The Ultimate People Skills: "Positive Projection"

[@AaronDoughty44]

I believe it's about building an ecology of positive emotion. Meaning cultivating an environment that is inspiring, having friends that are in alignment with your higher goals, and creating habits that are positive. Then as the positive energy begins to naturally develop more and more, people will perceive it and respond to it. The power is within and meditation is what helped me cultivate more positive energy. Great video Brendon!

[@achyuth_rj]

Just felt like you said it all .. Cheers!

[@quentellamyers5798]

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[@secretsunflower]

By projecting POSITIVITY in a GOOD ENERGY on other peope at ALL times, you're actually bringing buoyant positive energy into your relationships. How do you do that? 1) Honoring people's struggle or hardship - not be judgemental/critical/teasing people/making enemy. Instead, choose to be kind, patient, joyful, bringing love, mindfulness, compassion, full presence, empathy, goodwill. 2) Taking ENTHUSIASTIC INTEREST in people - ask & get fascinated about their interest, desire, love of life, fears, worries, dreams, values, passion. Be their Cheerleader! 3) Don't mirror people's energy especially sadness, feeling bad or hurtful, pessimistic. Be a creator of what you're willing to be, not merely a reflector of others 4) Actively pray in silence when you see/meet people: "I Wish You Joy, Health & Love!", "I Wish You Joy, Health & Love!" World, these are amazing thoughts that work wonders!!!

[@pninagagnon1550]

i believe my dog has this quality, sending good energy to those who cross our path: They smile to her, she even looks back toward them, to make sure the good feeling is still on! Love to you, Brendon

[@Danygotaworldtosee]

I feel like that I can project that positivity when I travel more, you start to appreciate everything and everyone more

[@prosperouseye]

I've been thinking about this when I travel. Does the new scenery influence me to let my overthinking go? Can we get to that level even when we don't travel?

[@oantimido]

Could you stop teaching me so much and making me cry at the same time? Well, on second though, no, don't stop.

[@oantimido]

Absolutamente! ;)

[@rohanbudhoo9628]

+Shauna I Johnny Depp tgggg the same tttfr5 the same retgffrt ljn

[@floripuppy]

I cried too.. Ain't this just a wonderful human being? Brendon you're the best!

[@stefanpetrovic1187]

@D Master Who is "someone" that you are referring to ?

[@linaahmadi3529]

Brandon, I get a positive feeling once your new video pops up on my news feed, I know that I'm going to. learn something new, vibrant, and motivating. send you love, joy and happiness ♡ God Bless You

[@TameraWeeks1]

I know! I get a positive feeling too when I see his video pop up! Love his videos.

[@SydneyTeagarden]

Ive been experiencing a new all-time low (which is saying a lot- I was a heroin addict for 10yrs, I've been homeless, and worse). Today I am clean, I live in a home w a long-term bf- but despite how much my life has turned around- im experiencing MORE stress!! I lost my job, my bf is saying we can't stay together if I dont have a job, I feel uncomfortable as ive gained some weight. I feel like I should be glad to simply be breathing as I have died before, literally, and was brought back- this happened many times. I want you to know I am binge-watching your videos (well, listening- cleaning house today)- but you have such a wonderful spirit and good advice as well. Lets see if I can turn some things around- it's worth a shot! I'll be visiting your website too. Really though, I just want to say Thank You for being there when I'm really struggling. I hope you're having a wonderful day!:)

[@storeo_222]

How can anyone select down button on this..Brendon, A million thanks to you for these videos! You inspire me every time I feel down. Your voice has a magic that makes people listen to you! I started looking my life differently after I started watching your videos. I now know that I can do much more than what I am doing. I really wish to meet you in person in my life and thankyou.

[@tcraigalexander137]

Thanks Brendan the world needs you! Positive vibes brother!

[@MuseSunday]

I just went through so much and I was negative for while now that I found your channel again I know that I’m starting to heal faster and be secure and positive again!! But this time with more confidence and strength!!

