DATING WOMEN OVER 30 IN THE PHILIPPINES / What Do Filipinas Look For?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@guyandre4946]

“The Filipina Pea produces a kind of pleasure which human nature cannot do without” Confucius. (And I 😉) .

[@Ed19601]

3 lovely ladies. Wil leave more comment later

[@philgee1749]

Ready to mingle with the 30's crowd 🥰 seems they want out of Philippines I want in 😷 🤔

[@derryljenkins7345]

ok miss pea what's your story where is your man if you don't have one want one and the lady in the black white dress pretty miss pea your pretty too

[@lk-yk9hg]

Wow, I would really love a chance to know more about Dianne, I think she's amazing. Pea, hook us up!!!!

[@francoisdreesen9684]

Married my filipina when she was 30. Now 21 years later she is still my wife and i never regret a singel moment...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️

[@kawasaket]

Just out of curiosity, did you take your wife back to your home country or did you move to the Philippines? I have heard a few stories of acquaintances bringing their new wives back to Canada (where I'm from) and within a couple years they decide to divorce and found another husband with more money in Canada. Not saying they all do it, but have heard horror stories and since they look out for their family more than their loyalty to their original foreigner husband (in many circumstances) and until they remarry the husband has to look after her finances regardless if they are together or not.

[@This-Aint-No-Disco]

@@kawasaket , sounds like he found the wrong female from the east. I don't want to make it a Filipina thing but given some of their stories and circumstances? Not all of them are only worried about true love.

[@リミ-e1q]

@@kawasaket Just find another when she leaves

[@normanflint8757]

@@kawasaket sometimes it's not just the bucks,they realize they snagged a cranky older dude, maybe they don't feel 💓 and there's more options in the West 🇨🇦🙏..

[@lobo81865]

I'm 56 and my Filipina wife is 35. Despite the age difference we have been happily married for 5 years and the issue hardly ever comes up. She is now a citizen and is in respiratory therapy school--top of her class.

[@georgeplaxton3067]

A friend took his Filipina wife to the UK. Because of lock down his work almost dried up.She became a carer and the breadwinner, he was angry that his wife was sending a small amount home to her parents. Westerners should realise families are important and should not be ignored.

[@jamesmoore1341]

Family first

[@larrymcintosh1481]

Idk everyone should know this and respect it

[@englundus]

That would be a topic I would want to discuss with her if I was about to marry someone who is originally from outside the USA.

[@scottsammons7747]

Any future spouse should recognize her husband as her family, as first. Not much talk amongst your guests as to what they owe to their new family when they marry. They shouldn't tolerate being put behind his mother, siblings, or adult children, neither should he. No woman should have to be treated to a bros before hoes attitude. Any man shouldn't have to see his coffers emptied for all of her cousins, neighbors, and friends. I don't know how Catholic marriage ceremonies go there, but the admonition to cleave from all other attachments is foundational to conservative moral values.

[@StrifeDaWize]

facts

[@ericbown1551]

The overwhelming sense is how down to earth Filipina’s are and grounded. Filipina’s have a romanticised view that harps back to yesteryear, intelligent and articulate. Foreign guys that find there Filipina princess are truly blessed. I’m blessed to have found mine ..Love K ♥️ xx

[@barrywebber100]

When my filipina wife and I married she was 32 and I was 34, next year we will have been married 30 years! :-) She is the best thing to have happened in my life and I hope she will say the same about me! The years have just flown by and I love her and desire her now the same as when we met. We have 2 beautiful grown up daughters who are wonderful and our best achievement in life! Thanks for posting Pea.

[@WildMidwest1]

My favorite quote comes from Dianne at 15 minutes: “When you are going to choose [one of] us, then you are going to choose the whole clan, the whole family.” Truer words were never spoken. Think it through, guys!

[@markplimsoll]

Nuclear Family - one of humanity's worst inventions. Girls become mothers at 15, yet brains don't mature until close to 30, so obviously GRAND PARENTS SHOULD BABYSIT to keep teen parents from hurting their children.

[@smashy_smasherton]

This is my major fear. I never had much of a family and me marrying someone with a big family and the attention that comes with it is fairly daunting.

