The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 1 Episode 7 | Recap | Review

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[@goaliechick149]

Mildred equating being Latina to not having manners was wild. Good on Tiff for calling her out!

[@Meganb1286]

This

[@Nay-wd1tp]

I'm so glad that Tiff did because no ma'am! I'm Latina and that's a shitty excuse to be rude and loud.

[@kells4315]

To be real I actually get it. I'm not Latina, but my friends and family all have a cadence where we talk over each other (probably because a bunch of us have ADHD lmao). And it can be a problem when someone with a different cadence comes in to try to find a space to chime in if they don't know to just interrupt. I usually end up just piping up for them and going " ___ what were you going to say?". I am better one on one though with shifting that cadence.

[@macarmenadoree]

I understand, but honestly some people don't consider cutting people off rude. As a partner, I think Mildred could've done better in this moment, but I also think it's important to acknowledge that "manners" is an extremely culturally subjective term.

[@tekqist28]

Its not a good excuse, but as a Latina it's totally true, you have to be loud to be heard in our households. Defence mechanism.

[@ndeat.5833]

THANK you. Mal SENT me with that “do you want niggas to DIE FOR YOU???” I needed that slip from her constant professionalism 😂😂😂

[@Hanayaaa]

She was hilarious

[@jclyntoledo]

I forgot about this 😂😂

[@Abracadabra1111]

14:12 timestamp

[@dyamonjones7497]

I'm glad Mal turned up a bit because I absolutely admired their ability to be calm and provide Yoly space. However, Yoly is getting real reckless and I'm glad Mal spoke up.

[@smathew8810]

Mal needs to let Yoly go. She didn't propose to Yoly before coming on the show because, she felt Yoly didn't express how Mal was different and special from her other relationships. Now, Mal is suddenly ready to propose because she's scared of losing Yoly. Fear can't be the guiding force of your decisions. True love comes with a sense of calm and not fear.

[@oliveyim5216]

Like Vanessa. Vanessa wasn’t ready to get married to Xander until she saw the possibility walking away with someone else.

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

Yup! Not saying Mal is like Vanessa, but they’re both doing the same thing. The fear of losing Yoly is making Mal switch up all their concerns.

[@cruzlozano]

@@UrbanDecayLova247I'm def saying Mal is like Vanessa! lol

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

@@cruzlozano Lol agree to disagree

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

It’s that “you don’t know what you have til it’s gone” syndrome. Some ppl need reality checks but it’s also a double edged sword. If you need a reality check, you’re not ready to begin with.

[@amukelanim9179]

Xander and Yoly need to stop playing and just be together I feel so sad for Mal

[@midwifek]

That’s how I feel

[@Salutations26]

I think they both need to be alone for a minute. I

[@Nay-wd1tp]

Sam had the most growth in this show! She was not having it and I'm so proud of her!!!!

[@VeritasVerla]

I am so sick of Lexi, she is too much, she’s younger but so controlling. Her obsession with Vanessa is too much, Vanessa apologized so give her room to grow.

[@salamander8301]

Yep she is straight up awful

[@zaneleleeuo1876]

Honestly, it was so annoying to watch... like get over it already

[@amandadosanjos3994]

If we’re being honest this is the most genuine reality tv dating show there has ever been.

[@dancestar722]

Are You the One season 1 also

[@candiimarieful]

Yes!!! Totally agree!

[@bobococo89]

This is hands down my favorite reality tv show! I think it’s better than LIB

[@merwolf7291]

It reminds me of The Real L world. I could get through the first season ultimatum , but with this one has me hooked.

[@LK-rt9cb]

Mal gives Mistress vibes, controlling her emotions, caring more about Yoli’s welfare than her own. I wish the show had given more evidence of why Yoli commands so much love from both Mal and Xander. While she holds a key role, we don’t know that much about her. What does she offer her partners to make them offer so much in return?

[@im26c4u5]

She's doing that now realizing Yoly is capable of moving on. Mal said she had Yoly chasing her before in that latest episode (the tables have flipped).

