1. Babies sleep a lot 2. Light matters 3. Wake window is 45-90 minutes 4. Keep baby awake when eating 5. Nap lengths vary 6. Try to have a schedule, kind of 7. Look for sleep cues to keep baby from getting overtired 8. Use your support 9. The five S’s - swaddle, shush, sway, side/stomach, suck 10. Just survive the first two weeks
@cdw2222 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@ericklee93282 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Too much filler into
@tricia.b.2 жыл бұрын
Sound machine
@aquilaingridmeulio9415 Жыл бұрын
Im looking forward to the number 10
@ashleylee7630 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, you just saved me 20 minutes to find out that they have 6 tips, 3 stating of facts, 1 of the tips is assuming that people have a "village" when the truth of today is that most don't, and then telling people to ride it out...
@mirandalopez26402 жыл бұрын
So nice to know that I'm not the only one who is just surviving. So emotional because I never know when I'm doing a good job or not.
@dinosauhr2 жыл бұрын
I have a 1 month old and just wanted to comment from one mama to another - you’re doing GREAT! One quote that stuck with me is, “the very fact that you worry about being a good mom means that you already are one”. As long as baby is fed and you’re fed, you did great today. 😊
@litht.39912 жыл бұрын
I feel you! 😔
@Sbs3492 жыл бұрын
I feel you! It’s so hard when you’re in survival mode and you feel like everything is going wrong
@matiascarvalho94242 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are dying haha 1 week boy (first one).
@Sbs3492 жыл бұрын
@@matiascarvalho9424 I’m on week three with baby boy, first also. Hang in there it gets easier
@anae71352 жыл бұрын
Just had baby #4- I’ve learned that the first few weeks go by in a flash like a fever dream. & to trust your instincts. Almost always swaddle that newborn baby. Their hands have a mind of their own and they will swipe their little faces and wake up. Night time feeds/changes- try to change them with your phone flashlight on so it’s not as bright and doesn’t fully wake the baby up. *pro tip* Mamas- tuck your baby’s muslin blanket underneath your shirt so it’s on your skin and gets your scent on it good, and when sleep training swaddle your baby in that blanket so baby can smell you at night and feel comforted.
@kooltv77449 ай бұрын
Dad here and his first baby boy I have a mother that knows what she is doing but when it comes to me I start to get sad and maybe irritated a lot of emotions because he keeps crying with me. I’m trying to learn and this video made me feel better I hope in the future I become a great dad and just want to get better with newborns.
@imani65473 ай бұрын
Just walk away for 10 minutes if he is safe
@BabySleepAids2 ай бұрын
try white noise on youtube
@Truthpursuit20152 жыл бұрын
Great tips. Third baby, and I still need reminded every time I’m in the newborn phase! For those struggling to swaddle because baby doesn’t like it. What I thought this time, is how baby cries for a little while in a car seat, but then almost ALWAYS sleeps amazing once you’re driving and their all cozy in their seat. Swaddling is the same, they fuss for a bit, you walk and sway for a while and then they are out. I would mentally “drive” my baby around while rocking them crying a bit in the swaddle, and within a few minutes he was out; just like car rides. Lots of mental things help mama to just get to the next nap; it’s rough!
@TheDoctorsBjorkman2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on baby #3 and thank you SO MUCH for sharing your pro-tips with our viewers here!! We so appreciate it and hope you all are getting some sleep!
@janemkade34883 ай бұрын
Wonderful content for New mums thanks for sharing
@theaburtofamily93982 жыл бұрын
Being a new mama this helped so much! I wish I saw this video sooner. Our baby girl is 2 weeks old and I’m so glad to know I’m not the only one feeling like survival mode.
@ep021056 ай бұрын
So helpful for parents who have just had a baby or are expecting one i still remember the feeling in the womb
@kimb92872 жыл бұрын
Zipper swaddles are life savers!! My son broke out of regular swaddles and velcro ones. Zipper ones are easier to use and easier to keep baby in. It was a game changer for sleep!