[@geekane9462]

@@markplimsoll I think you mean 24 when the frontal cortex fuses and they start to understand long term consequences and realize they're not immortal

[@MrJento]

Now guys! Anthropology shows us that the nuclear extended family is the key reason that our genus Homo is not extinct. Survival, in the long run and the short, is a game for the whole family. But this system of breaking down. In America it’s being attacked by feminism and guys “going their own way”. The family and thus stable society is falling apart. In the Philippines the same thing is happening, except they guys are out in front of the gals. For a verity of reasons the guys are bums. Shacked up, fathering kids, but afraid of marriage. The ladies carry the load, with the help of family. Then Mr Foreigner shows up with some cash. The ladies are attractive and attracted. But if you just escaped your ex wife and the legal system in the US, then a no-divorce legal code and close extended family unit looks real scary. But my main point is men are wired to care for a family. The lone wolf in the end has guilt, and dies alone. Fox out.

[@CindysBisvlog]

Its not true to some filipina , i married a foreigner but never tell to my husband to marry my clan ...i work my ass to send money to my fmily for my bilss ,never ask money from my husband and oh my husband dont have a penny . And i have friends too who dont let their husband married the whole clan it depend on the filipina

[@tonyedna1]

I'm dating a Filipina over 30 and I couldn't be happier. She is everything I ever wanted and more

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Excellent, Tony! Best of luck to you both ❤️👍

[@oittisallen4057]

Tony. Does she live in ph or usa.

[@blackberry3271]

Small world I have a Filipino wife I brought to America, she's over 30 years old she is a wonderful woman From butuan I talked to her for over 5 years Online before seeing her and bring to the States , Best decision I have ever made In my life, when it comes to partners.

[@stevenjacks9966]

Great video Pea. I want to give some constructive criticism of what I observed. It’s meant to be helpful but I’m sure many will not take it well. And as a point of reference I know most East Asian cultures well and they are very different. I prefer East Asian women - looks, food, culture - but some much more than others. I am in a committed relationship with a Filipina many decades my junior although I’m in great shape and look at least twenty years younger than I am. So -.What I observed is common and part of the reason I ended up with a person who was younger than these ladies. In a nutshell - they are too Westernized. 1. All of them are too heavy. They do not know what to eat, when to eat, how to exercise properly, and likely know very little about health. And given their age, pressures of life, etc will probably not be willing to put in the effort to change that. 2. What they bring to the table - I am successful and exceed all the 6’s except height - I’m not quite.6 feet tall. I am mature caring understanding fun but also firm, resolved, masculine and it shows. None of the ladies expressed qualities that a strong successful independent man is seeking. If a woman doesn’t add to the quality of my life why would I want her in my life? A man like me wants a balance - she needs to be feminine, caring, supportive. And she needs to be resolved and a solid partner - but from a feminine perspective. I want her to be able to work and earn - not for me - but if she is coming to the west I want her to associate with good people, be proud of who she is, and have the ability to have a good life if something were to happen to me. 3. I have plenty of money but I’m not interested in being an atm for someone. 4. I come first. If you have a bunch of kids and they come first how exactly is that going to improve my life? Yes. I already raised children and I’m happy to help rsise another if she is the right woman. But I have no interest in being anywhere other than first place. 5. I am a strong and successful man. You can be a strong woman and I’ll respect and cherish you BUT if you cannot be happy with me in the driver’s seat then why would I bring you into my life? 6. Family - I understand Filipino culture - but I am not an atm or lotto ticket - nor am I interested in having someone outside my marriage influencing or dictating what happens in my relationship - period. 7. Religion. I have a strong relationship and faith with God. And Jesus. Choosing someone who does not agree your beliefs will result in problems in your relationship. That’s it. I just thought that might be of benefit for some people. Thanks again for a great video.

[@fanaticforager6610]

Mine’s.., I guess 🙄 I can still call her mine…, LDR…, are tyrannical, be Well 🙏🏼 Ingat Po 🌅

[@peterhuang1431]

thank you for asking " what do you bring to the table " - this is important because girls sometimes dont know how to make a man happy for man to stay with them long term and forever. Many girls always think they are the winner so everything needs to be given to them

[@kangtheconqueroriii7724]

Shoutout to Peter Huang I see you.