[@LK-rt9cb]

@@im26c4u5 You're right:) Everyone changes their tune when they realize their partner has other options...

[@im26c4u5]

@LK-rt9cb Yep, that's why I don't understand why everyone is "talking down" on Yoly. Yoly has said how Mal's behavior is a new adjustment as well so she doesn't know how to respond to the way she's behaving NOW. I think it's very selfish of Mal to switch up only so Yoly doesn't move on... because she might go back to her old self again or resent Yoly. I don't dislike neither, they're human, it's very common for people to switch up when they feel like they're losing someone they thought would always be there.

[@SmallBritney]

Mal/Sam/Rae need to choose themselves

[@HopeHomicide]

11:36 when yoly said she was going to go talk to Mildred for a second but she actually just wanted to talk to Xander lol

[@HRHPrinceFarouk]

Thank you Tiffany for calling Mildred out. Respect isn’t about race.

[@anebasammy]

No, but there is a thing linguistically called collaborative overlap. Not every culture takes turns when having a conversation. Furthermore there have been many times where tough has interrupted conversation.

[@sarahanguria9908]

Lexi is so controlling , disrespectful and untrusting I hope Rae let’s her go . Lexi needs time to grow up.

[@umusty619]

Did you guys peep that after the cocktail party when Mal asked Yoly: "Do you want people to die for you!" Yoly literally treated the dog like a scared child. "Don't worry, she's gonna go outside. It's okay..." It's the way i rolled my eyes at the screen. Mal has so much love to give and she can give it all to me

[@stsworld4669]

To me it just showed she was uncomfortable 🤷🏾‍♀️ I can’t even be mad at her cause I do that with my dog he sense when things are off and i comfort him and in turn comfort myself… but I get a lot of people don’t understand animals and their owners

[@LALA-FU]

Mal has love to give but their issues stem on intimacy. If Yoly wants to be sexual and Mal can’t reciprocate that’s 100% valid and understandable, but you can’t expect someone to stay if there was intimacy in the beginning, and want them to stay even though it’s no longer there anymore. Mal is lovely and clearly has a lot of love to give, but clearly Yoly is looking for an other form of love that Mal can’t fulfill for her.

[@cruzlozano]

i don't understand your perspective at all. mal got plain scary and aggressive. that's embarrassing from someone asking to have kids

[@im26c4u5]

Mal just wants to be chosen.. that's all it is. She has a big ego because she switched completely after realizing Yoly wants Xander.

[@HRHPrinceFarouk]

Sam has had the most growth! Hope it ends well for her. Aussie needs some help. Seems a good person though. Lexi is a bit annoying now. I understand her anger but can she separate the issues and tone it down a bit. She either solves their issues or split up.

[@ngozichukwuneke7863]

Yoli proved Mal’s point of falling in love with everyone. Yoli is a mess 😂

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

The most annoying thing about Tiff and Mildred is that their arguing is WHY Tiff doesn’t think they’re ready. They both have strong personalities, but only one of them is recognizing an actual problem. Mildred is on a timeline and acting like Tiff is just coming up with excuses when she’s not! Mildred doesn’t listen & while Tiff will accept an invitation to a fight, I don’t feel they are the one initiating most of them with Mildred. The fact that Tiff’s time with Sam after the dog fight was chill tells me Tiff is capable of not being combative in a different relationship. All in all, they need to break up 😂

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Why does the pronoun they exist for a singular person? Can someone please explain this to me? This is horrible for the English language and it feels like a bad dream smfh

[@captaincosmic8153]

@@AnaAcuraErica they has always been able to be used for a singular person in the English language. Example: “Where is Angela?” “They’re outside.” ----- *ordering a drink for a friend* “Do you know if they want ice or no ice?” In general, language changes all the time and it’s okay to adapt to new things!

