Alpha vs. Beta Men Debate

Jubilee gathered men together who categorize themselves as "alpha" and "beta" to discuss hot topics like gender roles, toxic masculinity and dating. This is a very interesting conversation.
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[@showtime1235]

calling yourself an alpha is normal cringe…. but openly calling yourself a beta is wild

[@turkwendell6904]

Saying normal cringe is beta. What's next, totes cray? It's basically if John Wayne said it you're good.

[@aso3892]

@@turkwendell6904 u are so brave and stunning, I'm sure no one understands you

[@turkwendell6904]

@@aso3892 Thanks bro, good stuff and I appreciate that. And to think I was expecting some whiny passive-aggressive beta response.

[@StoneAgeWarfare]

Not even joking but i actually do this.

[@turkwendell6904]

@Ass Clapper I totally agree and it's no problem at all. Feel free to erase that reply and write a new one. I'll obviously pretend you didn't just respond with "cringe reply". So yeah, free do-over no worries and good luck, you got this!

[@boredomoverload8236]

A quick rant: How can you possibly be an alpha male if you don’t even have enough discipline not to cheat on your wife lol

[@ellahirmas3615]

Very true

[@Ziiphyr]

That is a very great observation

[@HollowWhite]

Most succesful men in history all had more than one woman. Specifically the men looked up to sometimes had dozens of women to be precise. I get your view point if you look at it in a western, potentially religious viewpoint, but other than that historically great men had lota of women. I personally wouldn't wanna live like that, but if someone does why not?

[@boredomoverload8236]

@@HollowWhite so what? It’s not even a western view point, All countries that have a society, Either western,eastern,middle eastern believe in monogamy, The historically great men weren’t perfect, Genghis khan,an invader,a murderer and an owner of millions of slaves. If you’re gonna use historically Great men to point to how they live their lives, Why only take the part where they had a lot of women? Kim jung un,has a harem of women,would you call him a man to take inspiration from? Also we live in a different time,where stds are rampant, You being a man doesn’t protect you from STDs. It definitely didn’t protect genghis khan from getting syphillis. Obviously if you’re a successful man you will get a lot of women I’m not denying that,but that doesn’t make it right, Infact I’d say hook up culture is ruining our society. If a man chooses to live like this,it’s his choice,but at the end of the day,having meaningless sex won’t make u happy.

[@HollowWhite]

@@boredomoverload8236 That's simply not true. Most tribes don't have monogamy, middle east doesn't believe in monogamy, the SECOND LARGEST religion on earth doesn't even believe in monogamy. In Islam you can have multiple women. Obviously were the historically great men not perfect and no one said so, what I did say is that the most successful men in human history did never ever settle for just one woman. Whether that is ethically or morally correct, whether it makes sense or not, whatever. Point is, and you can't deny it, women want only the best, and many women would rather share the best than settle for less, that's the reason why successful men can have multiple women, even openly. Look at the Tate brothers, Tristan has a wife and 16 girlfriends, and they all eat on one table. Does hookup culture ruin society? Yes. Do I disagree with this concept? Yes. Can you stop women from floking to rich, good looking men? No. Can you stop men from being animals that love sex? No. I simply wanted to point out that for the majority of human history successful men had many women and that this is a reality that will never change, whether we like it or not.

[@alicat2083]

“For a woman to want to be submissive, the man needs to be worthy of that submissive” GIRL YOU SAID IT HERE FIRST, WE NEED TO BE SHOUTING THIS FROM THE ROOFTOPS! I’m 100% for submissive woman toward men who are WORTHY

[@spiritconsumer]

Women over 80% of the time start divorces. So, women choose men to get married to, and then change their mind later on. There is no "FINDING A MAN WORTHY" because your mind will change anyway, statistically, over 80% of the time.

[@sobeliever1638]

What the Bible says as well except people only read the first part.....

[@nekk-ra7080]

They think submissive means subservient, not surrender. If you're a man who has his shit together and makes good decisions for yourself, I'll be more confident in your ability to make good decisions to benefit us both.

[@johnhazlett3711]

The problem with that is,,,,,,,,, most men are not 6' tall, 6 figure income, 6 packs, or mega handsome. 80% of women are chasing after less than 20% of men. So these men don't have to commit to take care of their urges. I grew up in the 60s and 70s, these men were called Don Juan's, today's Chads and Tyrones. Hypergamy is a real problem. I'm 5'8", and had been friendzoned numerous times. I married a 4'9" country girl who wasn't a spoiled brats like too many modern women.

[@GenX-RadRat]

It means submission of the heart. When a woman is always a LADY a man feels ashamed not to honor her. There is no prerequisite to being a real man or being a lady; you either are one or you're not

[@whiiffed9002]

9:31 Telling yourself you love someone while sleeping with other people is crazy to me. How can you love someone without committing to them? That is just outright disrespectful.

[@majidqayyum9613]

Understand this nature about men and any man who says otherwise is lying of trying to impress you to make you like them. With that being said "Men don't have to feel attacked to a gal to sleep with a gal. They'll sleep with a gal who they even hate. Just coz they sleep with other women doesn't mean they love them or will die for them."

[@gabbysivad6457]

@@majidqayyum9613 Clearly those men don’t understand what love is because love is not a just a feeling you have for someone. It’s your actions that truly determines how great your love is. If you are sleeping with someone you hate just because it makes you “feel” like a man, then you have a lust issue, you have no self control. That has nothing to do with your “masculinity”.

[@user-ed8gy7jq1c]

⁠@@gabbysivad6457yess if u wanna live ur life with multiple women dont go after women who want a monogamous relationship

[@magnet8185]

Men have sexual urges different from women. The first question answers that immediately

[@user-ed8gy7jq1c]

@@magnet8185 everyone has different sexual urges tf

[@barteh2]

We have this saying in Poland: "Smart and strong men should be the head of the family. Smart and strong women is the neck which is moving the head in the right direction."

[@Karolina-in9rp]

From Poland and I second that. You can't have a strong household without either

[@SiriusSphynx]

"Which", unless you intentionally meant a magical nature worshiping neck, 🤔

[@barteh2]

@@SiriusSphynx 2'nd language XD

[@barteh2]

​@@SiriusSphynx corrected dear sir.

[@alfredocornelio4329]

So basically what the Bible says. Not surprising since Poland is a Catholic nation

[@lagermat]

Calling yourself an Alpha doesn't make you one, but being a masculine gentleman does.

[@rapleaker1117]

All the ones that called themselves “Alpha” are masculine tho, and being a “gentleman” in todays society just doesn’t work tbh

[@goldstein10493]

It takes genetics to be masculine. Masculine people didn't work for it. That's why many of us just give up trying to be masculine because it's basically physical and genetics and there's nothing we can do about it.

[@donjuandinero]

Hell yeah. Well said🎉

[@universalsubliminals1174]

agreed!

[@nataliahdavidov2166]

Amen brother

[@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198]

One thing I will NEVER understand in these "alpha males" is the body count. How am I supposed to find a man going inside dozen of women before me attractive?🙄🤢

[@srijanshiwangii4913]

True

[@aarnavghosh2260]

Guys earn their body count by being that much more valuable. High body count in men and women denote completely different meanings. Since more than 13 women were willing to sleep with me that means that many women liked me enough to want to do that with me. That means I'm that much more valuable because so many women are willing to give me something that is so precious to them. That is why the higher the body count of a man the more his value is. I know this might still go over your head but hey I tried to explain it to you. Hopefully it helps.

[@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198]

@@aarnavghosh2260 So what you are saying is a man takes a women's value? Because if a male has a body count of 101 and the names of all the women were shown people would be grossed out...

[@aarnavghosh2260]

@@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 I mean you can see it like that but I'm just telling you why guys who banged a lot of girls throughout the history of the human race were always high value men and leaders and kings so on and so forth. Thats all. You have the right to believe it's gross. I just wanted to inform you of a different perspective.

[@athinam.4593]

It's a man's given right to be able to date multiple young and hot women. Eventually you have to accept it.

[@skyraider1656]

My late wife was very feminine yet at the same time underneath she was a strong woman. She loved me dearly and was always there for me. She stayed home raising our children and also explored her interests when possible. After 16 years she was able to return to work part time until such time as she could work full time. Unfortunately she passed away 14 years ago, I miss her dearly. A woman like her doesn’t come into your life everyday.

