THIS Is What Women Actually Want From Men… | The Orgasm Expert

[@BrothaSchwifty]

I think the reason penetrative sex is seen as the least favorite part of sex for a good amount of women is because most men either skip or rush foreplay. The better the fore play, the more receptive a woman is to penetrative sex and she’ll enjoy it as much or even more than the foreplay or even oral sex imo

[@anwa6169]

Thank you. YES.

[@naturandmor]

Exactly but this lesbian expert does not like penis 😂

[@pamm8608]

Not just foreplay, but they definitely have to know what to do with "it" once it's in there.

[@valdius85]

1st thing would be attention. Husbands can feel when a wife is not paying attention and her mind is something else.

[@fionadale1011]

A lesbian tells us what women want from men. You couldn't make it up 😂

[@Darth_Bateman]

Literally 2024.

[@marieo5417]

A lesbian might know what women want better than most others...? 🤔😎 but I don't even know that she's lesbian... many other possibilities... bisexual, asexual, heterosexual... it's actually irrelevant... she's an academic... 📚 never judge a book by its cover 🤓

[@markgriffiths409]

@sandrasphereexactly 👌😆

[@Darth_Bateman]

@sandrasphereso basically, he did absolutely nothing wrong and is legally and morally blameless.

[@Darth_Bateman]

@@marieo5417an academic writing theory about sex….? And you buy that? That’s got to be one of the scams of all time.

[@robotman011]

Couldn’t women just tell men what they want? We shouldn’t even have to guess.

[@MyrnaDeJesus]

You being with women that don't communicate their needs and desires with you is an invitation for you to strengthen your communication as well and to have an open dialogue with one another. We're all, by nature, a communicative species but we must exercise that ability and strengthen it with one another because we've all endured trauma that hinders our ability to express our needs.

[@AceKite00]

@@MyrnaDeJesus With my last one night stand, i asked her what she likes and she straight said "I still haven't found what i really like." So I just did what I wanted. There's no way she slept around as much as she has and still "doesn't know". So no, women oftentimes ARE NOT communicative.

[@MyrnaDeJesus]

@@AceKite00 She did communicate. That sounds like it was an invitation to explore together and an opportunity to communicate further. She was straightforward about not knowing precisely what she prefers-- just because she didn't know doesn't mean she didn't communicate.

[@flowerpower7308]

​@@AceKite00Why the hell would she have night stands if she is not interested in sex?! 🤦‍♀️

[@GaMEChld]

​@@MyrnaDeJesus"That sounds like..." Sounds like guesswork to me; that would be an example of what men would call poor communication. If she was saying what you thought she was saying, why didn't she just say that?

[@hightierplayers2454]

@2:00 "all genders"? Yeah, that's all I needed to hear to know for sure this is no expert of anything.

[@ajluvzlondon4214]

"we don't have to get all of our sexual needs met by that one person..." advice from a couples therapist!

[@naturandmor]

And lesbian as well 😂

[@tonys4396]

@@naturandmor I do NOT believe that this thing has sex with ANYONE, Male OR female. My plumber is better than this thing

[@internetFan1]

Her understanding comes from "studies and surveys", but she is wrong e. g. about "only the clit". There are orgasms from G spot & A spot, and also there is other female orgasm from anal penetration, all of which are much more intense compared to the clitoral orgasm. She should read more, and try more.

[@Sky10811]

exactly. well done squirt is amazing

[@MissionOfInnerGrowth]

One day you hopefully will be mature enough to give a shit about what women’s want and just live your life in piece and happiness with or without a woman.

[@marieo5417]

I thought this was an excellent podcast, actually... I listened to it all, in the words of the late, great George Michael, without prejudice. She was very good and I send her happiness, warmth and joy in the small hope of countering some of the uptight meanness going on here. Sex is natural, sex is fun... 🎶 this woman's done her work, more strength to her 💜

[@Vivi_9]

It was an excellent episode there's just too many incel viewers who get triggered whenever their dumb opinions aren't validated

[@ivandansigmun3891]

Women fail to communicate their needs. Tell me what you like, what you want.

