Relaxed Confidence: 5 Habits To Look Like A Boss

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Charisma on Command

Charisma on Command

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@onemanenclave
@onemanenclave 2 жыл бұрын
He knows he's in the right, and that contributes greatly to his ability to show himself confident.
@thetheory6159
@thetheory6159 2 жыл бұрын
I mean it remains to be seen. I wish this video had been about something else, kinda tired of the trial overall tbh. The video itself is great, just... wish I could avoid that fuckin trial.
@LinkEX
@LinkEX 2 жыл бұрын
@@thetheory6159 There's an upside to the video referencing the trial: the algorithm already shoves us down trial videos. I'd much rather have a _trial-themed_ analysis in my suggestions than another gossip video about it.
@sgtraytango
@sgtraytango 2 жыл бұрын
lol he's already been proven to be a domestic assault perpetrator in court the last time he went to court when he tried to sue a newspaper for libel. Depp's as guilty and as vile as they come, and I hate how this channel has added to his hero worship and harassment of his victim by using this thumbnail.
@thetheory6159
@thetheory6159 2 жыл бұрын
@@LinkEX that's fair.
@davecullins1606
@davecullins1606 2 жыл бұрын
He's in the American legal system. Being innocent doesn't mean he will go free.
@johnmknox
@johnmknox 2 жыл бұрын
Amber Heard: "Pledge" and "donate" are synonymous Also Amber Heard: "Punch" and "hit" are NOT synonymous
@FlowerChyld43
@FlowerChyld43 2 жыл бұрын
Good One!
@vincent_hall
@vincent_hall 2 жыл бұрын
I guess in the context of a punch bowl. Did she say Johnny gave her punch in a bowl?
@ElectricInevitability
@ElectricInevitability 2 жыл бұрын
Haha yeah isn't that funny?
@FlowerChyld43
@FlowerChyld43 2 жыл бұрын
So Clever! I Love it! 😀👏
@dsories6219
@dsories6219 2 жыл бұрын
Grow tf up. She just hit him not punch him. You're such baby. 😒
@PsychologyRefresh
@PsychologyRefresh 2 жыл бұрын
It is important to know there are two types of confidence: *External Confidence - which is the confidence you project to others like making friends, closing deals or seducing someone, *Internal Confidence - which is the confidence you feel in any situation.
@markofsaltburn
@markofsaltburn 2 жыл бұрын
But the first isn’t a form of confidence, it’s a mode of appearance. That’s like saying that acting like a wealthy or beautiful person makes you either, or that a wig is a type of hair. Acting like you’re a thing and being that thing aren’t the same. It sounds like this is splitting-hairs, but this is important: if you put yourself in a situation where you’re appearance-focused rather than values-focused you’ll be found out, and your efforts will be unsustainable.
@intheeyesofj7329
@intheeyesofj7329 2 жыл бұрын
@@markofsaltburn The first is absolutely a form of confidence. He literally describes “external”. Regardless of how you’re feeling, not all situations allow you to *feel* confident. In those cases acting confident to keep composure is just as critical. No one is arguing that true confidence comes internally and you can’t fake it. Like being tired at work, you hide it and show up regardless.
@markofsaltburn
@markofsaltburn 2 жыл бұрын
@@intheeyesofj7329 if you act like you’re a thing but don’t feel like it, then you’re not the thing. If I’m smiling but feeling miserable inside, my smile isn’t “external happiness”, it’s just a false smile. This is how NLP works; all of your projections and visualisations have to be values-based and true or they won’t work.
@ZascrimShades
@ZascrimShades 2 жыл бұрын
@@markofsaltburn I'm very glad that you've stated this. I find myself very much agreeing! Acting like something that you are not is, from the way that I see it, essentially the breeding grounds for egocentrism (if not directly egocentrism). I think it's about being genuine; when genuine, it's not something that has to be forced (therefore not truly real as you've similarly stated). If there are indeed certain instances where it has to be faked (ex: leading someone away from harming others by pretending no one is in the room so that they don't check), I think they should be the exceptions and not the rule. To use your example when it comes to smiling and happiness, smiling in order to maintain an image of happiness isn't true happiness. Smiling due to being exposed to something that genuinely makes one happy, now THAT'S genuine! That also tends to be the most radiant due to how real it is! This smile can have a lasting effect to the point that it spreads: a genuine smile based on genuine happiness and is not based on any lie! THAT'S where the substance tends to be (it also helps that humans tend to be very great at detecting a genuine smile, but I slightly digress)! A smile made for the sake of image tends to fade one way or another; it's not a solid foundation. A smile that exists due to genuine happiness will have a very strong effect! The foundation is strong and real from the ground up! Even if that smile might turn into a frown someday, the moment would be everlasting due to the genuine impact that it would have (who knows, it might even lead to some genuine smiles)! This is indeed the way that I see it! PS: Funnily enough, your comments on this thread actually made me smile and made me genuinely happy; genuineness is indeed very important to me! So, thank you friend!
