the worst thing for men(how social media is ruining men)

Beyond the Filter: Sadia Khan Unmasks the Hyper-Beauty Trap
*Tired of chasing perfection in women only to be met with disrespect and disappointment?* Sadia Khan, renowned relationship expert and therapist, is here to shatter the illusion of hyper-beauty and expose the truth about what truly matters in relationships.
*In this eye-opening video, Sadia dives deep into the toxic influence of social media and pornography on men's perception of beauty.* She reveals how these curated worlds, overflowing with unrealistic standards and instant gratification, have warped our understanding of attraction and turned love into a shallow pursuit of flawless faces and perfect bodies.
*But Sadia doesn't just diagnose the problem, she offers a powerful antidote.* She dismantles the myth that a woman's physical appearance is the key to happiness and fulfillment, arguing instead that *mutual attraction is the foundation of a healthy and respectful relationship.*
*Here are some key takeaways you'll discover:*
* *Why chasing hyper-beauty leads to disappointment and heartbreak.*
* *How social media and pornography distort our perception of attraction.*
* *The hidden dangers of basing relationships on physical appearance.* ⚠️
* *Why a woman's attraction to you is a more reliable indicator of compatibility than her looks.*
* *How to cultivate genuine attraction that goes beyond the surface.* ✨
* *The importance of focusing on inner qualities and shared values.* ❤️
* *Building healthy relationships based on mutual respect and understanding.*
*Sadia's message is not about bashing women or advocating for superficiality.* Instead, it's a call to *embrace authenticity, celebrate diversity, and prioritize genuine connection over fleeting infatuation.* It's about *breaking free from the shackles of societal pressures and reclaiming your power to choose partners based on what truly matters.*
*This video is a must-watch for anyone who has ever felt insecure, confused, or disappointed in their relationships.* It's time to *ditch the filters, embrace your imperfections, and find love that goes beyond the superficial.*
*Get ready to:*
* *Rethink your definition of beauty.*
* *Challenge your assumptions about attraction.*
* *Discover the power of genuine connection.*
* *Build healthier, happier relationships.*
*Don't miss this opportunity to transform your love life!*
*Share the message and spread the love!* ❤️ Use these hashtags to join the conversation:
#HyperBeautyTrap #SadiaKhan #BeyondTheFilter #RealLove #TrueAttraction #RespectfulRelationships #BreakFreeFromFilters #AuthenticityMatters #DiversityRocks #LoveYourselfFirst #FindYourPerfectMatch #RelationshipGoals #LetsTalkAboutIt
*And remember, the real beauty lies not in the flawless face, but in the genuine connection that sparks joy and respect.* ✨
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[@roaringlaughter3812]

Men seeking beauty is as old as life itself, pornography didn’t change that. Yknow what social media did? It changed the number of people telling women how beautiful they are from 0-20 to 500-100000000 overinflation of ego is and understatement in western women im married to one and let me tell you if it ever goes down western women as ab whole are off my list no matter how good they look. This video is great so well put together still blaming men. Well how about you adress the elephant in the room where western women of 40 years and younger have a cheat rate of over 50%? 60-70% of women all trying to get the top 10-20% and 80% of men being invisible? Dating apps are basically the poling data collectors we have with unprecedented accuracy (polls used to be 10 k people asked datin apps simply look at what millions of people do)

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Thank you very much for your message. I truly love the way you put it. Thank you.

[@thrill102]

Where are you getting these random stats from? There are male and female cheaters. You really can’t complain about rejection if you haven’t done the inner work like going to therapy.

[@ralphrugan5985]

They’re more to than you think you should watch the mouse utopia experiments universe 25. The behavior of the mice is pretty much to the T what’s happening to us. Even the behavior of the woman, the creation of gangs and men walking away all happened in the mice.

[@Sarcasmarkus]

​@@ralphrugan5985thanks for mentioning the mouse study, it seems to be the only real psychology here. This lady is pulling the standard blame men that's a staple of political rhetoric. There's some dude's sharing their life experiences in the comments of this video which is also truth.

[@JosePerez-xv8im]

I'd say this goes both ways

[@Vitriol-Divergent]

This is exactly why I pass on every dating profile where the woman just drops her social medias and checks out. They're basically bots.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

I think it's better to date in person.

[@Vitriol-Divergent]

Yeah I'm getting to that point. Actually taking a year off from dating entirely, sick of the "culture".

[@bodhisattva2348]

U heard nothing that she said did u? 😒

[@Vitriol-Divergent]

@@bodhisattva2348 The person who writes like they're functionally illiterate criticizing someone else for his ability to understand others is absolutely adorable.

[@bodhisattva2348]

@@Vitriol-Divergent so u have no actual argument, just a criticism of my literacy level. Superb

[@adamek9750]

dont bother chasing. Only choose a women if she chooses you first. Happy days

[@LuiJoTD]

Exactly. Just work on being the best version of yourself, sit and wait... They will chase you

[@Blaze0071]

Don't chase but make sensible approaches and it'll come

[@TombEvils]

Woman*

[@themick6586]

Wife picked me up in a club, I could tell that she would do anything for me. Married 44 + years and it's been a smooth ride. I can still give her goosebumps and tummy tingles. Guys, believe me, this is the kind of relationship you want. She derives happiness from taking care of me. And for my part I provide a verry good lifestyle for us and she is appreciated.

[@collegerebel]

*WoMAN* . Your sentence is referring to a singular subject, "Woman". "Women" is plural. You're not referring to multiple *woMEN* in your sentence.

