The Truth About Gender Wars in Islam | Khutbah by Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

[@Kveldred]

Hey, don't worry about the canceling and all. I work in the West Texas oilfield, in the deepest red part of a red red state; I'm not sure we have any Muslims within two hundred miles... ...but I played this video for the boys at lunch, and they said: "Well kiss my grits, this Moslem feller makes a lotta sense!" 😂 This is the second YQ video I've played for my team & I swear, it's changing their minds about Islam just like it's slowly but surely been changing mine! Keep it up, mi hermano 👊

[@talharizvi4075]

that's great - wonderful to hear...islam really speaks to those who still have a lot of their core fitrah (natural disposition) intact and not corrupted

[@Kveldred]

​​​@@talharizvi4075 I'll be honest, I expected a bunch of "booo!" and "shut it off!", etc.-and there *was* a little of that at the start-but Dr. Qadhi is pretty blunt & clear, really easy to listen to, and we appreciate that 'round here... ...so gradually everyone ended up just eating & listening, and by the end when I left to go back to the office, I could hear them seriously discussing it behind me, haha. The general sentiment seemed to be "maybe these 'Islam people' are NOT our enemies? that guy sounded like he has his head on straight & values the same things we do..." (+ I also heard lot of comparison to what the media tells us about these same issues.) Last time, I had brought up the fact that-as I have learned from these videos!-Muslims DO NOT hate Christians, and in fact greatly respect Iesa/Jesus as one of the foremost among all of God's messengers. None of us had had any idea about this... we'd always heard the exact opposite! Combined with our nation's incomprehensible support for a faction that is actively attempting to genocide a Muslim populace in you-know-where (& which, by contrast, has *_0_* respect for Christians)... well, me and the boys have been seriously questioning a lot of stuff we used to believe. ...y'know, there's actually a mosque about 90 miles from here in a bigger city... I've been trying to convince some of them to go with me just to check it out, heh... 😅

[@talharizvi4075]

@@Kveldred awesome man - much respect! may Allah swt grant you success on your journey

[@talharizvi4075]

@@Kveldred and trust me - Muslims are super inviting when they know you are coming sincerely to learn - i host a monthly lunch at my place for new converts in our area just for them to come and chill and break bread together...you won't regret the trip out there if you go - maybe give them a heads up so they can properly host you

[@alinamalik5482]

FİNALLYYY someone said it openly. I had been searching for this from a credible source but there was nothing. Alhamdulillah for this

[@aishajalloh367]

Finally indeed It’s about time we get credible voices in this topic The internet is flooded with either feminist or red pill etc

[@Styrophoamicus]

MashaAllah i appreciate that Sh YQ always stresses how important it is to understand Islam in the context of the land you live in

[@Hayaatul_qalbii]

Alhamdulillah watching from Uganda 🇺🇬... much love for our sheikh

[@leillahluttakome4340]

Kajambo, MashaAllah

[@Hayaatul_qalbii]

Kajambo Leillah...

[@daham488]

Olyotya Ssebo.

[@muhammadisaac07]

😊😊

[@ummibraheem9142]

بارك الله في الشيخ الدكتور ياسر قاضي دائماً مع الحق. ما يخاف إلا الله سبحانه

[@madiansanoh9534]

My love for this shaykh is growing stronger because of his incredible influence

[@muhammadisaac07]

We seek Allah's help

[@fatimamuhammad156]

Surprisingly a really clear concise discussion- much needed

[@talharizvi4075]

absolutely - well-balanced and hit so many major points...if we could get wide adoption on the points he has made (both by brothers and sisters) - probably would solve 75% of the issues we are currently seeing in the marriage/divorce arena

[@jcolestan]

The greatest form of “Istighfar” that was taught by our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAWS). If you wish to seek forgiveness from Allah with the best words: Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta, Khalaqtani wa ana `Abduka, wa ana `ala `ahdika wa wa`dika mastata`tu, A`udhu bika min Sharri ma sana`tu, abu’u Laka bini`matika `alaiya, wa abu’u laka bidhanbi faghfir lee fa innahu la yaghfiru adhdhunuba illa anta. اللّٰهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي، لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِيْ وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَىَّ وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِيْ، فَاغْفِرْ لِيْ، فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوْبَ إِلَّاأَنْتَ۔ The Prophet (ﷺ) added. “If somebody recites it during the day with firm faith in it, and dies on the same day before the evening, he will be from the people of Paradise; and if somebody recites it at night with firm faith in it, and dies before the morning, he will be from the people of Paradise.”