@SevenHunnid
@SevenHunnid 2 жыл бұрын
I review weed products on my KZbin channel as my job 🙏👀
@zbtyn
@zbtyn 2 жыл бұрын
Man that last part hit me good. I am a guy who was diagnosed with ADHD and Autism, low muscle tone and speech delay (didnt start speaking till I was 5) when I was a kid. During elementary and middle school I really struggled with women and socially. Thanks to appreciating small stuff like jokes or just nice conversations in general, I built my social skills and now I am after a successful military service, good with women, and have a bunch of friends thanks to just appreciating every small win and interaction. It slowly build my charisma and confidence to a point where I feel amazing. And if people get try lowering you for getting happy over these small wins (cause ppl will) it is there loss not yours. Appreciate these small moments ppl trust me it will get you far
@BaritoneMonkey
@BaritoneMonkey 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome story dude! Keep telling it. People need to hear stories like this.
@zbtyn
@zbtyn 2 жыл бұрын
@Joshua Cline Thank you for for telling me that bro!
@zbtyn
@zbtyn 2 жыл бұрын
@@BaritoneMonkey Thanks bro! I have started openning more about it recently because I have learned that communicating to people even about personal tough things can really help yourself and others
@BaritoneMonkey
@BaritoneMonkey 2 жыл бұрын
@@zbtyn Yep, absolutely! No better way to make a point then to show them in your life
@zhinaamini5941
@zhinaamini5941 2 жыл бұрын
Ecxact same story as a kid( except i didn't start talking until 6) but somehow with some tricks i had lot of friends and i was charismatic, but the thing is I've always felt lonely because i was struggling so much to be lovely and social that i forgot about myself and i was trapped in acting cycle, i do better now and i feel so relaxed but still need more practice and courage to be myself and hopefully i find friends that like me for real me
@jackdaone6469
@jackdaone6469 2 жыл бұрын
“Yes, how did they know?” Gotta love Depp’s small smirk when the lawyer tried pressing on. He briefly tripped the guy up and it showed.
@NekoAnjiru
@NekoAnjiru 2 жыл бұрын
He's a covert narcissist. They tend to be charming and have a harem ready to defend them. Textbook case of duping delight, gaslighting, and trying to control the narrative.
@offbeatartistry
@offbeatartistry Жыл бұрын
It's so interesting how people like you think they can diagnose someone without knowing them personally. Especially with the displays between both depp and heard, you label him as the narcissist¿¿
@moralityisnotsubjective5
@moralityisnotsubjective5 Жыл бұрын
@@offbeatartistry Especially when no competent psychiatrist would ever do such a thing. They need to meet and speak with you several times before even considering a diagnosis. They know how dangerous it can be to do so second or third hand.
@moralityisnotsubjective5
@moralityisnotsubjective5 Жыл бұрын
@@NekoAnjiru Also, it's duper's delight. If you are going to use terms you don't understand at least get them correct.
@CatholicK5357
@CatholicK5357 2 жыл бұрын
I think she would have had a problem if the 7 million dollars had only been pledged to her in the divorce settlement rather than given.
@davidpaxton6402
@davidpaxton6402 2 жыл бұрын
Touché! Well said.
@ElectricInevitability
@ElectricInevitability 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah she wouldn't have used the words synonymously then. She was caught in a lie but made things so much worse by sticking to an obvious lie as it's insulting the juries intelligence. She'd have scored more points by admitting she hadn't donated it yet and given a reason why and apologised IMO
@crazynanaailese
@crazynanaailese 2 жыл бұрын
Lol you win best comment
@plsavage
@plsavage 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhh good one!
@Amanda76767
@Amanda76767 2 жыл бұрын
🍻 😂
@captainhookk4298
@captainhookk4298 2 жыл бұрын
I do honestly believe that Charisma on Command itself is a positive reinforcement loop. Every time I watch a video of yours, I rethink about my day for the next couple of days and count my wins. This has been working tremendously for me for the past 3 years. I could safely say I have expanded my confidence tremendously. Thank you for all you do!
