The Reason Black Coffee Divorced Enhle Mbali

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[@Prisstine_Ayisha]

To be honest, this is my FIRST TIME seeing Black Coffee talk😅😅 This guy never really talks,,,, but I love how humble he really is

[@this_is_nyeleti]

I had never seen him speak. So calm. And the narrative is the same. ‘Protecting family’. Like Kiernan said a lot of times… Dear men it’s ok to speak out.

[@nonoesibbz8373]

I love how chilled black coffee is yoh. So calm so collected. So mature ❤

[@zolanikayiyana8477]

Dude❤❤

[@nonkululekoleratofakude3114]

It’s so attractive

[@MsidosWamaHit]

The respect Mag G Has for Rich people is Amazing... His mood changes when he talk to a Broke Artist

[@melrossokahlabs4100]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PHoz_y]

This theme song is such a jam …. Truly love it 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾❤️❤️❤️

[@mogaumaapola6792]

What is the name of the song?

[@simphiwexulu3797]

Can't get over how well the production is doing .

[@banelemcin]

I completely understand this man. It’s not black and white. We are born in sin and will sin as beings. He deserves grace as much as Enhle does🤞🏽. May God bless them both! They didn’t have the grace to live their lives, make mistakes, big mistakes and hurt people in private like us.🙏🏽🙏🏽. Gods mercy is enough🤞🏽

[@sm5970]

I love your attitude. Your husband will be a very lucky man. It’s so important to understand these things and plan well on how two people are going to tackle such matters when they happen.

[@banelemcin]

@@sm5970 🙏🏽

[@ziziphokweyiya]

Best Response ever, how I wish we all thought like that❤️

[@m.x.refrigxolani8365]

But how was he bashed by South African feminists? Do you see why some of us men don't care anymore? We just go on about our business. We cannot be brought down by either politicians, feminist movements, neither all men-haters. We came to this earth by God's will, and only by His will we live and then will leave.

[@gomo8523]

This is really beautiful 😢

[@nthotochabane2716]

I don't like how he says cheating is a norm. There is nothing normal about that. Once women cheat the marriage ends. But when men do it haona nex. Haai.

[@modernafrica7180]

The decision is in your hands. No body said forgive men

[@happilydivorced3235]

The saddest thing is that he normalised cheating as something to accept despite its destructive nature to the family structure. He also implied that it was Enhle’s flaws that made him do it. I hope he’s either in an open relationship now or his therapy has helped him to realise that lying and cheating hurts people. Im happy that he’s going through therapy to work on his issues. Abuse is always a choice, regardless of childhood issues.

[@sithembilexulu7666]

I mean really? And as an old celebrity most of youngsters are looking up to him. With all due respect he is uttering nonsense there.

[@jerryrich4666]

He built his value now he can do whatever he wants. Leave him alone. He's exercising his options.

[@jerryrich4666]

@@lebogangomoregie8669 exe don't talk bout my family. Hare di achuz.

[@lebogangomoregie8669]

@@jerryrich4666 O seke wa kwata ka hypothetical family. You too can cheat on your "wife" when you make money because you will have options. Let's let this die here achuz.

[@nomcebomasuku8102]

Well said

[@lindelwamateza7273]

Why do some women build a future with men who decide to cheat once they taste success? I don't get it. If your wife is everything when you're down , why can't she be your everything when you shine? Do you find other women who seem better than the one you've always been with ? I just don't get it yazi I think people should try avoid getting married if they don't understand what a holy union is. It's better than lying to yourself and divorcing in the end when there's kids and family involved and it becomes a broken mess. People need to be educated on what a relationship is, it's not always a honey moon you work on it. Sometimes you get angry, sometimes you don't have sex , sometimes you're not on the same path or even the same house or city but you work on it because you always remember where you started. You work on it , it doesn't matter if you're a celebrity. You can't be a celebrity at home, your wife is your wife and your husband is your husband not your Grammy or awards or fans. People just forget that they take their parents mistakes and bring it into their relationships cause they think that's how it is. Actually it's not normal to cheat or lie or divorce. You allow yourself to grow through each phase of the relationship that's why it's so important to be best friends with your partner first , not just focus on looks or status cause that can change through time. People divorce for stupid things nowadays, expiring relationships ? What bullshit is that, if he had doubt he should've never wasted her time

