Tips for public speaking 1. Deep breaths 2. Have a service mind's 3. Preparation (be prepared) 4. Embrace being a beginner 5. Start your kids off early (for parents) Tools to help you 1. Confidence (do what you said you'd do) 2. Books 3. Start small, but think big 4. KZbin
@christophermarumo73795 ай бұрын
I'm applying today to do public speaking
@EthelNumfor-p9u5 ай бұрын
Adorable ❤🎉Texas institute of public speaking B'da . Northwest, Cameroon of West Africa
@dmb86235 ай бұрын
And talking slowly not fast !
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
@@christophermarumo7379 Fantastic! I'm happy to assist you on your speaking journey :)
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
@@dmb8623 Yes! Speak knowing that you are worth your audience's time
@TessBopape6 ай бұрын
I was actually praying this morning that God i need to able to communicate effectively,i am required to speak on a daily basis and i just feel dumb ,i get so nervous i lose my train of thought. this is really great thank you
@agnesmabena36746 ай бұрын
Same here😢
@lmophuti6 ай бұрын
Same here. It's worse cause in my head when I recite, I am perfect. But come the time to stand on a podium, it's all blank. As a result, my confidence has been greatly affected😞
@Mrs_Tobias6 ай бұрын
💔 same, it’s not easy at all been struggling for years
@cukumetani5 ай бұрын
Are you talking about me in this comment, sounds like me, and thanks you raised it.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad this reached you when you needed it most! Feeling nervous and losing your train of thought is common, but with practice and a few strategies, you can overcome this. Remember, every speaker starts somewhere, and it's okay to take small steps. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and keep pushing forward. You've got this
@patience_mogorosi5 ай бұрын
"You need to allow yourself to be small before you can be big"... I love what you said here🙌👌❤
@patience_mogorosi5 ай бұрын
Nothing big starts big👌
@ChiChimTonTV5 ай бұрын
Me too. Love this quote.❤
@jacquelinemorrison86192 ай бұрын
Just what I need right now. Thanks ladies. Thank God
@Siiviwe6 ай бұрын
Aaah, this is a very interesting conversation. I remember that before 2020, I was in corporate, and I struggled so much because I was just not confident. I was so frustrated at the time I even started therapy, and the therapist coached me into public speaking. At the time, I wanted to enter academia as a lecturer, but I couldn't speak. I took public speaking courses during COVID-19. It was the best thing I have ever done for myself. I am now in academia, growing so much, and all of this happened in less than 3 years. I am that girl now in meetings. 😜
@nalediramontja6 ай бұрын
Hi mind to share where you took your public speaking classes?
@Siiviwe6 ай бұрын
@@nalediramontja mostly I read textbooks on public speaking the. There are online platforms like Alison but try LinkedIn learning. It has free courses. I even started a YT channel to learning to how to project my voice.
@Pearl_Mazibuko6 ай бұрын
Please share the details of the classes
@Siiviwe6 ай бұрын
Hey Linkedin Learning has a lot uf free courses you can try out. Also Alison but you pay for the certificate
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this for you!!!
@kwakha61036 ай бұрын
Vanessa, my Goodness. I was with her on a Leadership program and she stood out because of this exactly🎉, lovely to see her here again. She truly lives what she says.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Yaaay thank you so much for tuning in!
@sheeba83345 ай бұрын
Loved this.. was much needed @@vanessa_bukasa
@wilfrednyato84505 ай бұрын
@@vanessa_bukasa
@Prasansarai195 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed you all till the end of this vedio, whatever you three talked about it's really true . It gives me good positive vibes .😇Thanks to God that i found this
@AliceNgina-jb9tn4 ай бұрын
I have been encouraged,thanks so much
@siphiwendwandwe72245 ай бұрын
I really love how you all listen and speak. No one is speaking while the other speaks. It's very elegant. Loved this conversation.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Indeed!😄
@realtalk88135 ай бұрын
Right it happens again and again in many girl conversations we need to work on that 🙂👍
@ChiChimTonTV5 ай бұрын
Yup. Listening with the most care is neccessary while other speaking. Always true. Thanks.
