The Six Ways You'll Try to Get Out of the Friend Zone

[@cuttothechasenews]

I miss this guy. he was one of my fav cast members

[@SLZABBJNGO]

what happened?

[@cuttothechasenews]

Dekish I dont know. I assume he just moved on.

[@galenaguilar6774]

+Dekish he graduated college lol

[@SLZABBJNGO]

Galen Aguilar Lmao.

[@owent.2306]

Yah

[@jakedelacuesta6760]

That actually ended on a bright note. Old college humour was the best.

[@jeroencox6264]

Jake De La Cuesta yup

[@maxvader1000]

Just stop at where it says the end.

[@banditothedorito7082]

I want to die

[@swaggydivorced]

It ended up like smosh, was funny for a while, then went to trash

[@timothyhermanto2143]

It made me cry

[@aakksshhaayy]

I found a way to beat the friend zone, I have no friends

[@greenghost2008]

Are you Katie?

[@Trainfan1055Janathan]

+greenghost2008 Ha-ha! Good one.

[@billhill7330]

Hey.... me too! Thats why I spend Friday and Saturday nights at home on youtube instead of at the bars. LOL

[@Unlimited_Vis]

GENUIS

[@greenghost2008]

I went to the friend zone but all I found were enemies.

[@CurrySplice]

This literally got me out of the friend zone after 2 years of being in it. We are engaged now getting married Next year. :) Do. Nothing. If it happens it happens.

[@ikzirra273]

Thanks for the inspiration

Don't give me hope, please!!

[@paramjeetsolanki]

Same, man

[@gentasepriandi999]

can you tell us a little bit ?

[@CurrySplice]

@@gentasepriandi999 me?

[@arceuslordofcreation8824]

"You want to call yourself Ace, but you won't, because that's awful" "....Logan" "So is Logan"

[@allanlocke5749]

Yeah Fuck where my Logan's at? You're all awful!

[@BiggusDickus79]

What're you try'na say, Bub?

[@vladimirputin8135]

Biggus Dickus that the name logan is fucking terrible which it is.

[@rodrigomirandachirau5260]

Ace and jocelyn ....

[@milkshake2659]

I know a Logan who thinks he soo cool lol

[@MrJedabak]

That ending is great.

[@111paolo2]

Ignorance is trully bliss

[@111paolo2]

Young Ize I've been writing truly wrong for my entire life. I don't even know how I got past high school

[@111paolo2]

Young Ize No worries you just fixed a life long mistake

[@moneygrabber6720]

the endings to these six ways of anything are always so good

[@coolsoeb]

+MrJedabak The ending to your conversation with Paulo was even better.

[@ShiningCatProductions]

it's not the friendzone, it's the oh god not this guy again zone.

[@reafrancis8652]

Shining Cat my worst nightmare

[@jasonpeng5798]

Obviously you're entitled and self centered.

[@Walter-fc3uq]

Dickin a case?

[@rayakoth]

Shining Cat it is also the "I will keep you around for your resources zone, don't expect any returned favors though"

[@binarystar300]

i think if the girl told the guy exactly what she thought, like saying "sorry not interested" instead of "i value our friendship too much", these situations would likely be avoided

[@ZombieProdigyUS]

*Six Ways To Get Out:* 1. You Can't 2. You Can't 3. You Can't 4. You Can't 5. You Can't 6. You Can't

[@misterroyale6519]

ʀᴀɴᴊɪᴛʜ no f u u can’t hate the truth

[@Ouja]

That's because the friendzone doesn't really exist. It's a mental state we put ourselves into because we don't have the balls to say "do you want to go out with me"? That simple question makes the friendzone cease to exist. Now you either have a girlfriend or a friend who will support you when you find another girl you share a mutual attraction with and can date. Stop being afraid to ask a girl out, and you'll never be stuck in the friendzone.

[@Gaze73]

@@Ouja What about when you go on one or two dates and when you go in for a kiss she says she just wants to be friends? Boom, friendzoned. Also, asking "do you want to go out with me" does not solve anything either. If she says no you are friendzoned.

[@adenferguson2647]

@@Ouja I’ve asked a girl that before. She immediately put me in the friendzone.

[@torresserg]

You get out of the friendzone by ceasing being her friend. Don't be rude about it. Simply become less available (like 90% less available). Try to find interest in other girl(s). She'll only come around when she sees other women value you as a possible romantic interest. Women (naturally) compete with other women. Which means; she may decide she wants romance with you after all, when she sees you potentially getting involved with someone else. Keep in mind she may not pursue you and simply wish you well on your romantic pursuits. But hey at least you know she never wanted to you. If she does come around. Make sure you try to seal the deal within a few dates (with mutual consent). Taking it slow could cause you to be placed right back in the friendzone. Lastly don't use other women to get the girl you like. Let the girls you're dating know (up front) you're not looking for anything serious, at least not right away.

[@hunterkiller1440]

How do you even get into a friendzone? Cause I don't have any friends.

[@fornsphin]

Such a simple solution! I wish I'd thought of it! Oh, wait. I did. :'( *Continues petting dead cat*

[@User5973]

You have no friends? Convince a girl to go out with you, let her push you around, do EVERYTHING that she suggest, fail to make romantic compliments or so anything that can create sexual tension. keep this up for at least 3 dates. You'll have a new friend soon...trust me.

[@AleuWolfram]

I'm with ya man....

[@jrtien]

User5973 You're right. I used to do that when I was a kid and I had plenty of girl friends and no love interest.

[@Vauksel]

Friends? Where can I download some of those?

[@clary3020]

As a girl, I can confirm that doing nothing really is the Best way to go on...

[@sophiajane1]

True

[@huybii3021]

What's the success rate for faking your own death?

[@AsianDawg46]

+Huy Bii around 110%, always works.

[@CAB-yu8uj]

Hell, it worked for me LOL. Another thing important is changing how she previously perceived the guy

[@gracekaveke8653]

totally agree. cant believe he got out of the friend zone..

[@Mistardmuster]

Best way to deal with the friendzone: acknowledge you're in it, accept it, embrace it, and just maybe you'll naturally find your way out of it.

[@InsanityLulz]

iris starr Most mammals in nature rape. I'd say that's pretty natural.

[@dwelfusius]

I was friendzoned for 3yrs, now we are 11yrs together, getting married next month. I have a dear friend that had a crush on me, said I didn't see him that way, we saw a bit less of each other for a while but he came around and I think we've been best friends since 8 yrs or so.I think here the main difference is a)how mature are the people involved mentally and b) how strong is the friendship before feelings kick in (in my case with my best friend we have an increddible mental connection being both INTP that i have with no one else, but that alone was not enough for me to want a relationship;BUT it was/is worth the hardship from his side to get over his feelings, and the pushing away awkwardness in the beginning from my end because some people are too important not to have in your life)

[@locutus94]

Better yet, stop hanging out with her and move on. Yes, she isn't obligated to reciprocate your feelings, however, you are also not obligated to be her buddy either. And, if there even is a chance of getting out of the friend zone, you have a better bet while you aren't hanging out. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

[@Hakajin]

iris starr I think it depends on the people involved. If it's too painful to be around that person, or if you really aren't interested in just being friend with them, you shouldn't keep seeing them. But if they're already an important friend who you don't want to let go, you should hang onto them, not so they'll like you back (which may never happen) but just because you don't want to lose them.

[@chaosfire321]

Pretty sure that was what the last one was.