[@atrixplayz2825]

I pray that one day I meet a woman like your wife🙏🏼 God Bless you

[@christianrowbotham7386]

My condolences bro. I do like what you're saying but there is a misconception that submissive women cant be strong

[@techienate]

If a guy is calling himself "alpha..." he's probably a cringe narcissist. If he's calling himself a "beta..." that's just insane.

[@J0nnygoeswild]

For reals if u gotta call yourself that then probably your now but I wonder All these alphas foos can descale and gut a fish

[@spacedorito9592]

@@J0nnygoeswildI bet they can’t crack an egg with one hand WITHOUT having a piece of egg shell in the pan

[@michaelortiz1561]

The entire red pill community has fallen into a trap of narcissistic hedonism just because men can have SLIGHTLY higher body counts then women and be relatively ok psychologically doesn't mean it's cool to have a wife at home and a different hole waiting for you in every city especially if the only reason yoy feel you are entitled to that is cause u make alot of money that's just foolishness and a potential risk to your resources cause eventually one or more of those holes will produce your children and then take you to court for child support

[@Shadow.in.History]

@@spacedorito9592 why would a man be in the kitchen preparing his own meals though

[@bigboicreme]

​@@J0nnygoeswildjustin waller is a pretty boy country boy

[@materink2700]

In my experience as a man, being promiscuous has done nothing for me. It’s definitely hard to fight those urges. So, I always ask myself, how does sex with multiple women benefit anything besides ego? Not a frinkin at all.

[@charlesfinnegan7930]

propagation of society. Less than half the males have bred but nearly 90 percent of females have.

[@Lightitupp1]

Its more of pleasure reason.

[@thebluefus]

You can’t control your animal urges despite risk of impregnating girl, sexual diseases, violent drama it can cause etc. It might be lack of intelligence also. Not personally you but as much as we talk about having lots of sex in college people that don’t go to college have a higher number of partners. Dumb people have more sex and sadly are the ones multiplying

[@Hero-yu4om]

Sex with multiple benefits the same as sex with one....just multiple times :/ Men with multiple women have also been proven to have increased productivity compared to being single or being with only one

[@desireoxurus4208]

Now you sound like a alpha male someone who has self control. Thank you for validating my point of view, a alpha male is someone in my POV that can provide safety, security physically, emotionally and financially sometimes as things happen in life that can cause the man not to be able to provide financially it doesn't detract from his manhood.

[@LairdErnst]

“A woman can still be a badass and be submissive.” Agreed. I married her.

[@UkeShrum]

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”2

[@tony4534]

You married a weak one. Do better.

[@SS-Bismarck]

​@@UkeShrum Jesus is lord my man, but not the perfect place to preach

[@TheMinecraftOtterOfficial]

@@UkeShrumjust… 2?

[@j.m.f.g.450]

Yeah , thats having a grown up woman as a wife. As for us is enough to be just a Man.

[@caseyhauck7113]

I would love to see a Jubilee episode with Brett and Amala. Idk what the topic would be, but I think they’d be such a power duo.

[@yashenumulla4068]

Oh same. I always wanted to see them together.

[@thegrumpyhorticulturist]

Yes!!

[@MP-nz2ub]

If you call yourself alpha your cringe if you call yourself beta you're cringe

[@memymomalex]

Where are the normal guys that are neither lol

[@whiskeymikie]

Alpha is cringe beta is kind of sad

[@dutchdykefinger]

if you don't give a fuck, chances are you're pretty alpha lol

[@Madrid199]

What about chads and soyboys,all this is a switch in terminology

[@ericvulgate]

Not my cringe. I don't even have a cringe.

[@TheCornDavis]

You can't ask for a classic/traditional marriage or a classic/traditional wife if you aren't a classic/traditional man and you aren't ready to step up 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@purplebastard7922]

But even if you are a traditional man, there are no traditional women, so you, as a woman, unless you are a unicorn, have no right or deserve traditional men so the point you thought you had is shit

[@TheCornDavis]

@@john24110 so true! I think we all just need to step up man

[@TheCornDavis]

@@john24110 "Life is as hard as people make it" I love that!

[@AsAWhiteManMarriedToALatina]

​@@john24110yes, exactly. Men are more promiscuous than women on *average* but counting only married people, men are more faithful I believe. When a man commits, he commits.

[@simoneprek5156]

I agree and in the same way a woman can not ask to be treated in the traditional lady like manner when they are not willing to act ladylike or show the man respect.

[@golandriveby]

the beginning saved me. thanks brett for pointing it out. Some man simply dont know how a suit should fit and how to wear it. At least he didn‘t close both buttons

[@golandriveby]

nevermind the suit only has one button. He otherwise probably would‘ve failed that button thing too.

[@elijahkiefer2330]

Alpha's never know how to dress themselves properly

[@nb6792]

FR. I thought I was the only one who thought all those suits looked too tight and was turned off by those so-called "alphas". First off, alpha male exudes masculinity without being overtly masculine. They don't belittle women either.

[@NathanXYX.]

@@golandriveby but I like the button open ngl

[@paige8453]

I saw a video before about getting a proper suit and the manners that come with having one and it said that when you sit down you need to unbutton the suit. So, it's not that it doesn't fir or anything. He is just wearing it the proper way.

[@Menoball]

I love how Brett disagrees yet respects and hears out the good points just as equally as the bad points no focusing and the bad ponts

[@dylanlyon]

I’ve been reading Marcus Aurelius Meditations & it’s clear that classic masculinity (alpha) is about a man’s ability to overcome his animalistic nature, his passions, and adhere to a higher moral order. Just because it’s “natural” doesn’t mean it’s good.

[@elfixa]

This x 1000

[@katrinaisalwayscorrect]

This is a very Jordan peterson comment 😊

[@JackieOwl94]

Yes. A good example is that cyanide is natural, but it doesn’t mean it is good for us. Though, I’ve heard of people eating peach pits because they falsely believed it had a special vitamin in it….If you believe that, you’re just poisoning yourself with cyanide.

[@charzard1000]

Yes exactly. The Bible got this right over 2,000 years ago and it’s still true today. If you going around sleeping with multiple men or women, you’re a slave to lust.

[@glen3133]

I get your stance. Been with stoicism, but since moved on to another philosophical standpoint personally. Regardless, as men, it is up to us to dominate our own nature, because that is true masculinity. Doesn't matter what philosophy one believes in. The perfect example i can think of is the manga series Baki the grappler. You get both sides of the coin with Baki and Yujiro, and where both paths lead a man.

[@lankymcallister7402]

An open civil discussion with mutual respect. A freakin breath of fresh air.

[@nunyabidness1761]

Agreed! When they put a panel of women together debating these types of issues they are be in complete meltdowns.

[@lankymcallister7402]

@@nunyabidness1761 I was thinking that but didn’t want to say it. Figured I’d be called a sexist. 😂

[@Trb9524-mn3qe]

Holy shit fax thank god there aren’t any Karen’s on here

[@redpilljesus]

Even half and half guys and women means catty behavior. Dudes have an inherent understanding that danger lies behind offending someone.

[@Jayanason]

@@lankymcallister7402 hey I’m a woman and I agree with this. I’m not sexist. I know men can blow up at each other too. It’s about mutual respect. Women seem to be more catty and want their opinions above others even if they agree. This was a good group of people

[@ronnieogoy49]

“Is that a man in a dress?…. That’s unfortunate.” 😂😂😂

[@bryantjames6038]

Being an alpha is nothing to do with money. It has everything to do with respect, self control, and how you treat people

[@littleone1656]

Self control in everything except in regards to relationships, marriages and sex

[@ZIbroweed]

It also has a lot to do with being an animal. Human relationships, as it turns out, are more sophisticated.

[@shannonbarber6161]

No. Being the alpha is about leading. You gave one example method of leading that works for some groups.

[@natemarx4999]

Imagine actually calling yourself a Beta.

[@alexshopov6802]

😂

[@regulator18E]

Imagine participating in the alpha/beta/sigma shit to begin with.

[@JosesRants]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@thecossackcrusaderofholybr8448]

I am a proud theta male!