@nelsonlyin32535 ай бұрын
😂
@nelsonlyin32535 ай бұрын
I'm as well
@princewillibe60915 ай бұрын
The interviewer asked such beautiful questions to which the guest speaker gave brilliant answers.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Absolutely!😁
@VhulendaMundalamo6 ай бұрын
I'm a Venda lady and it's natural for me to always use English because not a lot of people know Tshivenda. I've been ridiculed and hated a LOT for speaking English and speaking up at work and at school. Whether we like it or not, English is the medium of communication in any professional setting. If you don't k now the language, don't hate those who do, they can teach you if you ask nicely :)
@fulufhelotakalani11515 ай бұрын
Funny i looked at this lady and thought she looks like you.
@SibahleMseleku5 ай бұрын
Kindly teach me English
@kitsontuli27135 ай бұрын
I'm a Ndebele woman currently working in the Vhembhe region and the mense here do not compromise that much when it comes to speaking tshiVenda. I've had to learn quickly 😂
@zammyzee80736 ай бұрын
I just realized that I need to upskill my son while he's still young. He gets tongue tied a lot and people are impatient with him but he's so smart. I have always been confident and therefore never struggle with standing out so much so that I used to get annoyed with myself for it because why am I always given extra (non paying) responsibilities at work. I will leverage on it going forward. Thank you for this
@Mrenzula6 ай бұрын
I'm confident when I talk but sometimes English data bundles run out and I start mumbling 😂😂😂😂😂geez I hate those moment. This is when I wish I had A+ education and public speaking platform at an early age
@Miss_Zimm5 ай бұрын
I think you overthink it.. just speak I swear some people are not interested on how you speak the English but what are you saying.
@THEVIRTUALBACKOFFICELULU5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂I CAN RELATE!!! I am very comfortable with speaking to few or many. But yoooohhh the data bundles conspire against me too😂😂 what I have started doing is to say what’s on my mind in vernacular, I just speak and then translate it. It has helped me. I am confident doing it, not ashamed at all.
@Mrenzula5 ай бұрын
I will most definitely try that, maybe I'm in my head too much lol, thanks guys
@wow-xu6kc5 ай бұрын
Mi too
@nanasarah63865 ай бұрын
Me too yoh my English is the problem but I believe I’m a very smart woman
@langelihlenyuswa59206 ай бұрын
Such an important conversation. Had a terrible experience during my internship because I just was not asserting myself at all! In meetings I’d just keep quiet and only raise concerns/questions to the person afterwards. I became invisible and overlooked. My work was brilliant but I couldn’t sell it and I suffered the consequences. I’m thankful that I am at the beginning of my career and have the grace of time to attend to the issue and work on it now before I suffer the consequences.
@winnysarahrhobi67605 ай бұрын
Same to me gal
@SisinomaliNkosi5 ай бұрын
Love that you have identified your problem and are now working on it.That's a great start
@nasabapayi5 ай бұрын
This was a lovely conversation. I truly enjoyed it so much because public speaking is a great skill to learn . Thank you for sharing ladies💯
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I am glad that you are working on it! Let me know if you would like to walk the journey together!
@ChiChimTonTV5 ай бұрын
❤ In my point of view, public speaking is not only transfering knowledge but also transfering energy to audients. Am I right? ❤
@davidtv-official54174 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%
@kendaddi58575 ай бұрын
This lady indeed, is a good public speaker. She speaks very articulately and avoids many bad speech mannerisms.
@abrahamndlovu87086 ай бұрын
I am a Business Analyst. Speaking is what i should do in a daily basis. But i still fear this is helpful
@kgetsepemkhabela39636 ай бұрын
Me and you both. Very difficult but we will win.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad to hear you found the podcast helpful! It's completely normal to feel fear around public speaking, even when it's a regular part of your job. The key is to acknowledge that fear and work through it with practice, preparation, and strategies for managing nerves. Keep pushing your comfort zone a little at a time, and remember, each speaking opportunity is a step towards becoming more confident and impactful. If there's anything specific you'd like advice on, please feel free to ask. Keep going. You've got this!
@lindohlily5 ай бұрын
we must overcome this! with me it's been too long and i'm sick and tired😅
@sybilmmoto89375 ай бұрын
Same boat😢
@palesamokholo28345 ай бұрын
I also struggle a lot with just giving a presentation and it's part of my daily work.....I feel like quiting
@LeratoSekati6 ай бұрын
Speaking and being able to speak well is an important skill. From being able to present yourself to a stranger to a potential partner or presenting yourself in a professional environment.
@ntuthukomdluli-pd9jv6 ай бұрын
If english is your secong language its difficult
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
It is such a critical and underrated skill!
