The Reality Of Being Married To a Korean Man as a Black woman?

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@mikahope7770
@mikahope7770 Жыл бұрын
This is my friend! I must say they both compliment each other so well, you can see how balanced they are as a couple. Janae has her vibracy and such a bubbly personality, where Won is calm and chill. Plus, both of them are two of the sweetest people I've ever met. Thank you for this interview, and for showing more people what international couples' thoughts and lifestyle can be like!
@lahopkins9746
@lahopkins9746 Жыл бұрын
"They both compliment each other so well." I can see that.
@Msd4-13
@Msd4-13 Жыл бұрын
She seems so sweet! I’m so happy for her, so happy for both of them😊
@BlackNella
@BlackNella Жыл бұрын
Maybe I should give Tinder another chance 🤔
@Ateyaaa
@Ateyaaa Жыл бұрын
great FRIEND!
@milanacampbell4054
@milanacampbell4054 Жыл бұрын
Whats janae’s IG
@oppaheimer88
@oppaheimer88 9 ай бұрын
I’m Korean-American and I’m so glad to see Korean men and Black women finding each other. I’ve always been attracted to Black women but none were really in my orbit and I also didn’t think they were attracted to Asian men. There’s a disconnect and I would love to see it get bridged.
@MsSomaliLife
@MsSomaliLife 7 ай бұрын
Oh wow!! You should definitely approach any black women you may be interested in because most of us are pretty open to Asian men especially Korean men. I know my friends and I talk a lot about dating dating Korean men one day.
@nightangel3578
@nightangel3578 7 ай бұрын
You should definitely talk to the Black women that you're attracted to. You never know what might happen.
@Ayitiana
@Ayitiana 5 ай бұрын
i have a korean male bestie
@Godlovesus78
@Godlovesus78 4 ай бұрын
I find Asian guys so attractive, I am a black woman by the way. I am interested in dating outside my race in the future.
@extrashotofespresso_
@extrashotofespresso_ 4 ай бұрын
I’m finally open to dating Asian men. I’m from New York and the Asian men here don’t like black women at all. A lot run the nail salons, hair stores and Chinese restaurants and are so mean. I saw a small shift when my Asian eye doctor was super nice to me he was from around my generation so I think the young ones are a bit more open minded than the old ones who are mean. Also, when I stayed in Georgia for a bit the Asian men seemed a bit more kind.
@joejames1794
@joejames1794 Жыл бұрын
Janae’s smile lights up a room she’s got a great energy to her
@MoonLightOnWater1
@MoonLightOnWater1 Жыл бұрын
Yes, she’s super adorable🎉
@ebonybowen3014
@ebonybowen3014 Жыл бұрын
Aww Janae! I went to high-school with her and have been following her life in Korea on Instagram. She was always so cheerful and nice- I’m so glad to see her happiness ❤
@Sel-iu6vm
@Sel-iu6vm Жыл бұрын
What is her Instagram ? ❤
@Msd4-13
@Msd4-13 Жыл бұрын
Do you mind sharing her Instagram? I would love to follow she seems so sweet😊
@ebonybowen3014
@ebonybowen3014 Жыл бұрын
@elmolaflair
@heyjanaehey
@heyjanaehey Жыл бұрын
awww Ebony!!! thanks so much girl! 🥹💓💓💓
@247iamtam
@247iamtam Жыл бұрын
​@@heyjanaeheygreat play on your username
@Accuface2000
@Accuface2000 Жыл бұрын
Dude I like your interview style, not cheesy, corny or exaggerated. No faked emotions, Just businesslike and straight to the point. Good questions asked in a professional manner, and your dressing style is cool.
@francinexoxo7363
@francinexoxo7363 Жыл бұрын
She’s so cute n bubbly. Interracial marriage is nothing new- just haven’t been publicized in past and even hidden. I’m always glad to see couples who are happily married regardless of their background. The hubby seems so cool. It takes a real man to want to get married, have a family and take responsibility. I would love to see their wedding photos. They seem happy together.
@francinexoxo7363
@francinexoxo7363 Жыл бұрын
Interesting there are many secrets and story that are never told. I was always told my great grandmother was part Native American but my ancestry DNA said otherwise. It turns out that my dad’s lineage included African and Western European linage. My dad’s fair skinned cousin during 1940s 1950s in Northern Alabama USA was a barber cutting white peoples hair which was not typical or even allowed in the town he resided.
