how my home-schooling experience changed my life - an 'alternative' childhood

[@jenilynn1010]

I am a public school teacher who will homeschool my grandkids once they start preschool. You are one of my favorite people on KZbin. Tell your mom I said thank you for creating and raising such an amazing human who is making the world a better place!!

[@Sthemingway]

You're going to have some of the best "back in my day" stories to tell your grandkids.

[@tinkerbell2939]

I second that!

[@bakerbrewz]

That is so fantastic that you are willing and open to homeschooling your grandkids, they are a very lucky bunch. I think is so amazing that you will have the opportunity to foster and grow such a wonderful relationship even further with them as they start preschool. May your home and family be blessed.

[@squealypig717]

Tell your dad thank you also ☺️

[@jenniferb.7250]

I have the same plan as a public school teacher. God willing I have grand babies some day.❤

[@brendaanweiler4733]

I homeschooled our four children and now have the pure joy of watching four beautiful adults in their 30s thrive.

[@frozengreen5597]

Wonderful to hear! I’m 3 months into homeschooling my 4 aged 5,5,8 and 9 😊

[@SaiaRose]

God Bless you 🙏! Homeschooling is a great gift and the parents rightful job ! ❤

[@tasd5673]

lease tell me more

[@philicia1250]

Homeschooling my children is one of my greatest joys! We grow together and get swept away in curiosity daily! 🥰

[@maryannknox7158]

Awesome 😎 good for you your children are better off being Homeschooled

[@BellosdemiAlma]

Me too

[@EE-hi4re]

I feel the same way!

[@Happy-hippy]

I was homeschooled and I am so happy I was! My Mother taught me how to think, not what to think!

[@philicia1250]

@@Happy-hippy I love hearing this! What a marvelous gift your momma gave you! I hope to impart the same gift to my children! 💜🥰

[@jasonandashleyneufeld6201]

You are completely right about homeschooling allowing little girls to enjoy being little. It is one of my favorite things about homeschooling my kids. My 11 year old loves her dolls, climbing trees, and pretending. I'm so thankful for that.

[@thatloafofbread8311]

I wish SO SO SO BADLY that I could get homeschooled but it is illegal in my country (I live in Sweden 🇸🇪) :( 😢

[@JanineEgger-wu4ig]

Oh 💗🙏 i'm really surprised now.... thinking of sweeden and school i allways have in mind, that they have a really open, free, new system & spirit. I'm curious: What are the reason of your country to forbid this? In Switzerland it's allowed- but not in each canton they have the same rules, and it gets tighter, because more and more people want to try homeschooling.

[@erzascarlet03]

I started homeschooling when i was in 7th grade. I was in a very dark place at the time. It was the best decision ever, my mental health improved so much. I honestly think it helped save my life 💖

[@soliel8999]

My parents started homeschooling me when I was 15. I began to love learning, because I was finally able to pursue my own interests. It was the best thing that ever happened to me.

[@RunninUpThatHillh]

School gets in the way of education. Always. My kids are unschoolers. Zero regret.

[@thatloafofbread8311]

I wish *so badly* that I could get homeschooled but it is illegal in my country (I live in Sweden 🇸🇪) :(

[@RunninUpThatHillh]

@@thatloafofbread8311 That is insane. Here in the US it goes by state. NY state you can homeschool but you must do everything the school does. In states like Alabama all you have to do is tell the school your kid isn't coming. No paperwork or anything. Some think it's bad. It's not though. In the beginning of America the colonists were marched at gunpoint into the first schools. True story. Just remember, you're in charge of your future, make time for hobbies and that is where you will learn the most :) School is just something we suffer through.

[@DanielleEdwardsmusic]

Thank you for sharing this. It tells me, it is never too late when they are young and still at home, and little. ❤

[@jennyrichards2021]

As a public school music teacher, I’m honestly considering homeschooling my kids when I have them. I think I would’ve enjoyed the quiet time if I were homeschooled. Plus students these days are just growing up way too fast. Thank you for your weekly moments of calm while I watch your videos! 🌸

[@jenilynn1010]

Same. My kids are grown but will homeschool my grandchildren

[@cynthiagawin2991]

Go for it!

[@jackieo8693]

I highly recommend it!

[@caroledougherty3342]

Very positive experience for us. Plenty of social opportunities out there. All now balanced young adults. Thank you for sharing.

[@AdaraBalabusta]

Hi, Jenny. I encourage you in your plan to teach your future children at home. I was partially educated at home and all my children were educated at home. Our social skills are just fine; I earned an MA, and all my children have doctoral degrees.

[@emilyrosewell308]

I’m a piano teacher at a university academy. I have found that my students who are homeschooled to be bright, curious, and remarkably freer from stress. I loved your video!❤

[@blackthornsloe8049]

My autistic son was crumbling in high-school. Covid hit and he thrived learning from home . He's finishing high-school now ... still from home . He's also working part time at a pizzeria, driving and had a lunch date yesterday . Super proud of him . Love the fact that we took the road less traveled and are big fans of The Cottage Fairy .

[@Spurz166]

My son is also autistic and we pulled him during '20 as well. He is in middle grade now and some days I struggle with my own thoughts of if I'm doing the right things for him. All of that to say, your comment gives me hope. 💛

[@SaintsandSushi]

I pulled out my autistic son out of his brick and mortar school when the Covid shut down happened. He was being mistreated and was denied being in regular Ed. He is doing online charter school and I’m his teacher at home. He is now in their gifted program and skipping grades.

[@blackthornsloe8049]

@@SaintsandSushi Yes ! Congratulations to both of you !

[@blackthornsloe8049]

@@Spurz166 listen to your gut . The answers aren't the same for everyone but when something gave my son calm and peace I listened to that . There were helpful autism professionals and there were the ones who were fear mongering and upsetting . After awhile I just moved away from destabilizing people who seemed to think autistic people shouldn't have the same boundaries and respect as everyone else . Wishing you well .🌻

[@AJ-iq9ng]

I wish I would have been homeschooled but am now homeschooling my daughter who is a sensitive person with a great imagination like you. Thanks for sharing your story. It gives me more confidence that I am on the right track.

[@theseamstressatthecottage]

Scool traumatized me and I took many years to heal. I hated all the noise, the drama and the way teachers degraded me. I have dyslexia and ADD so school was hard. So interesting that at almost 50, I still have that feeling of anxiety when I am reminded of school

[@lucinadubai1772]

It has an affect how you were treated for sure - but remember you have your tribe now and that’s all That matters ❤

[@jennifert2953]

It sounds to me like your mother knew her children and did what was best for them. She sounds wonderful.

[@jackimanley3056]

I was homeschooled for less than one year in 6 grade but it greatly impacted me positively. I now homeschool my four children. I've homeschooled for 7 years so far. It's definitely a wonderful journey and I'm so thankful to be able to provide this for my children. People often say "it must be nice to afford to be able to do that" but I view it as I can't afford not to. Also, when you want something enough, you can often make it work. Technically we are lower middle class and have just enough. But we don't need extra. I don't need to take my kids to Disneyland or buy them the latest gadget. They need nurture, love and guidance - and that to me is worth the cost of having a lower income. Money isn't everything and you can't take it with you. Your legacy goes on. Blessings to you. Lovely video!

[@SeaTurtle515]

Beautifully said.

