The Truth About The Men With Multiple Women!

[@singuensful]

Im from Africa where polygamy is accepted. It’s a recipe for disaster. Women spend their lives being in competition with each others, children are sneaky and hypocrites and want to have the father’s love more than the other woman children. Lots of women killed their rivals children out of jealousy. Western women aren’t built for polygyny trust me it’s a social construction. Some of these men publicly talk about it I’m like bless your hearts. You are setting yourself up for failure going that route. Especially when they are poor or average earners. They aren’t ready.

[@ARS-fn6px]

Great comment. Thank you for contributing to the conversation

[@ZARA-to9fp]

Men love this kind of concept because it’s bringing them a lot of attention. Competition in the marriage is making sure women are taking care of all their needs.

[@singuensful]

@@ZARA-to9fp they take care of their needs especially if they’re rich…but they sabotage their legacy.

[@ZARA-to9fp]

@@singuensful I know. If you look at the, for example, Ottoman Empire, women there and even sons, have killed other kids so that only their lineage is the one in power. Men forget that if they sign a contract with multiple women, the women aren’t doing that so they do not feel the way men are. In fact, women are very territorial when it comes to their kids and lineage because every woman wants their kids to be most successful. My grandfather once said, the families of the women who are second, third, fourth wives are extremely weak for giving their daughter into these positions. They will always be second ones. I have zero sympathy for these men who have the need to take multiple women.

[@kitejohnson515]

Why would these wmen enter polygyny with an average man ? I would do it with a high earner

[@millicentstollenwerck5239]

I've been left behind, picked on, got made fun of, counted out, and was bullied in school; that used to affect how I see myself, but when I see myself how God see me. I know I am loved and valued. That's how all women should carry themselves.

[@confidentalways7526]

💯 That's what matters.

[@Anonymous-cl2es]

Been there too! I have to remind myself constantly that God loves me and sees me as beautiful 😍

[@pamwatkins4855]

Amen remember my father's love and what this just isn't!

[@fairness2all]

THAT'S WHY I DON'T DATE ANYMORE AFTER I ALMOST GOT KILLED BY AN GHANAIAN MAN, HE WAS USING AND ABUSING ME... GOD IS MY HAPPINESS 😊 💯

[@mentalprograming5365]

your bugging.. only good women with good souls should carry themself that way.. stop this all women are great shit.. its not real its wild childish.. the women that molest kids are not as great as you probly think they are, the ones that kill kids and abandon kids are trash too, the ones that set up men and destroy them for good arent either, the ones that literally worship satan and have luciferian bibles in their homes arent your buddies either and should all be ashamed of themselves.. yall let the internet make yall think you can just speak for everyone and keep making insane general statements.. it shows a lack of real life experience...do you live in a bubble or the real world.. cause in the real world nobody is as who they seem..not even your own family members .. you still got some work to do when it comes to your perception on other men and women.. nobody falls into a group because of your personal experiences or some fake statistics that promote an agenda.. think first before you react, reply, disagree or agree with anything.. that emotional garbage is the ruin of this world.. intellect comes first

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

I remember when a ex partner kept trying to push non-monogamy on me after he wanted to be monogamous with me. I said cool. He was surprised why I was so nonchalant with it, I said what do you mean? You do your thing and I do mine, we still come back to each other at the end of the day right? Dude lost his shit and said absolutely not. He never brought it up, and when he did, he said “I’m not going to do it because I don’t want you to do it” lol he wanted a one-sided open relationship.

[@elsssiev]

🙄🙄 the audacity

[@IamThee1111]

Flag on the play 🚩🫠

[@BashaerB-h2c]

😂😂😂

[@gmarie3082]

You called his bluff…nice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@sandradavis4101]

CHECKMATE!!!!!!!!! STAY BEING THE QUEEN 👸

[@candidbutsweet9613]

What you said that resonated with me the most is: You were not looking for a wife, you were looking for someone to sleep with and you had the insight to know that you found a wife. Most men are so hell bent on having short term flings that they overlook a woman that is wife material.. Most good women that feel like they are wife material don't date a lot because experience shows that a lot of men don't value a woman that possess wife qualities and refuse to keep getting treated like trash when we know we are not..

[@n.Lenice]

I agree

[@freemindds355]

🎯

[@taramay8174]

Facts

[@shondah.2195]

@candidbutsweet9613 Great analysis and 💯 on point.

[@candidbutsweet9613]

@@shondah.2195 Thank You.

[@IndigoCosmic]

The fact that most of these men can't even fully provide for themselves, let alone provide and support two different women and their children yet still think they could encourage these types of relationships is offensive. I know several women who were NOT even legally married, but had children with and in relationships with men who wanted multiple other women and literally every single one of those women still ended up single! I had an ex who cheated then tried to convince me to get into a polyamorous relationship with him and his side chick and she was completely down with it because she was an idiot who was obsessed. Needless to say I ended it with him and months later she got pregnant and he came emailing me trying to get back with me saying he never loved her and not really trying to have a child with her, all this b.s. I told him to go ahead and marry her and be a man for once and please keep me out of it also not to contact me again.

[@triplebcoco7087]

You said a mouth full 💯

[@IndigoCosmic]

@triplebcoco7087 😆 Yes, for sure.

[@Dachozan1]

That Part!!!!!!