@israelvillarreal19072 жыл бұрын
One of the biggest things I’m noticing with my 3 day old baby is he is not sleeping at night. A lot of thoughts come to mind such as if I am doing a good job or a bad job. Fight those thoughts other parents because your baby is dependent on you and you can’t afford those thoughts!! The fact you worry means you care !!! We all got this !
@SaifAlBasri3 жыл бұрын
For sleep deprived parents, skip the beginning, and move right to 00:03:26 @TDB, thank for the episode
@alexandra_d12102 жыл бұрын
Thnk you!!!
@hemalatha3852 жыл бұрын
thanks
@TheEnchantedKitchen2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@melindamercier6811 Жыл бұрын
This needs to be bumped up to the top for these parents’ well-being. 😂
@lucypage12935 ай бұрын
week one with new little girl, loves to be awake 2am-5am, occasionally hard to get down for a nap. I keep reminding myself it's only week one !
@elisanansel29772 жыл бұрын
You’re advice gives so much comfort and help us to feel not alone as new parents. My baby is the same he loves to be awake all night and we are just adjusting. Thanks! You guys are great people!
@3rdrated1702 жыл бұрын
Honestly, thank you for this I’m a first time father and I was really struggling. I decided to get organized and learn more as to what was going on with my baby I thought I was failing already as a father. This video really helped me.
@thelittlemermaid66452 жыл бұрын
Same here for me first baby 😀😀😀
@omomo20211 ай бұрын
Bravo! You’ll be a great father!
@lisadevries32252 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. The part that I recently discovered 1 month into having a newborn was the concept of wake windows and now it all makes sense why my baby has been so fussy during the day because she hasn’t been getting adequate sleep. I was under the impression I needed to stimulate her during the day and let her sleep at night and that was probably not a good thing. Yesterday, I started having her take more regular daytime naps and she’s like a new baby, much happier and alert during the wake windows
@jackiehernandez6718 Жыл бұрын
I thought the same as well
@amywendel2656 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are phenomenal! My daughter is a patient of Dr Sarah and finds so much comfort & compassion in her fertility care ❤. We prayer she & our son in law will need this video in the future to get their newborn to sleep. Thank you for your professionalism & real life advice!
@cluflu5831 Жыл бұрын
I'm on baby #3 and I still find so much reassurance in this!! Getting a baby to sleep well is hard work! Thank you for your encouragement!
@cluflu5831 Жыл бұрын
At the same time even now, I dont understand why babies need so much help with their sleep, since they were able to do it all by themselves for 9 months in utero😂 they should just continue doing what they've been doing😅😢
@BabySleepMusic-Real Жыл бұрын
@@cluflu5831 indeed I've been thinking the same ahahah
@kiera507527 ай бұрын
Great Video! Also teach baby the difference between day and night, One way to do that is put them in baby clothes during day and onesies at night.Made a big difference for me and my baby.I hope this helps someone :)
@granthughes827 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been bingeing your vids for the past 7 months… my wife is due in 2 months, you’ve been a huge help. Thank you!!
@joshellenblackwell65853 жыл бұрын
My baby is 7 weeks… what I’ve learned 1. Baby in crib from day 1 at home At night with a monitor in his own room. 2. When feeding/changing diapers at night keep it dark! 3. Sound machine 4. Moms please seek help and communicate with obgyn about post delivery anxiety/ depression. Burn out is real. Take it easy on yourself! You’ve got this.
@chelseyfulton98243 жыл бұрын
Love this video! My peanut just hit 2 weeks yesterday and we SURVIVED 🤩
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, congrats mama. Those first two weeks ain't no joke. Hope you are feeling like you are on the mend and loving new parenthood--it's been the most exhausting and rewarding thing we've done.
@misselle14303 жыл бұрын
Aaaww mine is 4 weeks and I promise you they start changing from now every single day ... everyday new growth .. smiles and noises n personality...
@fairuzfaatin68702 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Mine is going to hit 4 weeks in 3 days but this 3rd week has been brutal. He was so sweet and peaceful the first 2 weeks. My mom says he's going through a growth spurt so he's hungry and cranky.