[@unlockyoursoulmemory4199]

same here, I feel I can also not afford not to homeschool, because my daughter is so precious and it would be too painful to watch how her wings are trimmed off, observing her creativity and sensing her gentle personality is just more precious than having five star holidays or whatever one can buy with money

[@EE-hi4re]

Well said. I'm a homeschooling mama that relates to what you said. We aren't wealthy in terms of money but we are wealthy indeed.

[@bakerbrewz]

This is a beautiful philosophy on life and thought process with raising your children how you want to raise them. Love how you shared about it,

[@deborahhasty8515]

My 2 kiddos were homeschooled until oldest was a mid-teen. It was very difficult financially to make it on just my husband's income, but oh so worth the sacrifices! I would not trade that time with my kids for anything else.

[@tracystattart]

I can't believe you posted this. Today was my daughter's first day of homeschool. We decided to pull her out of school in her second year as she has been dealing with a brain tumour since she was three. Our last scan revealed more tumours and we knew her healing had to come first and wouldn't fit around school. I am about to walk into uncharted territory so I wanted to say thank you for this video, it's given my anxious mind some peace about my decision 😊

[@sakuraesther6309]

Sending hugs, Wishing you better days

[@cynthiaself9597]

This breaks my heart, I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. Just give her all the love and patience you can and you'll be fine. This lady here takes life very gently, it's very soothing. Take it from her. 🌻

[@tgeetoo9451]

God bless you ❤

[@SisterShirley]

Tracy Statt, I just prayed for happy and healing days for your daughter and you and your family. Wishing you success in homeschooling.

[@Myartflows591]

I'm very sorry to hear about your daughter. I wanted to give some encouragement that helped me! Revelation 21:4-"And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”

[@calypso4554]

I loved going to a regular school, I loved learning and I loved my teachers and had friends in classes. Saying this, it was not a very easy place at home with my family, so school was also a kind of refuge for me which I enjoyed very much.

[@hiyamichelle]

I cried the first day I started homeschooling. I thought I was over my head. That was 10 years ago now. I have my 5 children at home and I see them excel and fall flat. I’m grateful to be able to be with them.

[@jennyfulcher8035]

I was a highly sensitive child, introverted, and an artist who attended traditional schools for my entire education. I found it very distracting and chaotic, plus I also was teased by my peers because I was so anxious and different from the mainstream. I wish i could have had home schooling or attended a Montessori school growing up. I didn't do well academically at junior and senior high schools, but once I went to college and later university where I majored in art, I excelled. You were quite fortunate that your Mother was so attuned to her children's different sensitivities and was able t home school you while your siblings were better able to handle traditional school. Meanwhile I love your embroidery projects which are just as enchanting and magical as your paintings. Jenny

[@cecilia_henry]

I can relate, but I kinda overcame it when I changed schools at 17. Before that I went to many schools (8 or more) including a Montessori school for half a year. While I like the idea, I got very lost. Being used to guidance, I was lost in the do it by yourself path and soon drifted into only doing stuff I liked: writing stories for language courses and art and history. I didn't understand a bit of maths anymore and had to go back to normal school and redo the year, but it was a good time because I didn't get bullied after severe bullying. I also got bullied again and kinda made my way through it. As a senior I got normal grades and went on to study architecture. I excelled in design and architecture psychology, in concept and history. Education should be rewritten into ways that cater towards the interest of a child. I even began to understand maths and Physiks, because it was finally about topics that interested me. If anybody is out there that is struggling, you will get through it and once you are in something that inspires you, you will flourish.

[@annreed1382]

Yes I too love those felt embroidery projects you made Paola. Lovely!

[@meganbird8538]

I was born and raised on the central coast in California. My entire 1st - 12th grade education was homeschool. I too cherish the memories of growing up slowly and having shorter school days so that I could be outside enjoying nature. I smiled when you talked about playing with dolls. I had a Samantha doll and I played with her until I was over 12 years old. 😂

[@Nirosha101]

@@cecilia_henry thanks for sharing your story. What do you think Montessori school could do to get kids to also try out things like math or subjects they’re not keenly interested in? Would you have preferred it to have a mix of structure and fluidity? If you had to propose a design, what plan would you come up with? 😊

[@thatloafofbread8311]

I wish so badly that I could get homeschooled but it’s illegal in my country :( 😢 (I live in Sweden 🇸🇪)

[@amishgirl1000]

I homeschooled all 6 of my children, and now I watch these 6 amazing grown up young people go out and be so incredible as they travel through life.

[@katerinaf4903]

I was a highly sensitive and introverted child raised in a chaotic and loud environment. I was like a fish out of water my entire childhood. You were blessed to have had family who were understanding of your unique needs and were able to adjust their approach to meet them.

[@SisterShirley]

Katerina, you pretty much just described me. I always felt I was invisible. Sadly, at times, that was a good thing; I was good at hiding. Now I'm 60+ years young, I was slow to become a grownup and I still feel invisible. But I'm a work in progress and still expanding my brain. One thing that carried me through childhood to adulthood is that I always loved learning and did well in school and still love to learn. Thank you for sharing.

[@lindadoby5891]

8:28 I homeschooled my four all the way through. They are now 32-41 years old and I hope they reflect back on our times as sweetly as you do.

[@Lillies.and.geraniums]

I don’t think everyone was meant for public school either. When I was in elementary school, my family moved to a new state. I experienced bullying in the form of shunning. People would find ways to not sit with me at lunch, I was constantly patronized by my peers, even teachers , and anything that required group work and being with partners (like for lab partners) was a nightmare for me. I was always the second to last or last person picked in games and I found myself alone all the time. This affected my grades and I became socially awkward. I developed severe socially anxiety and difficulty trusting people. I had struggled with reading because everyone told me I sucked. I hated reading out loud all the time. This all changed when I went to college. Suddenly there there was no pressure to be in cliques or groups and my grades were great. I am a lawyer now but I still have bad flash backs of the social exclusion. Some people just thrive better in environments when there is not a lot of people. If I had homeschooling or distance learning I would have had a better time in school. Thanks for this video. This hit home to me so much.❤

[@ElizabethJaxon]

A fellow homeschooler! I was also raised homeschooled and am very thankful for the experience. Being free of all the peer pressure absolutely does help you connect with your own interests and find yourself much earlier than if you were constantly worrying about how you look to your classmates. I’m very thankful to my parents for all the work they did to give me a good education. Now I’m raising my own children in the Netherlands, where it’s not an option, but I hope to be able to offer them some of the same benefits in other ways.

[@sarahdelaaa9407]

It is possible in the Netherlands...

[@beatrizgarcia6525]

Excelente

[@Asformeandmyhouse1989]

I am Dutch and we homeschool our kids!

[@thatloafofbread8311]

I wish I could get homeschooled but it is Illegal in my country (I live in Sweden 🇸🇪) :(😢

[@CandyisAwesome86]

I was homeschooled in the 90s when it was still less understood. People assumed something was wrong with me because my mother kept me at home. Lol. When I got to university I found that I was actually light years ahead in some subjects because I was able to focus on what I enjoyed instead of what the public school system thought I should learn. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Yes, we had a similar experience at times 😂 it was always assumed there was something wrong with us, haha! It seems more accepting now. In terms of education I never struggled when I was older either, and excelled easily in my favorite subjects, so I’m grateful for that! Thank you for sharing! ❤

[@lenoroshamann6679]

Wow. Light years ahead.. thanks for sharing..

[@robbyrockey8708]

Though I had a very positive public school education, I had the privilege of homeschooling my children up to middle school before having to return to work. It was an incredible experience teaching my children to read, write, learn math on an abacus, study world history, embark on countless field trips, bike rides, nature walks and even venture into robotics and basic computer programming! The entire experience forged a bond between us that help us navigate through the difficult teenage and early adult years. I am incredibly thankful I had the opportunity to homeschool.