[@thwipkid]

It's actually kind of crazy, I used to watch these when I was like 10 because I found them funny, now I'm 18, in my first year of University, looking back it's really crazy just how accurate and insightful some of these actually are. Too few of these unfortunately, but quality over quantity I suppose.

[@arceuslordofcreation8824]

"All it took was hard work, dedication, and yeah that's not going to happen"

[@captaindonut5240]

He knows whats up

[@Ren_the_Cynic]

The lesson here is: You can't force someone to love you. All you can do is aspire to be someone worth loving.

[@illiteratethug3305]

Currently hiring Russian in suit. Apparently, in his country, the tube watches you....

[@nikitaivachtchenko6375]

I'm up for hire.

[@НейтральныйМаппер-з2м]

Лол, не ожидал русского

[@pepe_s1lvia]

This series always had that heartwarming happy ending, whoever narrated this was amazing like wtf. I love this series so much.

[@laylover7621]

Right? Always ends on beautiful notes

[@DamonBadgett]

That ending was actually kind of helpful. I feel weird.

[@oro2play]

The worst is when after a long relationship with a person and they lose feelings for you and would rather be friends. It's one thing when you're friendzoned before you started. It's another when you have a deep love for someone and they just... stop.

[@philiplapierre9776]

I have been in the FRIEND ZONE in one of the worst ways, but, WOAH. I have never had that happen!

[@matthewsantiago7649]

That exact thing happened to me,and now i have to take anti-depressants...

[@oro2play]

Matthew Santiago I know that pain. I just started mine today.

[@DaBigMike27]

i'd hate to say something that would make you more upset..but you honestly shouldn't date if you aren't prepared to get crushed...i learned that the hard way as well....sure, it'll take quite a bit of time to move on, but my suggestion is to just focus on friends and school/work..it's amazing how much just one friend can help you get through a really hard break up...and also, unless you have absolutely no other way of venting and calming your emotions, then i seriously suggest that you not take anti-depressants..my friend took anti-depressants and became to used so relying on them that he wasn't able to deal with even the simplest of issues without them....also, if it hurts too much to stay friends, then tell them that...but what i'm trying to say is just try to focus less on your break up and more on the little things in life that you would normally take for granted, and also rely on your friends for support in the moments when it becomes too much...but enough with my rant, i hope your depression doesn't last too long, because i know exactly what your pain feels like

[@oro2play]

DaBigMike27 For a while, I was prepared to get crushed. Until now, my relationships were short. With her, we were together for a really long time. We considered each other soulmates. We even lived together for a while. We were going to get engaged. I had never been as close to someone before as I was her. I'm taking the antidepressants as directed by my doctor. Considering the mental health programs I'm involved in, I can't really afford not to. And unfortunately, I can't really rely on my friends for undisclosed reasons, I'm out of school, and I'm presently too disabled for work. Again, don't really want to go into details. I can't speak for Matthew's situation. It's up to him if he has something to say. But anyway, thank you for your empathy. I know you mean well. But I can't use your advice at the moment.

[@exhibitem5421]

How many friend zoned guys does it take to screw in a lightbulb? None, they'll just compliment it and then complain when it doesn't screw.

[@13buthead]

genius

[@wwc222]

How many girls that friend zone guys does it take to screw in a light bulb? probably only one but they still have no souls

[@neo8039]

Lol

[@theonejackal89]

lmao, even.

[@sashacat936]

"I really value our friendship" is exactly what I said... after being friendzoned. I just don't see why some people get so upset about it, maybe it's because I'm fine with being single, but I value friendship, even the ones I have with people I'm attracted to and have romantic feelings for. If they don't like me back I get it, and at least the situation is clear, I don't have false hope anymore and our friendship is even more honest than before.

[@tomgibson2049]

there's no way I'd be fine knowing the woman I'm infatuated with is getting fucked by other men. That shit is depressing

[@digital_ferret7263]

@@tomgibson2049 fr

[@igggyjedfh8785]

The problem is that it gets awkward, you stop seeing each other during hangouts, and then you stop seeing each other at all

[@venipunkture]

@@tomgibson2049 you're acting like someone stole from u or something. people are autonomous; if you can't handle that, you need some introspection

[@tomgibson2049]

@@venipunkture how do you have an issue with me not wanting to be friends with my crush knowing she'll never feel the same way. It's literally my preference

[@mathewbilodeau]

Theres a pretty simple solution. Dont be friends with someone you only desire a romantic relationship with. Dont pretend to care when you dont. If you like a girl, skip all the friend stuff, be confident, flirt, and ask her out. Its not very hard. But being friends with someone you want to date knowing full well you dont want to be their friend is just messed up

[@dantheman8103]

It's also a good way to torture yourself. Yeah if you truly can let it go and be friends then fine, who doesn't want more friends. But if you are being their friend hoping in time they are going to change their mind and feel the same, don't be taken in by the tales of when someone did that and it worked, those are the exception not the rule. And most of the times it worked is because the guy actually did get over it and didn't live for her to change her mind. It's tempting to want to be around someone you have feelings for even if they don't return them. But you can waste months... or even years of your life on that, and just end up torturing yourself for a long time until it eventually boils over and you stop being friends anyway. If you like someone and they don't feel the same... walk away. End the friendship if you have to, because you are both better off without that crap in your life.

[@kevinbacon5492]

DanTheMan Exactly. Sometimes just being a good and true friend is the first key to opening the gates of a romantic relationship.

[@judgingyou3145]

What if you two were already friends and then developed attraction?

[@Fenrir214]

@@judgingyou3145 i started out like that and escaped. Though I did break up with her i think i can go on a limb and genetalize my tactic: just tell the other person the truth. "I dont think i can stay friends with you so go out on a date with me and see what its like." Most likely youll get a chance; if they say no to the date and friendzones you from the start just tell them alright please dont contact me. Just go your separate ways and you shouldnt contact them either. Its harder to escape the friendzone after youve been there a while than trying to break free as soon as you get in. If the answer was yes and the date goes fine then congrats; if its still a no even after the date just move on and dont contact them. Its their loss. Also the best timing is about 2-4 weeks after they break up from a relationship.

[@Nothingeveralways]

I think they started as friends but he developed feelings for her

[@koolkidie4657]

Out of this whole video, the last part is actually good advice

[@bardofthe90s57]

Sometimes doing nothing does work because the girl is dealing with other things and either can't or isn't ready to be romantically involved, so she puts her romantic life on the backburner. When she's done with all of the other crap in her life, she's going to remember that you were there for her. I'm speaking from personal experience. However, it could also just be that she GENUINELY WANTS TO JUST BE FRIENDS, OH MY GODS.

[@bardofthe90s57]

Very much so. Too bad I have a boyfriend. Dang. Lol.

[@bardofthe90s57]

+Jason Meadows Probably for the best, yeah. XD

[@RichmondLasma]

+Bard of the 90s am sorry to be the one to tell you this but your experience is really an exception

[@anthonywheeler2082]

+Bard of the 90s When you're not trying so hard, that can actually work. People just need to relax! Also I'm agreeing with you.

[@coolheymanpoop123456]

The guy could move on since he spent so much time trying to make you happy and see this wasted time and then you get sad about this I don't know how and a new guy comes around and the cycle runs its course again so the guy will find a new and better girl eventually

[@jeremiahjackson5878]

Girl: “We can still be friends, right?” Me: “Friends? I have a friend?”