@bgbg418
@bgbg418 2 жыл бұрын
It really makes me happy to hear people improving their quality of life. Good for you man. Here's to more wins!
@captainhookk4298
@captainhookk4298 2 жыл бұрын
@@bgbg418 Thank you! that was so random😂
@captainhookk4298
@captainhookk4298 2 жыл бұрын
@@bgbg418 Thank you! that was so random😂
@bgbg418
@bgbg418 2 жыл бұрын
@@captainhookk4298 haha just made me smile to read your comment mate lol
@aubreezily13
@aubreezily13 2 жыл бұрын
"The world's still the same... there's just less in it." - Captain Jack Sparrow Thank you for highlighting this difficult time in his life, and using it in a way that helps others. I am always in the habit of apologizing for occupying space, and I am grateful for the tools you offer to combat the urges to feel insecure and apologetic.
@anonsmith3459
@anonsmith3459 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry- did you just quote a fictitious character of his in a non related quote? What is wrong with you celebrity worshippers?? This wasn't a popularity contest nor does his career absolve him anything. His confidence was arrogance as of his career & fanatics would get him out of the consequences of his own choices. I wish I could sue my ex millions for lying which cost me money & time I can't get back but I knew he was a fkboy. That's my fault for not leaving. Throw this whole case out- neither should win a cent.
@aubreezily13
@aubreezily13 2 жыл бұрын
@@anonsmith3459 I do not worship him. Johnny is far from perfect, but I admire the fact that he is trying to do something about this after experiencing his relationship with Amber. In regards to the quote, it entered my mind when I thought about how men are not often believed in these cases due to the stigma that they cannot experience abuse. My apologies if me relating his experience to one of his roles offends you. I was also just expressing gratitude to this channel for using something that is going on in our world to help others. Whether we choose to like it or not, this is a very public case that people are tuning in to. Instead of making Tik Toks of Amber Heard crying, they chose to identify body language and tone to help others who view the video. If something is in the lime light, it may as well be utilized for educational purposes.
@Legendaryium
@Legendaryium 2 жыл бұрын
@@anonsmith3459 jezus christ, why dont you take a therapy session and see whats bothering you. Reacting like this doesnt seem healthy get some help
@lbentosoares4
@lbentosoares4 2 жыл бұрын
@@anonsmith3459 Find help
@anonsmith3459
@anonsmith3459 2 жыл бұрын
@@aubreezily13 He's trying to do something about his relationship with Amber afterwards? A difficult time in his life? He's not an invalid he's not geriatric or elderly in fact he's old enough to know that he was in a toxic relationship but as I said before he loves drama and he loved the drama that Amber brought until it cost him his money and his career then it wasn't fun and games anymore and now years after they divorced he wants to sue her and put out there that she was the way she was but you married her? You didn't even marry the mother of your children who you didn't have any scandals with you didn't even honor her in that way that you honored Amber so why are you guys putting him as the victim because he chose to be with her and even married her and that's not nothing to sniff at. He's only doing something because his money got affected and his career and I'm not begrudging him that he should speak up for himself my point is that he had a hand in what happened because he stayed he wanted arm Candy he got toxic arm Candy but he was all in because he loved again the drama that she brought but at his age he's too old to be in some toxic relationship when he knows how to be in a normal relationship he just wanted to feel young again and she made him feel young again by bringing that drama. He chose to stay and there are consequences to staying in a toxic relationship as I said before that could cost you even your life so it's no surprise that his career suffered behind it and his money. They both need help though because they both have demons he needs to kick his habit go to rehab she needs to go get serious therapy for her obvious mental issues and I love how we pick and choose people with mental issues who shoot themselves in the foot obviously all the time because they have those mental issues as to whether or not we empathize with them or sympathize with them and other times we we demonize and skewer them publicly for it both her and people like jussie Smollett they obviously have an issue thinking that they can get away with lies that are obvious or that can be checked out and still continue to do it over and over again despite the fact that they keep getting found out so they obviously have mental issues and I hope they get help for that but to demonize them because you so-called love their " victim " ? You don't know Johnny I don't know Johnny and I'm talking the real Johnny my problem is how people take his characters that they love and they misplaced that love on someone they don't know which is the actor. That's what I talk about celebrity worshipping you're misplacing whatever affection that you had for a character onto the person who acted the part when you really don't know that person. I believe it was a mutually toxic relationship she just did worse and the most unnecessary things like writing that story or saying that she would donate all the money knowing she wasn't going to- like people wouldn't check up on that just obvious that something mental is going on with her. And I never said you offended me about anything that you said so please don't start putting words in people's mouth to make yourself look like you're under attack or a victim . You made a public comment I responded and when you make public comments there are people who might oppose or have a much more informed POV. We need to teach each other to do and think better and take our egos or unrealistic views and expectations out of it because at the end of the day it is what it is. Do better.