@Jedi_Black
@Jedi_Black Жыл бұрын
Y’all want to promote race mixing so bad huh lol
@Healer-ms2zc
@Healer-ms2zc Жыл бұрын
Black women date out! Don't believe what they tell you when they say you aren't desirable. Also this couple is so cute, many blessings to them and their families ❤
@jyde50
@jyde50 Жыл бұрын
By 2030, black men will date out at a rate of 99%.
@YouYou-sm8tf
@YouYou-sm8tf Жыл бұрын
True. Don’t let the redpills control your self esteem.
@YouYou-sm8tf
@YouYou-sm8tf Жыл бұрын
True. Don’t let the redpills control your self esteem.
@yendaaaa
@yendaaaa Жыл бұрын
@@Givebackthescarf I love you. 😂 yes yes yes.
@StyleswithCourtney
@StyleswithCourtney Жыл бұрын
​@@Givebackthescarfthere are dozens of black women with white men in Hollywood Its just more in reverse
@lunaneila
@lunaneila Жыл бұрын
I like how there are more and more interviews of international couples in general and especially in homogeneous countries. That’s always interesting and for once they are not focused on the negative aspects of it. We’re all aware that they’re facing challenges so that’s refreshing to hear another point of view. And she looks really chill about it all and happy, good for them ^^ Great interview, thanks for your work!
@teshi1424
@teshi1424 Жыл бұрын
same, i love the realness and the positivy, im sick of people acting like korea is the onlu country with rascism.
@chinobandito7625
@chinobandito7625 Жыл бұрын
Every country has a dark side no matter how good they appear on the outside.
@toasturhztoastbunz896
@toasturhztoastbunz896 Жыл бұрын
Agree. I too am tired of Black and Asian rivalry constantly being put on the forefront of mainstream media. I always wanted to see more positive experiences like this.
@Healer-ms2zc
@Healer-ms2zc Жыл бұрын
​@@DrUmarJohnson1Stay mad black women are winning this year and black men are loosing 😂
@toasturhztoastbunz896
@toasturhztoastbunz896 Жыл бұрын
​@@coleslow5519ehh, I feel that's a bit of a wild accusation. While yeah, the questions asked are rather questionable, I feel he's more doing it out of naivety and curiosity other than malicious intent.
@nomfwanime
@nomfwanime Жыл бұрын
a lot of people tend to discourage Black women (people in general) from living abroad in terms of safety, etc., but this proves that everyone's experience can be different. they're so cute! and she's so sweeeeeettt lol
@mariekitty
@mariekitty 6 ай бұрын
I love her vibe. She’s sweet
@NocturnalAce
@NocturnalAce Жыл бұрын
I love this! They seem like they are both each other's best friend as much as they are a married couple. Their vibe together makes for a very good combo for a couple to have. I wish them a happy life together!🥰
@iamgoldennotreally7909
@iamgoldennotreally7909 11 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@rhoneawilliams5019
@rhoneawilliams5019 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe she’s 32. She looks so young And they make such a cute couple!
@markeiaparnell6070
@markeiaparnell6070 Жыл бұрын
This has 32 likes
@chrisr4407
@chrisr4407 Жыл бұрын
She looks older to you?..She looks her age to me
@SinainKorea
@SinainKorea Жыл бұрын
32 is young
@Itsteonna
@Itsteonna Жыл бұрын
@@chrisr4407no she don’t
@SE-gs6gd
@SE-gs6gd Жыл бұрын
How is a 32 yo supposed to look??!?!?
@RonnelB.
@RonnelB. Жыл бұрын
I love how he sounds a bit African American when he speaks. I'm married to a White Frenchman...One day, he told me, "you trifflin'!" I laughed so hard!!!!
@ree2174
@ree2174 Жыл бұрын
Lol.. I'm hollerin'! Can't even be mad!😂
@jamecia90s
@jamecia90s Жыл бұрын
I'm cracking up 😂
@ReginaDillard
@ReginaDillard Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@SuperProcrastina
@SuperProcrastina Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@robinvolpi
@robinvolpi Жыл бұрын
Oh MYyyyyYyyyy 😬🙄
@Idk_Yara98
@Idk_Yara98 Жыл бұрын
I find it so refreshing to hear about how his (and her) family was so welcoming and open minded for them! Hearing such things makes me happy for them
@mrod87
@mrod87 Жыл бұрын
Where did you stay/visit?
@sheesh161
@sheesh161 Жыл бұрын
We love, love to know it ❤
@Yeaaaah_z
@Yeaaaah_z Жыл бұрын
Black women, open up! We deserve love too just like everyone else. Wishing you all love and happiness and many blessings❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
@peeniq
@peeniq Жыл бұрын
I am open!