[@ValeTheOwl]

Ironically, acting like a TRUE friend often works. If you just love the person (guy or girl) and you're here for him, without second motives, chances are he or she are eventually gonna feel something for you. Case in point: once I met a girl on the internet... and I was 100% sure that it was actually a guy pretending to be a girl. But anyway, it was a nice person and we became good friends, chatting over the internet and playing together. Long story short, she really was a girl (and a really cute girl to boot) and after we met in person... welll.... let's say it we've been a couple for 4 years.

[@lordvisserys9187]

ValeTheHowl that's really nice dude glad to hear it

[@ValeTheOwl]

shark daddy thank you! ^^

[@itriedomni2452]

ValeTheHowl What happen to the girl or her

[@ValeTheOwl]

She's still my girlfriend and I try my best everyday to make her the happiest girl on the planet. ^^

[@Rs2006REMAKEVids]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! So, this exact same situation happened to me, and things ended well for her. ...Not so much for me, though.

[@Cropcircledesigner]

"The one thing that works, is doing nothing at all." SIGH. While it's true that being relaxed and uncreepy about your relationship is more likely to get someone to actually like you, there is no guaranteed way to get your crush to reciprocate. None. Accept it and grow as a human being.

[@Meccarox]

Exactly

[@FIRENICEWOLF]

Cropcircledesigner life sucks that's what it means

[@elijahmcdaniels922]

I actually got out of the freindzone with that last method

[@thtiuchcrtivnm9782]

I Don't Fucking Believe You

[@superduperisaac]

thαt íѕ ѕuch crєαtívє nαmє I'd believe it, there was this one girl I knew who I considered a bro, NEVER tried to flirt with her, or anything the sort, eventually find out she had a huge crush on me. Honestly yeah, girl's really seem to like it when you don't try.

[@twoflouers]

+trolldragon98 Sooo... you weren't in the friendzone, she was.

[@superduperisaac]

+twoflouers Yup, she sure was, but my point is, girls really do like it when you don't try.

[@titan2073]

Elijah Mcdaniels because laziness always works

[@memelgaming]

“The one thing that works is doing nothing at all.”

[@bindair_dundat]

Even staying in the friendzone is hard when you tell her new boyfriend you will murder him and dump his body in the Everglades if you see him again. It's not like they would catch me or anything. No body, no crime.

[@bindair_dundat]

Hey FBI, it was jut a joke. I live on a different continent the furthest away from the Everglades.

[@bindair_dundat]

And no, there are no swamps here, honest. Trust me, you don't need to look into it or anything.

[@ironsimp]

Wlarius So hypothetically though would you dig a hole or dump it in water? ya know hypothetically.

[@SRosenberg203]

@@bindair_dundat FBI doesn't operate outside the US. It's the CIA you want to watch out for ;)

[@KlunkerRider]

The "Friendzone" is real VERY real, and the ONLY real way out of it is to cut and run. Trust me on this, been there so many times in college that its not even funny. I was a talented SOB in school in my field. Really Hot Girls wanted to be 'friends" because I was a "nice guy" and was always helpful and they wanted my help at project time but would keep me at an emotional arms length even if I wasn't really interested, but then expect me to stay up 3 nights in a row helping them finish their presentations or would use me a free therapist for working through their F'ed up relationship problems, (believe me when I say dealing with a couple of girls I seriously should have received a second major in psychoanalysis) After a while I got to the point where I was sick and tired of being taken advantage of so this is what I did. If they want to be friends then you have to ask yourself: How blue are your balls for her, and how much do you really "value" being friends -vs- dating (yes even guys value some girls more as friends and not so much as dating material). So when the ones I was truly interested in gave me the friends speech, my response was OK that's fine but I would also cut off all contact with them afterwords, when they pressed for me to help I would just say I'm already busy with my own project, or I'm already helping _____. If they got confrontational "Oh, this is because I just want to be friends isn't it, why can't you just be my friend but still help me pass my classes" (which is what it really boiled down to), I would simply say, look you want to be friends, I dont, I want more, I am sexually attracted to you and that IS NOT going to change, it will be a constant problem, period. I cannot simply turn off my hormones. If you dont have reciprocal feelings then this is the only solution because my position will NOT change. I cannot tell you how many of these "friends" TRUE nature revealed itself (anger at being denied free help mostly), but in the end it was a far better and less stressful place for me to be, so stay out of the Friendzone, its the Bermuda Triangle of relationships. Girls control sex, always have and always will. If your getting nowhere you probably never will because girls decide in a very very very short time who's in the "friend" box and who's in the "fuck" box. Just cut and run. Seriously.

[@robertchandler4033]

Amen Brother! So true but not PC -Every girl/woman is trading something (your job is to discover her currency) for sex and even if you fancy the prettiest girl you know SOMEBODY SOMEWHERE is tired of her shit! Hedi Klum married a guy with acne scarred face,Pierce Brosnon (bond) married a 6 -go figure out what they want not what you THINK they want

[@JaronScotland]

Gospel right there.

[@MrMegaGamerMan]

I agree as well. However, men CAN control the sex aspect as well without it being all rape-y...

[@UNSCAce]

Just wondering but why does your comment say, "(edited)"? Did you cut out some stuff before this? Because I'm assuming the previous comment was like a first draft, or had a typo or 5.

[@KlunkerRider]

UNSCAce yep, used the edit button for typo corrections.

[@SilentMover95]

No even Bear Grylls can survive this extreme hostile zone.....

[@HipHopOtaku]

At least there's beer to drink, instead of your own piss.

[@X340retroX]

HipHopOtaku Drinking your own piss is probably less torture than being in this very scary zone

[@aviechan]

My current boyfriend did this and it worked like a charm. Just be yourself, don't try too hard, and be genuine. Making a girl laugh with a little joke or something wholesome and goofy also won't hurt. We aren't that complicated 😂

[@leovincedones7758]

hahaha ymmv though. Sometimes a friendzone is a soft rejection move, meaning she isn't interested enough for you to be romantically involved with yo.

[@Hydra2k12]

Or so you think

[@jazzie634]

I beat the friend zone guys! It's called moving on.

[@sharkteeth2810]

Se7en nice five finger death punch icon

[@thectcarkid4654]

What did he do when he was 14...?

[@fairytail6804]

Ur mum

[@thectcarkid4654]

+Fairy Tail how original and clever

[@cjbolina1276]

+Fairy Tail top bants mate

[@videohound2005]

Well you see, what he did was *Gets Tackled*

[@nyu5512]

Its been 2 years and he still hasn't gotten an answer

[@MadameTamma]

I wonder if the person who came up with the whole friendzone thing ever realized that no one has the ability to control whom they're attracted to?

[@connorskudlarek3119]

It isn't about controlling it. I'm a guy, and I've put females in the friend zone. They're attracted to me and I'm not attracted to them means friend zone. They're in the zone that holds all my friends that are attracted to me with non-mutual feelings. Just like a f*** buddy would not be in my friend zone, nor in the "dating pool." Someone in the "dating pool" may not be a friend of mine, and they may not have slept with me. Make sense? Friend zone is a means of saying that "one of the two like the other, and the other does not like them back." Just like "dating pool" means potential dates, but not someone that is currently being dated. It's not an obligation to like someone, but it doesn't mean the friend zone doesn't exist. It most certainly exists, and it most certainly disproves the old belief that women "just want a nice guy." We know that is false because the friend zone exists! Women want an attractive guy, which includes physically, intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, financially, and character. Just like the friend zone proves that not all guys will have sex with just anyone, and that they also want a woman with a certain degree of personal qualifications as listed above.

[@ShotgunLlama]

Wasn't it from Friends?

[@BeedrillYanyan]

MadameTamma Uhhh I do.

