makes me happy to know that it is helpful to you!

[@FinishTheRaceVL7]

Shea butter is supposed to be a heat protectant

[@tsuyuasui7297]

@@FinishTheRaceVL7 not really

[@msboro]

@@FinishTheRaceVL7 really? It melted and was so hot that I burned my fingers when I touched my hair.

[@FinishTheRaceVL7]

@@tsuyuasui7297 - do a little research on shea butter & check back with me