Reacting To Dr Phil's CRAZY Trans Debate w/ Matt Walsh

[@TooLegit2Quit84]

My 6 yo son said not too long ago that he wished he was a girl. I didn't immediately change his name and pronouns. Instead, I asked him why he felt that way. He responded with something like, "Because (the names of his 2 sisters) never get in trouble." He gets punished more often because the girls tend to be more obedient, but in his mind it's because he's a boy and they're girls. Kids can make weird connections like that sometimes.

[@petersaysthings]

Not just kids. Adults make weird connections like that sometimes.

[@TooLegit2Quit84]

@@petersaysthings - True that.

[@qwertyuqwertyu7481]

Not because ''more obedient''. Boys are beaten more by mothers than girls, because boys are considered ''little men'' who can endure worse physical punishment even though they are not.

[@janiceperkins4340]

Exactly! Kids often draw their own (incorrect) conclusions! Just like when parents divorce, they often feel it's their fault.

[@DemonratsRevil]

And if you were a lefty your child would be “trans” and you would belong under the jail.

[@1986kerrichinchilla]

Im an infertile woman. Im so sick of these people using me as an excuse. Im still female, the fact im infertile means im a woman, i have the organs they dont work.

[@mimi_j]

Exactly! But our voices get shut down. Also trans women will never suffer from things like Pcos, miscarriage, pregnancy, periods etc so we aren’t women but just persons

[@HeyItsCinnabun]

yes exactly your still a woman regardless of you being infertile. you were born woman nothing can change that. Its in your blood and bones. Your womb doesnt have to work to be a woman :D I agree with you.

[@HeyItsCinnabun]

im female btw lol

[@madtabby66]

My clock has struck midnight. Last I checked my DNA didn’t change.

[@CountessOfOle]

Exactly this. It's like saying that, because someone was injured in such a way that they can no longer walk, they're not a human, because humans are defined as being bipedal. Like.... no. That's not the way it works. Functionality is secondary to the genetic make-up that defines what a person is. Attempting to strip pieces of people's identities from them based on the functionality of their bodies is actually the beginning of a very heinous line of thought, which is probably why Addison is trying to reframe Matt's definition into this straw man. Meanwhile ignoring the more concrete aspect of Walsh's definition which is "It's all the way down into your body and bones". It's a genetic thing. A core element of our physical make-up. It depends in no way upon behavior or function.

[@dawnriddler]

"If you can't define what a woman is, why are you trying so hard to redefine it?" - exactly THIS!

[@etherealfoxproductions]

Exactly.

[@cosmokramer7009]

And why do they think you have to be a woman to define what a woman is? That short haired dude is a biological woman... And he doesn't want to be seeing as something he can't define?

[@enmodeavion8871]

They can, but they simply won't because the minute they open their mouth and say it, it will be the same as confessing they are very confused.

[@Stilettosandspice]

Being called a “cis” woman is extremely insulting. Just as much as the other C word no woman ever wants to be called. If you can’t define what a woman is, why should we accept you as one?! Blaire said it perfectly when she explained what the difference between a trans woman and a woman is. We love Blaire, we accept Blaire as a woman because she RESPECTS biological women enough to understand the differences and to PRESENT as female. I have no issue with referring to Blaire as “she/her”, because she presents this way. When an aggressive and narcissistic biological man DEMANDS to be called she/her by me and be accepted as a woman, all while rocking facial hair and a deep, masculine voice, I feel my womanhood is being personally attacked! It gives me the same ick as if a straight male was to tell me that I am inferior to him, simply by being a woman. These MEN are coming for not only our salaries & positions at work, but now our hard earned sports titles, awards and entire identities! It feels like we are re-living the “Women’s Suffrage Movement” all over again! The audacity to walk up to another person and demand that they call you the opposite of how you’re presenting, does feel like a crazy clown world. These individuals don’t stop for one second to think of how hurtful, offensive and damaging their DEMANDS are to women’s rights and identities. I feel so much for anyone who doesn’t feel comfortable in their own skin to the point where they are debilitated into hiding from society. I personally experienced this during and after Covid, as I gained some weight for the first time in my life. It affected my entire identity! I said no to events with friends and family, shed more tears than I can recall every single time that I had to get dressed to leave the house and felt immense shame for allowing my body to change in a way that I saw as extremely negative. I’m still on my weight loss and fitness journey, but I feel much better in my own skin and have gained so much empathy for others who are struggling. I will accept any trans person who takes the steps to assimilate into the identity of the sex they feel that they are inside. But most importantly accepts that there is a difference between a biological woman and a trans woman and doesn’t try to erase or change the narrative of “what is a woman”. It’s not about disagreeing with the trans community, it’s about protecting my WOMANHOOD, for myself and for the other women and girls in this world, who deserve to celebrate their womanhood and protect it at all costs. Much love to you Blaire for your activism and voice! ❤️ Also, anytime you are in Salt Lake, you have a girlfriend here who would be honored to show you around town! 🥰

[@dannyholt2297]

👏👏👏

[@Sir3gar]

"I would never understand menstruating, being pregnant, giving birth, and it's OKAY" Kudos to you, Blaire! THIS!!!

[@Damianskull]

What about biological women who cant experience those things too? Are they supposed to feel less like women because of that? Because thats how many might feel hearing things like that.

[@Sir3gar]

@@Damianskull do you call a three leg dog a cat? or a child with mentally ill disorder a monkey? I don't think so...

[@mohoejegi4876]

@@Damianskull When a biological woman can't experience these things it could make her feel like less of a woman that is a likely possibility. In reality, if she isn't going through these things then there is something wrong, she has some condition or she had to get it removed or something like that. She never expected to have these problems, she expected to be like other women, she had the potential. Trans women will never ever experience these things because they're not supposed to and they never were, there was never any expectation and there's nothing physically wrong with them.

[@vamvam7690]

@@Damianskull as a woman with fertility issues I find no offence whatsoever in what Blaire said. People who try to use women’s fertility issues as a way to try and discredit the meaning of ‘woman’ however, I find _that_ incredibly offensive! I am not the same as a trans woman just because we both can’t bear children or don’t have periods etc. I am a women with medical issues, I’m not a man…

[@sarapangallo7702]

Using woman fertility issue just to justify that all people have to accept that trans woman are woman it's kinda ridiculous. As Blaire said she will never be able to experience things that are woman only, but that's not make her as same as a biological woman with fertility issue. Trans woman are man that for some personal and, for sure, valid reason had decide to change their secondary sexual charateristics and blend in society and just living their life; the fact that these days we had make this process look like a f*****g circus it's because everyone wants to feel unique, special and in some way different, so every single day we start a new trend like "they/them" or "Xi/Xem" wich in my country it can't be translate beacuse It makes no sense when you talk and it starts being very confusing; and for making this even worse some people start "identify"as bug, fairy, vampire, wolf, cat, dogs and whatever you can think of that I personally think it's extremly disrispectful for all the trans community. Do I have to feel less a woman these days just because I don't compare my self ti a trans woman? Do I have to feel less a woman these days juat because I do not accept that a full grown man walk with no problem in women restroom saying that he identify as a woman? Do I have to accept that women spaces are being clearly invading by men just because society has give them a way to do that? Do I have to feel less a woman for these reasons? I don't think so. Women and trans women are so tired about all this b******t! We can just live our life without needing any validation from anyone instead of making all this things a ridicoulus circus.

[@sbriii]

A trans woman on TikTok was using that “did you know some women are born without a uterus” and I think it’s kinda disrespectful to use that uncommon instance and use it for their benefit. She’s still a woman without it

[@piranhapout]

That's like saying that a dog with three legs isn't a dog because it longer fits the definition of "a four legged member of the canine family."

[@whoome1638]

Very true, either way she’s a female

[@DirtyJamesUK]

They want to pretend there isn't something that qualifies a woman to be a woman. There is. You just don't have it! Woman is not an umbrella term it is quite specific lol.

[@egb6322]

They don’t understand it’s engrained in your dna

[@johnc.8298]

Every post menopausal woman is infertile yet she doesn't cease being a woman anymore than my mother did when she had a hysterectomy.

[@pariahcarey1712]

Addison: It's not my place to define what a woman is... Also Addison: I'm here to teach you bigots about womanhood!

[@kfmonadeia]

He shouldn't speak for "woman" because he will never be one.

[@Char-mv3fc]

@@kfmonadeia Allison isn't one, they use they/them pronouns.

[@marianoalvarez6467]

@@Char-mv3fc then why does he try to teach others about womanhood? Leave that to women

[@kfmonadeia]

@@Char-mv3fc then why he is so determined to announce his opinion about womanhood?

[@venom.gaming]

@@evelyndawn8159 Doubtfire?

[@alysandraborden9265]

I told my parents that I was a boy when I was 4, simply because I didn’t want to wear a dress to church. Glad I was born in the early 90’s when parents don’t instantly start a social transition when their child says something like that

[@CourtneyAndBooks]

THIS~!!!! I was such a tom boy when i was a kid. Hated girl stuff. Girl clothes. Girl activities. if i were born in this era, It's terrifying to think how confused I'd be by the way adults today are expected to treat their children. If i were treated like a boy and raised as a boy in return, i would never have been able to become who i am today.

[@charlylucky7508]

Back then, the worst that would happen is you would be called a tomboy. I wonder if that word is still used today. I'm sure it is, but probably not by the left.

[@angie4now438]

I was a huge tomboy!! It was a fun phase but I’m glad I’m past it lol

[@recitationtohear]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6qpmaajf5qqsMU Don't Miss This..

[@avant-garde2.028]

😂😂at 4 I never cared about my gender, honestly I just wanted to be a pretty princess. But what I knew for sure was that I wasn't straight and I wasn't religion. Maybe I grew up too fast, I don't know

[@ashlinorrell3490]

My step daughter had a phase where she took herself down a rabbit hole (thanks to tiktok) and wanted to identify as non-binary. When questioned why, she said because she doesn't like pink and dresses. I found out she had changed her name within her friendship group and was joining lgbt+ groups. We banned tiktok and explained to her about how puberty is confusing and hormones are all over the place. And also how her autism makes her feel like she doesn't fit in. A year down the road she's a totally different person. If we had bowed down to societal pressure and just gone along with what she was saying then she probably would have changed her name and her pronouns and basically screwed herself up. Kids can't make these decisions. Their thoughts, feelings and hormones change every week.

[@mammadingo9165]

Had similar situation with my teenage son. I agree with you completely. Also wishing many more teens have support in being their beautiful brilliant selves.

[@IIZZIIKK]

This is the one thing that scares me about having kids later on. I don’t want to be the parent that bans them from using tech at their teen years because they’ll find a way around it and there are actually a lot of good resources on TikTok to learn and discover new topics. But I fear my children succumbing to this ideology through TikTok, friends, TV/movies, and now public education. What do I even do prevent this from happening or not come off controlling if they ended up becoming indoctrinated? And for people who say “they’ll grow out of it” or “it’s just like being emo or goth in the 90s”, it’s not. This ideology leads to kids obtaining HRT without parental consent our obtaining other forms of permanent forms of “treatment” that’s irreversible.