[@inevitablesadness1624]

I beg to differ, it's actually Men who fail to communicate especially if they are in a long term relationship

[@bluesEvanskro]

@@inevitablesadness1624 I’m awful at communicating my feelings, for ages me and my ex were talking she just wanted me as a friend and I still had feelings, I eventually told her last week how I still felt and it turns out she’s been shagging another guy and now me and her are not speaking at all anymore😂

[@Darth_Bateman]

@@inevitablesadness1624 Look, inevitablesadness. . . .This might be your experience? But most men experience the following: Communicating their needs only to be looked down on, and then have what they say completely and utterly spoken over by a woman. Case and point : What you are doing right now. Women tend to experience a common experience in regards to men, because of it a movement started. But somehow so many of you fail to understand that men tend to experience a common experience with women, and will argue that you are the exception even if that completely misses the point.

[@vcom2327]

What she says women prefer has not been my experience at all. Sorry

[@pixie3458]

Agreed

[@oliviasmith5888]

Me too!

[@eastafrika728]

The big detail missing here is that it doesn't matter what kind of sex you have, it's still just stimulating the same nerves, same brain region, giving the same sensation, there is no different sensation for different acts of stimulation, no matter how good or bad the sex, it's just the same sensation all the time. It's like drinking different types of alcohol seeking a different high, when it's just the same one. Even if you have tonnes of sex, it's still the same sensation, then it ends, the same way, all the time. The difference only comes with respect and empathy for the other person.

[@valdius85]

“The happy wife school” - I recommend her channel for no BS about sex. What people say does not mean it’s what needs to be done to actually make things better.

[@BoHror933]

How come she has not one wife on stream? Woman? Where are these wives she schools? She i just letting some truth spill out to tickle the male fantasy of sex and marriage. None of her talk and sayings can be actualized in reality.

[@P83-o2k]

Women whine as they don't get what they want but they assume men can read their minds. Tell your man what you want he will do it most likely. The issue is every women is different so if he tries what he has done with another women may not work for you so tell him if you can't get off its your communication issue not his lack of ability.

[@echase416]

It’s not mind reading. It’s Anatomy.

[@ntshaupamojela259]

​@@echase416 don't bother. They won't listen.

[@lorrainemarez9965]

Speak for yourself ( Sir or Madam) because you don’t know what you are talking about! 😂👎🏻

[@NuvoVision]

Simple Jack

[@loppan4534]

She seems okey 😎

[@duhsunnyday8590]

1:24 what she said is very important. If your girl isnt having sex with you, its because youre doing something wrong and her needs arent being met.

[@andylikesstuffchannel]

Learning is Life

[@Erhudreamer]

Speak for yourself sister. If women have issue with sexual relations, its usually do to sexual trauma, inappropriate fondling during child and teenage years.

[@natalia1045]

Yes but no, I am married and it took us many years to have a great sex due to the childhood abuse from my close relative. But the love and loyalty of my husband cure that. I don’t think I would ever had a great sex if I was not faithful to one man. It would add up on that trauma because like I said it took us many years of patience and unconditional love.

[@calculatedrisk1]

@4:44- You’ve got to be trolling with that statement lol… Specifically when it comes to this episode…

[@hughjanis6439]

Speaking of really bad hair cuts.🤣

[@TakkieMidas]

That is irrelevant

[@leventpasha]

Glad you have posted 10 mins.of this. Well there are huge variables here that can affect your sexual behaviour, starting from your accestors, to your fetus life, to your childhood traumas, to your last week environment and experience, to your last second of metabolism includance. W/e this topic can not be generalized even thinking about anatomy variance. Yet she has a book to solve all the issues. That stinks. I honestly recommend to start with Robert M. Sapolsky's Behave to understand this issue knowing better about all around our behavioral mechanics. Imho she is waste of time with that categorical thinking. World and life is not a form buckets instead a yet uncomprehensable equation of chaos. We can not yet sterilize the subjects of behaviour. We are merely begining to understand it, and generalizing issues is the worst handicap ahead of us. James Gleick's Chaos might also be better to understand the delay we are having with statistical approach, specification and ignorance of wholistic approach. Well... Sorry for long post hope it helps, and hope I can see Sapolsky here as a guest one day.

[@larry_saytee]

??????

[@dr.thaliaw9881]

She’s a very smart lady. Nice job with this one!!🎉

[@felipegabriel348]

😂😂😂

[@gtd65]

I must be living in a parallel universe, based on this talk? Do other people not actually communicate and talk about their turn ons or desires? I've had multi-orgasmic women aplogise to me about me only getting one climax vs several or continuous orgasms on their part.

[@Thehulkster375]

It’s not only about women. I am so sick of hearing the minor complaints coming from women constantly

[@willpower3367]

UHH NO...