The "Trans Lesbians" of Tinder Are A Big Problem.

[@BlaireWhiteX]

COME SEE ME ON MY PODCAST TOUR!!

[@kennethrjackman6563]

You said that gay men don't have to deal with women trying to convert them. I'm a 65 y/o gay man who has never been with a woman. When I was younger I was always a masculine, handsome and well-built man, who lifted weights for decades. I've lived my life "out". From the age of 18 on I put up with straight women wanting to convert me. During my career as an ICU nurse I even had to seek assistance from the hospital I worked for to deal with sexual harrassment. I dealt with women feeling my biceps and making coomments about my legs. You really are poorly informed if you think gay men don't experience harassment from women.

[@hollymiasaunders6404]

As a Lesbian I can't be bothered with dating apps anymore, it's full of this shit, couples 'looking for a third' and people wanting to just 'experiment' I'm genuinely tired of the fact nobody takes us seriously. After years of being told by straight men 'I can change you', now this. You aren't entitled to us and we aren't a fucking fetish. (Sorry for the rant I just want to scream into the void) (Update: I'm honestly shocked with amount of likes, thankyou so much everyone ❤ but also, it makes me feel less crazy knowing so many other people, (lesbians especially) feel the same as I do, much love to you all!)

[@SexyBeautifulBabe]

As a transsexual woman, men and couples do the same thing to me .. I got off those apps a long time ago and never looked back.. transsexual women arent a fetish for twisted heterosexual couples or horny perverted men.. I totally can relate

[@rummagingchaos]

girl same. after a year of swiping i somehow managed to find a great relationship, but it took MANY ENM/unicorn requesting mfs to get there. it’s hell. keep the faith, you’re deserving of someone that makes you happy 😊

[@alessandrajackson3768]

I completely understand! It’s either unicorn hunters or people wanting to experiment or change your sexuality!

[@Prakriti2041]

I don't personally know but I have an casual aquantience who (full disclosure isn't on the app I don't want her getting a bad rap of ppl see this) Who said it's a lot of straight men looking for a 3some

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

I am so sorry. It seems lesbians are fetishized way more than they're respected.

[@amnasch]

When I created a HER account in 2020, I was shock by the amount of men on the app. They were masculine, hairy, beardy, and sometimes muscular. Trans identity didn’t even cross my mind, as they weren’t trying to pass.

[@declaracionespolemicas]

They don't even try, it's so gross 🤢 these mfs are more hairy and beardy than some straight men, it's not attractive at all.

[@bflower1562]

Just ignore them..

[@poogissploogis]

​@@bflower1562That attitude is part of the problem honestly. We need to actively exclude these men and let them know they are not welcome. They should not be allowed to invade women's spaces

[@CulEdz]

@@bflower1562can’t ignore those beasts. They won’t get their attention quota and they’ll start screaming “NOTICE ME! PAY ATTENTION AND HAVE SEX WITH ME!”

[@user-ei6fn7qr4d]

My friend has it and there are so many even litterally just like 100% cis men looking people like short hair no nailpolish no makeup like wtf why And shouldnt there be a photo identification before? Or am i confusing the app I was scrolling for her once and it was so many

[@Ennaitak]

The biggest take away from this is that it doesn't matter how you "identify" people are not attracted to self identifications. Thats not how attraction works.

[@Ilivedbih]

We really need to put more emphasis on "SEXual orientation". So they'll get it.

[@pageachatter229]

@@Ilivedbih Trying to talk sense to these people is like trying to teach good storytelling to most mainstream writers. It's about as effective as talking to a brick wall.

[@Ennaitak]

@Ilivedbih As a straight woman, I'm not attracted to any asshole who simply "identifies" as a man. I am attracted to certain traits and secondary sex characteristics that are most commonly connected to biological males. Same goes for lesbians but for women.

[@ramones1314]

what pisses me off is the people who are like "i like this girl but she said shes nonbinary, does that mean im bi now?" and its like HOW is that even a thought process you have??? like other people being crazy is one thing but how you gunna let that question yourself? the fuck???

[@staylor7173]

Exactly this. I have no issue with transgender people at all. I have plenty of friends who are transgender. But people need to be real. If a woman is a lesbian then she prefers 😺 period! No matter how you identify. That's why it's SEXual preference!

[@saraero]

as a gay man, i feel your pain lesbians, my local gay dating app is getting filled with ladies with green hair and twenty facial piercings, dear lord

[@sweethistortea]

I don't understand why some of the people feel like they are owed a date. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone who is 1) with them out of pity 2) not actually interested in them romantically. Love is something you can not force.

[@xtiphuny89]

Narcissism. They don't care about how the other person feels, they want to be treated special.

[@CharliStar]

Stop using your brain and logic - didn’t you know that was outlawed Jan 1st 2020 😅

[@TheWeebinar]

You've already put more thought and consideration into it than they have. Really most of these people are the same crowd of whiny incels that couldn't get any action before so it is not shocking in the slightest that these clowns feel like people owe them love/affection.

[@boosqueezy2418]

exactly

[@lsdestroyer8624]

These people feel owed and entitled to literally everything! That's evidently the only skill they learned in school.

[@shadowbeastie]

As a woman, these made my hands sweat with nervousness. And this is how it feels to be a woman in the world around men like this. FACTS.

[@catherinecullen9770]

Agreed

[@Serra-81]

It the predator vibe. These are people I would be afraid to be around my sons.

[@seawatersoul333]

Thats because it's NOT NATURAL!!!

[@kornyvdf]

those are not men, they are weirdos

[@stoffen8551]

I have no kids but I fear for those who have… world is going to shit

[@randybobandy4000]

It's scary how often they talk about physically attacking women...they know they are stronger and they like that becasue they can scare women into complying with them.

[@Meme78774]

I would gladly take any man I heard saying this about any women round a corner to educate them on how you treat a lady

[@PS-qn4oz]

You have to wonder how much threat of physical violence is behind women's groups turning against women to embrace men posing as women.

[@sillycheese301]

It's a fetish for them

[@themslydia]

This is the issue with men who are claiming to be trans LESBIANS but only wanting to date biological women. It's all insane they won't do anything to transitions but will not date a trans female either... Its insane to me as well Blaire

[@elalogar7340]

How dare the trans lesbians not be willing to date trans lesbians? All the accusations they have thrown at lesbians should be thrown at them every time they open their mouths. They are not entitled to women's bodies. Entitled hypocrites.

[@TheFatalcrest]

Oooo good point, are these people even going after each other or do they only find attraction properly with biological women

[@themslydia]

@@TheFatalcrest a lot of the ones I saw were ugly men who are "trans females" but not transitioning. And ONLY DATING BIOLOGICAL FEMALES.... 🤮SOOO CRINGE!

[@kg291]

these transbians on vid with beards (not all) are probably men who couldnt get a woman so rather than flip incel they tried this route first and its scary

[@rabiespuddings1735]

Yep. They don’t date trans women but you better, otherwise you’re a transphobe. Didn’t you know? Only trans people are entitled to their preferences, no one else.