[@fauziarodrigues6062]

Well spoke

[@sanemshazi7000]

This comment is everything ❤️❤️

[@vakashibise]

Took words right out of my mouth. Selfishness played a huge role here and he wants to justify it by saying IT WILL HAPPEN. Bathong 🙄

[@cliffordkapia766]

No one is immune to sin. Courage and honor is not built evenly in men and women, your views are logical but people aren't. And that's not even taking into consideration the temptation that comes with wealth a status.

[@orkwape6387]

​@cliffordkapia766 spot on. I am sure Black Cofee didnt go that isle knowing he will divorces, same with Enhle. Bit things happen. And it is just that.

[@ziphoramonare2659]

I am inspired how chilled Black Coffee is. You are human Abuti. Just do you ❤❤

[@mammierathebe3084]

WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES DUDE....GOD LOVES ENHLE A LOT.....& LOVES YOU TOO.....KEEP ON KEEPING ON...DO GOOD FOR HUMANITY, YOUR KIDS ETC. WE ALL LEARN EVERY DAY.

[@mermaid30019]

Mistakes we are adults we make good and poor decisions

[@zeetee9161]

“It’s just us”. I hope MacGyver got this. We have the power to build, to uplift and to destroy. We must always be mindful of that and close every episode in that manner.

[@sefahanetaole2412]

I don't know why I always thought Black Coffee met his ex-wife on Tshisa, it was the 1st time I saw Enhle on the small screen and I remember the episode where Black Coffee was featured! I think it was around the time when Coffee was promoting the song Lo Mhlaba feat Siphokazi, I stand corrected

[@marykhumalo8394]

Thought that was the story. They also said he was with Bafana and she left him for Coffee

[@pmambongwe8640]

They did meet then but she was also on Channel or she started afterwards

[@GlamfitbyAmrit]

Let’s do some Coffee! Best line. Love it! ❤

[@tkgakge]

What a man Black Coffee is/becoming! we love to see it -taking accountability

[@zanelemofikoe2374]

It’s a norm??? 🧐🤨😏 this statement really confuses me!!! I feel like people are making it normal to avoid the heartache and dysfunction that cheating and dating more than one person actually brings into a home!!!

[@zainabinti5170]

He cheated first.

[@thabopike5842]

Yeah it's a norm. That's why he said we are afraid to touch in this topic. People are cheating left, right and center, kuba normal...

[@africaunity4320]

The problem is that women think that a man is just another women.

[@youngtillaworld_za3477]

​@@africaunity4320 explain

[@luyandajayjonsile2545]

​@@zainabinti5170 nope

[@Marchabieweetz_4549]

I hope entle listen to this and realize that God saved her. Imagine being married to a man who believes that cheating is normal and woman needs to accept that and live with it. He has all the money in the world but unfortunately he has no wisdom. The scary part he's not even aware. He fells sorry entle I'm sure entle fells sorry for him as well. It's a shame 😢

[@TheMoramaExperience]

I bet you you are approaching your 30s and single so young respectful ladies should ignore this gibberish you just posted

[@eugenepole7377]

I dnt think u understood what he meant. In a nutshell he is saying we as men are taught and encouraged to cheat in society. Women have to know and understand that. He is not saying that's ryt but dats wat happns in society. So for u as a women if u u understand that then u would understand wat to do to encourage and build ur man to be bigger that that and help us to break that circle(he ddnt say that but thats wat he is insinuating). And he feels sorry for her coz she has issues and he was being there for her to deal with it but now that they are not together, he cnt. Dats the reason he feels sorry for her.

[@zibusenimalinga3275]

Truly enjoyed this discussion. Took alot from it, thank you team & coffee... 🙏

[@lindiwekhumalo5253]

What happens in ibiza stay in ibiza or UK

[@SheCanSmile]

this man is so humble i like his spirit

[@mantwamatlabe750]

I'm married to such humble man, ask me lol at home, they are the most abusive men, and as a woman you need to keep everything together to appear perfect and most respected family. I'm going through depression, I can't move from this, have kids, house, have everything this man provides. Elders always say if a man provides, what more do you want as a wife. This is what our parents went through, so do we.