[@missfefeloves]

Women in polygamy usually provide and fend for themselves. Theres literally no gain in polygamy for a woman. It's just men using mind control on you and causing you to be confused

[@weirdmariobros_]

My question would be.... Why would these woman lay down with these men.... Just saying

[@ruthwells3990]

When someone is not happy with themselves they tend to be insecure and insecurity will try to “mask” as confidence by having multiples. Some men buy a bigger truck flash their money or brag on their accomplishments trying to “mask” their insecurities and shortcomings, when in reality WE ALL HAVE ISSUES!!!! And the more you try to hide anything the more it appears on the surface. Having more than 1 mate and insecurities certainly won’t improve to have more. Be you, accept you , love you, and the people that matter will to.

[@dublingirl1691]

🎯🎯💯

[@DG_____]

But why would a man brag about his accomplishments? Sometimes I don’t understand men…

[@slickdawg5976]

Allow me to provide a slightly diverse and potentially more accurate perspective. I would suggest the majority of men whom have accomplished substantial financial/social success, particularly those who've archived success via entrepreneurial endeavors do so based on the capitalistic principles of "abundance." Capitalistic principles are notoriously rooted in egocentric fulfillment. For many successful men entertaining multiple women routinely has no bearing or correlations involving childhood trauma, lowered self esteem , insecurity , or previous failed relationships. Within the preponderance of instances involving substantially successfully men, whom choose to entertain multiple women the experience routinely fulfills desire. Similar to the acquisition of multiple luxury homes or luxury goods. Women, within numerous instances fall within the abundance category. Unfortunately Mr. Gaskins within his analogies routinely fails to consider the capitalistic societies are based on the principles of excess. Hope my commentary provided greater insight. Disclaimer as a successful 47 y/o business owner/operator for 28 years my commentary is based on both the abundance principles of capitalism and personal/witnessed experiences. My commentary does not address the ideological principles of individuals who fail to meet minimal social standards/requirements. (i.e.. financially distressed, social degenerate..etc, )

[@ParadiseIsGleaming]

Damn you must ran into my ex before 😂👏🏽👏🏽 spot on

[@lisamichelle5238]

Two men that I've known wanted a polygamous lifestyle. Both attractive. Both financially secure. Both seemed to have it going on... Both severely traumatized. You hit it on the head. They just want to move around and know they can pull multiple women because they have the perceived qualities they believe most women are looking for. But we have to look beyond the surface and see who a man really is, and if we look deep enough we will often see nothing more than an empty soul.

[@tracey5215]

Right!! Then uses their Pride as a mask to appear tough, powerful, and manly. Had an older man approach me bragging about his material wealth to attract me. As a woman, I can see right through it. I knew he had low self esteem

[@slickdawg5976]

Allow me to provide a slightly diverse and potentially more accurate perspective when addressing your commentary suggesting: "Both attractive. Both financially secure. Both seemed to have it going on." I would suggest the majority of men whom have accomplished substantial financial/social success, particularly those who've archived success via entrepreneurial endeavors do so based on the capitalistic principles of "abundance." Capitalistic principles are notoriously rooted in egocentric fulfillment. For what I believe is the majority of successful men who entertain multiple women issues related to childhood trauma, lowered self esteem , insecurity , or previous failed relationships routinely have no relevance to their actions. Within the preponderance of instances men, whom choose to entertain multiple women do so to fulfill desire. Similar to the acquisition of secondary luxury homes or luxury goods. Women, unfortunately in many instances fall within the abundance category. Its unfortunate that within his analogies Mr. Gaskins routinely fails to consider that capitalistic societies are based on the principles of excess. Hope my commentary provided greater insight. Disclaimer as a successful 47 y/o business owner/operator for 28 years my commentary is based on both the abundance principles of capitalism and personal/witnessed experiences. My commentary does not address the ideological principles of individuals who fail to meet recognized social standards/requirements. (i.e.. financially distressed, social degenerate..etc, )

[@khambrelmathis6101]

@@slickdawg5976🎯🎯🎯Thank You!!! This video is just a Man trying to comfort these Women and their insecurities, which will give him the hurt female audience he’s looking for.. and we all know who spends the most money ( hurt, and broken Women) I’m 36 years old and I love multiple Women because…. I LOVE MULTIPLE WOMEN. That’s all… I like Hispanic Women, I like White Women, I love Black Women… it’s nothing wrong and I don’t have multiple baby mothers or any STD’s.

[@scorpiocara6798]

They may have been financially secure but I bet you they didn't have enough money to take care of multiple women multiple children

[@ahsiekli3004]

Empty soul is 💯 the truth

[@DESKWERKSJB]

Ok. "A man can love two (multiple) women, but a man cannot be IN LOVE with two women." I like that! Great synopsis.

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

Cheating and fornication are lusts of the flesh. People really need to practice obeying The Word of The Most High and subduing their flesh.

[@ieshjust16]

Amen

[@sayless1445]

Facts

[@mslnie]

💯 Praise YHWH

[@Polygyny]

The word of The Most High regulates, mandates (Levirate marriage), and illustrates (Jesus' parable about the 5 virgins of 10 marrying the bridegroom; God's simultaneous marriages with Israel and Judah) polygyny. Fair enough if you don't like the concept of polygyny but you can't use the Bible to justify your disapproval - that would be charging God with unrighteousness according to human feelings and opinion

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

@@Polygyny That parable is not used to illustrate marriage between humans. That is a parable about the nation of Israel being The Bride of Christ. Each vigin represents individuals who have prepared or not prepared their hearts. The Most High's original plan in the garden before the Fall was one man, one woman. Do you not think He could have made Adam more than one wife? And Israel was created one nation. It was only made two because of Solomon's disobedience, and Rehoboam's lack of wisdom and experience that caused him to take the advice of his equally unwise and inexperienced peers, instead of listening and heeding to the wisdom of his elders.