[@aleemazeez263]

I simply love this Ustadh, barakallahufii sir

[@muhammadisaac07]

😊😊😊

[@islamicvideoonline1486]

★Inspirational speech regarding maintaining family, conjugal life as well as societal facts is really awesome. May Allah bless you Shaikh ❤❤ from Bangladesh 🙂

[@nanaisha6019]

I look forward to the remaining series of this lecture. I am listening to this lecture with an open mind

[@peacenow6618]

May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!

[@arafatkalera467]

Alhamdulillah from 🇺🇬 Uganda

[@farahberdai3010]

JazakaAllahu kheiran for this great lecture about a very important topic. Yes, subhanaallah it is a crazy time. If only everyone would get in touch with themselves and try to be a good spouse. The genders have forgotten how to communicate, understand and approach each other. How can we be be a well-coordinated team that is supposed to raise a righteous Ummah while fighting and blaming each other for this crisis? Allah created man and woman to complement each other and find peace and tranquility with each other. May Allah help us to be a good and fairly life partner🤲

[@OnePathNet]

May Allah guide us towards the right path

[@misstornton3848]

Watching from Moscow, Russia. Thank you❤

[@Nafshadow]

الحمد لله دائما و أبدا 😊🤲🏽 Al-Hamde li-Allah Forever

[@peacenow6618]

جزاک اللہ خیرا

[@aydhinking1897]

Love you so much sir❤❤

[@alaa-xw1jz]

جزاك الله خيرا

[@Khalidatpeace]

If Nabi SAWS was here today, which sisters would want to marry him? Which brothers would want to be like him? May Allah SWT guide us all in these times.

[@Lailat854]

By the way, I love listning to you!! God bless you

[@candicecole19]

The parable of those who take protectors other than Allah (swt) is like a spider building a house; the weakest of houses is the spider's. If only they knew. (Quran 29:41) 🤍

[@AbdulKader-en5be]

I'm watching from Bangladesh ❤

[@VictoryNear]

Alhamdulillah

[@merimabeganovic4660]

We need more khutbas about this topic. Thank you

[@M3ITASNUVA]

Al-Hamdulillah Allahuakbar 🇧🇩🇵🇸 Ikram

[@muhammadisaac07]

From Khulna 🇧🇩

[@M3ITASNUVA]

@@muhammadisaac07 al-hamdulillah Allahuakbar

[@AKASHBOBS-kb2rq]

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[@fc849]

Palestine 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 Palestine 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 free the world from israhell

[@relaxwithadam4657]

I love ❤️ this guy may Allah protect him I would like to visit Taxes just to meet him.

[@jabeenshah7627]

Me too

[@TinaAli-v1s]

Agreed with 6618 indeed 👍 jzk jzk kairn alhamdulillah 🙏

[@Kamal_AL-Hinai]

Based lecture shaikh. They can't cancel biology.

[@yusufmaulgue8381]

How profound!..shukran for this Ghudbah that nobody wants to address ...

[@Rose-jo1om]

السلام علیکم مفتی صاحب اپ سے درخواست ہے کہ اپنے۔جمعہ کے خطبات face book پر بھی اپلوڈ کیا کریں۔

[@ConsumerCommand]

Salaam Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi, is there going to be a continuation of the Stories of the Prophets series?

[@yusufmaulgue8381]

About our Noble Nabi Muhammad,(saw) he cooked and served on his family ..i took that on in my family because my wife was the breadwinner..but what i noticed..especially with muslims ..that when a some woman has monetary power...she tends to take on masculine tendancies..not all of them ..just an observation of the younger generation..

