Never worry about bringing value to a woman's life. Instead bring value to your own life by progressively making yourself into the man you admire -- which is the best version of yourself. Then require that any woman that comes into your life meets the standards that assure she can bring added-value to your life.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Boom! Great comment.
@alwaysgreatusa2235 ай бұрын
@BreakandEnter-tg9kg You do you. If you are truly happy, who am I to disagre ? I just gave some general advice that any man is free to accept or reject. God Bless you and your gf. May you continue to find happiness and love.
@josburn67685 ай бұрын
@ApolloniaPonti I've been dating this girl and now she's been acting like stupid little stuff is pissing her off. Like taking something I said the wrong way on purpose. Should I tell her that I'm not feeling respected and valued like I feel I deserve?
@CoachSteveJandS5 ай бұрын
What you permit, persists...
@SubhajeetDas-m8r18 күн бұрын
Never accept wrong relationship first in your life but if you have wasted it then the result will be too bad and sometimes mysterious which will be harmful to you
@AdamA.Moorhouse4 ай бұрын
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without her. Despite attempts to purge her from my mind, I remain haunted by her absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
@vivian-i3d4 ай бұрын
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
@AdamA.Moorhouse4 ай бұрын
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach her?
@vivian-i3d4 ай бұрын
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for her talent in bringing back ex-partners.
@AdamA.Moorhouse4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information.
@damianooi82615 ай бұрын
1) Highly Successful 2) Men that want to fix her problems early on 3) Men that dont stand their ground and set boundaries within themselves 4) The "yes" man 5) The one that protects her story and make excuses for it 6) The inexperienced man
@iamdameongayle5 ай бұрын
Don’t lead with sex.. follow your instincts it’s always telling you..
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Very true.
@Warriorsmusickproduction5 ай бұрын
100% all these signs! Plus being too nice! Look out for the lazy ones!
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@mikegarrens52865 ай бұрын
Don't let her put you into friend zone and don't be her do boy!!!
@davidsisson20265 ай бұрын
What I needed to know when I was 20. This is spot on.. I married a woman, girl that was so toxic. Because I didn't recognize my own value.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Ouch, I'm so sorry to hear this but I know you've learned a lot from the experience. :-)
@davidsisson20264 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti . Appalonia I've spent a lifetime working not thinking about the toxic relationships too much. Been single 20 years. And now with the help from coaches like yourself and Corey Wayne. And several others. I realize my problems stemmed from my own doing. Not having strong friendships in my working days. Picking the wrong type. Not that my 2nd wife was a bad person. It got so complicated I lost my confidence, now that I'm retired would love to find a good person. Like the Eagles song. She's so hard to find. So take it easy.
@Home-o2v4h2 ай бұрын
Boundaries are always for self and not for others. Many men do not realise this. It is not telling the other person what he/she is allowed to do instead it is telling the other person what I am ok with or what he/she is allowed to do to me.
@Winchdon695 ай бұрын
Dating online/apps is tough, and what i mean by that is just getting the responses, because i feel that as a man its not easy!
@hlonipenn61554 ай бұрын
I am not much of a talker. 44yrs old and honestly tired and exhausted by relationships. But I do love your videos. Very insightful.❤
@chisatatum98842 ай бұрын
He's a younger guy and she's older doing this to him. He friendzoned me a good woman for her. I'm an older woman that genuinely loves him on the inside and out. Not for materialistic stuff. I'm the type of woman who is independent and I work on myself daily but it hurts me deeply that he chose a toxic woman. Respect is earned on both sides. Yes very true on the Respect
@KojoLove75 ай бұрын
You’re on a roll with this one; 7&8 are really useful tips! Especially making excuse for women that lead with “abusive” past. 8 more of the transition of most men struggle with dating with intention and how to properly go about especially without proper guidance should be discussed more of not to run into more experience women who take advantage of the inexperienced of men who attempt to do right. I like your content
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much. Appreciate the comment and feedback.
@comitosway5 ай бұрын
This happened to me… sucks and all I want is her back. Together almost 2 yrs and says she needs space. Which is code word in female terms that she’s found someone else
@oliver70115 ай бұрын
Oh.. dang the truth at end of is video is gold!
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@oliver70115 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti My first time seeing one of your videos, I subscribed!
@prophetdanielrapha5 ай бұрын
Apollonia love your new look….. Keep transforming lives God Bless
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much. :-)
@Yosef_Maharat5 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@kennethpriestley20204 ай бұрын
Soooo good👍🏻thank you ma’am
@elitegamingarena4715 ай бұрын
Girl you earned my sub, I want to be part of your trial program.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for subscribing! I appreciate you!
@comitosway5 ай бұрын
Going thru this now coach!
@practicalimagination09095 ай бұрын
Trying unsolicited and non reciprocal attempts to heal a romantic partners issues is called the "Pygmalion Effect." Based on the Greek Myth that a man can "sculpt" the perfect woman and in return be blessed with a supplicating "love Goddess." I guess thats why its a MYTH...Ha...Ha....
@alwaysgreatusa2235 ай бұрын
'Respect' is an ambiguous term. It can mean anything from admire and obey to simply treating another as you yourself want to be treated by others. So, no women has to admire and obey a man, that is something she has to be willing to do on her own, and something that a man should earn from a woman. But 'earn' here is not transactional -- like earning a paycheck. A woman never owes you obedience and admiration. Instead 'earn' in this context simply means you are the kind of man of character and high-value that good women naturally admire and want to please, and that you daily demonstrate your character and high-value, not as means to get her admiration and obedience, but rather as inherent part of who you are as a man. As for requiring a woman to treat you with same humanity and decency that you should be treating others with, of course you have a right to expect that from her... and the second she disrespects you in that way, you need to check her. Second violation, dump her ass for good. She's not worth your time.