@nieves_lol33982 жыл бұрын
I’m amazed on how much this video helped me ! I was worried that my baby wasn’t sleeping, and it was just this missing tips and tricks
@BabySleepAids2 ай бұрын
have you tried white noise?
@princessweeniehut3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I read 12 Hours by 12 weeks and our daughter has been sleeping through the night since she was 10 weeks and she is 13 weeks now. We started around 7/8ish weeks and it was hard but so worth it! It really worked for us.
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
Oh that's AMAZING!! I've read it twice now (once when I was pregnant, and again now that she is here). Did you breastfeed? She recommends spacing feeds to every 4 hours and I don't know if Cec will love that/if it's the same for breastfed babies!!
@princessweeniehut3 жыл бұрын
I was EBF up until 2 weeks ago (she was losing weight because I wasn't producing enough). We naturally got on the 4 hour in between feeds but I remember in the book that she said if you wanted to feed every 3 hours that's fine so that might work for you guys. Now that she is on formula obviously I can see exactly what she is getting but before that I would time every feed and they were pretty long feeds like 30 minutes. (We used the Huckleberry app to track everything and love it!) I understand the feeding schedule might not work for everyone but the daytime and nighttime tool boxes she writes about are SO helpful. Our daughter was able to self soothe completely on her own by 10 weeks. Now she is a champ!! We don't follow the schedule exactly with naps because I feel like my daughter needs more sleep during the day (or else she is cranky pants). All this say do what is best for y'all!! I know you are both wonderful loving parents!!!
@Jesikaj22 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your channel my whole pregnancy. Thank you so much for all of your advice! I'm so glad you made this video because after days of our 2 week old staying up for 4+ hours we've successfully put her down to sleep 6 times now. Learning about the wake window , shhhushing and rocking have helped us tremendously. ❤️
@valerieknippel80112 жыл бұрын
Just had my 1st baby and he is now 8 days old. This video is amazing!! Thank you 💙
@BabySleepAids2 ай бұрын
white noise also helps a lot
@GBreez72 жыл бұрын
I love the candidness from 2. Thank you guys.
@MalikaBourne Жыл бұрын
Old Nurse: great-grandma...I'm loving you two sharing your experience and teaching.
@jennyc45513 жыл бұрын
Watching this while my newborn born today is in my arms finally 😌
@ericaburton3203 жыл бұрын
Congratulations mama
@ujku073 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to your lil one ❤️
@babysleepwell2 жыл бұрын
Congrats Mummy ❤️
@elisha29072 жыл бұрын
Aweee..🥰🥰🥰😘 im also waiting for my baby just one month to go..🤩
@Veronica-ht4nk3 жыл бұрын
I have a 9 month old who sleeps/naps very well now. I do look back to the newborn days with dismay at the many mistakes we made! Great advice in this video, we will certainly be doing things completely differently with baby number 2 when the time comes. The only tip I would add is to watch the room temperature, keep it as comfortable as you can and adjust layers on baby appropriately.
@khadeejaahsan45123 жыл бұрын
Great tips! I needed this refresher for my second. It was a little long for me - FYI play on 1.25x speed or more starting at 3:30 :)
@Kingatje3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the timestamp. Indeed way too long of an intro 🤭
@valeried72103 жыл бұрын
I'm due with my third in 2 weeks. These are great tips that I remember learning on my own. My first broke out of the swaddle but I wish someone had suggested Velcro or arms up swaddles or soothing after swaddling until baby relaxed because I think I gave up too quickly and then used baby furniture that was counter-productive (long story). I had post-partum anxiety and didn't know what was normal or not as far as sleep patterns. Love how these doctors explained those patterns succinctly yet realistically. I also remember changing diaper between sides or when baby woke up to increase wakefulness as a newborn. In later stages I would watch eyes droop and get them down for a nap before eyes completely closed. After that, the next stage was creating a more scheduled environment around 3-4 naps a day. Thanks for the video to remind me of skills I have learned and that I can do this again. 🙂
@Acoustribute2 жыл бұрын
It's great to hear about the wake windows. Our baby is 6 weeks old and mama is constantly worrying about how little he's awake but according to this he's totally following the wake windows.