[@zukozuko9690]

He is indeed humble thus y he is successful

[@simodube7248]

@@mantwamatlabe750 so you will choose depression just free yourself and move on

[@balisabalisa6057]

@mantwa choose you my love, choose your sanity, your peace and your heart. Walk away from that marriage before it destroys you

[@user-nl8ol3sy9m]

Black coffee has some proper emotional intelligence, they way he addressed infidelity on both ends some realistic talks that need to happen nice very nice Adulting ka nnete

[@leratomotlhakane2629]

Are you listening girls.... He is going to chow you and not marry you😢😢😢😮😮😮Don't complain he said it, Loud and clear!!!!!!

[@msbeemwale5259]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 pretty much clearer. To me he is saying a lot but his saying nothing

[@kgomotsoletlape2050]

Yoooo Lerato...he made it so clear heyyyy😮

[@pathiswapiyose4518]

And made them pregnant

[@talentamakhubele5242]

Black Coffee inspires me a lot that's I like him too 🙌🙌

[@Perseverance.Nosizwe]

Black Coffee sounds heavily hurt but on a healing process and I think Black Coffee loved his wife and still loves her. All the experiences he went through his marriage he learned and became more matured out of it.he's accepted that, there are things that cannot be changed. Which is fine because you can still let go

[@rhulaninkuzana6864]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣One of the best interviews on Podcast and Chill, I love you guys🔥🔥🔥

[@tshepiisodaddy9298]

He's one of a kind,so down to earth and very humble dude🏆he acts well,he speaks well, he's a great man such an inspiration I've learned alot from you big bro❤

[@mphoradebe1163]

Dude is so cool, it's okay to divorce if it is not working. Believe me toxic relationship leads to abuse and killings.

[@thembekilekobo]

Black coffee is so humble that i literally shed a tear while he was speaking 😢❤God bless you My Dj

[@kiizatf5003]

10:02 - Healing your inner child! I HEARD THAT.

[@judhilosper9832]

I think men can't take what they give he cheated all the time And she decided to do the same

[@OJ_PABLO]

She should've just left if she couldn't handle it

[@Meandyouisnus]

@@OJ_PABLO but this guy said it is the norm, it is the norm for women too. It is time men expect that women want more than one man

[@Tha-Rock]

@@Meandyouisnus those kind o' women are left for the streets/ not taken seriously by high value men like Black Coffee. They are usually taken seriously by average guys with no edge, average salary or the like.

[@Meandyouisnus]

@@Tha-Rock 🙄🙄🙄 high value men without character? Please a man of the streets deserves a woman from the streets

[@Meandyouisnus]

@@Tha-Rock and a virtuous woman should be no where near a promiscuous man. What does light have to do with darkness

[@funk-jf9nb]

That was deep and everything Coffee said makes sense.

[@nhlanhlangobeni2204]

McG makes everyone comfortable I've never seen Coffee this comfortable before

[@TheLifeOfTshegoM]

Cheating is not a norm! No woman will take that well he is just making an excuse for himself!

[@lunaclipsemedia3760]

"Most hurtful thing about being black cofee (fame and celebrity) is that everyone has an opinion about me).

[@phumelarulashe63]

Infidelity will never be normal!

[@thatogideonmashego8254]

💯

[@Siboniso1000]

Brings the stones mohhamed

[@busisiwetshabalala6420]

Never

[@sibshub7234]

At all

[@mthobiputini4735]

It's been happening since the beginning of time

[@Sindisile]

I love the Signature track playing in the backround

[@fifimahlangu4986]

One thing I see watching this now is that black coffee really loved enhle

[@setsanaitibare4047]

Zero accountability!

[@retshidisitsweratlalane8755]

Imagine!! 2 kids from different mothers? But he feels sorry for enhle? 😭😭😭

[@balisabalisa6057]

Right??

[@kgotsothapelo2830]

I respect DJ black coffee and what he has to know is that he owes no one anything

[@zamadlomo3118]

Yes he owes his children something.