[@ARS-fn6px]

As long as men arent willing to pay for my beautification I will let my hairs grow. I do take care of myself very well, but I will not go through hoops like I did in the past and suffer razor burns and itchiness, hyperpigmentation from expensive hurtful laser treatments, dry hair due to over styling, acne and wrinkles due to makeup, brittle nails due to fake nails etc etc just to please UNGRATEFUL men and make them think Im born with freaking pink long nails and bambi eyelashes, just for them to abvs3 me, cheat on me and wanting to go 50/50 because they think my beauty routines are free. The love of my life will see through all the fakery anyway. My only concern is to be and look clean, healthy, hygienic and groomed and I expect the same from men who approach me. If that means I will "die alone" and stay single then so be it. Im DONE catering to men who are ungrateful AF.

[@lynnmorris8659]

This!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯

[@nj2791]

Honestly I’m gettin over the act of lookin like a glamorous diva for dirt bag

[@11080698]

Tiring…right girls…you do all that…and it’s never enough…anyway…doesn’t mean when you are married or with a partner…you won’t die alone….cuz if he goes first…YOU STILL DIE ALONE…😄😄😄

[@ARS-fn6px]

@@tricks2564 same here. i dont need my toes and legs licked I need to feel safe, loved and respected during, before and after seggs. Its about what happens outside the bedroom thats most important everything else will fall into place , even the seggs. Shaved or not.

[@VickiMM]

❤️

[@kairosunltd130]

That's very true Mr. Gaskins. Men that have multiple women are very insecure. And the sad part about it is they can never satisfy any of those women or be there fully for them not just financially or materially but mentally, physically (that includes sexually ), emotionally, and spiritually. It gets worse when they both or how ever many they are have children by them, the children lack a father's full attention, love etc. Its just a sad and unfulfilling space to be in. Its important to love yourself and know who you are, what you can handle and what you cannot tolerate.

[@allthingsundertherainbowwi6894]

I dated a guy who didn't want to let me go, saying he cannot loose me because I make him a better man 🙄 only to find out he was cheating with multiple women (12 to be exact). I knew this had nothing to do with me, it was all on him. He has to heal from his childhood trauma because he seeks validation from these women.

[@Anonymous-cl2es]

12 women?! Omg! It's good you got away from him!!!

[@shahneezyswayyy8689]

Wow!!! 12... Smh

[@j-tenn226]

Can you tell us how you found out?

[@allthingsundertherainbowwi6894]

@@j-tenn226 I had a gut feeling but needed evidence so I asked him to look through his phone.

[@scorpiocara6798]

You were a part of those women. he's seeking validation from all of you all and I bet he's telling them all that he can't live without them they make him better

[@teresasimon8672]

Never Never Never for me. The bible says one man one woman. Tooooo many weak men out here. Keep your standards ladies.

[@zamaritv]

I am young and have fell victim to this how do I build my self esteem back

[@teresasimon8672]

First: Ask God for forgiveness then forgive yourself. Second: Continue to read material that helps you to empower yourself. ( The Bible, Books written by Iyanla Vanzant-start with "In the Meantime," Books by Pastor RC Blakes, and Bishop TD Jakes. They are just a few Inspiring Authors listed. There are many many more. Last, listen to Tony's Podcasts. He gives very valuable pointers for men and women. You have to be willing to apply them. It's not easy but forgive yourself and move forward 🙏

[@QueFranklin-fn4pj]

Yes husband and wife one wife that's right.

[@beefaye6861]

Its a SHAME.....but TG is correct.....women are desperate out here....they somehow think thier VJJ is doing something others are not....po thing 😥

[@scorpiocara6798]

And that may be true but men don't care about that. It don't get men to act right n respect you

[@RVince-so5vg]

Facts!! @ they somehow think their VJJ is doing something others are not. 🤣💀

[@Tayla63]

I was with a man for many years and married him. He became or was always in the beginning, COMMUNITY "D". I was in denial. I Let him go. He was not expecting my leaving, but, i can do bad by myself. Why settle for disrespect, dishonor if a woman knows her WORTH. Pay attention ladies. Choose wisely!

[@sexycocoblack28]

I believe skin color play apart of you marrying your wife

[@Lotus_LoveHER]

Same here. Was with my soon to be ex husband for years, married him, marriage didn't last 2 years. He started cheating after going away on business, or always was cheating (I'll never know). Anyway, I left him in Aug/22, he already has claimed someone as his new woman and she's moved into what once was our home. She was one of the females he was cheating on my with. Smh. Some of these men are disgusting. My accountability pill is, I should've never married him.

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@Lotus_LoveHER yea he was definitely always cheating. He probably just married you to cover up being gay

[@Lotus_LoveHER]

@@scorpiocara6798 You could be right 🤷🏾‍♀️ I did feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable with the amount of time he use to spend at one of his "homies" houses as well as how much he'd defend their time spent together. AND I told him there was talk around town, of that same "homie" being sexual with guys...he defended that as well... After we separated he ended up moving that same "homie" into the house next door to him....