[@deborrasanders]

Just to give a sense of my generation, I am 68. When I was 12, I missed a year of school due to rheumatic fever. My schoolwork was brought home to me once a week and I completed it within a few hours. My grades didn't suffer at all. This experience really impacted how I viewed school. I began to see that it was not necessary for learning. I have been an avid self-motivated learner since. I homeschooled my daughter, wanting her to find a sturdy sense of self-direction. She decided to go to public high school and entered the program seamlessly and successfully.

[@christelbremer657]

This is so interesting. a Direct parallel to my mother's story who also missed a year of school due to rheumatic fever. Apparently she came back and quickly placed top of the grade. This experience stuck with her and after some more research she later in her life decided tl homeschool her 4 kids; my siblings and I.

[@bakerbrewz]

Wow this is such a great story about your experience, thank you for sharing. I feel that the learning experience at traditional school can be so limited by so many other constraints. Deep down I believe all kids are eager to learn and grow. That is amazing that you took that knowledge and homeschooled your daughter with the intention of helping her find a sturdy sense of self-direction. I adore that!

[@glee_again2594]

Yes!!! Thank you so much for sharing. My brother-in-law’s family pulled their 4 boys out of school to homeschool. They would get in trouble for wanting to move (during endless hours of needing to “be still” in a classroom). Mom found that with homeschool they were able to complete a fruitful day of learning in about the time it took to go through the evening headache of homework. They THRIVED. They are all good humans and very smart. Several degrees and helpful members of society among them. Their starting back in about 2004 gave us boldness to try it for preschool with our oldest and never stopped, 5 kids and nearly 20 years later. Youngest is 11 now)

[@RunninUpThatHillh]

All that public school teaches, that you will need..and remember.. takes 100 hours tops. Not 13 years.

[@glee_again2594]

@@RunninUpThatHillh interesting thoughts. Where did the “100 hours” idea come from? Is that something they say in your country?

[@juliaklapakis6216]

Hi Paola! My education was through an Australian Steiner school here in Melbourne! I love hearing about other peoples alternative schooling experiences. I was so happy that I had the opportunity; the alternative methods worked very well for me too. In my experience, most adults who went through some alternative education system are so much more creative and true to themselves. Thank you for sharing!

[@LifewithAlegria]

How blessed you are to have a mother who recognized your learning needs. And what fantastic musical influences you had. Sounds like you had a very well rounded educational experience. Though traditional education is very cookie cutter. There is no one size fits all. Bless your mother for showing you an alternative within which you thrived. I say this as an educator. With love 💕🌸

[@kristiLB93]

I'm currently homeschooling my children. I'm very thankful for this time with them.

[@AngelaHardiman]

I have been homeschooling my grandson (who I am raising) for the past 7 years. We have traveled to 48 states and in November are about to spend 3 months in New Zealand and Australia. You just can't see the world in a building. We love it and have no regrets.

[@nee-na6874]

Beautiful 🥰

[@catholicpeaces6257]

Paola, you explain parts of your life and experiences so rationally where no judgement can be cast. Your pause, reflection and wisdom at your young age is impressive. No matter our age we can all learn from you!

[@lanaasha]

11 years into our homeschool journey. I've found myself wondering what my children will think or say of their own homeschool experiences. You spoke of it so beautifully and I can tell that it was a magical experience for you. I hope the same for my own children.

[@michellecovington_]

Homeschooling is something that I have been praying about for months now. I have one child in 4th grade and one who will be going into kindergarten next year. If I may, please say a prayer for me that I am able to homeschool my children if that is the Lord’s will. I find it so joyful to help them learn and grow. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@scrapperrizen3746]

Praying that God will give you wisdom, discernment and peace in your decision.

[@michellecovington_]

@@scrapperrizen3746 I thank you 🙏🏽

[@autumnmcclain5839]

You are a lovely, very well spoken young lady and this was a wonderful video. I was a Military wife of 4 children and I homeschooled them all. Not all the time sadly, due to finances. Some of the time they liked public or private schools and some times they liked homeschooling. Overall it was harder to school from home with time, money restraints, but my children were generally better behaved, happier, and less led by other children thus their morals were sweet, and they remained innocent. It was more fulfilling to homeschool them. And given the choice again, I would NEVER put them in a Public School system again. It is the biggest regret I have.

[@bmazz4559]

I grew up going to public school in a small town. I was just barely five years old (September birthday). I was truly not ready for this experience. I was very close to my Mom and couldn’t understand why she was leaving me there. I cried and cried because I missed my Mom and Grandparents at home. I cried for at least two weeks every time my Mom left me there. So my schooling was off to a really bad start. As time went on I settled in but for some reason I could not pay attention. I daydreamed and was more interested in the birds in the trees outside or the snow falling. I did not have a lot of friends maybe because I just didn’t want to be there. I did walk to school with my siblings and cousins and that was fun. Sometimes we cut through the woods to get to school. That was always an adventure. In the woods I felt safe and sometimes I would hide there to be alone with myself. School was not an enjoyable time for me. Back when I grew up homeschooling was not even thought about. But I feel I would have benefited from it if it was available. I grew up hating school and that was a sad and wasted part of my childhood and teen years. I’m still a daydreamer and I think it will keep me young forever. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Have a blessed week.

[@SeaTurtle515]

I would say that was my experience with school too. When my mom would drop me off in the mornings, I cried my little heart out. My favorite time as a child was outdoors…still is.

[@dorispoloko3904]

Wow! Your story is my story I was 4yrs old in kindergarten (November) birthday I was very confused and cried all the time. I didn’t have friends my cousin were all I had. We walked to school together too along with my siblings. I hated school. Always had a difficult time learning.

[@jhails112]

​​@@dorispoloko3904 me too! January birthday and I was 4 when I started and turned 5 four months after starting kindergarten. I was very introverted and school was very difficult for me socially. Thankfully I was very good in reading in 1st grade, had a wonderful teacher who encouraged me and books became my best friend. In high school I had 3 other friends who were January birthdays so that was fun. I homeschooled our 4 children k-12. I loved being with them and it worked for us. We'd go to the library every week. Each kid had a milk crate and they filled it with books. Our librarian loved it! So glad we could do this without the distractions of cell phones and internet. This was 30 years ago when we started. We lived on a farm, did farmers markets in the city 3 hrs away. Learning was endless. Thankful! Now some of our grandchildren are being homeschooled.

[@daniquedegraaf]

I can relate to this so much

[@janetclaireSays]

Your story sounds very familiar to me!

[@abhaybakshi5918]

I am from India and somehow stumbled on this channel during some casual surfing. I have seen a couple of video's and will see them all. Words can not describe how beautifully serene all of this is. Your content brought deep calmness literally from within the gut to heart.... and I mean it. I love nature myself and have often cried when I am with mother nature. Everything is so beautifully captured in your videos. It's a heaven where ever you are living. Rustling of leaves and grass .. that enigmatic burble of lake... faint humming of insects .. the wind and the hills....that soft crispy noise of snow.. I am sure that every thing in nature must be communicating with each other. That lonely tree which I saw in your video is not alone. Birds are coming to meet the tree, wind will play with it and the rains will shower it's love. You have the dog with you and that's a perfect companion. It's such a adorable animal to have. Being an artist yourself, I love the way you create any thing in such a gentle and artistic way. I think this is the best channel I have ever subscribed till date. Wishing you all the very best in life and remain sensitive that you are. I think more sensitive a person is, better he/she can absorb the true spirit of life (though being sensitive in materialistic city life have it's own disadvantages !). For the first time, I am looking forward to watch something worthwhile on youtube tonight and I will watch it from oldest to newest. Great job and take care...