@Yeaaaah_z
@Yeaaaah_z Жыл бұрын
Awesome sis, hope you find him or vice verse ❤
@Alicedocumentary
@Alicedocumentary 11 ай бұрын
I am open and ready
@Yeaaaah_z
@Yeaaaah_z 11 ай бұрын
@@Alicedocumentary I hope you find your partner very soon sis!
@trishie3376
@trishie3376 4 ай бұрын
At this stage in my life, all I want is for someone to treat me with love, loyalty, faithfulness, and respect. Something that I thought I had, but I was heartbreakingly wrong. My only top criterion that must be met is that he has to share my faith. You can't be happy if the person you're with does not walk the same path.
@tabby3378
@tabby3378 Жыл бұрын
she mentioned a huge point about safety. i felt so free and safe in Korea. it was such a great experience. riding the train without fear. no fear of being a victim of a random shooting. just free
@kimleemoon
@kimleemoon Жыл бұрын
That’s how most Americans lived before the early 2000s. I am a Gen-Xer and life used to be good & SAFE in America too. The R wing gun nuts have ruined this country.
@propertymanager9149
@propertymanager9149 8 ай бұрын
No guns is so freeing
@nicford548
@nicford548 Жыл бұрын
Adorable couple! Black women please please expand your options!!
@akalaSHO
@akalaSHO Жыл бұрын
As someone who is in an international/cultural couple, I cannot stress enough how important it is and how blessed they are to have families who were accepting and open minded to their partners. My in-laws are fantastic, but I know so many interracial couples whose families are hostile and make the couples lives miserable and treat the grandkids as less than. I wish them a lot of success and happiness
@MiaCarter7
@MiaCarter7 Жыл бұрын
Experienced my first break up and he’s Korean. I def think his side received so much commentary and influence, it just didn’t work out. But idk if that was a cultural issue as much as it was just him not having a mind of his own. It really is important to date someone who has an opened minded community around than. I’d suggest if folks date interracially, get to know their community before releasing your heart to them
@melissaa.8547
@melissaa.8547 Жыл бұрын
I love that she says she doesn’t pay attention to anything when she’s with him …that means she trusts him to take care of her …a very good sign
@ChannelFiend
@ChannelFiend Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!! EXCELLENT POINT!!!!!
@trishie3376
@trishie3376 4 ай бұрын
Yes!!
@LeliaVoinea
@LeliaVoinea Жыл бұрын
This couple looks so relaxed together. They give positive vibes and they seem genuinely happy.
@marlene1708
@marlene1708 Жыл бұрын
I think it helped that he lived in the US for 5 years so he is knows the US culture. I think it helps with the combining the family. Also that his sister is dating an American and his family is so welcoming. Really beautiful to see this.
@heyjanaehey
@heyjanaehey Жыл бұрын
yes to all of this! 🫶🏾 all of those things really helped.
@CoolNumber1
@CoolNumber1 Жыл бұрын
Not really. Young generation korean guys are more open minded compared to the older generation.
@ashleyjones5396
@ashleyjones5396 5 ай бұрын
Glad I listened for a while. I see she is military connected. It makes me wonder if he was as well. We had a large military base in Seoul and there are lots of Americans there. We actually have a few bases in Korea. I miss Korea!!!
@pkayt2003
@pkayt2003 Жыл бұрын
Cute couple. I’m black and my long-term boyfriend is also Korean. We do get a lot of stares even in America lol. Most importantly is to find happiness with your partner, no matter what anyone else thinks.
@sunnni_
@sunnni_ Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful and I am just like her, I live my life with rose colored glasses. I am aware of things but I don't let society get to me and how I live my life. And it shows when people meet me and even my friends now are shocked at how I get along with different people from different cultures, etc. I realize when you give people a chance, they are more likely to be nice and welcoming. Wishing this couple a successful and long marriage ❤
@LornaBlakeEmpower
@LornaBlakeEmpower Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your perspective. I very much relate to you! I'm very similar. 😊❤
@TheodoreBakes
@TheodoreBakes Жыл бұрын
​@@Givebackthescarfthisss!!! My first real crush in kindergarten was a white boy named Matthew he had blonde bowl stye cut and light blue eyes. I thought I was in love 😂😂😂
@chichi8946
@chichi8946 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this interview! Cute couple, wish them well and happy their families were accepting of their relationship ❤
@SunnySage122
@SunnySage122 Жыл бұрын
Yeah a Korean guy with visible facial hair is like a diamond in the rough! Facial hair wins for me too! I wish it was more visible in the Korean mainstream
@user-cnksi223
@user-cnksi223 Жыл бұрын
Actually, that was popular style in ancient Korea lol
@StyleswithCourtney
@StyleswithCourtney Жыл бұрын
So is this couple
@nomomania6827
@nomomania6827 Жыл бұрын
During Korea's Joseon Dynasty, every Korean men had facial hair.....it was actually taboo or weird not to have it. Modern day Korea of today, it's the opposite.