@AnaLampWoman3 жыл бұрын
My first son slept so good and so long right from when we came home from the hospital, and I used to think newborns were “easy” and I never really felt sleep deprived, but then my second was tough! He cluster fed and never slept longer than 45 mins.... for MONTHS! 😖 I finally knew what other moms meant when they said newborns are a lot of work! Lol Now I’m expecting baby3, so we’ll see what this one has in store for me 🤷🏽♀️🥰 Thank you for sharing all these tips!
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
Good luck with number 3! Hopefully they sleep a little more like your firstborn did 🤞🏻
@valjetah3 жыл бұрын
My baby sleeps only on my hand and like to cluster feed too. I’m all day and night just breastfeeding and rocking my baby. It feels so hard and stressful. 🥺
@AnaLampWoman3 жыл бұрын
@@valjetah i hear ya, I used to tell my husband that I thought I was going crazy because I was so sleep deprived🥱 how old is your baby?
@valjetah3 жыл бұрын
@@AnaLampWoman one month old, I hope it will get better with time 🙏🏻
@AnaLampWoman3 жыл бұрын
@@valjetah yes! It will get better! The first few months can be tough getting into a good routine, but don’t forget to enjoy these moments too, they go by so fast and before you know it, they are toddlers and sometimes don’t even want to snuggle 🥺 Congratulations on your new baby!
@omomo20211 ай бұрын
OMG! I’m 44 and the nurse at the hospital told my mom to feed me only every 4 HOURS!! Needless to say I cried a lot.
@charlottestevenson35923 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I’m due in September with my first. It’s so helpful to hear real life experience from parents who also know what’s expected and considered “normal” medically as physicians! Your videos have made me feel less nervous and prepared with realistic expectations.
@erikapierce80402 жыл бұрын
This was incredibly helpful! I thought my baby hated the swaddle too but when I stopped swaddling his arms, I noticed he would only sleep for less than 2 hours at a time. I followed your advice and he was totally calm! I just had to be a bit more patient with it. My midwives had told me to keep baby awake during feeds but never actually explained why. So, I kept letting baby fall asleep and, like you, found I was constantly feeding. Thank you for explaining why it’s important to keep baby awake! I’m already noticing a difference.
@emilyrhyne753028 күн бұрын
Literally the best video for new moms
@TechMentorLouisville Жыл бұрын
Thank you all for your videos, my wife and I and our newborn baby have benefitted from your work. Thank you!
@nicolesanchez49543 жыл бұрын
Eat play sleep routine, and sticking to routine. That got my kids to sleep though the night early. And they were great sleepers and good about going to bed throughout their toddler years and beyond. “On Becoming Babywise” was the book I read and It worked liked a charm.
@elenaragazzo40743 жыл бұрын
Yes this. Baby wise book taught me this and my daughter has slept through the night since 3 months and she’s almost three now
@stephanniegonzalez94533 жыл бұрын
I’m literally taking notes that I don’t forget this information when baby comes (currently 22 weeks)
@daniellecoen83913 жыл бұрын
22 weeks too!! Good luck with everything!!
@ams2amm0823 жыл бұрын
I have a scheduled C-section in 1 week! And even though I have two older ones, it’s been a while, so I’m trying to soak in as much knowledge as I can that I may have forgotten. 😂
@shelbyhathaway66023 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’m 34 weeks and so excited for my little boy to get here!
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
You’re so close. Congrats!!!