[@little_flower_vagabond]

as a lesbian, YES THIS IS WHAT IT’S LIKE. that, and the nonbinary labels from AFAB/AMAB people. i’m a lesbian woman. i want to be in a monogamous relationship with a woman. it’s very simple.

[@kittiistxr]

I'm not a lesbian, bi but, same.. I just want to be with a woman and I'm tired of these men tryna get in our spaces

[@laurykristensen6239]

Most dating sites are total cess pools. I wish they were monitored better. I was scrolling a dating app and a dick pic was someone's profile shot. No more dating apps for me.

[@EverFlower]

Fr. And if you think about it, the transbian concept is just men transitioning so they have a chance with a woman they have zero chance with as a man (not all, but most from what I've seen).

[@anonymouse0123]

EXACTLY!!!!!!

[@myramedchan4775]

@little_flower_vagabond as a transbian I respect your opinion

[@meechmushrooms]

"Wren, 28 years old, currently in psychosis " the way Blaire says this so casually is sending meeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BluEyeZ93]

Had me laughing so hard 😂

[@ClassyGyal]

Right 😂

[@jamiebom1023]

I freaking ❤️ Blaire 😂

[@FocusedFighter777]

"Fresh out of prison" 😂

[@Sf37940]

I love how they can state their preference like T4T but if a lesbian says 'no thanks, I'm just into women' it's discrimination

[@Celeste-jh2lj]

No one can dictate how society functions but them. They can have preferences but anyone else is a racist bigot

[@kadebebesis4204]

That’s cause any other feelings but their own doesn’t matter

[@xdcatkidfoxox]

Welcome to 2024 😒

[@angelanolan1585]

Misogyny at its best. They claim they're trans women lesbian but comes in with all that make testosterone especially when you turn them down.

[@JessicaOliverra-wt4rt]

It would be rude. I'm a transitioned transsexual,legally a woman. Estrogen pumps through my veins. I was born a partially hermaphrodite---where biological intersexed condition begins. Growing up with macho guys,was awful. I did train in shotokan karate,and jujitsu before transitioning because I looked feminine,and scared macho crud away. Saying ''No thanks,not interested'' is fine. I am no man,not an attacker. Of course no means no. It is not discrimination for a naturally born lesbian to say no .Using ''they'' is bigoted statement though. We are not all the same. Yes I do get hit on by guys,just don't really like men. I will date a femme transsexual w woman who passes. I've dated naturally born women and disclosed about myself b4 getting serious.

[@acstair]

I am a cis female, trying/who tried to date women, and have been pressured, berated, coerced/assaulted at the hands of more than one self-described "Trans-woman", one of which who was twice my size, and clearly had a hard-on while trying to assault me. I had the thought, jeez, this is like rape culture...getting mad because someone doesn't want to be intimate with you. I didn't know what to think about it, for fifteen years, so I pushed it down and went on my way. Now I see more clearly what may have happened. I have not tried to date women for fifteen years, either. I have some thinking to do...good God.

[@inkjulz6460]

As a lesbian, I’m really happy that people are starting to speak out more against this. I’m tired of feeling as if I have to be attracted to someone who is literally a man but says “I’m a woman.” People can do whatever they want, but they can’t get mad at me for saying I don’t want to date them. Also, you’re right our flag could get some updates lol

[@Gaibreel]

Please please please never be pressured! Stand your ground. Scream no. Idgaf. These people are not safe and healthy minded people. If anyone gets angry at you for this, they are very disturbed individuals. Tell them the truth and walk away. They are delusional and Ill.

[@ramenphome]

I can't tell you the rage I have had towards me just for saying 'No thank you.'

[@kxrlig]

I feel like g.o.g. p*rn is the biggest problem for us. We are so s*xualized by men that they want in on it. Makes me feel disgusting.

[@okonanno]

I'm not a man. You can not be attracted to us, that's fine, 100% okay. Any normal person would agree. But please do not call us men

[@ramenphome]

@@okonanno If it bothers you, it probably applies to you. To her, if you still have your penis, you're a man.

[@heatherlivingston312]

As a straight woman who has been married for over 20 years I am so sorry to all actual lesbians out there. This is pure insanity and I can’t imagine dating for you right now. I can’t even imagine being straight and dating right now. Keep speaking up ladies! ❤

[@missymyers9786]

I’m straight born female, divorced. I can’t even begin dating in today’s world. 😢When I was in the dating scene pre-marriage, all of THIS…wasn’t a thing. I saw a man who 100% presented as a man, and he actually was. Where are the good men in my age group, who are NOT taken? My husband cheated on me, and I view those who are in a relationship as OFF LIMITS. I honestly NEVER cheated on a boyfriend even as a teenager, and always deemed ppl who are in relationships as OFF LIMITS. I don’t understand ppl who don’t get THAT, either.

[@jadegrenade8287]

Thankx 💗 for saying that. I'd also like to add that I love trans people. I have compassion, and I'm sorry these creeps are making y'all look bad, You don't deserve it.

[@jadegrenade8287]

@missymyers9786 I'm not sure for some reason they seem to show up in my life and wisha I wasn't a homo but I remain friends if they are respectful... but I can't find a nice woman like that to save my life... Maybe I let women get away with more and put up with crap when I shouldn't even give them time of day, so maybe I end up wasting my time with ladies I shouldn't even be entertaining.

[@ldburroughs]

Whatever lesbian energy is, trans women just aren’t giving it - well, certainly not the ones in this video. I just can’t anymore.

[@victoriadiesattheend.8478]

​@@FirstnameLastnamesI like women and what you described is perfect lol 😊

[@screaminmimi330]

This is what happens when any person can claim to be whatever gender they want, with nothing more required than that verbal claim. And we are all expected to treat them like their claimed identity, despite no attempt on their part to pass as such.

[@dmhq-administration]

NAH, I'M GOOD! I have a vagina and pure bio woman, thx! Glad to be 100% female! 🤔😁👍🏻

[@thedayidied]

Who exactly is even bothering to be like, "oh here's a dude even though I was looking for a chick, yeah that's no problem!" There is NO WAY anyone is actually matching with these damn goons wtf.

[@erikaLS305]

No way Blaire is going to hell. She's out here doing God's work helping him be less confused.

[@jeremiahmorton632]

I literally remember in high school that my friends made each other Grindr profiles as full girls because we were stupid and thought it was funny (we were 17). The profiles were removed because we were WOMEN!!! Probably wouldn’t happen anymore, though

[@deanbuck7985]

It doesn't I see them all the time.

[@gummybeartakeover3916]

I hope it got removed because you were teenagers. i hope

[@kiriyamask]

Now they ban gay men for being "transphobic" if they state they're only looking for males.

[@jess.i.can22]

As a lesbian, I don’t like the lesbian flag either. Don’t need it anyways.

[@Ilivedbih]

Same 😭 I always found it so tacky, I don't identify myself with the lgbt community despite being a lesbian but I was always mad we got that as a flag ngl lol

[@spleenforsoul]

Same. To be honest, I'm not really feeling the overall rainbow either. Just tacky to me. It's a good indicator for me, though. I see someone covered head to toe in rainbow shit and I know to run in the other direction. I'm not talking about a rainbow shirt, a pin, or even a flag. I'm saying those people just covered. Too much.