[@emiboy900]

She’s right. Don’t hesitate to walk away when you realize a woman is not into

[@bodhisattva2348]

That went into 1 ear & out the other huh?

[@28menguild]

​@@bodhisattva2348😉

[@mathius_dragoon532]

Men have been obsessing over beautiful women long before the internet. Social media and more importantly dating apps, have a much bigger impact than pornography ever could hope to muster.

[@TheDionysianFields]

Impact on *women*

[@28menguild]

I created a video on this... Watch out.

[@Optim40]

But honestly pornography is the least of our worries. The toxicity of the current feminist movement, the toxic sensitivities looking to control everything, is a real threat to our democracy right now. It's all gone to extremes that are now of oppresive statures that want to dictate who you are, who you should be, what you can and cannot express. What you should be instead of that over this for the benefit of others to gain from it at your expense. Taking away from you instead of adding to you.....its serious right now. And it's wrong.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

[@TheDionysianFields]

​@@icysnow57cold64 It's a worthwhile question, and I don't fully disagree with anything you wrote except that women regulate emotion better. I think most of what you said points to the opposite, in fact. But I'm open to your reasoning, and I certainly don't mean to say men are healthier. You seem like someone who's given thought to this stuff and would make an interesting discussion partner. I'd like to chat further but I'm keeping this short for now because so many people don't show back up (nothing personal).

[@99546416]

Perfectly said. Its not wrong to chase attractive women but you need that woman to atleast respect you and not treat you like crap. The moment you feel that just walk away. Dont wait to 'change' her. Same thing applies vice versa for women chasing men too

[@haroonrash11]

Fact

[@bodhisattva2348]

Keep chasing. Smh

[@badcheetah5927]

Sometimes people got a bad day and treat u bad! No one is perfect! You won't have a real person on your life if u keep going after one and so on ... other than trying to work it out.

[@womanofsubstance717]

What it is is your praise and admiration for her beauty. She doesn’t like you, she likes the attention and the benefits. Not chasing attraction keeps you level headed and balanced

[@aaronanderson3076]

Utterly ridiculous. Don't chase anybody smmfh

[@MD-pt2mw]

"LOVE THE ONE WHO LOVES YOU".. WERE MY DADS WORDS....KEEP YOUR FOCUS IN LIFE....I GUARANTEE GOD CAN LEAD US BETTER TOGETHER...

[@cykablyat3680]

omg bro, this wasnt even about religion damn dog

[@MD-pt2mw]

@@cykablyat3680 NOT ABOUT RELIGION NOW...SEEK TO UNDERSTAND FIRST

[@jasonscala5834]

Who will support me and my expensive lifestyle? - a modern woman.

[@user-360johnn]

Women don’t even waste money on cool shit

[@bodhisattva2348]

U completely missed her point. Smh

[@jasonscala5834]

@@bodhisattva2348 u completely don't understand where she is coming from i.e. what.her real motivation is.

[@bodhisattva2348]

@jasonscala5834 she's a psychologist, what is a psychologist real motivation.

[@kayjeffs3741]

Well why not? You expect multiple jobs out of her...housekeeper, chef, assistant...child rearing...all while you get to have the career you want and "protect" the house probably once out of 20 years...

[@happylife44332]

Why don’t we all just delete social media?

[@sanyok185]

you can do it any moment bro.

[@happylife44332]

@@sanyok185 I did over 6 months ago. Not a bro btw

[@risingsun_gt]

I deleted mine a year ago. Dont miss it at all and I have more time to actually do things with my life instead of meaningless scrolling

[@AmadeuShinChan]

Because… this is how i met your mother😂

[@sanyok185]

@@happylife44332 I deleted it nearly 6 month ago too, not a bro.

[@juanramonsilva1067]

I was with a women that I wasn’ much attracted to in the first place. It was actually the opposite, she place me on a pedestal. I had never been placed on a pedestal by a women before, so it felt weird, but oddly satisfying, it fed my ego. I went ahead with her because I was desperate and I thought lowering my standards would be the only way I could get a women. I didn’t simp for her at all during the first year of relationship. Now with time, the roles were switched, I slowly began to become really attracted to her, I fell in love. We had sex, lots of it, and I became very attached. She began to gain power over me, because slowly I become more and more simp towards her. But I didn’t even realize it. At the end, I to her just another simp to her, not unlike all other simps. So she lost interest and dumped me. But here is the thing gentlemen, I believe this was all part of her plan, at first she acted super interested in me and treated me like a prince. She made me fall in love with her, with all her words and actions and sex. But as soon as she had me everything changed. She became cold and uninterested, I will never forget that change from “I love you, marry me”, to “Stop bothering me, you are nothing to me anymore”. So, all I’m saying is beware, just because a women act like she is super interested in you, doesn’t mean she actually like you. Women also simp all the time towards that are of their interested, in my case, she was intested in my inheritance.

[@user-rg6vf1un2y]

That’s what you call a narcissist she was a narcissist they live bomb you at first but only to gain your attention then once they get you their true colours show it’s very evil and cruel but unfortunately most people are narcissist these days or have narcissistic traits be careful don’t ignore red flags and also be sus when someone is being too extra at the start and you can tell it’s fake and their not being themselves…

[@denisouncho2513]

Same here sadly

[@celestialstar8115]

She may have a trait that needs challenges. Meaning you weren’t as interested in her in the beginning so she saw this as a challenge. Love bombed you. You fell for it. Her challenge was completed. And then she lost interest. This happens. Some people are not interested in others they are interested in winning that challenge. Also just so you know, women too use men for sex. So that is what could have been happening. Society judges women less when they have sex while in a relationship.