@traceynelson21702 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video guys, you both sounds like typical new parents it's so lovely to hear you guys honesty aswell, these are great tips! I do some of them aswel ,this is my third baby and it's amazing lm so blessed this time round or myb because Im much calmer but baby girl is a great sleeper, since birth she sleeps alot and has really short but lovely awake times and could sleep 5 hours a night and 4 hours during the day she is six weeks and thriving living for her smiles and funny faces ,lm one happy mama
@imranmohammed81252 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing and very informative as well as reassuring video to say the least I think this video deserves an award. I have a newborn and I'm experiencing all these things, thank you guys very much
@lotusflower3146Ай бұрын
thank you for your videos, they have bee so helpful. Lol I love that you also are parents! It would be so cool if there were a channel with an OB mom, pediatrician Dad, and experienced infant/toddler nanny. Even though they may not be parents, some (good) nannies have been working for years and years with infant sleep schedules and have a wealth of knowledge and experience with newborn and infant sleep! Idk I was just thinking biw cool that would be, but anyhow, super love your videos and your advice is very valuable!
@kimbershark Жыл бұрын
I'm going through motherhood all over again with my 3 week old son. I have a 17 year old daughter, so I forgot just how exhausting the first few weeks really are 😩
@BabySleepAids2 ай бұрын
try white noise
@unerevuese2 жыл бұрын
Into our 2nd week and I feel like babies behavior changes everyday. Me and my husband have finally worked out a good sleep schedule. We are learning so mucb everyday.
@vassybaby166 ай бұрын
I know this is late but my first 2 months were absolute torture. We are at 4 months and things are so great now!
@elisareker60933 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another great video, doctors! My little Boy (5weeks) has always made long sleep and wake time streches. Usually he likes to sleep 3-5 hours (possible because of supplementing with formula for medical reasons) and be awake for 2+ hours in daytime. Once he is in "night mode" he sleeps great trough the night with frequent meals around every 4 hours. Our problem is that he can not fall asleep for naps in daytime despite of being tired. He really fights sleep. Do you have recommendations to help him fall asleep for naps?
@NikkeGTV2 жыл бұрын
This was so comforting to watch. 1st time mom and I am just getting by day after day. My baby is 2 weeks old. It has been a struggle to get some sleep
@timothyandersen15332 жыл бұрын
Nice to see two working physicians make time to share knowledge for free. It is very appreciated. Thanks!
@melissag04483 жыл бұрын
The problem isn’t putting them to sleep, it’s how to let them sleep on their own without waking up!!! Lol Currently holding my baby to sleep 💓💓she woke up after 15 min being down. it’s sweet, I love it but also wish I could do the pile of laundry over there 👀
@jennaom13 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. As someone who knows absolutely nothing about infants, this is exactly the kind of information I need as I prepare to give birth in a few months. I'm saving this video for future reference and to watch again with my husband.
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
Jenna! You are so welcome. So many congrats on your pregnancy--hope you are feeling well and we are so glad you find these helpful. Pregnancy and parenthood is a very steep learning curve, and we know we have appreciated all the pointers we have gotten along the way!
@brookebrowning4333 жыл бұрын
I just had my first baby last Wednesday and have found your videos SO helpful!! Definitely going to try out some things to get my little girl sleeping her best!
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
Oh congrats mama!! That first week is such a blur, I hope you are surviving and feeling a little more like yourself every day!! Enjoy all those sweet sweet newborn snuggles and yawns and hang in there!!
@MrLasettemontanez3 жыл бұрын
I am getting so nervous! I’m currently 35 weeks with my second daughter but my first is already 7 years old so I completely forgot about everything 😬 Your videos are helping me out so much 💕
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
You’re going to do great! We hear it’s like riding a bike (that just happens to cry, poop, and is sometimes fussy with feedings). Good luck mama!
@Vero.does.better3 жыл бұрын
My oldest was 6 when I had my second. My second is now 8, when I'm about to have my third. I know what you mean. Just research as much as you can on the topics you don't feel supper confident about
@sradreamdawn3 жыл бұрын
Great tips! But how do you know baby has had a full feeding? how can you know they are full? can you maybe do a video on that?
@natalievanallen57233 жыл бұрын
Watch baby for relaxed hands vs clenched fists. A full baby will relax their hands, while a hungry baby’s hands will be clenched or closed into fists.