[@flugoaway3398]

Not to mention that the rainbow flag has ruined the real rainbow

[@kel4me520]

Same!!!❤

[@jamieennen964]

I'm not sure what flags are for what group anymore since so many have been made up all in the name of inclusion.🙄 EXCEPT FOR THE M.A.P. PEDO FLAG, I know that one!!! It's disgusting that there's one in the first place!!! They should not be protected!!! Once they out themselves they should be out'd permanently!! Blaire I just wanted to say bringing us with to your therapy session, being that vulnerable was SO INCREDIBLY BRAVE!! I probably need to go to therapy for all the trauma I've been thru. A LOT OF TRAUMA! I just don't want to go to someone who is there for a paycheck. I want someone who cares and wants to help ppl. When you started to cry, I started to cry and I just wanted to give you a hug! U deserve to feel safe and loved!! YOU are ENOUGH n YOU are WORTHY n YOU are DESERVING!!

[@jairai5922]

LGBTQ stuff aside...something else i encountered when i got on dating apps was the amount of people who were POLY. People also talked to me for WEEKS before being like oh btw I'm MARRIED and we're poly... Noped right out of that shit buhbyeee

[@Tetradepodmelontea]

Its amazing , how pseudolesbian married swingers are actually overpopulate dating apps. 😢

[@raaaaaaarr]

Omg that's so sketchy!! Jeeze.. Theyre playing manipulation games. That's evil

[@AKIRA-we4hd]

probably just wives that want their husband to stay married to them, but don't cheat with another women for desires, and losing the ATM machine... Poly and unicorn are usually just people who want a temporary toy for free, instead of paying for services...

[@victoriadiesattheend.8478]

I am beyond sick of this poly sht. Like so choked and irritated by it bc it is everywhere and you said it....its either male driven OR the woman initiates it to keep the guy from cheating & leaving and taking his money with him....these people are too cheap for and (feel they are superior to!!) to escorts or professionals they could hire for a one or two night thing. They want to pick out real people and play with their minds to benefit themselves (which it hilariously, really does NOT). Ugggh God. I feel bad saying that but its how I feel. Poly ppl!!! Go get yourself other poly ppl!! Leave the others alone!!!

[@NM-jd9ck]

The "I won't put any effort, I'll do what I want and I'll demand access to you and if you dont like it deal with it" is such typical male behavior and they all show it lmfao

[@MissScRaven]

It's just being straight with extra steps. Lol

[@Volkslady]

"Santa took bath salts"!!! Ohh, lort, I almost fell off my chair!! 😂 Blaire, you're such a treasure!

[@ATLJonathanH]

1. Lesbians stepped in and helped gay men during the early days of the AIDS crisis. Show them the respect they deserve. 2. Lesbians shouldn’t need their own flag, the gay flag is all of our flag.

[@intrusive-th0t]

Having our own flag can be useful because whenever we’re lumped into the whole LGBT it almost always becomes all about dicks… most gay bars are for gay men, too many bi women bring their boyfriends to lesbian events or cruise for thirds on dating apps, and the transbians… well… you already know

[@christinah5137]

👏🏼

[@leiastopcrying]

youre awesome for this comment

[@Debbiness777Star]

More like you...please...❤

[@skylarlambert1271]

Lol. Blaire is a joker.. liven up!!

[@mad_e_sun]

I love that Blaire said that a man who is attracted to her isn’t 100% straight. So true

[@9395gb]

They aren't straight at all. It's called skoliosexual or homosexual.

[@victoriadiesattheend.8478]

She really gets it. I literally said out loud, "yes, the Kinsey scale" and she mentioned it a second later. Blaire is a beautiful and intelligent transwoman, she can be very proud of who she is.

[@snekysnek-qe5pm]

I was called a terf or whatever that is for saying I only date cis women. I didn't know we're not allowed to have preferences now

[@tinkthestrange]

We gotta start throwing hands? Because someone said something you don’t like? Is that what we are doing now? I thought we agreed men can’t do that anymore. You are not a caveman, women are not trophies.

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

Violence is linked to low intelligence, so are we really surprised by that person? I know I'm not.

[@oag2167]

Unfortunately, in this country, we can't even all agree that this man is a man at all. They've blurred the lines so badly that a man with lipstick on can put hands on a woman and it will be considered "female on female violence" by these weirdos and their supporters.

[@bjrnhalfhand2258]

Not very feminine behaviour is it.

[@Deryn-Emily]

I honestly so thankful that my Mrs has put up with me for the last 9 years and (if she can do that, more years to come). Because my GOD i could not be single at this point in society. I could not go searching for a lesbian partner and deal with all the bullshittery. I am in my 30s. I am old, i am tired.

[@valeriekerwin5227]

I’m 61 and my partner of 33 years died two years ago. Even if I could imagine loving another person, it’s not worth the search if I have to wade through this… bullshittery is the perfect word!

[@mobi1etone]

Back in the early 2000's me and a mate would wear 'Nobody Knows I'm a Lesbian' t-shirts as a joke, we're 6"2 and ex-rugby players. Nowdays we'd be praised for being out and proud or some squit. lol.

[@OceanicNASA]

My daughter is a lesbian and I asked her if she knew the flag. Her and I both didn’t know there was a lesbian flag. We both thought it was ridiculous. I’m so thankful she didn’t turn out to be woke nor dyed her hair all weird.

[@raaaaaaarr]

Good parenting!! Congrats to yoy

[@Alejojojo6]

You are very handsome yourself.

[@heyhihowyoudoin5411]

You’re a good dad

[@ismelllikemarijuana]

you and her are both so cool. i can tell she was actually born a lesbian and wasn’t wokely brainwashed into the lgbt.

[@JustSomeKittenwithaGun]

Imagine being offended by hair dye lol that was part of my emo culture as a teen

[@chantalsfupafluff.9807]

I'm currently having to change in my car for my nursing job because we have a guy changing in our locker room. He's old, he has stubble, he isn't feminine in ANYWAY. Sick of this shit.

[@elliecallahan5874]

I hope you can find a way to get them outta there!

[@chantalsfupafluff.9807]

Hi guys, the person has gone off sick now so I'm back changing in the changing room, work arnt willing to do anything for his return though, because theyre scared of rocking the boat. Id leave but ive got a complex family problem at the moment with a dying family member i care for and my work are pretty good about it if i need to leave quickly or swap my shifts, but i think once my situation changes, ill look for a new job.

[@tomoliver2112]

@@chantalsfupafluff.9807disgusting. Your work probably think it’s insane too but are too scared to speak out! How did we let it go this far smh.

[@godmaentertainment4375]

I dressed up for Halloween last year, and later in the night I removed my make up, and people were saying I looked more like a girl, cuz I wasn't trying ...the mini kilt and my own long hair were more than enough to pass. I was noticing that many of these subjects don't look at all androgynous, most don't shave. If they don't look like women, why would a lesbian be interested? BTW I have met many people wanting to convert me, many times.