[@DV_Dark_Jedi]

I actually put three different girls in the friendzone way back when. One of them never left and unfortunately I had to hurt her feelings to get the point across, second one I actually ended up dating a couple years later and we're still friends today, last one I actually ended up banging, lol

[@krakenator461]

As an experienced person, i can confirm that doing nothing and acting as friends is the best way

[@potmki6601]

you could said being friends, now it just sounds like you're faking it

[@RipsharkTV]

Ever been friendzoned when you know she has the physical attraction? I have. Its much better when a girl just says "hey i don't like you" as opposed to "hey I like you but can't be with you..... ever"

[@KarrieDreammind5]

How can you know she has the physical attraction? If she's attracted to you but doesn't want a relationship wouldn't you just be friends with benefits? just sayin'...

[@RipsharkTV]

Karrie Dreammind Because we almost had sex. I am certain a girl wouldn't let that happen if she considered the guy ugly. Also other factors come into play... thats how

[@KarrieDreammind5]

***** Ok, fair enough. So the friends with benefits thing is not an option for you?

[@RipsharkTV]

***** Pretty much

[@RipsharkTV]

Karrie Dreammind Nope and I fucked it up by asking her to.... she didn't like that too much lol

[@rogthepirate4593]

Doing nothing at all didn't work too well for me back then ...

[@Flamo353]

you're confusing it with trying hard or you actually did do nothing lol

[@MrCaesartheman]

theres 2 reasons why your being friend zoned 1. shes doesnt want to be with you just yet 2. she doesnt want to be with you.

[@mikaeremccarthy5889]

Asap Gamer l Anti-Bandit Maybe he got friend zoned because his name is "Rog the Pirate" haha

[@MrCaesartheman]

mikaere mccarthy and 3 what he ^^^^ said

[@PsychoticEGG]

RogThePirate Pillage and burn? You're confusing Pirate with Viking. I mean I know they both liked boats, beards, booze and rape. But they shouldn't be confused. Besides pirates believed bringing a woman on a boat was terribly bad luck. So they did what the Scottish do. Brought a sheep for the voyage. Also doing nothing only works if you actually stop caring. They have a weird six sense and can tell when you "I don't care cause I think you want me to not care" and when it's "Well I can't have you so I don't care I'll just keep my eye out for someone new."

[@simzocker]

The only way out of there is to never talk to her again imo

[@radpunk5144]

That's the more realistic way imo

[@Dropthefishtank]

Simon K. Honestly, if you have no interest in someone as a person unless there's a chance of the two of you boning, you're probably not a great friend to begin with.

[@simzocker]

+Dropthefishtank Think about it trying to get her out of the friend zone is done because you like her. You never tried to be friends when in the friendzone and then keeping her as a friend is the most painful torture you could do to yourself. Lay down the feminism goggles please.

[@argh1989]

Dropthefishtank What an out-of-touch thing to say. What if you're interested in her as a person as well as wanting physical affection? If you try to show, it gets awkward for her. If you keep it to yourself, it gets awkward for you. You can't just switch off the fallen-in-love part of your platonic relationship. Just because you decide against seeing her anymore doesn't mean you have no interest in her as a person. It just means you take the lesser of two evils and try to move on.

[@coolmasterx5707]

El Ciervo but you're not...hence the friendzone.

[@shittyname2657]

The friend zone is a maximum security prison that few can escape.

[@VideoGameMasters09]

"Yeah.... sorry... Just friends isn't gonna work. I just can't see you that way." and walk away. If she cares, she will come to you.

[@SandyHummingbird]

Being honest is always the best policy. However, caring about somebody doesn't mean you'll necessarily have sex with them or be their romantic partner. If she truly cares, she will tell you how she feels - and if she's not interested, that's just the way it is. You can't create attraction to a friend just because they like you.

[@VideoGameMasters09]

Exactly. It all depends on you. If you are honestly happy with her as just a friend (and don't mind seeing her with a boyfriend eventually) then just be her friend. At least you're talking to her and maybe someday... But if you only want her in a relationship (sexual or not) and just being friends won't do, then be honest. Ask her out, if she's not interested and doesn't see you 'that way' tell you also don't see her 'as a friend' and just keep on steppin'. There are other girls out there, and honestly if she's just not interested and you don't want another friend, then she's not worth wasting time over. Most people are also stuck in the friend zone cause no other girl talks to them so they crush on that one girl that actually does. Star talking to other girls. Get yourself out there.

[@lakeparedes5920]

I dunno, man, if she really cares then she wouldn't have said she just wanted to be friends, so she's not gonna come to you and change her mind. I have plenty of female friends who I'm nothing more than comrades with. In my eyes, friendship is a closer, stronger, and better relation than any sort of lover.

[@SenorBoing]

Tired of people saying there's no friendzone. Just because it never happened to you doesn't mean it never happened to anyone else.

[@BurtyHaxx]

damn right!

[@BurtyHaxx]

Alex Jimenez sorry i don' fully understand what you mean? lol

[@BurtyHaxx]

ah right fair enough, cheers

[@haleemulhassan9158]

happened to me too..but i just walked out and never looked back, thats all you can do, accept whats not meant for you, and just move on, rather than suffering over it :)

[@Varan12341]

To get out of the black hole known as the Friend Zone, you will need: Ninjas Lasers Sharks Laser Sharks Robot Dinosaurs Books Research The Internet and a LOT of will power and determination.

[@fAll3n_exe]

Also, you will need Bruce Willis, Steve Bushemi, and Aerosmith.

[@midnightmadness6344]

Don't forget about Kirvo. From Red alert .

[@InsANiTYSaysHi]

don't ferget!!!!! Chick flicks you feel like you HAVE to pretend to not like that you pretend to pretend you like! or not, if you really don't like them...... XDD but no, you need nothing but yourself ^-^

[@MrIronWar]

Where am I gonna get those at this hour?

[@InsANiTYSaysHi]

MrIronWar well, search your mom's house XDD but you really just need nothing but yourself :P

[@arvojustice]

3:20 wow, that hit kind of hard and deep. The beginning of the internet days seem so rich and full, new possibilities. Now it is depressing and seems like the world is dying...

[@GuitarMistress1]

Best advice guys... if you've been friends zoned... let it go... You can not convince someone to change how they feel. If it happens, it happens... but like the video showed... trying too hard or being too presumptuous is disastrous.

[@grevious01]

Aww man!

[@SadButter]

Man, it's nice to hear once, ONCE that friend-zone isn't a bad thing... And before someone's gonna say "words from a guy who got friend-zoned" joke's on you, I never had a girl to begin with. ... *[bursts into tears]*

[@Jajweeable]

Sorry to break your dream, they don't say that friend zone isn't a bad thing. They're saying that you can get out off it by not doing anything which is totally different :P

[@InsANiTYSaysHi]

Jajweeable which does basically say the friendzone isn't a bad thing though doesn't it? 'cause like, if a girl knows you, anbd who you are, and then you get friendzoned, but then you get out of it by doing nothing..... she'll like you TONS more, trust me dude, words from a girl

[@Jajweeable]

sadly no, friendzone is still a bad thing according to this, but you don't have to put any effort in it to get out, what happens after that is entirely unrelated to the friendzone

[@InsANiTYSaysHi]

...... you're words are mind blowing.... and logical... and a bit depressing, but laugh inducing at the same time....... MIND BLOWING

[@Jajweeable]

Welcome to my world, a mind blowing, logical, slightly depressing and laugh inducing reality where i live, also, sources; life experience

[@luvbites23]

The girlfriendzone. That stupid annoying shit when all the guy can do is see you as a potential partner, doesn't seem to take the hint, can't accept you don't feel the same and honestly thinks he still has a chance even when you're honest with him. And then when he doesn't' get what he wants, he guilts you. Bitching about nice guys finishing last. He cuts you off completely as if the friendship only meant something when he could get a relationship out of it.