[@thecossackcrusaderofholybr8448]

@@regulator18E I'm a theta male

[@SavannahR.]

That “alpha” guy showed his true colors with the whole Lila Rose interaction…not a man I’d highly respect

[@leon7676]

Lol but you don't qualify nor he cares about what u think

[@deeethier1544]

​@@leon7676 he will care what good women think about men when he's 60 with no kids and no woman that cares about him enough to take care of him because of how he treated women like replaceable objects.

[@lbwnova6654]

@@leon7676 nah he’d have a pissy fit then say he’s not triggered. Exactly like he said to Lila Rose

[@tshaolin971]

Lol you get offended by the mildest things. She was indeed annoying. Brett Cooper is way too emotional to stay objective on the subject therefore she misses the logical truth behind.

[@cincydooley]

Agree completely, and anyone on here that disagrees is likely a “wannabe alpha”. Insufferable.

[@yahtze]

I have never seen anyone who can integrate the sponsors as well as brett.

[@ZIbroweed]

It ends up making me paranoid. She'll be discussing something she thinks about the men, and I'm seeing sponsor segway motivations behind all her regular thoughts, lol.

[@SentidoComunEnEspanol]

i love that there's still women like Brett. it gives me hope.

[@isabonita6779]

sane :)

[@lisari781]

Theirs a lot! Just stay honest too yourself and you’ll eventually find tons ❤️

[@KiloCreates0_0]

There’s millions you just gotta explore the world

[@razielvingrimm]

I had a friend claim to be an alpha because he slept with loads of woman. Called me a beta for being married. I called him an alpha Dog. Humping everything that gave him a treat and a scratch on the belly. I said Im more the Alpha Wolf. I chose my Wife and will be with her till her I am no more. Beyond that id never call myself an alpha. Its a bit cringe. We laughed. Called each other names. Still best friends.

[@AISHA-si5by]

Hahaha I love this 😂❤

[@Lowest_G]

Nothing wrong with both of you guys as long as yall are satisfied and happy then congrats yall made it.

[@DoctorTauri]

Both of y’all are friends so both of you are beta. Cope

[@Radical_Larry]

​@@DoctorTauribeing lonely is true alpha 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪😔

[@Nrt2Pnt0]

Sleeping with lots of women takes considerable effort. While a woman can sleep with lots of men at the snap of a finger. These two feats are not the same. While YOU may look down on your friend, the myriad of women who slept with him looked UP to him to some degree in order to sleep with him in the first place. You're judging him, a man, with the same barometer that a woman is judged by. "Sleeping around is trashy", and that's where you're wrong. For a woman, it's trashy. Because it's easy. For a man to accomplish that, he HAD to have been doing SOMETHING right to get those results. Or am I being unreasonable in my assertion?

[@johnstewart2473]

These people don't understand that you can be an alpha male without sleeping around. It takes more discipline to stay with one woman. That is more of an alpha male.

[@half.breed83]

Exactly my husband an alpha male been together 13 yrs he never stepped out on me we are best friends also and are completely comfortable with one another mentally physically and sexually

[@solacenmute4840]

So many of you thinks discipline only means to not do something which is pure ignorance being with 1 woman is way easier than building to a point to have as many women as you want it's not even in the same stratosphere. Apart of being alpha is to choose to live whatever life you want to live even if you decide you want lots of women or just 1 woman

[@junkiedropouts3186]

It's always OF/porn addicts and narcistic metrosexuals, who also need to tell everyone how successful with women they are. More like alpha females.

[@xyz0zyx]

Alpha is a concept that is both subjective and objective. It can be contextual, but also there's an element of objectivity at a general level. Sleeping around isn't what makes you alpha within the context of sexual attraction, but the ABILITY to do so and have those options, is what makes you alpha in that regard. It doesn't mean you have to sleep around. Also, having sex with multiple women isn't in and of itself good or bad. It can be done responsibly or irresponsibly. You could be doing it nonchalantly, indiscriminately, anytime, anywhere, with any women and not take any precautions. Or you are vetting the women you get with, ensuring healthy, safe, and pleasant with a good lasting impression on the other person. No one is born being good at women. Like any skill, you need practice and repetition. Making mistakes is a part of that process. In 2023, to develop that skill, you're most likely gonna have to go through multiple women. It's very unlikely that you'll achieve long term success on your first, second, or even 10th try.

[@Baselbarf8787]

Its not about discipline, its about having the fruits of your labour, i hope that saying was right, english is my 3rd language lol but basically its not about discipline, its something You have earned. Women find 80% of men unattractive, this leaves like 90+% of women wanting 10-20% of men. Imagine now if all those men had ”discipline” we would have even MORE single women who have no man, not even casually, thats horrible. I believe biologically this is how we are created, put 10 men and 100 women on an island and all 100 women Will be mothers, put 10 women and 100 men, we will only have 10 mothers. Men are created to work hard and spread their seed to multiple women. Thats why its funny how some men (which we call simps) Pride themselves by saying i stay with my one woman, because they are betraying their biology or they cannot get multiple and have the women actually stay and accept it because their value is too low/

[@blacknight85]

As a man with rugged qualities and brought up in the generation of men are men, I'm raising my son to understand it's okay for a man to show emotion. It's healthy and normal. Just because you bottle up your emotions doesn't mean you're an alpha male. " the man who speaks does not know. The man who knows does not speak" Essentially, if you're an "alpha" you'd never have to tell anyone. They would know.

[@ZIbroweed]

Please don't raise your son up to act like a wolf or a silver backed gorilla. As human's we're actually better than that. Raise him to be a leader. Sophisticated human leadership is far superior to tribal domination. That's why we've been able to effectively take control of a planet as a species. Everything but your last sentence was spot on. Your last sentence is probably true too, but it shouldn't be the goal.

[@SS-Bismarck]

​@@ZIbroweedBut ooga booga speaks to me.

[@ZIbroweed]

@@SS-Bismarck Like primitive language? You seem to have modern language down pretty well. I think any man who understands manhood more emotionally should listen to Jocko Willink over people who talk about "alpha." His deep voice and over-the-top pronouncements tend to be emotionally appealing in a very masculine way.

[@SS-Bismarck]

@@ZIbroweed Yeah I agree with you. Just wanted to crack a joke. But I will research Jocko. Thanks

[@nb6792]

"if you're an "alpha" you'd never have to tell anyone. They would know." 100%

[@journeysthroughtime1632]

I love your witty comments as always. Couldn't stop smiling while watching it. :)

[@hunteraitor2107]

Ladies, get you a man who admits when he's wrong and holds you accountable when you're wrong. Edit: Fellas, I'm talking to women💪, not women☕ There's a difference

[@lydia2366]

Amen 👏

[@Steve-up4jq]

"bUt wE aRE waMeN, wE alwaYs rIgHt"

[@herrwahnsinn4229]

Yeah right as if women will be accountable what planet are you on?

[@hunteraitor2107]

@@herrwahnsinn4229 Foolish child. Not all women are women☕ You seem to have forgotten about women💪

[@fallenfalcon6652]

Women are allergic to accountability

[@valdezd625]

Oh. My. God. That moment when she said "it's the balance of nature" and that look on her face when she looked at the camera KILLED me 🤣🤣🤣

[@itslukechen]

she's so smooth with the transition!

[@PH-mf9cg]

Right LOL I knew the ad was coming 😅

[@jsbaltimore3405]

Same 😂 That was perfect 😂

[@justaguy6613]

She's as smooth with her ad transitions as these alpha bros dream to be with women.

[@joyjoystar9033]

@@itslukechen and it was very smooth coming back from the ad

[@briangaugh140]

There are times in life when we need to be Alpha (e.g. Running a Business/ Conducting a Meeting) and more Beta (e.g. Showing compassion for someone's loss/Celebrating another person's success). What is lacking in both Men and Woman is the "Wisdom" to know when to be one or the other.

[@ZIbroweed]

I agree that there are times when men need to take leadership and that good leaders are one's who also know how to follow better leaders or even to follow worse leaders because the organizational structure is more important than their ego. I don't think "alpha" and "beta" are particularly useful terms for humans to adopt since they come from the animal kingdom and therefor carry a lot of baggage that's not useful for describing human relationships.