@cbeautifulworld11
@cbeautifulworld11 Жыл бұрын
He is a master of self-control in these situations! Once, while I worked for a woman whose behavior led me to discover and research narcissistic personality disorder, I wrote a letter to her which addressed working conditions and my request for a significant raise. A few days later, while she was engaged in a trivial task, she brought up the letter, then paused. I should add here that she had been a lawyer and later a high-ranking judge with full knowledge of manipulation tactics and negotiations. When she paused, I couldn't think of anything to say in that moment yet she took it as my own ability to manipulate the situation and gave me the raise because she needed me to continue to work for her. It's funny and I will always remember it because I don't have the skill nor desire to manipulate people and was only silent due to a failure to come up with words. It was one of the only times in my life that I have been grateful for the freeze response. :)
@CarloisBuriedAlive
@CarloisBuriedAlive 2 жыл бұрын
He told his truth without denying bad behavior, and therefore had a relaxed and confident testimony. Heard put on performances that were all over the place and rarely admitted to wrongdoing unless it was forced out of her. I doubt she’s that concerned because there are already people working overtime to defend her name publicly and claim that believing a male victim of abuse is actually “misogynistic”
@amberxv4777
@amberxv4777 2 жыл бұрын
Who's defending her? Everyone here wants here roasted alive and you're still going.
@PaolaRL
@PaolaRL 2 жыл бұрын
He told the truth
@moralityisnotsubjective5
@moralityisnotsubjective5 Жыл бұрын
@@PaolaRL Yes, I am tired of this "my truth" stuff. There is only the truth and lies.
@turboflush
@turboflush 2 жыл бұрын
Johnny knows his flaws. He knows what he has and has not done and doesn't have to fabricate or elaborate anything.
@TheWisdomLibraryOfficial
@TheWisdomLibraryOfficial 2 жыл бұрын
Confidence is like “Show up in every single moment like you're meant to be there.”
@davidosalsero2519
@davidosalsero2519 2 жыл бұрын
Impressive. I must be finally learning. One thing I quite naturally managed to do last week, gave me that warm feeling of a SMALL WIN, plus an un-expected FRAME, and I executed it in a SLOW APPARENTLY confident way was this. In a bank I was asked "Please furnish us with answers to these security questions" "Where were you born?". I allowed the pause, then, with full eye contact calmly said "In a hospital". Which got me a hesitational look from the clerk, I just said "Type it in". Then "What was your last school?". Pause, "Borstal". And you can imagine the flavour of the following answers. Even though done quietly and calmly, boy oh boy, did that interaction make me feel good, I walked tall out of there as would James Bond!
@redhawkmillenium
@redhawkmillenium 2 жыл бұрын
Would love if you did a video on Camille Vasquez' communication during the trial
@Sam-xr8ne
@Sam-xr8ne 2 жыл бұрын
no
@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp
@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp 2 жыл бұрын
Only if it’s unbiased. Meaning, not a video glorifying a pretty but unprofessional attorney who finds death threats amusing.
@CarloisBuriedAlive
@CarloisBuriedAlive 2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp can’t be as biased as your comment
@daisiesandpandas1218
@daisiesandpandas1218 2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp Should we start with your biased comment? Or do you mean Amber's side, cos the former friend of her sister allegedly recieved threats before her video was shown in trial?
@redhawkmillenium
@redhawkmillenium 2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp you must be fun at parties
@TheBerkeleyBeauty
@TheBerkeleyBeauty 2 жыл бұрын
Honesty and integrity have a way of boosting your confidence as well
@SueRosalie
@SueRosalie Жыл бұрын
Amber Heard's overacting was hilarious. Switched it on and off like a tap, and kept checking the jury to see if her emotional manipulation was working.
@biblehistoryscience3530
@biblehistoryscience3530 2 жыл бұрын
If “donated” and “pledged” to pay for something mean the same thing, then all we need are good intentions to pay for theater tickets to see Hurd's movies, then she won't make an actual cent.
