The reason your marriage Dua isn't working

[@SyedFarooqGilani]

Making Dua since 2015. May Allāh Subhan Wa Ta'la accept my Dua this year.

[@sakura142]

may Allah grant you the best spouse InshAllah

[@SyedFarooqGilani]

@@sakura142 Aameen. May Allāh Subhan Wa Ta'la bless you with the best of both worlds.

[@abbyk7341]

ameen ya rab

[@umamausman4413]

@syedFarooqGilani May Allah accept ur dua soon. May Allah swt give u the best reward of ur patience ❤

[@fatoumataniakate]

Please continue those videos

[@YellowDragonFruit2.0]

•When we show gratitude and keep doing dhikr of Alhamdulillah, Allah will increase us. •When we keep seeking Istighfar, Allah accepts our duas and protects us from calamities. •Praising Allah and Sending Salwat to our Prophet SA along with the dua, make our dua stronger. •Tawakkul helps us being patient and grounded while making dua up until the dua is accepted. •Some duas are not accepted in this world but Allah rewards us in the hearafter instead, immensely. ☆☆☆At the end of the day, Allah always has our best interest, better than our own selves ❤

[@musanima]

I have watched EACH ONE of your videos and I want to thank Allah first and foremost , but secondly I want to thank you. AlhamduliLlah, I had many thoughts that you discuss, and you really look at them through the perspective of Tawakkul, of Aqiyda. Love that. Hope to hear more from you!❤

[@FK-zp2fp]

Wallah, this is so relatable. Me every week, “I would love to get married but I just don’t think it’s for me.” so I’ve ended up just not even trying and just accepting that maybe Allah wants me to stay single and alone. Also mad how I think Im not good enough to get married

[@pretaporterp]

I have the same thoughts too. But also the grass is not always greener on the other side. There are many people that are absolutely miserable in their marriages.

[@smg992]

Thanks for your videos Please ignore the haters you are doing a great service and explaining this in a beautiful way which is easy to understand and comforting to hear and be reminded of keep making dua with conviction.

[@aminah761]

Thank u sister for these beautiful reminders 😊 . I will Never loose hope in Allah. May Allah bless u 😊

[@Tymindre]

TY i was wanting videos like this finally someone shows on my KZbin jazakallah habibty❤🎉🙌

[@minaBint02]

May Allah accept my Dua 🙏

[@barackobama3719]

اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرً for your contribution May الله سبحانه وتعالى reward you

[@bellabwz]

I am single since dec 2012..almost 12 years now..i married before..i am sure some single girls having trouble to found good mate.

[@rushialeema8321]

Salaams Sis this was DEEP & so so what I needed to hear today! ❤❤❤ Jazaakh Allah khair for making this for us. I am so thankful for the message today😊

[@fowziyahbegum6518]

These are absolutely amazing! Allahuma barik laha ❤

[@Cavid.M]

I am amazed at the situations of some of us including myself asking Allah swt not only a good marriage but also alot of other things for years and still not seeing any results, while you see some other people not making alot of Dua infact they don't care at all about riligiousity , but still they have everything and getting even more . Now I don't feel jealous about it at all I want best for everyone even for a disbeliever. So I think we should just leave everything to Allah swt. I myself have been struggling for so many years now and I am 40 nothing changed got even worse but what can I do? I did my best but still it's what it's. Not married, brook , alone , nobody cares about me, some of my own siblings and close relatives ploted against me destroyed everything in my life and they live their happy life and get even better. So brothers and sisters who are facing trials right now, remember this that you are not alone. There are people in situations worse than yours.

[@lo.fr.8092]

Salam Alaykum, just wanted to say that I hope you are doing well. May Allah compensate you in this life and the next, ameen and may you be fulfilled in this life and the next, ameen.