[@hadtocreateanaccount]

The autogynophilia is reallllll. Love you Blaire!

[@bluespectrum1348]

As a lesbian, I take the L on the Lesbian flag, LOL. The OG flag with the lipstick mark is prettier, and it's the flag I use anyways becauseI'm a lipstick lesbian. xD

[@bluespectrum1348]

@@Elwiira Oh yeah absolutely. The Labrys flag is badass. The orange one looks very ugly. I'm also certain there's one with brown, too. Like...why? Lol. Since when lesbianism has anything to do with race? So dumb.

[@theden9123]

trans lesbians give "i want to be the exception" vibes

[@intrusive-th0t]

As a lesbian, preach 🙌 And the new lesbian flag is ugly. The old purple one with the labrys is much better but it’s considered “terfy” so it’s not as common

[@Ilivedbih]

Omg imma look that up one and get it then 😂

[@zxyatiywariii8]

Ikr the original one is great!

[@GrlWhoLoves]

Love the username, I use something similar for my discord handle 😂

[@intrusive-th0t]

@@GrlWhoLoves Necro Sis is so good though lmao. Goth and goth adjacent lesbians unite!!!

[@GrlWhoLoves]

@@intrusive-th0t Yesss! I do enjoy Necro Sis but because the pun's spelling is exactly the same as necrosis it's always taken. 😭 I use thot monitor for my discord haha.

[@jusapoet72]

Love you so much, Blair. Thank you for standing up for us. These guys are scary.

[@jthairy]

I'm a 34 year old grown-ass man and I'm definitely going to have nightmares tonight and will be reciting the Lord's Prayer with a night-light.

[@annem9195]

Pass me the holy water, & maybe some mind-bleach!

[@whitehavencpu6813]

@@FirstnameLastnames Lesbians living life on Impossible difficulty ngl

[@ismelllikemarijuana]

LMAO

[@kateruckus]

I'm a lesbian and I agree about the flag being ugly. These people are effin' weird. Why don't they just date eachother?

[@theresas740]

Because they need to invade and dominate. They were raised as boys and no one ever said "no" to them. When they don't get what they want when they want it because they want it, that does not compute.

[@dmxj1586]

That’s my question also but ohh could it be they don’t like 🐓’s? 😆and that’s the reason they don’t date other transbians , oh the hypocrisy

[@nagillim7915]

It's because they're attracted to women and not men. And as their preferences are the only ones that matter to them all else follows from that.

[@kateruckus]

@@nagillim7915 Yeah, exactly. If these creeps want to view themselves as lesbians, then they should view eachother as lesbians and live happily ever after together.

[@juliette1653]

I SPAT and laughed so hard at the "omg... Santa took bath salts"😅

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

LMFAO! 😂😂😂 Same.

[@Jay-mz3cp]

The santa took bath salts joke took me out.🤣 Love you Blaire. Stay on these fools. I'm gay and my roommate actually tried to convince me I was closed minded by saying I wouldn't sleep with a transman. I simply told him," you're part of the problem" and ended that BS conversation.

[@nefarioussagittarius8906]

This is why I am so glad I didn’t grow up in the era of tindr. Online dating was never great, but now it’s downright horrifying.

[@adventureswith_jess]

That one person saying they felt euphoria at being catcalled just shows that they are a biological male. As a biological woman I can tell you that being catcalled causes my fight or flight response to kick in, since I know on a very primal level that I am at a disadvantage physically compared to men. It's scary, not flattering.

[@thelimitdoesnotexist2705]

Exactly, cat calling says the man is showing sexual interest towards me and I don't know if he is dangerous or not. I immediately want to GTFO.

[@mjtbitvh]

“Why is your name Hen? It’s giving rooster.” clever asf line🤣

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

Blair’s comebacks are HILARIOUS in this vid!!!!!

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

That tumblr cut

[@nelsongonzales1263]

As a gay man this happens on dating apps so much, woman make their gender male and show up on my tinder as a GAY MAN. Shits crazy…

[@tjaystupidpaid]

All i know is that shit ain’t me why a woman would want a gay in the first place is beyond me

[@Zehnstern]

AND THE TRANS WOMEN ON GRINDR ARE A HUGE PROBLEM TOO.

[@UnalloyedMalenia]

"I don't get it, WHY ARE THEY EVEN HERE???" Is my thoughts when I see them there.

[@JustSomeKittenwithaGun]

I don't see the problem. I get hit up constantly there by alleged gay men. But the trans women are happy to see another of their kind, then ghost me anyway. What are they on there for exactly though?

[@wonderfulrose477]

I’ve actually talked to a few of them out of curiosity and apparently they mostly hang there for the desperate straight guys. Grindr is just a mess

[@HarleenEverwood]

​@@UnalloyedMalenia grinder is for queer people no? Trans people can't even be in their own spaces now?

[@desireedriver6390]

“lawn gnome” MY LUNGS COLLAPSED😭😭😭😭😭

[@terrahatch5861]

My daughter is an L she is a she and in a great relationship with a L and a she... I think she would've been horrified and upset to get trolled by men.

[@annac1624]

Thank you for exposing how bad dating apps are for lesbians....its rough out here but thankfully I no longer need to use them

[@xsatisx]

the real lesbians on Her are gonna have to add “biological women only” to their profiles😂

[@natalia_00123]

They would be flagged as "transphobic" and possibly get banned.

[@sparagmos4748]

You get banned for sure😕

[@akashajones6079]

@@sparagmos4748 That's literally disgusting

[@sparagmos4748]

@@akashajones6079 There is a UK one who said they accept ALL lesbian identified people and if you don't you're out. Set up by an XX woman for sure🫤. Some of them are totally on the trans train and I just don't get it. It never used to be a thing you had to prove to be the 'right' sort of lesbian. I knew a couple, one was trans and I didn't really understand that from the XX woman perspective, but no one was 'you HAVE to accept this'. I knew several, and none of them played this bs game.

[@iiutopia]

This is so real like ughh I have been told that If I dont date trans lesbians I'M NOT A LESBIAN THEN like?!??!?

[@xHabibiBlocksberg]

“Fall back, fall back like that hairline” BLAIRE U GOT ME CRYING 😭

[@manmanhorton716]

Someone needs to make a dating app for trans-lesbians only

[@waldemarmarwalde6817]

Preferable somebody else I assume. I mean do you want to invest the work into creating an app. That probably nobody is going to use?

[@Manwithabrain90]

The “trans” person explaining his first lesbian experience is straight with extra steps…

[@blahblah9898]

Why is noooobody talking about the “Avatar human hybrid”?!!! Lol you just killed me Blair 🤣 She did him sooo DIRTY!