[@guyvaknin16]

thank you Brendon, for bringing me tears. it really doesn't matter how world is right now, but there is a consistant need in positive, loving, caring and helping people. Thank you

[@t.marioooo4876]

Thank you Brendon. You are a superstar. Every single word you say just hits something inside me. It hits deep, down my core. The positive energy you give out to the world is awe inspiring. Please don’t stop what you’re doing.

[@JasonAir]

Love this video Brendon. I do that too, send people good vibes when I'm out. So agree with all you've said in this! Thank you for sharing.

[@davidbarclay3651]

Thanks Brendon. It is the eternal struggle of human kind to focus outward, and have an "other" mentality. This is what our Creator wants for us, to minister to others and to do His Will.

[@awesomelife3710]

Sometimes, I prefer to rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. That's what empathy is for: to connect at a real and deep level. If I insisted on imposing my happy-happy energy upon everyone around me all the time, I'd feel like a superficial fake, indifferent to others' needs. Also, I go for depth with a few close people, rather than hundreds or thousands of fb "friends."

[@hollywhitelow3080]

Where have you been all my life!? I am addicted to your videos! So many of the subjects you talk about have hit home for me. I have been struggling for years to change my life, be positive, and become successful. But, I honestly didn't know how. For the first time I feel like you are showing me how to be the person I desire and how to reach goals that 10 yrs ago I never would have dreamed of even trying to reach! Thank you and please don't stop what you are doing! I have been telling everyone I know about you...:)

[@RachelHannah363]

Brendon Thank you once again for a wonderful insight! I am a huge fan and have been reading motivation manifesto and LOVING it. It has helped me beyond comprehension! Keep it up! You are a light to the world.

[@rebeckahvalentine858]

I love what you have to say, Brendon Burchard. On hard days I listen to you and feel the "possibility" pour back into my soul! Thank you for all your hard work! Thank you!

[@pattiel1108]

Some very good points, Brendon. Take an interest in people. Don't take on others' energies. Send them positive feelings. People are attracted to positivity. It seems curious that negative people are even more attracted, like moths to the light. Thanks for the encouragement and keep looking up!

[@TinRapper]

"Jeez Brendon, I like being around you, even though you're weird" xD

[@3YYY0]

man i love you, even if i had a bad day and didn't laughed for like 4 hours: if i watch one of your videos I'm smiling from the first to the last second and try to bring that positive energy you gave to me, to the people around me.

[@howedelamitri]

This needs millions of views. I encourage you to share it. We could have a much better world

[@TheAutolycus75]

So much of everything you said resonates with ideals and vision I’ve had for several years!! It’s nuts how today people have lost touch with one another.

[@kaylacuellar9291]

Brendon, you are my hero. No. Really. Thank you for inspiring me, for challenging me & speaking in a way that really helps me get it. Prayers for you and your family. God speed. Xo

[@sunflower-oo1ff]

Dear Brendon, i know posting videos is a lot of work. I want thank you so much for still posting them. They are so helpful to me and i am sure to so many other people. Thank you !

[@sushmitaojha2299]

You are best weird person, works for my life All you say connect to my life, Your ideas I practice it keeps me moving gives me a sense of relevant and happiness Thank you brendon for your ideas

[@kacileigh6112]

So coming from someone who has been on the receiving end of this, and they were fascinated with me and kept asking questions about myself, most definitely did not make me feel like we were on a journey. It made me upset and feel as if they might be trying to gather information to use against me later. That, or me feeling like I didn’t deserve to open up like that. Not everyone feels the same when these types of conversations happen…

[@morningglory3644]

Reflect what you want to see in the world. If you want to be around positive people, then you have to light up with positivity.

[@AnaLopez-ip8iw]

Thank you you are great. Sad at work / bus / train. I see so many people staring at smart phone or video game completely disconnected from others. walking in front of incoming traffic , not paying attention thank you for your tips brendon.

[@jenjenvlogs3712]

Your words are so human. They touch my HEART and make me connect to the real humans! Thanks Brendon. You are a Saint. Period.

[@tenagestr]

Words truly cannot express how much I have changed after introducing Brendan's work into my life.