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@Lotus_LoveHER 😮😮😮😮😮😮 Yeah a lot of these men that serial cheat are gay

[@jenniferthompson5146]

I didn’t hear a guy outright say he wanted multiple wives but he said “if my wife says I can’t then I won’t.” He also said many powerful men in history have had multiple wives. It is based on insecurity because the thinking is that more wives= more status, more notoriety. It also has to do with feeling desired by all these women, boosting the ego. And anyone justifying polygamy because of Abraham and Solomon; just look at the consequences of that: jealousy, drama, heartache, favoritism, idolatry

[@84mztoya]

They definitely are going to the Bible now to have an excuse to say it's ok for men to be with multiple women. Then saying adultery ONLY applies to women 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nicolefry5142]

I had guy say the same thing

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

@@84mztoya sadly many men lack understanding when it comes to multiple wives. Adam and Eve were the precedent for all marriages and he only made one woman for Adam. And He could have made more than one. Multiple wives started with Cain's descendants. And we see in scripture that The Most High allowed it. And Moses wrote laws on how to conduct marriages with multiple wives to protect the women in them, since most did not work outside of the home. When you look at the fruit of these multiple wives and concubines, it was nothing but drama. Much strife, heartache, and conflict was caused because our forefathers chose not to control their physical passions. It's still going on today with this current awakening. We need to keep praying for our people.

[@brookealicia92]

But how are bm using the Bible when more black women are in church and we know they can’t read?

[@Auriior]

@@brookealicia92 because they pull the things other black men said online, some dude asked me how come men had multiple wives then? I ask them did God ever once say that was right for men to have multiple wives? Kings disregarded God's will ALL the time in the Bible. If people listened to God, the Jews wouldn't have been in the desert so long. *Just because they did it didn't mean God ordained it, and those kings were in the Old Testament before Jesus came and taught the church the error of their ways. Cain killed Abel, and many other people committed crimes. Does that mean we're allowed to do it too because it's in the Bible? Hell no *In that time it was to multiply the people. Then Jesus came. And he brought new commandments. Sheesh some bm try to preach but don't read the bible..

[@MrsLC-tp8oj]

TG I have a had male friends say it is hard to deal with several women sexually mentally and financially. I also have seen this even in my younger years I had a kid with my guy we broke up he went on to have 2 ladies live with him it was a hot mess. Those ladies would fight all the time one lady set my child's Father up to get shot he was laying in the hospital full of bullets. This lady took his money and paid someone to shoot him. Luckily he survived and after that all that several ladies slowed down. Men will try it but some eventually get tired of it they don't have enough money and or penis sorry and yep those men that do this are dorks they can't even keep these women for long. If they have money maybe for a down years but they will have so much drama they will not admit to it. Look at the show sister wives that man looks a mess and the women look horrible. I don't understand why people think this is all fun and games bacteria swapping and a man can't satisfy one lady this generation is sad.

[@ascendingLOTUS]

I honestly never comment even though I watch mostly all your uploads, but I just want to say how appreciated you are for doing the work, taking accountability & constantly healing yourself as a black man to then come and impact both men and woman! You are a real standup genuine man & that is needed more in our community. Thank you Tony. You are a blessing. ✨

[@mmommo10]

point blank period!

[@smartanajones4u]

How do u know??? Are you with him 24/7? He could be another Derrick Jaxn for all you know? Blk women are so gullible

[@Ash2beauty]

@@smartanajones4ubecause he is a godly man and they hit different. Ungodly men can’t be trusted.

[@ayannamoore3391]

@@smartanajones4u I was just thinking the SAME THING!! I am in no way meaning this man is another Derrick Jackson, but most of these men on here exposing “other” men are simply doing it for monetary gain. Period. I guess I’ll wait around, keep watching just to who gets exposed next. 🤣🤣🤣

[@FARAFINA221972]

Yes it is rare to hear men who talk about their flaws genuinely online.

[@ANGAFACE1]

Males who seek to have multiple women AND they know abt each other he uses that as a tactic to suck more and more of their soul from them by pitting them against each other for the little attention/time he give. He saying.. oh #1 doing this, #2 don't have a problem doing that, #3 always tripping what you got.....then telling each woman abt the other woman's secrets and vulnerability so there is ALWAYS drama, tension and confusion .. REAL MEN bring peace and clarity not that other mess..and women need to stop thinking WE can change a man into monogamy and faithfulness.. That Male gone be who he gone be until he's ready to change by force of consequences or mature conscious decision...

[@Itgirlshayy]

You dropped this right on time ! Clown wanted me to be in a poly relationship with him & his bm 💀💀💀 said he loved the both of us I’m like that’s impossible !!! I let them have tht mess 💯

[@inthekitchenwithkitabee3875]

I died at the one Oreo away 😂😂 I appreciate these videos. I love the transparency and we need more respectful men like Tony Gaskins. This toxic world would be a better place. I have become so content with being single. I value myself so much. The world is out of control

[@brandimcmillen4005]

Me too!! That was hilarious! I had to pause the video until I stopped laughing. 🤣

[@themosthighsfaithfulservan8098]

😂

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

Tony is telling the truth. A lot of the men in The Hebrew Israelite awakening that usually preach this the hardest usually look like the ones most women probably weren't checking for back in the day. Pay attention to the brothers who rocking the hardest for polygyny, polygamy, and polyamory. It's ridiculous.

[@greenqueen2673]

The Hebrew Israelite "CULTS"(e.g. "alphabet camps") do preach polygamy; however, it is not what normal HI men preach or practice. I watch four ministries on YT regularly for nearly eight years now, and not one of these preachers ever preached or condoned polygamy, and none of them have more than one wife. It's unfortunate that these dusty dudes hollering on street corners during business hours when they should be working to provide for their families have become the representatives of HI culture.

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

@@greenqueen2673 I also watch some HI channels that preach one man / one woman marriages as well. However, I have also seen HI men on KZbin who support the multiple wives view that are in camps, and others whom are not. Be blessed.