[@ligafftheindifferent3495]

Most women don't really know. Or they have the wrong idea. If they know what most men want, they would have better answers. Here is what I think most men want. 1. You should be easy going. Nagging or demanding men to change or meet some expectation is going to drive a man away. 2. Respect your man and minimize the times when you argue with him, especially over small stuff. 3. Be loyal. Be on his side, even if you disagree. 4. Be an eager lover. Never use sex as a tool, weapon or bargaining chip. 5. Be truly accepting of him and his emotions. Realize that men are trained from birth to conceal emotions because emotions have been deemed a form of weakness and men learn that women usually want nothing to do with so-called "weak" men. Understand that this is why so many men are not going to open up to you easily. If a man can share all of himself, including his pain, he will love you more deeply, but let him do so at his own pace. If he does and you recoil, he probably will never share at that level again and he will probably not be able to love you deeply. 6. You need not earn a high income, but you should be willing to work and earn income towards shared expenses. This idea that your income is your and his income is shared might work with some men, but most men will resent this kind of attitude. You are not a princess and he is not an ATM. 7. Attraction, while important, is pretty low for most men when it comes to a relationship Attraction is what gets the interview process going. After that, it is not so important. However, some men will not be happy if you decide to get a Jollibee Belly. I do think this one varies from man to man. Some guys really do get locked into attraction and will tolerate a lot of nonsense as long as you are hot but will gow distant if you put on weight. I am not saying this is a good thing, but it happens. 8. Nurture him. Never resent him for needing this. There are, of course, limits to this, but this notion that real men do not need to be nurtured is toxic. One of the most important things for a man when it comes to women is finding one who can, as needed, be nurturing. Life is really, really hard for damn near everyone and we all need a place to rest our head from time to time. 8. NO TAMPO. That is for 13 year old girls, not grown ass women. Notice that most of this is not about materialistic stuff or career. Most of it is about the kind of person you are and how you treat your man. Also note that cooking and cleaning are not on this list. I suppose a few men really do want this, but frankly, if the rest is good, most men are not going to make an issue over this kind of thing. From this list, it should be easy to give a good answer to the question: "What do you bring to the table".

[@gav6808]

I asked the same question to a fillo a few years back ,what do they bring to the table and guess where they pointed to!

[@humancaos]

@@ligafftheindifferent3495 8 is so true it's ok on your way home from the groceries store but by the time you get home say whats wrong then we can fix it and not wast weeks being silent.

[@pattskatoey3139]

Gav🎲 south

[@slinkyrobb]

When I started looking for a filipina I actually was looking for a woman my own age. I was introduced to a woman I was told was close to my age but she ended up being 10 years younger. After looking into age gap relationships I found a 10-15 year age gap is ideal for making a marriage work.

[@andyvalenzuela9763]

Good job Pea on getting another microphone. It helped considerably!

[@TheeAlmightyPoppaDoc]

Aaaah…. You bring many of the questions to these ladies, that many western men ask. Nice job to parallel the two cultures, Pea. Some answers from them were very close to how many western women think, but yet and still- the Filipina loyalty and commitment to longevity shines bright. Thanks, Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s the important part 👍😊

[@gregnz1]

I can retire at age 65, and wont need to work, just relax and entertain myself,

[@Chad-EverettJerkinsMinistries]

@@TheFilipinaPea please connect me to those single ladies. Both are very interesting

[@anthonymcroberts2950]

Over 30 women in the Philippines is the best kept secret. They are goal oriented, mature, make great partners and always see the glass half full meaning they always seek to improve they're quality of life, financial stability and overall mental and physical well being. Most importantly are great cooks and make great lovers and will go above and beyond to make a relationship successful.

[@laynefischer2021]

Wow.. so I got better things to come as my lady was 22 now 28 works hard is very caring , doesn’t cook that good but hay maybe in her 30s she will refine that ! Lol 😂

[@boyar1978]

I dont care if a woman can cook or clean I just need a playmate.

[@kangtheconqueroriii7724]

Partner.....hmmmmmmm that word again. Alot of men SHOULDN'T BE LOOKING FOR A PARTNER ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE THE MEANS TO FEED HER AND HER FAMILY NOOOOOOOOOO THAT'S DANGEROUS. She will wholly believe that

[@humancaos]

@@boyar1978 life is not play only you need to eat and change clothes every now and then

[@humancaos]

@@kangtheconqueroriii7724 then I think you should tell whoever you chat with online that you are not looking for a partner, because otherwise you are not being honest to the other person and that not nice

[@raybrown9381]

Andy is beautiful inside , she knows how to express herself, she is also very beautiful visualy, and I love her voice

[@sudeep246]

sha sha

[@billtillman3681]

I agree.