@effiethefey
@effiethefey 2 жыл бұрын
Even thinking that she'll be in movies after this trial ends is kinda optimistic, lol
@marywemigwase3354
@marywemigwase3354 2 жыл бұрын
And we can pay our rent etc w thank you
@NM-ev7pu
@NM-ev7pu 2 жыл бұрын
@@effiethefey She will definitely be in movies. And hopefully they will flop and all the mean men out there will be at fault xD
@CatholicK5357
@CatholicK5357 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, and clearly she would have objected if the 7 million in divorce settlements was pledged to her rather than given.
@MSeliskaZ
@MSeliskaZ 2 жыл бұрын
@@NM-ev7pu yeah, she should do a commercial for a real bruise kit that is used in movies&theatres… and maybe some adult “love” movies&since she is a violent person who looks like she ennjo. It…may I can’t think of anything else for her. She’s done… who would want to cast someone who can’t. I saw her at the court and she’s a terrible actress. Ok, maybe thing some
@rabronin
@rabronin 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad Johnny is able to maintain himself well in this trial, given all that he has been through.
@PublicSpeakingBodyLanguageVlog
@PublicSpeakingBodyLanguageVlog 2 жыл бұрын
This entire trial feels as if it was as much about nonverbal communication skills and body language as legal knowledge and lawyers' favorite courtroom gimmickry ;) A perfect hybrid of all the legal shows you've watched over the years ;)
@zhshsG7
@zhshsG7 2 жыл бұрын
Something that really helped me improve point #5 (create a positive feedback loop) is gratitude journaling. It is great!
@shiny2423
@shiny2423 2 жыл бұрын
"I remember a cup stuck in the screen." 😂 Brilliant ~!
@majorramsey3k
@majorramsey3k 2 жыл бұрын
The house IS paid in its entirety ...by the bank. You pay the bank back with the mortgage. She's so full of it.
@gnerd07
@gnerd07 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn't that mean the bank bought the house? We still say we bought it tho... We all know it's semantics but the argument does hold some water esp IF some money has already been donated
@majorramsey3k
@majorramsey3k 2 жыл бұрын
@@gnerd07 Yes, the bank bought the house. And they didn't just pledge the money. lol
@misery8264
@misery8264 2 жыл бұрын
She also already had the 7 million dollars. Why pledge it when you have it and plan on donating it anyways? If you have the money to buy a car, you don't finance it. Her behavior made no sense.
@majorramsey3k
@majorramsey3k 2 жыл бұрын
@@misery8264 It makes sense in so far as she's got no indention of handing over the money. At least, not until she's run it through a few investments for a few years first and making some returns on it.
@blincx1
@blincx1 2 жыл бұрын
And she bought what? Public's sympathy on credit?
@PurityKane
@PurityKane 2 жыл бұрын
Easier to be confident when you're in the right.
@ameennasar2583
@ameennasar2583 2 жыл бұрын
Not always. Any normal person who was defamed would react emotionally. I have experience. Also guilty people can act out confidence.
@ciaranwalsh7621
@ciaranwalsh7621 2 жыл бұрын
@@ameennasar2583 If you are in the wrong accept it with humility and work on improving yourself for the future. That is true confidence, false confidence is pretending to be right or thinking you are always right.
@InHellITrust
@InHellITrust 2 жыл бұрын
@@ciaranwalsh7621 If you want to make a bowl of cereal, don't forget to pour milk. Anyone can pour cereal in a bowl, and technically it is a bowl of cereal, but a true bowl of cereal also has milk. Also, don't forget the spoon.
@golu_badbola
@golu_badbola 2 жыл бұрын
Sarcastically destroying someone should be a tagline for Johnny's demeanor throughout this case.
@DarkPsycheZone
@DarkPsycheZone 4 ай бұрын
Fantastic video! These 5 habits are spot-on for cultivating that cool, relaxed confidence. I've started integrating them into my daily routine and already noticed a difference in how others perceive me. Looking forward to more insightful content like this! 💪🔥
@CountessOfOle
@CountessOfOle 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I think the fact that Amber Heard used SO MUCH reaction-seeking body language by CONSTANTLY staring at the jury during her testimonies was the single most damaging thing she did to her image during the trial. And that's saying something, cause she did a lot of things that didn't have a great look.
@itz_yeastic
@itz_yeastic 2 жыл бұрын
Jhonny literally giving me Tony Stark Vibes in the Iron Man 2 while he was in Court, LITERALLY OWNING EVERYONE OVER THERE.
@Seeker0fTruth
@Seeker0fTruth 2 жыл бұрын
Heyyy great call. I agree.
@wuxian1
@wuxian1 2 жыл бұрын
i was thinking that too
@pyromusicman21
@pyromusicman21 Жыл бұрын
Your channel is not something I'd usually gravitate to but I've watched a couple videos and think you have some great insights! Well done.