@hangten1904
@hangten1904 Жыл бұрын
Because facial hair is associated with old uncles in Asia in general.
@justisiempre4105
@justisiempre4105 Жыл бұрын
@@user-cnksi223 I am a K-drama addict. I have learned more and more about Korean culture and history. Korean history has opened my eyes to Asian culture. iI realize that we humans are more connected than we've been led to believe. Peace
@thanaaabdullah3452
@thanaaabdullah3452 Жыл бұрын
They are adorable, he seems very affectionate and protective over her, I can tell in a lot of his gestures towards her. And he beautiful smile beams and her eyes sparkle when she looks at him. Beautiful couple❤ congratulations Newlyweds
@OE2023
@OE2023 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I got that from his body language, super sweet.
@wannabefarmerr
@wannabefarmerr Жыл бұрын
Safety is key for black people. So I’m glad she found a positive experience with the South Korean culture.
@snteag
@snteag Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to hear both sets of parents were receptive to the relationship.
@Justanurse357
@Justanurse357 Жыл бұрын
She brings out the best in him. You can clearly see. And I sure he does that for her too❤
@ALIGlobal
@ALIGlobal Жыл бұрын
That’s that Georgia girl charm, love her accent.
@jonathantae7753
@jonathantae7753 Жыл бұрын
Cute couple. I can tell the guy has spent a bit of time abroad. His English is really good too.
@nerdthatknits
@nerdthatknits Жыл бұрын
They're so cute. I'm married to a Korean guy and have two kids. I live in the US thou. Love is love.
@tracieperez2629
@tracieperez2629 11 ай бұрын
So glad to see interracial couple relationships! I am black and my husband is Hispanic, we have been happily married for 20 years we have 2 kids and we just click! We are both American, but sometimes it is still surprising for others to recognize us as a couple. When we go into places together people are very accepting, but they always seem to take a minute to place us "together", it's usually, oh....you're with her?.. or vice versa. I always think we came in together and are talking to each other... so, yeah we're together, "this is my husband". I understand you may not know we're married, but clearly, we are friends. Anyway, I am glad that you both have found each other and you don't focus on the little things that can come about from being in a non-typical relationship, I grew in a black area and always thought I would marry a black person, but after joining the military, I dated many different races and I realized you connect with who you connect with. It could be "black-love" "white-love", "brown-love", or "mixed-love", lol.
@kaishajones
@kaishajones Жыл бұрын
I love, love LOVE this couple. This is my favorite video so far. Black Women Date Out and love who loves, takes care of and adores you. ❤✨😍
@kennethhurst6296
@kennethhurst6296 Жыл бұрын
They care and support each other, and that’s what is important. They both seem like cool, easy going people.
@vcwloves9864
@vcwloves9864 Жыл бұрын
They look like they balance eachother out. I wish them the best!!!
@Msd4-13
@Msd4-13 Жыл бұрын
They have friends who commented on the video and said that they do balance out one another. They have said that she’s vibrant, sweet and bubbly and he’s more chill and laid back.
@vcwloves9864
@vcwloves9864 Жыл бұрын
@@Msd4-13 My husband and I are the exact same way. He's more outgoing than I am. We've been married 13 years! Opposites do attract--we each bring something new to the table.
@andreaxyloholt2347
@andreaxyloholt2347 Жыл бұрын
I am glad they have good support. As someone in an interracial couple, that always helps! Wish them many blessings!
@bitokay147
@bitokay147 Жыл бұрын
They both are not only cute but seem so genuine! This was beautiful! Its just color who still cares about skin tone and race lol
@opearemo
@opearemo Жыл бұрын
I wasn't expecting to enjoy this. Their positivity is infectious. ❤ I pray they continue to have a beautiful life together! ❤❤❤
@raven1always
@raven1always Жыл бұрын
Yal are adorable!! And she has a certain light and positivity to her that is very refreshing. Congrats you guys! 🥰
@gloriamorris1662
@gloriamorris1662 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! That’s how you do it. Don’t worry about anyone else. No one else matters. Y’all are in love, families on board. ❤
@vamswolfmom4498
@vamswolfmom4498 Жыл бұрын
I love busy body Janae and her man (what she calls him😃). They are cute and I love that they are friends and always active!❤❤
@ShanajayeandEric
@ShanajayeandEric Жыл бұрын
Have her some grand babies definitely sounds like Janea’s mom! I can literally here her saying that! Lol (former colleague). So happy for you both. 💍
@heyjanaehey
@heyjanaehey Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 that’s so my momma right! and thank you so much 🫶🏾
@riannedaemul
@riannedaemul Жыл бұрын
The communication shows how they are like,l envy them😅 what a blessing they have each other ❤
@esuvan
@esuvan Жыл бұрын
She’s doing a great job repping ATL!