@mmogomofokeng90985 ай бұрын
preparedness helps a lot, it sounds small but write down everything prior to the meeting so you don't off-ramp.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Purposeful preparation and practice go a long way!
@buhlekumalo26195 ай бұрын
@@vanessa_bukasa I would like to contact you regarding coaching. How do I contact you?
@iampoetminorАй бұрын
Writing down what questions you will ask your doctor is perfect. My friend told me that years ago and I don't enter the doctor's office without my notes. And they love it! I'm known by my doctors for my smile and my notes. 😃
@xolanimlangeni19236 ай бұрын
This was dope. I'm beginning to face my fear of speaking in large groups confidently
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Phenomenal!!
@makhosanamashiane5 ай бұрын
“Representing yourself in every engagement “thank you for that
@luphelele6 ай бұрын
Ladies, this is so in season. I recently had a really close loved one pass and was asked to speak at her funeral. I was terrified. I can't even explain how terrified I was. Really, it wasn't the speaking itself that terrified me, I was nervous about people knowing that I am nervous. My voice also starts shaking and my hands tremble when I'm nervous so my fears were that people would see that and know I'm scared. And I didn't know what to do to make it stop. If I knew how to do that, I think public speaking would scare me less. Anyways, I didn't do the speech because the mics weren't working and I was worried that I wouldn't be heard. It felt very childish to be so afraid to do something that it stops you from doing something that matters more. I left feeling like I need to sort this out, ngeke. Otherwise I'll be limited in my ability to show up for my loved ones.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss and the difficult time you faced. It's perfectly natural to feel overwhelmed in such moments. Your desire to improve your speaking skills is commendable and shows great care for your loved ones. Remember, it's a journey of small steps, and I'm here to support you. You've got this!
@aliogamaryrose48052 ай бұрын
How is it going working on it?
@mamikimasilo56476 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the conversation! I grew up being such a shy and timid person. Never did I imagine myself in spaces where I needed to show the bravery of an activist and voice out my opinions. My career as an intern gave me the platform to interact more with people; and instantly my personality changed completely once I started. I love conversation and hosting topics of interest. I don't mind sharing what's on my mind regardless of how stupid it may be to the next person. I believe the more you interact; the easier communication becomes. I am simply a confident introvert, all attributed to challenging myself to speak out.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I agree. It is like a muscle, the more you use it, the stronger you get at it!
@mutalechimba83093 ай бұрын
@@vanessa_bukasahi
@victoriousqueen19954 ай бұрын
Am Esther from Lagos Nigeria, and i attended an interview with a Chinese company here in and i was interviewed by two Chinese representatives and at the end i wasn't offered the job, but i came out confidently knowing that i gave it my all, and that probability they thought the salary might not be ok for me because i already worked for 2 years in Dubai UAE and is actually in my resume 😂😂😂😂😂 Even though i later removed my Dubai work experience so people won't be intimidated by it and actually give me the work because i really need it.😅 Thanks for that topic ❤
@alizwamnyatheli87466 ай бұрын
The topic of 'public speaking' has been on my mind. The video couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you for such great content
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I'm thrilled to hear the timing was perfect for you!
@drinkswithsplendour43875 ай бұрын
This is the best message I had to hear, we get to work and don’t speak in meetings and complain about the people that speak the most, very bad habit, instead of complaining start learning his to speak in meetings because the people who speak more gets more recognised.
@memo__yp5 ай бұрын
I applied the tips today in my monthly finance review meeting! It worked. It works!!! Especially the part about focusing on service, not "Am I sounding right". I also forced myself to speak up more, it was terrifying but I did it!! Thank you so much. From Zimbabwe
@lechelle515 ай бұрын
I haven’t finished the video yet, but this one thing really stood out. I’m focused on do I look okay? Do I sound okay? While the audience is focused on “What is in this for me? What information applies to me? Wow. That’s super helpful.
@PrincessWinnie1235 ай бұрын
I’ve recently come to the space of speaking more in church and I want to grow further in my delivery and confidence,all these tips were so helpful .Thank you😊
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Wonderful! I am so glad that you found the conversation helpful 😃
@ivyemordi12205 ай бұрын
As a mother, this meant the most for me and it is now shaping my own life. Thank you❤
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I love this!