[@Authorsuzannemeadows]

+Counted Shadows Wait this... this is my current situation. WAIT A SECOND.

[@luvbites23]

***** Guys do have feelings, but my comment wasn't about guys who are treated badly, but the guys that shit on the people they liked when their feelings aren't returned. What you're talking about now is not the same situation.

[@luvbites23]

***** I don't need this to be explained to me, I've been the same situation on both sides. You know what? I stayed friends. The friendship meant more to me than my personal feelings. Yeah it hurt, but I chose to move on with my life instead of dwelling on something I'll never have. Easier said than done, but this whole "friendzone" bullshit is stupid as fuck and used as a way to make the other person feel guilty for NOT returning your feelings. Yes, it sucks ass but it's part of life. You just have to learn to live with it and leave yourself open to other opportunities. Whether or not the friendship is legit is another story. THAT's how life works.

[@luvbites23]

***** I never stated that it did so please reread. I also never said I expected anyone to do anything. Reread. I think you need to reread and reread again and try not to take what I say so personally for yourself. I'm sure you've been in this situation and it sucks ass, but it does not mean it's the other person's fault. That's what my whole point was in my original post, that some people blame the other for not returning their feelings. And they get stuck in this cycle of feeling horrible they don't have who they want, and at the same time coming off as if it's the other persons "loss" for not feeling the same. That's what my whole point was. That the friendzone is absolute bullshit. Calm yourself.

[@remc0s]

+Counted Shadows Nevermind. We don't need women anymore. Too much hassle and all it gets us is trouble, pain and heartbreak, because with women you can never do anything right. And for what? Honestly? Some occasional pussy? Mèh. I'm a happy, single MGTOW and only after i stopped chasing and impressing women and picked up martial arts, i found true happiness and gained some impressive life savings in the proces. It's because of Hollywood propaganda movies men grew up to be feminized, pussy-whipped manginas who make you mix tapes, talk about their feelings and give two shits about your female orgasms.

[@thatboisamu_l425]

these videos have actually been super beneficial for me in my love life. i always try to give it my all so that, even if it doesn’t work out, i can still walk away happy, knowing that i did all i could, rather than constantly second guessing and wishing i had done more

[@spehizle]

Careful; the concept of the friendzone is symptomatic of the patriarchy.

[@tehdarkswordsman6863]

Careful: the concept that there's a concept about the friend-zone being a symptom of patriarchy is actually just over aggressive feminists spewing bullshit.

[@AninOnin]

Teh DarkSwordsman Who's being overaggressive now?

[@tehdarkswordsman6863]

Oh no, someone has tried to make me seem hypocritical and therefore void any meaning my comment may have had. Whatever shall I do? lols

[@spehizle]

Teh DarkSwordsman Dude, I'm trolling.

[@fornsphin]

spehizle You know you've failed at trolling when you actually have to tell people that you're trolling just so people understand what you're trying to do.

[@RamblyngRobyn]

Vampire Spy Wolverine. Classic

[@BictorBerro]

"WHAT IS HER FAVOURITE FRUIT?!" I'm dying.

[@osaruguelawani1113]

Still to this day I wonder what it was that he did in his friends room at age 14 😂😂😂

[@thebombspayloadisexposed]

He came.

[@elizabethc.7433]

I identify as a Harry Potter book, and this has offended me.

[@musicwolf5970]

I agree

[@gaaraxnaru]

I identify as a proper speller and your comment offends me.

[@mr.randomgamer888]

oh look 9gagers +gaaraxnaru

[@mr.randomgamer888]

I will now do the right thing

[@gaaraxnaru]

ANIME WORLD What the hell is a 9gagger?

[@ShadowLegend300]

that "hire a russian to ask questions about you" is a really good idea!

[@SkaiCyan]

I wonder where people got the notion that the concept of the "friend zone" was about the girl NEEDING to reciprocate the guy's feelings? It's just a "try" effort and a "fail" response. They guy tried to make a romantic connection, he failed to achieve it (or was denied it if you wanna put some agency on the woman). That's it.

[@Baleur]

+SkaiCyan Depends. The same guy can achieve a romance with a girl who was previously only interested in him as a friend. It all depends. Naturally something has to change / be different about the two "versions" of the same guy.

[@SkaiCyan]

Baleur While true, that doesn't actually have anything to do with my comment.

[@Johnywang1]

+SkaiCyan it actually makes a ton of sense.. your just asexual or havent graduated high school thats why you dont understand +Baleur . nice guys exist. women dont validate them when they are right infront of their faces. Chicks want to be in a relationship with a guy "like you". ( a guy with all the qualities you want, cept there's no mystery of getting to know you)

[@SkaiCyan]

Haris Bokhari ...Ok so first, I never said I didn't understand or that it didn't make sense, I said it didn't have anything to do with my comment. Second, I'm heterosexual. Third, I'm 26 years old. Don't make assumptions about me please.

[@kezeal]

+Haris Bokhari You're just being overly insulting. The thing about "like you" is usually just "You're not hot enough". Looking back at your comment, it sure reflects yourself.

[@eechauch5522]

The ending is just true. The only thing that might work, is if you just are yourself and maybe work on yourself. But if you do, do it for yourself. Don’t wait around for the other person to suddenly change their mind. Accept that they will never date you and if you can’t handle that, get out of there, at least for a while. Only if you’re truly fine with being just friends, you won’t just make yourself miserable. In my case, for about a year we didn’t see each other much and I needed that. But after that time we actually became good friends again. And around three years after rejecting me, she suddenly made a move herself. I honestly didn’t expect it and that’s why it could happen.

[@kevinching7590]

I had a friend who liked me but I had zero idea. They confessed but I didn't like them back so I told them. The next day that person stopped being my close friend. It sucked

[@motodog242]

Then they weren't your friend from the start, they just found you as a +1, instead of an actual person.

[@Lkabss]

From my experience in high school with girls If your hot, there a little interested. If your nice, they stay interested. And then when you ask them out they have a chance of saying yes. If your not hot, there not interested If your nice, your friend zoned If your not nice, your screwed And when you ask them out they will say no. And if your friend zoned, attempt to exercise to look nice, handsome, and maybe, just maybe they will be interested. Of course i doubt thats ever happening but it could. But anyways if you do get friend zoned, stay friends cause your probably not getting out of it and if you ask her out its going to ruin your friendship forever. Find another girl and ik this might hurt but........just get over it.

[@willychompa4973]

working on your grammar could help..?

[@Lkabss]

i suck at english only thing i failed in middle school. Too many things to remember.

[@willychompa4973]

i see. i was just pointing out that most girls like intelligence.. :p

[@Lkabss]

lol yeah some do. I also found they don't like it when you know everything and are good at everything it makes them feel less confident and inferior. Of course they don't like idiots who don't know anything either.

[@lotaryguy12]

You're = You are Please, help me spread this mysteriously unknown information throughout the internet. Every time you replace it for 'your' a kitten dies somewhere. At least add a space in there so it's 'you r'. The world is running out of kittens.

[@brainwasher9876]

Why is it that so many people who complain about the friendzone also happen to be bronies? I thought friendship is magic? Why the complaints?