[@Nirosha101]

Great to see a fellow Indian on here. I’m Indian too and love this channel. I grew up like her getting lost in the gardens and open fields around my house in India. Goats would visit our house. We had cattle grazing around in our neighborhood. Roosters, sometimes sheep, butterflies etc. I became an explorer and wanderer like her as a result. It’s hard for me to go a day without being out in nature. I feel like in India we keep the the doors and windows open so we’re more connected to nature than cold countries. Would be great to connect with you :)

[@mollykenney3730]

I'm a pretty sensitive, artistic person, and I went to traditional school until early high school. Then I burned out, and asked my mom to homeschool me. I'm so glad she agreed! Homeschooling allowed me to pursue my interests - I learned to garden and I raised pigeons. I went to a homeschool co-op where we took subjects that were harder for parents to teach, and we put on plays. I met my future husband there:) We now have 5 children and I homeschool them. It's not always easy working with the different ages, but I still love doing it. I love reading books together, taking nature walks, tending our garden, and letting each child pursue the subjects that really resonate with them. I realize not everyone is in a position to homeschool. I do, however, appreciate the lack of peer pressure for my children, the learning outside the classroom, and the relationships that we are building through it.

[@thatloafofbread8311]

As I am extremely introverted and stuff, I wish so badly that I could get homeschooled, however it is illegal in my country 😢 (I live in Sweden 🇸🇪)

[@punkydoodledandy]

I’m homeschooling my son currently and I truly hope he shares your gratitude for the extended childhood homeschooling provides!

[@vloy3080]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I’m a homeschooling mother of 3. Also Puerto Rican. And I see so much of what you’ve experienced in my oldest sons current homeschool life. I was not homeschooled myself but it has been such an enriching and joyful experience for my family. I love hearing other adults talk about their experiences as homeschooled children because it’s just not as common as finding “how to” homeschool videos on KZbin. Also it’s nice to hear an unbiased opinion on the subject.

[@rrhines3151]

Such a kind comment from someone who really understands Paola’s experience. ❤

[@ambergibson9559]

We plan to homeschool our child and just the thought of encouraging her to learn from the entire world instead of just in a building is so exciting to me!

[@lesleystrong8865]

I went to a large comprehensive school in the UK in the 1980s. It was noisy and exhausting. I wanted to learn but found it difficult because of the environment. I loved books, nature and art but there was little chance to thrive. Gardening was my go to activity when I got home. I love to learn by doing. That's why forest schools are such a great idea. I really wish they were around when I was a child. 💚🌳🐦🐝💚

[@rrhines3151]

I agree with you! 🌳🌲📚❤

[@craftyhobbit7623]

I grew up in the 80's and 90's and wasn't a fan of the environment - I found one of the biggest problems was bullying and it made me want to be at home all the time instead.

[@griffinrorcrafts]

I am also a homeschooling mom and one of the best things is when one of my kids get interested in a subject. They will go off and spend HOURS researching it. I will never grow tired of seeing that spark of interest in their eyes. Thank you for sharing.

[@Nirosha101]

Ikr!

[@missions4hisglory]

I was homeschooled, and for the most part I loved it. I read so many books, even when I should've been reading my textbooks. :) I was inquisitive and loved to ask questions until I understood the subject, which in turn I finished highschool later. I had a very good imagination and loved writing and spending time outdoors. However, my last year of highschool to "catch up" I am doing online and homeschool, which is very busy. There's not as much room for hobbies and imagination. Also, I realized technology is sometimes really an imagination killer. I didn't get a phone till like 19, but afterwards I realized I was just watching ppl do cool stuff rather than doing it. I'm trying to change that.

[@scrapperrizen3746]

I commend you for having the insight to recognize you were watching other people doing fun stuff instead of doing it yourself. You go girl!

[@lenoroshamann6679]

I really am praying about it because I want none other but to homeschool my future kids. Thanks for sharing.

[@teacupsandfairies692]

I really feel so "at home" when i watch your channel. I am also half Puerto Rican, love the forest, and have a whimsical taste in almost everything :) I often times feel like im misunderstood or thought of as different, but seeing other people such as yourself, who seem to have similar interests as me makes me happy.

[@Ellary_Rosewood]

I always love to listen to people talk about their experiences growing up homeschooled. I'm so grateful to have been homeschooled growing up, and also to my mother who managed to homeschool all three of her children as a single working parent. I still don't know how she was able to pull that off with no support from anyone or anything, and even though there was a lot of struggle, I am just so grateful to have been allowed the childhood I needed . I was able to pursue my passions and any other interests I had, and I wasn't bogged down with a tedious schedule spelling out my every day. For the most part I didn't have to do homework, yet when I did, they were always fun and creative projects. I spent almost all of my time outdoors, playing, creating, playing music, building things, and learning through experience. I read all the books I could get my hands on and wrote stories of my own. I also spent years of my childhood doing various volunteer work, which taught me so many skills I use to this day. I tried going to an public school once, but it only lasted a few weeks. I felt as if I was an outsider coming into a place that wasn't meant for me and I was treated so differently. I hated it and was happy to leave. I really hope that I will have the ability to homeschool my own children when I have them and give them that same sense of creativity, freedom, and independence I had. ❤

[@saraaranel]

Waw, this is so amazing! It would be so interesting to hear more about your story. To have a mother that was a single parent and working and than along with that school 3 children is really just amazing! 💛

[@angelesmilan8203]

Enhora buena!!!, eres un ángel!!!, gracias por compartir!!! 🙏💜💯🙌👏👏👏👏😘

[@nissa4644]

Thank you for that , it is incredibly inspiring , especialy to a single, working , homeschooling mom like me that is filled with doubts about how this will turn out in the long run. I visited your chanel and realized that it can turn out pretty well! new subscriber here!

[@kita3256]

I homeschool my daughters and it’s the best for them. Even if sometimes it’s a lot of work, it’s worth it!! I am so happy that you were a homeschooler! What an inspiration!

[@Rebeka-ij1lk]

I went to school myself in Paraguay, personally hated it, I cried every single day, faked so many sicknesses just to go home, although I have some good memories too I am definitely an introvert which of course I have only learnt later in life. I LOVE being home, and leaving can definitely stress me out!! I now have 2 children ages 7- 4 and am homeschooling them, they are thriving and is it ever rewarding when they start reading ❤️ I believe in hands on learning, cooking , gardening , currently cooking off maple syrup and hoping some of these skills will stick because they need them!

[@catherinecorn2371]

Before our oldest was born, I knew we would homeschool. I have never regretted that choice. I couldn't love this video more... Thank you for sharing! You are a precious lady.

[@helanalurie9962]

I went to a public school, and I have been struggling with noise, even in my job at age 52. Have been working from home since 2020 and really thrive in peace and quiet. Totally understand why homeschooling was better for you.

