The Unmarked Grave of Joey Stefano

[@JosephSciambra]

Some viewers have commented about why there is no headstone for Joey Stefano - from what I have gathered on the internet, there was a stone at onetime, but it was repeatedly defaced, so it was removed and not replaced. That might have been the decision of Nick Iacona's family. No criticism or judgement should be made against them; they have suffered enough.

[@readynow12345]

I knew him from NYC, I saw him dance at the Gaiety in 1987, the dude was a trip to say the least..

[@anonymousw07]

I suppose that you are a resilient gay that have seen to die a Lot of Friends or known by you and now you are doing a kind of emotional catarsis cause you have survived to aids and other from your Friends not and maybe you feel sadness and nostalgy by all people that you Lost in the way of Life

[@user-cm9nn9mf6s]

the grave is now marked

[@stevostevo202]

It seems so sad that his gravestone had to be removed due to vandalism. He was a handsome man who died too young. Thanks for posting this.

[@juancarlos9592]

Very sad. His family must be devastated. Est in peace Joey

[@Tupunaforever]

No one asks anyone to do anything....choices are made by individuals......but the porn industry has a lot to answer for....so many gifted young men have died at the hands of the porn industry including this young man....his life cut short....may he rest in peace....thankyou for taking us to his resting place.....x

[@richardgribble8438]

He's there with his father who died of cancer, it's a real shame that you can't even put a grave stone for someone, Nick lived he was a worthy person his life meant something

[@michaelmiller1215]

Very sad to have an un-marked grave.

[@angelusavila3832]

I spoke with him twice. He was a good man! Nick is loved by God! Pray for me, Nick, from Heaven! I pray for you dailey, RIP!

[@badboy.vic.o]

Gone too soon. I had the hugest crush on him. Thank you for bringing him back to life for me. I'm forever a fan, Joey. Rest in peace handsome...

[@ErickHumboldt]

he was unfortunately more vulnerable than he thought, this world was not made for you. now God protects you RIP ❤❤

[@tonkatrucker]

this is so sad, and unfortunately- it is still ongoing in the gay community. So many of us are bright, energetic- many are drop dead handsome... but "self-worth" is still at an all time low. Several current porn stars ( July, 2018)- have publicly said they are lonely, hurt- afraid, and many are taking their own lives. Breaks my heart. How does one teach someone about self-esteem and self-relevance? I suspect, that these porn stars... if they had these things... would not be porn stars, but rather leading productive lives- outside of their "looks". All gay youth/ men and even seniors- need to somehow band together and start thinking with their "proper" head.

[@ML-ov7wo]

they're not just searching for self-worth

[@emjay5577]

I’ve never seen him in film but heard about him. I have such a feeling of compassion for him. He was so young when he died such a sad death. The prayers of his family for him when he was alive did not go unheard. I have prayed for his soul and had a Mass said for him. God is the final judge. He looks at our whole life and not just one part. He knows why we are the way we are and what caused us to act a certain way. I pray that Our Lord had mercy on Nicholas and the he is with Him.

[@nestoreliogarcia3128]

Trabajo con Ryan Idols.

[@11inuvik]

He was a stunning boy! The scene where he walks on beach in red speedo was a delight. It is unfortunate he ended so tragically. His end came about because his physical end knew little control. His sexuality had really nothing to do with his demise. Drugs did him in, as it did to other stunners. May he find the peace such an exquisite boy truly needs.

[@ML-ov7wo]

sexuality and your self control around it is tied into other vices like drugs, alcoholism, eating disorders. they feed each other.

[@carlosjavierguzman1509]

This amazing guy will ever live in our hearts!

[@kellyswabb5479]

Rest in peace..

[@willyboy6126]

Thank you for showing this, Joseph. Sad that Nicholas' grave has no marker. He was so young when he passed, may he rest in peace. He sure had classic movie star good looks and could have been a main stream star. He'll always be one of my faves

[@christopherstefano384]

I Am ......a greek.......he was my cuz....ws defaced because of the AIDS scare which saddens me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,hence my name.....Stefano..........for MY cuz....that was brave

[@ty_198]

RIP Very handsome boy.