[@haroonrash11]

Oh so sorry to hear you 😮

[@sanyogsridhar1799]

That's the thing about many men. When men get respect, they fall in love. And that love is very different from any love a woman can give. The love is eternal because in our hearts, it generates the will to protect, serve, make life comfortable to other whilst sacrificing our own. Similar to the love we generate for our country for example. With women, it's all emotions. And emotions aren't eternal. Emotions come and go. That's why they lose interest. Men, too, need to be better leaders. They need to know when to be harsh, same as a senior would be to a junior in say, the armed forces. The harshness is the same as a father for a child. Scolding is done for the betterment of the child. Moral of the story: females and males love differently. Meaning of love for both is also very, very different. Only when both grow with each other and set their "goal" and "aim" to simply be to "love eachother", all other things fall in place. And that, would be called teamwork

[@davidbang8150]

I agree with the most you said. Pornography is worse for men than for women I think. But I also think social media like instagram is much worse for women than for men. I actually think many women get so insecure and mentally I’ll that it harms even the relationship. Especially when women get all the attention online

[@cv6176]

I wonder if you ..and most men on here have simpagram, watch corn. I'd guess 98%

[@RaffertyMBTI]

Absolute facts, well intentioned advice is priceless.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

We can't afford to keep losing men at this rate. Something's gotta give

[@RaffertyMBTI]

You mean the suicide rate? 💙@@MadisonChloeLoves

[@robertomonreal4023]

No, men have always put beauty in a pedestal. The problem is family law in western societies.

[@misskeah8893]

​@robertomonreal4023 it's not the law...Men just need to choose better partners and not just focus on Beauty alone. Beauty fades character is what's important.

[@robertomonreal4023]

Of course, the fact that beauty fades is obvious and agree it shouldn't be the only criteria in partner selection. But saying that men are focusing more on beauty now than before and claiming it as what is causing problems with men and relationships is incorrect. I would be more curious to hear commentary about how society has normalized gold digger attitudes, not that men suddenly like fit, hot, girls more than ever. Please. @@misskeah8893

[@MechPhoenix]

Toxic message. Basically she's suggesting that a woman that is attracted to a man will be more willing to put up with bs. Its still an invitation to normalize abuse and disrespect towards women by giving them for granted and testing their boundaries.

[@omnipotentone5628]

This is a two-way street. Men are not the only ones who are attracted to the most physically attractive. The top 20% of high value men receive 85% of the right swipes from woman.

[@Hello0x0]

It's human do be attracted to attractive people, its not a man vs women thing, those studies also have a major flaw (that you can check for yourself), attractive men rarely use the apps as they're married/taken/have no need, change your gender and you can see theirs way more attractive women than men, like depending on city 1000 to 10 ratio is insane.

[@bodhisattva2348]

Yeah for money not looks. That's 1 way street

[@sgracem2863]

Men and women are attracted to different things

[@germanpatis9136]

meh,people that use online dating services are non datable to begin with

[@kittycat1887]

yall really acting as if you'd settle for the first woman you see, like little humble you have no standards at all

[@Gump-tion]

My dad gave me one piece of advice in life and that was to NEVER chase women. Always let them choose you. I’ve applied that since my early 20’s and have been good ever since!

[@daoulmenard968]

Make sure they don't choose your wallet 😂

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Choose me? What if no one chooses me? I don't have that luxury.

[@WorksForMeBro]

@@chaitanyagupta6668Welcome to life for the majority of men

[@Lex-jv9zn]

So no woman has chosen you since your early 20s. Got it 👍

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

@@Lex-jv9zn some men do be unlucky.

[@PhilipTikka]

Seeing my 8000$ deposit happen every 15 days isn’t struggling. Having to justify my 1000$ purchase of a laptop with MY own money to my wife IS struggling for sure. Guess what - divorce freed me from situation #2 so now I am at situation #1.

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

Holy shkt sorry that's mad. What wife tells her man what to do with his money?

[@Nexus31323]

So you divorce because you can BUY things ? Wow, norteamérican people amaze me.....

[@scal7122]

Brooo $8k?!!!? Oh man

[@PhilipTikka]

@@DiamondsRexpensive all wives

[@hayleysterling3598]

I wish there was an easier way for decent people to find each other. I feel the same way about men after what my ex husband put me through. He was secretly situation #1 while I was so supportive and caring for him. We’re both military but I took care of house and kids while always checking in with him to make sure he had his needs met in every way the best I could. I treated him well I felt like but not sure if I have it in me to be that way with someone else. I don’t want to see myself up to get used. This modern world will ruin us all

[@thrill102]

I think this applies to women as well. Ive seen the same dynamic but with a man not attracted to the woman. I guess regardless of what gender, if the other person isn’t equally attracted to you one person will be suffering in the relationship. The bottom line is don’t stay in relationships where you’re not wanted.

[@Kondes500]

We actualy see all the woman going for the 20% guys must rich/Sucessful/good looking, it doesn't matter if it ugly woman or a hot one... While a lot of 7/10 guys and below being completely lonely or being used by them because of their low self-esteem for being rejected so many times... Man are complete alone, that's the punchline of this joke of reality.

[@thrill102]

@@Kondes500 There’s a large swing in the numbers when it comes to men because women are more likely than men to go to therapy. Women are also able and willing to do the self reflection necessary to become better people and fix their toxicity when compared to men. Women also tend to stay in relationships hoping the man will change but the men don’t.