@brwnhilarybanks9953
@brwnhilarybanks9953 9 ай бұрын
"hard to find a girl like her" meltsssss for her!
@tweet12tweety
@tweet12tweety Жыл бұрын
This was a very nice interview .This are is very sweet and you can tell that they're in love and they are best friends and they're gonna be there for each other and They are not worried about what anyone else thinks, I wish you many many days overflowing with so much love for each other, And blessings to have children ❤❤❤❤
@geraniquegreene2403
@geraniquegreene2403 Жыл бұрын
They're such a beautiful couple. ❤❤
@monstafloppa871
@monstafloppa871 10 ай бұрын
They are cute and I wish them well. Honestly, the fact that both sets of parents are onboard and there really isn't a language gap really helps a lot. Best of luck to both of them in their journey. Great interview on your part as well!
@1hotshon
@1hotshon 10 ай бұрын
I love that they are both just open-minded happy people. Not thinking too hard... Life is fun when you are open to experiences without judgement. You can see that he really steps up for her too, so I love that she is protected!!
@vivianspencer2787
@vivianspencer2787 Жыл бұрын
Very attractive looking couple you two look good together. As long as you both are happy that’s all that matters
@prettygirlpandora
@prettygirlpandora 11 ай бұрын
@7:39 was truly a beautiful & refreshing thing for me to hear. It speaks as a testament to his love, care, protection & devotion to his wife that when she’s with him, there isn’t a thought or care in the world. She automatically knows & feels so safe when in his presence. That is a beautiful precious blessing that I hope to feel & have in my love life as well.
@fummioh2139
@fummioh2139 Жыл бұрын
How cute are they?!?!?!? You can feel the happiness exuding from her!
@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 Жыл бұрын
This was such a pleasant video to watch!!! Thank you for posting it. It is wonderful to see their love and acceptance from their families.
@MsLila1507
@MsLila1507 Жыл бұрын
They where one of the greatest couples that you interviewed. Loved them. ❤🎉
@emylix3
@emylix3 Жыл бұрын
I love this couple! Rooting for their happiness and success.
@ChannelFiend
@ChannelFiend Жыл бұрын
Y E S ! ! !
@ej13012010
@ej13012010 Жыл бұрын
She seems genuine and bubbly and cute and he's hot he knew what he wanted it's nice they were on the same page I believe that's how it should be
@aworlds1
@aworlds1 Жыл бұрын
Interviewer probes for issues… Couple meets that with ALL Love. Rose Colored glasses give you clarity. Keep seeing your world through the lens of Love.
@KylaTalks
@KylaTalks Жыл бұрын
Men stay saying they want basketball teams! SIR. You have the kids, then! Lol. - Also, shoutout to them! They're both very hot and very sweet and sound like they have an ideal romance. Wishing them the absolute best!
@JST03
@JST03 Жыл бұрын
Nah I love that. It's not their fault they're not the ones that can have them, but I mean putting life in another person is pretty awesome when you think about it. But more on topic, I'm tired of hearing about the men that don't take care of their kids, but as their are many like that, there are just as many that want to sire a small nation lol. Some be wanting these bigass families with 7 kids running around and I'm like they better pop out twins n triplets or sum 😅 we finna pop out babies like how we like to carry groceries in the house
@Itsteonna
@Itsteonna Жыл бұрын
@@Givebackthescarfmen don’t consider how painful it is to birth children and what it permanently does to women’s bodies. I guess it’s easier for them to say because they ever have to experience any of it
@BlueBabyAkaAj
@BlueBabyAkaAj Жыл бұрын
She's been there for four years. You can become gluent in any language in under one year. You can do this girl!
@22s22a
@22s22a Жыл бұрын
Yeah she hasnt really been trying if 4 years she can't, Maybe her job doesn't need her to
@SE-gs6gd
@SE-gs6gd Жыл бұрын
Korean is a tough language to learn tho especially if you only speak one language
@heyjanaehey
@heyjanaehey Жыл бұрын
@@SE-gs6gdexactly! thanks ☺️
@heyjanaehey
@heyjanaehey Жыл бұрын
@@22s22ayou’re right! i just started studying this year. i was only planning to stay in korea for 1 year originally. but hey! better now than never.