[@AnaAcuraErica]

@@captaincosmic8153 moreover, they is not singular!! It’s PLURAL and Im sure in every language it translates to!! Y’all need to stop tearing down this English language!! I’m sure it started with the lgbt group in the US cus y’all are some entitled acting m-fers! Get it together and think how humans 100yrs gonna look back at all this. Even perhaps reading this very message chain 🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@DianeShira]

Love Xander and Yoli together, but wish they'd stop "sneaking" their love ... appreciate Mal's ability to give Yoli a safe space to feel her feels, and work through the hard stuff. Used to like Lexi, and now I just find her to be an immature, gaslighting bully. (hoping she's grown up a bit since they filmed.) Aussie needs to deep-dive into some serious therapy and Vanessa is just ... yeah, I can't even with her but I *am* exhausted by the others bullying her. And Tiff!!! Tiff has grown on me, and now I truly like them (especially how they handled Mildred's "well, I'm a Latina so ..." ) Great show!! Can't wait 'till the final two episodes drop next week!

[@joanna0988]

I agree with everything you said, great breakdown 🙌😅

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

For Lexi, I just think she’s young. Younger people tend to have a very black-and-white thinking, a lot of times it takes maturing/experiences to see the grey. With that being said, she has no business getting married but neither does Rae. Loving someone who doesn’t know who they are, if they deserve love, etc. can be real frustrating.

[@LuvScorpio]

I don't trust Vanessa at all, her dad clocked her big time. She only wants to marry Xander now because they're in love with Yoly. Vanessa thought she was the end all be all for Xander. I wish Mal could be strong enough to leave Yoly. And I still want Yoly & Xander together ❤❤

[@KatDeel]

I totally agree!!!

[@Daveyjonesvi]

Yup Vanessa’s dad clocked the fear of Xander leaving her and I’m glad he said something. And yes I’m here for Xoly!!

[@nessa1454]

At the end I started feeling sorry for her😢

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

Vanessa’s dad clocked her cuz that’s how he use to be!

[@sarahgates6947]

I think Xander and Yoly are just lusting after each other. Maybe they will last and should definitely try but I don’t think this is love.

[@SweetsRN]

Nah Aussie said they would love to not work and stay home since Sam makes more money, did anyone catch that? She wants to stay home and pursue the things “they love” lmfaoo. Not even to raise kids, just to stay home! Sam, run baby!

[@Isabel_fit]

You’re so right!!! When I met my husband in college, I loved how he was authentically himself and wouldn’t back down to others. Now that we’re married, it’s a whole ordeal trying to get him to compromise on any little thing 🙃

[@joanna0988]

This is my experience with my husband too 😅 Been together 18 years since we were 17 and I'm a people pleaser so I loved his carefree ways but later on it caused us lots of issues.

[@arrianagreen6473]

@@joanna0988Yesss ugh, been with my bf for two years. I’m a people pleaser too and he doesn’t not care about what anyone thinks of him which I think is super admirable and I do learn from, but sometimes we find it hard to compromise, especially since we’re both so stubborn. It’s not an issue that is threatening to our relationship and I wouldn’t leave him over it, but I do get the frustration.

[@joanna0988]

@@arrianagreen6473 Yes I hear you ❤️ It's so hard. Counseling has helped me a lot but my husband refuses to go.

[@naomiworkman5275]

Girl thank you for these reviews! I know you were upset earlier on and considering not recapping anymore but I'm very glad that you kept doing ya thing girl! I appreciate you❤

[@melissalomax1041]

Your delivery is chef’s kiss!!!!

[@Daveyjonesvi]

I think yoli has fallen out of love with mal a long time ago. She has been hinting but also explicitly saying mal isn’t the right one becasue even when she does the things Xander did, she says it’s still not enough. I truly just think yoli has fallen out of love but because time she has stayed.

[@destined2bebossy]

Which is wild cause she issued the ultimatum

[@Daveyjonesvi]

@@destined2bebossy if you fall out of love with someone you done issue an ultimatum that’s just an extra step rather than just breaking up from the start

[@Diabbie]

Aussie...is kind of annoying. I get the blonde one was the most chaotic one in the beginning and we universally agreed. But Aussie...is just annoyingly boring. And SO uncompromising. It's giving strict niche energy giving basically nothing back.

