Marriages - Just Saying Episode 9

[@darshana2571]

"Don't have my father at the back going can👍" AHAHAHAHAHAH

[@ying9123]

I should stop being surprised by the things Jade comes up with😂

[@akiokoh7481]

Other People : "Private Proposal" Also Other People : "Bed of Roses" Jade : "Helicopter in atas location" Saffron : ROCK dEw : PoWErPOInT

[@lamemeshitface]

Ladies: “Thinks marriage is a sham” Still: “Forms proposal ideas”

[@farahedora7482]

My husband didn’t even properly propose to me but we still got married and it has been 7yrs and still going strong. One day suddenly he said babe we need to get married to buy a house and I’m like sure why not then after that we start making plans to get married. It tickles me that ‘that conversation’ was the marriage proposal cos both of us were nonchalant about it but we knew we love each other and want to live w each other forever. It also depends on you & your partner character. We’re the type that don’t really like the extravaganza and we’re very private about ourselves so that works. We were living together before marriage and we know we’re serious about each other so might as well get married so we can enjoy the benefits. I’m telling my story so that people out there can know that there’s no fixed criteria on what to do when proposing. Like they said, listen to your partner but please also be realistic in your situation.

[@NRSBRNND]

I love your comment so much because it is incredibly realistic but not everyone is realistic

[@Zhfy.YouTube]

I was a month late and took a test. My partner and I talked about it and the decision was mine. I was not ready and took a pill for it. Though I think about the unborn child until today, I cannot imagine if I would have kept her/him especially since I grew up taking care of my younger siblings and cousins etc. even until today. Y’all so brave!

[@zurielseong8173]

You were brave as well. Everyone has their own right to decide. Don’t give up in life and let it traumatise you. Here’s to courage and blessings to you 💪

[@joelconolly5574]

Love the energy of these people.

[@ameermansor146]

The problem here you guys here is you should get somebody that is been in a marriage for 5, 7 year. You need to hear from their perspective . Honestly after being married .I think its the most wonderful thing that ever happen to me being in love with somebody like a bestfriend to me for years and we never get bored with each other. They talk from a perspective of still wanted to have fun . dont want to tied down with one person. Well that was me in my teenagers day . Now im fully commited happy man and i very much love my wife.

[@hotlattewithoutsugar]

wow... real honesty with esther's answers here but applaud ladyyy #htht

[@suhaimibull9629]

hi.. how are you? you believe in love?

[@Ieatnsleep]

didnt realise the video is 25mins long. YES to long episodesssss

[@shafsitrhshafsitrh8634]

Y munah keep putting her hair on 1 side??? 😂😂😂

[@diyanakamal]

Funniest and realest reactions ever.. "I want a PowerPoint.." 🤣

[@TS-ws8mh]

Saf hinting Dew with that "Thats why you should marry your bestfriend"

[@NoOnyon]

still a better series than the current real talk

[@dineshdiazsham5660]

oof

[@shafiqmuahaha]

Please discuss about people who have a hard time finding a partner!

[@AngSu]

I really like the fact that her poly school mates were supportive. Now I miss my poly friends also TT.

[@panadolisperfecto9338]

Can you discuss finances at your age and how y’all did planning?

[@rizpista]

Expensive wedding is like people come and go. Save it, make it small , simple just marry , go honeymoon somewhere and save money that all. Don’t have to spend to impress on people .

[@Jolin_Toh]

20k 3 carat round diamond is H coloured likely. Super yellow. A 2 carat D to F coloured diamond is 30k already

[@aliensforlife]

10:13 Munah. Please wait for me. I'm working on it!

[@keaneang4928]

“I want PowerPoint.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tania.rajendran]

can ya’ll discuss cheating in a relationship? whether you should give them a second chance? Is the cheater always deemed as a bad person? Reasons you think why someone cheated

[@amiruldaniel9076]

Pakcik Dew be like 'hAAA NI BOLEH BOLEH'

[@Hecticam]

@10:53 Dew hit Home Run right there.

[@santhoshpandiaraj4589]

Saff says she wants both a big ring, grand wedding and and claims if he cant afford both he gotta work on himself and be "financially stable" first? Isn't that so materialistic? Cause she goes on to say if cant afford both we are not meant to be together. So my honest qn is, she just wants someone who is rich first then also loves her? Roles reversed, if guys say i only will marry a girl who earns minium 10k/month and knows how to cook damn well, if not we are just meant to be together. Will it be fair?

