The More Successful You Are The Longer You'll Live! Will Storr

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Very insightful episode! Let me know what you all think! If you could also do me a massive favour and hit the like button that’d be amazing, it helps this channel out massively 🙏

[@scunny]

I really enjoyed this episode! As a parent I believe you can always explain that you can try to be anything you want as this is the truth. However at the same time it does make more sense to identify strengths and bring them to light.

[@annsooja]

The thing Will mentioned about 'playing the game you're in' was super insightful - enlightening.

[@olukemiayodele9127]

The discussion was helpful and thought provoking. I will definitely listen again, I need to hear it again.

[@dombut1906]

Brilliant

[@gailrickaby2637]

I am a 67year old women and a trained therapist yet I learn something every week with these podcasts.

[@ahmedtariq8942]

And yet you can't type a sentence :)

[@saraendestad4945]

omg, I love that! And also I use these as life lectures, they are truly amazing!

[@SPDATA1]

🙏💚

[@suedavis7451]

Your sentence wasn’t complete. When someone has written a lot of university papers, they have artistic license to just post. You didn’t attend college, that’s obvious.

[@thereviewgeekofficialYT]

I really resonated with Will's story about his English teacher. I remember when I was given To Kill A Mockingbird to read in year 10 and was told to read Chapter 5. I went home and was so enthralled by the book that I read the whole thing that night. I must have had like 4 hours sleep. I came back to school, spoke to my teacher, excitedly chirping about how good the book was and how angry I was over the outcome of the plot (no spoilers here!) and she literally reprimanded me, telling me off for reading ahead and "ruining the curriculum for the whole class." She even gave me detention...for reading? It's taken me a long time to get that love of reading and writing back but I fear there are so many stories like this for numerous different kids who have just given up on their passions. Great episode, thoroughly enjoyed this one!

[@artandculture5262]

Those are the rule makers. They don’t like enthusiasm they did not enforce or make as policy.

[@sallykalan]

Wow and how that would have affected you ! At least know you sharing 😃

[@thisrandomdude_]

that's so messed up, god damn it dude when I try to put myself in the teacher's shoes for stories like this, to try and get a morsel of an explanation of WHY they would do something like that, I am only ever met with bewilderment at the nonsensicality of it all. I'm glad you were able to get back your love for reading and writing, keep it up mate. x

[@TheShhSecret]

As always a brilliant conversation - I have saved this to watch again. I think Will's wife Farrah would be an excellent guest, and in that vein of magazine editors, I'd love to see Jo Elvin and Lisa Smosarski. I think they would have really interesting insights into magazine culture in the 2000s/2010s.

[@ItsBradHennessy]

Where to start! There are elements of this podcast which genuinely frighten me. How status, in its various elements, can relate to long term health it truly shocking and well and truly food for thought. Rivalries too, come to think of it I do the same thing, without doubt If I have a rival I will be more motivated to perform better. Will Storr, what a great guest. Well done Steve and team!

[@liaem5255]

This is the best podcast on the internet. Thank you for this.

[@larareynolds2765]

Initially, I felt sorry for this Gentleman. I appreciated his painful raw honesty. And realised this is his way which is actually rather brilliant. And your insightful and well-grappled questioning proved beneficial for Will, yourself and the audience. Peace and Love from New Zealand 🙏.

[@dr.slavashut]

I'm a licensed doctor of physical therapy and an entrepreneur, and I still gain value from this podcast. Thanks for putting in the effort to bring us such great content

[@blazzz13]

Interesting episode. This very much reminds me of Maslow's hierarchy and some of his ideas and points do resonate.

[@MateP801]

Amazing! So far, I've listened about 50 entire episodes and I don't know why this episode didn't get the same "traction" as some of the others with few hundred K views. It's one of the best!! Worth to listen it! Thanks for sharing this great conversation! 🙏👏

[@chrisdelafuente8489]

I really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you.

[@MarcoBarretoBittner]

What an intense and inspiring conversation. Thanks!

[@Moraima_Buonafede]

What an amazing interview! So many golden nuggets I loved his perpet perspective thank you for bringing him to the show and allowing us to discover his work

[@StrongScholar]

I see what you di di did there

[@GTACopper]

Probably one of the most thought provoking interviews you’ve done. Fascinating guy

[@NathalieLazo]

“Instead of “to-do lists” we need “to-be lists”. The question isn’t what do we want to do, it’s who we want to be.” - Jay Shetty ✨

[@nickmacleay4632]

Your guest and episodes are like therapy haha. Best podcast out there!! I also think that you interview, and select your guests as you are also searching for answers, I know I do :)

[@stellacarrier8341]

This youtube video of The More Successful You Are The Longer You'll Live via Will Storr and The Diary of A Ceo is illuminative. I reluctantly confess that I only logically and intuitively figured out this year that status and a person's perceived success does matter and can help and I reluctantly accept that learning more about what status and success epitomizes may take me 12 to 15 months andor longer. Still I feel lucky and feel that synchronicity plays a factor in I finding this beneficial and educative youtube video.