[@greenqueen2673]

@@mzyotruthnlove8263 It is best to study the Bible and understand it in context rather than follow the traditions of men. Shalom.

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

@@greenqueen2673 indeed.😀😀❤🧡

[@furbabies2921]

That's because many of them are full of lust. Yes, it's true that descendants of the biblical Israelites were on them slave ships. However, they need to truly study why multiple wives were permissible but not Yah's perfect will for man. It's funny how that's theur first desire but not adopting multiple orphans or multiple widows to help. Smh

[@Shunae1111]

Thank you, I’m 39 divorced. I choose at this time to work on myself.

[@runningwithscissors1564]

The one this pulled this with me was a covert narcissist. He was dating multiple women while dating me. He didn’t care how I felt.

[@profmj7630]

No ma'am, no ham, no turkey for that poly life ---- imma stay on God's right path cause this world is doing crazy things to have a relationship or a piece of a person.

[@BlossomAyanaNYC]

God said, he removed ONE RIB NOT MULTIPLE RIBS!!!!❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

[@profmj7630]

@@BlossomAyanaNYC exactly

[@BlossomAyanaNYC]

@@profmj7630 ok! The word “piece” made me laugh out LOUD!!! What came to mind was, Chris Rock in New Jack City 🗣”HOW MUCH FOR A PIECE OF RIB🦴” smh 😂

[@BlossomAyanaNYC]

They want MCRibs ….They don’t want Official but Artificial!!!

[@kayjeffs3741]

Tony is absolutely right when he says that men who do that were never that guy. If someone was really that guy, or even girl (speaking as a woman) after some time, you been there, done that and you get tired of it. You just want one person after a while...if you're used to having your way with the opposite sex...

[@truebelieverinthelord7823]

The best thing to do is give your life to the Lord🙏🏿❤️ then you will know your worth! Thank you for this message

[@2godbody4u]

Even Christians live like this before the early nineteen-hundreds what the hell are you talkin

[@TheAlreadytaken24]

Being from philanthropy..He definitely right.. I've hung out with a lot of men.. played video games and Basketball growing up and when you are considered like the homey .. they will tell you some real truth.. especially when they feel like they can confide in you.. and i definitely remember hearing all their stories and thinking ... thank you lol.. now i know how to move accordingly 😊

[@esmy0601]

You ain’t ever lied! It’s the lames that’s out here taking advantage of women now.. and being narcissistic. Ladies please ask about his past and upbringing. I had to learn the hard way. But grateful to spot it soon enough to ✌🏽

[@thedeanogaming]

you have no common sense

[@jackieevans3309]

The hairy legs took me 🤣😅😂 Tony you haven't listened to Monique the comedian she said she don't shave her legs and her hubby loves it! To each their own.

[@Nitra813]

I didn’t shave either but my hair wasn’t dark or noticeable growing up. If ever I did shave for a cheer event or something it made my hair stiff or prickly and I hated that. So I stopped shaving so often. My husband has wolf hairy legs and never complained about the hairs in my body. I will wax every now an then but I always say to him “never pressure me to do what you’re not willing to do first.” I used him as a demo for content one day and whew! A leg and back wax. Let’s just say he never asked me to remove my hair again 😅 they don’t understand what it takes for us to get a certain “look.”

[@ARS-fn6px]

@@Nitra813 its also expensive and most of the time men arent willing to pay for it.

[@Anonymous-cl2es]

Omg! If I didn't shave I would look like a wooly mammoth 🤣🤣

[@123-u1x8m]

They are in an open marriage . So many of them tend to focus much more on the good of their main partner than the flaws

[@AnnaMaeBullock]

Monique's husband is colorful/alphabetical.

[@KingandRaven]

Tony you’re such a real man last year I was in my very first relationship, thinking that I have found the one my ex boyfriend love bombed me made it seem like I was the only one only to find out he was sleeping with six different women behind my back I had to go to his phone to find out, and even after I have found out about it, he turned the situation on me, and not only that, but did not have any remorse whatsoever, and just ruined a perfectly good relationship, and after all of that, after all of the chasing, he told me that he could not be with one woman when he knew That he was like that, and had those characteristics all along. I have felt so hurt and had a mental break down by this whole thing because he had me trying to compete with these other women who he had in his life but fast forward I am still healing from this. Thanks to your video.

[@netrap9937]

Sorry Hun if he wuz doing all that it never was a great relationship to start it wuz all smoke n mirrors

[@scorpiocara6798]

If he was cheating on you then it was never a perfectly good relationship it was an abusive relationship cheating is abuse he didn't respect you if he was cheating on you you deserve better than that it happens you get over it and move on. You guys just werent for each other. Also never beg for a man's attention and love let him go he ain't worth it

[@mslnie]

I'm so sorry. I know the pain of that. People say it wasn't a real relationship, but that doesn't help. It was to YOU. You put all of you into it so honor yourself and what you did, then you can see he was a liar, a cheater, and a thief - of love and time. He is sick. And now you will do the work on you so you won't be in that situation again. ❤ You will heal and you have learned a valuable lesson, horrific as it was. The Lord will bring you a husband- remain faithful to Him and He will bring all things unto you. Praying for you and your healing.

[@desdior1207]

Wow this sounds EXACTLY like my past situation 😢 told me 3 years later he didn’t think he could be with 1 woman like sir at 44 you BEEN realized this😭 sometimes a man will just manipulate a situation in his favor disregarding your feelings

[@YonnaTheTruth]

My Ex played the consistent provide protection profess game consistently for nearly a year. He claimed to want polygamy... yet, after he earned my attention, he hit me with the threesome fetishes & how he want to have these experiences with his partner 1st leading up to marriage. I really just don't care for dating anymore it's too exhausting. How you show up consistently as the ideal man & play around that? It's pathetic wack lame and weak & a huge turn-off period.