[@santhoshpandiaraj4589]

but ofcourse its fine to be materialistic, i respect that, but i wish love had more value than money in marriage. That's all.

[@CarynSaw]

i mean its her preference after all.. theres no need to be offended by it. Plus Im sure most people out there will want their partner / themselves to be financially stable before settling down. Why would u settle down if you / your partner cant afford to pay the bills and you have to suffer in debt for the rest of your life with that person?? It doesnt make sense 😅 and its too bad its so expensive in SG, almost everything revolves around money here. its just how it is 🤭 and you have to be smart about it 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@berrysauce8692]

Ya that’s fair. Everyone has their own requirements and wants. Just because it’s different from yours, doesn’t make it wrong. Just like a LV bag cost a few hundred or thousands and the buyers needs to have the capital to pay. There’s nothing wrong if some people can afford and some people can’t

[@michaelquecera3971]

You only get one life, so your life your choosing. Some people may prioritize growth and friendship in a marriage over financials, some opposite. Everyone has different expressions and views on love, its not fair to jump to assumptions on someone who seeks for a more financially stable partner. If youre talking about gold diggers, then thats a whole different topic, and i dont believe that theyre that many true gold diggers to begin with. To become a gold digger, one has to have very little empathy or sympathy, which makes them close to being socio/psychopaths which is a very small percentage of humanity.

[@SynG4t3s]

In a perfect world, males would have enough self respect NOT to marry her. But we live in a time of simps galore

[@yxinz]

I think commitment and faithfulness is damn romantic. It’s easier to just walk.

[@stitan2005]

Its always great to watch the talk 👍 And yes! Please concede to your gf request on the jewelry or stones, otherwise this topic will comes back to hunt you forever in the marriage... Yeah, it takes a lot of commitment in a marriage. But after so many years, I felt having a life partner means more than having a marriage..

[@mintysings]

ship dew and keisha ❤️

[@musicenthusiast96]

Jade is so on point with her answers!!! and Esther is so brave! Women should empower other women ❤️

[@happyleaf9635]

I requested for a ring less than 1k (no need diamond). So we can more money for house/reno. Since my goal is to have 2 kids before 30. It doesn’t mean that the guy is useless or incapable because he can’t buy a 3 carat ring for me. It’s just that we didn’t have the money to buy so many things at 20+ years old.

[@Lololol555x]

Wow the more I watch this series of them talking about all these, the more I like Jade! I used to thought she's just a bimbo, pretty and just flaunt few pictures at ig, and so called good dj skills mainly just caz of her body. But wow, she have substance and she's getting more and more motherly I feel. Like a big sister that you would wanna hang out and could take good care of you.

[@yanxiaohan608]

Dont forget the family pressure, the typical asian needs. Is not a bad thing, its kinda a balance thing to accept. I mean, this tradition can always work it out.

[@mysticwanderlust]

such a good episode HAHAHA munah’s story was so funny as well!

[@PrincessSakuno]

always da best

[@ikiwest3442]

Haha nice saying dew. I want power point

[@theonlycoffeeaddict]

where's keisha?? miss her man!!

[@zenweaver]

She didn't abort is respectable already.Very big responsibility at that young age

[@izzul7]

Jade u so pretty!!!!!!!

[@nicolasdarmantoodwinhorsan5721]

Great information from the girls like this. 👍 Saluteee

[@sufisalim2668]

Damnn i agree with dew

[@ayeshaalzahra2129]

DEW;I WANT POWERPOINT ME:STARTS LAUGHING

[@EunhyukieLoveELF]

love the ep

[@holdmyguns5344]

FIRST! but where is keisha :(((((

[@kiwih779]

thank you for the long ep

[@darth_jilebi]

saffron, so much demand :/

[@ThatSinjiaporean]

Long ep story are great

[@QarlKillua]

“I want power point”

[@NadimahElmO]

Hahaha how is it I relate to Dew more than the rest in this opinion🤣

[@jdnoflegend9719]

i think the question is not about "do you want to get married?" the real question is "are you willing to sacrifice yourself in order to pass your genes down to your offspring n give them the optimal conditions to develop to their full potential?"

[@gooddreams8495]

girls have a lot of demand from guy when proposing, but let's say girls are expected to propose to guys, to show their love, can they come up with an idea that match the standard they have for guys proposing it to them? No, and they are not expected to, cause they are the one being chased, being pursued, the prize. Can they see their men as precious and valuable as they want to be seen by the guy?