[@Green89_]

“This lawn gnome…” lmao

[@lex9666]

"Avatar Human Hybrid and Lawn Gnome" has me dying over here 😂

[@karlacharger]

Let’s bring back the word HOMOSEXUAL. Also, how can we get the trans community on board with using different language for gender versus sex. They use “man” and “woman” to refer to gender (and sometimes even “male” “female”) when the majority of society has always used these as sexed terms. “Masculine” and “feminine” would make more sense to be used for gender… but even then, the root meaning of these words is: “of the male/of the female” not “stereotypically seen in males/females”. It’s frustrating that so many claim to not wanting to erase sex and replace it with gender and that they’re two different things, and yet the language is the same, and without separate language, no matter the intention, sex is erased. Clear language to me would look something like this: to the nonbinaries and “transtrenders” I would say “androgynous/femme/masc man/woman” which would accurately describe both their subjective “gender” as well as their absolute sex. And since they usually fully present as their sex, the word “trans” would not be used. They think their clothing and makeup hides their sex but it doesn’t. We can always see it. Now for transsexuals, like Blaire, we could say “trans feminine male” which accurately conveys the notion that this is a male person who has undergone surgery/hormones to appear female sexed. When words like “trans woman” and “trans female” are used, some people think you’re talking about a female who is trans and some think it’s about a male who transitioned to female (impossible). It’s intentionally unclear language. Can we please get our communities to start using accurate clear language. I don’t find anything demeaning about this language. It’s simply accurate. I feel like we use to be able to describe things accurately without being called hateful. It would be like if gay people expected society to use heterosexual language when referring to our relationships. It’s inaccurate. Everyone would be able to respect your lane if the boundaries were clearly defined. Lesbians are homosexual females. Zero males included, because then it’s not homosexual anymore. The queers want to make sexual orientations based on a subjective notion like gender? Go for it. But use your own language.

[@toricollins6516]

I agree with this, entirely. Tragically, pushing this gets you canceled.

[@sh4rk_Boy_]

Blaire dissing the Lesbian flag the whole vid is so freakin funny 😂

[@ashj0]

I found out like two days ago that ENM means "ethically non monogamous". Like what normal people call an open relationship.

[@reaganjaegan]

Or what actual normal people call "cheating"

[@theresas740]

We called it whoring when I did it.

[@ashj0]

@@reaganjaegan it's not cheating when all parties agree to it

[@kittyxpaige]

The main difference between ENM & open relationships is that open relationships are more sex based (like you just sleep with other people) where as ENM generally involves multiple romantic/committed relationships

[@poogissploogis]

​@@ashj0It's still stupid lol

[@kadinmay]

I am MTF attracted to men. There are guys on regular STRAIGHT man x woman tinder that have they/them and she/her in their bio. This issue is really bad for lesbians but it extends even into normal straight society. Men think being “trans” makes women feel safe. Theyfabs do this in trans spaces as well to not get called chasers. Men are “trans” to get near lesbians, normal white girls are “trans” to get near trans people.

[@nuggs9999]

yeah “HER” is my issue all my swipes are taken up by men who think that somehow they are lesbians. i added one just to tell him hes not a leabian

[@Sarah-dq1fm]

Sounds like a circus/ mental ward.

[@Risingboiting]

And straight feminine-presenting girls are calling themselves “trans men” on Grindr to try and get with gay men. It’s disgusting.

[@Garbeaux.]

There’s also trans men who are on all the gay apps. They’re not as obnoxious and demanding as trans women are in lesbian spaces.

[@Fuzz82]

I don't know if this is true, but it wouldn't surprise me if it is with all this craziness. 'Transmaxxing', Which is basically incels going trans becausse they think it is easier for them to live as a woman. You'll probably find them on lesbians apps too.

[@candace8200]

There are videos out here on the tube from a self aware sociopath and she says she doesn't understand why people don't want to date her, meaning anyone, anywhere at anytime. Like even if they are with someone else, her brain doesn't understand why they are with them and not her. Not that she wants to be with them. She doesn't get why every one doesn't want her. Just leaving this clue here. Mental illness is the biggest issue. Now the reasons, that is a whole other long conversation that I don't think we are ready for, but desperately need to have. God bless you Blair. I love you. 😘❤️

[@mundaneeye]

lesbian flag is so aesthetically pleasing, blaire was showing envy appreciation

[@mamaya311]

omg - I never even realized that until Blaire brought it up. Would all the emo kids in the early 00's be considered trans nowadays? Holy crap.

[@codyblake8907]

my experience with tinder was horrible. made my profile, listed myself as a trans man, interested in women, and they put me in the lesbian section. Got banned after 2 hours of joining, wrote customer service, got a bullshit email saying, "the ban has been lifted, were sorry for the inconvenience and want to make sure you know we're inclusive and not transphobic." didnt log back in for at least 5 days after this. logged back in to find my profile banned again. I wrote customer service again, "second ban for no reason. im not impressed with your platform, dont even bother unbanning me and please just delete my profile and information as I've already deleted the app off my phone. "

[@dominicc4543]

similar vibes for gay men on dating apps, constantly getting bombarded with "trans men"

[@SexyBeautifulBabe]

Yup

[@sparagmos4748]

I found out recently how bad it is! Grindr just banned men seeking men only🙄

[@cejara1801]

@@sparagmos4748wtf… isn’t that the point of a gay dating/hook-up app?!?!?!

[@DodgaOfficial]

To be fair though, most of the trans men I see on an app like grindr or tinder are completely transparent about it, aren't trying to pressure anyone, and are trying their best to pass. They aren't trying to manipulate anyone, at least from what I've seen, and they're clearly actually trans, you don't see trans men on gay dating apps in bra and panties with full breast and camel toe saying they're a gay man.

[@rateater1857]

@@sparagmos4748 Which is stupid even as a transman. Like, if I wanna get laid, I don't wanna get matches with some super-gay dude who's totally grossed out by lack of a natural Beniz?? Massive waste of time for both of us, and I don't have all damn day. Grindr should just have cis/trans/both filter and it'd be fine lol.

[@jacobcarrillo9015]

"dont know if they clocked us and are about to say some terf BS and were gonna have to throw hands " WTF WORLD ARE WE IN

[@xeniaaffirmations]

ENM means "ethical non-monogamy" AKA "I don't force people into dating me" AKA "I'm not a rapist." I'm not a rapist... Imagine that's the absolutely first thing your date tells you about themselves.

[@kasterla581]

I despise ENM (not its concept but realization, that shit just never works) but... that's literally disinformation??? "Ethical non-monogamy refers to any relationship dynamic in which partners consent to pursue sexual and romantic connections with multiple people" So, "i consensually have relationship with multiple people" kind of statement

[@kardinalempress]

I find Ozempic problematic because it's "something that doctors will address and recommend to kids before a lifestyle change", much like hormone blockers. @realalexclark had a guest which summed it up perfectly

[@AmsterdamStyledotCom]

'looking like a woke lawn gnome' hahahaha I pissed my pants when you said this

[@aire299]

If all these people identify as female and lesbian but they're not willing not to date each other....then it says a lot about their predatory intentions

[@un-pankoed]

Oh, thats such a good point! 😂

[@clevernamehere]

THIS

[@AKIRA-we4hd]

it's called being too poor to pay a Sex worker, so they find ways to get paid services for free... Obviously a man dressing up as a women, and says he is a lesbian, will not date someone who is his own kind... This is just one of the many deranged things people can do LOL...