@claracromey37973 жыл бұрын
The main sign is just that they have spent the right amount of time nursing! I think 10-15 minutes per breast is the average. You can also listen to make sure you hear swallowing, so you know they've been eating the whole time. Another possible sign is that they actively pull away when they're full, but that one is a little harder since some babies will keep suckling for comfort (but you would stop hearing swallowing). Long term signs are more obvious: weight gain, regular pees and poops, and longer and more regular naps. But, progress can also go out the window during a growth spurt haha. I would love to see a video on growth spurts!
@GGamygdalla3 жыл бұрын
You can tell babies are satisfied when they are relaxed
@melissag04483 жыл бұрын
You’ll be able to tell!! They usually latch away or push away breast/bottle. They’re also way calmer when full
@missjenn68613 жыл бұрын
@@natalievanallen5723 Clenched fist could also mean they are cold and not necessarily hungry.
@luceroxmilla2 жыл бұрын
New follower! 5 months pregnant and trying to prepare myself BEFORE he’s here hopefully I can apply all your tips!! Love your content
@TheLoveOfGodPodcast2 жыл бұрын
Haven’t finished watching the video but i already feel better; genuinely thought I was not doing something right
@rahuljain87218 ай бұрын
babies sleep better after 6-8 weeks, my 3 months old now sleeps 5 hours in one go at night. for reflex u can tilt the bed/mattress or add a folder below it to make it slightly elevated,
@thathautemama14523 жыл бұрын
This is SO helpful. We’ll be 30 weeks Wednesday and this has just eased 30 weeks of anxiety and me wondering how on earth I was going to care for a newborn baby. Thank you! And congratulations on your little one!
@evelyngomez49683 жыл бұрын
I’m 36 weeks first time mom having my husband watch this amazing video !! Getting nervous but honestly your video helped so much calm my anxiety ! Thank you so much !!!❤️😩
@rachelbrown80292 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am going on to week two
@TheDoctorsBjorkman2 жыл бұрын
You can do it! Those first couple weeks are a BLUR and all about survival. Just hang in there, don't be afraid to ask for help, and know that you WILL get sleep again!!!
@eriw28803 жыл бұрын
Hi, I just found your channel and I love the information that both of you provide for moms & babies. I’m a FTM 32 weeks pregnant with fraternal Twins. Could you do a video specifically on Twins and multiples & what might differ with delivery & postpartum. I’m kind of nervous about what to expect.
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
We’re so glad you found us! Twins are at a higher risk for preterm birth, which can sometimes be scary but you’ve already made it to 32weeks which is amazing!! We will gladly as this idea to our list of episodes to do, but would also recommend you check out our video on preterm birth. kzbin.info/www/bejne/m3zXaZiupKp6j7s
@ASMRKay_3 жыл бұрын
@N Russell how would you make a video about this? Just go to your dr and check your levels if you’re curious. It seems like a waste of time and money unless you’ve been trying for over a year which is what’s recommended. People get so hung up on things that don’t matter. You’d have better luck to stop stressing about these things and just enjoy the process.
@stacywallen52453 жыл бұрын
Due in February with #2 & I've done the "mom sway" ever since I was pregnant with my first 9 years ago 😂 It just became a habit. Thanks for the information, it's been a long time since I've had a newborn & I had very little information and support back then, so I'm taking in all the information I can find
@topperhatschire3 жыл бұрын
😍 I'm due with #2 in March and my 1st will be nearly 9 as well!
@chauhuynh78362 жыл бұрын
Really grateful for your educating channel! Qs: How loud can I play the white noise machine? They Come with 85dba Max, and I doubt 85dba is good for the little ears
@sophiazafeiropoulou84272 ай бұрын
Hello! Very informative video. My baby girl is 6 weeks old and from 4 weeks needs swinging to sleep and she only stays asleep in my arms. Whenever I leave her in her bassinet or on my bed for co sleeping she is awake. Any advice please. I need sleep!!
@luckydragon97793 жыл бұрын
Such amazing tips! One of my concerns with becoming a new mom is being able to get enough sleep for my husband, baby, and me when the little one arrives. Thank you!
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Having a supportive partner will be a HUGE help. Trading off between who was calming baby during sleepless stretches was the only way we’ve survived.