[@Tushar_Talwar_09]

​@@thrill102considering the rate at which women leave relationshipa 80% I'd say most of whatever you wrote is whitewashing.

[@lslmadi]

If you were to die today, are you a 100% sure you will go to heaven? If no, here is what the bible says, (1) Romans 3:23 KJV [23] For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. Q1. Do you know what Sin is? Sin is anything bad that we have done. Q2. Have you sinned before? Yes or No? (2) Revelation 21:8 KJV [8] But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Because we have sinned, and God does not allow Sin into Heaven, the punishment is burning hell. What is the way to reconcile our peace and relationship with God? Q3. Do you know the Story of Jesus? (3) Romans 5:8 KJV [8] But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Jesus = God who lived up in Heaven, but he came down on earth and became a man like us, he lived for 33.5 years without committing any sin. Then there were certain people who were jealous and therefore framed him on phony charges, and crucified him. Then he was buried and resurrected on the third day; Now he lives in HEAVEN. Q4. Do you know why Jesus went through all this bloody mess for us? A4. As mentioned, our sin is the reason why we can’t go to heaven, and the only thing that can wash away our sin is the Blood of Jesus. (4) Romans 5:9 KJV [9] Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. According to the bible, the only way for us to reconcile with God is through Christ Jesus’s blood, and not through any works that we do or merits we accumulate, such as water baptism, attending church, or any good thing that we do. The following verses clearly support this. (5) Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV [8] For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast. (6) 2 Corinthians 7:10 KJV [10] For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death. In order to get saved, repentance of one’s sin is needed to get saved, we need to be sorry, and repent, with conviction, that we are a wretched sinner. (7) Romans 10:9 KJV [9] That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. If you truly do believe in everything you have heard in the gospel, ,I strongly suggest you to make a proclamation to GOD! You can say it to God in less than 15 seconds !Repeat after this simple prayer, to make sure you truly get saved. Remember repeating this prayer doesn't save you, it's you telling God you BELIEVE THE GOSPEL. Ok, here is the prayer : ‘Dear GOD, I know I am a sinner, as I repent, I put my faith, that Jesus is GOD, and that he died, buried and resurrected, so that his blood, can wash away my Sins. I put my faith in that alone to save me, not my good works. In Jesus’s holy name, I pray. Amen! Congratulations ! Now you are a child of God. Download /Buy a KJV bible (I highly suggest getting a hard copy bible , as one day, it will be illegal to buy, own or even have an online version of the bible) and search for youtube channel like REAL Bible Believers , Spencer Smith to help you grow , study dispensationalism to understand the bible ( How do we reconcile the verses in the New Testament that tell us that we need works to show our faith, and another that tells us that nothing that can take our salvation away? That's why we need to study biblical dispensationalism to rightly divide the word of God.( study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth, 2 Timothy 2:15) (I recommend the dispensationalism video from Genesis to Revelations by Dr. Gene Kim, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fXqXdKebequrhc0) , Jesus in Genesis (kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJ7Rhp6EiZponbc) join a bible believing church. God bless you brother/ sister ☺. See you in heaven one day!

[@kittycat1887]

​@@Kondes500where the hell did you get this statistics? those imaginary women who only want to use poor little you? are they in the same room with us?

[@eiannmascoll9939]

Actually I think compatibility is the most important thing. I think it's about how well the two of you 'mesh' that determines the outcome.

[@krillansavillan]

mesh? transvaginal mesh?

[@eiannmascoll9939]

@@krillansavillan mesh = get along with (like I think/feel that I have known you my whole life. That is the type of 'mesh' that I was referring to

[@kittell6486]

If she's not attracted to you, you can't see if you are compatible.

[@seanabrams6570]

I feel those concepts are true and it’s all quite complicated. I do not worry about attracting women any more because I’m happy just being alone. There is so much to life than a romantic relationship. I’m happy with my body, my career, my hobbies and that is all good enough for a happy life. Chasing women and beating your self up over attracting people is a waste of your life.

[@a_engineer_gjin700]

Proud of you my friend I hope God bring you someone in your life were there is no need to be in a toxic mentalité to chase but everything goes naturally

[@wadecaldwell7210]

It ruining both men and women.

[@rajaiyer7532]

And what about the majority of Girls who are too much into social medias and they want movies style of love like Tall men, Rich person, Dramas, etc.

[@misskeah8893]

Don't date them...duh

[@rajaiyer7532]

@@misskeah8893 yea exactly that's what I'm doing I'm just focusing on my Career. I have my self respect and I will marry tall girl only. And I hope soo girls start to stop following trends and make decisions from their heart instead. The problem is that Society is Concerned with Girls interest only and not have any Favouring for Men.

[@28menguild]

​@@misskeah8893You are right. I created a video on this...

[@weekendnomad5038]

I feel like some of this is bs . I’m attracted to my husband but we have kids I’m not gonna be All over him all the time and ready to drop my pants at any moment. I still respect him

[@morgueblack]

She never mentioned about women should be all over men and dropping their pants all the time.... You're misunderstanding her.

[@morgueblack]

She never mentioned about women should be all over men and dropping their pants all the time.... You're misunderstanding her.

[@zoro5483]

Taking care of your partners needs are YOUR responsibility..... You should be glad he is sexually attracted to you BUT if you drive him away like that don't be surprised if he finds someone who can take care of his needs

[@SensationalSeafairy]

​@@morgueblackshe did mention submitting, so yeah

[@morgueblack]

@@SensationalSeafairy That's not what submitting means.