@rotimisowunmi67275 ай бұрын
Great conversation. Your guest was down to earth...natural, sincere and honest with her content delivery.😊
@vanessa_bukasa4 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@jemtopaz83065 ай бұрын
She was the bomb! bring her back again soon 🥰
@TheNyakaat2 ай бұрын
One thing I love about your guest is that she doesn’t come across as an extrovert. This debunks the notion that only extroverts excel at public speaking. Actually extroverts are less believable to me because they sound as though they’re delivering a pitch that they give to everyone that comes their way. A soft spoken person is more believable and relatable.
@hlubikazinqadini67206 ай бұрын
I secretly love public speaking, I love people who speak with confidence. However, I’m afraid of speaking
@sbon52236 ай бұрын
probably makes the two of us
@refilwekoitheng26096 ай бұрын
Me too
@thobilenyathi97086 ай бұрын
Me too🥺
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I think that that's a wonderful secret passion to have😁! Loving public speaking and admiring those who do it confidently is the first step. It's okay to feel afraid; most speakers start there. Embrace your fear as a sign of something that truly matters to you. Small, consistent steps outside your comfort zone can lead to great progress. Keep nurturing your love for speaking, and you'll find your confidence growing with each experience
@honoratha5 ай бұрын
Me & i have m a whole KZbin channel 😂😂❤
@iampoetminorАй бұрын
I don't know how I found this channel but I'm glad I did. The information is so helpful for me as a beginner Content Creator. Time to get from behind the screen and into the public and speak. 🗣
@makhosazanasibeko96666 ай бұрын
Great topic, I'm also interested to know why sometimes as Black Africans( not everyone)we struggle with articulation and expressing ourselves, I've seen this alot in cooperate and personally I still struggle with this alot.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I think a lot of factors come into play, including how we were encouraged / not really encouraged to speak when we were growing up. I would love to unpack this further though!
@hajahkalobwe99155 ай бұрын
The host is so beautiful and glowing
@mariaagoziem15435 ай бұрын
You are also beautiful ❤
@kayjeri5 ай бұрын
I thought so too! The glooow !
@janemwenja12852 ай бұрын
Tips for public speaking 1. Be prepared 2.Have a service mind 3.Have a Deep Breath 4. Project your voice 5. Slow down when speaking
@Improvemypronunciation5 ай бұрын
I’m coming more vocal about being interested in public speaking ❤️ it’s been a secret of mind for many years.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I love this!
@Slindo_M6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I STRUGGLE with this, and think that’s what has been such a blocker in my career. I even shake as well.
@Morwa3306 ай бұрын
Me too🥺
@tiffanyteague5073 ай бұрын
I'm a Financial Analyst, I am completely aligned with everything the guest is saying... I'm having the exact experience.... I mean exact!!! Thanks for this conversation.
@naledimoreketla91845 ай бұрын
I did public speaking in high school and I took some public speaking classes back in varsity but now in the work place I get so nervous to speak especially as a junior at work and I am a really good speaker. I will say through with time and volunteering to take speaking engagements I am getting better. Thank you for this conversation. My takeaway is breathing exercise
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Keep saying "Yes" to those speaking opportunities!
@sithembisontsele21346 ай бұрын
For every action there is always a reaction that Public Speaking...start /act on it .I am public speaker trained from early ages from of high school, by the use of platform like debate and public speaking group...representing my school
@tinytomas37736 ай бұрын
I will forever be greatful to my Zimbabwean friends who loved & embrace me....helped me with my language skills especially developing my English. Whenever I walk into a boardroom with the executives I hold my head up high and speak up when necessary...@ 1st it was hard they couldn't understand until they got to know me better together with my background of going to just black schools with Bantu Education where everything is taught in Venec😂 now we are here I'm forever greatful to them & my late baby daddy shame❤
@nanamzola97595 ай бұрын
Hi. I am struggling and i get overwhelmed . My communication troubles me a lot. How did you break free.
@tinytomas37735 ай бұрын
I think what helped me also was my then Zimbabwean boyfriend helped me to watch current affairs, movies and he would ask me questions after. He would also hire books on dvd before I read them... my friends made me learn lyrics through listening & go to workshops for public speaking ...that's it in a nut shell❤ try communicate with people that you are comfortable with 1st then u'll see❤ all the best...
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
What a wonderful support group you had!
@miriamojwang98815 ай бұрын
I came to learn this the hard way. Yes, your work will speak for you to a point but after that, you must speak out. Your presence must be felt. The most mediocre motor mouths move up the ladder because they have a way with words. They speak even when they really don’t have to. In the end, they get noticed and are usually in line for that promotion.