[@imusuallycorrect]

She said the bills are getting high... .yeah beauty.

[@BIGTONEonline]

I agree

[@stan121midling5]

man, do not fall for the looks, these women have some serous issues ok, hehe

[@patlilburn5251]

Please send my very best wishes to these three brave beautiful women! This is such a tricky time for women (my daughter is 31) and it is such a very personal bunch of stuff to be worked through at this time of life. I wish you all only happiness, and encourage you to continue to be true to yourselves. We are all exactly where we are supposed to be, and if a right partner does or does not come along, we are still exactly in the right place. Diane’s description of the right guy is mine of the right woman. Of course, I’ve been divorced twice, so…😂

[@TheWaterman2011]

The Filipina I am dating is 30+ and we have so many things in common. She is one of the hardest-working women I have ever met. Our conversations are "real life" not fantasy and we see each other together for a long time.

[@scottmccray1031]

My wife put her carrear and family first in her youth. She was 40 and single when we met. She is a wonderful wife and I love how caring she is.

[@sdjdad9]

Obviously well educated Young Beautiful Ladies. Definitely not hitting any wall at 30. I wish my son could meet Ladies like these. Especially Diane. Loyalty is very important and Family values,plus the fact she is Business oriented makes her very attractive. Having said that the other 2 ladies would be snapped up in a heartbeat too. You can see why A lot of foreigners would want to Marry a Philipina (I'm sure there are exceptions). Great Video Pea. No offence but this was better than the last video you did with Beautiful Fritchie and the other girls. You and the Girls are very refreshing and Articulate. More of these Videos Please Pea.❤️❤️

[@1.5Deg_Is_NonNegotiable]

It is wonderful seeing these 3 very young ladies (young by western standards) with such high ambitions and resolve. I wish for all three that their dreams come true and that they stay focused on their goals no matter what comes their way.

[@foodforthought872]

#2 seems to be most prepared to be in a committed relationship. I'm rooting for her 🙏🏽

[@1stamendmentmedia464]

She's a little shy and insecure (in a cute way). I hope she meets a great, confident guy to bring that confidence out in her. Rooting for her too!

[@kbsquare]

What a refreshing presentation! Loved observing the courage, honesty, and maturity given by you Pea with your questions and your panel through their answers. If I were asked "what do you four bring to the table", I would say maturity, honesty, and courage. Winning and attractive character. Thank you all.

[@guyandre4946]

As Plato, quoting Socrates, famously said once: “human behaviour flows from three main sources: desire, emotion, and knowledge” However, Plato never went to the Philippines and never had the chance to meet you Pea! Your so well chosen panel is the perfect answer: the four of you are certainly all extremely desirable, you all create enough emotion for any man, you have the knowledge to make any relationship perfectly successful. After such a good video, it won’t be long before Smouldering Sasha, Adorable Andy, Delightful Dianna and Perfect Pea can at long last find the answer to their all their dreams, foreign or not. Pea Cupid has won again. Thank you for this precious and educational clever presentation. 👍😄😘

[@secretagent86]

i thought sasha has a partner already...

[@OrthodoxDAO]

I object to this idea about Plato, how do you think Philippines, Megalonesia, Micronesia, Polynesia got their name?

[@Jesse-B]

You're a poet, And don't know it. ☺

[@guyandre4946]

@@OrthodoxDAO Micronesia, Polynesia and Megalonesia for instance are name given by Victorians explorers and navigators, generally well educated Universities gentlemen, who used scholarly greek terminology when mentioning “foreign territories discovered” during their travels. Different countries, then, were given different names to different parts of the World, as the original location name, in native language, was often difficult to spell and pronounce. Also cartography needed uniformity. It was the custom, and still is, to use classical Greek or Latin terminology within Universities and Governments as languages universally understood. Like Latin is still today amongst Catholics and the Vatican. For instance, Micronesia was made up from ancient Greek μικρός mikrós "small" and νῆσος nêsos "island". Megalonesia, from ancient greek megas, large and nesos, Island, was named by Sir Edmund Meredith, Governor of the British Colony in 1789. and the name was used by “King” John I of Magalonesia” as late as 1995! The first European in Megalonesia being the Spanish Sir Pedro Juan de San Paul De La Cruz in 1657. The Philippines were named by Spanish explorer Ruy López de Villalobos during his expedition in 1542, who named the islands of Leyte and Samar “Felipinas” after the King Philip II of Spain: the name “Las Islas Filipinas” was later used to cover the whole archipelago's Spanish possessions. In a similar way, Louisiana in the United States was named after the French King Louis XIV who reigned from 1643 to 1715.. It was René-Robert Cavelier, Sieur De La Salle who claimed all the territory drained by the Mississippi for France, and he named it “ La Louisiane”. Making new names for all parts of the world was “common practice” in those Centuries and the names stayed to this day. What ever names, if any, given by the ancient Greek and Roman civilisations were often changed or forgotten accross the centuries.. 👍 Thank you for your input .