[@mohammadsahalshahid9141]

When did he cook. Be careful of fabricating against the prophet.

[@yusufmaulgue8381]

@@mohammadsahalshahid9141 i heard that in a gutbah from a very knowledgeable Sheikh.. Our Nabi Muhammad (saw)was the best human being that ever lived ..so i would belive that he would do such a thing ..maybe not all the time but he did ..

[@mohammadsahalshahid9141]

@@yusufmaulgue8381 who said that to be the best human being you have to cook. With all dure respect, don't put you're criteria for how a good husband should be on the prophet.

[@tolmnn]

@@mohammadsahalshahid9141one should know how to cook if they want to survive no? Married or not.

[@DeeTofa]

Please stop spreading fabricated hadiths about Prophet Muhammad (saw). You don't even give the citation from which hadith you supposedly got this from.

[@banirahman4926]

It depends on how you define “feminism.” “Feminism” means the rights women should have as a human. Allover the world it’s the women who are mostly under-trodden.

[@mohammadsahalshahid9141]

First-wave feminism was largely acceptable, but the current wave conflicts with many principles of Islam. Before discussing feminism, it's important to understand its origins and the negative impacts it can have. Many people speak about feminism without fully comprehending its history or purpose, often because they’ve been taught or influenced by their schools or communities without realizing it.

[@ak_athariyyah]

Brother and sister need to understand they should not be clashing with each other due to Western secular gender wars (feminism vs red pill). We are supposed to be role models for all of mankind due to always being upon the middle path not going to extremism or negligence. So in this regard we should adopt the language and behaviour of those non-Muslim intellectuals and lay-people between harsh traditional conservative masculinity/femininity and abandoning all traits of traditional conservative masculinity/femininity. We must be balanced. This happens by copying the masculinity and femininity of the righteous male and female figures in the Quran and Sunnah not figures pushed by Western popular culture on social media and TV. We are Muslims so we should not be clashing between brothers andd sisters regarding gender. However we must understand we are a team not two different sides against each other but one team needed to complement the other and cover the others physical, emotional and spiritual floors. By doing so we will join together in covering the other genders faults with what is best in the opposite gender to become a real team in action and words.

[@muhammadisaac07]

Allah please help me😊😊😊

[@janedore1984]

Is wanting equality in the workplace halal ......I believe this is ...correct me if I'm wrong

[@banirahman4926]

Education and career should be important for men and women both. What if the husband divorces her or she becomes a widow. It’s very risky for women to sacrifice their career. I stayed home to raise my children. But I encourage my daughter to have a career because I think it’s really risky not to do so. One of my cousins got divorced two years ago. Her ex husband divorced her and married another woman. Fortunately my cousin has a job. So she is surviving. What would have happened if she didn’t have a job!

[@Sytree]

Nobody said the wife has to be broke and illiterate . Straw-man argument

[@Sytree]

Nobody said that the wife has to be broke or illiterate.. you make a straw-man argument

[@banirahman4926]

@@Sytree He said that the priority should be raising children. I think both should be priority because a woman needs to be financially independent not only for herself but also for her kids.

[@Sytree]

@@banirahman4926 by definition one of those has to take priority over the other . Children or career . Many women are choosing careers

[@banirahman4926]

@@Sytree Women who are working are doing both. They are pursuing their career while raising their kids. It’s possible.

[@timaaa50]

This is an interesting topic. There is a lot being left out of this conversation.

[@sr8710]

Yes but as he said in the beginning, this is the first of the series of khutbas on this topic. So more is coming.

[@YEAGERlST]

If you read this; Say "SubhanAllah" 33x Say "Alhamdulillah" 33x Say "Allahu akbar" 34x May Allah reward you.

[@Wazlonestar]

May Allah reward you for address the problems in our society. Feminism is truly the enemy of men. As a Muslim man it’s difficult to find a woman who wants to marry for love. It’s all about money green card and citizenship. It’s not easy to marry someone knowing they can take everything from you and leave you broke. It has happened to many men out there. I know marriage is half my deen but Getting married in America today is a risky business.