@salamawise4 ай бұрын
The fact. Fully agree
@miriamchikwanda2015 ай бұрын
This was such a pleasure to listen to some reminders and new gems - Toastmaster was also key for my public speaking journey . Cheer ladies
@iampoetminorАй бұрын
I never tried Toastmasters. But, I will look and see if the library has a public speaking workshop. Thanks for the info.
@freshTiza6 ай бұрын
I don’t watch female podcasts. But I just learned something a lot and subscribed ✊🏽
@nokumdlalose6 ай бұрын
You and I both! 🤞🏽 less than half way into this, I subscribed to the channel!
@iampoetminorАй бұрын
I just ordered the book by Ms. Bukasa, "Speaking With Confidence." First time ordering from USA internationally but the process was easy. Happy to support Ms. Bukasa and totally grateful for the interview.😃Took notes the second time I watched. ✍🙂
@jonathanmotivational70365 ай бұрын
Good Communication is the best skill an individual can possess. Most leaders are not really good at the job. They are just good in communicating and relating with people
@63phozisaxwazi575 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness! This is quite an intriguing topic. I used to have stage fright and guess what? My first job involved a lot of speaking to large groups....worst 3 months of my career and also the best teacher😅
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I love that it was also the best teacher! We improve our speaking by speaking!
@twinomujunisavias73226 күн бұрын
message planning ahead and belief in yourself with critical thinking, is one way to built one's confidence and hence best in public speaking
@ginarey5 ай бұрын
This is really awesome. I have struggled a lot with public speaking. At the same time,I have been applauded for sharing critical ideas. I am really motivated to learn public speaking. I know it will impact my life positively.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I can vouch for the transformative impact it will have on your life! I would love to walk the journey with you!
@EcomCarl5 ай бұрын
What an insightful conversation! 🎙 Vanessa's journey from accountant to public speaking coach showcases the transformative power of effective communication in both career growth and personal development.
@ThembekaVilaneBecka6 ай бұрын
As a speaking coach I loved this conversation! I really also respect Vanessa’s work, and I love the show nje as a whole ❤️! Excellent value ladies, thank you, viewers are in for a treat!
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Thank you! And thank you for the important work that you do!
@josephineloro42975 ай бұрын
This was such an amazing interview! The interviewer asked such great questions and the interviewee spoke and answered with so much confidence. I've even decided to take up public speaking coaching!!! I'm so glad I came across this page... please more content like this!!!
@saraalleluia6 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this, thank you so much. Living in South Africa as a teacher, I would conduct workshops for teachers by teachers. God has been telling me to do one at the school I’m currently at in Angola because of the exact words you have highlighted in the conversation, I felt perhaps I won’t be able to conduct it as good because now I’m at international school and all these other excuses I was making in my head. Watching this is giving me courage. Thank you for allowing God to use you to speak to me.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I love this! Absolutely go for it!
@noluthandomnguni6 ай бұрын
I love this headline! I instantly clicked into it and liked because i know I am in for a treat!
@Miss_Zimm5 ай бұрын
I used to love speaking publicly but I don’t know what happened. I can’t even do interviews now.. I’m glad I stumbled upon this video. ❤
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I would love to help you get back to the place where you loved speaking publicly!
@shagorahmed27433 ай бұрын
hi
@shagorahmed27433 ай бұрын
hi
@tsholo9776 ай бұрын
Thank you for asking her for more practical tips. And also sharing that you used to shake. Seeing this confident version of you is very inspiring Ursula
@miss.n65826 ай бұрын
Vanessa has herself a new client. I surely need the coaching. So much so, I beg everyone to not ask me to speak in public. I am a good storyteller /narattor however, my voice be shaking like i am in Alaska wearing a bikini. I will ugly cry if you make me stand infront of an audience. The fact that i have to speak and everyone must listeb to me??? I'd run.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Hello new client!! I would love to work with you to manage those nerves! From your comment, I can tell that you are an engaging storyteller! We want to hear more from you!
@achankilat5952Ай бұрын
Thank you for being authentic.
@ThatoMabe-r2b6 ай бұрын
Vanessa is such an eloquent speaker.. And this was a beautiful sit down ladies♡♡.. Truly enjoyed and I'm just going to take a chance on me( I mean whats the worse that could happen😅)
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Take that chance! You deserve to experience the "you" on the other side of this chance!