[@charlyhop]

Would love to see them on blind dates like that 😂

[@NotImportant404]

Some of them do date each other, and those people I have no problem with because they’re not being hypocrites and demanding something from women under the guise of social justice and inclusion. Edit: I mean trans women who are into other trans women. Also some gay and straight men are just into cross dressing and that’s fine too. I dont care what anyone wears or how they identify, just don’t be a creep 😂

[@hlnblk]

Being lesbian is a SEXuality, not a GENDERality. Let’s at least be consistent if we’re going to engage in the “gender is unrelated to sex” bandwagon.

[@soultosoul45]

And ironically, it all boils down to ...SEX.

[@kayladay23]

i agree with this so hard. as a left-leaning bisexual woman, i want my men to have 🍆s and my women to have 🐱s.

[@zaihoupersonal1635]

Why don't you allow that same freedom to straight men and call them trans-phobic if they don't prefer trans-women?

[@ClassyGyal]

You ok?

[@fairygodmother139]

@@zaihoupersonal1635we do, it’s the stupids that don’t

[@aviscormjr]

If the transbians think women should date them. Then why don’t they just date each other?!? Just a thought.

[@conejitaaa]

Because they're attracted to biological women. It's a fetish

[@drippydawgg007]

Too ugly to date each other 😂😂😂😂

[@cariaus3758]

Cause they don't date men 🤦

[@Krongle]

No way bro paid $5 a month for Blaire White

[@zaaachhyyy]

@@Kronglethat’s cheap lmao

[@hylianflower9681]

I love how they be like "deal with it, thats my sexuality" and yet still put lesbians down for their sexuality. How can you identify as a lesbian if you cant even respect lesbians

[@Slypooch]

Because they are men

[@flipxut]

shut the hell up

[@thelestrangelair]

Simple, madness has no logic, and this madness needs to be called for what it is and stop being enabled/respected. It is nutters. Bella L

[@miniondave6314]

"The only thing that does make sense is that nothing makes sense." - Korg

[@randomobserver683]

Becoz they're narcissistic men who get off on harassing lesbians

[@samtastic6237]

I hate when people use autism or a reason to be a bully or a freak. My husband is autistic. He is the nicest chillest most genuine person I've ever met. He's not a weirdo or dysfunctional. He's a normal guy who might be a bit awkward around people he doesn't know. This pisses me off more than it does him 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@arandomdogecoin]

Exactly, it makes autistic people look bad when many of us are just tryna exist

[@beckee6282]

I’m autistic too, but I can’t lie there are some super weird, creepy autistic people out there. I’ve noticed it more with autistic men. I think it’s because most autistic men are diagnosed young and are then coddled by everyone around them. “He’s autistic he can’t help it.” No, he can. Autistic men are just excused for any wrong doing because boys will be boys. Women are almost never diagnosed early and some are never diagnosed at all, therefore we have to deal with being autistic and a woman. No one excuses our autistic behaviours because women are supposed to “shutup, be polite and submissive.” Same thing with any neurological disorder honestly, women are at fault for everything we do even when we can’t control it.

[@lixm_is.thebest5196]

FR this girl at my school was making fun of my friend and called her fat like shes on the swim team she's not fat and than tried to make the excuse it was ok bcs she was going through things at home and has autism like yeah she has autism but you wouldn't even know she has it unless she tells you so like what's the excuse she's just bullying ppl and using the "I have autism card"

[@NotAdultingToday]

People do this way too much. Pull out the autism card, or mental health, or something else because they think it gives them a pass to be an asshole.

[@jackjackattack1994]

My daughter is also autistic and she would never act like that. She’s a good kid with an even bigger heart. That guy pissed me off so badly. I’m a trans man myself and I would never go on a lesbian dating app because I don’t belong and I was born a fucking woman 🤣

[@TheNiceOne_]

Let the “trans lesbians” get with each other and not traumatize the rest

[@semadisait9432]

Hahahh

[@PalmaBanfy333]

There are also "real" trans lesbians. Post op. Medical transitioned.

[@robgau2501]

Why is everyone obsessed with being disabled or having conditions? It's like you win a prize for the most filled-out victim card.

[@SDS-ee9js]

As someone who is actually disabled, I ask myself that same question. I would give anything to be “normal” and all this does is make actual disabled people look bad.

[@NuchiAsaki]

It gives them power over others.

[@TeeBee-yj5tt]

Oh they are when the state opens back up and people everywhere got conditions. 😏🤞🏿🥱💅🏿🥴🥴🥴🤭🥹🍿🎥🎥🍳🍳🍳🤔💞🇺🇸🌍💜💜💜💜

[@howareyoualiveifyoudonteatbeef]

I'm autistic, have ADHD and a female in my 30's... I'm accused of 'jumping on the bandwagon'. I don't use my 'conditions' as part of my identity. If a problem arises with how I communicate (etc) then I will try my best to explain myself. I don't wear a sunflower lanyard (it's a British thing about signifying autism, something like that)... I don't wave flags, I don't wear a badge, etc. I only mention my ADHD or autism if other people have a problem with me. That's the only time I make others aware of my 'conditions'. I refuse to make an entire identity and political stance from my 'conditions'. Being autistic and having ADHD explains a lot about my past experiences and behaviours. Getting a diagnosis helps me to understand my own behaviour and adjust/adapt. I didn't get a diagnosis to shove it in other people's faces and it does annoy me greatly when others seem to use ADHD and autism as an 'excuse' to act like a crap human being and to not be held accountable for their own behaviour. It drags people who are having a really bad time with their ADHD into the gutter by labelling us all as stupid, self-obsessed, confrontational and demanding. We're not all trying to show off our 'conditions' like they're 'achievements'. The vast majority are just trying to have normal lives and make sense of ourselves. I can't stand these people who are trying to weaponise ADHD and autism.

[@Raqueltl2017]

They want to be special, being straight and white is way too boring. So they call themselves disabled so they can act as a victim or use it as a defense tool in arguments.

[@miscielrossvillegas6307]

"i'm a trans girl" /has more body hair, receding hairline, and squarer jawline than my father

[@tricialemon]

“squarer jawline than my father” got me good 😂

[@SassyUnicorn86]

The cranial fuzz was gross

[@josepnebotrius872]

Which one? Chewbacca?

[@malware982]

It bothers me a lot how many of them refer to themselves as “girls” and not as “women”, as if they fantasize as children/teenagers in their imagination, with most of them clearly being over 20 years old.

[@ketaminepoptarts]

and then theres wren with so much body hair that its basically fur

[@nikitajanei102]

As a lesbian, I can tell you that I have been kicked out of a number of lesbian groups on social media whenever I have voiced my legitimate concerns over the infiltration of men in these spaces. I will never stop speaking up about this even though it is hurtful, isolating and frustrating as all hell to think that my own tribe would rather have these types of individuals in our spaces than me, a biological lesbian woman. L spaces are no longer safe spaces.

[@Jessica-pl5tm]

I'm straight, but I feel for you, sister! Please keep speaking the truth and your mind, no matter what. One day this nonsense will be over and we'll be getting back to normal. Love from Germany!