[@WinstonPoptart]

Huh? Who said that?

[@dandcc9192]

+Andrew Wang Maybe friendzoning drove them to become bronies. Also, there are that many bronies?

[@brainwasher9876]

Dan DCC91 I doubt it. If they were so disparaging of friendships in the first place they wouldn't have become bronies.

[@dandcc9192]

Andrew Wang you do understand friendzoning is not synonymous with friendship?

[@brainwasher9876]

Dan DCC91 Friendzoning is the so-called situation where a woman just wants to be friends with you and not in a romantic relationship. A woman who strongly dislikes you and does not want to be in a relationship with you is by definition not "friendzoning" you, she just reviles you.

[@Kyra-qn3nh]

Don't waste your time going after someone who needs to be persuaded to go out with you in the first place.

[@ggmaliki]

If you want to avoid the friendzone, stop being the "nice guy/girl" and let him/her know your intentions from the start.

[@iFacTzZ]

Not easy for some people man

[@xxririkko]

And some people get put off by being approached on the get-go

[@ggmaliki]

ririkko Well if you did that and they weren't interested, then that's your signal to stop.

[@cjh8]

Malik Edwards It's not always that simple, dude. What ririkko is referring to is the type of person that likes for connections to "flow into existence" so to speak. The minute too much attention is called to what it is in any direct sort of way, to them, some of the so-called mystery is gone and they lose interest for that very reason - they'd be more than game otherwise. It's bullshit I know, but it's how some girls are. Me personally, I don't have time for those sorts of games.

[@carultch]

If you tell her your intentions from the start, that's not gonna work either. It's like saying "I have bills to pay" when a job interviewer asks you why you want the job. Everyone knows it is true, but it is not going to get you results.

[@bobweeny]

best way to grow love is spending time with them, dont try to hard, and dont push, just naturally be there and let that trust grow, make those sacrifices and make those memories, eventually it will build up to the point where that line which signifies the friendzone will fade away

[@vulture_5212]

Then how do you ever get good friends that don't want a romantic or sexual relationship?

[@bobweeny]

you could get into a relationship with any good friend thats been around for along time if youre open for it. Its unexplainable how the mind and heart works in unison to make you chose which person youd feel romantic towards, but i believe all love is grown in the same way as to your parents, family members, friends and spouse. but the only thing that would be added to the equation of spousual love is lust.. the sexual attraction through looks and personality but even lust can be replaced with things like loyalty, duty, commitment, gratitude, etc.

[@vulture_5212]

Hamid Ahbedin I wasn't asking that. I was asking how would you ever have good friends if they all fell in love with you.

[@bobweeny]

well the thing is you can love your friends... like you love your family members. love isnt an emotion, its the bond you share with someone. lust is the emotion youd feel towards your spouse along with having love for them.but evgen friends, if you have opposite gender friends, you may feel lust for, but it would highly depend on you to maintain your boundaries. religions tend to not allow you to even risk it cause of what it can lead to.

[@vulture_5212]

Hamid Ahbedin You're missing something. If love is towards family and friends and lust is for someone in a sexual relationship with you, then what about _romantic_ relationships? The kind of person you just want to go on dates with and sit together watching television or something.

[@artak8273]

Unfortunately, said girl could be unattracted to you physically, and then there's nothing that can get you out. I'm not being superficial or anything, but why would anyone initiate a romantic/sexual relationship with someone they're not sexually attracted to?

[@motodog242]

I mean, they were attracted to each other, there just were probably other factors such as, but not limited to, he's not a great communicator, she's not self-conscience enough, she just fell out of love with him, she found someone better and did the more mature thing of breaking it off instead of cheating, etc.

[@jwrigley47]

I don't know. I've had a couple guy friends who later became my boyfriends. I wasn't physically attracted to them at first, but as I got to know them, that changed. Of course, that works the other way round, too: dated a few guys who seemed super attractive, but then I saw how they treated other people and their *true* personality came out, and I was repulsed. I couldn't even remember what was so hot about them in the first place.

[@greatarabia8091]

@@jwrigley47 Happened to me. One time a girl liked me and it really showed. She even told my girl friends that she had " a huge crush" on me. I didn't know I was attractive until stuff like that started happening. Anyways the sad thing is that girl stopped liking me after a few months because apparently she thought I joke a lot and I don't have a serious personality. The funny thing is she jokes a lot too but I guess she wants a guy who is serious the whole time. Compatibility plays a huge part in relationships not just looks. I wouldn't change for anyone but myself though is my philosophy.

[@StephenShepherdOfficial]

Emily as a blonde instead of a redhead is fascinating!

[@herpflerkenssenalermerkins122]

Don't talk to her for a couple of days come back with a wheelchair, thats how I did it

[@rickslayer4608]

ha ha, thats what I'm talking about, going the distance.

[@young-igotana-jamie5316]

hhahahahhaha

[@SantosAl]

That is what friends and a sledgehammer are for.

[@LOLlies47]

are you the guy in your profile pic?

[@Mhj30596xxok]

I like your name.

[@carwynjones2271]

These six videos by CH are really sweet, brings out the feels.

[@NadaCero]

I've never been close enough to a girl to get friend zoned. I'm not sure if that's good or bad.

[@Rajujas]

Same here. :/

[@TimpBizkit]

Same here, most of the girls I like are casual acquaintances who I don't hang out with one on one at all!

[@juliaf1152]

That was surprisingly super cute in the end with the best advice

[@cybersteel8]

You know, I made the best move getting out of the friendzone. I kept saving myself for her, always being there for her - I was the best brother any girl could ask for. She fucking loved me for it. But date me? Nah, she kept going after jerks who dumped her. And she'd cry over and over again about it to me, and I kept telling her "you know, sometimes what you want isn't very far away" but she just didn't get the hint. So I told her. I'm like "look, do you like me? Because I like you and I'm sick of being friends" but noooooo I'm too much like a brother to her. nek minit, tell her to fuck off, and get my own damn girlfriend who appreciates me. Hell yeah, best move I ever made. Been over 2 years now with my girl, and I'm so glad that "sister" taught me the lesson to never let anyone walk all over me. I'm my own man now, no one fucks with me, and I love it.

[@cybersteel8]

Laika Lamarr I'm sorry, I think you misjudged me. I have been friends with her for many years, and we have both had partners in that time. I just brought my feelings out in the open, hoping she would welcome to relief to actually let her feelings out too. She didn't feel the same way I did. You have no idea how she treated my girlfriend before I ended my friendship with her. She insulted her, didn't support me, even tried to take me away from her. She had no respect for my girlfriend and I lost her respect with her. I gave her an ultimatum, to be with me once and for all, or to let me be with my girlfriend, because it was torture to try and stay friends with her while still trying to move on with my life. She chose to keep being a bitch, so I told her to fuck off and let me live. I couldn't go another day thinking she liked me when deep down I liked her, yet trying to be happy with my current girlfriend at the same time. I needed everything to come clean, and she refused to back down. She was never my property. She dated guys who hurt her repeatedly. She called them jerks, not me. She cried about them, and I gave her advice to make things work for her, and yet they didn't treat her well and she had to break up with them (or they dumped her). Please don't judge me and insult me further. Your opinion is not welcome anymore. You don't know the full story, and you STILL don't know the full story because I don't have the composure to discuss it further. PS: Please take note that I have not retaliated towards your insults, because they do hurt, and they are completely unfounded and uncalled for. Sure, I'm just a person on the internet with no face, no personality, no feelings, no soul, but I would like you to find the respect and humanity inside you to speak to me like a human being. I am doing you the same honor, I would appreciate it in return. If you are unable, please refrain from commenting further. Your insults are not welcome.