[@PolitikPolitik-fh2qc]

The scary thing is they are trying to legislate against common sense like that

[@galiapink6600]

Wow! I think we should sing the petition to legally ban TikTok in our country as it’s influence on young minds is just most destructive.

[@cringacc2091]

I used to be this type of kid but my parents were as reasonable as you. I want to say thank you for protecting your child and being a rational parents instead of listening to all these woke people

[@agustinavictoriaborre1054]

"Womanhood is an umbrella term" ummm NO.

[@chopsyoutube]

an umbrella is an umbrella term

[@awomanperiod.9507]

@@chopsyoutube 😂

[@RainbowJemHxC]

So Blaire White a woman?

[@americasangel1497]

@@RainbowJemHxC No, just like she clearly stated, she's a Trans Woman!

[@jak4bud]

@@RainbowJemHxC Not even in an alternative universe. Blaire is a man.

[@jess.i.can22]

As a very (very) masculine woman, I am called sir on a daily basis. I’ve never taken it personally- because I know what I look like and I know how I carry myself. It’s just how it be. Laugh about it and move on. Life’s so much more fun when you can laugh about it.

[@peppersanches412]

As a 51 year old (transexual) dude, thank you for sharing ❤

[@carlosvsiguejugando3102]

Agreed! I encourage your way of thinking

[@carlosvsiguejugando3102]

@@peppersanches412 Pure curiosity, does that mean you were born male or female?

[@livi6440]

@@carlosvsiguejugando3102 how sad that you have to ask😔. She said Woman!

[@carlosvsiguejugando3102]

@@livi6440 Oh lol, I didn’t read the word “dude”, I don’t like assuming much but I guess he born female, although who knows? I was just genuinely curious, that’s all

[@pv3566]

In my 40years I've never asked someone their pronouns. In the next 40 years I don't fucking plan on doing it either.

[@GabrielleTollerson]

yess

[@khustombuilt2854]

Same. I'm 71..... Too old for their shit and old enough to ignore their shit.😉

[@VioletDeathRei]

So only after you are 80 lol? I suppose that seems to be the age one runs for office these days.

[@lauren6233]

Hahahah same here, the world has gone mad

[@lilmisspettiieee]

Exactly

[@BiohazardBunney]

The fact that Blair knows she's biologically male, but doesn't need validation, is why she's a queen. I wish all transwomen were like you, the world would be a much better place

[@LitithsClaptrap]

I swear this Trans and Pronouns debate has devolved into "well I like girly/boyish things so I'm Trans now". Like bro, just because you like something that's typically doesn't align with your gender, doesn't make you Trans.

[@ReginaTrans_]

I buy Barbies

[@PenelopeAlys]

Wasn’t the point of all this originally to not need to label yourself? That you could be anyone and not conform to societal standards. Yet these people are forcing everyone to label themselves. They are so far left that they are far right.

[@kittygirl_thetortie498]

They are confusing their personality(trans) and mood (NB) as gender identity. Such idiots.

[@jill3n]

For real. Which goes against tradional feminism that wanted to break people from their traditional roles, yet still be women.

[@ernie8430]

@@PenelopeAlys yeah it feels like the political spectrum is a circle these days lol

[@garmmermibe5397]

I'm a writer and historical linguist. And, ignoring the gender oriented view of the argument, just from a literary and writer's perspective, pronouns are literally made for simplicity. Making people ask pronouns at the beginning of a conversation, to remember them, to consciously think about pronouns, defeats the whole purpose of pronouns. If you want someone to call you something specific, that's what your name is for. The purpose of pronouns is so that I don't have to go out of my way to remember something specific about any given thing. Or, so that when I'm writing, I don't have to type out a character's name every single time I mention them. Pronouns are meant to be intrinsic and eminently obvious. If they aren't, you've defeated the point of the pronoun even existing. If you're going to change your pronouns to "Zhir/Zherg" or whatever, just do everyone a favor, and change your name to Zhir instead, because, at that point, you're at a level of speciation that I'd rather hear your name than your pronouns since you've butchered the simple but subtle nuance of casual conversation and you're making the passing (supposed to be) civil dialogue more intensive than it was ever meant to be.

[@miscellaniousnothing]

I totally agree with this. The whole idea of choosing custom pronouns amounts to turning pronouns into a second name, and then just removing pronouns from the language all together. It's super dumb.

[@artemis8396]

Thank you for your common sense

[@wolpertinger.]

You raise a very good point that I haven't heard anyone make before. There is a very cringey and confused, walking contradiction mess of a trans person where I work. I am so off-put by this person and would never dream of using the masculine pronouns that this person demands, so I skip pronouns altogether and just use this person's name. I like to think it's a win win 🙃

[@mitzimccoy1611]

True.

[@coldspringhead]

This blew my mind. I’m not very educated, but I always had a sense that 76 pronouns were simply unworkable in general society because now you have two things to remember. The name and the pronoun. Listening to my wife stumble over her own words trying to remember to use the alternative pronouns of one of her friends is painful. We’re alone in the car and she’s trying to tell a completely trivial story that involves this person, and every few seconds the flow of the story is jarred to a halt so she can 1) Remember to use the alternative pronoun, 2) Think of which tense is applicable like zee/zey/zer, 3) actually say the word with emphasis because it IS an actual exception to normal conversation. It’s so cringe. I feel bad that she’s gotten wrapped up in this nonsense just because she’s trying to be nice. The explanation you just gave describes it better than I ever could have.

[@AngelfromGenX]

Addison’s appearance is intended to provoke. This makes others automatically dismiss and ignore trans people because no one likes being provoked into confusion or anger then called bigot for any reaction including “why am I looking at a man in a dress who will get mad if I misgender them, but how can I NOT misgender when they present as multiple things?” It’s intended to provoke, not create inclusion or harmony, and that’s just on first sight.

[@frankreynolds445]

I don't blame you. The beard BS that has popped up is making legit Trans woman look bad. When someone sees anyone with a beard they are automatically think that is a man.

[@lesleymay6757]

Agree. I can't get past the beard. But that's how I feel, and since it's all about feelings and self identifying, I should also be allowed to have my feelings. It's so in your face that I think it's attention seeking. No one is neither or both. You're just being provocative to feed that part inside that needs validation..or that is deeply confused.

[@DreamieQueen]

Definitely to provoke. Either to attract curiosity or to spark debates.

[@Dolphinboi]

Addison identifies as a non binary person. Not a trans woman. They are two different things. You’re wrong. Non binary doesn’t have to "blend in" like a trans woman/man would. It’s not the same.

[@lesleymay6757]

@@Dolphinboi maybe they just need attention on a whole other level. I'm sorry but feeling not male nor female, makes no effing sense. If you can't tell or feel blank, you need therapy. For the long-term til you sort stuff out.

[@Yankeyson1]

When she said " I transition to blend in" that truly blew my mind. The whole sentence

[@aaaaaar0000]

My mom thought I was a lesbian growing up just because I was into such boyish things. I was just a tomboy. 23 now and definitely very straight & into girly things. Thank you mom for not being loony!

[@1everydayperson]

I'm a 45 yr old tomboy and my mom thought I was going to be a straight up lesbian.She was only half right! I'm still a tomboy,even if I sometimes do girly shit cuz it's fun to do.

[@aaaaaar0000]

@@1everydayperson It's crazy we change so much as we grow up. We go through phases and styles and like you said girly things are fun to do. So important for parents to just let their kids be and not do permanent things like parents nowadays do.

[@1everydayperson]

@@aaaaaar0000 absolutely agree! Let kids be kids and let them explore whatever they want.

[@maximcypher3109]

My parents and some friends thought I was lesbian too! (back in the 90s) Lol, they asked me straight out.."hey are you a lesbian, we're just wondering" I wasn't even the most tomboyish, but I still wonder why this was thought of me.

[@LusciousTwinkle]

It's a LITTLE bit looney...unless you are a lesbian. She could have just thought you were a tomboy....it's a very old concept.

[@pjhaze]

I was a tomboy. My mom called me “the son my father never had”. If born today, I would probably be called/ diagnosed trans. But I just don’t like certain things people label ‘girly’. It’s hard to take people seriously like Addison and Demi Levato.

[@ashlabelle]

I find it very interesting that Demi Lovato came out as non-binary at a moment when they had done something extremely stupid and entitled and people were calling them out for it.

[@niecedspain3568]

Me too. I loved to do everything with my 6 brothers, loved going hunting with them, played with their cars and dump trucks and loved to mow the yard. I was also into makeup, doing my hair, dressing up, was a cheerleader, choir and gymnastics. I’m sure I would have been labeled trans by someone. My mother was very Catholic but she didn’t freak when I okayed with cars and followed my brothers when my sisters didn’t.

[@oppivey]

It’s hard to take her seriously especially after seeing a video of her singing to a ghost that apparently experienced sexism 🙄

[@aishahaidoo5667]

Exactly! Instead of adding bogus pronouns for people to identify with… how about we focus on altering traditional societal norms associated with gender?!

[@noahsfarm1545]

You wouldn’t be diagnosed as trans unless you had gender dysphoria.

[@beesong2450]

as a straight dude, I have huge respect for you. I can only hope all trans people think like you.

[@ПинкФлойд]

Most of us trans people do, just the crazy libs are the ones the media is more aware of

[@mahal3269]

“If you don’t know what a woman is then WHY are you trying so hard to define it?” 💯

[@nerpderper]

"womanhood looks different for everyone" - well every human is unique, but we can damn well tell the difference between humans and fucking salamanders!!

[@cryptidddd]

I think those loonies forgot the words such as "individuals" and "expression of personality" and just use made up genders and womanhood and manhood

[@livelife2324]

when they say "womanhood is different" what they actually mean is individual personalities. like since when do we keep giving individual personalities pronouns?

[@nerpderper]

@@livelife2324 yeah we all experience the world differently of course, but we also have similar experiences? one of those experiences that are similar, is womanhood. Not THE SAME but SIMILAR. But another thing that is so strange, is; if you cannot define what a woman or a man is, then you cannot define what being trans is...

[@livelife2324]

@@nerpderper totally agree with you. And it sucks that woman hood is associated with some external things. Like you can do and like masculine clothes or masculine activities but you are still a woman...and the same can be said for mandhood. for me at least, i agree with blaire's definition of being trans that has to do with a medical condition and body dysphoria

[@richurichu8781]

LOL

[@rgdene6605]

When you re going to debate about genders and woman is the word you can't define, you have a problem

[@DannyD-lr5yg]

They were honestly just using language sooo dramatically differently than Matt. Imo they’re both extremist, obtuse, and cringe lol

[@GabrielleTollerson]

exactly

[@GabrielleTollerson]

@@DannyD-lr5yg how is Matt extremist?

[@ЦветанГанчев-у4п]

Yet Matt's definition of a woman: "An adult human female" Matt's definition of a chair: "Wood shaped by human"

[@MCookies21]

I don’t conform to gender but even I know an adult female will identify 99.9% of the time as a woman and that’s mainly linked to biology…

[@DestinyA83]

One more thing, as a woman who's been through every form of abuse, caused by men, I find it extremely and deeply upsetting that so many of these big fully formed and fully grown guys who make no effort to really "look female" are so demanding that we accept them exactly as WE are. It doesn't matter what they look or sound like they're allowed in. If you pay attention, it's always the men who are the most angry, forceful, and threatening when it comes to making women call them a Women. And forcing us to let them in women's bathrooms! Notice how the percentage of female transitioning to male, generally don't get forceful and aggressive and controlling!! It brings me straight back to when I was being abused! My PTSD has ONLY gotten stronger! So that's my take on it. It needs to be stopped.