[@kristikinasz1186]

I was also homeschooled. I've recently realized my favorite part about it was learning how to truly learn and dive into what is important to me. I enjoyed your perspective :)

[@skye4743]

I teach Composition & Literature at a community college. I consistently find home-schooled students to be more articulate, creative and original than the average bear. Your person, your perspective, opens a door for others to value who they are inside. You make a difference. 🐻 🐻‍❄ 🧸 🐻 ❤️

[@rrhines3151]

One teacher changed my life as a child in 7th grade. She was my English teacher who “saw” me and started to erase years of being called “stupid,” both at home and school because I consistently out-spelled other classmates and earned high grades in writing assignments. ❤words and empathetic communication can be life savers! 😊

[@skye4743]

@@rrhines3151 so beautiful! My 10th grade teacher discovered I could create poetry in multiple genres & diagram sentences-- after years of having been tagged slow, dumb, distracted or mediocre. So grateful for the redeeming, compassionate ones. ❤️ 😍 💖

[@er6730]

This is so nice.❤ I was also homeschooled until grade 8, and it was a mixed experience for me. I think the "homeschool energy" of being interested in what I'm interested in without worrying about what my peers were doing was very mentally healthy. I also played with stuffies long after others had put their stuffies away. A large reason that I was homeschooled is that my parents could tell that I wouldn't have been seen as very intelligent at school. (And as a grown woman I was finally diagnosed with ADHD and a lot of my life made sense!) It took me a very long time to understand how to read. But then when I finally got it around age 8, I loved it and was reading adult books by 10 (and children's books. I still read picture books as a grown woman. I just really love stories.) I chose not to homeschool my children, while still keeping that as an option in my mind if they should really need it. I was very lonely, as an extrovert homeschooled by an introvert. It's true that it prompted me to read more, but it wasn't really healthy, it was more like escapism. I'm still not sure if my mom just didn't get us out enough, or if I was too demanding, but it felt SO long between social events and my main memories of childhood are of filling time while waiting, and being jealous of my friends who got to see their friends every single day. On the plus side, I am still very close friends with my sister, and we have many many shared childhood memories. My son is the same way and I'm getting another perspective as an adult who is being pestered about why he "never gets to invite anyone over" when he's had friends over every weekend for a month, but it happens to be Thursday.😂 I can't imagine how much worse he'd feel if he then also didn't see friends at school every day! He actually did very well academically during Covid, I think because I was there to give him individual attention, whereas my introverted child, who reminds me of you in that she does so much better with a slow pace and deep dives into knowledge, she completely wilted, and often would come crying in the night to me about "being lonely". She's very sensitive and I wonder if she was accidentally taking my feelings as if they were hers. (That's how I felt, although I tried to be brave and positive for the children's sake) Of course, Covid homeschooling and real homeschooling are completely different. However, it did confirm for me that I do not want to do that with my children, while at the same time, it confirmed that I could. (Especially after I ditched the online learning and just made stuff up, dividing the difficulty level into three for my three children. It was MUCH easier than trying to make all the technology and different teachers work.)

[@TheCottageFairy]

It's been a bit since I've seen you! Hello! Snow season always delays my filming a bit, but I wanted to make a video on my childhood experience of homeschooling, which was a positive experience that affected my entire life. I did a mixture of textbook and online courses recognized by the wider school system (so my education was remote, but followed the same courses of traditional school). However, this is not a good path for everyone - nor is it feasible - and there are both positive and negative experiences out there that I'm sure are all true, as are pros and cons of other educational paths. I had a large amount of opportunities for socializing, which was also vital as I was involved in a lot of activities. So, I wanted to share how much a childhood spent mostly at home was a gift for me. Please share down below your thoughts on schooling and what works best for you, it is an interesting topic to me because I think we never outgrow learning. Sending much love

[@Highcat1]

I haven't even finished the video yet, but I am always excited to see other people who went through the experience of homeschooling talk about it ,as someone who has been homeschooled for most of my school time. ♥️

[@FG-ie7cu]

Please forgive me, this is not about schooling, but I have been waiting for you to post again so I can share this quote that reminds me of you. It is from the wonderful book, The Middle Window, by Elizabeth Goudge: "Utopias are built best in isolation. In the filthy modern world you can't make a thing that's not at once smirched; but here in these glens loveliness can be ringed round and protected by the mountains." "That's the monastic ideal," said Judy, "and I've always thought it rather selfish--a creeping away from life." "Then you have misunderstood it. The monastic ideal is a core of sanity in a loathsome world, a core of sanity that spreads. Again and again men have gone into solitude to create beauty, and the beauty, created, has revolutionized a whole country." Judy was still unconvinced. "But if nothing can get through the mountains to contaminate your Utopia, how can the beauty you create get out into the world?" "If you light a bonfire in a sheltered valley the protection makes such a huge blaze of it that those outside see the whole sky lit up."

[@rrhines3151]

Thank you for offering us a platform to share! I valued education again in my mid-20s (never stopped reading) when I was told I had all the kind qualities of being a nurse but no formal education.. Light 💡 bulb moment!

[@BruceLeon83]

Wonderful, calming video as always. 🌻

[@lillysummeroriginals1213]

I don’t like how school teachers are or music. Art is an expression form and every artist is going to create something different with the same idea. This means teachers can’t grade art. It’s not proper because it’s a subjective thing and everyone’s gonna have their own opinions which are all valid and important. Are you in school is graded on how it looks but it should be graded on its story. On the effort the artist put in rather than on the end finish result. Sometimes you will have an amazing idea in your mind and when you try to bring it out on paper doesn’t work. But that doesn’t mean you’re less artistic than someone you got a better grade it just means that specific idea didn’t bloom out properly yet and maybe just require a little bit more time or thinking or a different medium. If you are graded with specific rules and guidelines you will never truly be able to show off that creativity and it may even take away your motivation as an artist which isn’t right. It’s the same for music. I am a lyricist and vocalist myself in music is my expression form. I don’t do too great in music class because it’s not about that. It’s not about reading a book and then writing a song to express your thoughts on that book for example. It’s about learning specific things from a curriculum. There we go. Artz in school isn’t about that creativity or expression that are in the real world it is. It’s about teachers even if they’re absolutely incredible following a curriculum that isn’t created by artists or people who truly understand the power of art. It’s sad but hopefully by discussing it on the Internet something better can happen. I know this is very long so I hope you enjoyed reading it and also I am legally blind

[@patriciaanderson4457]

I have three children who are all very different people and different learners. It’s nice to have options in education. There is something good in all of them. The important thing is knowing your child’s strengths and weaknesses and giving them the best opportunity for growth.

[@MissNatashaMarie]

I was homeschooled as well, and I too played with my dolls far longer than most did, well into my teens. I enjoyed being homeschooled, my Mom went above and beyond to make sure my brother and I had a well rounded education. I’m now beginning the homeschool education experience with my own children, I love how you can tailor the curriculum/style of learning to each child’s needs and interests.

[@melanievallely9539]

This video was such a blessing to me! I grew up in public schools, and I did well. I never thought I would do anything but send my kids to public school, but '20 happened, and I pulled our oldest and brought her back home. Homeschooling has been amazing for us. Both my children are thriving in it and love discovering things, and I love exposing them to literature even younger than they would have in school. We have had a few negative comments from people recently (because of their general idea of what homeschool is)which have left me a bit discouraged. Hearing such a positive story from someone who experienced it firsthand has been an encouragement tonight!

[@FineFeatheredHomestead]

You're among a high number of parents, not a small minority. Often people fear the unknown, and misjudge it as a result. Others feel bad they won't or can't do it, so they act like it's weird. But 30% of Americans are homeschooled to some degree, and 100% were during '20. Many presidents were homeschooled; our forefathers were too - and they were amazing thinkers, often eloquent writers and speakers. And Eleanor Roosevelt said it best, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

[@kerrypoppins5388]

You know what they say about opinions!! People are always willing to throw out their 2 cents, and in today's world everyone thinks they're an expert with a megaphone. Never let the naysayers hold you back, because they will try, by golly! Blessings to you and your family!