[@umusty619]

Aussie is too old to be acting like that. And yes, I know, trauma sees no age, but in this day and age? It's 2023, therapy isn't a stigma anymore. The amount of times Aussie has run is comical

[@Daveyjonesvi]

Aussie is so damn annoying like they can’t even talk about anything without getting triggered and walking away. It’s okay to recollect and have a convo at a later point but this often and for almost every problem??? It is severely immature. They are way too old to be doing this and as my fellow commentor said they need therapy.

[@yonopino16]

Most people has pointed out the age. Is like Aussie has the Peter Pan syndrome, common in many masc women copying toxic male traits. Aussie does not deserve a woman like Sam and hope Sam move on and find what she deserves

[@jadechaya9025]

I masc so me no clean. WHAT??

[@vpurplehazing7274]

If Aussie does have a proposal for Sam I hope Sam declies she deserve someone who is emotionally mature

[@joanna0988]

Sam is such a sweetheart she needs a true partner and Aussie is definitely not ready to be that for anyone.

[@ashleyhaynes5323]

I feel that Rae and Lexi can make it, only if Lexi communicates better and if Rae expresses herself directly.

[@LALA-FU]

Rae also needs to stop playing victim all the time. I was getting major red flags when her reaction to something bad *SHE DID* was to self-deprecate as oppose to actually apologize. Mal and Lexi seem much more sincere with each other and they’ve only met a couple weeks.

[@ashleyhaynes5323]

@@LALA-FU I’m not buying a real relationship from mal and Lexi … friendship for life ,yes but not dating. Rae definitely feels like she doesn’t have a voice in her relationship Lexi is clearly dominate when it comes to communication .

[@gracechurch1791]

I think Mal is the most mature person on this show. She is so chill and measures. Love her.

[@katnat6030]

I hope Yoly and Xander end up together. They’re cute and their connection is 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@macarmenadoree]

Same!!

[@arrianagreen6473]

Third generation Puerto Rican girl here who also grew up with a very loud Latino family, and Mildred reminds me so much of my grandmother. She’s raised me and been there for me in ways my parents weren’t but just like Mildred, the moment you do something to even SLIGHTLY tick her off, she takes great offense and starts getting very passive aggressive and loud. In the end, it turns into a screaming match and communication just becomes impossible. Their pride and assertiveness just blinds them from admitting any type of fault or taking accountability. I do think there is an issue with communication in Latino families sometimes where yelling and arguing becomes the norm. If y’all remember Giannina from love is blind season 1, she also has this issue and came from a loud Latino family.

[@anebasammy]

You know your family best clearly but I do think we have to allow for different cultural styles and not every community takes turns in conversation. I can't speak about the passive aggression and accountability part but collaborative conversations are a thing. LOL

[@midwifek]

Rae needs therapy and to be single for a while

[@macarmenadoree]

Tbh all of them need therapy and me too 😂

[@yemio1005]

Lexie got on my NERVES Mildred has also gotten on my last 🙄 Yoly….girl BYE

[@JustJohnda]

Mal and Yoly are an example of two things being true at the same time. The Yoly and Xander interaction may be messy, but let's not act like Mal wasn't trying to run game on Lexi like a p-i-m-p from their first meeting. All the smooth talking, promises and smiling . . . I felt like I was watching an episode of "Pimps Up, Hoes Down." Mal tried to get Lexi into bed as well. Lexi turned Mal down. Lexi flipped the script on the last night, and by then it was too late b/c Mal had enough sense to know hitting it the night before the switch was just dumb. Just like Yoli and Xander were love bombing each other, Mal and Lexi were doing the same thing verbally from their first date. Mal was NOT a model partner, just like Yoly. She admitted that and the things Yoly said when they got back together confirmed it. Yoly was in the traditional wifey role, with a mate expecting her to take care of them; just like Mal was in the traditional role of providing and protecting (her excuse for not getting married).