[@RachelRichards]

I'm transgender and I'm frankly embarrassed by the bearded manlady's answer to Matt Walsh's question: "What's a woman?"

[@StevenEatsAlone]

@today was a good day stop spamming your stupid link

[@00st307-m]

Right? Why do they always bring up the question “what’s a woman” and not “what’s a man” 🤔

[@JohnGalt916]

I think anyone with common sense left or right is annoyed by these people.

[@dan8402]

Dr Phil did nothing to educate or gain understanding about trans issues. It is sad really, because there is the opportunity there.

[@davemcl1057]

@@00st307-m Because NO ONE cares about men !

[@paulsmith7579]

Blaire is one of the few people trying to actually have the conversation that we all should be having.

[@nathansandberg3390]

I agree. And I agreed with almost everything she said. The only thing I didn't understand was at the end when she suggested that there is a middle ground to be sought. Seems to me that Mr. Walsh was being very polite and understanding while not abandoning universal truths. You can be a nice guy and still be grounded in reality. If that's what you are, I don't think you can reach a more "middle ground". I didn't get the sense that he was trying to shove his opinion down anyone's throat. And Blair seems to be just as nice and grounded in reality as Mr. Walsh.

[@Kami-mq8sl]

Yeah she's one of the good ones

[@wigsbytessa]

strongly agree

[@isheeppol8761]

It's ironic - but in a good way - that a transperson that is a beautiful influencer shows such incredibly depth of characters and argumentation. ((Also, nobody would ever know blaire is trans if she didn't openly state it)

[@sole__doubt]

What conversation should be having exactly? I dont get why normal ppl have to entertain this madness. Most ppl will never know a trans person.

[@cheepymcpeepy]

No lie, if someone asked me what my pronouns are I'd be offended. Don't project your shit onto me.

[@vocexseta]

I kinda get that. It'd be like..."Do I not look like a woman or something? 👀"

[@Brindlebrother]

What are your auxiliary verbs and prepositional adverbials?

[@jordiflower]

@@vocexseta same!!

[@SSGLGamesVlogs]

If someone asks me what my pronouns are, I'll say: I don't do that. I'm not a member of the LGBTQ Community. Something along those lines.

[@scarasara]

Omg me too

[@mariannaanagnostopoulou6624]

Girl, thank you for being sane! I didn't know there was this issue in the US, here in Greece we barely have accepted the gay community. The trans community is still getting murdered. It's horrible, ofcourse I am an advocate for everyone to have respect and equal rights. But I didn't know that trans community in US have gained so much respect that they even demand things that are ridiculous! I consider myself a leftist and I found myself agreeing with Matt Walsh and I was like "what is happening to me?". But it is just plain logic. I respect you, I accept you as a trans woman or a trans man, I will use or try to use your pronouns, but is it transphobic if I say that you are a biological male that transitioned? Is it transphobic if I say there are only two genders? if I say that kids should not transition? Is it transphobic if I simply state facts?

[@honeymoonavenue97]

You are not being transphobic because trans people know they are born as biological male or female. You cannot be born as no gender. Everyone is assigned sex at birth.

[@TheSpeakersCornerPodcast]

I totally agree with every word you said!! X

[@nonyab5640]

Seeing a trans-woman speak logically for 20 straight minutes, while clearly successful on her trans-journey, as well as strong, happy, beautiful, etc… why is this not more appealing to other trans, than the illogical, not even passing a lot, unhappy, crazy trans people? All I’m saying if I were trans I’d look up to this person for guidance not the craziness out there for my understanding in my journey.

[@MaggotKebab]

It's not appealing because it doesn't line up with their victim narrative

[@starlightbreaker561]

most trans are like Blaire, but as the point of transitioning is to do it and shut up, we're not as vocal as the crazies

[@pompunpopularpodcast]

Because a lot of these ppl are not even truly trans and are simply lazy and feel like misfits and find shelter in the labels instead of developing a sense of personal self worth - they’re entitled to everyone else bolstering their self perception

[@kaiw522]

#ItsACult

[@RSsantana]

🎯💯🎯💯🎯

[@xdandychiggins]

i never would’ve imagined that this would be a serious debate/discussion outside of tumblr when this nonsense first began circulating. how far we’ve declined.

[@MJ-qb5ph]

You said it

[@Angela-lb9zi]

I never would have imagined that alternative pronouns would become real after first reading them in a novel 12 years ago. It was a sci-fi/fantasy so I simply took them as that. Yet here we are 🤦‍♀

[@xdandychiggins]

@@Angela-lb9zi it’s sad if you think about it. these people deem themselves as so deeply uninteresting as people that they have to invent “innate” characteristics about themselves to seem more intriguing. this pronoun nonsense is what emo/scene was to those who lived to also see that cringe.

[@tornadoesdontstopspinnin6271]

Well said.

[@natb9919]

Facts, I remember in like 2010 I used to see this stuff on tumblr and just thought it was a weird little niche thing that people were into and would eventually grow up and grow out of. Oh how I was wrong.

[@CaulkMongler]

“I didn’t transition for you to ask me my pronouns, I transitioned to blend in with society” that part 👏

[@Clair-lyme]

@Murals and Music are it for Me harsh but probably true

[@dominiquejenkins5495]

@Murals and Music are it for Me I second that lol

[@redpenguinmining9216]

I remember when acceptance was "be who you are" instead it became "you will agree with what I tell you otherwise you are a bigot"

[@rubyattwood]

@Murals and Music are it for Me ugh

[@nigelcalloun8210]

@@redpenguinmining9216 🙌🏽

[@evlnc]

I just wanna say you have allowed me to understand, respect and accept trans people more than any of these activists ever did. Thank you. What I think is this: what trans women really want is to be seen, respected and accepted AS women, not to be equated to women. It’s the same logic as the fight for gender equality: women want to be respected as men are, not to be equated to men. We have different biological makeup and experiences. To blindly equate us is to inadvertently erase our unique identities.

[@yacobeinauan9533]

That is such a well put and amazing explanation!

[@chrisrasdale7764]

You mention the fight for Gender Equality and as someone who studied both Feminism and Queer Theory at University, for me the problem with that fight is that a lot of activists do in fact seem to just wish they were men instead of women. So many of them dress and groom themselves like men, and act like they think men act - i.e. aggressively a lot of the time! That is not the way to achieve Gender Equality. A lot of activists need to learn to value what it is to be a woman, instead of trying to emulate men.

[@RinpochesRose]

‘It’s not your truth, it’s THE Truth’ - excellent statement Blaire. That a woman is an adult human female is a Universal Truth and incontrovertible. 👍🏻

[@ethanpower4613]

Fun fact: Matt Walsh actually said this verbatum in an interview in his "what is a woman" movie

[@alinethomas155]

Right so why does he call himself a women? He has a penis!!!!!@@@!!!!

[@ocurimi]

In the end, the only thing we cannot disagree is that a woman, on a fundamental level, is a female human, nothing more, nothing less

[@henriklindberg1646]

@@ocurimi guess down to cromosomes it is

[@jonathancalovich6664]

@@ethanpower4613 good man

[@stonesatglasshouses3477]

I’ve seen someone FREAK out on this little teenage girl, because she said “sir” trying to be polite. She immediately apologized when the person became upset. But she was terrorized and made to feel horrible.

[@susanjoneskemper]

Oh my goodness... that hurts my heart and PISSES ME OFF at the same time! 😭💔🤬🤬 This whole thing is confusing SO MUCH of our youth today and it's extremely disheartening to witness and not be able to do a thing about it 😫

[@sarairuiz2369]

@@Rtyoepndnf4 It for people like you we are in this mess

[@SoulDelSol]

@@Rtyoepndnf4 I'm not a "yooou?!" How Dare you! How Dare you! (- hugh mungous lady)

[@gingeranagram2467]

Did you stand up and defend her? If not, you're part of the problem

[@aura9773]

yeah you see i really don’t like the tendency people have to immediately scold and bully others right when someone else did something they didn’t like, particularly when the other person didn’t even know what they were doing was perceived as offensive. like, if you get an answer wrong in math class because you didn’t know how to do the math problem, is the teacher supposed to just yell at you because you got it wrong, or try to help their student? but math (a subject that deals with logic, arrangement, etc) probably isn’t the best analogy to be used in comparison to these abstract societal discussions. nonetheless i see no use in resorting to browbeating and bullying. i’m sorry that happened

[@mayesjoyessha527]

As a woman that has small boobs, when I wear certain clothes my chest looks flat. I've been called Sir a lot and honestly I've never felt the urge to correct those people. I will probably never see those people again in my life, therefore it's not worth my time to correct it.

[@Alejojojo6]

Plus! It makes a funny story to tell later on.

[@nnk9305]

When I was in Highschool I teased and bullied a girl over a flat-boobs,… Years later we met again, and I still teased her because her boobs didn’t grow at all … And now she’s my wife,

[@mammadingo9165]

​@@nnk9305 that is an interesting story 😅 🎉

[@PolitikPolitik-fh2qc]

That's the right attitude. But in this case if you wanted I wouldn't care if you corrected then either. It happens. Especially on the phone sometimes.

[@davinski41]

God bless you for saying this, it actually makes alot of sense.

[@samaramesser5116]

My boyfriend is friends with a trans woman who has a low voice like a man. She is a wonderful person and I really like her and enjoy talking to her. One day, I slipped and accidentally referred to her as "he/him". Hearing the lower, masculine voice, my brain registered her as "he". I've been feeling terrible ever since and didn't meant to be disrespectful. I appreciate this video and don't feel as bad now for making that mistake.

[@ReddFoxx1562]

What was the context where you used someone's pronouns to their face in personal conversation? I can't think of a situation where I'd do that.

[@mr.anxiety7567]

As a trans guy, I get super uncomfortable when people ask me my pronouns, because it makes me wonder if I am doing a good job passing or not. I wanna pass, I wanna blend in. I want to be seen as a person first before being seen as a trans person. Other trans people might take offense to that, but that’s cool, they can. It’s just how I personally feel.

[@Heliazul]

"I want to be seen as a person first." Potent words. Don't we all just want to be seen as people, not an ideology.

[@AllensAutomotiveReparations]

See I understand that you want to be seen as a guy so if someone asks you your pronouns you have to ask yourself what about me is making them doubt I'm a guy

[@mr.anxiety7567]

@@AllensAutomotiveReparations Luckily, I haven't been asked that in a really long time. So I am doing something right. But, you are absolutely right. I did use that as a framework to see what I can do to not get asked that.

[@drlector67]

No one is doing a good job….. it’s so over obvious when y’all play dress up.