@gloriamorris1662
@gloriamorris1662 Жыл бұрын
Loved how he said that he couldn’t find any else like her.❤
@gloriamorris1662
@gloriamorris1662 Жыл бұрын
This is so nice 👍
@peacelife
@peacelife Жыл бұрын
Aw nice couple. Glad they found each other.
@YoungYoung-k5u
@YoungYoung-k5u 8 ай бұрын
I traveled to many countries, and Korea is definitely one of the safest and cleanest and convenient countries.
@emmaeIIe
@emmaeIIe 8 ай бұрын
What a nice couple. Wishing them loads of love and happiness.
@heyjanaehey
@heyjanaehey 8 ай бұрын
thank you 💕
@777videos7777
@777videos7777 Жыл бұрын
They are a cute couple. The interviewer’s bias came out at times when he assumed Janae didn’t know anything about Korean culture before she arrived and he put too much emphasis on her being Black and assumed it was negative.
@eimearmcmanus372
@eimearmcmanus372 10 ай бұрын
What a nice couple, I love the girl's personality, she's so bubbly and fun.
@carolynfehr
@carolynfehr Жыл бұрын
Nice to see Korea opening up.
@kakag.7401
@kakag.7401 Жыл бұрын
They’re a beautifully blended couple 🫶🏽 I love to see it
@adrianarnold1239
@adrianarnold1239 Жыл бұрын
Interviewer awesome ..love your style of communication with the people... nonthreatening and calm....great questions...keep it coming...also you let them talk😂😂😂
@eagledescending5766
@eagledescending5766 Жыл бұрын
There’s a lot I can say about this clip, but as an Afro-Asian myself I faced many obstacles of displacement in my early youth; especially, in my case where I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid. My facial features and hair texture were completely east-Asian oriented. I’m NOT knocking interracial couples, but there’s a lot to be aware of nowadays. If a black or white-American marries one another that’s different because they both come from the same American language and culture, well, for the most part. But the cultural and language barriers between black America and Korea are quite steep, and it’s the same between my two racial halves. Racial displacement is a societal mishap my parents would never have thought of as they weren’t the identity-crisis generation. Nowadays, societal norms are much different, but I would definitely say that cultural or identity crisis is a societal trigger that this young couple in the video clip will have to be aware of when they decide to start a family. Identity crisis has so many byproducts that can cause deviations and troubles in any family. Many young couples will UNDERESTIMATE the foregoing principle I just stated because they’re from a generation that promotes-JUST BE WHO YOU ARE. Unfortunately, they can only wish that SOCIETY will make it that simple for them. But the bottom line is that once any man or woman pledges love and commitment in marriage, then their worst adversary will become SOCIETY, and that’s even when the couple are the same race and ethnic group.
@Msd4-13
@Msd4-13 Жыл бұрын
I’ve usually found that the kids with mothers that are black are usually more grounded and don’t suffer from identity crisis as much as kids with Asian or white mothers. I don’t feel like the language barrier is an issue with them, as they both spent time in America and he’s fluent in English. I do believe that she should continue and try her best to be fluent in Korean as it shows respect for her husbands culture and it’ll be great for when they have children.
@missssophisicated6742
@missssophisicated6742 Жыл бұрын
Which parent is black? That makes a big difference..
@eagledescending5766
@eagledescending5766 Жыл бұрын
@@Msd4-13 I would be an exception to the default that you gave as far as having a more concrete identity; my mother is the black parent. Although, from my experiences, whether the mother or father was the non-black parent didn’t make much of a difference in my time and generation growing up. As I previously posted, I couldn’t pass for being an African-American kid, and as a result, in order to bond with the black youth in my time, there was one prerequisite that had to be met, and that is you had to look a certain way that resembled their facial features, if not that, then at a bare minimum you had to be absorbent to their sub-cultural climate; those were standards or qualities that I didn’t meet. As a result, an identity crisis was right up at my doorstep. I assure you that I wasn’t the only bi-racial in my time going through such regardless of who the non-black or black parent was. Overall, it depends on the bi-racial’s life circumstances because environment plays a big part in one’s life. As far as different languages, I agree with you that if both are willing to learn each other’s native languages or have knowledge thereof, then that should help to create an even balance in their union, although, it’s NOT a universal guarantee. But that’s NOT what I was implying. The language barriers between Asian and black communities are very STEEP. The two racial communities are obviously NOT going to exchange or share racial identities, and the language differences will MAKE SURE of that, so, that in itself can place an Afro-Asian in a predicament that he or she is NOT going to like as well as contribute to an identity crisis. Why? Because he or she would have no choice but to keep the two worlds separate and apart from one another; the only exception would be in-laws on both of their parental sides, and I assure you that I was no exception. If I had tried to link the two communities of both my racial halves, one would feel infringed upon the other, and it would have been-Game On!!! The whole point to my original post was that an identity crisis can possibly be the result of a hostile racial environment which happens to many bi-racials such as myself. Sure, the African-American lady in the video clip can learn her husband’s language, but would her racial community be as receptive?!!! Think about it because the mother’s racial community would still be a large part of the child’s life, and it could go either way of being receptive or hostile. This goes back to what I originally stated that when a man or woman pledges love and commitment to one another, the wiles of SOCIETY will find its way into their lives as an adversary. My original post was speaking from a COMMUNITY standpoint because that’s what makes up ENVIRONMENT and NOT from an individual basis that you were alluding to. When an interracial couple has a child, what kind of ENVIRONMENT will that bi-racial child inherit, especially with two of their racial halves that are POLAR OPPOSITES?!!! Hope this helps for a clearer understanding.