[@bapiweyantolo8513]

It's okay whatever happened has happened. She is the mother of your sons, respect her and support her. Be there for your children. It is LIFE. All the best to both of you. Live, Laugh,Love❤

[@itumelengmahaole5890]

What does supporting her entail? It's a genuine question.

[@pulanetsotetsi3542]

I just want them to fix it

[@faithcadogan7035]

😂 That 🤣 laugh 😂 after 🤣"coffee 😂" cracked 🤣 me 😂🤣 Nathi 😂 is 🤣 funny 😂🤣

[@picpoo1801]

There is so much pain in the words "I'll never be married again"

[@rudolfgutu4365]

The greatest Podcast ever keep it up MacG

[@SithembileButhelezi-pe1el]

Mr Maphulo Sir, much love and respect for you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@luthandomolefe3063]

The man who spoke the honest truth about (Therapy), 100% AGREE with him Therapist play a huge role in ones fully recovering from whatever they went through 🤞

[@matthewsditlhake]

Black Coffee : "We are such a young nation and this Podcast(Podcast and Chill with MacG) is such an important platform for that young nation" 'I felt it all' 🔥🔥🔥

[@tzeemohami9447]

Mmmmm yeah neh but still love Mbali 👑✊🤞💖😍😘

[@stee7805]

He's pulling o jayz on enhle but he fathered 2 children out of wedlock! Tsek

[@zimkhithangqokomashe5520]

No one will talk about this. No will one call him names like they did Enhle…. When a man destroys his family he gets prays and when a woman does the same she gets insults.

[@retshidisitsweratlalane8755]

Imagine. 😳

[@youngeconomist3125]

Naledi is gonna kill Mag G 🤣🤣 interesting interview ever

[@stewmzhimself3907]

Women will fall for your free-spirited, daring nature and guap. They love that you're an eagle but then want to turn you into a caged dove after the wedding. Now flapping your wings is a problem, let alone, flying.

[@Nyalaize]

Thanks for this perspective

[@kgomotsoletlape2050]

Let's Do some... Coffeeee😂😂😂 tht laughter heyyy...naughty

[@MarbleMpho]

Hope you guys get back together❤❤❤i pray sooo♥️

[@mathobelamarinkie-wy1jb]

Just follow your hearts and give what the heats want and forget about the rest .you are a human being as well . good luck

[@phumelelemkhize195]

Ah. Lies lies lies. How's it a norm? Dysfunctional behaviors are not a norm!

[@wznw4916]

Sis' dysfunctional behavior from a dysfunctional person/society IS a norm.

[@kelesitse6618]

You're literally agreeing with him. 'the norm' isn't the same as 'normal', Dade.

[@simbamach4371]

He is speaking the ultimate truth! The manner in which you dismiss it perpetuates it.

[@faithkhanyile2579]

What he's saying is true. It does not necessarily mean it's right, but It is a norm.

[@owl-theaesthete]

You’re clearly living in a fairytale.

[@athi-enkosimapukata1478]

Enhle she's one of those pretty but troublesome women who think they deserve to have the world handed over to them because of their looks.

[@banelemcin]

My babe this is hateful statement and reflects more on you. We all fall short. The test of our faith,spirituality and humanity lies in how we can give each other grace and mercy. No one is perfect, let’s walk in love. I always imagine my biggest mistake/sin and imagine what would be said about me if it were broadcast for the world to see😔. Trust when i say, we are all a working progress 🤞🏽🙏🏽Enhle and Black coffee too🤞🏽

[@ToxxicMafia]

And she met a man who thinks he deserves the best women because of his money?

[@incognito3796]

Sense of entitlement

[@tkasiam8322]

💯 correct

[@nomathembamoyo1967]

And he doesn't... having cheated within a marriage and fathered 2 children with two different women? If she thought so... she would not have worked. Stop the hate and this obsession with black male celebrities with money!!

[@simphiwenkosi2106]

This guy is GOAT black coffee is a phenomenal Human being bafwethu

[@ncumisamzondi6898]

It's so bad how man cheating is a norm

[@mackmabena4299]

Any wise man especially now, if they unfortunately get married and they fortunately divorce they will never get married again

[@fololoteddy3104]

We need Sol back on screen please Mac.