[@YouTubeNeptunia]

You are out there vulnerable, nothing is more courageous than being vulnerable. You got this! Whether you stay trans or not you’re valid

[@jobrasheare7856]

I’m a straight masculine-leaning woman, and as a child I thought I was supposed to be a boy because I liked playing wall ball and preferred legos over Barbie’s. I couldn’t imagine what kind of issues I’d have if my parents took that as me being trans

[@andreil1313]

Same

[@Manu_oRei]

My daughter leans more towards masculine things, but she also plays with barbies and jokes around with her girl friends. In no way shape or form, I'm telling her which toys she should play with or how she should behave. Still, I call her a small woman and sometimes I tell her, no matter her choices in life will be, that I will always love her. Parents should be real, but let kids be kids. Sometimes we need to stop the non sense and sometimes we need to accept the obvious.

[@fatgirl4501]

Yes 10 years ago we were sooo accepting of girls playing with “boy toys,” now we say “oh she likes hot wheels, put her on hormones!”

[@rebeccahicks2842]

I was the same, but my focus was on Spider-Man. I wore Spidey shirts, baseball caps, pajamas, even underoos. I had the toys, Spider-Man big wheel, and room with Spidey sheets, curtains, etc. This went on for a few years. Guess what? I still love Spider-Man, but I’m also a straight feminine woman. I shudder to think what could’ve happened if this were today and my parents were “woke”.

[@steveomac385]

People use to beat kids for liking the wrong toys, so they would be normal. Then we got to the point where no one cared, and it was normal to play with whatever. Now if kids play with the wrong toys people inject them with hormones to make make them "normal". Seems like a step backwards.

[@myfriendisaac]

This was a *WILD* episode of Dr. Phil 😂 If you can’t even define what a “woman” is, then you shouldn’t be trying to dictate MY thoughts, opinions, & vocabulary.

[@kimmiecat4202]

Word 💕

[@asailijhijr]

It's an ideology that's arguing that the definition of "woman" should be broadened or removed.

[@ЦветанГанчев-у4п]

Did Blaire defined it? I watched the video, if she agrees she must consider herself a man, right?

[@aldentepotato]

@@ЦветанГанчев-у4п From what I remember, she's always said she's not a woman (biological female) and has always said she is a trans woman. If she's changed her stance on that recently, then I've missed it.

[@ЦветанГанчев-у4п]

@@aldentepotato You use she/her pronouns I see, and why is that? And if she is not a woman, what is she for you?

[@lilfella407]

my dad always wanted a boy. i was as rough and tough as it gets. working on cars, riding motorcycles, my dad was my best friend and i wanted to be a boy for him. now that i'm older, im confident in my femininity and have no problem being a woman but growing up it felt so awkward.

[@pommiebears]

I’m a qualified car mechanic. As you can see, I’m feminine. I don’t work on cars anymore, but I was a raging tomboy when I was younger. I never wanted to be a boy, I just really liked boy stuff lol. My dad raised me, so I think it was his influence. But, I was never not a girl.

[@khalidqawdhan3265]

i want to marry u

[@chuckchuk14]

I love how people preach about unconformity and breaking norms while at the SAME time, trying to fascistically impose new conformities and norms onto people.

[@8thhousemoonrabbit205]

This, right here drives me up the wall sometimes.. how much is a human being of either gender, supposed to withstand lol, in the way, of mind bending interactions??? Whew, life is getting much spicier than I expected, as a child. Lol Clownworld indeed, Blair

[@sole__doubt]

Physical and biological norms are far different than social norms. Thats what this trans stuff is all about, its the most rebellious thing a person can do, rebel against their own body and sex.

[@JennaBenna0123]

or their “tolerant” but only if agree with absolutely everything they say yea um no thanks signed a politically homeless deaf lesbian

[@justinnamuco9096]

It seems planned

[@jabrokneetoeknee6448]

"Authoritarian tolerance!!" rofl you sound confused like old man Dr. Peterson. I don't think that guy woke up from his coma with all his braincells intact.

[@natalie5490]

"Transitioned and then got on with my life". Yes, exactly. That to me is what a genuine trans person is. My teen daughter has male friends that identify as female, use she/her pronouns and female names....whilst making pretty much no effort to appear characteristically as a female. I can't take them seriously; for which I'm regularly in trouble with my daughter. I told her we won't actually get to hear from most genuine trans people because they're too busy getting on with their lives. Whilst I'm definitely not saying all gender confused people are autistic, what I do see is many confused autistic people jumping on the gender bandwagon (and before anyone jumps in I am a middle aged woman with an autism diagnosis and can spot another autistic a mile away); it is super common for autistic people to feel neither male nor female. I'm going on tangents but basically just wanted to say thank f*ck for the likes of Blair for injecting some sanity into all of this.

[@aerialmistress3623]

your not suppose to be your daughters best friend, your rising her to function as an adult. my mom would tell me this as a kid and i hated it. but my mom never ed lied to me and in that i whole trust her. your daughter don’t have to like what you say or think, as long as you love her enough to tell her the truth no matter how unpopular. the dad from Miley Cyrus said he wish he had spent more time being his daughters dad then trying to be her friend and be liked by her.

[@adelerobinson7269]

I completely agree with you when you are saying about ur daughters friends identifying as female and use she/her but then are making no conscious effort to even look or portrayed themselves as a female I can't understand this as a trans women myself because I would never I have transitioned to a woman and portray myself as female I wear makeup and womens clothing I am and portray as a woman yes I'm a transgender woman but to look at me nobody would be confused as to what to call me because I loo, and act like a woman but if ur not making any effort to be and portray urself as a woman then ur not a woman I'm sorry but ur not because you can't just say ur a woman and everybody else is supposed to instantly reference you as female because then that in itself then completely invalidates me as a transperson and makes a mockery of us real transgender women because we have gone through all these things to be our true selves but now have these so called trans people damaging our place in society because the rest of the population can't take us seriously anymore and this just upsets me how stupid it all is now x

[@johngrey5143]

Can all autistic people do that cause I can tell too I'm level 2

[@johngrey5143]

And kudos for telling ur daughter the truth

[@joannajett2524]

Why should cis people be the only ones allowed to be androgynous though ?

[@erin8492]

I hate that liberals will call Blaire "Pick me" No. Blaire is a logical, intelligent human with common sense and reasoning. Something that the far left does not have.

[@globalcitizen270]

Or right. Blair is amazing

[@Microtherion]

I don't mean to nit-pick (and I agree with your general point), but you can't be 'liberal' and 'far left'. That's kind of what a lot of the discussion on these issues misses: the *far* left couldn't care less about their pronouns and petty fixations like that - they're more upset about things like one per cent of the population owning over half the money/property, and billions of people starving as a result! (Case in point: I'd say I'm on the far-left myself, and I have no idea what a 'pick-me' is. Aren't they those lovely little people who live in the rain-forest?) :)

[@erin8492]

@@Microtherion Absolutely!! I definitely respect you for pointing that out and I could always be educated on things because I don't know everything.. I don't really know much about that stuff.... just what I've observed. Also, a "pick me" is how to describe a person (They can be male or female) who will intentionally go out of their way to impress a person or people with it being at the expense of others. I say that only because liberals have called Blaire White a pick me for being trans and conservative when she is a very reasonable person who doesn't succumb to the delusions of the other side or believe she's owed everything based on her circumstances.

[@Microtherion]

@@erin8492 Thank you. I was a little hesitant about mentioning it, actually. You're obviously a very nice and open-minded person. (Both of those are also far more important than 'left' or 'right'). My analysis of the 'culture wars' is that they're largely the creation of the centrist political parties, and intended to distract us all from the fact that their actual *policies* are almost identical, and have the support of probably less than 20 per cent of the population (!) They even have difficulty finding sufficiently unprincipled leaders these days. The last two U.S. presidents were/are both so old that people have genuine concerns that the 'commander-in-chief' might have serious senile dementia, or might die in office. A lot like the last years of the USSR, really. Creating ever more maddening forms of social tension is one of their last available tactics to keep people from organising for themselves, and reinstating some meaningful form of democracy...

[@yamama3390]

Hating a whole group of people for what some say or do makes you sound stupid. You have not heard from every liberal person. Not I'm not liberal nor am I conservative. I am a free independent thinker. You should try it

[@HooLeeYo]

Just because you spray women's perfume on your beard, doesn't make you a woman, it just makes you a man wearing women's perfume.

[@lisarose4729]

As someone who is absolutely sick of this whole trans non binary 100000 different sexes rubbish, you are an absolute breath of fresh air! You are exactly what the world need right now, keep it up girl! Much Love xxx

[@lisarose4729]

@@stacy7159 Actually I think most trans people are probably just like her but we only hear from the weirdos, narcissists and people faking for attention!

[@therighttune]

girl?

[@savantotakusenpai777]

Yeah I don't do woke circle of hell nonsense I've thankfully not been brainwashed by wokes

[@YouTubeNeptunia]

Ikr! She is my hero rn. She helps me feel less crazy

[@therighttune]

@@KZbinNeptunia he

[@mikemaze7726]

I'm a older trans woman and I do not appreciate being associated with people like this I feel the majority of trans people just want to live their lives as you said blending in

[@lucky_hurricane20]

Well why saying you're a "trans woman" if you can never be a woman. What transition have you made? And is the transition possible ? Cs a woman is a biological female, that's all. The other stereotypes related to it are socially constructed ! Whatever you do in your body will never change your sex!

[@mikemaze7726]

@Soumaia Alaoui You are totally correct.I'll never be a biological female.And I understand that there's people that don't agree with being trans and people who don't understand what it is to be trans. But as long as I'm okay with me that's all that matters.We all have our opinions and I respect yours,but at the end of the day mine is the only one that matters for myself.

[@lucky_hurricane20]

@@mikemaze7726 it's not about opinions it's about rights and clarification of concepts ! I mean I have no problem with people doing whatever they want with their bodies as long as they are mature enough to do it (even though I find "transition" surgeries very dangerous and irreversible ) but I can't stand for men calling themselves "women" . That's dangerous and confusing ! Doing "feminine" things is not turning you to women, cs femininity and masculinity are two socially constructed concepts, Women and Men are two biological existence that have been living under a lot of cultural norms due to their sex so thei lives and experiences are different bcs they are raised differently! So I get it that "trans" people usually look differently than what society prescribed for their sex since birth and that's okeeeey! Actually no one should ever conform and comply with the sexist norms, that's what patriarchy wants ! But that's not a transition ! That is more of like a total revolution against stereotypes assigned to you since birth ! That's a person not giving a fuuuck of what society wants him to be and choosing to feel comfortable in his/her body! I don't mean to offend but I deeply have a problem with the word "transition" itsef cs if you're transitioning to a woman than you're confirming that a woman is not a biological female human! And this is how all those gender identity movements come to existence trying to tell me the real woman what a woman is!

[@mikemaze7726]

@Soumaia Alaoui 1st. As long as someone is being respectful like yourself, you'll never affend me.I "rebelled" years ago.In my opinion and again we all have one , people like myself when 1st. starting our change we wanted nothing more than to blend in, Not stand out looking for attention.Ive been living a good life after my rebellion.I don't advertise that I am what I am,But I will tell someone if I think it concerns them at the time. I also used the word rebellion and rebel not as a dig but because you stated you hated the other phrase.Just didn't want you thinking I was being a smartass.