@djtdawg87
@djtdawg87 2 жыл бұрын
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
@avengerscap
@avengerscap 2 жыл бұрын
I do often give relationship advice--what to say in a given difficult situation--and to let the spoken words hang in the air, without any additional words if the other person doesn't respond right away. It's their turn to talk. Occasionally I suggest that a person may want to preface their statement with, "What I'm going to say is important, and I'd like you to not respond right away but to think about what I've said. Is that something you can agree to?"
@CanisoGaming
@CanisoGaming 2 жыл бұрын
that "Donated, pledged, donated, pledged" bit will live on as the amber meme for a looong while hahahaha
@GrumpySalmon
@GrumpySalmon 2 жыл бұрын
Justice for Johnny!
@Konrad111111
@Konrad111111 2 жыл бұрын
I like how you analyse current events! 👍
@PursuitofBetter
@PursuitofBetter 2 жыл бұрын
This video went deeper than other ones have and I support it
@JohnWickPotter
@JohnWickPotter 8 ай бұрын
1:36 Also in body language is when the palms are up it can be a form of submission.
@iamtehgame
@iamtehgame 2 жыл бұрын
Quality content as always!
@i-yell-a-lot4906
@i-yell-a-lot4906 2 жыл бұрын
"YES, BUT HOW DID THEY KNOW?" LOL
@AvidanVlogs
@AvidanVlogs 2 жыл бұрын
Johny Depp got confidence that wins him cases.
@TyHarrodTX
@TyHarrodTX Жыл бұрын
Thank you CoC... You have presented the best example for this topic. Your explanation is very relatable because pretty much the whole world was tuned into this live court madhouse. Freaking genius: I love it. Excellent topic with perfect examples that hit home... Grade 💯
@Ok-wb4du
@Ok-wb4du 2 жыл бұрын
It’s kinda embarrassing to look at the jury every response
@andreagoble5353
@andreagoble5353 Жыл бұрын
Professor Johnny Depp! Masterclass👍
@AnonymousAccount514
@AnonymousAccount514 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent…one of your best ones…love the part of collecting all the small wins you’ve had in your life
@veganvocalist4782
@veganvocalist4782 Жыл бұрын
Confidence is so very attractive
@4theloveoftech
@4theloveoftech 2 жыл бұрын
Always impressed with your content.
@ersia87
@ersia87 2 жыл бұрын
Saying a hilarious answer before the real one is very funny. My collegaue does this all the time which constantly makes me crack up behind my screen. However ONLY saying the comical answer and not being able to eventually answer a serious question seriously is very annoying and frustrating.
@txfreethinker
@txfreethinker 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! Thanks for posting this ‼️
@bollyvids7337
@bollyvids7337 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing how such information can be obtained from a public trial. Your points were great Laughed when Andrew Garfield was shown as an example for not telling the truth.
@johnnydeppxd5566
@johnnydeppxd5566 2 жыл бұрын
God Finally this channel made a Video on Johnny! How can you not make a video on him when your channel name is Charisma on Demand
@tomoakley760
@tomoakley760 2 жыл бұрын
The donated/pledged angle was not a "strong frame", it was a weak excuse that only takes on the appearance of a strong frame if repeated enough times that it wins through sheer attrition. And even that's debatable since she was being roundly mocked for this worldwide. There's a thin line between "holding a strong frame" and "being delusionally committed to your own doublespeak".
@AvidanVlogs
@AvidanVlogs 2 жыл бұрын
He got court winning confidence this guy!
@AlexaMorales
@AlexaMorales 2 жыл бұрын
Cool video! Question: How is this channel able to use so much footage from current movies and TV? Is it because the clips are so short? Or are these clips available to license on something like Video Blocks?
@mr.peanutbutter6969
@mr.peanutbutter6969 2 жыл бұрын
Amber Heard: 👁️👄👁️ Jury: 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀👀 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄👄
@bunnybabybevytv6434
@bunnybabybevytv6434 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all still got it
@Kiky812
@Kiky812 2 жыл бұрын
Very good video... all of the tips though are valid if you are on the right side of the conversation/confrontation.
@Kakarott2023
@Kakarott2023 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videeeoos! They are so helpful and well produced
@1w72st
@1w72st 2 жыл бұрын
Being Johnny Depp helps.
@jennifermoriarty2188
@jennifermoriarty2188 2 жыл бұрын
Your margery Tyrrell video changed my life..thank you
@Jarod-vg9wq
@Jarod-vg9wq 2 жыл бұрын
I was so happy when he won, did you know he makes music for fun with Alice cooper? And Johnny helps employ homeless people at his films?