[@scorpiocara6798]

I hope you didn't do none of that. Don't let him trick n disrespect you like that

[@YonnaTheTruth]

@@scorpiocara6798 It’s so over

[@realtalk6720]

Lmao, y'all ladies just can't get it. Y'all can't be this slow. Set standards ladies, if a nigga ain't trying to turn you into a wife. That nigga ain't trying to take you seriously

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@realtalk6720 are you a woman? That seems like a girl name

[@realtalk6720]

@@scorpiocara6798 why does it matters, the real question is do you have a husband or do you actually have a dude who's serious to make you his wife. If not and you have an option of men trying to smash that thing then your part of your own problem. Maybe that's why you want to know if I'm a woman. Yes with a righteous husband.

[@michellepalmer1160]

I feel like this convo has taken a turn.. talking about women looks

[@shayemoore]

Yeah I was like get to the damn point.

[@tiffanyp.1784]

I’ve heard this recently about polygamy and I told the guy that he needs to heal and work on his insecurities and he still said I don’t need to do that. So he is still in denial. Thanks Tony!

[@earthangel8399]

Very insightful as always.... Juggling multiple partners is not the player move ppl make it out to be.... it comes at a cost

[@tyra9389]

You’re spot on, Tony. I recently met someone who claims to be Poly; I opted not to continue with him after learning this about him. He was very overweight in prior years, but now is a gym rat. He’s still insecure and obsesses about his body, I do believe polygamy is a source a validation for him.

[@chalisarocker26]

POLYGAMY screams , insecurity, trauma , ego & pride ! Somewhere in the dynamic 1 out of the 3 will feel left out . A real woman with HIGH VALUE , love & respect for herself will not be a willing participant. Also I’ve noticed that the spiritual practice that polygamy people follow are very “different” they do NOT LOOK happy . When you truly walk with GOD and your soul is pure , free & your walking in your purpose with GOD you will not want to partake in such foolishness! I say this with LOVE but we have to be honest POLYGAMY is a group of individuals who are not in a good space in their life mentally, physically, SPIRITUALLY or emotionally on any level ! Respect yourself ladies their is ONE MAN who will love you GO HEAL . Men you need to HEAL & really get out of ego & pride and go HEAL your childhood trauma ! Peace and Blessings to all ❤

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

Amen sister! Peace and love 🙏🏽💕

[@LovelyLenish]

An oreo away has me screaming 🤣😂

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

I would love to be married to a man that “Loves and cares too deeply!” Your wife is beyond blessed.

[@mygroovesuni]

You killing me with Poligeny!🤣😂🙏🏽

[@DandyDuh]

🤣😝

[@netrap9937]

It's sad how many men didn't father their daughters myself included we had to bump our heads a few times to learn n how to be with men smh

[@foxtrotbravo2549]

Brother may God continue to bless you. You speak with wisdom and passion.

[@cherrylynn7173]

Bless your heart! Not a lot of men aren’t built for monogamy. I wish more people would learn how to cherish real monogamous relationships

[@CynCynB]

To be honest, I didn’t know who you were until now. Have never heard of you but you came across my timeline and I’m definitely subscribed now. Appreciate you’re train of thought and appreciate you’re honestly as well. Thank you 🙏🏾. We need more men that completely understand and be honest with themselves!!

[@Itsalllove1111]

Completely agree. I have had a couple men suggest this idea to me (which I declined) they were both inadequate to even take care of 1 woman. They were both liars and cheaters and overall damaged. I walked away but they did find women willing to participate which is rly sad. Most of the time these women are are out of options.

[@HolisticManifesting]

That man said an oreo away lol

[@shalaybevel857]

I’m so grateful for your candidness ❤

[@naomirivera4837]

All I can say is you're being honest and I applaud you woman's need to hear men's like you so that we can be more aware and not do stupidity foolish stuff so I do apply you I'm way older than you thank you little brother much appreciate save myself no age limit save yourself you learn everyday something new thanks 🙌🏼

[@authenticallyamberc9787]

I feel men that want a polygamist relationship are LOST SOULS LOOKING TO TAKE FROM EACH WOMAN TO MAKE HIM WHOLE!!!!

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

This!! I'm being stalked by one married guy who wants to take me as a second wife! I can just sense he wants to take from me! It's an odd Feeling, like he wants something, so that will never be an option for me!

[@authenticallyamberc9787]

@@nomfundomasuku2443 Exactly what the spirit behind him wants. That means he see's your gifts and wants to delay what God has for you. I entertained this type of situationship and it was not good and God spoke to me saying it was a distraction.

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

@@authenticallyamberc9787 o mi goodness.. thank you for confirming this, that I'm not just being paranoid! Every time he tries to contact me I even get sick and this darkness feeling and even dream of him talking to me in my dreams.. it's been fairly strange. Thank you so much, I will heed your warning, thank goodness you listened to God's voice also, He has greater plans for us. May God bless you.🙏🏽

[@authenticallyamberc9787]

@@nomfundomasuku2443 Amen

[@camikurz8737]

Love the direct communication & concentrated truth.