@misselle14303 жыл бұрын
Keep your bubba in your room or even sleep with them till 2 or 3 months. Your baby will benefit from it.
@yuliaandreyanova52 ай бұрын
Thank you beautiful people! So helpful!
@millidw80703 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I'm also a new and first time parent.
@PiaCyp3 жыл бұрын
Such a great video & tips! Thank you for sharing. We are just about to hit our three week mark, and we are survived & still surviving 🙌🏼 wish I saw this video from the time that we had him! The swaddling, we thought he hated it also, but it helps sooo much to calm him & get him to sleep easier & longer. We just came across the white noise, and combined with the swaddling, it works wonders!
@mandianderson53483 жыл бұрын
Loved this (and all) video(s). Due in 5 weeks with my first and trying to absorb all the information I can. Love that y’all not only have the medical knowledge but are now having real hands on experience as well. Also, kudos to you for posting with a newborn!!! I’ve been debating getting the snoo or not. Loved hearing that y’all chose not to.
@TheDoctorsBjorkman3 жыл бұрын
So glad you found our videos and that you like them so much!! Thanks!
@christyleslie64663 жыл бұрын
@@TheDoctorsBjorkman I'd love to hear why you decided against the Snow as well- currently debating as is Mandi it seems!
@natasjailnyckyj2674 Жыл бұрын
@@christyleslie6466 Personally i want it so badly but its just a huge investment even to rent it for 6months lol. I'm still gonna get it though. but the price is silly!
@keepitdreamysleepcoaching95242 жыл бұрын
It really does get better with time. And help!
@amandatango69582 жыл бұрын
This was SO incredibly happy! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge as well as your experience to help parents and babies !!
@worlddreaminstitute44272 жыл бұрын
It is worth to consider white noise. White and pink noise facilitating long, deep and healthy sleep are of particular importance for children. There is no absolute silence in the mother's womb. Various sounds reach the fetus - voices, music, and even the sound of flowing blood. Through the amniotic fluid and the specific environment in the mother's body, all sounds that reach the fetus appear as white noise. After giving birth, such a sound makes the baby feel safe and confident. This noise reminds the baby of the conditions in the mother's belly. In the case of newborns and infants, white noise will work not only during sleep. It is also worth using it to soothe and calm a crying baby.
@stevewilliams29382 ай бұрын
Great video guys, thank you so much
@BluFabie2 жыл бұрын
Can you mention timeframes for preemies too? It’s hard to know what we can use and what we shouldn’t. Thanks!
@daniellecase67743 жыл бұрын
Thank you I am 25 weeks and worried about the sleeping!
@xvz95he Жыл бұрын
Curious to see what advice is available to make infant/baby more comfortable on their back. Ours like napping etc on us or on her tummy (as we keep an eye) but on her back she is restless very quickly.
@anniecchigoziee75913 жыл бұрын
Wow its so good to see you guys again
@Michelle-x5l2 жыл бұрын
Ah this was great! Awesome, super helpful! You missed one though.. maybe you don't know about it yet! Go learn and tell the world! My tip is something I learned from a guest speaker on Oprah on KZbin! Here it is: newborns have a universal language based on body reflex noises! If you listen very closely, you can hear the different cries! Neh, eh, Heh, awh,.. maybe 2 or 3 others. Go check this out! My sister has a newborn and can definitely hear the different cries, and addressing them faster means a happy baby, and less screaming-at-the-top-of-their-lungs scenarios. I also enjoyed "the wonder weeks" about how some weeks are just hard, awful, because the baby is going through a growth spurt and heading into a new stage. These weeks are predictable and knowing them helps soothe the parent when the week seems like nothing is going well. Maybe there's a reason!