@zzulm
@zzulm 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah other people call it sophistication in my opinion saying the truth was what kept him confident and his beliefs made his frame strong naturally.
@YouilAushana
@YouilAushana 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully, they start making laws about manipulation and coercive actions with people who are trained in all this stuff and hold people accountable.
@mcfrisko834
@mcfrisko834 2 жыл бұрын
as well as paternity fraud
@samusfisher
@samusfisher 2 жыл бұрын
You do know he lied too right?
@deja_vu..
@deja_vu.. 2 жыл бұрын
I think a bar should have a Johnny Depp happy hour: Megapints of Wine, Capt'n Jack Rum Punch, I'll-Paca-Punch, the Haymaker, & Shiner Shots.
@toribern816
@toribern816 2 жыл бұрын
I like it!!!
@JennaLeigh
@JennaLeigh 2 жыл бұрын
Bartender here. Been doing Depp Mega Pints, and Captain Jack Rum Runners. Upon service we "cheers" and say "Justice for Johnny". It's a HUGE hit.
@loniwilliams82
@loniwilliams82 Жыл бұрын
Small win reference loop. Love it. ❤️
@americanpaisareturns9051
@americanpaisareturns9051 2 жыл бұрын
“It wasn’t lies, Jenny. It was acting” - Neville Sinclair
@CreightonChaney-io4xv
@CreightonChaney-io4xv 2 жыл бұрын
Rocketeer was such a childhood gem
@mcmc8556
@mcmc8556 2 жыл бұрын
Do an assessment on Camille Vasquez
@tiiajogi2241
@tiiajogi2241 2 жыл бұрын
He is the best
@kanjo4976
@kanjo4976 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been subbed for years at this point and still my anxiety keeps me at a distance.
@Electronica27
@Electronica27 2 жыл бұрын
6:10 so what would be a good example of what JD could of said instead of attacking Rottenborne's frame. Like instead saying "traffic was pretty bad." Or "I wanted to give everyone an autograph?" idk. I hear that he was actually late since he would try to get everyone an autograph or selfie when he arrives, only leaving when his bodyguards drag him away.
@misaeltoledo5944
@misaeltoledo5944 2 жыл бұрын
Very captivating videos
@kyatrixxkush9312
@kyatrixxkush9312 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Charisma on Command. It would be awesome if you did a podcast with Vanessa van Edwards. It would be interesting to have two charisma experts having a discussion and you would both learn from each other immensely
@YourPal055
@YourPal055 2 жыл бұрын
Ms Turd watches the video, adopts some of these ideas and adapts...
@tommylanigan4721
@tommylanigan4721 Жыл бұрын
I disagree with Amber reframing the donation = pledged. It was clear to everyone that was a lie and completely backfired.
@SadCatSad
@SadCatSad 2 жыл бұрын
Really helpful video! Even tho i really dislike Amber Heard and im all for JD, but i like the way you stayed objective and took her clip explaining how to catch and refuse frames one does not agree with.
@mahdyarraad4831
@mahdyarraad4831 2 жыл бұрын
Can somebody explain to me whats the diffrence between pledge and donate? I would be so greatful
@SenpaiTorpidDOW
@SenpaiTorpidDOW 2 жыл бұрын
Pledge = promising to donate money Donate = giving someone else money, with nothing expected in return
@shervin9561
@shervin9561 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@WhatsintheBottle
@WhatsintheBottle 2 жыл бұрын
Can you do an analysis of Ms. Vasquez and her questioning style.
@A-list
@A-list 2 жыл бұрын
F.Y.I. It's easier to be confident if you are the plaintiff (you filed the lawsuit thus you have option to drop the case) instead of being the defendant and having no choice.
@Tarquin21723
@Tarquin21723 Жыл бұрын
"Did I read that right?" "Yes, congratulations on being able to read. You should try reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, but that might be way above your current reading level"
@mattc4013
@mattc4013 2 жыл бұрын
7:21 "...a megapint of red wine." A "megapint", if it existed, would be roughly 125,000 gallons and weigh about 500 tons.
@BunterFreigeist
@BunterFreigeist 2 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you
@Yo-pz1em
@Yo-pz1em Жыл бұрын
Christopher Lloyd was my favorite witness In this trial. He played the role of a crazy psychiatrist that needed a psychiatrist himself.
