The Secret Shame of Introverts | Monica Parkin | TEDxCherryCreekHS

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In this thought-provoking talk, Monica Parkin delves into the hushed corners of introversion, shedding light on the often unspoken struggles introverts face in an extroverted world. Join us as she reveals the way out of the “secret shame” and into the power of embracing yourself while enjoying success. Monica Parkin is the author of the bestselling book “Overcoming Awkward, an Introvert’s Guide to Networking, Marketing and Sales” which combines personal memoir with practical guidance and serves as a powerful testament to transformation for introverts seeking to overcome barriers and achieve success. Her writing has also been published in esteemed publications such as The Glass Hammer, The Business Post, and the Journal of Sales Transformation. Through these contributions, she continues to deepen the understanding and empowerment of introverts in various professional arenas.
As the host of the popular podcast, “Juggling Without Balls,” she fearlessly delves into the intricacies of life, work, and personal growth. With a blend of humor, insight, and genuine compassion, Monica explores the art of balancing multiple aspects of our lives without losing who we are. Through her conversations with people from all walks of life, she sheds light on the untapped potential within each of us. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@jbystromwriter]

Intriguing to me that such a variety of people reached out to you with direct messages, not wanting to be known as an Introvert. As an introvert, myself I found your talk gave me a new opportunity to reflect on navigating the world with the many extroverts in my life. Congratulations, Monica, on a thought-provoking TEDX Talk, from one Introvert to another, we're both rocking it!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Indeed you are doing amazing things in the world Jocelyn. Thank you for your sincere and thoughtful comments.

[@nisazadeh]

Monica's message here is really great. Being an extravert myself, I have been aware of some of the struggles people with introverted personalities experience in life. But it never occurred to me that they might even live a secret shame of being an introvert. Thank you Monica for sharing about your personal journey and your findings. This message can be an much needed eye-opener for many people out there!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for listening!

[@tinyhousebigfarm4471]

Monica is a powerful introvert superwoman. Her story is raw and real. She gives introverts like me permission to be who we really are and still succeed! I had the privilege of working with her on her amazing book - Overcoming Awkward. And she did more to change my life than I did to impact hers. What a gem!

[@monicaparkin3148]

You inspire me Angee. So lucky to have access to your incredible talent! Could not have done it without you ❤

[@BeverlyGolem-he2yf]

Thoroughly enjoyed listening to this thought provoking presentation about introverts and their potential in the business world

[@monicaparkin3148]

❤

[@sabrinalovesjustice]

Such a great talk! I've always hated job descriptions that specifically ask for extroverted candidates. What a missed opportunity! Congratulations, Monica!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Sabrina, you are such an inspiration:)

[@nicksheltoncomedy]

I love this talk! Thanks so much for sharing. It's important that us introverts can feel comfortable in our own skin, own it and make the most of it. Thanks so much for your insight!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Nick. Means a lot from another introvert!

[@azeye2020]

Congratulations, Monica! Given that I have been a lifelong introvert, I can certainly appreciate and respect everything in your message as it is right on point! Keep up the fantastic work that you are doing!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thank you. I loved your talk and value your feedback:)

[@jaciakornwise]

Fantastic job! Your voice is so soothing and your message delightfully conveyed. I truly enjoyed this talk. Met empower introverts everywhere! Great job Monica

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Jacia. Loved yours 🥰

[@KimberlyPierce-fx8dk]

Another inspiring take away Monica ! Awesome job !

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for the listen Kim❤

[@Beinginawareness]

Thank you so much for this Talk, Monica! I really needed to hear this being an introvert and wondering if I will ever get successful in business.

[@monicaparkin3148]

You absolutely will! Thanks for your comment

[@LearningTantraTV]

Love it! So important to know what you need and advocate for yourself.

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Tanja!

[@drmikeVT]

As an advocate and speaking coach for woman, Monica empowers women to make an impact. Her proven tips and strategies resonate, changing lives. Great TEDx Talk, Monica!

[@monkirby]

Thanks Mike!

[@bondji1]

I can relate to being an introvert. And yes, her message about the strengths an introvert has to offer is significant! I can definitely relate to the issue of fearing that my being an introvert gives me a disadvantage when the opposite is actually true. Great talk and important message for all of us introverts... being ourself and being confident that who we are gives us an advantage!