@azmike35722 ай бұрын
"I'm Your Puppet" (James & Bobby Purify, 1967)
@lindsayphillips75475 ай бұрын
How do u sift these issues with developing online distance relationships
@AbdulmalikAbdulfatai-m5g4 ай бұрын
This is seriously what I'm going through.
@Poffenberger1PicksUFC5 ай бұрын
I've talked and went on dates with 3 different women before in the past and it doesn't work. Didn't even have sex with them too. Only kissed and cuddled sometimes for a couple of months. Surprisingly, It only made things worse because you're eventually stuck with an ultimatum which leads to you, one, or two women slowly and eventually develop strong feelings. Also, it low key boosted my ego and I didn't like who I was becoming because I don't like to have an ego with someone that likes me. I'd Rather feel humble with someone. Ever since then, I quit and decided to only talk to one woman because I realized I don't like people including myself get misled. It's not fair for anyone knowing you have options. It's best to stick to one. If it works out, great, if it doesn't, move on and give it another try with someone else..Ever since I've talked to one woman that's my best friend, she has some Red flags but she was working on herself so I gave her the benefit of the doubt because I always believe everyone deserves a chance..Then I noticed as more time passed, I was just her emotional rebound and getting used cuz she's still not over her ex unfortunately, she's wishy washy connecting with me physically, not talking about sex, and they had a toxic relationship. She only hits me up and hangout when she has no one to talk too or needs emotional support. she talked about her ex again on our last date, and now I'm burned out and over it. I decided to be amicable with her and move on. Your video helped a lot . Thank you so much for the clarity..
@musicecstasy15 ай бұрын
Good advice....
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@divyanshudhiman84935 ай бұрын
Can you give something on trust issues? I used to be a guy who enjoyed weekends even alone 6 months ago things went south because of her boundary issues. I am just pretending everything is right in my head but can't enjoy a weekend alone now because things she did keep circling around my head and it deepened my trust issues with women.
@Brendan-055 ай бұрын
Great video as always. Guess I’m lucky that the horrible women won’t even look at me 😂. Sometimes I’m glad to never have had a girlfriend.
@tconroy10004 ай бұрын
Apollonia wow! You look really beautiful here! New look and style?
@Dale653785 ай бұрын
Hi Apollonia how much are your coaching wise advices?
@tyronehiggins66275 ай бұрын
I've been separated for 3 yrs. I've been learning myself and how to become the best version of me. My exwife and I have started dating, we are enjoying each others company. Our relationship is not sexual we love each other deeply. She says I don't want you not to be a part of my life and I am afraid if I don't choose you, you will move on and not help me anymore. My response was who ever you chose should be there for you not me anymore. How should I proceed, with arms wide open or continue to set boundaries that show what I am seeking right now. What should I do going forward?
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
I think this is a very sensitive situation and I wouldn't want to advise you of wrong advice. I would suggest to book a coaching session so we can help you with and questions and give you clarity and advice on the next steps. Here is the link: www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
@jaymil9475 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@terrytawhai28865 ай бұрын
I have very old fashioned morals and values but I just don't understand why I attract toxic woman
@grayirishgalt5 ай бұрын
I heard some serious bs at 8:49. Talking to other men about the relationship is a red flag warranting boundary
@weskerEverKnight5 ай бұрын
Thanks.
@practicalimagination09095 ай бұрын
Speaking of Greek Mythology and unreciprocated love, how about the Apollo/Daphne affect? IDK maybe that one speaks for itself?
@oliver70115 ай бұрын
Dang, "yes" man is my problem!
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@Koh5692 ай бұрын
If have to do all this shit, i am getting a passport. I am done, i don't have time for the games. I have ambition.
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I totally understand that it can feel overwhelming at times. However, real connections take effort, and it's about creating something meaningful with the right person who aligns with your values and ambition. If you approach relationships authentically, you'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are without the need for games. Wishing you the best on your journey!
@Koh5692 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti thanks, will do.
@Yosef_Maharat5 ай бұрын
Too late for me, Apollonia. But thanks anyway.
@justinflores16205 ай бұрын
A lot of what you talk about in this video i have been experiencing with my ex girlfriend/baby mama
@christopher-yi3rm5 ай бұрын
Theres more and more selfish women.
@timstevenson79935 ай бұрын
Gentlemen 9 out of 10 wonen are toxic!!!!!.....Im 65 very experienced.
@jraa45605 ай бұрын
She also try’s hard to Gas her self up haha
@haocao82825 ай бұрын
When you talk that fast you think you’re supper smart but the people who listen doesn’t learn anything from you or remember anything, sorry to say that but it’s the true
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Then use the key on the video to slow it down if its too fast for YOU!
@EricMoore7905 ай бұрын
Apollonia is very beautiful.
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Aw, well thank you!
@terrytawhai28865 ай бұрын
I'm a sucked for that
@felixiavarone46925 ай бұрын
lol @26 sec you still scratch your nose !
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Allergies and also I don't try to be perfect on videos. I am human.
@flynnnewsblog96275 ай бұрын
😮you hit the nail on head head my friend. Read my comment above.