[@tebogomohanoe5443]

did he fire him ?

[@tiroyaonejustinphologolo9763]

​@@tebogomohanoe5443 no he's Sol is still around

[@thobimakama3745]

If say a lot but not answer the question and take responsibility was a person in a clip this would be it! Society pressure is the reason is all I got there. Mxm smooth talker. U ryt don't get married again...when u grown u can. I think in life u must reach a point where peer/society pressure is not the reason u do something. People will never stop talking so it can't be the reason for doing nonsense.

[@user-ek4pw7uc2t]

Mcgee laughs soo hard😂😂

[@zamanustubilgelik]

Aaah magents ziyawa😁let's do some coffee

[@gracefashionk6189]

If we start looking at infidelity as a wrong not a norm we could build a comfy home for our children, if she cheated first you didn't have to do it twice as much because 2 wrongs don't make a right, you did more Coffee with kids as evidence

[@nombalimaphumulo7111]

That tells get into amarriage knowing at sometimes you will have to deal with cheating scandal and you will have to forgive

[@lungilenkome8323]

Yazi in this podcast I was listening to Nathi not Black coffee . Yindoda lena, Ubaba khona lo…He understands that as a people we are not perfect , a real definition of a protector .., If only things can be reversed and undone, forgiveness and all that ….

[@banelemcin]

💯❤️❤️love this! i ish there were comments like this.

[@thabosetipa4289]

“i always gonna connect with people like a normal human being”

[@Thumbu-mz4up]

Please bring in someone from the ANC 😂

[@mabushecmalapane5900]

To to do what now😳😳 hebanna really

[@nhlaposbu]

Haibo they have the S.A.B.C. the can lie to us there.

[@matthewsditlhake]

Minister of Electricity would be much appreciated'

[@nhlaposbu]

@@matthewsditlhake we've had enough of those liars, they have enough exposure on the news.

[@nhlaposbu]

The last time they've had someone from the ANC it was the most boring interview ever.

[@mkhonzakoketso9540]

Nowhere did Black Coffee say she cheated on him, they grew apart and wanted different things

[@khulekaninkosi]

Her

[@livhu_stan]

I feel like he did just not expressly. It’s embedded in the detail

[@zainabinti5170]

He cheated first n had 2 kids outside.

[@nhlaposbu]

Mara the publicity stunt of women abuse enhle pulled to get funding from NGO's is not right.

[@livhu_stan]

@@zainabinti5170 and we are not implying that cheating was right by either of the two. It’s unfortunate that they can’t repair their marriage but hopefully one day.

[@Jazzaddict25]

Views of this episode have just hit 1 million...in seven days!! Views will probably surpass Israel's interview (2.9 million). Well done, chillers!💥💥💥💣💣💣

[@shielamatabane4752]

Israel interview remains untouched 🥷🏽

[@Jazzaddict25]

@@shielamatabane4752 it's one of my favourite interviews on this podcast and the bar for all others to match and overtake🙂

[@mabushecmalapane5900]

Swaak!!!!!

[@jeremiahmasole3170]

Hlaudi for Me.

[@objectivelyobserving6434]

No it's not self destruction or imposter syndrome. It's actually self sabotage

[@nastyccollegev9049]

Always Tell The Truth Or At Least Don't Lie, If You Don't Tell The Truth It Will Haunt Your Consciousness🤦🏾‍♂️

[@AllAboutDrone]

Hi JBP, is that you?

[@thatotau280]

Thank you for educating on the importance of this platform

[@derwaynecadiz7175]

Great learning here, thanks for sharing your experience and wisdom. We live, we learn, we change, we grow. ❤

[@lenitytumelo6078]

Background sound is unnecessary.

[@mokhesengramaisa8202]

Life has challenges and everyone's has his way to experience it.

[@yangamapisa9951]

The song playing at the background 🔥🔥

[@Princess7619]

Let's do some coffee! hahaha No pun intended!