@MrsTruthTeller
@MrsTruthTeller Жыл бұрын
Where did you grow up?
@eagledescending5766
@eagledescending5766 Жыл бұрын
@MrsTruthTeller I grew-up in NYC.
@Ducky190
@Ducky190 3 ай бұрын
They're such a beautiful couple. Love is love no matter what part of the world your partner comes from. I love to see it!😊❤
@saucejones
@saucejones 8 ай бұрын
Im in a relationship with someone who i love deeply, but the difference between this couple and us is that my parents have deeply impacted our relationship in many ways. Seeing this makes me happy for them. I wish the challenges i still face didnt have to be. The generation of immigrants have sort of a lost time period, where the parents didnt get to learn or see the changes in the world that has lead to something like what the guys parents are, more open minded, versus koreans who immigrated to the US in the 70’s,80’s even 90’s. Id say most were more so of the mindset that isnt open minded, i mean that in the most complicated way. Its so difficult. Stubbornness is ah forget it. Bless these two. This vid is awesome❤
@crest4sensation938
@crest4sensation938 Жыл бұрын
Very professional journalist and the couple is nice. Best wishes to them!
@xxnopexxsxs1019
@xxnopexxsxs1019 6 ай бұрын
she's so cute and bubbly! i can see why he's with her! she's adorable and has got a good energy and makes you feel at ease when you talk to her!
@maryallen2317
@maryallen2317 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful 😊😍 couple. Congratulations 🎊 and I wish them much love and happiness.
@DrUmarJohnson1
@DrUmarJohnson1 Жыл бұрын
I wish them misery, pain, and a separation! Not thrilled seeing his kind with our women!!!
@snazzyninja6798
@snazzyninja6798 Жыл бұрын
@@DrUmarJohnson1We aren’t YOUR women. We are of the same racial group but that doesn’t mean we belong to you. You have zero ownership over us and we are free to be with whoever we please.
@julianajoyechavez2945
@julianajoyechavez2945 Жыл бұрын
Love See's no colour or boundaries.
@Joyful_Smiles
@Joyful_Smiles Жыл бұрын
He's Korean but he has Black American mannerisms. The deep voice and accent. His rocking back and forth. The calm demeanor, confident, steady eyes. I can see why she is attracted to him. He's what she is used to. They compliment each other very well.
@IAMHERE486
@IAMHERE486 11 ай бұрын
Uh no.He’s Korean!
@keshi5541
@keshi5541 21 күн бұрын
nothing to do with black american mannerisms. Also many different men have deep voices bro.
@amiyrbarclift1640
@amiyrbarclift1640 Жыл бұрын
This is cool. I used to have issues with interracial couples and things like that but if someone is treating you well the race doesn’t matter.
@dodgerswschamp5166
@dodgerswschamp5166 11 ай бұрын
very eye-opening for me... this and the previous video with the firefighter couple... I always thought most of the Koreans were racist towards non-white, non-kyopo foreigners. It still may stand true, but it's really nice to know that I could be wrong.
@smileawhile23
@smileawhile23 6 ай бұрын
she is so cute. she seems to have a bubbly personality. they seem to be a great match. all the best guys!
@pinksea7399
@pinksea7399 Жыл бұрын
They are such a cute couple! I hope you have lots of babies. XOXO🥰
@roseinharlem8152
@roseinharlem8152 Жыл бұрын
Her husband is GORGEOUS!