[@brandonkern3835]

One thing I love about this video is Brett saying that the guys can still laugh and respect each other despite the opposing views and being able to see from each others perspective. thats a really nice thing ive noticed with guys in my experience at least that we can have different viewpoints and still be really good pals and not let differences get between us. im not saying that women cant do the same thing i just havent experienced it first hand. im not sure if it was a different group of men or if it was a group of more "traditional" women and more liberal/feminist women if this video would have gone in the same direction of being as respectful with each other i would love to hope it would be the same but with how society is these days im not sure if that would truly happen. in other middle ground videos ive seen both sides just really dig into each other and are not able to see eye to eye on some of the topics and have a true middle ground.

[@davisza]

what all of these guys are missing is that in a traditional male+female relationship they are both submitting to each other in different ways. They both give sacrifices for their commitment and that's what makes an honorable man and woman. If there is an imbalance (hence they guy who sleeps around while married to his wife) then the relationship falls apart in almost all cases. Thats why I cringe while watching polygamists say its natural when their family is literally on fire.

[@thelegend3965]

I mean, if the women is ok with it, then there is no problem. If a women is going to seek a High Value Man, then she has to be prepared for the High Value attachments that come with that, which is the man sleeping with multiple women.

[@Person-1812]

@@thelegend3965 yeah but even if the both are ok with it, its not good for either party, or the children

[@VelkanAngels]

@@thelegend3965 - There was that cannibal who put up an advert on Craigslist, wanting to eat another person and another person answered it, wanting to be eaten. It was consensual but does that mean "there is no problem"? Is a society where humans kill and eat each other better or worse, than a society where no one does? It doesn't sound like you even believe in the concept of morality at all but judge purely on consent vs. non-consent as opposed to positive results and improvement vs. negative results and degradation.

[@thelegend3965]

@@Person-1812 please elaborate. The man’s happy, the women is provided for, and it’s not as if you’re gonna tell you kids about your sex life, so I really don’t see a problem.

[@thelegend3965]

@@VelkanAngels ok, you can’t compare a man having sex with multiple women to cannibalism, you’re comparing apples and oranges. Second, please tell me the issues and problems it would cause. The man is happy, and the women is provided for. No matter how many girls he fucks, she’ll always know that she is the main women, so please tell me what problems it would cause.

[@JimmyCapricorn77]

So sleeping around with tons of women makes you an alpha male? I think being an alpha male is a man who is strong and takes care of his family. One who can suppress your urges, stand up for what you believe in with confidence and overcome hard things in life makes you an alpha.

[@mrtrollnator123]

True

[@Gabriel-mr5gf]

The alpha male mates with all the females the beta males don't

[@JimmyCapricorn77]

@@Gabriel-mr5gf I’ve heard the saying alpha’s breed betas feed. That’s a reference to the animal kingdom but as humans we’re more sophisticated than that. Sleeping around doesn’t make someone an alpha. I know plenty of weak betas who sleep around with tons of women make babies then leave them. My cousin is like that but when confronted by other guys he’s a chicken shit and won’t fight or speak up when he needs to because he’s a coward. My grandpa is a good example of an alpha, he was physically and mentally strong. His voice commanded respect and he was always a leader at everything he did. He was a strong family leader, he didn’t mess around on my grandma and instilled structure into the family. He wasn’t a man whore either. He always strived to make sure his family was taken care of and if anyone would try anything with us he’d put someone in their place. He was never afraid to speak up about something that everyone else was worried to speak up about and everyone wanted to be his friend. He’d call out deadbeat dads and liars to their faces. People respected him because of his overall presence and how he was. I grew up seeing my grandpa as someone to look up to and a role model for what a man should be.

[@mrtrollnator123]

@@JimmyCapricorn77 facts

[@JimmyCapricorn77]

@@malaika777 thanks and yes, it’s what all men should strive to be like. Social media has distorted what a true alpha male is and portrays them as confident jerks who just sleep around and never commit to a woman. An alpha male is a leader and strives to be the best at all aspects in life to include being a leader of his family. An alpha is the better man because he’s strong enough to not cheat on his wife and also not let anyone disrespect his wife or mess with his kids. Not everyone guy is an alpha male though. No matter how hard they try they can’t be one because it’s just who they are not. Beta males aren’t all terrible either. They are the gentler caring ones and can still be good husbands and fathers. There’s more betas than alphas out there but it’s always good to try to be closer to being an alpha as a way to model yourself as.

[@0ggamer582]

the cut scene into the sponsor was something else. :) keep making great content!!!

[@tresbb03]

Great video. Also, Brett, I don’t know if you’ve played around trying different headphones, but over-ear ones are way better. Especially on the comfort side.

[@OTO2380]

I love how Brett brings reality right in the middle. Where everybody is seen fairly and realistically

[@sorryfull1x344]

NAHHH THAT CREATURE IS JUST A BETA DAWGGG😂😂😂

[@TheGoatLocker]

yeah this group conversation was embarrassing fr.

[@stormjett2608]

Thats called Sigma, my friend. Welcome to having morale, brains, not giving a shit about Alpha values, and cringing at Betas.

[@alanmoreno2482]

She isn’t Saying anything Profound, Everything she Is Saying is Based on her Feelings.

[@silvalinan4077]

I honestly appreciate the way you always work your sponsorship into your discussion. Never fails to make me chuckle.

[@rzawistowski33]

Good writers

[@25meip]

It probably helps also that her show is meant for KZbin, as opposed to the others which are meant for DW+ and get edited to be on KZbin- where their ad reads are just shoehorned in.

[@jessicaqu]

That transition was GOLD.

[@caseyhaferung6117]

I was just thinking about it We don't need comedians The dailywire has the best jokes

[@shortbutnotwhereitmatters5278]

They're so annoying, I pay for KZbin to not get ads but theses momos now have them in the videos like why am I paying for then?

[@insiddious]

I remember the times I read about alpha and beta in Physics class. On how they have varying radiative powers that can penetrate different depths of different metals. What a time to be alive..

[@Challenger0428]

If this segment showed anything, I think that “submissive” needs to be more carefully defined. Brett nailed it when she said that it’s not meant to be a demeaning term. That should be understood before people debate it’s place in relationships.

[@____________________519]

it's a nice sentiment, but the common definition that submission == weakness isn't going anywhere. The red pill/alpha men intuit this in both directions, by saying that they want their woman to submit to them, as well as by saying that a woman can't respect a submissive man. The woman is weaker, and thus less capable of taking care of herself, and the man is able to take care of her best when she does what he wants. Women don't like to admit that the first kind of submission is a form of weakness, because most of them very much want to experience this treatment from someone who dominates them well. Women almost universally generally agree with the Alpha assessment of submissive men being weak, which Brett basically did this as well. From this, it's clear that only women are allowed to be submissive without being demeaned, and probably only in the context of being trad wives. For everyone else, the word means what it means, and that meaning isn't positive.

[@TaylorAmelia]

Thank you! Some people have it twisted that submissive means you’re abused.

[@1MicrosoftCPU]

Stop fucking around and watch FRESH & FIT

[@roserevancroix2308]

Submissive is a female term, and it should not be used in any male setting - for men in means you're a b***h. So if that is what you are as a man you are a simp - beta, and that is what the western women prefer to partner up with.

[@NKylevitt]

What does being submissive mean to you?

[@BlitzTheFoxi]

4:00 did this man really just say that sleeping with more than one woman is glorifying God? lmfao im dying man you got it backwards as hell

[@Mike-In-O-Town]

Yeah, that guy is waaaaaaaaaaay short of IQ to be delving into complex issues. His goal was to come off as really bright, but the more he spoke the dimmer his light got.

[@roxillatastic]

Right like oh weird because the word of God says otherwise, guess this guy knows better 😂

[@AndrewTheFrank]

He didn't. He said "to position yourself, as a man, to have the capacity to be with as many women as possible. To position yourself so that you understand female nature. And you maximize your potential as a man. Its the most optimal thing for you and your ability to thrive at the highest level and connect with God here on Earth." He did not advocate sleeping around with multiple women in this statement. He said to position yourself so that you are man so desired that many women want you. To maximize your potential. Basically to be the best and most masculine man you can be. And he didn't say it glorifies Got, but that he thinks it helps with having a better connection with God. Makes sense because God does tell man to toil in the field aka work hard.

