Mine usually leave because I need a lot of alone time... I'm never angry, I know it's not for everyone. But I'm ALWAYS like that, so they should realize that and leave early, instead of sticking around because they think they can change me... THAT is never going to happen. I'm pretty honest from the get-go. I tell them all of my bugs and quirks and ask them if they can live with them... If they say yes, but find out that they can't, that is on them, not me, so I live with it very well. Plus, it gives me a chance to find a more compatible one.