[@SamirKuraishi-vw2xe]

That's why it is better to find a country where the law is on your side as a man and create a family there and only work abroad. So that in case of divorce you will still have your wealth and children by your side and dispose of the possibility of being rubbed.

[@shimmer4771]

​@@SamirKuraishi-vw2xeif you think all Muslim women in the West are this way, that's sad.

[@SamirKuraishi-vw2xe]

@@shimmer4771 Brother I am a little bit more than 1 year in the West. I have no idea about how the western women are but based this uncalming noise and the terrible results of divorces for men I am freaking terrified of what is going on. I mean I am the guy a year ago escaped the expecting death of mine. Not only that but the following years I am going to suffer to make myself, my parents and my siblings independent from governmental benefits. Then I will have to struggle even more to make some business and get money for Mahr. And I am terrified that after all of what will happen some woman will come and just destroy everything, take the half and worse than anything take the children away. In this situation I can't help but to think that there is only way to100% prepare for the war. It is a shame that these kinds of things are happening. I mean I get it that that Allah is the owner of the Rizq but to lose things in such way is freaking humiliating.

[@freepalestine1569]

I normally agree with yasir qadhi and I know he doesn’t mean bad but this idea that having a career means a woman isn’t feminine is not true - a woman can be jobless with no career and still be masculine. It’s about character at the end of the day not your job or your age it’s qadr of Allah. Both genders should work on character and being compassionate and caring whilst on their journey getting closer to Allah 🤍

[@deedeee6271]

Going to work makes you a guy...lol

[@deedeee6271]

For one reason or another, some women are not wives and/or mothers. They are not less than female or feminine or human/Muslim either. Talk like that is incredibly problematic.

[@ghufranahmed5383]

I don't recall him saying that though 🤔

[@BlacFireSan]

I do not promote this sheikh due to his deviant views, however this video was spot, on this video was excellent. This video was 10 out of 10.

[@i.faizanhabib96]

deviant views for example?

[@bringman23]

Can you give an example. BTW the way, many scholars across the Islamic history have been cancelled in their time. The most notable one of them is the GREATEST mohadeth of all time, Al Bukhari. To understand shaikh Qadhi, you either have to be Shaikh Qadhi or live 50 years from now. He's one of the very few scholars, in our life time that discusses topics with relevance to the outside world and actually provide solutions.

[@saif9861]

I don’t think that anyone asked u to promote the Shaykh Yasir, come out from your bubble nd see the reality, brother 🫡

[@Kamal_AL-Hinai]

Strong and independent is the problem. Unless she NEEDS you she won't respect you.

[@Rifatbinmaruf]

😂😂😂

[@A1K300]

He said avoid slogans and you jumped right to it

[@Kamal_AL-Hinai]

You can't avoid slogans. You'd have to be delusional

[@fc849]

And vice versa brother. It's not one way

[@fc849]

Let me guess @Kamal you are single and can't get married

[@FatimaAli-u5e]

How are you doing today 😂😭

[@husse0512]

Alxamdulilaah every day

[@JOYRIDEUS]

"well qualified" then mentions PhDs and masters etc. Brother you do realize even if they can work and make money as men we can't depend on that instead we have to be providers for them so the points of qualifications you mentioned don't matter to us men, especially if we are Muslim men. I don't want a woman with a degree or who works I want one that can teach about Allah and be nurturing. Her having a degree or good job is going to take her out of that nature, which Islam thrives in

[@Kamal_AL-Hinai]

If your woman is working in a mixed environment, you aren't worth spiht

[@fc849]

I think you have issues. It goes both ways, not one way. Stop asking for validation. Have some self esteem

[@Kamal_AL-Hinai]

Cope

[@deedeee6271]

@@fc849 Goes both ways. Working with Jennifer and Susan and having your long coffee breaks with them is a red flag as well. We look forward for faithful men, not men that don't walk the talk.

[@s2syed]

Wayy too neutral in this topic still