[@SpookeyClown]

Laika Lamarr What's weirder is me getting put in the friend zone after _she_ gets in my pants. Such an odd topic to bring up while showering.

[@seg162]

***** This is relevant. i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/623/498/816.jpg

[@cybersteel8]

That's spot on, seg162 !

[@SpookeyClown]

***** Sounds about right.

[@XxCharlotteGuineaxX]

1:25 'You'll hire a Russian in a suit to ask questions about you' xD

[@zinaidanitikin4886]

I think the best option would be this: Her- we can still be friends though, right? Me- No... * walks away*

[@zinaidanitikin4886]

Can't be in the friend zone if you're not her friend

[@N-HTTi]

Zinaida Nitikin logic👏

[@acat6145]

Yeah sometimes you are just romantically attracted to someone

[@muthesquirrel]

Or maybe she's just not into you and you should move on instead of secretly harbouring false hope that eventually turns into bitterness, resentment, and finally jealousy when she DOES get a new boyfriend. That way you won't lose a friend when you finally get it into your skull you weren't her type.

[@orly444]

No fucking way. Women are not allowed to have guys that are platonic friends.

[@muthesquirrel]

***** The majority of my friends are girls because I have that same issue with most guys. I think it comes down to who you are and who they are. Some guys just clash with a lot of traits girls tend to share. Other guys or girls, like the one in this video (if the end didn't bullshit), just can't cast up that essential barrier needed to separate friendship and attraction/lust making friendship with the opposite gender... problematic.

[@muthesquirrel]

***** Someone seems a bit bitter. Especially given what you said makes no sense. I'm not even sure what you're taking offence to. Ignorant to what, exactly?

[@muthesquirrel]

***** I don't prove anything given I'm not a girl. But you're speaking like all women are the same. I only mentioned traits that many (not all) share tend to clash with traits that many (but not all) men share. I didn't suggest any of these traits, males or females, as negative... just different.

[@FH-id6xi]

Andy Semple you must be what we call a battyman :D.

[@questhero101]

How I got out of the friend zone: Became really good friends with my crush. Complimented her and talked to her a lot. That's it.

[@athila.paixao]

why compliment her,if you do they will start to behave like a bitch to you because they think you're crazy after them,u have to be the badass

[@questhero101]

Not all the time, dumbass.

[@athila.paixao]

***** yes all the time idiot.

[@questhero101]

Depends on the girl, really.

[@athila.paixao]

***** i agree.

[@lAmCanad1an]

I've tried the not trying so hard part, nope still am friend zoned. From 5 different girls. Humiliating lol.

[@grantwallace1597]

Lol, the key to getting women is to treat them like dirt. They can argue against it any amount of ways, but facts are facts, I get more results out of belittling women than I do supporting them.

[@Nimbus3690]

Grant Wallace i can vouch for this, sadly. One time i told a girl to go fuck herself after she was acting all catty. A few weeks later she asked if i'd take her out. What a funny business. It's not cuz women are complicated. They're batshit clueless about what they want.

[@Ajaxlancer]

Grant Wallace NICCCEEE GUYSS FINISH LASTTTTT

[@MrIansmitchell]

You're unattractive. I'm sorry you had to find out this way.

[@grantwallace1597]

Your face looks like a leather handbag in your profile photo Mitchell. Maybe you want to keep stupid comments to yourself ;)

[@nirbhaysharma700]

It's 2021 and seven years later this still rocks

[@dellalynlee1923]

The friend zone doesn't exist. A girl isn't required to have sex with you just because you're nice to her. If that was true, she'd have a hundred boyfriends, and wouldn't think of you anyway. End of discussion.

[@matiasmorant4484]

bitch

[@dellalynlee1923]

Um, what? Oh, never mind.

[@D34DLYxC0L3]

It's not just about getting laid. If you have strong romantic feelings for someone but they only see you as a friend, you're in the friend zone. Of course it doesn't exist as an actual physical thing, it's just a term to describe the shitty experience of unreciprocated love.

[@Benny-Arts]

YoYoMa its just a soft term for rejection

[@IbeCosmic]

I see your point, but I don't think its wrong to use the term friend zone, because it is a real thing. It's seriously just when you ask someone out or share feelings and they say they don't feel the same but want to remain friends. It happens, and 'friendzone' is a pretty good term for it. It's not inherently derogatory, it rolls off the tongue...

[@ELNIKYUK]

2:34 did he just say read better books while holding harry potter?

[@foreverskrillex]

Just because you're nice to her and treat her right, doesn't mean she has to go out with you. Just accept it

[@daniellemichael1]

Bold of you to assume there are better books than Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

[@Balinux]

Beyond good and evil

[@locutus94]

When I get put in the friend zone, I stop talking to the woman. I realize that she isn't obligated to reciprocate my feelings for her, however, the friendship really doesn't work. Why? While you, the guy in the friend zone, are hanging out with her you're really going to spending the entire time fantasizing about her suddenly loving you back. This makes hanging out really awkward for you. Therefore, the best thing to do is stop talking to the woman. Don't return her calls, don't text her back, don't go hangout. Instead, focus on moving on. Hey, perhaps she'll grow interested in you in the time you are apart. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder. However, if she isn't interested, you can move on anyway.

[@ReLLaXed]

locutus94 I agree, If you couldn't get out of the "Friendzone" by asking her out, then just drift away. But have the balls to say that you are taking a break, don't just block the person completely from your life, be a man about it.

[@locutus94]

Netanel That seems fair enough.

[@SkuLLetjaH]

locutus94 You talk about this as if it's a frequent occurance :)

[@locutus94]

SkuLLetjaH It happens to me every now and again.

[@joshuaeslick1366]

***** Worked with me. Lol but she asked for me back and said she was originally scared to lose the friendship we had. I declined the offer and she harassed me for months. Finally got her to leave me alone after blocking her number lol

[@cosmomind7469]

I was in doubt if I was in the friend zone turns out no, girl I liked was my best friend loved hanging out with me and she was always personal with me always holding my hand and lieing on me but I never got the guts to ruin friendship confessing, after I moved away she message me saying she liked me I did the same and now we're i agony cuz we never confessed Moral: don't do this fucking movie cliché it's a whole lot worse that getting rejected ( I think ) sometime it's not friend zone just fear of rejection

[@leilahnicki2111]

Step 1: Walk away Step 2: Enjoy the rest of your life Step 3: Find someone who will reciprocate your feelings. If you sit in the friend zone for too long then you will damage your ability to love properly, get out asap. A good rule of thumb, don't trust a woman's opinion of the friend zone, very few are able to empathize with men properly [they don't get how it feels].

[@jonquilgemstone]

Leilah Nicki I've seen it hurt a man--someone extremely dear to me. It happened to him a couple of times in a couple of ways. Before that, I was just cold to guys if I thought they might like me. Afterwards, I've been nicer but kept hoping and praying none of them like me. The last thing I as a woman want is to play with a man's heart...but I can't force myself to fall in love. The best I can do is be a good friend and support them while still making it clear I have no other interest. If they wind up falling for a while, that is neither my fault nor theirs. I wouldn't ditch them (because I witnessed how hurtful that is), but I would give them enough room to get over their infatuations (since I also witnessed how hard it is to be too near an unrequited love). Once they move on, then we can be more familiar again. If they need a reminder that I'm not interested, then a clear splash of reality would be in order.