[@stsworld4669]

Thank you !!! Exactly this I don’t side with anyone (except maybe Aussie and Vanessa I’m not a fan) cause I feel like they all have their problems and I can see both sides! And people want a villain so bad out of each couple especially Mal and Yoly where people want to ignore all of Mals faults.

[@JustJohnda]

@S&T’s WoLOL! Exactly. I have been looking at Mal like, "How the fug, we get here?" since the first time she sat down with Alex. At Mal's BIG age of 34-36, they were acting like a mofo who had never been up close to a blond with tig bitties. It was not cute a cute look at all. Over the top promises about taking care of her and everything. If you can't bet on anything else about Yoly, you can take it to the bank that she is exactly who Mal said she was, a woman who falls fast and hard for the person she is with at the time. That is exactly what she did. I am not saying it's right, or her feelings for Xander aren't real, just that it's consistent. That is who she is, and knowing that, they rolled the dice. Problem was, nobody counted on Xander being sleeping giant. Combine Xander's seemingly nice persona, with some skillz in other areas 👀 (we heard Yoly - lol), and Xander is an undercover "They Steal Your Girl." Lol!

[@cruzlozano]

yup!!!!

[@zaneleleeuo1876]

​@JustJohnda lol I agree with you and I think Vanessa didn't think Xander was gonna find someone and fall in love.. she was thinking, she's the catch.

[@chileyousomessy]

Hands would have been thrown at the party cause that Yoly and Xander was disrespectful like Mal stand tf up

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

I haven’t watched this variation of the ultimatum but these namesssss! These names are sending me my goodnessss😅☠️☠️.

[@Jvhro1947]

I really enjoy your reviews so much ! This show is underrated lol

[@coralbluenumber7lipstick688]

We really appreciate you gworl! You feed us so well omg ❤

[@heyprettykeepsmiling]

I remember the scene from the beginning before the first choice ceremony where Xander told Vanessa that she had a connection with Yoli, and Vanessa freaked out and said she didn't even want to speak to Xander if she chose Yoli for the trial marriage because she was mean to her. Lexi is giving the same treatment to Rae now literally saying I don't care what happened, I care who it happened with. Lexi is punishing Rae big time based on her (Lexi's) personal feelings towards Vanessa. In the beginning I thought Lexi is very assertive and mature for her age, but now I see she is very opinionated and controlling and can be a hardcore bully when someone/something is not according to her expectation, while playing the bigger person. I hope Rae gives herself some alone time to figure out who she is and what she wants without someone telling her.

[@Dskyx]

I wish they launch season 2 with more mix of Lgbt, I fall in love with this show immediately cuz it's different compare to regular heterosexual Bachelor relationship show. It makes the outsiders to see that queer world also having same life and problems like regular couple

[@AnaAcuraErica]

This show is showing that lesbians are not like regular couples 😐 there’s too much arguing and the main difference irl being domestic violence cases ijs this isn’t a show that displays good, balanced homosexuals 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s very entertaining but every one of these people has things to figure out and Netflix needs to stop putting marriage as some type of prize? It’s something that should be taken more seriously. Nothing about this show screams ohh this couple will last forever… imo ijs

[@macarmenadoree]

Well, I'm not sure about which Latina culture Mildred's talking about specifically but what is considered manners and respect ABSOLUTELY changes depending on the culture you're in. And it's easy for to assume it doesn't when you're part of and/or assimilated into the dominant one. Rather than saying "respect has no race" I would say -- "I understand we come from different cultures, but what you're doing is hurting me. As your partner, I'm asking if we can find a solution together where both our needs are getting met."

[@anebasammy]

This was stated so perfectly! The dominant culture is not the standard we should uphold. Many cultures have a collaborative communication style and don't take turns to speak. The irony is Tiff often interrupts Mildred.

[@macarmenadoree]

@@anebasammy Thanks! I totally agree with you and if you don't mind I'm stealing the term 'collaborative communication style' -- I'm a stan for non-judgmental descriptive terms!