[@tonih4887]

Loved this discussion and will be sharing it with others.

[@caminante4222]

What a great start to the week. Thank you.

[@PiotrKolmanowski]

Thanks! The best interview with Will Storr - I like what questions and how they were asked :)

[@thisrandomdude_]

genuinely fantastic conversation. I wish it got more views too, as others have said. I guess the thumbnail is holding it back.

[@ravenomega2443]

I love listening to these interviews while I work. When the information is great and the person speaking is knowledgeable about it I always end up in this great flow state.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Great to hear Raven. Thanks for listening 🙏🏽

[@ravenomega2443]

@@TheDiaryOfACEO Hey man thanks for being a talented communicator. Idk if you know or not but that's an invaluable skill.

[@jammerman860]

Hi Steven Thank you for introducing a new consistent life awarding routine to our lives. Highly recommended and appreciated. 🙏🏾

[@jammerman860]

Honorable shout out to you and your team!

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thank you for listening and your support Jammer! Appreciate this 🙏🏽

[@bhiveliveglobal]

Interesting and finally a reality check. Yes you can strive for the top but don't be disappointed if you never reach the top as long as you are moving forward towards your top. TY

[@dancorpe3945]

Just when I think they can’t get better! Incredibly insightful and exceedingly useful. Thank you chaps 🙏🏼

[@WSCØØTS]

Such a great podcast. Listened to it twice now. So insightful 👍

[@AKA-kp3gd]

This episode should have be called "Sta Tus or Stay Tus?"

[@igasparetto]

I manage people, I have been CEO a few times, and I have 2 children and a wife, so I think about where to position people and what can be delegated to them VERY often. I have been thinking about Will's ideas for a while now. We are indeed limited, but aiming higher than we can reach WILL take us higher than we would have achieved if we were aiming at our highest capacity.

[@see_the_journey]

I love the author interviews - (he is simply passionate talker ) so makes it easy to listen to

[@MariaRodrigues-sf9pv]

Omg! This episode seems great. I will listening it tomorrow during my daily walk.

[@CheckTesting1]

…absolutely brilliant! Keep up the good work. Love your hustle 😃 God’s Rich blessings to you and the family 🙏🏾

[@LivingLchaim]

Which mic stands are those?! They look amazing

[@purplemashedpotatoes8886]

Will Storr: I know a lot about depression Also Will Storr: Pops up in his seat with childlike joy

[@benskilling4840]

What an incredible episode! Honestly it was so illuminating and really opened up doors in my mind and actually allows me to alleviate some anger I have at some people because I see now they are just playing a status game that I didn’t realise I was a part of! I’ve just downloaded the book “the status game” by Will Storr and I can’t wait to read it! Great job Steven!

[@NightOwlinNewOrleans]

Listening to this made me understand why I don’t fit in. Regarding the “status” discussion, I have my own status game that is individual to me and because of that generally people have no clue what make me tick…translated I have very few friends. Those that I do have take me as I am and don’t try to “understand me”. I have high expectations honesty and integrity of people I share my life with but don’t care about the new fashion trends, (even though I love clothes) or being seen in the right places, drinking wine because everyone else does, accepting inebriated people invading my space, over indulging in alcohol just because I am out socially… even simply going out socially because everyone else is out celebrating (an event or holiday). Sometimes I feel selfish by not participating everyone’s plans, then I say oh well because I don’t want to waste time doing what I am not interested in. That is not to say I don’t join in on occasion…if I didn’t I’d never leave home… and be perfectly happy. Sadly, my habits don’t lend themselves to meeting anyone to spend the rest of my life.

[@Flywithcraig]

Love this episode. Would enjoy you and Gordon Ramsey having a chat!

[@Sassybusiness69]

I'm such a huge fan!

[@DrDianeThompson]

These interviews contain life-changing information. Thank you.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

🙏🏽🤍

[@AmritaBhortake]

Steven, thank you so much for such insightful interviews. This made me dig deeper inside me and think about my priorities and why I made certain decisions in my life like getting off the status game treadmill to go after my dreams. Absolutely loved this!