[@monkirby]

So true! Thanks for the comment.

[@MotifMusicStudios]

I am so thrilled to listen in to a presentation by Monica Parkin! Thanks for sharing!

[@MotifMusicStudios]

This is SUCH a fabulous topic and so well presented! I LOVE the introverts in my life and celebrating authenticity.

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Amie❤

[@MotifMusicStudios]

So welcome!

[@brianparkinson4927]

Thank you, Monica. It was wonderful to hear about an introvert who has succeeded in what many consider to be an extrovert's role. I am an introvert who works in media sales, a role most people would associate with extroverts, but I have outperformed most of the extroverts in my company. My strength, like yours, is solving problems, not shmoozing with the clients.

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Brian. I loved hearing about you using your problem solving abilities to find solutions for clients.

[@lee-annmcellister1177]

Great job Monica! Thank you for sharing your message

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for listening !

[@saritaparmar1949]

Congrats Monica! I appreciate how you take us through the lessons with personal stories! Us extroverts can also benefit from introvert lessons!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Sarita:)

[@yoursuccessblueprint4712]

As an introvert / extrovert myself, this talk so resonates with me :-)

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thankyou. Appreciate the feedback.

[@oselucia938]

LOVED your presentation beautiful Monica! Being one extravert, I'm touched by how authentic you sharing your story and the message that was brilliant yet profound! Congratulations! :-)

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks so much Lucia. ❤

[@xiupingwang9448]

What an amazing talk! Inspiring and informational. Definitely beneficial to my career and life in general. Thanks for such a wonderful idea!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Sue.

[@lisagunsberg4523]

Great job Monica. Interesting knowledge regarding the neurotransmitters!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for listening!

[@discoverwithheather8866]

Yes! Embrace your secret superpowers! 🎉

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for listening Heather ❤

[@thePositiveMOM]

Wonderful talk and fantastic message, Monica. Say it louder for the people in the back!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Glad it resonated!

[@anitakuehn1666]

Love this! I am an introvert!!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for watching Anita

[@blutalks]

Such a powerful talk Monica - love this.

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks so much. Appreciate you listening

[@DebbieBentzen-ny4hm]

So much wisdom, thank you for sharing!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for listening Debbie.

[@ivavernon293]

Yeah ❤ really enjoyed your talk!

[@monkirby]

Thank you❤

[@kimslittlegiggles]

Love this! -yes introverts can do a lot of extroverty things! :)

[@monicaparkin3148]

They sure can 😃

[@zhinomortgages]

Great job and message Monica :)

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks for listening!

[@chelseawalker3782]

Great presentation!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Chelsea:)

[@ChantelleFlasch-ku2we]

Great video. I also have your book. Thank you!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thanks Chantelle!

[@teagan_p_999]

Well said.

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thankyou

[@racheljamieson]

Well I decided to listen to this today because......we'll just because I know who you are from one small area of my life. I didn't expect to gain anything from it if I'm honest. After all you are rocking it in the world of business and I am unable to work due to Chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia and sever anxiety. However what I heard grabbed my attention. I have always been given the jobs I've interviewed for....apart from one. The one I was turned down for was the easiest to do! A cleaning job. However....what I realise was I was honest at that interview. I didn't portray myself as an outgoing extrovert! No wonder I have imposter syndrome whenever I think about any job I've ever done!! I wasn't being me. Sure I can rock it as an extrovert on the outside! But inside........no chance. I get more and more overwhelmed and anxious and eventually I burn out and work becomes a terrible endurance test that I eventually fail. So many people tell me I'm an extrovert!! The truth is I'm not. What I heard today was I need to be myself......that's the only hing I can ever really be good at and so far it's the thing I've sucked at the most!!! Thanks Monica!!!

[@monicaparkin3148]

Thank you Rachel for your honesty and vulnerability. I identified with sooo much. You are a beautiful human ❤

[@jodihiltz6859]

I loved it! LOL I am just like you. I get so excited to buy gifts but I can’t keep the secret and I end up giving it away and having to buy another one

[@monicaparkin3148]

Right!?

[@shadymapledevonrex7732]

:)