[@bigmattwheel]

I'm sure youve seen the kind of parties the girls plan. I'm sure they are able to plan the perfect proposal for their man.

[@zzzzzz-wb6sj]

well, yes sure! i don’t see a problem here, really we’re all people and in the end I’m sure if one is ready to be with someone else that person will be willing to put in the effort. I only think it’s this way (guys proposing to girls) because of societal expectations that have been ingrained into us since decades ago. although now it’s mainly still this way, I feel like there have been more and girls proposing instead of guys :)

[@illy_lia]

Why cant we do both 😂😂 yess saff

[@jen5138]

At 19, you are still on self discovery mode. Should go out and experience life, pursue goals, youth you'll never get back. For me, any age below 21 is too young for marriage. Anyways, divorce cases in Singapore have been on the rise of late.

[@suhaimibull9629]

love is like a game.. today you love someone next week you don't love that someone..

[@adoroselatte]

damn marriage is complicated. Well for me, marriage is optional as it is not urgent...because I don't mind being single LOL Unless when finally found a partner, don't need to build so big one lah, as long as the love is there :>

[@adoroselatte]

honestly, I don't want the marriage to be transactional ones, I just want love and commitment. Love this episode too

[@kagebunshin4380]

People say they want a three carat but the truth is sometimes it's just too big for your finger and so end up getting something smaller.

[@Mystica84]

I really wished if I can date one one of those lovely girls if one of them is single I would love to date one of them 🥰☺️

[@coupdegrace2708]

LOL BOLEH BOLEH

[@kazami5699]

Marriage is divine as it is very wrong to use materialistic viewpoint towards marriage

[@Mia-xo1pt]

I love Saffron, you can tell just how genuinely supportive, kind and non-judgemental she is in this episode!

[@ryanrancel9693]

Why no new vids?

[@edenassos]

Will get my partner a great custom ring but it'll be on the prenup contract.

[@aceace9397]

Ur problem u buy yourself🤣

[@crazywildman]

im curious whats esther's shoe?

[@AA-mk7yn]

I feel like KSI and jade thinks the same way, funny but wtf

[@litgitmaunderwatersloth]

this jade.

[@szerui]

more Jade please!

[@kenny6921]

LOL DEW @ 15:41

[@jessikatlea2873]

Can someone tell me what's song at the end of the video??? Sooo curious 😗😗

[@Jess-bn8gm]

Hehe 20k three carat confirm not that white one

[@KumangJulan25]

Am I too early that there’s no comment yet? 😂

[@pavithrankrishnan2436]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@shaneraja5242]

Watching just coz of dew. The new cast on the previous show is such a bore!! Miss the old cast

[@arif9951]

haa ni bole boleh hahahaaa

[@samitune]

Actually for women who is financially strong ... independent.... Wants freedom ...Not Lonely. I really don't see how they would want to get married...

[@dairminera]

hmm

[@asukkaaaaa]

saf and dew broke up ??

[@Exodianotforbidden]

They are not dating bro

[@vibhasheenansree1337]

They never dated

[@chloelee8656]

They fake tgt for awhile la for clouts

[@jnzl523]

Exactly???

[@kagebunshin4380]

they were never together LOL Saffron has a boyfriend in uni in London

[@Jarhead-b2q]

The woman in blue have a rather sweet mature voice tone.

[@SmexSmexyAmME]

How to get marry in 20s? Unless parents got money..

[@EchaKiut]

Where r you guys come from?

[@jonlau28]

Dew....... Stop waxing your leg........yours look exactly as smooth as the ladies

[@juniorbee1564]

20k ring? Imagine losing the ring! 🤣 anyways ring is not that important la. If you get married and have a kid, you will not wear the ring to wash dishes or take care of your kid anyways.

[@Tisubasah1111]

not everyone married is going to have kids and not everyone is going to wash dishes a lot.

[@mrxxjon123xx]

All the guys watching the video stressed

[@muskamattadorres1696]

Finally not about sex and kinks

[@ccw8494]

Noway in hell If I have to pay and plan for my OWN proposal. Each to their own, but I would never. And if u have to plan ur own, is it really about the man or the proposal?

[@xxrogerxx4586]

i want powerpoint...wtff

[@Jameses]

First!

[@niva0016]

First

[@wenzhenxenia2362]

first comment

[@Jasonnmc]

Were u blind hahaha

[@samp0i]

1st?