[@anusha387]

Beautiful message. Its very cliche to say that we must be nice to people and always be positive but sometimes we forget what other people are going through and overlook their situations. Its good to have a reminder of it every now and then. Made me feel really positive ❤️

[@manishchhatwani3459]

you are awesome brendon ! I am living in small village of India and watching your videos every week. Thank you so much for your videos, i am learning lot of things from it.

[@ebayposhman]

I have watched u before...but at this point in my life your positivity is so helpful

[@zishanrahman7208]

Mr. Brendon Burchard, YOU Sir, are an awesome individual! thank you a lot for the videos!

[@andrewdwillis1821]

this is the best channel I've found on self improvement holy cow!

[@wanderlustchicklmtlori]

I needed this video today. I teared up watching because we need more humans like you, especially these days. The last part got me about saying positive thoughts to yourself about total strangers. Just what I was looking for and will start putting these tips into practice today! Thank you❤❤❤❤

[@jijimonpa5923]

18yr old me Sometimes feels so much Lonely only because am weird!! But your talk just cheered me up 'Thankyou♥️

[@namelastname8569]

you turn issues into joyful challenges. alchemy at its finest my friend

[@ayoalex]

The description of struggle explained in the first portion of this video really describes what has been going on with me at work lately. Thank you for the outlook change!

[@robynclara595]

I'm really happy that I discovered your videos. I've been watching your videos for a few months now, and my life is getting so much better. Thank you so much for sharing all you know with us. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@soumenbag6336]

1> respect and honour peoples struggle: everybody bleeding in their battle. thing how struggle ur doing in ur life think that they are going through the same kind of stuff. 2> Take enthusiastic interest in people. what is their desire? what scare of. Where they are been to. what is their Hobby? 3> when u pass someone with a eye contact and say in ur mind I wish joy, health and love. its work as mirror neuron

[@33A12Lillys]

Wow, finding this video on KZbin is like striking gold. 🤩

[@Frederick0220]

BB is one of the baddest dudes on the planet. A true role model.

[@gavinwolking4902]

Brendon, I tried last week to do this, and I pushed as hard as I could to be engaged, charismatic, more assertive, and to make people feel good when I interacted with them. It was great! However, it took SO MUCH ENERGY to do! I felt exhausted at the ends of my days and felt like I couldn’t keep it up for much more after that week. Please please PLEASE provide insight into this as to how I can work to make this more sustainable? Thank you as always 🙏

[@esmeraldamartinez2805]

Love this: please be kind to anyone honestly never know what someone is going through and these small gestures can mean so much! Thanks!!

[@SaurabhGuptaMumbaiIndia]

Brendon thanks for the awesome video. On the point about connecting eyes with strangers passing by, I have realised when we look at people we are looking at a mirror, it's a reflection of our own thoughts and our brain associates with these images... if we are being indifferent to others we are being indifferent to self.

[@emank8137]

love this! your suggestion to genuinely wish others joy, happiness and love is the same idea that's behind the Islamic greeting of "Assalamu alaikum" which means: May God's peace and blessings be upon you :) Thank you, Brendon, for all that you do

[@andrewrose1903]

I've watched hundreds of your videos Brendon. In this one, I see you "at your inspiring best". Keep it up.

[@franistronks3049]

Brendon, you are a phenomenal human! I'm so grateful for your message! You are fascinating! I learn so much from you! Thank you for bring so much joy into the world! This world needs you!

[@nichetime]

Thank you for your service Brendon! You matter to me. What I continue to learn from you is hands down....AMAZING! God bless you!

[@fredocorleone3280]

Open your heart to EVERYONE! Act people-pleasing and generous to everyone, even the 3-5% of the population who are sociopaths, who will see you as a target and who will subsequently abuse and manipulate you because you are a "kind, weak and easy" target for them to exploit.

[@selfconnection6345]

fredocorleone I second that buddy. Just left a manipulator husband of 19 years and life is beginning now. I won't lose my open, honest compassion for people just because there are jerks out there. This is such a great reminder to positively project!