[@guyandre4946]

@@Jesse-B you are too kind, thank you, I am flattered, but not convinced: I am just talkative 😂 👍

[@themountainwanderer]

Great watch. Both single ladies are stunners. Have goals, jobs, are articulate and don't seem desperate. Should have zero trouble finding compatible partners.

[@Shane88Bieve]

The more I watch your videos the more I'm realizing I really enjoy the philippiana oras/vibes and how open and LOVELY you ladies are

[@jrmchannel4219]

Nobody talking about Sasha but for me she has the most good answers in here.

[@williambarrios7443]

I think it's wrong to consider women over 30 as "leftovers". As an older man, I would actually prefer someone 30 or above, because in my opinion she has had time to mature. Just my two cents...

[@Juicinjay]

I agree William......you're not a red wine man are you?!!

[@StevenGrahamHypnotherapist]

That was worth at least a nickel, William.

[@DoubleTapLasVegas]

They are not leftovers. However the biological clock is ticking and a woman will start rushing at the age of 30 due to the wall fast approaching. I have a few Filipina friends who rushed into marriage after 30 and made very bad decisions in their choosing of a mate. Still together but ZERO compatibility although living comfortable lives. Content but not happy. The courting process should take time.

[@phillars6750]

not leftovers, but definitely hitting the wall.

[@tonyquinn22]

I agree. I think this age might be ideal for a man 45+. Below 30 could be too young. Corona is more of an issue because of travel.

[@davidjames3126]

That was interesting Pea..I found these ladies more attractive because of their maturity, open-minded views of life not just realistic but refreshing. The attractiveness resonates from within.❤️👍

[@CrusaderNCC]

Great topic. As a man who always had age gap relationships here in the west I still find it shocking to see a 70 year old man with 20 year old Filipinas. I'm glad to see more mature women like 30s are not forgotten in your country as overall I believe they have more to offer in a relationship than the very young girls. Kudos to the gentlemen asking about women in 30s, 40s...respect to u!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Andrew!! 👍❤️

[@mohamedtlass3842]

It’s not worth it. You still have to pay for everything so why not get your money’s worth. Average Filipinas generally don’t keep their bodies past their early 20s unlike other nationalities due to poor diet, pollution, substance abuse, lack of exercise, etc. I didn’t mention having kids because that’s not an excuse. Women In africa have more babies and are often poorer yet manage to take care of themselves and remain sexually attractive well into their 40s

[@DoubleTapLasVegas]

@@mohamedtlass3842 You'd be surprised, you will see that Asian women due to diet and culture have a longer shelf life.

[@mohamedtlass3842]

@@DoubleTapLasVegas I’m talking from real life experience with real people in Asia in various countries, not just from the pretty ones you see in the west and online etc. “Asian” is a super broad term to generalize people as. Indians, Afghans, and many Russians even are Asian as well. The “Asian” women that you may be thinking of are possibly not filipinas or are just outliers of the norm, because I wasn’t impressed at all by the diet or lifestyle or aging of the average population there. The fact is that being in your late 50s there is already considered old age due to their reduced life span on average which fits into the part of not aging with grace for the most part.

[@yeetah42025]

@@mohamedtlass3842 How long have you been living in the Philippines for you to get this impression?

[@jimmychristensen7112]

They are all beautiful ladies, but Dianne is just breathtaking. Her smile can light up a room and her personality and natural charm is just out of this world 🙂 the man that win her heart will hit the jackpot for sure

[@angusvanniekerk9577]

Diane will be a great soul mate. Awesome topics. Religion is important to keep family unity and togetherness . A devided family can't always survive through life today. Intermacy loyalty and happiness makes this world a better place. Cheers to new beginnings.

[@seattlesix]

The sense of loyalty from Diane is admirable since it leads all the virtues

[@o.fortuna657]

And that dress is stunning!