[@peteskrab4194]

@@AndrewTheFrankyeah, but remember that adultery is a no no to God, so this hold argument is nonsense 🤌

[@txsifaka]

Extremely odd fr

[@1995Milky1995]

Not once have I predicated when your ad will come in LOL I commend you for catching me every damn time!

[@Justforthelulz8]

Properly one of the best jubilees i've seen if not the best, having a laugh, listening, hearing and responding instead of cat fight like usual. Great job to whoever set them together :)

[@lutherwalker7639]

Yeah it was waaay more civil than I expected it to be.

[@billsmafia4346]

Imagine calling yourself a beta like wtf are these boys doing😂

[@StoneAgeWarfare]

I do it all the time.

[@elijahwoods9078]

@Mysterious Stranger Good for you

[@javiehr]

@@StoneAgeWarfareyoure weird

[@cae2525]

They probably dont actually call themselves like that irl, they just wanted to go to a debate

[@StoneAgeWarfare]

@@javiehr everyone tells me that

[@christophe_atx]

This is really beta vs. beta. I'm glad you brought up Lila making him cry. As far as the occasional RP points: every snake oil salesman starts the pitch from a point of truth and tries to tie their product to it.

[@G360LIVE]

Correct. Alphas don't call themselves alphas, because they don't have to. It's something other people recognize in them.

[@TheFallibleWarrior]

@@G360LIVE this is a stupid argument I see all the time. You can be self aware enough to essentially understand your position. That’s like saying Tim Brady can’t say yes good at football and if he does it means he’s not as good as he thinks he is. Waller gets a point or two wrong. But the majority of what he says about life is largely correct.

[@hush7359]

​​@@TheFallibleWarrior exactly. Not to mention that there's literal scientific evidence that proves that an ego (yes, ego not just self confidence) can make someone more successful and actually sit at the top echelon of whatever their field is. It's why so many successful people are narcissists. In a Sense they manifest their egos into reality.

[@basedbane787]

Yea these dudes arnt alpha they took a meme seriously. They're the new insecure metro sexual jersey shore gwedo dudes that act like they're the shit but are completely insecure at all times

[@jorge-7121]

1) Lila Rose has calm delivery but extremely annoying, condescending, arrogant, disrespectful while telling people how wrong they are and how to live their lives. 2) RP has solid scientific base, please educate yourself before commenting

[@joebuglass8426]

Love the way you do your promotions!

[@0monroy]

Absolutely agree! It's crucial for us to recognize that this isn't about pitting men against women. It's about fostering genuine connections and understanding between the genders, irrespective of labels like "alpha" or "beta." The real challenge lies in bridging the gap caused by the demands of our lives. Let's strive for unity and stronger relationships! 💪🌟

[@thiccbricc3423]

chatgpt ahh response

[@vergilredgrave8616]

As a man... who is married to one woman... My wife and I are a team. I get her opinion on different matters. We take care of each other. I can be vulnerable with her. She has been there for me at my lowest points, and she gives me the strength to get up and work my @$$ off to provide for her. She is my peace after dealing with all the sh*t I gotta deal with on a daily basis. And I most certainly will never sleep around with other women who are not her. Be it behind her back or openly... that is disrespectful, irresponsible, childish, and downright dishonorable.

[@mrtrollnator123]

I hope you guys will continue to have a great relationship with each other

[@vergilredgrave8616]

@@mrtrollnator123 thank you

[@mrtrollnator123]

@@vergilredgrave8616 you're welcome

[@sumankisku_]

That's a real man!

[@vergilredgrave8616]

@@sumankisku_ thanks!

[@meleebrawler6462]

Wow, if more conversations in life went the way that they did in this video, our society would be so much better.

[@SiriusSphynx]

No amount of conversion will ever change anything

[@KlaustheViking]

You must kill the roots from which this cancerous stuff grows.

[@MiaogisTeas]

It's because there are no women present

[@samuelc.9686]

@@MiaogisTeas Based 🗿

[@elyay7203]

​@@SiriusSphynx true tho. don't matter which side you're on

[@Knowledge09France]

Thank you Brett Cooper this talks make my day

[@alexandraunderwood2961]

The very concept of Alpha/Beta males is so contrived. My husband never dated before me. He chose me, committed to me, and has zero interest in any other woman. He is the leader in our marriage, but his leadership helps me grow and become an ever better version of myself; he sees my potential better than I do. And yes, I am “submissive,” but that doesn’t mean I’m lesser; if anything, it frustrates him when I hold back my opinions. We are partners. He’s thrilled when I take decisions off his plate (as he is very driven and is the breadwinner in our marriage). And my need for more emotional openness has helped him to grow. The alpha males in this video make some good points, but they disqualify themselves from being the type of man that any woman should follow; sexual unfaithfulness is an absolute no-go for any strong, self-respecting traditional woman.

[@konradwright7725]

Gotta throw their language back at them: “Be capable of harm, temper yourself to be gentle” “Be capable of attracting, temper yourself to be faithful” A boy who gives into his sexual urges, is no different than a boy who plays video games in excess. If you give into your urges. What separates you from an animal acting on instinct.

[@SiriusSphynx]

I work full time, single father who is raising 3 kids that prefer my home over their mothers, I'm a tradesman, a foreman, and run work raising bridges, hospitals, and schools. Every day I suffer through cold, heat, sun, hot slag, cuts, bruses, burns, and cramps. I promise you, I wake up with a dick harder than your job. And I LOVE to play video games on my free time because I earned it. Gaming is no worse a waste of time than watching sports, playing on your phone, or watching youtube, etc. I highly doubt that anyone, even you, is not guilty of one of those pleasures. So don't say ignorant crap if you want to be taken seriously little one.

[@samuelc.9686]

Except, men have to actually work hard to attract women. Did you forget that? Unlike playing video games, you have to work extremely hard to get the attention of one women, much less multiple. Usually (note I said usually) the men sleeping with multiple women had to work for it, they're usually rich millionaires who invested time into their appearance and business, so they earned it. And here's the shocker, I don't even believe sleeping with multiple women is good, I believe you should have one partner, get married, and be faithful. But just because I disagree with them doesn't mean I don't understand them. I believe their mentality is, "I worked so hard to get rich, stay in shape, and look good, let me have my reward." And their reward would be multiple women.

[@kflo2059]

@@samuelc.9686 unless you get wealthy AFTER committing to one woman, then you go cheat on her bc you still feel entitled. This scenario also happens often. Some men do reach that status bc they have the help of a faithful, dedicated woman, but then find out their man is lying about his commitment.

[@samuelc.9686]

@@kflo2059 That's totally irrelevant to what I was saying. I'm not talking about being with one woman telling her you'll be faithful but you wont. I'm talking about being with multiple women and all of them knowing...

[@ccalfee03]

We are animals. We do act on instinct. Most people have dulled their instincts to the point they could never survive without every modern convenience available to them. But humans are still part of the animal kingdom.

[@spinecollector9931]

“A woman who is naturally more submissive, or quieter or a little more traditional is not any less “empowered” - this resonated deep in me. I used to think there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t as loud or outgoing as other people my age. I never liked going to clubs or bars and I always felt so out place because all I wanted to do was stay home. I had a kid at a young age and that helped me see what was really important. Now I’m about to graduate college, live in a beautiful home along the beach, started setting up for my retirement & the “friends” I tried to keep up with are still living with their parents (we’re in our 30s now)

[@misaww]

You were raised by a respectable person.. amen! 😅

[@roserevancroix2308]

People have no idea what empowered means - but it doesn't mean: sleeping around with different f boys and badboys wasting your life getting pregnant with losers, behaving like a hoe, so everyone loses the respect for you including yourself and turning to sex work on OF is not what it means, that does not make you empowered that makes you a stupid b. Having respect for yourself, dignity, boundries, and having some other standards than "2 meters tall and fast car" will make you feel so much better. You don't have to be f trash to be empowered, once you are trash no real man with real value is going to want you anymore and you are left with trash like you because birds of the same feather flock together.

[@medivh1035]

I don't like to go to bars Or clubs either, but l don't feel out of place. I like it. I like to do my own thing

[@avapilsen]

That has nothing to do with being submissive. Being quiet and not outgoing is different than what the prompt said. Look up the definition of submissive.