[@Viralvideo_club]

One of my favourite authors! The status game was bloody eye opening

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Great to hear. Thanks for listening 🙏🏽

[@jaidipvalvi4403]

Should I read that Book or interview is enough for curiousity please tell me what should I do??

[@Viralvideo_club]

@@jaidipvalvi4403 Deffo read the book

[@Ctrl_Alt_Elite]

Competition is bad for your business but good for the consumers.

[@Mintolics]

Great stuff really enjoyed listening to this and wrote down a lot about this. Really changed some of my thoughts and the way I perceived things. Thank you Steven.

[@loza87]

Amazing interview, one of the best on the channel

[@poppy63071]

I would love to see an interview with Conna Walker, she started her business house of CB at 17 with £3000 and it’s now a multi million pound brand!

[@chiliman2073]

This blew my mind.

[@thenumber1kidd811]

I laugh a lot when I see people and you can tell they think you are in awe of them, but it couldn’t be any more opposite! I am interested in the status part of this conversation (I’m only half way through right now!)

[@mildscoliosis2436]

Matthew Perry lives

[@bakeraus]

Shout out to your editor for the intro, amazing

[@mrGapMan1]

"Just telling men you should learn to cry, is not fair and not smart" "How could we help men in an male friendly way" Finaly some sound sentences around this topic.

[@benfel9403]

This is ringing soooo many bells, wow, thank you for this. On a lighter note, re the VW in the snow, owning a MK 4 Golf with 4wd it is pretty breathtakingly capable in the snow :)

[@advancedbasicsAB]

Hi Steven, would love to see you interview Tim Ferris and Joe Rogan

[@SocialAnxietyandBeyond]

Didnt realise his book was right in front of me , i bought it after a recommendation from a previous guest

[@gingertomm__]

loved this!

[@hassanabib7589]

Thank you Steven 💜

[@clairemockett]

Totally get the variations of 'ourselves'. Try adding the menstrual cycle on top of the Monday vs Friday versions and values. 😅

[@surferjae27]

I like this one 👌🏽👌🏽 thank you much to ponder on ✨✨

[@jazzy3064]

Creating your own alter-ego rival to get on in life

[@jazzy3064]

...he usually sucks, still fantasizes about starting that company, making cold calls, getting customers, publishing self-promoting LinkedIn posts about how expert he is... - and you can always treat him like dogshit

[@shimbamarketing52]

Will mentioned a few names and their books or study, please add that list on the summary.

[@bens1903]

This ones going to be good, im going in !

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Let me know what you think!

[@veronica2764]

But I love living alone for 20 years! I will get sick if I live with someone else! I don’t believe loneliness kill, the opposite it’s true- being in a relationship with someone wrong for you can kill u.

[@hayden1364]

So crazy when he said he is from tunbridge wells, I also grew up in tunbridge wells. What a shock that was lol. Ps, nice new studio 😉

[@amc4473]

It's not STATUS, it's STATUS.

[@diddy558]

"The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom." Religion doesn't stop you from being successful . Be a complete person!

[@thisrandomdude_]

ok diddy558.

[@wearelikethetreesofcherryb2960]

Thankyou Steven : keep this to yourself 😉

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

🤍

[@brookanteneh4274]

Just Wow.

[@hayden1364]

New studio check 😉 the real fans will notice

[@JackdawLifts]

Really good.

[@JackdawLifts]

I alwaysssss confuse STAYTUS with STAHTUS lol. And I think this makes sense, why I have a job interview at a cool london bodybuilding gym tomorrow…. 3.5 hours away from me. But it’s like eek. I’ve been working out at my parents place for 3 years. Lol. And before that some basic commercial gym. But yes! Change your circumstances! I’ve done so much work on myself. But NOTHING HAS MANIFESTED So I must commit to this lol

[@annabelleearly4460]

Can we get Michael Marmot on the podcast?👀

[@davidlakhter]

looking forward to this!

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Let me know what you think David!

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

35:00 - Book recommendation

[@theviewfinder8923]

When the habits of fear residing in others are experienced to dominate the fear we have within, anger serves to protect ignorance, for, we have given the fear within others the architecture landscaping our world, a world easily and frequently orientated to conflict, war, and destruction as protection is driven by a seemingly ever divisive fearful aggressive foe. ~ Lama Perhaps this quote points to different types of anger given one's motivation. If it is from a place of love it may be considered virtuous, in such a case perhaps the term anger would be better said as wrathful energy.

