The Slumflower | 5 Things I've Learned About Being Alone | Women We Love | The Pool

[@maria.is.chilling]

RISE OF THE INTROVERTS! Never thought my introvert habits, would be a benefit. Great tips Chiddy

[@estheradao]

Faith Maria same

[@eforbeauty]

Completely agree with everything you touched on. I do think it takes time to grow out of the insecure place where we feel to need to always be present, especially during teenage years. I know I’ve completely grew out of that phase and absolutely love being alone.

[@rachaelhutchings8661]

I love this, in my twenties I was desparate to be in company because it was acceptable. When I got a flat at 28 years old 10 years ago I discovered me slowly, still am, l know what I love, i'm comfortable amd I discovered relaxing for real, I'd spent 28 years exhausted, finally I had a relationship with me. I loved it, I still live alone and now I can recharge and love me

[@AntaAutumn]

Truer words have never been spoken!

[@mariannakyriakou6076]

What an inspiration. No ones company compares to your own 🌞

[@cmleite]

I’m naturally introspected, so it’s new to me to hear that we are not taught to be alone and it’s important to be. I feel judged by society sometimes for being antisocial, but I don’t think I’m actually am... I read about the people who revolve around their emotions and are introspective, so maybe the encouragement of being alone is not very good for who naturally is already very lonely... just wished to hear something about who have the habit of being isolated and the importance to go out and do things and meet people and all, because I think that’s important for me and it’s also hard to accomplish

[@Anadorado88]

You can be alone, and still not really be with yourself.

[@upendasana7857]

I love Slumflower..shes the friend I needed many years ago now...but wouldn't mind having a friend just like her,guess she reminds me that being our own best friend is really important.Buts shes just such a positive force in the world..bring on more of Chidera

[@lsweet222]

Beautiful girl 💕 I read her book after seeing her on This Morning and I knew she was an incomparable woman from then 👑

[@cristinalaris7256]

I love Chidera. Thank you for existing.

[@YourGirlSudanny]

Point 4 was me this summer lol.. I felt like I wasted time being inside when it was sunny, but I genuinely enjoyed what I was doing indoors lol

[@babygirl2008]

Wow smart girl. She is so on point

[@shawnaoliver4538]

She dropped so many gems!!

[@anibelle28]

Queen, inspiration.

[@alicemvl12]

Sooo good I lovvve her 🪐✨🌞🧘🏽‍♀️

[@Glamchizzy]

Nice presentation, thanks for sharing beautiful lessons you've learnt about being alone. It's awesome 👌

[@LisaAGroenendijk]

Spottttt on great shared wisdom. Thank you! 💛

[@seraiahnicole1436]

so beautiful!

[@1000shoeswoman]

i laughed wen u said u know everything about yourself true

[@gaelm6122]

This is it!

[@chloe10161]

absolute boss and inspiration for everyone

[@dayfeeymaas6957]

i needed this thank you

[@annieb3781]

Very mature I wish I knew this at a young age.😀

[@Story_and_Her]

If you love Chidera/ Aka The Slumflower as much as I do, check out recent interviews and talks by her on my channel too! 💖🌸🌻

[@naima981]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️

[@doloreshaze10]

I love the Slumflower but I have to disagree with "we learn the most about ourselves when we are alone". Our relationships are truly our greatest teacher. No one triggers you like your partner and triggers unearth your shit and bring it to light so you have to deal with it.

[@elsugga3736]

❤️

[@Johnphilips1234]

Aww this girl is actually super lovely and sweet. Such a shame she is so preoccupied with race and anti-white.