[@audreyandremington5265]

you're graduating college bro, you're not submissive. I'm in college, love to stay at home, pretty introverted, etc etc etc but I'm not "submissive". In animals, submission/dominance refers to resource allocating relationships. Humans are much more socially complex, and so rather than referring to who gets material resources, it often refers to who gets *social* resources. Who gets to make decisions. Who is seen as higher status. Etc. If you were generally submissive, then you would *follow* what other people want you to do even if it made you uncomfortable. If you're independent and are making decisions for yourself, you are not submissive.

[@daveh8139]

😂 “those pants are too tight cutting off circulation!” 😂

[@AliPwrites]

Doing a Brett Binge while I work & it feels like I am spending time with a friend, and there are few women with Brett’s morals to befriend

[@user-rd4zs9sl2m]

To me, an alpha would never say they are an alpha...it's an energy you can only understand when you share the same space with a man like that.

[@mikeymyke]

Its kind of like in sports. GOATs never call themselves the GOAT, they're the GOAT because other players see them as such.

[@mo-em1ke]

That makes no sense.. Plenty of people are capable of accurate self assessment. Using personal feelings to describe what you think it should mean doesnt change anything.

[@hhj186]

@@mo-em1keIt’s not like a self assessment. Alpha is a term that is only given to you by other people. Self declaring yourself an alpha mean nothing. Declaring yourself an alpha is nothing more than someone with insecurities about their masculinity putting up a facade

[@Crs664]

I don’t recall any of these guys calling themselves alphas. In fact most content creators that get criticized for being “alpha males” don’t actually call themselves that and it’s just everyone else calling them that. Super weird. The people who hate that term and mock it use it more than literally anyone else.

[@Ziiphyr]

For me it’s never a self-proclaimed title, it’s an earned position.

[@mattsandford]

I did the whole sleeping around thing. I don't know how they can enjoy it so much with strangers. It usually just left me feeling pretty empty. The bigger challenge is finding the right person and that you can stand eachother for the long haul

[@mattsandford]

Also I dont know about this whole dominance nonsense... I think it's healthy for the balance of power to shift depending on the circumstances. Like there's certain things she's gonna be better at doing. When it comes to camping or the nuclear apocalypse I'll take the lead :P. I also find it pretty unattractive if a woman is too submissive. I think these dudes are meatballs.

[@txsifaka]

@@mattsandford valid take. i also think hookup culture is more harmful than people think, for both men and women

[@mattsandford]

@@txsifaka Absolutely, profoundly. Even when people do realise that it's harmful it's hard to find a partner who has arrived at the same place and isn't jaded by the whole experience (and to avoid becoming jaded yourself)

[@charlesfinnegan7930]

@@mattsandford Keep living the Disney matrix program then.

[@DoctorTauri]

🧢

[@Dclxvi6x3]

Shout out to you sfx guy, that windows shutting down sound effect was awesome 🤣

[@MarcSamuels562]

Brett’s tales are spot on. Very balanced, mature, and sensible

[@mslissacrenshaw]

Married with girls on the side.. You have to seek out, talk to, flirt with another woman to even get to the point of physically connecting. That's all evil when you are in a relationship. It's not a happy accident when someone finds relations outside of their actual partner. It took time and effort. Sneaking around and giving your attention to, someone who isn't your chosen partner takes time from kids too... seeking relationships from someone that you aren't committing yourself to is not manly or alpha. It's CREEPY and EVIL

[@ageofechochambers9469]

Not really if you have any status what so ever as a man ( money , high profile, public office) females will seek you out . FYI the term creepy is played out you need more creative male shaming language dear .

[@Tyler_W]

​@@ageofechochambers9469 You didn't really address the point, though. It isn't admirable to sleep around. At best it suggests High sexual market value, but what is that worth if you have no virtues cultivated within yourself?

[@ageofechochambers9469]

@@Tyler_W well if we are talking about sleeping around then this criticism should be directed towards females as you see above with the "beta" males they are not able to sleep around and the vast majority of males aren't either willingly or due to lack of resources, funds, etc . Plus your typing that it's not "admirable " to sleep around, this means there is a push back against men sleeping around. However not only do women sleep around more than men but it's viewed as female "empowerment " and they cheered on by society as being liberated . So I'd keep that energy for females instead of a small percentage of "alpha" males who boast about sleeping around . FYI I have some resources/status (I am not in america ) I don't sleep around with women won't let them in my house and don't condone any man of any value to socialize with women at all especially in private it's risky . Extremely strange that a female turns 18 goes on onlyfans selling herself for $3.99 have 100 bodies or more before 21 years old you guys ignore that and focus on a few men ? I thought it was "my body my choice " ? Do men have the right to their bodies ? Hypocrisy at its worse

[@TJ-Judge]

​@@ageofechochambers9469lol no dude, it is creepy. Thats why she used that word. Cuz its accurate 😂 sorry to break it to u

[@ageofechochambers9469]

@@TJ-Judge a infantalised generation with a vocabulary to match .

[@menzokruizinga]

If you call yourself a beta or alpha male i cant take take seriously😂

[@jamesteegardner2273]

Yeah, everyone knows that the sigmas are the only cool ones, lol.

[@dansuduhast1051]

They dont actually call themselves betas, they just dont care about this stoopid redpill ideology to give the lables alpha beta sigma any meaning or weight. The title is just to clickbait more people into watching the video

[@menzokruizinga]

@@jamesteegardner2273 i egree it was really respectvol

[@samuelc.9686]

I can't take you seriously if you don't have good grammar.

[@caralho5237]

because you're a beta bro alpha males can sense each other from 3 miles away

[@AnAnonymousObject]

11:14 Brilliant take Brett, I'm glad you pushed that point.

[@Campickle]

Brett... Id just like you to know...Your the best at smoothly going into your sponsor talk.

[@DaddyVader87]

Sacrificing your urges and putting aside your petty teenage like lifestyle to dedicate to a single woman is way more alpha than these wanna bes are arguing.

[@leon7676]

Dude, have u been living under a rock?? People don't do that no more, have u heard about social media? We are not living in the 1950s

[@DaddyVader87]

@@leon7676 lol what? I've been in a long distance relationship with my gf across two countries I had to wait 3 years to see her due to us refusing to get the Fauci shot .if we can hold off for 3 years without having sex it's just an excuse that other dude's and women make to not be mature or act reasonably it's why those people end up alone in the end. And I'm a 220lb body builder so having sex isn't that hard if I wanna go out and get it, just dedicating yourself to a single someone is definitely more satisfying.

[@Bella.Parabellum]

@Vader Fully agree. You don't get to brag about self-control if you can't keep your natural urges in check.

[@Bella.Parabellum]

​@@leon7676 I don't know what rock of denial you're living under, but people _are_ still doing it.

[@davidkelly3639]

Dead accurate

[@patricklewis9787]

Feel like Brett has gotten better at articulating her thoughts and saying what’s on her mind. Not saying she never had it in her I just think she’s getting more comfortable with her KZbin Channel

[@noellesanchez4978]

i agree

[@drewdown826]

That's called experience

[@redpilljesus]

She's incredibly articulate. I've been watching people speak on here for thousands of hours (since 2006 on my first account), and she easily makes top 5.

[@michaelmcgee335]

She's growing into it nicely.

[@pathfinder011]

You are a very very honest woman. That's something very hard to find. I'm liking this channel.

[@NoDripNikey]

That plug into the ad was smooth cant lie

[@CQBWarfighter]

No such thing as alphas and betas. Just good strong men and weak bad men.

[@slavemind84]

same thing dude--alpha is a designation and a word but it appropriately identifies men correctly

[@FatalS420]

Incorrect but okay lol. Alpha = leader. Beta= follower

[@screamtoasigh9984]

Trey Coleman of the Phoenix pack walks into the chat. 😋

[@thelegend3965]

I mean, you literally just described what an Alpha and Beta are so???

[@vigarobugsbunni]

Thank you Brett! A cheater could never be a " high value" man!!

[@supremelordoftheuniverse5449]

Maybe he shouldn't, but of course he could, just look at how many women are willing to share highly successful men.