[@bighead7317]

But the reality is it's a mental disease

[@---qu9uf]

“Can you tell me what a woman is?” “No I can’t” Imagine, Being a Mother who gave birth to that person.🙁😢

[@shmeet]

______________Exactly. Woman = your biological mother. Man = your biological father.

[@nicholasgerry6931]

They need to read books instead of playing social media all day and worry about their pronouns lmao. "No I can't" does he not know how dumb he sounds 🤦‍♂️

[@St33lStrife]

Since when do we blame the parents for the sins of the children without proof

[@shmeet]

@@nicholasgerry6931 ""No I can't" does he not know how dumb he sounds" - You know that's a chick, right?

[@wordsoffire2416]

@shmeet Exactly. They cannot even explain who the heck they are. They cannot define who they are. They are totally confused. And making the whole nation confused also.

[@christophermurphy3181]

Holy crap. “I transitioned to blend in with society.” Damn Blaire, that was impactful. I think that statement is what sets you apart from others in the trans community. You own who you are and what society is. You’re conforming to what is normal in society instead of asking society to conform to you. Astounding humility and wisdom.

[@AyeGee721]

When ever I said I was a tomboy, my dad would snap "No your not!" because he thought 'Lesbian' or 'trans' until my mum sat him down to explain she was a tomboy as a child and teen and came out straight, married, had kids. He was always fine with me liking boys stuff, it was just that single term that triggered him lmao. However nowadays, a 'tomboy' is somehow a girl wanting to be trans...?

[@11rs11]

Good on your parents. I really think it has a lot to do with parents pushing or encouraging this onto their kids when most likely they're just Tomboys. I'm one of four girls in my family, and me and the oldest sister are definitely what would be considered Tomboys. So often my sister would be asked if she was lesbian, she's not. I've studied to become an aircraft mechanic, which is quite a masculine job but I'm not lesbian and have never thought of being a man. We both are now Mother's. I think if we grew up with parents, family or friends that were heavily influenced with the LGBT movement of today, my sister and I would have been pressured to think we were either lesbians or Trans. Sucks nowadays that girls can't even enjoy more boyish things or boys enjoying more girlish things without someone whispering in their ear that they HAVE to be lesbian or think they're the opposite gender.

[@DeepRedBlue]

The pronoun stuff started being stupid as soon as “enbies” got involved. Before then, it was pretty simple: make a concerted effort to look like a man/woman, and people will either see yo as one, or see that you are at least presenting as one, and most people who aren’t assholes will respect that. But you can’t present as a “they”.

[@midsummersnight3848]

Omg. Wtf are enbies? I cannot keep up with this stuff. Everyday it's something new.

[@RhombonianKnight]

@@midsummersnight3848 take "non-binary", shorten it to "n-bi" to halve the syllables, and then spell it out so it sounds right.

[@pokegogeezer7676]

What about The Matrix. Smith is a They. (kidding...). 😉

[@nono86753]

“They” has got to be the one of the most stupid pronouns

[@respectable-username]

Exactly lmaooo

[@WarmLittleDiamond90]

No one "has pronouns"; people USE pronouns to talk ABOUT others. We can't control that at all.

[@anelbegic2780]

Generally speakimg yes, that's true. I never really understood why such small sections of humanity have such a loud voice. Through their own and the medias means, and act as if pronouns are so easy to go along with.

[@GobbyRocks]

Exactly, thank you.

[@iamthisiam]

You misquoted, "... no can have their OWN pronouns...*

[@gabispn13]

Bless you 🙏

[@Naufal4zhar]

These activists are jokes. Thank God Ms Blaire is the one making sense here.

[@Thomas.charles866]

I wish I could apologize to you in person. I am so used to activists simply yelling, insulting and having no reasoning behind their words and I assumed you would be the same. I am sorry for misjudging you before I watched the video, and I’m glad I watched it to completion. You are beyond reasonable and I wish we could all have sense and “conversation” like this. Thank you

[@gwendolynamy7462]

Same here!!!! I thought she was going to be way more conservative but honestly I agree with most of what she says.

[@cngotham4111]

@@gwendolynamy7462I thought this person thought she was gonna be very liberal because she's trans or something lol. Either way liberals and conservatives can be respectable and can hold down a conversation.

[@gdwwt8303]

this is literally what most conservatives are like

[@nomdeplume2213]

Yes, dont like the crazy trans jade you lol there are sane trans ppl out there, honestly the majority i know irl are like Blaire, they just wanna live their life quietly like everyone else. they couldn't careless about shoving ideologies down everyone's fcking throats.

[@craigslistpreditor1552]

Bro same here. In fact... I would hit

[@Jen-zk9se]

I think a big issue that these “advocates” can’t get over is that the general population DOES NOT CARE and that stings them to their core more than anything else. That they aren’t considered special every waking breathing moment of their lives.

[@mmor7380]

Mayority human interaction will be he or she, now they want to change the interaction by a population of less than 1%, no the mayority win, the interaction doesn't have to change

[@randallfowler9348]

narcissism runs very deep in these activists. I think many of them are larping.

[@Crackpot_Astronaut]

Agreed, and Matt kind of addressed that in his video about the episode, referencing when the "Doctor" says to him "I don't know why you care so much." Their entire JOB is to make people care. They started the episode saying that they were happy to be there to "educate." Their online identity (and probably offline as well) revolves around telling people how much we should care, and how awful it is that not enough people do. But they only want you to care if you agree with them completely 🙄 As soon as you disagree on any level about the topic that they're basically forcing us into discussing, it turns into "WHY DO YOU CARE SO MUCH?"

[@djert24]

We don't care because we are tired, if u want to be a unicorn sure, but don't force me to .call you one.

[@ethanrohm1522]

Nah yall care like way too much, y’all make a big deal about the “1%”

[@jvmarasigan03]

17:46 A Transwoman is an Adult Male who presents as a woman visually. I gotta say. I'm impressed. Most of LGBT members that I personally know and adore would be on full attack mode when this is brought up on mature conversation.

[@shmeet]

___________When ppl can't control their own emotions they have to try to control what other ppl say to them...and think about them.

[@Laura-Yu]

Shame because you literally just said a definition.

[@Laura-Yu]

@@shmeet Because these idiots think that this is a matter of feelings and respect when we’re talking about facts and reality. Hence why you got to “respect” whatever the other person “identifies as” regardless how ridiculous it is. We’re making fun of Oli London now but in a few years I can see those types of people yelling at me how I need to respect his “transracial” status as a “Korean”

[@alexreeves13]

But is still, not a woman.

[@shmeet]

@@Laura-Yu _______________It's not respect, it's compliance.

[@yessa1132]

I’m somebody came up to me and told me their pronouns, I’m walking the other way.

[@sjgrace1087]

I find it ironic that that couple both identify as 'non-binary' when they both exemplify the most regressive sex stereotypes. The main long haired one dominated the conversation, used aggressive body language and was argumentative. The female one sat quietly and clapped like a trained seal. One can only imagine what their private relationship is like.

[@thatdude123]

Yup

[@TwistedQuestionMark]

Excellent points.

[@Riyaanreality]

…now that you point it out…Holy sh**💀

[@belove751]

Thought the same thing.

[@abigailstabs]

Dont do that, let people be Non binary if they want

[@FraterMerovius]

"Everyone has pronouns." For other people. Nobody uses pronouns when referring to themselves in normal conversation. How other people refer to me in my absence is beyond my control, and something I do my best not to waste my time and energy thinking about.

[@nawidk]

i absolutely agree, i get called “he” all the time, im a bio female. i literally do not have the time of day to correct them nor am i bothered because it doesnt matter- not only was it an accident and im not gonna be freaking out. i just dont care haha.

[@meepmoopiethe3rd]

I, me, and my are pronouns, my mans. You used three pronouns to talk about yourself in your comment about how no one uses pronouns to refer to themselves 🤣 but I get what you're saying. I just wanted to pop in and be a dick.

[@TrekBeatTK]

Yeah that’s where I disagree with Blair. English HAS pronouns, people USE pronouns. Everyone has a gender to which pronouns are ascribed, but those pronouns don’t belong to them. Personal pronouns are called that because they refer to persons, not because they belong to them personally. it’s a subtle but important distinction.

[@brittneyzarwel6242]

Yes! This is where the pronoun debate confuses me! Why do ppl care what someone calls them when they’re not around? Bc that’s generally when one would use a pronoun. Anything other than that and you’re asking to be called by a nickname. i.e., “bun” “demon” pronouns… They’re nicknames.

[@FraterMerovius]

@@meepmoopiethe3rd You got me there. And go ahead and be whatever you want, I'm all for a free internet. A thick skin comes in handy when playing in this sandbox.

[@karendinkel9040]

Thank you! Nothing bothers me more than people saying “my truth.” No, that’s just your opinion and your life experience.

[@misanthr0pic]

i think that’s what its supposed to mean. i dont think it’s a literal saying

[@ennuiblue4295]

@@misanthr0pic you're right, hence saying 'my', I see why people don't like the saying, but it is a legitimate term (imo)

[@kelkiegimm2420]

“They are on different planets and there are NO shuttles going back and forth.” - that is such a great way to put it

[@ellenhulslander2897]

I have been watching you for a while now, and respect the heck out of you. I am 72, and have been hearing about this issue since Christine Jorgensen. The difference now is that being trans has become "trendy". Unlike yourself, who knew from a young age that your life was just not right, gained knowledge and made a decision for yourself, so many young people think this might be the answer to their discomfort, and the only counseling they are given is hormones and surgery. Therapists are not allowed to try to find the why of the dysphoria. So even if they transition, the why remains. To me it is extremely sad. Keep on speaking truth and sense. It is very strongly needed these days. Sprinkling it with your wicked sense of humor is great, too. God bless.

[@LilacLees]

I feel the same as an adoptive mom. I don’t pretend to be my child’s bio mom. I didn’t birth my baby, scientifically I’m not my child’s mother and it doesn’t offend me at all when others ask me about adoption or being an adoptive mom or if they ask about my child’s bio mother, why should I be? I’m an adoptive mom and I do all the things for my child a mother does and love my child as any parent does (more love than I could have imagined was possible to experience) So I can relate to other moms almost fully, I’ve even been pregnant but I didn’t give birth to my child. I wouldn’t dream of forcing people to pretend I’m the bio mother or worse lying to our child because it made me feel better

[@nikiha7943]

I loved this! And what you're doing is actually what's best for your child. Nobody should be lied to about who's bio parents are. I'm proud of you!

[@dp2404]

What a wonderful comment, thank you! I feel like the whole trans women are women is actually denying trans people existence. Implicitly saying that being trans is not as good as being a woman therefore we should remove the distinction altogether. Your parallel with adoptive vs bio moms fits perfectly!

[@touchfeet6988]

My bff adopted a girl as the youngest of 4 and simply told her that she was the one they got to choose. I thought that was sweet. More power to you mom!

[@moosedawg71]

Let me just say.... You are AWESOME! Such a great way to look at it. And honestly, while all moms love their children, I think adoptive moms have even MORE love to give (hard to put into words without it sounding like bio moms don't love their kids) because they didn't have the oxytocin, etc., that biological bond, but more so, they CHOOSE to open their hearts to the child they adopted. Not taking anything away from bio moms, but adoptive moms, to me, are just as much, if not more, the superheroes of the momverse. As someone who has crap eggs, I was not able to conceive my own child and have been looking into adoption, this warmed my heart!