[@carlaburrelmusic5851]

That’s CRAZY that women were giving their bodies up that easily. It’s scary and sad. I would be thinking I had alllll the stds the next morning and be terrified to get tested at the same time lol

[@ZfenProductions]

Yes Tony we know u EVERY WHERE U GO. Tony is worldwide known. Even in Amsterdam. Much love ❤️

[@chasg8183]

I think that men who can convince women to do this have to be the best salesmen on Earth. They usually do it for the benefits. If you have multiple women and they split those bills, that man doesn’t have to protect or provide for anything 😂 I feel like if you’re going to do it, you have to know it’s a rich man’s sport. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m completely content with being single if I have to share a man with multiple women and risk my reproductive health.

[@silentdreams2415]

Be blessed Sir!

[@jamierichards9926]

Tony, my ex and sons father of 3 years, I thought we were getting back together because that’s what he led me to believe. Hes been in a relationship with the girl he cheated on me with and I was thinking the grass wasn’t greener on the other side. Come to find out, he’s a whole different person I’ve never met!! He and his “girlfriend “ are supposedly interested or doing this whole polygamy lifestyle. I was heartbroken and haven’t spoken to him. We have a child and that’s not something I want him around or hearing about. This came right on time ❤

[@scorpiocara6798]

These men are going crazy these days. They are just not real men. Same my child wouldn't be around all of that nastiness discomfort delusion n dysfunction either

[@queeniemomma]

Im so glad i came across this, and it was just confirmation for me. Honestly, everything i was thinking this man said it, so i thank you!

[@dashafenty9969]

THIS IS THE VIDEO I WAS DEFINITELY LOOKING YOU THANK YOU MR.TONY❤ !!!!!!!!!

[@yangelthomas]

Wow! Very interesting & it makes me want to remain single.....and those guys that has multiple women show so much confidence....smh. if they only knew. Thanks Tony.

[@terryf.9322]

Thanks so much Tony for sharing this with everyone. I have had single dates with Muslim men one who told me he was a ‘Medium Muslim’. When I asked another man of Muslim faith about what a medium Muslim is he reported it depends on the man, some want more than one woman, while another Muslim man told me that although that is his religion, he couldn’t afford to support 3-4 plus women as he would have to treat and gift them all the same. Thanks for all you do to share the Truths from God. 🙏🏼

[@leahracquelGibson]

I cannot stop laughing! When you started talking about shaving the legs. I was dying! 😂❤Awesome

[@brandimcmillen4005]

For me, it was the Oreo comment. 🤣

[@tamikadaniels6556]

Had to laugh 😂 at this video. I hear you Tony. Genuine!

[@CompleteBeauty09]

Not she was an oreo away... 🤦🏾‍♀️ 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@TrishC5280]

He's too much 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dead!

[@mntw6062]

Tony, this is your one of your best messages. I just ended it with a man who I discovered had a “harem”. He believes that if you have sex with a woman, then she’s automatically your wife. He bases that on 1cor where it says “if a man lies with a harlot the two shall become one… and he ALSO believed that completing the sex act meant that you were “married.” Either he is deceiving many women on purpose or he truly doesn’t understand the meaning of love and covenant and marriage in God’s eyes or probably both. Either way, as a woman, I’m not attracted to that.

[@greenqueen2673]

That man is both deceived and deceiving. God does not condone that behavior, and it behooves women involved with these religious dudes to know their Bible so they can escape these traps.

[@mamaafrika87]

Yup for those type of men he described, it is in fact true. Look into that past before you try to make it last. You won’t regret it

[@marlenemeldrum7382]

I am so with you.... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE REALITY CHECK!!!! EVERYTHING goes these days...I mean EVERYTHING...please continue to speak the HARD TRUTH!!!!

[@jamiestumps6146]

I Thank you Brother Tony for your Courage in speaking the Truth, I Thank God also for your Beautiful Wife also, she brought out the best out in you!

[@millidw8070]

Did yall see Tony's wife? She looks just like him but a female version. I tell yall she's absolutely beautiful no wonder he's always talking about her.

[@alexistaylor5906]

This world is consumed in the flesh. I’m still holding on to hope tony, in the Lord and waiting on the type of commitment and love you speak on! I’ve been single for 2 years now and I don’t entertain anything that doesn’t align with the path Elohim has me on! Could you do a video about how a single Christian woman can be on track for a husband to find her? I feel like going out doesn’t really make myself available, except for sx, and there is no singles group at my church. I believe when the Lord says “A man who finds a wife finds a good thing” so could you help prepare us who want the Godly, one person, marriage.? I’m already on the path but could use some encouragement 🫶🏼

[@Nitra813]

Yes keep hope alive sis. Do not let the dark side of social media fool you into believing there’s no more good men left. The one for you will know you when he sees you. They’re are still plenty sane men out there. You just need your one.

[@godhasthefinalsay3383]

Tony you are too funny! 😂

[@carolyndemorst4878]

I agree what your saying I love deep can’t give love too two men neither will I be an option! Ending my relationship too be single my love wasn’t enough but has too love my self first! God is good!❤

[@tiffanyglass259]

An Oreo way 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@callmekells802]

Tony- I’ve said it once and I will say it again. You are truly incredible. I’ve been watching your channel for years now since I was in highschool and I have recommended your channel to many people, from all different walks of life. I will continue to support you. Your philosophy has truly opened my eyes!!

[@patriciajohnson6928]

I go to a church where it’s jealously because we have a pastor that single. But it’s sad that our leader has a track record of being a womanizer and has wondering eyes I don’t understand how a man can stand in the pulpit and do that. Know I see why people don’t want come to church. People in the church are hypocrites.

[@lindajones7103]

I appreciate your honesty. Most men wouldn't tell the truth to save their life.