[@knightheaven8992]

Here is the rub, technically he isnt a high value man, from moral standpoint. But but high value and low value, isnt about morality necessarily. Its about demand, of lack of it. what moves the interest of women when picking a mate, from an attraction point of view. Tons of women keep choosing cheaters for a reason. The ability to garner attention from women seems to be something that women perceive to be high value in a man. For some reason is attractive to women. I would say its more of an instinctual thing then actually a logic reason for it. Which only reinforces that people would be happier, and better off, when they can control their animal desires and instincts, instead of being slaves to it.

[@vigarobugsbunni]

@@knightheaven8992 a healthy worth while woman who won't leave a man for the next thing that's more " high value" than him, will never be with a cheater. That's the rub, the state of women today is atrocious to the point that she is isnt looking for a mate she's looking for her money. So being a "high value " will get you left for the next guy that can offer more. A woman who has her head straight would never be around one of these men because those men are willing to play into a transactional relationship like that. That's going to tank any good relationship.

[@redmatrixx]

​@@knightheaven8992 facts. I was about to respond but you captured my point on how people conflate the morality to demand.

[@Afriendlywoodelf13]

@@vigarobugsbunni exactly these types of women and men r all in the same boat they see relationships as transactional a women who was loyal regardless of financial status or hardship would be traumatized from a relationship w a man like that or not fulfilled the men think they can buy morality from these women instead of putting in the work to earn it thats the problem w it

[@brackishbass]

"Submission" no, "compromise", yes. My wife and I are one. I lead, but she has her voice, and I respect her enough to listen. A man or woman by themselves is not natural. We are made to complete each other. The strength of a couple who are committed to each other can withstand adversity a single person could not.

[@dallaspopp6052]

First time watching your channel.. You're an extremely well spoken and well rounded women. Thank you for making this, you've earned a new fan 🍻

[@anthonygarces6999]

i love how truly impartial you are. you call out the nonsense on both sides - its truly a breath of fresh air. keep at it brett !!

[@ShindlersFiist]

Exactly! She's logical!👍😊

[@ZIbroweed]

She clearly wanted to like the "alpha bros" for some reason despite not being able to like most of them because of the stances they've taken.

[@lia701]

She was trying too hard to agree with the alpha men

[@glistening7178]

@@lia701Yeah, she tap dances a bit.

[@m.elizabeth03]

⁠@@ZIbroweedim a libertarian that watches brett because i like hearing different opinions and perspectives and i 100% think this came across because, who tf wants to like ppl that call themselves beta? lmao

[@Lola_Fire]

Submissive doesnt mean weak..you are both taking each other into consideration. Its not the guy just leading the relationship blindly..you are a team...but you each have different responsibilities.

[@charlesfinnegan7930]

nope.

[@thelegend3965]

Incorrect. Male submission is a sign of weakness. The man leads, and the women follows. The women can have her opinion, but she has no say in the direction and choices that are made for the future of the relationship and house hold.

[@Pr2two]

​@@thelegend3965 😂😂😂 you've never been in a long term relationship

[@thelegend3965]

@@Pr2two you haven’t refuted my point at all with an argument of your own, you’ve just tried to diminish me, but I’ll still humour you. What about what I said don’t you agree with? Certain parts, or the whole statement, I’m just curious to know.

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

​@@thelegend3965 until you change your mind, may a good woman never fall into your hands, to be destroyed and wasted by such thinking. amen.

[@zanderC5953]

The best advertising segue I've heard on KZbin so far😂😂😂

[@michaelhamel-patrick7718]

I found Brett only like a week ago, but I love watching her and have been binging

[@echofoxgaming7334]

I like what Brett is saying about this ‘alpha bros’ True alpha men deserve respect based on their life. Many of these people do not deserve that respect and submission. I would love to see this with true alpha men.

[@sparkynate91]

Look at it this way, women are trust fund babies where alpha men we have earn our wealth. Case in point, Brett was given her wealth at 18 because she's beautiful and could probably get any guy she wants including celebrities or pro sports players... but I had to work from the moment I turned 18, start my own electrical business at 24, and grind to now having 120 employees on my payroll in order to have the same base level of options like her. I didn't start getting DM's from women until I was making $150K a year. Women who are average could be on a yacht in a few days if they want. Brett could easily be on a yacht if she wanted. But I had to work my ass off, build my body up, build my mind and game up, build my wealth and status up AND THEN BUY THE YACHT JUST TO GET THE LADIES ON IT! This is why so many western women today are 304's. They are handed their wealth at 18 and they go and blow all of it within a few years and then demand a man like myself who makes over $100K, is 6'2" and has more than 6"... why would I get with someone who has destroyed her reputation, sold her body, and is blown out just because she demands it? Naw I'll get with a 20yr old who doesn't have an OF or slept with 50 guys and is willing to be coached.

[@bitchd7839]

@@sparkynate91 If you couldn't get women until you had money, then the problem is you. You probably spend all your time around those gold-digging Instagram "models" and then complain that all women are shallow. If you truly want a wife who loves you for who you are, you wouldn't need a yacht. You aren't looking for a serious relationship. You are looking for hot but materialistic gold-diggers. Also the fact that you think that all women want to live the easy trophy-wife life to celebrities says a lot about why you're single. Yes Brett could be with a rich celebrity and leech off their money if she wants to, but she won't. She has principles. Go ahead and enjoy "coaching" your 20 year olds on your yacht. But let's not pretend that those 20 year olds want you for your personality. Edit: you made a comment in one of Brett's videos saying "I now make great money and 304s throw themselves at me". Lmao no pity for you. If you choose to be around hoes, then you shouldn't complain when most of the women around you are shallow.

[@stevec3526]

Justin is a true Alpha. If you knew anything about him you would agree.

[@justaguy6613]

An example of an ACTUAL alpha masculine male is: Aragorn. If you haven't read/watched LoTR, you're given an incentive for it: to see a healthy masculine man shown at his best.

[@echofoxgaming7334]

@@justaguy6613 I appreciate it! I’ll have to check it out!

[@Bread996]

Great convo. It worked because they attacked the arguments, not each other.

[@bigboicreme]

Brett attack the people though which was funny and nice

[@allyjaylou]

Such a good video!

[@blonkasnootch7850]

@BrettCooper you seem to have a beautiful mind. I wish you much luck and happiness and that you inspire so much more people! Thanks!

[@loserplanet]

Great take, Brett. I felt the same about that guy after watching him debate Lila by calling her "annoying". Lila was completely correct. You have self control and discipline. And LUST is a deadly sin. A man should love his wife as himself. And care for her. Sleeping around hurts that woman. Emotionally, and could lead to STDs spread to her.

[@migzy4704]

Same here. Men who sleep around and can't commit to one woman are weak. They talk about discipline yet they pick and choose when to be disciplined.

[@CyberpunkMaster]

Yep 👍🏻, the very form of relationship between man and woman comes with self-control, compromise, and sacrifice. The very fact of miscommunication that men don't understand women and women don't understand men encourages both parties to form that bridge of compromise to understand each other and process the difference in thought. There is no such thing as fate that decide to be with each other, but there is growth that helps you to be together!

[@user-fg8jh4do8j]

i think the reason why these alphas dont want to settle down with only one woman, i think is because it feels unfair to them...The alpha works so hard for a decade to build himself and be noticed by women.. then after all that work he can only sleep with one? it feels unfair tbh to me too

[@FeterPrahm]

​@@user-fg8jh4do8jlol what about it is unfair? Women have inherent value, if you can't deal with that you're weak

[@elrichpereira7147]

Lila is annoying, that's a fact.. she attacks the person instead of the argument and always wants to be right without understanding the viewpoint of the other person, the other day she debated destiny on abortion and although I'm against abortion she made the debate insufferable.. even her partner found her annoying 😅

[@herbie_the_hillbillie_goat]

That ad segue was golden. Brett's sly look at the camera. 🤣🤣

[@nicknedelcu]

HAHHAA the vitamins ad was so good

[@tobiasolsen8218]

Why Are the transitions into the sponsorships always so smooth

[@bluephoenix53]

Its strange how its one extreme to the other. There has to be a middle ground.