[@marettiidozadia]

I am with you and what you say. I have a Dua that I cannot get... I have done everything for the love of Allah and for Him to grant it to me. I prayed tahajjud at 3:00 am and I have tried to be the best Muslim. Because sometimes I think that Allah doesn't answer me because he wants more from me. I have come to the point of thinking that maybe Allah believes that I am a Muslim, that I have to wear the veil and that only then will I achieve it.

[@koroglurustem1722]

Sis, please do not link your ibadah to what you want. Otherwise you might get disappointed. We cannot read Allah’s intentions for us. I think humility, giving thanks from heart, actually feeling content and thankful are the ways to go about life. Having too much expectations is the formula for disappointment. This sister in this channel is Mashallah very beautiful, well educated, calm person. For her, finding a charming guy with good personality and akhlaq should not be that hard. The troubles arise when people have too high expectations that their expectations do not like them back.

[@nehaather263]

Walaikumassalam warehmatullahi wabarakatuh! Jazakillah u khyran katheera ukhti for sharing your wisdom and sincere advice may Allah swt bless you endlessly! Amen.

[@Happiness_is_peace]

Salaam sister. I really appreciate your videos very positive way of approaching the topic discussed and tawakal in Allah swt. It may be worth considering some people have difficulties getting married/progressing in life because of obstacles for example nazar/hasad/enemies using other means non Islamic to hurt people via the unseen world. Ultimately Allah swt is in control of his creation, however this is a test for those that inflict peeple with the above, but also a test on the individual going through all those difficulties. I would strongly recommend those striving for obstacles to be removed to read surath baqrah daily. With Allah swt mercy and full tawakal in Allah's decree people will receive beyond what they expected in regards to needs/rizq. In addition which is so beneficial lots of astagfar and darood shareef which will bring an abundance of blessings 😊

[@divinedesignsbyasra]

Jazakallah sister❤❤

[@lowe7372]

There are times your brain doesn't believe the Dua, yet Allah answers and blows your mind. The theory that our internal thoughts influence somehow the outcome is not always entirely valid.

[@MissSraG]

I came across your videos by chance and I never found a relationship coach that picked up the exact points like you do. Every video you make, describes the exact same way that I feel. I could not have found the answers to my thoughts even if I had searched for them specifically . You know what you're speaking about that I even thought about getting coached myself. However, your comment section is incredibly negative. Maybe it is because your platform is not big yet, i was looking to find likeminded people that relate to your content but I myself was impacted negatively by them. They put you in a hopeless place and take away any positive outlook that aligns with the Islamic view on things. When doing so, aspects like tawakkul disappear and it seems like the power is in our hands and not Allah's. Please continue doing what you do and let them not deter you from your purpose. You will gain a bigger following by the will of Allah.

[@JC-ce8uw]

I’m not sure if it was this video but you mentioned about the thrift shop. Every year I would say that I want to be a 2024 bride or I want to celebrate etc. with my husband or make up this unrealistic expectation of a man that I don’t have. I realised I was putting so much unrealistic expectations on to my self and in effect in was only hurting exhausting and frustrating me putting myself on that unrealistic timeline.

[@digitalaarif]

Please make a video about divorces or breakups Please

[@MyNewsletter-if5jf]

Sister I love your videos. May Allãh rewards you for what you do because سبحان الله it’s so enlightening. I have one question sister, is it a lack of tawwakkul if you go on apps expecting to meet a spouse there? Isn’t it just better to make dua and wait for Allãh to bring the person in your way? Please clarify this for me

[@lamaaboubakr29]

Salam, no it's not a lack of tawakul, when you believe that your dua is answered you take empowered action from tawakul. many people I know have met their spouses on the apps.

[@sarahfilmnature]

salam sister, i have a question if you could help with: i recently asked someone if they would go on a date with me and their response was no since they are only interested in marriage. I told them I understand, but he didn’t ask me what my idea of a date was. I genuinely like him and want to get to know him… but I don’t know if and how to tell him that I am serious.