[@segamatale8375]

I thought I'm the only one who picked that line 😂🤣😅

[@Meandyouisnus]

😂😂😂 we lie on God. Own up to your choices God has nothing to do with it

[@angelamanzini3052]

He is admitting that he is a man and is weak.The society should have been open about this and it must be understood.🤣

[@reginasunduze2444]

I died when he said that. Haibo 😂😂😂

[@Divineshortstories]

Let's do some coffee ❤😂

[@ladybm2020]

Her cheating during the marriage should be a norm too? No?

[@thamisangqutu6558]

A male with multiple partners... We know who the parents are A female with multiple partners... We not sure who the father is

[@tebogomashego393]

@@thamisangqutu6558 Not a problem anymore we can always find out

[@fadlibedford6319]

This man started off saying it's all him (on him) that's a man

[@RamzinDj]

I love black coffee ☕ yooo man his good yoooo

[@SibusisoPontshi]

The jersey , fire

[@yonelajaxa4721]

Mac and his laughter ! Yanyuba shme 😢

[@thabisankayi2392]

Haybo iphela kanjalo ndisamamelekamnandi le ndoda yindoda indlela ethetha ngayo I pholile noma uMcg esizangeztailezakhe cha uzanayestrate❤️❤️👌

[@marthamandishona9835]

I like his chilled vibe

[@autoplug_za5731]

My Boy Mac G knows his shit...but low key

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

do he devorced her for cheating when he was cheating too man are big babies

[@generisarts]

Still can’t watch the whole thing 😢

[@marrw2824]

Yes, BC is correct; when he said people are saying untrue things about celebrities or anyone else on social media, they are destroying each other. So the best thing is to enjoy life while still on earth. Also, I wish he could resolve their differences with his ex-wife. Try to work things out, man. Life is too short. She's beautiful nobody is perfect but God. Also, if BC said No more marriage. What is he going to do? Just dating takes it easy because, in reality, there is no such thing called NEVER! Unless he wants to stay clean clean without having sex. Remember, any woman he will be Doom-Dooming 😃lol: she will also need to get married. Unless they do an agreement in the paper saying no marriage, but we can make BC clan.😀👍❤❤ you still my favourite BC stay humble.

[@ssbigboy5970]

One of the best in the planet...

[@fadlibedford6319]

Black coffee stay humble and honest boss

[@laraphunga]

Keep talking Coffee, I'm reached.

[@bopheloartssolutions9067]

Nathi have spoken well.

[@lindanimaphumulo]

Did she give stability, for growth in your career, did she play a major role in your growth for your family and your career

[@sizwengubane8990]

No

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@sizwengubane8990 YES

[@happilydivorced3235]

@@sizwengubane8990 You men blindly support each other even when one of you messes up and discredit women for no reason. Black Coffee flourished because he had a supportive wife who took her of his children and home while he was building his career.

[@sizwengubane8990]

@@happilydivorced3235 unephutha loko kwenziwa unina, ngaphandle kwanina ngabe akalutho

[@sizwengubane8990]

@Happily Divorced Therapist Nosi yini ebangela ukuthi omama bethu ningababali empumelelweni yethu kodwa nincona abantu esithandana bano engathi bebwkhona siwa sivuka no mama bethu ai aniyeke ukunika labafazi benu imiqhele isidingo singekho, nikani onina benu okukubafanele not lezinto esizishadayo

[@MissLinCee]

I’m single, you can fix and please me all you like. 😂💕

[@sakhilekona6885]

You too broke...!!

[@NCCoolers2]

I love this interview

[@jairusshole8622]

Black Coffee did not divorce Enhle!!!.... Enhle divorced Black Coffee!!!!

[@nhlanhla_magz928]

While I'm here I'm thinking y aren't i watching the whole episode again rather 😅

[@febridgelebea2324]

I met him in 2015 and he introduced himself as Nathi ...not Black Coffee...I can attest to the Humility.

[@shereenkaela6744]

Typical narcissistic behavior. Taking no accountability at all & blaming the other party for his deeds 🤷🏻‍♀️ make it make sense?! 🚮

[@sahngcobo]

Did you hear that they both cheated

[@Keo-ib4kb]

Lmfao😂😂😂 another internet psychologist