[@Chyronn]

There is, but no one talks about it, it's called being self-aware enough and intelligent enough to speak when you have something useful to contribute instead of puffing out chest, flaring one's nostrils or deliberately playing second fiddle and not wanting to shoulder responsibility.

[@jeonghoonchoi5046]

There’s a middle ground in the real world. Jubilee is just the king of butting two extremes that don’t actually exist irl. It’s really a modern circus.

[@brianburgess3231]

Sigma? .. tho not really beta .. I've been described as an introverted alpha. They said cyz I don't crave attention like an alpha, but stands up when there's a problem. .. this guy is pretty extreme tho, sorta like a live Johnny Bravo

[@brianburgess3231]

​@@Chyronn AKA Sigma

[@SiriusSphynx]

​@@brianburgess3231 though

[@micheleonel1047]

As a submissive woman idk whether to cry or celebrate over so many of these guys not finding me as attractive. Guess it doesn’t matter as long as my husband is happy

[@TheCouto11]

thats kinda sad, submissive is kinda of a strong word no? if you feel happy with your husband thats good enough

[@williamtaittinger4529]

Female Shapiro wants Waller

[@thebigree6155]

As long as he's a good husband and you're a good wife, why would the opinions of others matter? Clear your mind and be grateful

[@jsbaltimore3405]

I hope it helps to know that men have two different attractions. One is sexual and the other is marriage. There’s a high chance that the attraction you’re not getting is the sexual attraction since you’re married so you probably carry yourself in a respectful way, so it’s not necessarily a bad thing to not receive that attraction.

[@alishaaaax]

@@jsbaltimore3405 why can’t you feel sexually attracted to the woman your marring?? This makes no sense men are so confusing 😂

[@annenussio]

honestly thats why its so important to find someone whos good for u and good with you not everyone wants to sleep around or do things maybe other people are ok with doing and thats ok dont make u less of a man because you dont wanna sleep around or cheat it makes u more disciplined then other man sure but i just love how she can see things from a fact and opinion side and a middle side brett is amazing in so many ways

[@timmouthyannouncing151]

Building on each other should be the standard. My wife went to school first. We moved multiple times as she went on to her master's and eventually to career and then to another city and career. Then it was my turn. Graduated with my second degree last year and building experience currently to move into my career path. I'm almost 40, we have a wonderful son, and we're standing at the doorstep of what should be the most exciting part of our lives. My point is that roles shift as the relationship and what life throws needs them to. Regardless of titles we want to give ourselves, we are humans. We have peaks and valleys. Sometimes you can move mountains and sometimes you are carried over said mountains. That's beauty of a real relationship.

[@bobizzle1605]

You want to know what an alpha is? An alpha is a guy who knows and understands his responsibilities in life, such as doing his job and working as hard as he can to advance and better himself in his job to earn promotions and raises; an alpha is a guy who humbles himself, he is confident and comfortable with the person he is while also acknowledging that he is far from perfect and can always work on improving himself and setting a good example for his fellow brethren; an alpha isn’t always necessarily a natural born leader, but he is brave and confident and assertive enough to take that next step and BECOME a leader when needed; an alpha doesn’t try to humiliate or outdo his fellow man to assert dominance and brag, he LIFTS UP his fellow man and encourages him and holds him accountable to better himself and set an example for others; an alpha understands that he doesn’t have to belittle or lower himself to any underserving woman or anyone else who ridicules him while not stooping to that level; an alpha understands that when he commits to one woman he loves her and provides for her and doesn’t stray even when he has chances, because he is creating a family and a home worthy of a wife submitting to him the way God intends; an alpha sets out to be his kids’ first superhero, he loves them and nurtures them but also disciplines them and teaches them right from wrong and makes sure they know how to be humble and hold themselves accountable; an alpha is a true God fearing man who doesn’t just say he’s religious but actually strives to live life for God and lead his family to God every day(and for men who aren’t religious, it’s still their duty to lead their wives and family to righteousness and to be the pillar and hero their family needs them to be). That’s what an alpha male is. Know what ISN’T an alpha male? A guy who constantly labels other guys as alpha or beta, or the self proclaimed “gigachads” that are just focused on bedding as many women as possible for bragging rights and trying to dominate and be on top of his fellow man. No man has to be labeled a beta male unless he’s a guy who is a lazy, mistreats and abuses his family out of narcissism, pretends to be nice and caring to women just to have sex and isn’t genuine, or a man who refuses to humble himself and grow and change into trying to be a better man everyday and doesn’t hold himself accountable. THAT is a beta male.

[@connorbaz5980]

Well said brother. Very well said. 👏

[@ericordaz3082]

Absolutely! Nailed it! Couldn’t agree more

[@SiriusSphynx]

I'm gonna not read all that, and just say "K 👍"

[@commentator1984]

Exactly, an Alpha leads and protects his family. Dudes that run around trying to "spread their seed" and run aren't even Betas.

[@summersalix]

Perfectly said 👏

[@millenadecampos7192]

Two types of man I’ll never date 😂 if you label yourself like that you’re not normal

[@sorryfull1x344]

THE BETA IS JUST AN EMO FA🗿🗿0️⃣T DAWG😂

[@DEMillerEarl]

Omg that ad transition was too smooth XD

[@emmabyarugaba2892]

She puts the ads in so smooth

[@mihael1582]

Brett sounds like she'll make a great mum "button ur shirt" 😂 great respect to your mum, she raised you well👏👏

[@imperialofficer5172]

if you identify as alpha your annoyiing and cringe but if you identify as a beta you metally insane

[@laurenceizegbu260]

so what tf are ppl supposed to be 💀 u might think it’s cringe but all men fall into one category it doesn’t matter how cringe it is

[@katrinaisalwayscorrect]

There is a middle ground of men who aren't push overs and protect and love their family. A good woman who is worth the time of day does not want to be with this kind of alpha. Good men are few and far between

[@imadeanaccounttocomment7800]

@@laurenceizegbu260IDK man we can probably not base our personality around some random greek alphabets that the internet and some debunked biologists classified

[@nekemli2622]

​@@laurenceizegbu260 The skull emoji is cringe

[@LordofChaos42]

youre right, being BETA is metal af. Prefer betas to alphas any day. Sigmas are the real GOATs

[@TigerSportsBalm]

Brett saying button your shirt up NEEDS to be turned into a meme

[@schammy2040]

“That’s unfortunate” 😂😂😂

[@Seb_Kowalke]

Why is Brett dressed like an inmate? 😂

[@Trex10100]

I was thinking something out of a Tim burton's film.

[@FerociousSniper]

​@@Trex10100 bro, same!!

[@spasticfurchild]

It’s a very Candace Owens outfit! I think all of their time spent together had some effects 😊

[@JosesRants]

😂😂😂😂 thought the same thing You just aged yourself btw it’s Gen x and above that remember the Stripes millennials and z only know orange.

[@sleepyotter.]

i was gonna say beetlejuice or smth

[@hmills9118]

Ick. My husband is a... Christian male. He "leads" me but serves me every day. I never have to wonder if our family of 8 will be cared for. He handles a million things for us and is constantly thinking of us. He is home every night and weekend with us. He takes us to church. He takes us on vacation. He spends his freetime with me and the kids. Love him.

[@Krydolph]

The "beta" that talked the most is clearly the biggest Alpha of them all. He is so secure in his masculinity he doesn't care for a second he is presented as a beta. He takes charge, he rests in his self, natural leader. You could very much argue he is peacocking too, because he is certainly not "average" in his looks. But someone like blue suit guy, he dresses for the part. he wants to be seen as an Alpha, he tries to be an alpha, it is his goal to be an alpha. The true Alpha, just is without building everything in their personality up around trying to be it.

[@BuggyBoy39]

It's crazy how smoothly KZbinrs can age way into a sponcer ship teach me your ways😂😂😂

[@sheeniebeanie2597]

Exactly what you said, Brett. The thing about submission is that you need to be a man worthy of my submission and a man who refers to himself as an alpha male, which to him means to sleep around and not commit to me, or a beta male, which to him means to act like I don't need him (i.e., not be manly), you aren't worthy of my submission.

[@HeyLady08]

Said perfectly 👌

[@armellebiampamba4257]

I ain't saving myself for marriage if you can't save your "seed" for my womb. Only. Thank you. Gosh I would never say this out loud 🤣