[@MyNewsletter-if5jf]

As Salamu Aleykum sister. If they told you that they were not interested in going on a date with you, but instead, they are interested in marriage. From appearance, their intention is pretty clear. Now to make sure of that, include your mahram sis, don’t be alone with them. If you want to get to know him, include your mahram and do it in a halal way. If your father meets him, he will observe his behavior and asks questions to know more about him and you’ll see In Sha Allah. Istikhara, Tawwakul and patience

[@subhauob979]

Love your videos. Curious how you met your husband and how did you know if he is the one. If you could make a video on it

[@Sara-yi6dq]

I agreed with you up until the moment you gave an example of how Duas can be manifested in different ways. How can joining a meet up or masjid group substitute and fulfill the need of getting married? that's only the socializing part(communication and connecting) but nothing like having a spouse that you connect with on all levels. physically, mentally, spiritually, sexually, etc i'm sorry but it no way substitutes the need and want to have the right spouse!! not even gonna mention about the quantity! your spouse is with you at home, travel, etc but a group of ppl or friends is only a couple of hours per week or even once a month...

[@lo.fr.8092]

1000% agree with you. I genuinely sometimes feel like I am going insane. Why are people pretending like it is normal to not be married? It’s devastating physically, mentally and emotionally.

[@mk.xo29]

If you don't have a sense of self before you get married, marriage will be very difficult, you need hobbies, passions, and friends outside of your marriage. Alot of people are just very isolated because strict parenting and they think marriage is their way out of that life, having a social life will remove that desperation for connection and conversation and will make finding your spouse organic and easy.

[@abdiqanifeyruz]

Why don't we deserve everything we have? Are we not worthy?

[@Edameda_mmori]

Becase we're not entitled to anything,Allah gifts us. Now we're worthy as creatures without the worldly necessities because Allah made us worthy,he gives us importance. Two different things.

[@abdiqanifeyruz]

@@Edameda_mmori but Allah chose us amongst all his creations, so we are worthy, therefore we deserve to be here and to have the positive confidence, but why are we inherently unworthy?

[@Edameda_mmori]

@@abdiqanifeyruz i didnt say that, i think you misunderstood me, yes we are inherently worthy,not unworthy. but we are not entitled to anything, even jannaj is from allah's mercy, we dont have a haqq over jannah or any worldy thing. allah gifts us is what i'm saying.so my eyes,my home,my mom,my kid you know anything we call in this world ''my'' is just not actually mine.its allah's gifts to us. he gives,he takes, you dont get to claim ownership when sth is taken from you or never was given at the first place. the worth is there,allah gives us. but the entitlenment ''i'm worthy of this and that so universe has to give me blah blah'' is just nonsense. first its not universe its allah,and secondly no you're not entitled to anything,if allah wants to give he will,you cant claim you had a right to sth.

[@abdiqanifeyruz]

@@Edameda_mmori ohh Wow, you clarified very well. Alhamdulillah i get it now, i guess sometimes i dont like the gloom perspective that we as muslims have, so i was like no am worthy. I deserve good things, but am not stupid to think when i dont get those things, then I disbelief,, because am aware that even in the bad, there is Good. Qadr concept of accepting the Good and bad that was decreed for us. I guess my perspective is, say for example i have loving parents, and someone else is an orphan, it doesn't mean we all dont deserve parents, it means for the one whose decree was to not have parents, Allah knows why that was the case for him. But ifc course he was worthy to have parents.

[@Edameda_mmori]

@@abdiqanifeyruz yes we are worthy in that sense. I am worthy as much as the person next to me , because im allahs abd, however wemight not get the same things,so if someone has seemingly more,we cant say theyre better than us bc they have more. No. Wordly things being more or less show nothing. Theyre both tests. So a rich person is not more worthy than i am or than a poor or uneducated person. But ofc society works differently,they dont see it this way

[@razer0072073]

You have to justify WHY you want it