@thandongcobo92896 ай бұрын
First time ever coming across this channel, I was drawn by the title. I absolutely enjoyed the episode. what I learnt is that , it ok to allow yourself to be a beginner, learning any skill is a marathon, not a sprint.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I am glad that found both enjoyment and value in this conversation
@Boitumelo_G6 ай бұрын
Love this hairstyle on you Ursula!!!
@ntandongwenya13525 ай бұрын
I swear this must be the Universe speaking to me to get out of my comfort zone. I am very grateful to have come across this Channel, I have gained very valuable insight. Yal have just gained a subscriber!
@YvieT5 ай бұрын
Was thinking exactly the same here! 😁
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I am so glad that you found this conversation insightful!
@healthveyebrations4 ай бұрын
I totally agree! The Universe is speaking very clearly to me!😉💯👊🏽💥
@lebogangmetsileng89695 ай бұрын
I really loved this episode. As a passionate public speaker, I do believe that voicing it out professionally gets you to another level. However, this works out in companies where there is a solid culture for its Human capital. Sometimes confidently articulating some issues or suggestions in some companies can land differently to a company that doesn't have a culture of growth. However this was enjoyable
@phelanemakunga23694 ай бұрын
Brilliant advice from a brilliant mind. The first time I met Vanessa as ABSA, she was speaking in public and that is how I was introduced to her brilliance. Never would I have thought that public speaking was a challenge.
@vanessa_bukasa4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@tynnettamuhammad8762Ай бұрын
This is so amazing! I’m listening from Indianapolis, IN USA. I love love love this episode. I too enjoy teaching these skills to my students and children. I’ll be sure to share to is episode with the students I work with
@twinomujunisavias73226 күн бұрын
confidence is not absence of fear but how one conquer the fear and go on
@kyriademba67035 ай бұрын
My colleagues and friends will describe me as a knowledgeble and very well spoken person. and I 'm aware of it myself. But everytime I get an enterview, I feel nervous and my voice shakes and when I don't get that opportunity I feel is just about me. Thank you so much for giving those tips and I believe that I'll get a new breakthrough
@kingsglory1005 ай бұрын
Do not despise the days of a little beginning. You are doing great
@ForwardWithLoretta6 ай бұрын
This is such a lovely interaction and you ladies articulated the importance of finding your voice beautifully.
@NteboMakhotla5 ай бұрын
Thank you ladies for this interview. It makes me realize that fear resides in all of us but what matters is how we condemn it. Meaning ways to refrain from it. ❤❤❤
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
You can definitely manage the nerves
@LungisaniHlongwaPodcast3 ай бұрын
Ursula and the team at Conversation Capital, this is nothing short of excellent. I love public speaking and I read and learn a lot about it as much as I can. I study the great orators throughout history. This is as good a resource on public speaking as it gets, it just doesn’t get any better than this. It’s world class level content and I’m so proud of you all. I feel proud you be South African. Keep doing great work. We love it, we need it and we appreciate it. ❤🙏🏾
@zeemasuku73635 ай бұрын
Brilliant pocast👌🏾! Clear, informative, relevant and shared with such simplicity. Thank you🙏🏽🙌🏾
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@GeorgeMoholo-GeogyyАй бұрын
Ao wy i bump into this video so late after so much struggle with interaction with people...thanks im going start practicing right away
@fatimahzahara61165 ай бұрын
This video has open my mind up, especially the parent training - in a household where elders opinion are more loud compared to yours you can fill small in your own world which effects your development but this really give me an advice to forgive my current and previous self in communication. Knowing that I am normal and not the only one going through this yet working on my articulation - the more practice the more competent and the more confident I become.
@namiirojose68245 ай бұрын
I love it here. You all speak and present yourselves gracefully. Kudos
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@ayandangubane16962 ай бұрын
"opportunity meets preparedness" - well said Ursula!
@adesoyeaccountant7078Ай бұрын
Well done ladies. I need a one on one coach/ training on public speaking.
@ReginaMoroeng2 ай бұрын
Very good, tried and tested tips indeed. What I do, and it really works well; before I speak I 'survey' the room for a few seconds instead of starting immediately with my speech. It shows your audience that you are confident and in control. It really works.