[@kyliehenline5022]

I appreciate your post! I’m am planning on homeschooling my children in a year or so and I’m interested in what kids of literature you have read to yours? 🙃

[@jennilynn24]

I've never commented on your videos before, but I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to create this video and share your experience! I am a homeschooling mother of 3 (ages 9,5, and 3). It is a tremendous responsibility to make educational choices for these little people entrusted to us. Our choice to homeschool also requires some sacrifices in other areas of life. I feel the weight of all these things often. We are still early in our journey so it is very comforting to hear the stories of others who have gone before us. I had a wonderful public school experience, but I am truly enjoying homeschooling life thus far. I hope to continue for the long haul, but we will continue to make choices one year and one kid at a time.

[@runningmama4793]

❤ You can do it! Keep up the good work 😊 Mom of 6 here (22, 20, 18, 17, 13, 11), and it really does get easier as they get older and more independent.

[@fusioncraftiness5445]

I moved a lot as a child. 12 schools by 12th grade. I also was overwhelmed by the noise and did my best work in those desks with 3 sides;P even in college. As soon as I got home from school I went into the woods with my brothers, built forts and miniature villages with mud and sticks. I learned later that I was both shy and an introvert. Different needs for different kids. Kudos to your mom for recognizing your needs. Lovely story!

[@adribourgeois]

I was homeschooled all my life, I absolutely loved it. I was able to develop a true love of learning, and my interests were able to become my own, without outside influence or peer pressure. I loved nature, music, reading, crafting, playing odd imaginative games outside. I loved everything about it. When I had friends who went to public school and I also had no idea what music was being listened to at the time; One direction, Taylor Swift, Shawn Mendes, etc. I love how similar our stories are! Thank you for sharing your beautiful experiences Paola!❤

[@rrhines3151]

While home schooling would have been torturous for me, it makes my ❤heart 🎶 sing to read of stories similar to Paola’s!

[@NateshasAmbience]

Based on many comments, it sounds like homeschooling leads to self-discovery. I’m glad you had such an endearing experience!

[@dorothyhughes1061]

Thank you for this lovely explanation of your homeschooling experience. I started schooling my children at home 33 years ago when homeschooling wasn't "cool", and it was a gift for our family. We all developed a desire and ability to pursue a lifetime of learning, caring for people, creativity, and strong work ethics. Homeschooling doesn't solve every problem in life, but it can give some children a better chance in a world that is often chaotic or too conforming, noisy or shrouded by peer pressure. As early homeschoolers, we were pioneers going into somewhat uncharted territory! Yet we trusted Jesus as we blazed our trail with other friends. Screen time was very limited, as our motto was, "Instead of watching people live, let's live!" As a result, creativity, deep thinking, and friendships flourished! Thank you again for your kindhearted sharing, Paola!

[@morganfiona8378]

I'm a teacher, and I'm also autistic and struggled a lot with traditional school. It's hard to see how so many kids like me are left behind by traditional education and there's no resources within the schools to help them. Now I do my best to support them but it requires a lot of investment and energy that isn't sustainable. Knowing that my children are likely to be neurodivergent as well, i imagine i will send them to Montessori or Gardner programs to better support them if given the opportunity

[@jjharrison4099]

My husband and I were both homeschooled until college and now we homeschool our children-one of the sweetest things of homeschooling is the freedom to learn about things they are interested in. Almost every day my children spend time learning to paint, to code and program, how to garden or bake, the solar system and stars, or any subject that captures their fancy. I love to see their love of learning!

[@itsmewende]

I think you are the poster child for home schooling, intelligent, wise well rounded girl, who likes classic rock, is just a bonus. If I had young children and was a stay at home mom, after hearing your childhood, I'd be looking into home schooling myself. Your parents were so ahead of curve raising you kids.

[@pamelawolfe3844]

Loved this. I homeschooled all 3 of my children. I'm so thankful, I did.

[@dental257]

...Your mother is a treasure, for not only noticing your struggles; but, also, for being open to alternatives to traditional settings. I am on Whidbey Island, and school my children at home as well.. So glad for the opportunity...

[@SeaTurtle515]

Thank you for sharing your homeschooling experience. I started homeschooling my children 36 years ago when it was very uncommon. It was one of the most enriching experiences my children and I had. We spent so much time in nature, raising farm animals, reading books, and visiting museums. They had many of their own projects going in their free time and they were blissfully unaware of current ‘trends’ and fearlessly followed their own hearts, which to me was the biggest plus. We belonged to a home schooling group that had about 135 kids total, so there was no lack for socializing, but the kids interacted with all age groups, 5-17, and each child was a special individual and could talk with adults with ease. A very special time in my life. 💕

[@mariahminner1334]

This is why I would love to see the change that allows for homeschooling or public school options for children. Every child is different, and learns differently. Some kids thrive in public settings, some would be better with quieter learning. I would homeschool my kids if I could afford it because I felt I could have greatly benefited from homeschooling. I was sent to public because my mom insisted I needed it for socialization. As an adult, I have really bad social anxiety and do not get social cues at all. Meanwhile cousins of mine that were homeschooled are much more comfortable in social situations.

[@vanessaprestoncreative]

What a lovely, thoughtful reflection. I homeschooled my children from ages 4-14. They're young adults now, but it's too soon to say how they'll see their homeschooling once they're older. It wasn't perfect, but it was a gentle way of life and they were free to pursue their interests. I have some beautiful memories, and I hope they do, too.

[@lauracirne44]

I loved hearing you talk about your experience, recognizing different ways of learning is recognizing that people and children are different, and that each one of us may need different things, be a way of learning, interacting with people or experienced the world in order to express our true self fully.

[@TheCottageFairy]

thank you for sharing ❤

[@taysrats]

I’m a homeschooling mama! My son is also very sensitive and I knew putting him in regular school was going to be extremely difficult for him. Homeschool has been such a blessing for our family and for him!

[@trishawall9619]

Thank you for sharing the thoughts of your experience. I spent 2 years in public school , my 5th grade year, and my senior year. The rest was in small private schools. I felt very needed and useful in the private schools where I was the school "librarian" and was allowed to assist the younger children with their learning. I loved schooling K-12 all together in the same building and being with all ages as well as my siblings. I am a homeschool mother of 12 children, still schooling the youngest 5. I've always bought into the idea that life should have a measure of boredom in it where creativity is born. I also have always lived where we can walk out the door and find nature waiting. So good for the soul! I have been watching you for 3 years now, and really enjoy your videos. I have an embroidery /felt project waiting for me to begin it. I think I will now after watching you today!

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

It was great to hear about your positive experience being homeschooled. We see so many wonderful benefits from it too. I love your channel! ~ Jennifer

[@TheCottageFairy]

How lovely to read your comment, I have been enjoying your videos for many years!! Thank you

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

@@TheCottageFairy What a treat! I love your channel too and I know so many of my viewers do as well. Sending much love, Jennifer xx

[@aprilcarl5481]

No one knows you or cares as much for you and your education than your parents. To me, homeschooling is definitely worth any sacrifices that need to be made. I grew up in a small town and attended a One Room Schoolhouse and a high school with only about 300 students total. So I had a precious schooling experience. But I choose to home educate my children because...No one knew them better, cared more or would be able to spend more one on one time with them. We were part of an Awana group which taught them many priceless skills (a lot of memorization) and took wonderful field trips with our homeschool group. Wouldn't change what we did for anything. Thank you for sharing. This is definitely one of my favorite videos you've made [and I Love and treasure them all, [looking forward to each one]. The embroidery projects are so special and lovely. I am so grateful your mom had the wisdom to homeschool you...I believe it had a huge influence on just how amazing and wonderful you are.