[@maestrulgamer9695]

why would it damage the ability to love??

[@siryak]

Actually works pretty good 10/10 advice

[@nicktheavatar_]

WHAT IS HER FAVORITE FRUIT?!?? Lost it xD

[@ChrisSmith-bb1dq]

Lol friendzone doesnt exist. Just a combination of men with entitlement issues and women who are too afraid to tell them truth when they reject them.

[@blboy129]

The friendzone does exist but not in the way that most guys make it out to be. The real friendzone is when the guy or girl is actually thinking about a relationship but decides not to risk ruining things. The fake friendzone is a bunch of guys/girls thinking that a girl not being interested in you is the friendzone

[@calebwaz5934]

blboy129 Chris Smith you're both right! Merry Christmas everybody!

[@ChrisSmith-bb1dq]

***** I recently watched a video by karen straughan, and i retract my statement. I think it was this one. /watch?v=a9XDb0nxSO4

[@foxyroxi8209]

Did you learn that from tumblr? Actually rather than learn I should say brainwashed.

[@KuroKitsune101]

Let me make this simple. If she isn't interested in you end of story. Credits roll. GAME OVER Majority of girls don't want a douche bag. Its just that you either see him as a douche bag because you can't deal with the fact that she has a preference that you don't fall under. Sure there are girls that do but most women want somebody who treats them well. Also if you are being nice to somebody just to get in their pants you are not a nice guy, you are a deceiver and a liar. That's all there is to it. People aren't vending machines where if you insert enough kindness love or sex pops out. You can go to the moon and back for him/her and he/she could STILL not be interested in you. You know why? because they are PEOPLE with REAL emotions. Sure gratitude will probably exist but gratitude doesn't equal desire. In short he/she doesn't owe you anything and I'm sorry if that persons friendship is a crappy consolation prize... At least that's what I would say if I were actually sorry.

[@ToshiUchiha7]

What if you are generally a nice person? What then?

[@KuroKitsune101]

Well then you're not a deceiver It's just when you do stuff like that with the motive of getting something you want out of them that you become one.

[@ToshiUchiha7]

Izaya Orihara I don't do that. I genuinely want to be nice people. Even the people I hate... at times. These girls fail to see that. Even when they...friendzone me, I'm still nice. I don't know... I just don't know.

[@KuroKitsune101]

ToshiUchiha7 There's no way to put it gently, girls will only "friendzone" somebody if they either 1- are not looking for a relationship at that given point and time or 2- are simply not interested in dating you. It's not your fault or theirs it's just how it is.

[@ToshiUchiha7]

Izaya Orihara Yeah, I've come to realise that. It just sucks when you keep striking out. I'm not forcing it anymore but it just keeps happening. Must be the broken mirror I stepped on. Who knew?

[@scottphillips7368]

Does anyone else here watch Good Mythical Morning? I thought I recognized the woman from the thumbnail and sure enough....thats Emily, from GMM.

[@MrDilwo]

Hey... My names Logan!

[@loganator01]

LoganT111 Am I late to the party?

[@kingraj333]

if you get friendzoned by someone you had a huge crush on that wouldnt go away, just walk away from the friendship or keep the relationship at a distance. focus on yourself and your work or your dreams. dont try and rebound with someone else. work on trying to make you happy and accept yourself with all goods and bads. once you know ur worth, just go for someone else. its sounds much easier said than done but i found it to be only real way of getting over it. if he/she doesnt want you, then accept it and move on.

[@Seekarr]

Missed one, going out to a bar as friends, and see if anything happens. There's like a 40% chance you'll hook up, and there's the added bonus that there's also a 25% chance you'll hook up with someone else.

[@jazzyjswift]

Terrible idea. As all "get out of friend zone" ideas are. Just because you hook up doesn't mean you've left the friend zone. Everyone knows that decisions made while you are drunk don't hold the same meaning as ones made sober.

[@Seekarr]

Justin Short Who cares, you still hooked up! :P

[@jazzyjswift]

That mentality is the difference between a man and a boy.

[@DaBigMike27]

Justin Short it's that mentality that probably got him in the friend zone

[@Seekarr]

Justin Short It's the difference between getting laid, and not getting laid. The whole "friend zone" thing is a myth anyway. It's an excuse that certain guys use because they keep failing to get laid by a woman they want to screw.

[@aminalikhany2988]

exactly! all you need to do is just be yourself and don't push really hard and enjoy the moment!

[@Salah9999]

That is actually so true.....

[@AwesomeTeamGames]

I'd probably hate the friend zone. If I had any friends... *Forever Alone*

[@SoloTravelerOffTheBeatenPath]

I've personally never experienced being in the friend zone. True story.

[@Rkay421]

The friend zone is a cold and lonely place filled with despair and a well hidden exit

[@bazli83]

Yup just walk away, if it was meant to be, it will. If you want to be friends, you can, if you don't, then you won't.

[@elijahmcdaniels922]

I have escaped the freind zone kinda overated sometimes

[@elijahmcdaniels922]

do the last thing

[@cjbolina1276]

thats real true

[@Skeletonboss12]

Its easy tbh just got to make a small tear in the friendship wait for her to rip it and then you can approach it so many different ways.... Worked 5/8 times the other three they made a big rip not their fault though.

[@Realsongs17]

It’s easier to complain that no one likes you instedb of doing the last one in this video

[@EMlNEM2020]

that was a nice ending

[@stichyface]

All of these old videos holds some truths about life. They’re really great

[@Lolinkassi]

It's even crappier when you're the girl who's friendzoned. It's awesome when a guy hits on a girl, but it's just since forever set in stone that a girl can't hit on a guy. I mean, she can, but it's seen as inappropriate.

[@Aubatron]

Naw, it's awesome when a girl hits on a guy. Just don't do too much and cut it out right away if you get the idea that he is not interested because it gets annoying fast if you're not interested in the girl.

[@Rodgerinho]

Crappier? Or just rare and harder to know how to deal with for girls? Guys get friend-zoned ALL.THE.TIME. So we know how to get over it. Care less, get drunk, focus on sports, endlessly try to impress her while she takes complete advantage and laps it up, we have tons of different ways to get over the friend zone :). I always say to guy friends it's actually their own damn fault if they fall into the latter situation, especially if it's regular or repeated, you need to know people will take advantage of you if you let them. If you were my sister or close friend I'd tell you that if he isn't chasing you, you need to do everything in your power to avoid and ignore anything romantic with him, find someone else. Guys chase the girls they care about like crazy, the right girl will get a full hail-mary effort. And you can hit on a guy, of course you can, just use all your feminine subtlety, talk to an older woman or check the internet for tips, but we're pretty easy to work out, guys get turned on easily, just do things to get close and make yourself the focus of attention, we love to look :). And I can say for a fact that you can do it so we never even know it's deliberate haha

[@Lolinkassi]

Yeah, but you know what I mean :D

[@Rodgerinho]

Lolinkassi Well you look really cute, I'm sure most guys would be absolutely delighted if you were interested, just be open and don't get stuck on that one guy, he's 100% not worth it, if he isn't showing signs of being keen. I hope you find that out now rather than later when your self-esteem is shot and you're feeling worth less than you are. You deserve a guy that chases you and makes you feel special, every girl does, and the right guy will do that. All the best

[@ggmaliki]

Aubatron This is how "friendzoners" feel. They're not interested and only saw you as a friend. You can try to woo them, but if you're obviously failing, stop and move on before he/she begins to hate you.