[@anebasammy]

@@macarmenadoree Formal term is 'cooperative overlap,' coined by linguists Deborah Tannen in her book Conversational Style. Yes, it's not 'wrong,' just different

[@Ebiisan]

11:38 the way my face and eyes would have glitched if I was Mal! How you gonna tell me you going to Mildred and then be up under ZANDER😮‍💨 It’s over. Please Miss leave me alone. Good bye. I’m out the door you clearly don’t care. The sad part is I don’t even think Mal and Lexi are a thing. She came back to Yoly eager😭 But let me hush up. On these shows the person you favor always ends up being a monster🤣🤣🤣

[@joanna0988]

Mal saw how immature Lexi really is by her obsession with Vanessa.

[@soniamackenzie9675]

I think putting Xander on the spot infront of the others was unfair by Mal BUT I get her hurt and frustration in being dismissed left and right by Yoly while she was on some sneaky link mission with Xander all night...that was disrespectful to me and unnecessary. Yoly and Xander acting it's been 40 days and 40 nights since they saw each other. I mean damn she didn't even miss Mal like that or wasn't that happy to be back with her. Mal wants better for herself, as she should because before she was too chill to me. What's crazy to me is Yoly and Xander are the ones that issued the ultimatums yet they've fallen fast for each other like they've known each other all their lives. It's as if they've forgotten that they were the ones that wanted to see change in their partners...now they don't appreciate the changes.

[@bobococo89]

Glad you are reviewing this! People love to hear your views. Don’t let anyone bully you (that includes me) because views can be different 😊

[@sarahanguria9908]

I don’t see any hope for Aussies change of character. At 42 !!! she still acts like a teenager , I hope Sam doesn’t choose her but I think she will.

[@pytube777]

Xander so reminds me of Ellen Degeneres😂

[@lueva1458]

Finally someone say this!😂

[@blossomx1804]

why does Vanessa not wanting Monogomy or traditional marriage mean she isn't grown though. I don't watch the show just the reaps and it seems like she's been pretty consistent with how she felt from the start, which is a sign of maturity.

[@cruzlozano]

cause this show is toxic lol

[@macarmenadoree]

I've been saying this from the beginning too. Vanessa can def be annoying sometimes, but there's nothing wrong with not wanting monogamy or traditional marriage. I think the show really leans hard on compulsory monogamy being the main point of contention/drama, but think of how much MORE dramatic it would be if Vanessa, Xander, Yoly, and Mal ALL left in a relationship TOGETHER?? Ohhh twitter wouldn't sleep months!! 🤣🤣

[@blossomx1804]

@@macarmenadoree Lol seems like a perfect fix to me...and probably Vanessa too!

[@christineatieno614]

Mal needs to realize that they are the price...if Yoly wants to leave she can leave!!! Mal will be fine.

[@unicornL]

Yoly should have told Mal privately tbh. I felt bad

[@lorraebrooks9286]

I honestly thought they were going to leave together then and there

[@unicornL]

I kinda see where Yoly is coming from

[@chenni4127]

15:25 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@christinechin1909]

I’m here for the education. 😊

[@kckitten18]

Help... looking 4 a particular song from this episode 7 starts time 34.16 Where Xander & Yoly are hugging w Mildred at the reunion at the table...Help...thanks

[@ethelrocks553]

I low-key feel like that was a conversation for Xander to have with Mal. Because you have been having all these side convos with the person I came here with but everytime I ask you, you act as though it's really nothing going on. Mal deserved a moment to be like admit you want Yoly in public, out loud, with confidence. Because I am suffering very publicly while y'all play in my face

[@AiSayuriChan]