[@rodfrancis9160]

Have Had nothing to do with women since 2016 and my mental health has improved 100%

[@KingJT80]

id say just socialize and you'll find someone eventually. and it might not even be in a place you'd ever think. thats how it works a lot of the time. and my advice if you do use dating apps. offer to meet up. dont wait. what are you waiting for? offer to meet in a very public place. make it easy. if not, then move to the next profile. this is all from the experience of a happily married man. the best advice though and what i got from this woman is saying is GET OUTSIDE AND SOCIALIZE!!!! learn and practice the art of conversation, compliments etc. get past the fear of rejection and go in with 0 expectations but be humble that's my advice to young, single men.

[@kelticlady8941]

Im a femboy, when a guy has interest in me, Im clear and honest about myself and my relationship goals, I treat every guys with respect regardless of race and appearance, and saying No to there advances that is related sexually😊 coz I know my Self Value

[@alessandrov-twin9755]

My ol' man used to say, don't chase women or buses, you"re always left behind

[@cooljazz94]

I would rebut that Disney has been doing it for years, creating a picture of an ideal man in a woman’s mind from a very young age, one that no man could possibly live up to.

[@claraisnotmebutilikeit]

Yess agreed, they all want to marry a prince😂

[@poeticnation6251]

You nailed it, an extremely sad truth. Respect.

[@AlbertBalbastreMorte]

Women could also choose to grow out of children movies.

[@SoulfulJim1]

We all can have fantasies. There isn’t anything wrong with that. When you grow up you need to separate that from reality, but, then again, I’ve just debunked this whole video.

[@Hello0x0]

I feel like biologically both women and men seek attractive partners, but when it comes to forming real relationships chemistry/compatibility is king, especially when creating a family/children/age/sickness comes in, kdramas/disney/romantic porn is just feeding your ego/fantasy, its dangerous if used to cope/escapism but by itself social media is powerless unless your already 'broken'

[@supercruise-6814]

All the women. . . are CLOSER TOGETHER IN THEIR ATTITUDES THAN YOU REALIZE. . . . WHETHER THEY "REALLY" LIKE YOU OR NOT! IN MY EXPERIENCE, They ALL TREAT YOU VERY SIMILARLY.

[@bodhisattva2348]

& that statement says everything about u we need to 😂

[@florad629]

Maybe you always get attracted to women who have similar facial features?

[@bodhisattva2348]

@@florad629 🤣

[@aldomonti813]

​@@bodhisattva2348the fact you always laugh to the person you are talking to without any arguments tells us everything we need to know about you, one being you are everything but a bodhisattva. And you will never be one.

[@bodhisattva2348]

@@aldomonti813 🤣

[@marilyndafeta3064]

Choose ppl who choose you and you choose them..simple No unrequitedness required..

[@michaelcalles1124]

She's spitting facts brothers, take heed or suffer the consequences.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

You better listen up

[@misogynisticMAN]

Hope this is sarcastic

[@maheshdr9635]

Well said sister. Saved me a ton of pain and self judgement.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏. You are appreciated 👏

[@florad629]

I dont agree at all. Historically men have been chosing women on beauty, n by their loving treatment winning the hearts of their wives. Women on the other hand, got their heart broken by men whom they like but they dont like these women in return. So even if she remain devoted to him, she still get cheated on, taken as worthless and dumped in the end. So its not a natural role for her to go crazy over a man aka chose a man, respect him and have a happy relation as a result. She will always be chosen by men or not chosen, she only have the option to either love back the man who chosen her, or not love back.

[@misskeah8893]

Here's a clue...*historically.* the world has and continues to evolve. You can't go off of what happened historically. Men need to evolve...i.e. traditional marriage is not sustainable in today's society yet men keep declaring they want a traditional wife, but wants her to contribute 50/50. You're asking for a divorce before the marriage exists... Bottom line be accountable when choosing a partner. You can no longer go off of looks alone.

[@florad629]

@@misskeah8893 traditional marriage may not be sustainable in your* society (even though any modern sort of marriage is also not sustainable there as well, as whole frame of home n marriage is breaking in your society) but im from part of world where traditional marriage is still working n here husband doesnt ask women to work or 50-50. 50-50 cant work in marriage coz even if you are contributing financially 50-50 then still child bearing n many things put more work on female thus she would be contributing more. By taking more financial burden on himself,a man just lessened the burden of women some bit n then the relation balances. Women by nature dont respect a man who is not lessening her burden, n if she is not respecting him then he wont he happy. So for a man its wise to be a bit more in financial contribution so he may earn the respect of his female partner or else he cant complain.

[@aldomonti813]

​@@misskeah8893false. The world has always been as op says. The changes you are talking about have occurred in less than 100 years and sooner than later we will get rid of those.

[@ScarredRomeo]

She’s 💯 right. Don’t waste your time on women who don’t want to madly be with you. Chasing half-assers will only lead you to wasting your time and life. It’s better to be with someone who you are less physically attracted to that wants and makes an effort to spend time with you than the “pedestal woman” you think you can get. An invested woman in you is where you should invest yourself and you’ll have a happier life for it.

[@aldomonti813]

If men are to settle with a woman they aren't attracted to then they would be better to stay single.

[@dylanclark8856]

Hilarious for you to assume anyone wants to "madly be with" you or any other man.....

[@AX-fx7ng]

Lady; Female Swipe Ratio is 4%

[@BrunoNeureiter]

Mine is also low. Got to keep out all the drug users.