[@LilacLees]

@@moosedawg71 If adoption is on your heart go for it, your baby is out there 💕 it’s definitely hard and there is grief and loss (I think of my child’s bio family every day and the weight of their decision ) but so much healing and love too. With all the talk in the news about abortion I think people forget what angels on earth birth mothers are! They chose to give their babies life. When people tell me that the birth mother gave me her baby, I correct them- she gave her baby me (a stable family). Everything birthmothers do is for their babies.

[@lucianaromulus1408]

I'm a tomboy, always have been. I'm 31 and often wonder what would happen if I grew up with "progressive " parents in this current day and age. When I was very little I told my parents I wanted to grow up to be a big strong man and I wanted to marry Hulk Hogan lol.. looking back on it....I know why I said this. From as long as I could remember I know I liked Boys (in an innocent way of course but the attraction was there from the get go) and I admired males so much. I didn't WANT to be a man. I'm heterosexual....and love being female. If I was pushed to transition....I probably wouldn't be here anymore. You are a great voice Blaire 👌

[@Yuh_mama]

You just said something I couldn’t exactly put together in my head: being a Tom boy was an admiration of males, not wanting to be one. Growing up I wanted to be in the NFL and play football with the boys, it wasn’t because I wanted to be a boy but to play with them because it was so cool to me. Had I have grown up today with parents who were loony toons and pushed me to transition just because I liked playing with Spider-Man action figures I’d be totally lost as an adult. I’m 29 and love being female, wearing dresses, my hair down. I feel for the little girls today who like the boy things and who are unlucky to have crazy parents who want to push a trans ideology on them

[@KattMurr]

I am 49 and grew up a tomboy as well. I have 3 older siblings, 2 being brothers. They had an enormous impact on me when I was little! When I was 5 if you asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I'd say a linebacker! Lol...I was also the only kid in my kindergarten gym class who knew how to do calisthenics because my brothers taught me. I was the only girl on my pee wee baseball team. Only two in the whole league! In high school I took automechanics instead of cosmetology in my junior and senior years. Not because I thought I was a guy or wanted to be one. It was to be around guys. I always like male company because of being close to my brothers. I was never a girly girl. Still not one. I've only recently started wearing makeup on the regular. So glad this nonsense wasn't a thing when I was growing up. Even if it had been, my mom would have had the sense to know I didn't want tobe a boy. These people putting their kids through gender trauma should be brought up on abuse charges! Or letting them pick their gender is doing damage as well. Its unreal this is happening....

[@foxwoodjones9831]

@@KattMurr I saw this family introducing their little one and saying that they weren’t announcing their sex, until the child told them what their sex was. 🙄

[@PhantomMidnight]

I was a tomboy too, and related to a lot of what you said. I remember going to school in kindergarten and telling everyone I was a boy and wanted to be a boy. It haunts me a little to think of what could have happened if I was born in a different time with different parents. I was adamant at the time. But I was a kid. Now I’m a grown woman with kids and a family and I LOVE being a woman.

[@megancrisp81]

Yes!!!! This right here, so true. I as well was a tomboy, but I didn’t want to transition into a boy/man.... some people are just going crazy trying to get those “woke” points. They see the attention children get when saying their trans, so their hoping if their child will agree to be a trans they will be the next one to get their “ I’m a whole parent” sticker and 15 minutes of fame. All for the price of a messed up child for life....

[@amyames1979]

I feel like you’re the only one that can actually talk about this subject with a common sense narrative

[@HellzFuryRC]

I hated this episode of Dr. Phil. It was basically everyone against the poor guy who was speaking facts and logic.

[@pokegogeezer7676]

I agree with Walsh mostly, but he could have been more tactful and empathetic. But yes, it was hard to watch.

[@HellzFuryRC]

@@pokegogeezer7676 I agree with him mostly also, but I think why he is being so direct is because it is getting out of hand. People are being attacked and losing their jobs for having his views. Ppl are being force fed and demanded to go against their beliefs. Im all for letting ppl believe what they want. Live your life, shine how you want to shine, i will respect and love you no matter what. The second you try and force me into your belief with threats and take away my right to believe in my beliefs... Thats when we have a problem. A lot of this is getting out of hand now. But you cant speak up or....well...u saw this episode.

[@MsMakuda]

They packed the audience with their supporters

[@HellzFuryRC]

@@MsMakuda which was wrong. Dr. Phil knew what he was doing. He wanted the slight Drama. Im pissed they didnt air Blaires episode.

[@Superduper666]

Walsh is an alpha male. He can handle himself.

[@anaalina5964]

16:21 "When every person is that room knows exactly what a woman is, it's just one side pretending not to" Lol so true.

[@frankmedina1969]

I thought the same thing. You know it's bad when we can't even agree on the definition of "woman."

[@madtabby66]

Mats definition “an adult female human” “So women who can’t give birth aren’t women” How do they make these leaps.

[@mimi_j]

@@madtabby66 that’s just the literal definition though, and idk they want to cherry pick to make an attempt at a point. Also, the audience agreed with Addison

[@Jennifer-fk8kb]

Loved this comment as well.

[@neovenom9833]

@@madtabby66 that's what you get when people don't know what chromosomes are.

[@screenheads3812]

It’s so refreshing to see someone who’s trans and is looking at these social issues with a reasonable and rational outlook. You got a new subscriber

[@alinethomas155]

No such thing as trans. He's a man.and always will be

[@kaorukomoeta9089]

@@alinethomas155 Actually, being trans is a medical issue that very much exists. That's like saying ADHD doesn't exist or depression doesn't exist. It's completely illogical and honestly stupid to say that being trans doesn't exist. Now if the issue of transitioning and men becoming women/women becoming men is what you're bringing up, that's a different conversation

[@alinethomas155]

@@kaorukomoeta9089 I have responded twice and it's being removed

[@alinethomas155]

@@kaorukomoeta9089 genderdisphoria is real but you can't change your sex. So ya trans doesn't exit.

[@kaorukomoeta9089]

@@alinethomas155 Damn, that happens to me a lot

[@aklili5527]

My older sister wanted to be a boy since childhood. She even asked us to call her by a boy's name that she chose for herself because she was into “boy” stuff, especially in our culture. My dad started to show her that she could do anything she wanted, regardless of her gender, and that she could decide for herself later. They went fishing, hunting, car racing, etc. Eventually, she became one of the girliest girls! It turns out she was just tired of gender stereotypes. Now, she’s married to the best man in the world, and she laughs every time she remembers those days. (Sorry for my bad English, though!)

[@homemail9653]

I'm African, and educated as I am, I could not get my head around what a transwoman is. Thank you for your channel because now I understand exactly where I stand and find it so much easier to accept this concept. You are a highly intelligent human being and your emtional intelligence is amazing

[@Draco19970125]

Accept? Reducing womanhood into a custom which you can pick wear? It is insulting not acceptable.

[@monkeyloveya]

@@Draco19970125 as a woman, I’m not insulted by Home Mail’s comment. I think it’s fair.

[@Draco19970125]

@@monkeyloveya what exactly is fair? This logic is like if I wesr a cat costume, I should be count as a real cat. If you remember elementary school biology lessons, brtwern a male and a female is way more things than genitalia. Resembling a woman is not enough to BE one. You are a woman if you got xx chromosomes, not before that.

[@Random_Human_Person]

Why was it important to mention your race?

[@Србомбоница86]

​@@Random_Human_Person he said African ,being from an African country

[@Noname99903]

“It creates dialogue”, no, it creates conflict, confusion and turmoil. especially when you force-feed your ideas onto the rest of us.

[@jeffgile2921]

Well said

[@galaxia1190]

Whose side are you on? Because this could apply to either side.

[@Hi...ItsLizzMitchell]

And the guy with the beard knew that which is why he put the question on the other guy

[@Noname99903]

@@galaxia1190 no it couldn’t. Biological men and women are not ideas or beliefs they’re facts. Trans women are MEN who IDENTIFY as women. Having the human decency to call a trans woman a woman is one thing, as MOST people don’t mind. Forcing us to live in your alternate reality where men can give birth is a very different thing, and we are NOT going to cave into their ridiculous demands.

[@AWlpsSHOW36]

@@Hi...ItsLizzMitchell Classic Matt Walsh. Michael Knowles is the exact same.

[@mww59]

"The goals of the non-binary agenda is to be asked about gender, the goals of the transgender agenda is to never be asked and to blend in to society" i love this. This non binary stuff has got kids so confused, my sister actually asked me what my pronouns are... like I haven't been her SISTER and "she" for her whole (and my) own life. These non-binary talks don't help anyone, they're just really confusing kids

[@artemis8396]

No matter how many times it's been explained to me, I still don't get it. Surely they don't expect us to see them as genderless or whatever else they make up? We just treat them as human beings like everyone else? I think it's a reaction against sexism and gender expectations which I sympathize with, but experiencing sexism doesn't mean you can just quit your biology and magically make people see you differently

[@mww59]

@@artemis8396 exactly! And its not like 99% of the time we can't tell their biological gender. Most of the time it is very obvious. They just want everyone to play pretend? I don't understand. My gender doesn't define who I am or what I like, its just a fact about me. Like my eye color

[@1co293]

Yeah idk I actually never grew up with non-binary pronouns used on one person like they them. It was always use on a group of people or to speak abt someone anonymously.. but then like in 2020 pronouns started getting popular out of no where..

[@mww59]

@@1co293 No one did. The English language has used he and she to talk about people forever. And I mean, I'm not going to scrutinize everyone, if someone looks like a "she" then that's what I'm gonna say. If someone looks like a "he" then thats what I'm gonna say, it just makes sense. I'm not going to pretend and call a girl "they" when I can clearly see what gender she is. I used to get so confused when a friend of mine would refer to her friend as "they". Genuinely, she would tell me a story and it wouldn't make sense. Because that's not how our language naturally works

[@MsJimmysgirl]

the gender ideology thing to me is just ridiculous and the fact that there are celebrities that have bought into it like Demi Lovato is scary to me....trying to say that biology isn't part of gender is just plain crazy ...the fact that Matt had to explain to Addison that being a woman goes all the way down to the bone to me is telling of the generation we live in

[@sarab2324]

Pisses me off so much when they say that if you can’t have kids or were born without the right organs, means you’re not a woman. Such a slap in the face to actual woman! My mom got her uterus removed for health reasons and also went through menopause. I guess she’s not a woman.

[@DistantKingdom]

your position is definitely the most nuanced and most reasonable and I completely agree

[@ryanawilson8549]

Blaire is literally the only person on that side that I have heard that completely 100% totally makes sense.

[@deborahdobbie]

She’s realistic. Everyone in their right mind would agree with her. Love that about her. Nice to have someone “normal” on YT

[@huxley1559]

Welcome to today's installment of "you would never have guessed who appeared in that comment section"

[@davidprince1138]

Along with Blair White, I recommend these other channels, especially the detransers Exulansic and Cluniac. Ariella Scarcella Benjamin Boyce Blair White Cluniac Julia Hartley-Brewer Kelly-Jay Keen King Critical Make More Noise Mrmenno Megan Murphy Megdalen Berns Peak Trans Rose of Dawn Sky News Australia State Media, The Triggernometry Exulansic You're Kiddin', RIght? Woman's Place UK

[@readysoldier6799]

Blaire White is not a woman. He's a man with a wig.