@caitlinvenespanol305
@caitlinvenespanol305 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Excelente video!!! Cómo siempre. Me encanta que nos enseñes esas pequeños gestos o actitudes (de los que, muchas veces ni nos damos cuenta) pero que tienen un efecto en las personas que nos rodean. Gracias!!
@cDizzle1723
@cDizzle1723 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you're narrating again, Charlie.
@whattheelle360
@whattheelle360 Жыл бұрын
I would read the tinted glasses as deceptive, hiding something if I was on the jury. But Johnny rules!
@MichaelGeorge161
@MichaelGeorge161 2 жыл бұрын
I really hope this Johnny Depp case will send a (long overdue) shockwave around the world that men shall no longer be stamped on by women any further
@toribern816
@toribern816 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@lazylua9526
@lazylua9526 2 жыл бұрын
Sir, even though there are some woman that try to take advantage of the husband, that is the exception. If a woman ever claims to be abused, there should always be the benefit of the doubt, cause most likely, it's true. Most times, woman are the victims. So there should be no shockwave, man aren't the victims most times. ;)
@MichaelGeorge161
@MichaelGeorge161 2 жыл бұрын
@@lazylua9526 How do you know?
@NM-ev7pu
@NM-ev7pu 2 жыл бұрын
@@lazylua9526 Abusive women are definitely common. Men often don't retaliate because, well, there is no way anyone would believe them, just like Amber Heard said. And you aren't helping this situation either with your statement. If we give every woman out there the benefit of the doubt right away, well, just screw men then. What if allegations are false? Doesn't matter, livelihoods destroyed. I've never heard of a man falsely accusing a woman of abuse, neither physical nor verbal.
@TheSultan1470
@TheSultan1470 2 жыл бұрын
@@lazylua9526 lame comment
@reckapple5641
@reckapple5641 2 жыл бұрын
In times of pressure, be a honey badger. Blood for the blood god
@guistmagik2506
@guistmagik2506 2 жыл бұрын
finally, a good video on KZbin.
@dunnowy123
@dunnowy123 2 жыл бұрын
You know, I've pledged my entire wage to charitable causes, I'm not gonna donate it, but rest easy knowing I want to
@mrkenwu1
@mrkenwu1 Жыл бұрын
Tried these tactics the other day, and none of it worked for me. Then I was reminded that I am not Johnny Depp.
@aeryth77
@aeryth77 2 жыл бұрын
The pledge = donate argument was actually the most embarassing and laughable part of Heard’s attempt.. It just made her look even more dishonest and desperate than if she had just admitted that she donated nada
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 2 жыл бұрын
This is an essential skill for anyone to master in real life.
@YardenAmiel
@YardenAmiel 2 жыл бұрын
You are really good, thank you!!!
@itsmevickies
@itsmevickies 2 жыл бұрын
Can you guy’s do KeKe Palmer? She is so charismatic and charming!
@GaryTheExpert_com
@GaryTheExpert_com 2 жыл бұрын
Lads, I need help… I am setting up a event. A charity event. Now, what I need help with is, interacting with dozens of people, so... I want to treat each individual that comes up to me in a well lit positive regard, how does one give great attention and joy to one person and in a matter of a second you meet another guy, and then another guy. How can one mange to be super respectful and awesome to each individual, and give decent time to them?
@samharryful
@samharryful 2 жыл бұрын
Need a video of the Gallagher brothers confidence 🤍
@annieb7240
@annieb7240 2 жыл бұрын
Confidence doesn't mean someone necessarily telling the truth 😂😂
@MuzanKibutsujii
@MuzanKibutsujii 2 жыл бұрын
My dog stepped on a bee....
@themacocko6311
@themacocko6311 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@themacocko6311
@themacocko6311 2 жыл бұрын
And the carpet is dirty...
@MuzanKibutsujii
@MuzanKibutsujii 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha..Lol..... And I have to pee
@staticmess1491
@staticmess1491 2 жыл бұрын
Love your guy's stuff. I think a great video concept could be based on Saul Goodman, especially with the final season coming out for Better Call Saul, mabey about his charisma or persuasion abilities!
@patrickpedersen1576
@patrickpedersen1576 2 жыл бұрын
genius idea for a video
@basuka93
@basuka93 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! Could you share those movie scenes you put in your videos? These movies seem very good
@allen604
@allen604 2 жыл бұрын
6:11 Trying to stay unbiased as possible. I disagree with you. Answering the frame once is ok, but to do it over and over it just makes you seem deceptive. I prefer answering the frame. But if confronted, answer it directly and follow up with a reframe.
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