[@Glitterrattrap_]

Hopefully as time goes on people will realize that “offending” people is an okay thing now a days and back their car up a little bit, not too far to where it can be hurtful, but enough to where they can see the bs.

[@iamcasihart]

Yep. I’ve been banned from every feminist, lesbian, and even The L Word sub reddits. I feel so betrayed by the women who are punishing us- ACTUAL lesbian and bisexual women. It’s fucking insane.

[@Alfwholikescats]

where I accept, they’re probably some trans women that are legitimately trans. Women that are attracted to women they’re still not lesbians I just I don’t get the thing forcing yourself in our community to me just gives male all around that I want what I want and I’m gonna get what I want. Theres alway been and always will be sub sections in a gay community thats ok! Thats why different colors on flags to rep each sub section and community. They want blend all colors together and be brown mess one day than the next same type will break down themselves into a million more sub sections masc trans and all sorts other sub sections . And thats ok but not ok for Lesbians smh

[@Kaya_kitty]

Eeeey another German!

[@carolynb.9469]

Jubilee had a lesbian debate a while back, one person was biologically female but identified as non binary. She defined lesbian as a "non-man dating a non-man", which was so dumb to me. First of all, removing the word "woman" from the definition of lesbian is ridiculous. Second, under that definition, two biological males who identity as non binary being together could be called a lesbian relationship. Sometimes being too inclusive can be bad, when it basically makes words meaningless and pushes people out of spaces that were literally designed for them to begin with

[@mintygreen9877]

Strange how this never happens with gay men.

[@Neostara]

THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING OMG Like literally NO ONE refers to gay mens as “Non-woman dating non-woman” and yet here we are, forcefully introducing men in women’s spaces, where they never belonged in to begin with. I love women. In no way shape or form I want my identity and sexuality to be YET AGAIN associated with men. Even if it’s to say that I’m “excluding them”. Do I have any issue with a trans woman calling herself a lesbian ? Absolutely not, trans women are women (when they’re genuine obviously). With non-binary people it’s a little more complicated but I have no issues with it as long as they present / lean more towards the fem end of the spectrum. I literally met a person, who said they were a non-binary lesbian, but being AMAB and using almost exclusively “he/him” and presenting, acting and referring to themselves as a man. And said it was transphobic that I rejected him. Like- fam. Nuh huh. I can respect you, but you’re not a lesbian. There is enough letters for you to have your own and not using my sexuality as a weapon against me. Even the term sapphic isn’t about two women together anymore, we can’t even have ONE term for ourselves. We are mandated to “include everyone” and make it about everyone but women, AGAIN.

[@theronstar]

As an autistic person, we do not claim this lawn gnome.

[@PaulSmith-nb6md]

No....we don't lol

[@trypotherapy7478]

Word👏

[@cartergomez5390]

😁

[@ccrock5810]

🎉

[@jjmochhaaa]

real.

[@eirian.art420]

As a lesbian I cannot describe how scary this is. *AND YES THERE ARE MORE MEN IN THE LESBIAN SECTION THAN WOMEN.*

[@AKIRA-we4hd]

They don't want to pay for pussy, and nobody wants them, so they try to find a way to cheat the system... This is just playing tricks with consent, they just find victims who are too nice to say a clear no and then take advantage...

[@ismelllikemarijuana]

a “trans lesbian” aka male banned me, a BORN LESBIAN WOMAN, from a lesbian group. a whole ass man banning a woman and schooling her on what lesbian means is fucking insane but i’ve been through that so many times. i’m 17 and gen z so i’m consistently surrounded by the woke crowd.

[@driadoe]

​@@ismelllikemarijuanaI'm in the same exact circle, 18 and constantly being told that I should like dick as long as it's connected to someone that says they're a woman. It's horrifying

[@AnjaliJ-u7v]

I feel so bad for you.... literally defeats the whole point of being les?! Like😭😭

[@aprilmeowmeow]

​@JustinaSadikova We need to keep encouraging each other. Notice how we never support eachother while promoting violence or hate? its ALWAYS just women being protective of other women while men scream at us (and men in dresses).

[@dkong1]

I’ve literally met Wren. He’s unhinged. He’s made poems about dismembering women.

[@Ky-eq4up]

😱

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Yikes

[@Jay-Bee_NUFC]

Imagine our collective shock😂

[@nagillim7915]

Why is this person not in an institution?

[@117overcast]

What the hell. My god....

[@37Kilo2]

As a straight man, I thought I had it tough on dating apps, to the point I gave up. I feel for the lesbians out there.

[@katsummers9427]

No joke. A guy who was clearly extremely attracted to me, genuinely like personality and appearance, found out i was lesbian. All of a sudden, days later, he 'comes out as trans' and starts asking me tips on how to be a woman. And that is how you go from innocent rejected crush to creep. You cannot tell me those two events were not related.

[@KagomeYasha023]

Oh they were def related 😨 what a freak that male was/is!

[@layunknown2645]

Oh god id feel so unnerved 😲 like. Finding someone changing their whole identify the moment you say your attracted to a different gender. Oh lord.

[@irmar]

Wow, he must have wanted you like crazy to be willing to go that far!

[@arima_song]

Oh god, that's creepy

[@flowbotgirl]

Dude this has happened to me too!

[@heloisaangeli8331]

if i was a lesbian and these people approached me, i'd just say "sorry, i only date pretty woman" because fr

[@sxatcychan1988]

Would be even funnier if you used the phrase "sevens or up" to really nail down how unappealing they are.

[@heloisaangeli8331]

@@sxatcychan1988 lmao good point, if I just say "pretty woman" they would say that pretty is subjective, so yeah, seven or up

[@Justaperson354]

@@sxatcychan1988I would say “sorry, only 5s and up” that way it’s more insulting to them

[@ahuman5181]

Age

[@H4NGM4NDVD]

then the "lesbians" are gonna start throwing hands

[@smellydonut5088]

lesbian here and it is EXHAUSTING OUT HERE! Lesbian spaces aren't lesbian anymore and its so hard to find anyone nowadays who's normal on dating apps

[@anonymouse0123]

agreeeeeee

[@MO-fi8kp]

@@smellydonut5088 *cries* like for real why aren’t women a thing anymore

[@smellydonut5088]

@@MO-fi8kp fr! i think i got lucky and found my wonderful gf on bumble, so its not impossible, but way harder than it should be

[@RBR_Magster95]

I agree sadly most of my “likes” on dating apps are these types of people or the rare straight man I’ve only gotten a handful of cis women I’ve never said anything cause Ik if I did I’d be called transphobic it’s so so exhausting and sad how 1000000000000% accurate this video shows how it is for us lesbians

[@venturecrew06]

I remember back in the 80's, there was a joke going around for a guy to say, 'I'm a lesbian, trapped in a man's body.' Everyone laughed at how ridiculous it was. Who knew?