[@randydaugherty607]

Great bunch of ladies, hope they all are able to fulfill their goals and find happiness

[@joespencer2732]

Let me start by saying Sasha, Andy, and Dianne are all beautiful inside and out and would make any man proud. The fact that they don’t mind playing the traditional role as wife is what sets Filipina’s apart from most cultures. I did like Andy’s answer on sex in which she said she thinks that she wants to be in love to make it meaningful. I can respect that. That says a lot about who she is as a person. If these woman are in their thirties, then I’m heading over there now! Absolutely gorgeous and proper ladies (women like that are such a turn-on)!

[@55Quirll]

I agree, having sex with just anyone cheapens it, like women in the US seem to do a lot, and makes the person less worthy to know. In my opinion. I prefer older women to those that are in their 20s.

[@scatts1970]

Meet my beautiful philipna 2 years ago and she turns 52 today and me 54 . We meet online and went over to the philippines to meet her in the flesh ,had a wonderful time over there. We talkall the time over the internet.

[@coffeebotography]

Wow Andy has the perfect island girl look

[@thebigmann81]

I think having that strong connection is very important. As well as Loyalty and truly being kind good hearted person. But also being able to accept our faults as we all have them.

[@iant8842]

Pea I also would be very interested in an over 50 panel (especially with the same questions). My best guess would be that the majority of over 50 single women would be widows. Keep up the great work. God bless.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Ian, no matter your age, you can get a woman under 50 there. Get real.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Ian! It’s VERY hard to find women of that age that speak good enough English for an interesting interview, and will actually agree to be on camera, but I’m trying 👍😊

[@GUITARTIME2024]

@@TheFilipinaPea honestly, pea, very few western guys are into the over-50 idea. You can skip it. Lol

[@georgesmithlegere909]

@@GUITARTIME2024 You are so wrong I wanted a woman in her 50’s myself not a younger woman.

[@georgesmithlegere909]

@@TheFilipinaPea Please keep trying cause to be with someone so young for me is not a good thing.

[@brad5534]

Another home run, Ms. Pea. You create a great mix with your different videos. I think a lot of US vloggers in the Phils copy your ideas, however, they can't put the package together as well as you...kudos.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Brad! I do try my best (and yes they copy me relentlessly) 😂

[@guyandre4946]

@@TheFilipinaPea The old adage comes to mind: “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery” … but let’s not forget Oscar Wilde second take of the quote:“… that mediocrity can pay to greatness.” I rest my case, Pea, you are the greatest 👍😊 No worries.

[@guyandre4946]

The old adage comes to mind: “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery” … but let’s not forget Oscar Wilde second take of the quote:“… that mediocrity can pay to greatness.” I rest my case, Pea, you are the greatest 👍😊 No worries.

[@berettagunowner]

Diane seems to be intelligent, independant, street wise, and absolutely gorgeous.

[@zacharybarringer8442]

I am 32 and my Filipina is 43. I'm very happy with her. I'm very happy you did this video.

[@markingtime9723]

Having differences (cultural or not) makes everything new and fresh. Embrace it.

[@taniwa08]

This was a cool video. It’s nice to see what women in their 30s feel about relationships. After hearing some of these ladies stories it makes me happy to know that we’re all starting to live in a society where age for both men and women are nothing but a number. That’s progress and less stress 🙌🏿

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Taniwa! Yes, less stress 👍👍😊

[@darkkingastos4369]

My 46 number is starting to make a difference in my knee xD

[@1machoguerrereo508]

So much beauty in one place!🤩

[@charlesmcgowen7238]

Faithfulness is essential. No relationship can survive without it.

[@geraldwalsh3644]

Agreed100percent

[@pattskatoey3139]

Dianne is adorable.You can feel she really believes in love. Hope she finds the compatible man for her. All of the ladies made valid points.

[@petermiller1876]

Tell Sasha I love her. This woman has been to “the show” her children’s comfort comes first. She’s doing well with what she has. I hope the best for her. Also, still waiting for 45+ interviews

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Those interview subjects are VERY hard to find, I’m afraid

[@fredsobotincic1587]

@@TheFilipinaPea why is that ?

[@mikecapricciuolo9226]

the issues with the "family" line is we are not against it. what we are not open to is being the ATM for the family. We have a big issue with children being seen as an ATM for the whole family. You actually did a video on it.