[@ahotdj07]

Does anyone go and pay respect to him? I would if I knew where he is laid to rest.

[@thomasabbott8974]

Joseph, iv just seen this video clip an feel so very sad for this young man. For all he has done. May this young man Joey Stefano. Rest in peace. An may the Lord watch over him.

[@KarlStuller]

Rest in peace beautiful man❤

[@cop39fl]

met him in ft lauderdale at ' the stud', we hit it off rt away and spent a deal of time with small talk in the dressing room/mgr's office.

[@Wild1995]

Yes, I remember his after hours show at The Stud. Incredible. He once jumped off the bar and kissed me about 3 months before his death

[@JeffBeaverTV]

This cemetery is literally a mile from my house. My step father is buried here. I should go and try to locate this grave site.

[@jkswabb3053]

R.I.P Nick

[@JohnSiple]

Joey was a heartthrob for sure. God ever rest his soul!

[@thetimmy755431]

Thanks for sharing, very impressive, me Holland.

[@carlosjavierguzman1509]

Todos los hijos de Dios tienen alas.

[@gizzykatkat9687]

I love him❤

[@ginacable5376]

Who was he? He was beautiful.

[@JamesDean-cq5bc]

Nick was someone I had modeled with in the Adult Film Industry.

[@user-cm9nn9mf6s]

his grave is now marked

[@treescape]

GAY MEN NEVER GROW OLD. straight jacket book on amazon a must read very upsetting. Endorsed by Elton john.

[@zanellizanelli2930]

Esse é o fim de todos! Independente da nacionalidade, do cunho religioso, da orientação sexual ou etnia.

[@marcusrezendevb]

I feel so bad for all these young boys struggling with feelings they don't understand, deceived into this lie of "gay identity" that can only lead to more suffering and pain. How have we, as a society, failed to even notice the suffering of these poor boys, how can we not even see what this "identity" really does to people?

[@FriendofDorothy]

I applaud your tone of compassion, but no one "deceives" males into a "gay identity". Most know the truth or at least suspect it at a fairly early age. Sexual identity is not something you can "recruit" a heterosexual lad into anymore than one could "recruit" a gay boy into being heterosexual. Young men who are vulnerable or intimidated by a powerful figure can, of course, be taken advantage of and sometimes are, but just having a homosexual sexual experience is not going to deter them from their natural attraction and desire for women if that is who they genuinely are. What you are purporting is a long out-dated myth. It makes me wonder if you have any gay friends and also why you would even watch a video like this one given your comment. As I recall this young man died of drugs; he may have had issues completely unrelated to his sexuality as I assure you by a long shot that not all gay men use drugs.

[@eckankar7756]

which spot is it? So unclear. Is it to the left of the dark headstone? Waving the camera all over doesn't document the spot well. My next time in town I'd like to visit the spot but totally unclear which space is his.

[@Thiofdz]

❤️🔥🔥❤️❤️

[@worldweary7531]

Please forgive my ignorance but who was this person and why did he pass so young?

[@JosephSciambra]

www.phillymag.com/g-philly/2013/06/11/porn-star-nexxxt-door-tragic-story-joey-stefano

[@were-all-human9427]

@@JosephSciambra wow. Thank you Sir. Just today found your channel... so much to say.. in support and respect. Thank you for this link, may I ask is this the "best and fairest" bio of Nick or can you recommend a decent bio still available?.. do you have link of any article on his resting place, other that what has been said i.e "removed through repeated vandalism", was this due to his career or other reasons? An icon never to be forgotten (hugs from UK)

[@tjittekamminga5170]

RIP

[@morrisdennis]

I think urs is a very interesting and unique mission field...

[@davidbret8371]

Joey deserves better

[@johnrobinson6809]

Joseph Seems like I've heard this handsome young mans name. Get I'll have to Google it. So Sad 😢 that such a wonderful young man be taken from us.

[@KarlStuller]

Rest in peace beautiful man❤