@Citystateanonymate
@Citystateanonymate Жыл бұрын
Okay but can we take a step back because they are both SO CUTE!! She is so pretty and her husband is drop dead attractive like omg
@junemedford3296
@junemedford3296 11 ай бұрын
Awwwww im so happy..ive always believed that love is love this is what the world needs you just never know who is the right person for you who you'll fall in love with and to be open its about who loves you, supports you, respects you how they treat you its so hard to find that special someome and love..be open to it open your heart.
@justisiempre4105
@justisiempre4105 Жыл бұрын
I am a Boomer who started traveling about 40 years ago! It is delightful to see women of color out and about these days. Traveling being an African-American woman, I am accustomed to having people stare at me, wanting to touch my hair, or being surprised when I speak their language. It was a surprise when I realized that I felt safer and freer to be "me" abroad. I say "go folks"! Pursue your dreams, and be your best you! American racism/white supremacy/anti-black ideology is AMERICAN. In other cultures, you will learn what their color issues are and why. Yes, there is pain and oppression within other groups however, for POC/Americans it is a relief to leave the American racism behind. Peace
@BB-gd7ez
@BB-gd7ez Жыл бұрын
Anti-blackness is global. However, it might not cause us physical harm as a result in other countries. It ia also the only time Black Americans are treated as Americans.....and in many places that comes with the privilege of being treated with respect that we don't get at home.
@mempto
@mempto Жыл бұрын
Love this couple. Also, Jerry is looking so cool. Loving that style.
@binoyandpinay777
@binoyandpinay777 11 ай бұрын
You two look so good for each other, many blessings to the both of you:) Love the interview.
@gasmasongs
@gasmasongs Жыл бұрын
Ahh, they were so sweet, A very attractive couple, many blessings!
@iancaldeian
@iancaldeian 11 ай бұрын
A beautiful couple both physically and amicablly. I wish I had their positive outlook on life. I'm Caribbean who has been living in New York for 30 years and confess that I'm not so pragmatic. My only suggestion is that a soccer team has 11 players. The world needs to be populated by people like you. Please remain the same.
@mayarozemonroe7811
@mayarozemonroe7811 Жыл бұрын
Aww I love this so much! Maybe there’s hope for me yet! The AMBW community is so small and hard to find a good one!
@StyleswithCourtney
@StyleswithCourtney Жыл бұрын
If its on KZbin Then its nor common in real life
@artistasha9331
@artistasha9331 Жыл бұрын
​@@StyleswithCourtneyDo you feel better being negative now. Yeesh. 🤦🏾‍♀️
@williamkorean5414
@williamkorean5414 11 ай бұрын
Me lol
@LonnieBhi
@LonnieBhi 10 ай бұрын
​@@StyleswithCourtneyIt is common where I live. You just don't understand geographics.
@Lucymar-2024
@Lucymar-2024 7 ай бұрын
I think the great thing about this couple is the good attitude they both have. In addition to having decided to get to know other cultures and come from families with great values ​​and not closed ones.
@pappico
@pappico 8 ай бұрын
Both are blessed to have each other, and their families are cool with the relationship too. Hope they have baby #1 soon 🍼
@denastrong800
@denastrong800 11 ай бұрын
I especially love and root for AMBW couples 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@nikieria
@nikieria 10 ай бұрын
32 is crazy 😩 she looks like 22ish ❤ love that for her
@junlarue1
@junlarue1 6 ай бұрын
They are adorable as hell; even my daughter said 'WOW! They are so cute', as she passed by. Good for them, they have good chemistry, and we wish them the best. We are black Americans, but mixed culture (Ghanaian, Jamaican & Cuban) and even that is a challenge...like oil and water... because at the end of the day my family is from different countries/cultures that think their way is the best way.
@JB-lc6fi
@JB-lc6fi Жыл бұрын
I’m rooting for them!! ❤️
@GuamPhotographer
@GuamPhotographer 10 ай бұрын
They seem like a TOTALLY cute couple! AWESOME!
@carmellabrown3335
@carmellabrown3335 Жыл бұрын
They are a beautiful couple, she has such a good aura 💕
@giachannel833
@giachannel833 Жыл бұрын
I luv black women dating interracially and marrying interracially.. The relationships are so positive and they are putting a 💍. Congrats on your marriage.
@tiffanycurtis4794
@tiffanycurtis4794 Жыл бұрын
No, it has no color❤️
@cheeseandsprinklez
@cheeseandsprinklez 11 ай бұрын
they compliment each other so well. they will make gorgeous babies! Janaes smile!
@williamclark1244
@williamclark1244 Жыл бұрын
They make a really cute couple. I wish them all the best.
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