[@pace1195]

This is extremely wrong statistically. Adult sites are used more than ever. If this is true, men on dating apps would swipe on only the most attractive women. Statistics show this is not the case. Most men find most women attractive. Dating site statistics show men judge women on a bell curve even after partaking in the most attractive women via streaming and adult sites. Not just statistically, but logically, men prefer all kinds of women as shown by the vast number of categories of adult content. Size, facial structure, hair color, skin color, eye color, etc. are all available for men's viewing pleasure. If all men wanted were fashion models, that would be the only category on streaming and adult sites. Statistics also show the worst women in terms of attractiveness get 5x more messages than the most attractive men on dating sites. I use dating site statistics because a study by Statista (pre-pandemic) showed how couples met. In this century, dating apps were skyrocketing. The only other minor increase was bars/restaurants. Every other category was in free fall including family, friends, school, work, church, etc. Men do not form attachments to matches like women. There is a lot of adult content where the man's face is rarely or never shown. Most men place themselves into the proverbial shoes of the man acting while watching adult videos. Many of the most famous videos include only the woman's face as she enjoys her experience (Beautiful Agony category). Men don't necessarily need to see the female form to be turned on. The problem with trying to find a woman attracted to you is the fact women message less than 5% of men on dating apps. There have been numerous studies which show 80% of men are invisible to women thanks to hypergamy. And, because women initiate nearly 70-80% of all divorces, many men have decided to just leave the market. Whose fault is it when enough men give up and decide to stop playing the game? Finally, to the fictional character of Madison Chloe Loves, I would like to ask a question to the human or AI controlling this channel. I think you would ask the same in return if you are a real person: Who hurt you?

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts 🙏. As for the question, the answer is 'lots of people'. I really appreciate you for sharing. You are right ✅️

[@kengbrissy3074]

It's sad to see how men's level of insecurities have drastically increased 😢

[@FullAfterburner]

Yeah. I'm 25 and struggling with loneliness. I've never been in a relationship with a girl. I'm tired. She's spot on in the video.

[@man.i.literally.failed6772]

Some people are twice your age and never been in a relationship, and most never will, never having a million dollars is no diffirent

[@FullAfterburner]

@@man.i.literally.failed6772 I should be so lucky

[@Hello0x0]

Blackpill, nero angelo, wheat waffles, psl god mindset, TAILS, basically women care about looks height we as a society pretend looks dont matter

[@sp123]

There's more men than women from the ages of 18 to 40. If you want a girlfriend, you have to compete with other men in looks, money, and status A girlfriend is not going to fall in your lap like some movie

[@lostsoul4317]

Mend your garden. Butterflies will come by themselves.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Wise words. Thanks for sharing. You are appropriated. 🙂

[@Optim40]

DAMN....She's right 100% And it's hard to get me to say something like that too believe me 😂

[@fitstar7541]

Thanks for the advice.

[@mcpribs]

My wife chased me, and we’ve been happier than ever for 19 yrs. Dead on information.

[@tinalena]

When did you know you were into her?

[@mcpribs]

Great question…also, harder to answer than I’d expect. We started running together, since we both needed some exercise. Over time, I just started feeling the butterflies, and wanted to spend more and more time with her, to the point where I didn’t want to be away from her.

[@mariaj4]

Part of what she said is true but there are abusive relationships where if only one side loves more than the other half is equally a bad ending for the woman in love.

[@Apsua72]

Say the woman who is hitting the wall and is not married. Get your own life together first before giving advice to others. That's the reason why we need the astroid.

[@thabodaciousempath]

This was a really insightful and well explained observation. Sadly, you are absolutely right. And now the resulting hurts due to this radical shift are a lot of hurt men thinking they're a so-called simp for treating a woman right and building a true relationship. They've gotten hurt in the very ways you mentioned by approaching based on looks in the first place, so now they punish every woman they meet and dap each other up for acting like pigs. The whole dating scene needs an overhaul on both sides, starting with not approaching love like the unhealthy fantasies portrayed on social media. In other words: let's be human again and actually love in a healthy and real way. The ones shouting Simps are the ones hurting women the most and justifying it among each other--they'll never find healthy love like that. And they'll always lose good women to emotionally healthy men who still know how to love, and they'll happily grow old together in love. So many need to wake up before it's too late.

[@zoro5483]

Its really simple tbh why not the men and women share equal responsibility?? Both earn for the family , both take care kids , both take care of the house and BOTH take care of each other needs TOGETHER??? Its kinda fucked up when guys go for women only for looks and not what she can bring to the table..... And the women go for guys only for their money and then wonder why their lives are so pathetic...... And why do guys even date women who cant support him financially?? It's all teamwork its that simple and if your teammember wont carry his/her weight its time to get a new team member....

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Very interesting point. 👌 I wish 🤞 things would be as you are putting them. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏. Truly appreciated 🙏

[@LoveThatBass921]

I feel bad for our younger generation. Social media has destroyed and corrupted their lives and minds even there parents are on social media bouncing around and dancing. I’ll be 32 next month I’m glad I was able to get my head on straight and grow up with some morals and not with a camera in my face or hands.

[@HHH21]

Don't chase the butterflies. Build the garden, butterflies will be automatically attracted to you :)

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Wise words. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@rc....]

Women suffers too. There are so many women being lied to be social media, so many left over women. Social media hurts both sides, the truth is it is the individuals who are also responsible, it is like drugs, you can use it or abuse it.