@youb834527 күн бұрын
Wow, I love the fact that I came across this video today. I grew up very timid as an introvert and had never wanted to be at the fore how much more speak. I never wanted the attention on me but for some reasons my career path changed and I ended up as a presenter. Through internship and discovering my purpose I've come to become stronger in the outer space speaking on almost any platform. But honestly in the course of these journey: I saw lots of videos on KZbin I got a mentor I learnt to practice and sometimes script and rehearse my script before presentation. I read wide And yes, deep breathing is a powerful tool that helps you ease off the tension build up. God bless you sisters for this.
@henokachalueducationtube5 ай бұрын
Service minded and deep Breath I love both of them thankyou Alot
@ncamsilematsebula4411Ай бұрын
As a former radio journalist i definitely enjoyed the episode i learnt so much of things one take for granted for example its easy to interview someone but when you are the one being interviewed its a nightmare. Thank you im a fan already
@nitachima5425 ай бұрын
Viewing from Nigeria 🇳🇬.... This video came timely for me, Thank you so much 🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️. I really took note of a lot of things
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching! I am glad that it was insightful for you!
@MariaMagdalena-mn8oj5 ай бұрын
After watching this, i relise why speaking is important. When we start a relationship with a person, we always use a language and speak. thank you so much
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Indeed! It is such an important skill
@mistiqr6 ай бұрын
I am required to speak on a daily basis, I'm in sales but I'm not confident overall in speaking up when it comes to meetings.
@rinaowl-u4q5 ай бұрын
KZbin recomended this to me and i dont regret it all to watch the whole video! as a non native english speakers, it is so challenging for me to speak in articulate way. not to mention the nerves. but this video helps alot and basically what i needed. thank you
@neomaphoto40226 ай бұрын
Oh my word this is so vital and profound as I always roll my eyes when people used to say the obvious and they end up being taken seriously which made me to always question everyones intellectuality 😰😥so needed to hear this thank you I highly appreciate .
@neomorwaagae45865 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 yeah neh
@JENNIFERAOKECH3 ай бұрын
I stumbled upon this video yesterday but I'm glad I did, very useful tips. Thank you ladies, I'm clicking replay. By the way, there's something about Vanessa Bukasa that reminds me of Princess Diana, but the more confident version of Princess Diana. Thanks for the great tips, ladies, be blessed. Jennifer, from Uganda.
@michaelmwasela35885 ай бұрын
Great conversation and an eye opener for me,I really need to get ahead in life so public speaking is a must have tool..I hear you.I love the way you are in sync no one is interrupting the other....plus the host is soo beautiful..the smile is heavenly..cheeeiii 😊😊
@naomiwinnie52025 ай бұрын
I love this so much, especially how you're all listening and speaking fluently.
@jolly4445 ай бұрын
Thank you ladies. I admit i have been suffering from lack of confidence when it comes to public speaking and any time iam given a chance in a function i always judge myself afterwards and look more into the messes rrather than the rights. This is so helpful, iam going to implement most of your shares especially that one of forgiving myself first. I will consider a coach probably. And you are all so beautiful
@twinomujunisavias73226 күн бұрын
you have mentored me a lot , especial in confidence building, and you have answered my doubt
@solomonkatende35385 ай бұрын
Informative and intentional talk for personal development. Great one indeed.Thanks
@wamellebako48995 ай бұрын
Wooow! I just stumbled upon this channel! Did i like it here, awww absolutely!!.I'm camping here, this topic made me camp and I've fallen in love with your channel and with you madam! O montle Sisi❤ ijoo well articulated, your voice!God bless ❤🙏🏾
@kimadiggs2375 ай бұрын
Thank You God! This need has just crossed my mind this morning. 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️
@MarquittaY5 ай бұрын
This is perfect for me in this season! You are memorable when you speak!
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Indeed!
@tukundashifa793926 күн бұрын
Wow, superr.. U only know you need this talk when u a actually need it. Thanks presenters. Very resourceful
@malehlohonolotsie35636 ай бұрын
This was so insightful and wholesome. Thank you ladies for tackling this topic with so much grace! Truly enjoyed it and it's authenticity ❤
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
Thank you for tuning in!
@zinniemaseti86055 ай бұрын
Loved everything about this episode, so much great insight. Also to add on another tip that helped so much in gaining confidence when speaking publicly is thinking of why people need to hear what you have to say.
@vanessa_bukasa5 ай бұрын
I love this! It speaks to having that service mindset. Your audience will benefit from what you have to say
@basemerasharon5 күн бұрын
Preparation is so paramount
@eben14655 ай бұрын
This video is top notch❤. Thank you so much ladies. My first video on the channel, definitely subscribing❤.