[@theresastang5796]

Our son came home with a “Monday Migraine” every week. We tried making certain he was eating lunch, drinking enough water,sleeping enough over the weekend. I have to think it was purely anxiety. He is now 21 and has overcome many challenges. My heart goes out to him.

[@tangerine3683]

My son has had this issue as well he would often come home with these awful migraines. It's dawned on me he's very sensitive and school stresses him to no end. I decided over this summer break he and his sister will not be going back to public school. I'll be homeschooling and I'm so excited.

[@gayansathathsarani9672]

In my opinion home school might be a great joy. I think it's a great way to explore the world,and it's completely different from studying in a school. Most unfortunately I'm going to school,it's not that bad,but home schooling sounds so interesting. As always, you're so lucky to experience that. Thank you for sharing this!! I enjoyed it from my whole heart.

[@ticomelo6868]

I’m young and homeschooled so I’m a little behind my friends, my dad listens to rock and I play violin 🎻 so I don’t listen to all the pop songs my friends know. When I watch this I got super inspired and started a craft immediately. I look forward to seeing more of your videos. ❤

[@freedomrevolution2391]

Thank you Paola, I homeschool and this has blessed me (from mom guilt) because it’s so foreign . My children have come to love homeschool. Many field trips, outdoor picnics, museums. And the best part mom is always able to be with them. ❤

[@rachelroot2913]

I was homeschooled until high school. I thrived at home and I believe it shaped the way I view the world (barefoot, nature oriented, and very creative like you). The downside for me is I didn't learn social skills and knew no one at my high school. It was terrifying but I did make a small group of friends. After only 4 years of public school I was very tired of the environment, being cooped up all day felt like being in jail compared to the flexibility of home. When I have kids I'd like to homeschool

[@estherhinds6314]

I was homeschooled starting in fourth grade all the way through high school. I heard about when I was in first grade and I asked if I could transfer, because I had a love for learning and I already understood that traditional schooling wouldn't give me the freedom to learn everything I wanted to at my own pace and my own style. During third grade I dealt with bullies (both child and adult), losing friends, not being challenged where I needed it and struggling to keep up in other areas (not to bash all public schools, just my own experience, and unfortunately they've only gotten worse where I live). At that point my mom realized that I was already learning so much more at home anyway so she agreed to homeschool me. All four of my siblings followed, and I couldn't be more grateful for this experience. I got to spend my days playing outside for hours, reading classic literature, studying pirates and the United States constitution, starting my own business, and performing in musicals and Shakespeare plays. Best education I could have asked for. Thanks, Mom. Thank you so much.

[@scrapperrizen3746]

Good Morning Paola! I stumbled upon your channel in late 2020 and have loved you ever since. Though I am now in my 60's, I wish my mother would have been able to homeschool me back in the 60's and 70's. I was an emotionally sensitive child like you and thrived in quiet spaces, reading books and lost in thought. Noise and crowded places brought on anxiety. In my early 20's I married and we had 5 children. My husband and I agreed that homeschooling would be a good choice for our children and we have never regretted it. I know not everyone has that choice or even wants to choose that form of education, but I have always been thankful that we had the choice and were able to do it even though it was tough financially. Btw, I love all the different ways you do your hair and your different outfits. Great style!!

[@moanimations]

I attended public school from pre k till 12th and it was a horrible experience. Put so many insecurities in my head and I never felt comfortable. I'm now homeschooling my two young kids and will continue to do so as long as they will let me. My 6 year old is also a highly sensitive kid and struggles with loud sounds and is easily distracted. I'm hoping she finds comfort in knowing I'm all hers and she has the time and space to experience life. Thank you for sharing your story! Any suggestions for a highly sensitive child would be greatly appreciated. You are an absolutely beautiful soul!

[@isabellacam4775]

I was homeschooled in the mid to late 2000s/2010s and although I thought I was missing out on a lot, I actually learned way faster and quicker and eventually realized I wasn't missing much at all as regards to peer pressure and bullying. We had space to think and develop in our own ways and looking back I am so grateful. Just personal experience. Not too say it's for everyone :)

[@bonnieboo2159]

I was homeschooled all the way, from the time I was old enough for preschool. My mother was an excellent teacher with a broad range of curriculums she was able to find. And we also travelled and moved a lot, which was part of why we homeschooled to begin with. I love how you call it “unusual,” as it was very normal for me. 😆 I grew up loving to learn everything I could, and I still do to this day. I would wholeheartedly recommend homeschooling to those with the means and experience.

[@juliejackman2649]

I started homeschooling my 14 yo son with autism and adhd this year. Public school just didn't work out for him. He needs more breaks in the day and more tailoring to him specifically. I'm absolutely loving it!💕 In my state there aren't any requirements for homeschooling, so I get to come up with everything on my own and I believe with God's help, and also my Hubby puts his two cents in here and there. I'm very thankful for the flexible scheduling we have with him. I'm also thankful he won't be involved in any school shootings which several have come up lately in this area but thankfully stopped before they happened. I personally believe public schools are on their way out. If this is true I hope some organization comes up with some kud groups that do some kind of service or something else meaningful.

[@yadirab.c.615]

I have a daughter who is struggling with focusing during class. She’s always complaining about the noise level. I thought about homeschooling her but don’t know where to start. Did you ask the school about homeschooling programs or was it more researching on your part?

[@homeschoolmom779]

So glad to hear this. I'm a homeschool mom (I do work part time) and I have been LOVING it. My kids love it to and said they have no desire to go back to public school.

[@ElizabethSampson]

I think homeschooling is a gift to treasure. I went to public schools when I was little and sent my children to public schools but there is so much to be said for individualized learning and catering to a child's strengths. I believe groups and connections with other children are significant as well. Great video!

[@yomamabaker99]

I homeschool my 3 children and I went to a traditional public school. Like you mentioned, learning outside of a single building has been amazing for my children; museums, nature, etc all have wonderful learning opportunities. I love how my kids are maturing at their own rate and keep interests that they truly love rather than being swayed by a peer group. I always felt weird for my "strange" interests as a child in public school and I love how they have the opportunity to stay true to themselves as well as pursue topics that are of real interest to them.

[@Nirosha101]

Yesss

[@dogrady17]

"Finding what works best for the student " hits the nail on the head. I was a long time public high school teacher and mentor to new teachers. Shifting the focus from presenting content to providing the environment and experiences that promote individual learning is a challenge for even the most dedicated and skilled educators. Especially in overcrowded classrooms! As you say, no method is intrinsically better than another. And, unfortunately, alternatives may not be available. You are fortunate to have parents who recognized how you learned best and provided a wonderful mix of opportunities and experiences.

[@rrhines3151]

You know firsthand about what Paola speaks. ONE teacher in 7th grade finally “saw” me and validated my one talent for words! I am so grateful and found that teacher, when I was an adult, and wrote her a thank-you note!

[@ames0596]

I know my daughter plans on homeschooling her son, I am thankful for her dedication ! Her husband was raised much in the same way as you.