[@secretthegreat]

I love all this honesty you got me over her dying laughing 😭😅😅😅 very informative to how men think

[@courtneyclark286]

I got the message, but this video starting getting funnier and funnier as you kept going. Not you said, "...Man created a razor.” 😂🤣

[@darkangel686868]

Tony you crack me up 😂 your stories of dating are like a comedy sketch!

[@staceythorpe7938]

Perfect example of hot mess that existed in the homes where the man had 2 wives in the bible: 1. Abraham, Sarah & Hagar, 2. Jacob, Leah & Rachel 3. Elkanah, Hannah & Peninah

[@joiagenae]

The legs part 😂😂😂😂 Tony & these women impersonations lol

[@zadabeasley]

My question is why are women signing up for this craziness? Insecurity and not having a healthy vertical relationship with God must be the real pandemic. I get the numbers are working in the BM’s favor, but this is absolutely destructive and dysfunctional behavior that will bring our society to ruins.

[@kitejohnson515]

Bw are operating out of scarcity BM and white society has placed us on the bottom so some feel this is what they need to do to secure a relationship

[@zadabeasley]

@@kitejohnson515 Numbers don’t lie. When you live a life that brings God Glory, God will show you how to navigate in 3-D. In lieu of degration, perhaps they can open up their dating pool and stop setting? Black women are loved all over the world!

[@ayanaresellerqueen1685]

The honesty in this video was so needed! Thank you!

[@AtlantaAngel84]

The intellectual wanting multiple wives barely pays his child support 😂, you are right, I notice all the pro polygyny dudes were considered lame.

[@ninasimone9984]

🤣🤣🤣 love how real you are..and I truly believe this is how men think.

[@deaireyon]

Truth be said !! Applause 👏

[@trinab903]

Makes so much sense! Love the male perspective! Please keep edifying us!

[@liyah7783]

Poly sounds toxic and just too much. It's for ppl that like to cheat and need multiple people because they seem to be never satisfied with anything

[@kelz2569]

And these monogamous relationships with cheaters aren’t toxic?

[@liyah7783]

@@kelz2569 if that's your opinion

[@kelz2569]

@@liyah7783 You’ve never been cheated on or left for another woman?

[@liyah7783]

@@kelz2569 not going to debate with you. My opinion won't change✌🏼

[@kelz2569]

@@liyah7783 of course. Good day, love.

[@QueeninMe]

I promise this did Not pop up on my timeline for nothing !! I was just told by a man that he will always have multiple women but no more than 3 @ once 😮 This is exactly what I needed !!!!

[@lorribrooks2088]

Women can appreciate you keeping it real and being honest about the way a lot of men fill about the looks, hygiene and attitude of women when looking for a wife. You don't hide the person you were God has truly delivered you, and you funny at the same time. Keep spitting that knowledge.❤

[@stephanies.3198]

You better say it!!!!! Insecure, broken individuals!!! Period. (That part)

[@92Tweetylove]

Everytime you talk about women not shaving 🤣😂😂😂😭 I got it tho I will start today

[@theconcealedmistress]

Women should practice polygamy during dating, they should have more than one man. If they decide to marry, they can marry one man if they choose.

[@trenastewart2599]

It's crazy how our patents teach our boys to not cry and not to think it won't affect their relationships in the future. We are now dealing with unattached emotional men who are only out here hurting others because they are not healed from their childhood. They come out here hurting people because their still hurt and instead of directing to the person or ppl they hurt the ones who are close or the ones who try to help mend what is still broken. Communication is a big deal in relationships bc of pride and ego and built up hurt that has not been dealt with. Woman we also need to start who we are and going back to what we was taught about knowing our worth. If I was given the choice of a man being g honest I will take it and the hurt and pain that comes with it rather than a lifetime of lies or disrespect of multiple woman in his bed. bc if I ddnt know my worth why would he until he is shown by you leaving and standing on ur worth without him. Until he can show me/ you his words mean nothing, I'm all about ur actions not ur words. 💯. I will never be a one night stand. Why? Bc I'm better than his moment of pleasure esp when I got the good good it won't be used on a night of his fantasies or pleasures. I can do myself for all that and be satisfied. Ijs!!!!!

[@eveheart2876]

Preach

[@Kmillions77]

A Oreo a way 😂😂 lol

[@scorpiocara6798]

A man couldn't do that with me I've never had a one-night stand never will and don't plan on it. That just all sounds disgusting to me

[@tresjolieme81]

If a man has two women he cant even be "in love" with both. Men still don't now what love is if they think they can truly love one when hes got more then one.

[@notjustaprettyface]

Tony you are hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 talking about when you seen the man 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣 I'm literally crying 😂😂😂

[@SeptemberBaaayBeee]

Somebodyyyyy; did he say she was "one Oreo away from being too heavy for me to lift"?! I. Am. Weak.

[@DandyDuh]

🤣😭

[@marylnmonroe]

and i will remain happily single 😊

[@spiritualesley170]

Same 🥂

[@shaunsinclair777]

Peace and blessings King. For clarity, polygyny is a male have multiple partners. POLYGAMY is having more than one WIFE - totally different lifestyles. Polygyny doesn’t come with certain “obligations” or “responsibilities” which is why its desired (and disrespected). POLYGAMY is reserved for men that are “THAT GUY” bc it comes with rights and responsibilities to your wives, among other important factors. Respect to you, King. I love your movement

[@Matchless_Monarch]

Mr. Gaskin your are is HILARIOUS fr😂. Thanks for always keeping it real with us and dropping 💎s