[@makeda6530]

I'm not trans, I am more tomboy but it took me until the last year to truly feel comfortable in my body at 27. It's crazy what's happening now. Lord have mercy. Smh

[@yankeetherebel]

It's impossible to have a useful, constructive or even just worthwhile conversation with someone if both sides can't at least agree on the fundamental truths of the matter. So it makes sense that Matt continues to press them on the definition of "woman". It's such a fundamental baseline matter of fact that it should be an easily agreed upon truth with which they could begin to have a deeper conversation. However, the activists refuse to come to terms with even the most basic of truths.

[@takedonick101]

You give this country the hope it desperately needs. Just, thank you. We are at a point where everybody is afraid to speak their opinions and stand by them. And being the minority, you stand up for yourself and your opinions like you have the power to take down a 100 bulls, and you let all the women-haters know you are a forced to he reckoned with. I have nothing but massive respect for you. Your mom must be so proud of you.

[@kylie2925]

I would be offended too if someone came up and asked me what my pronouns are... Like I didn't put makeup on, put together an adorable outfit, and paint my nails to be asked "Are you a she?"

[@GabrielleTollerson]

for real

[@AmeliaLidstrom]

I also don't wear makeup, but do my nails and dress cute :D and I am pretty sure everyone can tell I'm a she, lol

[@mmor7380]

They want to change normal human interaction for a group of humans that are less than 1% of the population, why the majority have to listen to that Less than 1% of population

[@michaelgorski569]

The one time I went to planned parenthood everyone I had to talk to asked for my pronouns. And then they didn't even say them at all lol.

[@zet7670]

Rather than ask I'll just assume "he"

[@apeyb5606]

My 6 year old son is 100% “masculine” in every sense of being a boy. He started identifying himself as being a boy/being like Daddy when he was a toddler. He doesn’t want to wear girl clothes, and has never been interested in Barbies etc. He is totally 💯 a little man in the making.. BUT… he still likes shows like Gabby’s Dollhouse (still one of his favorite- he thinks Gabby is pretty & all the animals are cute 🥰), Doc McStuffins, etc… He loves to play with his little sister’s baby dolls sometimes, and knows how to be nurturing and sweet. When his sister has pink bows on her pigtails or a pretty dress on, he’ll say “awwwwe you look so pretty/cute LayLay!” (Her nickname) He has an admiration & appreciation for feminine, pretty things- because they’re pretty and sweet! THIS IS HOW ALL MALES SHOULD BE… imho. Both sexes should have a healthy admiration & appreciation for the opposite sex. To me this is normal and healthy. But how can one have that admiration and respect for the opposite sex when all of the masculine and feminine lines are being blurred and no one knows what they even represent anymore?

[@syca5094]

This is so sweet

[@LiterallyEly]

That is so cute and sweet. I also agree with your point!

[@ronizielinski4048]

Awwwwwwwww

[@carresteigerwald3278]

"He started identifying himself as a boy like his daddy when he was a toddler".. . Hes growing up Knowing he's a boy. Don't put more into it than there is.

[@SilentInTheTrees1]

Yes! I agree!. My son is just like this!. He is masculine in so many ways, but still appreciates more feminine shows and love colors and always picks the rainbow/bright colored objects. But he still my rough and tumble little guy!!. He does have an Elsa nightgown that he will occasionally wear and twirl the sh*t out of

[@tipsy09]

To all the women out there: imagine if you had a miscarriage and your husband said to you “I guess you’re not a real woman then” How would that go down? Lol

[@bekkismith5643]

He could say what he wants,wouldn't make it true

[@switchnthink2941]

I just found this video and he is defending himself only to say his agenda to keep his channel popular because he’s in the exact same pool. Confuses hell with a penis.

[@bekkismith5643]

I don't get the point? Why would a miscarriage make you less of a woman, when only WOMEN can have miscarriages?

[@switchnthink2941]

@Advanced Driving Say that to the courthouse.

[@AM-jx3zf]

Loool

[@JacobRivera168]

The word ‘female/woman/etc.’ was socially constructed, however, it was made to describe a being with ‘specific traits’. We could have called woman (Winwu) and Men (Menmu) and there would still be a clear biological differences between Winwu and Menmu. so the word in gender still follows the biological sex, because it’s used to describe it. And by saying woman can mean being anything, they are detaching its meaning and now it has none.

[@MonkeInTheJungle]

I already saw this, needless to say that Matt absolutely smashed them even if he had literally everyone against him

[@MonkeInTheJungle]

@today was a good day wtf

[@kimmiewise1044]

@today was a good day I don’t think this channel is the place to bring Islam buddy. Blaire is trans lol

[@lizthedisjointedzebra692]

And hell, he was SO RESPECTFUL, too! But apparently merely respectfully disagreeing with them traumatizes them🙄

[@m.j.2939]

Two guys demeaning women, what's new.

[@MonkeInTheJungle]

@@m.j.2939 That's the problem, society normalizes this crap

[@KristiLEvans1]

I was a tomboy. Big time. [Well, and I still am. I was made fun of, all the time, as a teen.]. Thank GOD I wasn’t born in the modern era. I can’t imagine the outcome if I’d been conditioned into transgenderism. I’m a straight female, just more masculine than most. I wish people didn’t HAVE to cram themselves and others into pigeonholes.

[@lightsalt8530]

Right! I always liked "boy stuff" and still do but I never once thought I was a boy. Thank God I grew up in the 80's when parents had balls and brains

[@KristiLEvans1]

@@lightsalt8530 hahaha! Well said! I have balls, as a mom - for sure. But the brainwashing in schools is really insidious.

[@KristiLEvans1]

@@happydaze7386 WELL SAID, Canada! Rock ON! Btw, we are rooting for you guys, in the States. We’re so done here, but are hoping you guys can carry the torch and regain your freedoms of speech and movement.

[@lightsalt8530]

@@KristiLEvans1 right! I played with all kinds of toys and it wasn't a big deal. My parents weren't like oh no she likes hot wheels, she must really be a boy, let's start transitioning her right away! Absolutely insane.

[@CourtneyAndBooks]

Same. I was such a tom boy,. I got mistaken for a boy before i grew boobs even. My parents LET me explore without forcing any social changes on me. Today, i am a woman who is completely COMFORTABLE with my sexuality even if i am not the most feminine. And that's because my parents raised me like a KID. Not this gender or that gender.

[@genebaker511]

Despite the "non-binary couple" had the whole audience applauded for them and yet they were traumatized over one who doesn't appease to their worldview sensibility goes to show how they're emotionally fragile.

[@recitationtohear]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6qpmaajf5qqsMU Fax yep.

[@gothicpando]

no one will ever love you

[@kimmiewise1044]

@@gothicpando Lol what?

[@mmor7380]

Non- binary doesn't exist

[@zet7670]

@@kimmiewise1044 he repeated in front of the mirror, it's okay pando chin up

[@juliemcneeley8491]

I love how straight forward and honest you are. Everything has honesty and nothing is emotion based. So refreshing to not feel like I'm going crazy and that all of this bring crammed down our throats isn't majority

[@PatricenotPatrick]

Phil was like “I secretly agree but I’m gonna be quiet 👀 “ Mans from Texas like me, even us LGBT folk give this the side eye 😂

[@juliannarathmell]

I think he does a pretty decent job at not letting his opinion be known.. i have tried to guess what his opinions are and he contradicts them a lot. I will be leaning one way in thinking he believes this then he says something else and it all falls apart lol

[@Lola_Nico]

Bahah I love your username and profile pic.👍🤣💖

[@gamerk1625]

I think most of the world secretly agrees

[@PatricenotPatrick]

@@Lola_Nico thanks boo 👛 just keeping these chum bucket gorls in line.

[@Zumcho]

Oh for sure he agreed! It's why there's so few reaction shots of him probably nodding when Matt was talking.

[@JCatl3y]

It is amazing that we’re really at the point where we’re asking the question “what is a woman?”. We might as well ask what is a car? What is a table? What is a cat? This is why aliens won’t visit.

[@moosedraw3731]

This is why aliens won’t visit! I’m deceased!!

[@mjtopping4179]

No one ever seems to debate "what is a man?" in the same sense they debate what a women is.

[@kimmiewise1044]

@@mjtopping4179 Oh yeah they did. Feminism did it in the 70’s and 80’s. There was a huge push for women to replace men in the masculine jobs to the point where physical requirements for Police and firefighting is dramatically lowered for females to pad out the numbers because “It’s doesn’t matter if it’s a woman! Men and women are the same! So let women have these jobs!” Feminists made the argument decades ago trying to achieve equality by ignoring biological facts to suit their narrative. That narrative is now coming back to bite them in the ass. If men and women are functionally the same then a man should be able to enter womens spaces, take womens awards and control womens rights. Just like women entered mens spaces, took awards that should have gone to men and controlled mens rights. Because hey! Equality, right? It’s a shit show that started a long time ago and it’s coming full circle.

[@megangwilliam5343]

Listen, go deep enough into philosophy and those are the questions, where the best answer is that none of that is real because it doesn’t exist because we don’t exist. My apologies I’m procrastinating a philosophy paper and this wasn’t the video to watch while procrastinating

[@kat050107]

And we find ourselves having to ask these questions, because there are so many on the left who are literally attempting to redefine everything in existence. They want us to believe that the sun is freezing cold. Its such a deranged way of thinking.

[@ap2962]

I’m a 6’1 female and my entire life people have called ‘sir’ and such and it bothered me as a kid (I was 6’ in sixth grade) but as an adult it doesn’t bother me at all. It’s no big thing, it doesn’t define my life or my experience as a tall woman. Thank you so much for your amazing videos💛🙏💛. You are so centered and honest and truly beautiful inside and out

[@abhishekdev258]

Brienne of Tarth?

[@briannemarie9214]

I'm 5'1 and I'm jealous of joooo lol I wish I was tall

[@amyamy2673]

Were you born a female ?

[@ap2962]

@@amyamy2673 yes

[@ap2962]

@@briannemarie9214 Aw, thank you- being tall has its perks but sometimes finding pants can be a pain😅

[@anthonykelly7248]

I'm 46. So why can't I buy a house in a 55 plus community, by saying I identify as 76?

[@dariancheesebrew2461]

I love that Blair makes people feel comfortable about the LGBTQ+ community. So many people are scared to talk about their opinions on these matters because the fear of hurting or offending someone is so genuine. Most of us aren't against anyone's God given right to be whoever they want to be but our ideals are based in logic and that goes against so much of what makes these communities happy. So to me this is always a safe space for people who take in the science of our bodies and also the science of our mentality.

[@asthecrowflies737]

Blaire is a no-nonsense person who will tell the truth instead of trying to shape "reality" into something it isn't - this kind of blatant honesty is severely lacking in the trans community.

[@alinethomas155]

@@asthecrowflies737 he's not telling the truth! He's a man! No such thing as trans!