[@siobhankerr9423]

Dear Paola, thank-you for sharing your story, and for your incredibly balanced approach to this discussion. Your mother's sacrifice is evident in the fruits of her labour, your relationships. Love from Canada 🍁 from a former elementary school teacher, musician & homeschooling parent

[@bakerbrewz]

I agree! Her perspective and story sharing is enthralling, like reading a good book you just can't put down. But your children must be very talented to have a former elementary school teacher, musician and homeschooling parent! That is so inspiring in itself!

[@siobhankerr9423]

@@bakerbrewz 🙏 thx

[@mayorlewispurpleshorts9693]

I relate to this a lot. I was also a sensitive child (And I am honestly still a sensitive person), and I was homeschooled through my whole childhood. I thrived in that kind of environment as well, and I also matured at my own pace, which happened to be slower than my peers. As a young adult now, I happily live a simple and peaceful life. From my highschool graduation through my early 20's I faced a fair amount of judgement from some people in my life because of my education and lifestyle. I wasn't making the same kinds of choices that people my age were "supposed" to make, and therefore they assumed something must be wrong with me. A person insisted to me that people could be "ruined" by being homeschooled and that homeschool is the worst option for children. They insinuated that my lifestyle wasn't okay and I needed to be like other people my age - aka, have a fast paced, career centered life. I have nothing against that kind of life, but it just isn't for me. I suffered many years of sorrow because of wanting things for my life that were so different from what people expected of me. It was so important to me that this person in my life understood and accepted me for who I am. I wanted them to understand how integral it is to provide different types of education according to what the student needs, rather than trying to shape a child to fit into a type of education that doesn't work for them. I wanted them to understand that I'm not "broken" for being raised alternatively and living simply. But instead of understanding that *all* people are different and need different kinds of things to thrive, I was insulted and demeaned to my face. I'm no longer in contact with that person, but their judgement left me with scars. To be so horribly misunderstood and insulted, simply because of who I am and choose to be, was so hurtful. It has caused me to second guess who I am as a person so many times. But it's refreshing and validating to see someone like you, who I can relate to in so many ways, being so positive about this kind of life. You make me feel less alone. Thank you. ❤

[@cathyberry9793]

I loved hearing your story! I attended many public schools in the 60s (dad was a sort of nomad) and managed to earn enough credits to graduate at 16. However, taking time out to work, marry, and raise a family meant I didn’t finish college (earning a bachelor’s in English) until I was 50! I loved going back to college as an adult with all that life experience behind me.

[@TawnyC123]

Thank you for sharing your experience. Everything about this video just exudes beauty in so many, many ways! We're a homeschool family and my prayer is that one day my children reflect on homeschooling and their childhood in such a way!❤

[@mollyburns2974]

I wasn’t honeschooled, but my parents really fostered my imagination and it has really fueled me as a person and I am so grateful for it. I, too was doing things that many of my peers grew out of, but I never cared. I am finding now in my 30’s that I’m revisiting those parts of me and rediscovering my imagination as an adult. I told myself that this year would be my most whimsical year and I am so ready for it. Love this video!

[@lenoroshamann6679]

Wow. I really like it here. Now I know that there are also people out there who have gone experiences like mine. Thanks for sharing..

[@NateshasAmbience]

I love that you discovered the joy of being authentic as a child. That is so wonderful! I hope you have the most whimsical year ever!

[@Nirosha101]

I’m on a similar journey wow

[@een_schildpad]

As a homeschooling Dad who was also homeschooled, this is such a great balanced perspective!! It's been something I feel privileged to be able to do, though it is also quite a sacrifice of time and resources (for us it's meant 1 paycheck instead of 2). We've been open with our kids that there is nothing wrong if they'd rather go to school, but so far they've all been loving homeschool for many of the reasons mentioned here. Something that feels different from when I was homeschooled in the 90s is it's more accepted these days. I remember my Mom being careful of us being seen out during school hours and keeping a bag by the front door with proof of our curriculum because she new homeschoolers back then that had their kids removed by child services for being "truant". That's not so much a concern for us today.

[@JessicaGCook]

Everything about this video really resonates for me. Our girls are 18 and 15 and we've homeschooled for the past 8 years. For us it was a great choice. We live in the woods with a creek running through that empties into a bay. We spend a lot of days canoeing down to the Bay, seeing herons and osprey, sometimes a bald eagle, dolphins. They've learned so much biology without even realizing it. I laughed when you said Billy Joel- he's a favorite of my eldest daughter's. She also loves modern composers like John Powell, who I'm sure most girls her age have never heard of. My youngest is a writer. She went from refusing to read (but listening to audio books for hours) to picking up a pen to write a book and she hasn't stopped writing for the last 2 years. My eldest is an introverted HSP (like me, but for her much more so) so she would never raise her hand to ask a question in class if she was lost and fell "behind" because her teachers didn't realize she didn't get it until test time. My youngest was much slower to mature than her peers and I think that made being at home a good choice. I do miss the days of sitting on the front porch swing and reading aloud to them Little Women or Jane Austen or Little House on the Prairie while they crocheted scarves. But they're older now and the dynamic changed when I went to work full time. But I wouldn't trade those experiences for anything. Thanks for this video. As a parent I second guess my choices sometimes, so it's good to see other homeschooled people doing well.

[@vickiethompson3859]

I grew in moving nearly 26 times in 16 years because of the military. It was very rigid, and I definitely struggled and slipped through the cracks. I can relate to everything you have shared. Thank you!

[@Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice]

As a person who was homeschooled, and is now homeschooling their own children, I enjoyed this video. I also grew up in a household that limited technology and read countless books as a result. I grew up listening to my mom's eclectic cross-cultural musical tastes, also, including classical, indigenous flute music from the Andes mountains, Mozart, Vivaldi, Chopin, The Beatles, Jackson 5, James Brown, Sly and The Family Stone, Gordon Lightfoot, Luther Vandross, everything from Motown, pop music from the 80s and 90s. It should come as no surprise that I like all kinds of music, including Billy Joel...and even a little Taylor Swift😉

[@CetinaCountryCottage]

I love your homeschool story. Thank you for sharing. I currently homeschool our three children (12, 9, and 8 years of age). My homeschooling style sounds very similar to how your mother educated you. I also am delighted to hear that your mother is Latina and to hear that another Hispanic woman decided to take this homeschooling journey with her children is inspiring. I would love to meet your mother in a video. My middle child (first daughter) reminds me of you and how you learn, she is also extremely artistic and creative. So nice to see another homeschooled adult doing so well and happy. Abundant Blessings to you, Rosalie Cetina

[@KDAlaska]

My daughter is much like you. I recognized after third grade that public school just was not for her. I took her out and was so pleased to see her feel better and gain confidence through homeschooling. When covid hit and the schools shut, I took my son out and we've homeschooled both since then. They both have the option to go back whenever they want to. I ask each year how they feel and if they want to go back. My daughter especially has done amazing in homeschool, she's like you about noises. She was always ready to lay on the couch when she got home and just be quiet. She still values her quiet time. I think homeschool depends on the child, some would do poor and others thrive.

[@NewYawkahBroad]

My son hugged me and said 'Thank you' when I told him I would be home schooling him.

[@Nirosha101]

I deeply admire you for being so attuned to your kids needs. Simply wow

[@samafo2691]

For various reasons, I would love to homeschool my son who is currently in public school. It seems impossible at the moment due to circumstances but listening and watching your video is so inspiring and encourages me to not give up, but find a way and work towards this goal.