[@ralucaenache]

I disagree with the comment that we cannot fully overcome mechanisms that emerged in response to trauma. Neuroscientists talk a lot about the plasticity of the brain - it's literally like creating new pathways in your mind. I'm not saying it's easy or that there are quick fixes, but it's definitely possible. Maybe get Huberman or Lisa Feldman Barrett on the podcast for insights on this topic. Great episode nonetheless!

[@percyponders]

remarkable chat

[@JoanneWhitlock]

Re business storytelling, have you read story brand by Donald Miller too?

[@olukemiayodele9127]

Thank you Steve for asking how to be Monday person on Friday. I am try to lose weight, doing well Monday to Friday, come weekend, I lose control.

[@bikecameraaction3334]

'Religion is a virtue game' Not true! When you can and do genuinely put God ahead of everyone and everything, none of this obsession with status, material success, etc., matter. This is a deep misunderstanding of faith. His theories are all 'self' based. Want to feel good about yourself? Do good for other people and expect nothing in return. This isn't a virtue game. It's a humility and love game.

[@artandculture5262]

Lots of religious people use self-righteousness as a status for judgment. You can be as immaterial as your idealistic list and run into status based judgmental Christians. Have you run into that?

[@rDroneHQ1789]

I get the feeling I need a notepad for thisnine

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

3:10 - 2Cor 4:4

[@thesilverphist6483]

I turned it all around after being crushed as a kid , still a bit mental though

[@Sassybusiness69]

❤️

[@joeroganjosh8600]

No english Captions ???

[@benhounslow9980]

Steven I've watched everyone and commented on everyone.. Its my dream to meet you and see one of these lives. Please make my dream happen bro c

[@felenti4956]

ambrose mendy next please

[@chellemartin3271]

That status theory is absolute nonsense. I think the higher the status the more likely you are to die, because status is an unhealthy position to try and hold onto. Status does not determine health, knowledge is the game changer of a lot of things. If you understand the purpose of a thing you will use it correctly, If you don't you'll abuse it. Success is measured upon forming understanding of the purpose of something.

[@abdullahiali319]

Well its a theory and theories are only proven fact when they are replicated by many people so try it for yourself before speaking on it then report back

[@chellemartin3271]

@@abdullahiali319 oh I have, there's no virtue in poverty nor richness, because true happiness is all about one's state of mind.

[@abdullahiali319]

@@chellemartin3271 fair play 👌🏾

[@craigmalcom6294]

U interpreted status incorrectly. If u HAVE Status then then it’s beneficial to you. If you don’t have it and keep striving for it then that’s when it’s not beneficial

[@plugsocket1]

A good episode but some of his assumptions and extrapolations from referenced studies could have done with a more robust challenge. I am not sure they would all hold up. A good talking point though

[@bob1881]

5:11 "it's very hard, and probable I would argue, probably impossible to reverse 18 years of that kind of feedback (trauma)." Unless you undergo 🍄 therapy.

[@bunnypong64]

Tell this to Steve Job🙈🙈🙈

[@JahinShahriar]

Waiting for Andrew Huberman Morgan Housel James Clear Cal Newport In this podcast 🤩

[@lukebrown8580]

The more successful you are the longer youll live? Steve jobs?

[@kneelb4me]

RIP Steve Jobs

[@room9podcast]

Who the hell wants to live longer? ( I only read the title)

[@tanakamawere]

His book Heretics claims creationists are "enemies of science". I am a scientist and never have I seen how creation and science don't mix. If anything, one can't make sense without the other. I don't like how such guests like him try to make the false dichotomy exist between science and creation when they play into each other.

[@ian-haggerty]

Unapologetically click-baity title. Will Storr deserves better.

[@rDroneHQ1789]

Oooh this one got juicy

[@bigdaddyfilmmaker]

Steve Jobs.

[@advancedbasicsAB]

And Andrew yang and a=Andrew hubermann!

[@justsean6199]

I bet if you kept trying and failing, you would live longer too.

[@jedidiahwayne9786]

Clever 😂😂

[@tanakamawere]

I laughed. This man said he has a book on why smart people believe "crazy" things like creation. If he truly was as introspective as he sounds, he should be asking why smart people dismiss creation and existence of God when they believe they have become "too smart" for such.

[@thisrandomdude_]

I know this is 2 years old but "creationist" refers to people who think the earth is 7000 years old and stuff like that. which it provably isn't. a lot of creationists afaik go as far as to say dinosaurs are a hoax, or assert that scientists' methods are flawed without really looking into it. that's the kind of group he was talking about

[@emmagleave8117]

You should always have the food in the house to take away the 'deprivation' feeling. Value what he says in his field - don't think he is educated enough to talk about 'diet' xx

[@AMSKW-]

The Andrew tate affect