[@Emily-jy4wv]

I sometimes feel deep gender dysphoria. I’ve also realized a big part of that is a mix of masculine interests and past trauma that makes me feel less feminine/in danger due to being feminine. The trauma isn’t going to be lessened by transitioning, it’s only going to be dealt with through therapy. I wish people didn’t automatically jump to a transgender diagnose, it can be so harmful to just ignore any other issues. Blaire helps so much with dealing with these kind of issues. She’s realistic and nuanced way past what people seem to think and I wish more people gave her the credit she deserves.

[@mikaylalocklear1919]

Thank you for sharing this! I'm sorry it must be painful to think about, but this was a very insightful perspective.

[@Laura-Yu]

Good point. I feel that for female humans (women), a lot of them may try to behave/appear masculine as a defense mechanism or an insecurity thing (and I’m differentiating those who just happen to be “masculine” just by their personality or interests, aka they’re being themselves). And I’m mentioning insecurity because I’m thinking that I belonged in that group when I was in high school. I have trichotillomania and I felt that I would look weird dressing “girlier” because I was stuck on certain hair styles that covered my patches. Now I happen to lean more on the “girlier” side but I enjoy “masculine” things because I just do, not because I feel that I need to appear a certain way. Nowadays these kind of women think this is some new gender of “non-binary” when in reality, she equates being a woman is to be feminine (as there is no such thing as “no gender” in human species, a “non-binary” is on the same level as identifying as some made-up species).

[@Neo_Geisha]

Agreed. I can relate to your post.

[@nonyab5640]

I hate bras, can’t wear tight clothes, dresses or women’s shoes, no thongs, don’t know how to do my hair, I hate shopping, I don’t dress like a man though, I can’t decorate. I like nature, exploring, other “gender-neutral” activities, don’t like sports, not into “hanging with the guys”, would rather hang with the girls, I have had boyfriends only and in a ltr, I love children. I very much love submitting to a man. I could probably be with a woman but wouldn’t want a relationship with her, so I don’t need to have that in my life or label myself anything. If I really wanted to I could identify as bi but since I’ve never been with (except that 1 time) nor ever will be with a woman, why would I? I’m just a tomboy and I’m ok with me. I have been mistaken for a guy from afar, with my head covered, I was not the least bit taken aback. It’s like yeah well you would considering.

[@DgamerDN]

I'm heavily agreeing with Matt Walsh's views, but I extremely respect you. You're absolutely reasonable and self aware. Like, no one would really have problem with trans community if they acted more like you. Like you understand the truth. No one cares what you do with your life or believe in as long as you understand the basic things and not try to stand out or put someone else down. Like, I don't have a problem calling you a woman. You aren't one but I don't mind calling you she/her. Cus why not lol. You look like a woman. But I know you are not and you know you are not. That's just simply how things should work. You're probably aware that it's not good for trans people to compete in their choosed gender's sport and since you'd respect and understand that, I respect and understand you too. I wish you all the best and I hope you're happy with your life.

[@kayleigh3648]

I 100% feel the same way!! I love when Matt said “I go by handsome and brilliant so you HAVE to start referring to me as those things”. Lmfao🤣🤣🤣 I totally respect Blair as well, cuz she’s not trying to create new woke terms just for attention or confuse anyone, she’s just trying to blend in with society and look the way that makes her feel her best. So how could we possibly judge, right?

[@calliakim2042]

Agree!! I wish more trans ppl were more like her

[@beckyh5975]

She is a trans woman though...she identifies as a woman!

[@maplemartin7487]

Well she knows deep down she is not a women but she also it’s shoving things down our throats and answers respectfully so I respect her

[@timothysteadham331]

I agree with what you say exccccceeeppptttt….try to find a different word to use than “like.” I mean, like every other … you know like word is like well, it’s like so redundant that it’s like “like.” Like. Thanks.

[@Azo_Dante]

I feel like all this got so far because people don't understand the fact that human as a biological being is an animal no matter how clever human is. So that's why you can't separate biology and your mind. The fact that your childhood can affect on your actions in future is one of the ways of saying that physics and mind are not separated things, because this says that smth out of your mind (environment around you as a child) can affect your mind and you won't be able to completely erase it

[@coboarasus]

I swear, you are a gold mine for the trans community. Kudos for being so open minded and smart about this topic.

[@akaJAMILA]

I'm a complete success story for being a transwoman and transexual and this ideology blows my mind... these people can't even accept what they are and want people to accept them.. the delusion never ends.

[@flatpepsi]

I'm really glad folks like you and Blaire are out there.

[@Draco19970125]

Success story? Really. Which surgery changed your sex chromosomes/organs into your desired sex's?

[@stevenjohnsonrobles]

You got Instagram lol

[@akaJAMILA]

@@stevenjohnsonrobles I do but I don't like to be out there like Blaire tbh Blaire is pretty rare having gender dysphoria and being a public figure most people like myself with GD prefer little to no attention

[@amymjennings]

Yeah I am a post op 20 year since bottom surgery and the rest. I NEVER thought I'd see this sorry of thing and find it repulsive. I am just a woman. Acceptance is within and no one clocked me during transition, I always "passed". Yuck people are getting far more time than deserved. Eeew. 😅

[@nunyabusinessbro8527]

“Just because you were born a woman, doesn’t mean you automatically want to vacuum. Which is usually a feminine activity.” This is absolutely dumbfounding. As a feminist, why is she solidifying sexist stereotypes such as "women should vacuum" by saying that THAT example of what gender is should be supported as expression? She's a feminist professor, but just set feminism back 100 years.

[@andreil1313]

It seems to me like these activists are the both sexist and homophobic. They go on on stereotypes, that’s it.

[@안광]

What argument is this? Vacuuming is arguable a feminine trait because the idea of masculine and feminine are both social constructs based on stereotypes. Just like wearing make up, painting nails, wearing dresses, taking care of children are all feminine traits. You’re trying to pull points out of nothing. We all know the idea of masc and fem are stereotypes. Get on the same page.

[@Blueeyedconcubine]

Me as a woman has never wanted to just vacume, lol. I laughed when she said that.

[@coolcatzclub]

She's a communications professor at that. Couldn't even find a professional in the field of what they're trying to "educate" us on.

[@gnomebody2371]

It’s beyond obvious what the professor was saying. She was sayings it’s expected of women to typical be homemakers.

[@nohandle00000]

I'm from Europe. We don't have discussions like you've got in the US. It's shocking to us! I'm so glad I found you. You're the voice of reason to your country. Keep doing what you're doing because crazy really reached and crossed the line of reason and logic in the US. ❤

[@ouranos0101]

A sane member of the LGBT. I was losing hope in our people. Thank you Blaire!

[@russellmania5349]

I don't think the LGBT community likes Blaire White very much.

[@noahsaldivar3271]

@@russellmania5349 lol their lost

[@pskima4274]

I'm a transwoman and I don't wana associate with any of other LGTBQ group. I'm like just leave me alone

[@Disabled-adventures]

@@russellmania5349 thats because 95% need to see a therapist, not a surgeon to remove healthy body parts.

[@Kiki-ns4cc]

​@@Disabled-adventures preach 🙌

[@julia_biss]

“I did not transition for people to ask me what I want to be called.” PREECH. I’m a trans guy and although I’m glad people are respectful for asking what my pronouns are, it feels so shitty. I’m not going around binding my chest and watching every single movement I make to blend in as a dude just so someone can ask “what are your pronouns?”

[@ThatGothLorelei]

I feel like being asked what my pronouns are is degrading. Like… am I not obviously a woman? I’ve been called sir before even with a full face of makeup, and it hurt my feelings. But I’m a biological woman, and it completely disgraced my femininity. I cannot imagine what it’s like for actual trans people.

[@greenwayjanus2588]

There are people who might go by they/them pronouns...I usually get confused by this.

[@Draco19970125]

No, he transitioned because he wants from people to believe he is a woman. When he isn't one and mimicing it, reducing to a custom is insulting.

[@msfs19941]

I'm a biological woman and if someone asked my pronouns I'd just leave the conversation

[@str3ak.lmrdidisjje733]

@@Draco19970125 oh my god MOVE, blaire literally agrees with people like you and you still refuse to see her as valid and be respectful, trans people will never be good enough for people like you, get a grip and find something that benefits your time

[@MisanthropikOne]

This should've been the Dr. Phil episode that Blaire should've been on. Of course bringing the reason and logic!!!

[@bigcityphotobooths3311]

Yes. It would have been better to have a different opinion from a trans person.

[@armanfrold2559]

Would have been crazy to watch Blaire and Matt talk.

[@ritainez10]

@@armanfrold2559 or include Blaire on this episode. Girlfriend would bring the 🔥

[@taay333]

I know right??

[@midsummersnight3848]

I completely agree. She would have added such a much needed perspective.

[@JohnSmith-jc9ph]

Your GENder is directly connected to your GENetalia... imagine that!

[@tessafreyer6948]

When I was in middle school, I thought I might be transgender. I had never played with barbies (which my mother thought was weird). I was a bigger than than the girls I was friends with, which made me think I was suppose to be a man (looking back I was well within normal weight). Lastly, I didn't have the same sex drive as my friends. Yet, here I am very much a women... DON"T TRUST WHAT CHILDREN SAY

[@BinaBinaBee]

Right there can be a lot of confusion at that age. I think it stems from rigid gender roles. You know thinking ALL women need to be dainty or ultra feminine

[@ponygirl6258]

@@patrickm2006 I think what she is saying is that children shouldn't be making potentially life-altering decisions, given their limited understanding of themselves and the world. Fairly reasonable, I think. Parents don't generally let young kids decide what to eat for dinner, what time to go to bed, or whether or not they will go to school. Why is it assumed that children are capable of knowing what gender they are when they can't even be trusted to brush their teeth before they go to bed?

[@oneANGRYelf]

@@patrickm2006 that’s exactly what she’s saying. If her parents gave her hormone blockers and did any type of irreversible actions, she would have been messed up both mentally and physically. Children, albeit some smart, still do not have fully developed brains nor enough life/social experiences.

[@THEFRITZ23]

@@patrickm2006 Please do not explain this to people again, not only are you 100% wrong, but want to treat the people defending children from life altering decisions as bad guys. Hormone blockers do cause irreversible change, one being your height another being muscle development, so that’s one lie. Second lie is pretending that therapy or w/e can help children figure out what they want to be 10, 20, 50 years into the future, they generally change their minds every hour on what profession they want to pursue, their favorite colour, their favorite super hero etc etc, ignoring that is silly and quite frankly negligent parenting. Stop calling people Transphobic because 99.999% of people in this world can recognize a basic truth. Good day.

[@Beowulf002]

I’m trans and I am the exact opposite. When I found out what trans was I made it my agenda to not end up trans based on the imagery I had seen. I always thought that I would just grow out of my tomboy ways when I hit puberty but instead I was met with dysphoria and even tried to treat it by looking like a girl. My girl friend would try to get me to like boys with her, it felt weird because they called me by my last name based on how I interacted with them. Looking back I behaved how I should have behaved around boys the way I did with girls. Went into HS homophobic came out with 4 girls with a crush on me me freshman year 😂 went back to closeted when i moved tho point is you’re correct. Don’t trust what children say, let them grow up and figure it out. Just don’t let them get indoctrinated like how I indoctrinated myself. Most people will figure it out and realize it’s not a big deal, well not until it affects womens sports.