[@JtruUk]

Great video Brendon. I always feel positive energy when I watch your videos! :)

[@giannisniper96]

it's amazing, everytime i feel bad or pessimistic i watch some of your videos and somehow you can flip upside down my view of the world. just thank you! keep it up, you're changing people's perspective

[@_Palesa_M]

Hey Brendon! You just got yourself new subbie! Yaaaaaay! 🎉🎊🥳🍾 I am naturally boisterous and loud and with that I can start, continue and hold conversation. I am the typical people’s person and I know people love being around me, however what I noticed is that people tend to know more about me than I know about them (I know that’s bad 🙈, but at least I am aware) and which brings me to your second point. I don’t think I take general interest in other people as I should. I tend to be complacent with what other people voluntarily give me and not necessarily ask a lot in fear of being invasive. In as much as I have that personality, I am kinda private and I prefer people knowing me until a certain point so when people do ask me what I do believe is invasive I will politely say “Not to be rude or anything but I would prefer not to discuss that”. So with me being like that and having certain boundaries as to how far certain people, how then do you know that you taking interest in the person is not invasive. I really don’t like coming across as nosy or making anyone uncomfortable! How do I overcome my fear of being invasive so that I can be free to take genuine interest in people?

[@KingaGorski]

An insightful point to contemplate - not to assume other people’s energy 🙏

[@gojiguy88]

Brendan, I’d love to see a video of how to effectively make a relationship with two differing love languages work and excel. Thank you for all you do! Your videos have truly changed me and my life! God bless you!

[@MaryJane-zt3pn]

Thank you Sir!!! I've found your page at the exact moment I really need the great advice you have to give. Just starting a big new job, big new position..really need to stay focused on the positive. I have a feeling your videos are really going to help! Is it weird that listening to you feels like I'm wrapping my anxiety-ridden brain with a cozy blanket? Lol.. much gratitude to you.

[@mmvasquez713]

This is exactly what I've been trying to do for the past couple of months ! Great video showing how I can remain doing this even in my time of stress and anxiety. Wish you joy,health, and love :)

[@DanielaCunhaEFT]

Thank You! Brilliant! The part - Don't mirror people energy - I need that! I realized that's exactly what is happening to me, thank you!

[@omayrag4]

You’re amazing Brendan. God bless you for your kind, thoughtful and wise words. Always!

[@TheLisaTorres]

That's great to say have the intention to imprint positivity on people.

[@parvanehshafiei1]

U r the best Brandon..your words is a reminder to all of us for being human

[@ES-bl1wy]

I did all that naturally and it took 20 years to realize my kindness and empathy towards others was damaging because more people abused me and would take my knidness and empathy for grant. Even to the point people would ask me how come I was always smiling. I enjoyed people. I can't say that anymore. Now I just feel cursed. 💔😢

[@kitkam5003]

After watching your video, you already conveyed very positive energy to me, thank you for sharing and good luck with more people, cheers

[@Jeffrey4Chargers]

thanks for making these videos brendon, I really enjoy watching these late at nights to draw inspiration. you are a light. p.s. live life fully, love openly and make your difference and joy health and love I'll remember for sure.

[@saxophonexsb1407]

So far, I consider this video my favorite. If your books are as good as your videos, all of them would become bestselling pieces of hard work. Thank you.

[@fitnessmentoringwithdaniel6006]

Hey Brendon! Thank you so much for all your effort in sharing your wisdom with us. You are one of my greatest motivators. I was wondering if you could make a video on: "How to help a loved one break free of the caged life". This would be so helpful and appreciated. God bless you, Brendon.

[@HMSteadman]

I'm so glad I found your channel. Great videos made with such positivity and filled with great content. ✌️ Thank you!

[@TameraWeeks1]

Share positive energy from within!!

[@andreasjohannson6573]

Ah, another revelation :-). You are helping me towards the good life so much. And this - being a good human - is I guess one of the main pillars of ones own happiness and of that of the world. Thank you!