[@BlueSkyCountry]

Being apathetic like me has a lot of benefits in life. I don't ask questions, don't like asking questions. Even if someone I loved for years suddenly break it off with me, I just would not care and will not bother with any effort to know why. The whole relationship would be forgotten by the time I get to my deer and elk blind and pour a whiskey.

[@Cass-rk8mo]

This was so powerful and wise I’ve never heard such accurate words!

[@Garrus_Vakarian_N7]

This is very true. My wife falled in love with me and I followed. Men are suppresed and women turned from passive aggressive into active reppression.

[@edwardgabel3701]

Respect would be nice. Real love is not possible without it.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

I love the way you put it. So precisely. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@dudejoe8390]

The degree to which people are attracted to their partner shouldn't matter. It's almost like no one can make commitments, show loyalty, or have empathy anymore. If they did, you'd almost never hear about cheating, abuse, or dysfunction.

[@soumyadyutinandy5119]

You dropped this 👑 queen

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

You are appropriated. ❤️

[@didierbaudot]

That's correct what Sadia sais, women have got many options and if she choses you much chance of a good relationship. Bad guys who influence women have seduced many women but relationships never last long 🤔

[@chrisvoss8405]

Hi. I found you because of soft white and I just subbed. You’re an awesome combination of incredible beauty and intelligence, I’ll tell ya that. Amazing to look at AND listen too

[@DotterSvea]

You obviously didn't listen to a word 😂

[@TheDionysianFields]

All I hear is, "There's a problem and it must be on men, 100%. Women are to bear absolutely no responsibility for any social issue that arises, by definition." Projection and blame games, to the Nth.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

Thanks for sharing 👍

[@mindofganza]

This might actually mean something if this chica didn't have a half inch of makeup foundation, fake eyelashes and the perfect body...well done

[@jasong9774]

No amount of charm or physical beauty is worth heart evisceration and a destroyed reputation and spirit. Yet that pales in comparison to the destruction of your beloved children. Choose character.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

So wise. That is the best advice 👌 👏. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@Xianne027]

100%! As a middle-aged woman with enough life experience, I have seen enough sad situations like what Sadia us talking about. If you see an attractive, sloppy, awkward, rich, older man with a beautiful young woman you can be sure she is ONLY after his money! Guys wake up! Woman are NOT attracted to money. They won't love you for your money. They will only USE a rich man for his money. Unless of course he is rich and also attractive, kind and has great personal qualities. Yes, then it could be love. Woman are only attracted to how a man looks. If she's not attracted to him, then she's there for other reasons than for love. Now keep in mind, "attractive" doesn't necessarily mean that he has a great looking face or body, but it does mean that he is well-groomed, poised, dresses well and feels comfortable with himself and his own body. Even a short bald man with glasses can be attractive if he cultivates a certain aura of confidence.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

That was beautifully put. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@ohboiherewego6831]

The problem isn’t really that the women are too beautiful. It’s more that their value is artificially inflated.

[@CaptainFALKEN]

The "female inflation" era

[@misskeah8893]

What is it that you include in their value other than beauty?....

[@ohboiherewego6831]

@@misskeah8893 right? Like what do they actually offer?

[@apachetamizha]

Not required bcos i m happy about myself for not cheating or hurting anyone 😊

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

You are amazing 👏

[@johnyancey3857]

Very good advice beauty is only skin deep it’s what’s in the heart that matters the most

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

You're amazing 👏 Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@markherighty5330]

No wife, happy life .

[@aldomonti813]

SPOT ON. If the only criterion for a relationship has become female happiness, then we must opt out in swarms.

[@j23222]

Enjoy your boxed wine and cats

[@Steve-qn5fr]

One of the worst thing for men is taking dating/love/relationship advice from women.

[@mr.yuk4858]

I don't care if a woman is into me or not. I don't want those problems.

[@jacemiller2593]

Easy for her to say. She a woman who is absolutely stunning. She can get any guy she wants.

[@dannyalvens5418]

The reason why Men are struggling with dating is, Social media has destroyed Women..With so many choices,It seems to me they never pick the right one and they went to blame the opposite sex for their own bad choices or decisions...Men that are actually trying to date ,Find the quality of Women that are available aren't worth pursuing.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

I love this. Thanks for sharing your insights. You are appropriated. ❤️

[@Money-talking]

This all depends on how you treat yourself...

[@haris132fighter]

Three words I got for ya all and our lovely miss here : Keep Efing Going!!

[@quarrelsomedix8347]

Still blaming the man no sense of accountability 😢😢😢

[@gilbertigabe7331]

So are we saying that all these men who are being divorced married women who were not attracted to them???. The other points make sense. But we know that women have lost it too. She might be attracted to you and all that but if your pocket is not in line, she'll start loosing that attraction. Lots to navigate.

[@misskeah8893]

It's possible that these men ignored red flags and used their resources to attract women into relationships. Be accountable about choosing a partner. Looks alone will not sustain a healthy lasting relationship or marriage.

[@j.m.f.g.450]

It's a fact , a relationship is an investment, no interest........don't invest.

[@princesslady93]

Society and media also perpetuate to every woman alive she's some princess who deserves everything whilst changing nothing 🙄

[@jm7578]

Men don’t seek validation. Men focus on your education, your health, air workouts, swimming, eating, well, sleeping, well, and reading good books. Men please be mindful of your expressions, actions, and reactions. Please be a better view every day. And once again, do not seek anyone’s validation it’s not worth it.