[@ALT-vz3jn]

I remember that joke too, from back in the day. Damn. 😮

[@scarlett8895]

Daaaaamn! I remember that 😂 oh how the times have changed (for the worst) hahaha

[@Cabbage_Town]

I remember that joke too. My husband tells me that and I say I’m gay trapped in a woman’s body. I’m gay and he’s a lesbian.

[@purplemonkey1890]

This joke was around when I was a teenager 😂😂. If only we knew what was right around the corner

[@sharkisland5931]

"Sometimes I wish I was a lesbian" - Chandler Bing

[@PeytonOrr]

i’ve always found it weird how they identify as “trans girls” rather than “trans women” it’s just very off putting…

[@saje239]

YES!!!! I don’t know how Dylan Mulvaney has gotten so much celebration for acting like a little girl. It’s so disgusting.

[@ALT-vz3jn]

It’s because they know they’re not bio women, and I think they’re also slightly afraid of bio women. So they’re co-opting the term ‘girl’ instead.

[@chrishenniker5944]

@@saje239That’s for the “friends of Jimmy”.

[@magalieg273]

Grown ass 32 years old men being like "i'm so smoll and cute tee hee 🥺👉👈" is always gonna be disgusting lmao

[@itzgigiye7347]

@@saje239 Dylan has said before that she feels like shes still learning how to be a “woman” so thats why she started off her series as “day x of being a girl”.

[@harriiiiiiiii]

why dont they just all date each other lmao

[@tetrasphere8165]

Cuz they know they're not attractive.

[@delibellus]

they do though. it's called t4t

[@kellylyons1038]

Cuz if you get two of these dudes in bed together they'd be grossed out by the other's bodies!

[@elliecallahan5874]

@@delibellusnot often no.

[@immcrying8496]

bc they can't even follow their own sick narrative, deep deeep down they know they are just men

[@kupotenshi]

It's always the most aggressive men calling themselves lesbians too

[@thelestrangelair]

I know right? I tell the lesbians I know who support them this all the time, it's turning on their own.

[@johannesstephanusroos4969]

I've only joked about it a couple of times, until my lesbian friends told me to knock it off

[@claragillespie8905]

Yeah.... Aggressive- lesbian.... May be a link there somewhere?

[@AKIRA-we4hd]

maybe the incels found a glitch to get free pussy, by scamming the lesbians that are too nice to say no...

[@JustSomeKittenwithaGun]

Hey listen I'm only aggressive in bed

[@ReginaBerg90]

Reminds me of all the guys that say “I’m a lesbian too I love women”. Seriously ridiculous.

[@freqonnaleash5288]

My favorite, "I'm a lesbain trapped in a man's body!". I used to reply, so you're trans then? It was funnier before these dudes, er, dudettes showed up.

[@SexyBeautifulBabe]

Those kinds of men are so weird

[@terribleterri2738]

"She said she a lesbian I said girl me too"

[@akashajones6079]

Lol, laugh in their dumbass face. Because they clearly don't know the definition of 'lesbian'. Because it's not 'person who is attracted to women'.

[@xRandax94]

I'm not a lesbian but I absolutely get disgusted when I hear men say that! I could only imagine how lesbians feel when they hear it

[@deepsea5348]

6:16 I'm autistic and I can't STAND it when people use autism to excuse bad behavior, regardless of whether or not they have a formal diagnosis. Yes, autism can make it harder to tell what behavior is acceptable or not, and yes, it can make it difficult to regulate your emotional response to a tough situation, but it's your responsibility as an ADULT to learn those skills. By the time you're starting your love life, you should already know better than to physically fight people when they offend you. You should've learned that in kindergarten.

[@amadi5x5]

Exactly 💯

[@zac4954]

Me too, it’s disgusting, hiding behind a disability that has nothing to do with this, it’s being a clown, it’s these type of people to make a disability look bad, being dosnt mean u wanna throw hands at other people 😡

[@aliamarie6259]

Period!

[@Abs0408]

That’s how I feel about people trying to use ADHD as an excuse for bad behavior.

[@aprilmeowmeow]

​@@Abs0408 100%. Its almost ALWAYS men doing this. I have autism and adhd, theyre frequently comorbid. I am a woman, so i never got to be a shitlord like the boys with autism got to be. I was raised to treat people with respect and not expect the world to accommodate me. I dont understand why autistic men feel like they have the right to push peoples boundaries.

[@ogconut]

Absolutely. I have had to filter out half my options because they're trans. The dating app I use even has separate categories for "Woman" and "Trans Woman" and they still choose "Woman".

[@Blackfootedcat22]

“Currently in psychosis” sent me flying off the face of the earth 🤣🤣🤣

[@rebeccaspratling2865]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@melchild]

2 years ago I went on a “date” (just a board game cafe) with a trans girl that claims to be a lesbian. I went into it thinking it was more of an “as friends” hangout, because I never once flirted or led her to believe I was into her in that way. I met her through the tattoo place I went to (she worked there) and we had a few conversations and had a lot to chat about. At the end of the “date” she wanted to know if it was a romantic date or not and when I said no she had a full blown toddler level melt down, made me explain why I wasn’t attracted to her and couldn’t date her, and then proceeded to beg me to walk her to her car in the middle of the night because she was “scared”, and then didn’t want to drive me back to my car 3 blocks away because her car was too messy to have me in it.. So I walked back to my car alone in the dark in a busy city in the sketchier side of town. The next morning she posted a multi-slide instagram story revealing the way our “date” went down, and slandered me all over social media for “leading her on” and having a bad taste in women prior to her. Days went by and she would still post stories directing her rage towards me; this lasted for weeks. I also later found out when I went to the bathroom during the date that she took my debit card info from my bag and paid for me to subscribe to her onlyfans account two weeks later when she decided to start one. Long story short, I guess you can’t take the man level, post-rejection rage / meltdowns out of a man no matter how hard you try

[@foolisnoteighteenyet]

'she took my debit card info from my bag and paid for me to subscribe to her onlyfans' that's ... a crime

[@giazillashow803]

I am so sorry you had this terrifying experience. Creeps know no bounds.

[@tovarishchfeixiao]

From this story it sounds like it was that person's plan from the very beginning.

[@l.7584]

The term you're looking for is autogyn.ephilic r@ge.

[@kristkreep6668]

Wow, sorry about your "date" that sounds horrific!!!

[@chromosoulmagic]

Proud trans woman here; I would never put my hands on any woman. YOU ARE NOT TRANSPHOBIC! You are safe to have and share any opinion with out worry. Stay safe

[@mickjen]

It’s quite amazing how many socially-awkward folks claims trans identity. It’s a legal protection from bullying, and then they become the empowered bully.

[@Blakmagic88]

Bingo!!!

[@tinicoleofficial]

You’re so right!💯

[@stayingfitandfocused]

Goddammit I be seeing some "trans" mfs with a full beard and mustache that don't even committ but use the label to get the benefits.

[@MsBlackQueen82]

It gives men who want to sexually assault and pressure women into having sex with them a safe place.

[@Lilaco_]

If we're being honest, the trans community attracts so many of that personality type. Obviously you have some people like Blaire who are chill, but the rest are just avoiding self-responsibility with the mentality of "you HAVE to be nice to me!!"