[@easytipsfortherealhappines7769]

Brendon you are so amazing I am so blessed and grateful for you my brother and you are a great gift for this world

[@cathybelyea]

this really opened my eyes for 2016 and what my goals are going to be. thanks Brendon

[@rebeccarogan7897]

Great as always ..very helpful to remember! not to mirror others ..I need to put this in practice everyday

[@carrendingal2979]

you're an amazing person....i really thank you a lot for bringing such wonderful thoughts of positivity more power.

[@ThinkingThomasNotions]

Number Three called to mind an exhortation of Martin Luther King, Jr. - "Be a thermostat, not a thermometer." Many thanks, Brendon for your generous offerings.

[@mimmkey]

Well played Thomas!!! I've never heard that before but I love that quote. Thank you for sharing:)

[@larasmith490]

🦋Yep, that’s why having empathy is so important

[@coolman949]

I believe SAYING "hey, how's it going" to that person you pass by is way more effective than thinking to yourself "I wish you nothing but joy"

[@ANiiMETk]

This is great! Needed this it's so hard to reach out and chasing our dreams and personal goals can make us very selfish in sometimes a more emotional way. It's been hard to reach out lately, but this has motivated me! Thanks Subscribed!

[@spanishsky2012]

Brendan you are a truly amazing human being, thank you for all you bring x

[@naomikemmie9219]

Thank you so much Brendon for all the great life skills you share. I look forward to your videos every week:)

[@renugorringe1952]

Hi brendan . I has washing you every vedio you on it been for year . Just wanted to say thanks you so much you are my best friend, you are my best teachers, and you are it my hero on living life, thanks you again and I never forget you xxx

[@warrenisaac5634]

Excellent one Brendon. I will work at this. Thank You!

[@jaclynortizxoxo]

Yes Brendon! Please do a video on Procrastinarion!

[@jaclynortizxoxo]

Procrastination **

[@lucasbiermann2225]

+Jackie learn to search on the channel before commenting about things like this, show that you care and really are working hard, that will make people less inclined to call you dumb.

[@alexandradowns3471]

Excellent podcast. Cant wait to hear more

[@euadrianabandeira]

I've loved your words. They make sense for me. Thank you!

[@doctorkimcruises]

Incredibly profound message. So well explained..

[@cristinabanulescu8463]

Thx. Amazing video ! Made my day ! Cheered me up in this grey Monday !

[@bru1015]

I have a friend who has a lot of struggles. She has money, has a wonderful place in the pines with a beautiful view. Her problem is she believes she’s been abducted by aliens. She thinks because she has ringing in the ears they are trying to get to her. Her family doesn’t believe her and have disconnected and because they don’t believe her she has lashed out at them at family events. I’m her only friend, but I’m getting tired of listening to her about her experiences. Her family want her to get help, but she won’t. Now I’m wanting to back away too, but unsure of how to do it. 😞

[@ishanibhardwaj421]

Brendon you opened my mind when you said that our brain has emotional antenna that catches other people's emotions. I have the tendency to catch those so much that I associate them with me and drain my positive energy. I feel restless and often feel negative. Please tell what should I do?

[@imkaraedwards]

I love this so much, Brendon! And I totally feel that energy from you!

[@regina15ful99]

Thank you for sharing such great, daily affirmations to live by on a daily basis.

[@johannbadenhorst4920]

I wish you all joy, health and love.

[@jyotikrishnamohan7493]

I am so glad I found this amazing video!! I loved it! Thank you so much!!

[@q.b.3828]

I'm going to try this out and see if this advice is tangible in my life.

[@furqansiddiqui8129]

You are the one of greatest motivater I ever seen..... love ur videoes

[@SamsonECakpo]

Brendon you're amazing.

[@l-r9427]

This was so uplifting! I just felt a shift in my mental status while watching this.

[@PulpitFriendship]

hey - loving your videos. awesome awesome awesome... appreciate the encouragement... and your voice in my life. Lots of blessings to you. P. Love

[@araxykherlopian4700]

Thank you Brandon - i needed to hear this. Looking forward for daily motivational snippets .