[@Stevo-klo45453]

It’s always been like this, even before social media

[@zhouadwina918]

yeah its true i used to take advantage of men who were obsessed with my looks and i never respected them i cheated and lied and they would listen to my lies even if they caught me rend handed they did not want to believe the truth but i thank God for Jesus i repented and settled with a good man who made it clear from the beginning of our relationship that he was not going to bow down to me now we happy with 3 kids i dont cheat i dont lie to him and i will never divorce him

[@JackAndTheBeanstalkr]

Jesus is glad to have you

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

It's time for him to cheat. So you know what you've done.

[@zhouadwina918]

@@chaitanyagupta6668 no he dont cheat he is a born again christian just like me we dont do revenge past is past

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

@@zhouadwina918 hahaha no. Just saying a few "godly" words doesn't absolve you of the hurt you've given to others. It will and should come back to you. That's how people learn.

[@zhouadwina918]

@@chaitanyagupta6668 of course i did reap what i sowed but im no longer that person cz i was willing to change

[@eksbocks9438]

I want to add this: There's a lot more negative critique on social media as well. Positive feedback usually helps in personal development. But men who never had a normal family have no choice but to look for it online. Which makes them even more vulnerable to problems. Because our society would rather focus on more self-centered ambitions. A lot of people being rude, invasive, and standoffish. I mean, how many times do men and women get told, "Nobody owes you anything. Stop whining!" Or how many times people go on about "Freedom of Speech." At the cost of safety, peace, and cohesion.

[@GodWokeMeUp]

It's true... And how can anyone compete with the most beautiful women on the planet? How can I keep them from looking at these other women? Idk...I deleted all my social media because it's so toxic for me mentally, it makes me feel exhausted. It makes me tired and I don't want to keep up with beauty standards. I wish I could just be loved for who I am. So this is why God will always be my number 1 because he loves me always! ❤

[@MG007.]

This woman is speaking the truth.

[@stevenmoses5807]

I've never done any of that Facebook Instagram bullshit. It's ruined so many lives and the Art of conversation. I only use KZbin to watch wining ways fishing uk because its not on tv

[@blackpurple9163]

In the entire video I heard "men want the most attractive women" That's only true for young men and f-boys Actual men really don't put emphasis on a woman's beauty as much as a woman think, we simply want the women to treat us like we're equal, there should be respect and honesty, love comes on it's own when people love each other's characters and not attractiveness

[@ChrisJones-oe8gv]

Women don’t have anything else to offer but their looks.

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

I think that is the problem 🤔. Men are rewarding looks more than manners. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@mundayne811]

Don't get brainwashed by social media, this is a two sided issue... Embrace real love instead.

[@red_diaper_doper_baby]

The majority, 80 percent of men get what ever they can. Most are Chad's leftovers so you will always be the one she settles for and you will be treated as such.

[@sharifs649]

Black pill truth

[@alanshezar8163]

Well said, at a family dinner I once gave the advice that a woman can only love a man she respects and half the women in my family agreed. However, half the others were in vehement opposition. This threw me off a bit, to say the least.

[@Mattrycky]

She’s right, but as always with Sadia, she never tells the whole story. Dating apps have resulted in women self organising themselves into online harems for the top 5% of men. So the women that would’ve previously been super attracted to the men she speaks of, are no longer so. Where, therefore, are men supposed to go? Both pornography and Instagram have been absolutely devastating to healthy male/female interaction.

[@a_engineer_gjin700]

Doesn't this reality show how much poor the women are in heart? I mean they can't love a men who they are attracted to and we can love a women who we are not attracted to ... doesn't this reveal à little bit about the heart of women ?

[@MadisonChloeLoves]

It's very interesting, what you're saying 🤔. Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@hariharanb785]

What would be the advice for women though?

[@danielallan8061]

Ive noticed that I get way more attention in person compared to apps and I'm a 6 at best.

[@guilhermefirmz]

50% men 50% women = a whole life in all blames.

[@amithbhagat]

Thanks 🙏🏾, that makes sense

[@ayyappanmahadevan970]

Both Men or Women keep it simple, Everything will be fine.

[@XMehrooz]

Thank you.

[@ramneeksidhu907]

Nah even 3 or 4 looking women feels like she is miss universe bro even if you try to show them some love they dont even care about you 😂

[@fobbitoperator3620]

Much of this is spot on!

[@alexeiulinici]

Oh wow, that was mind blowing. Thank god.

[@vicegerent77]

You can substitute the word Hollywood everytime she says Technology or Social Media and send this message back 40 to 60 years ago and it would still make sense...

[@byronryan4216]

A realistic assessment of the romantic situation…💥

[@aldomonti813]

Bullshit.

[@bin4709]

Agree, except the part where she says "men are suffering more". Men will never suffer more than women in relationships. When 50% of them are single and childless after the age of 40 with 10 cats running around and shitting in their apartment, meanwhile i am having my own business and my pickings of any woman, let's see who is 'suffering more', .

[@Lillyofthevalley222]

This is literally being said by a woman who has spent a lot of time on makeup and lightening to be a thousand times more attractive in this video then she would in person (the real world she just described). She’s stating it, but she’s also creating it!!

[@misskeah8893]

Bottom line, you're the one who decides if that's what you want to deal with it...don't ignore the red flags... She's telling you and showing you...but some one will still go after what she's trying to save you from

[@Lillyofthevalley222]

@@misskeah8893 I’m a heterosexual female, so your comment to me makes no sense.

[@aldomonti813]

​@@misskeah8893no. She is enforcing one way street relationships, where only women's needs are met, ignoring that the real reason for women divorcing is that they have all to gain and nothing to lose from filing one.