@PrettyInBlues Жыл бұрын
FTM here! My little guy is just 5 weeks and we just stretched his feeding to every 4 hours for night time feeds. He has to be woken up to be feed. Should I be letting him sleep more or should I stick with what I am doing? Want to do what’s best for him
@Nlyoungblood1 Жыл бұрын
2nd time mom, my first was a preemie and he NEVER slept. He was incredibly fussy. Eight years later I am on baby #2 and thought I was far better prepared. Unfortunately turns out I apparently just suck at baby sleep because my girl actually is up also from 2am all the way until 7am and I am exhausted since I have to get out the door by 8am. I read a book by Polly Moore regarding baby sleep in which she also focuses on the 90 min cycles. She is just 4wks old as I am ebf and the cluster feeding has wrecked me. She has reflux though so it is a eat, spew everything, cry and repeat during those night hours. Her pediatrician told me yesterday to pump into a bottle and add a tsp of cereal to keep it down. Hoping that and these tips help us. I get her naked down to her diapers while feeding.. she still falls asleep however lol.
@jonsutyautomotiverepair19932 жыл бұрын
These helped massively thanks
@tommac21Ай бұрын
This is terrific. Im glad it worked for your baby. But that doesn't mean it will work for all if any.
@CosmicNomad3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you both on your first child! Expecting our first child in around a month. As soon as we see one of your videos uploaded, we click on it! And we appreciate and trust the advice coming from you as you are both professionals/ doctors! 🙏 Please keep these meaningful videos coming!
@TwilaNkombo2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this video it's really helpful
@bellamyr80753 жыл бұрын
This is a non related question… my obgyn (who is amazing and helped me so much throughout pregnancy and labor) is pregnant and I really want to give her something nice, but as a obgyn I’m sure she’s getting lots of presents from her patients. I don’t know what’s appropriate. Any suggestions?
@lauralamas17442 жыл бұрын
Can you show us what kind of swaddles you used for your baby and the white noise machine that has helped you?
@sarahmorales9882 жыл бұрын
In terms of safety for sleeping, what are your thoughts on a bassinet vs. a crib in those early months? Is there any difference as long as you keep it empty while baby sleeps in it?
@7gozman2 жыл бұрын
Hei doctors, can you do a video for the 4+ months old baby regarding sleeping tips? Tired mommy here
@laurawainwright8398 Жыл бұрын
We get told in the UK not to swaddle as it can increase SIDS
@BexHambly3 жыл бұрын
Hi, I have a 7day old baby who is feeding well and sleeping a lot. She is being breast-fed. I was wondering if you had any tips on getting her to sleep in the crib/bassinet? She currently sleeps very well on her parents but when you put her down in the bassinet, she will start screaming after only a few minutes and we have to begin calming her again. I really would like her to sleep in the bassinet as it is the lowest chance of SIDS.
@olga.a.k2 жыл бұрын
Guys, you two are a-ma-zing!! Stumbled upon your videos, and I think I'm gonna go through all of them.
@eswaranbalakrishnan29902 жыл бұрын
Great video. Very informative and helpful for a first time dad like me.
@TheDoctorsBjorkman2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Anything to get a fellow parent some extra sleep!!
@beautyspeakswithin23552 жыл бұрын
Can u do a video on formula feeding like everything one needs to know from how much to give to how to feed to when not to give Im interested
@LittleDreamStories Жыл бұрын
Great advices, thank you
@kirakatie22611 ай бұрын
This helped so much thank you
@nayamo8828 Жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. Thank you 😊
@xo.Frenchie2 жыл бұрын
I had my little boy 5 yrs ago and just gave birth to a newborn 2 weeks ago. She was doing great the 1st week. Until she started crying a lot while being swaddled. She loves to sleep with her arms up. Also she sweats a lot. So I don't swaddle her anymore. But she wakes up every 1 1/2 now 🥲 I'm going to use those tips. Hopefully it works!
@alicemcfry2 жыл бұрын
I’d really recommend the ‘love to dream’ swaddles. They let you swaddle with babies arms up. My LO won’t sleep in anything else!
@hello71982 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on sleep training? Baby is 3.5 months and I’m really struggling. Some say I should switch to formula but I don’t want to. Wakes up every 3-4 hours now soemtimes doesn’t even seem to want to feed
@simplyaizhanАй бұрын
What time is considered day and night? When is best to start night-time routine
@mittenmoon48433 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Hope everyone gets a little more sleep having watched this information.