I think we gotta cut Lexi some slack because it's only been a week or two since the cheating happened. That's a lot to process and it can literally take years to get over your partner's infidelity (according to therapists). So Lexi still being mad at Rae and Vanessa and trying to figure things out and needing lots of reassurance and stuff from Rae is pretty normal. Having to meet Vanessa again must've been terrible but I think she actually did well. Could've been way worse. And yes, of course Lexi would still feel insecure about Rae and wouldn't want her to interact with Vanessa. I personally don't like Rae's and Lexi's interactions very much at this point and I think they won't get past this without couple's therapy. I still think we should have compassion for them, too. Rae doesn't really do a good job at explaining herself or giving Lexi reassurance either, so that makes it extra hard to fix. Rae also claims she apologized and takes accountability but then doesn't want Lexi to express her feelings about the whole thing and can't really do anything to make Lexi feel better. You know what I mean? Imo Rae seems to like the role of the "professional victim" and you can clearly see how all of the cast members feel the same way about her (e.g. having to protect her, viewing Vanessa as the bad guy) except for Vanessa (who's got a lot of narc traits imo, so it's not surprise she doesn't fall for that). Rae also uses self-depricating talk to make Lexi (and others) feel bad for her and use their empathy against them. I do agree with Rae though: When she said her and Vanessa had things in common when it comes to selfishness, she was totally right. It's just shown differently. One person who's kinda arrogant and more openly selfish while the other one is a professional "damsel in distress".

[@martinaj4571]

I agree. I've had previous exes pull the victim card like Rae when they did something wrong and it was like the typical "nice guy/girl" trope that they put forward to evade responsibility. Lexi is placing a lot of blame on Rae but really she should have just stopped arguing and realized they aren't a match.

[@AiSayuriChan]

@@martinaj4571 Yeah, it's just so difficult to accept your relationship is dead, isn't it? :/ Especially since Lexi wants to be chosen so bad and also wanted to marry Rae... If you're in that position, I imagine it's even harder to let go. I think it'd be easier if Lexi and Mal had developed a strong bond, so that Lexi could switch partners like Xander (we don't know yet but that's what I hope will happen) or have a rebound. But Mal is clearly still attached to Yoly...

[@cruzlozano]

i appreciate how much more respectful you try to be with this show. and i like your delivery a lot. but i dont agree that vanessa's leaning towards polyamory is funny at all. it's real. and i don't agree that mal is in the right asking yoly to make a decision when she isn't ready. i also find it confusing that for vanessa to say she gave xander all the space to be close to yoly is "growth" for you (at first) but then when mal hovers, and pushes yoly (very hard) for a quick decision it's not the opposite of growth. you stand by her. there is a double standard there.

[@TheQueenE]

I’ve said before I have suspicions about Xander and Vanessa’s relationship as well as Vanessa consistently making jokes about having 3somes with damn near everyone on the cast. And yes it comes off as a double standard because I’m not painting the relationships with the same brush

[@kayla9363]

I don’t understand why you can’t judge someone by who they fraternize with? Someone enlighten me. At a point, you are co-signing that persons behavior, views, etc

[@Thebiggest7303]

Idk why but something about Rae.

[@ellejcarter]

GIRL! Yoly chose Xander, & if the reunion Xander didn’t end up choosing Yoly?! Xander?! (Bleep) you. & Sam better choose herself. Aussie is great but (bleep) see a therapist dude, get all the emotional baggage out. Save yourselves!

[@joanna0988]

Why would it be bleep you to Xander?

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Does Xander choose Vanessa?!??

[@ellejcarter]

@@AnaAcuraErica ima fight Xander. You deadass gonna choose “a fun time” over a wife?! C’mon son!

[@Jvhro1947]

I knew she chose Xander once I saw the preview for the next episodes she was sitting on the curb crying… Wow 😯 Mal .

[@ellejcarter]

@@Jvhro1947 I feel bad for Mal, honestly. But C’mon, Lexi is YOUR WIFE!

[@camarada9755]

Lexis a child and should be an orange flag in-itself she’s giving an ultimatum at 24.. tf? It’s clear she’s threatened by Vanessa, from the start really, and this goes beyond her messing w/Rae. (loudest in the room and that intimidates her).

[@joanna0988]

They're both "influencers" 😂 I guess Lexi didn't want competition.