[@edmhie1]

That's the problem when you're old and still get a women like the age of you're grand daughter.........be realistic Grandpa! you know what's coming your way. You want lust of course it's not free in return.

[@vinniegillotti9347]

I agree with you 100% Mike I’ve been on my own since the age of 14 I know my worth know my value in a relationship and what I bring to the table I know the value of things because I have worked hard for everything I got and like you said I shouldn’t have to be an ATM machine for the rest of the family

[@TonzLanggoy]

It boils down as to how much your woman loves you. She will not allow it to happen. I know there are problems here and there but helping in-laws is good but she will never allow you to be the atm. Take it from me. I got 2 aunts who are married to a german and an american. Though I am and still very thankful that with their help I was able to somehow finish college. And every time they get home from the or germany I make sure to extend some help when they are here for vacation.

[@lisaserenechaos6833]

This exactly! I don't even like being treated like an ATM by my own family. You just have to learn to say no, I don't have any money to give.

[@georgewright5631]

Hey brother if you can do av ideo on that and explain , I would gladley appreciate it thanks.

[@martypoll]

I met my Thai wife when I was 60 and she was 35. I think our marriage works, in part, because she was more mature than women under 30. Getting past that youthful energy and naivety is important to me in my stage in life.

[@spartanx169x]

At 60 why the hell would you get married? there is absolutely zero to be gained from it. When you are pushing 70, she will be 45 and you will be all but worthless to her. Sorry, but thats the truth. Then she will leave your ass and take everything she has accumulated to that point.

[@po-hunghuang6161]

true love needs to experience trials and errors, but no diviorce means no chance to recover from a mistake, and learn from the journey for seeking true love.

[@dugan6056]

As for culture differences that's why we watch you Pea, to learn. As for my own culture (UK) it needs a radical service and repair. Another culture would be welcome! The ladies are beautiful as well as interesting. They have far more to offer in a relationship than younger girls. I'll be in Dumaguete in the spring....fingers crossed!!!

[@arnoldseay9118]

Fun interview miss Pea. Very typical educated filipinas. It’s interesting to see your culture is changing since I lived there. The one thing I see that has not changed much is their attachment and responsibility to family even though some of them didn’t talk about it much it’s easy to see it’s still there. Good insight what to expect if you meet an educated middle class filipina woman.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Arnold, and yes, that’s exactly what these women are 👍😊

[@Joshua_Taylor_803]

I prefer 27-35, much more humbled by then and more dating experience which makes communication easier on average. Bonus: Much more realistic standards.

[@Shizzle700]

My favoright line was when you asked "What do you bring to the table"? and Andy replied .. "fruits". I love a woman with humor! 😁

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha She’s such a little cutie 😂❤️

[@Shizzle700]

@@TheFilipinaPea I wish you would have asked if any of the ladies are willing to relocate 😊

[@swayp5715]

They usually all struggle with that question! Often never even considered it!

[@dragunovbushcraft152]

I love a good sense of humor too, but she still needs to understand what a man wants/needs.

[@laynefischer2021]

Lol 110 % Andy had me from there on ... she was gorgeous and funny the hole conversation.

[@danielmcmanus7436]

All three of these women are awesome. The fact that the discussion is that they are beyond their prime is amazing. These women have so much more to offer. They have careers, they are grounded and they are so sweet. And beautiful too.

[@lawson1246]

Unfortunately I am no longer single , but there are going to be some very lucky guys out there that meet these charming ladies . Good luck ladies , but remember , think safe !

[@kennethwalton5582]

Andy seems to be well grounded with a good head on her shoulders.

[@jefffletcher241]

Some real "Crimson Capsule" content there. The most enthusiastic response from the trio was getting out of the Phils.

[@ago9]

Already forwarded to a few communities for bigger fish to comment

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m the leading Filipina crimson capsule content creator, yes 😂😂😂

[@johnlacey3857]

So sad that this was such a strongly stated goal

[@derekallen4450]

Yes they wan't a passport but when you take them to your country they also start to adopt western feminist ways. Solution I moved her back to the Phil to get back the woman I married which wasn't a problem for me being a seaman it doesn't matter where I live. Happy to live in the Phil just chill out now in retirement.

[@WildMidwest1]

It’s the difference of being the aquarium keeper and the goldfish in the jar.

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

I think more men should ask women, "what do you bring to the table?". As a man, if you want a serious honest answer to that question, you must be independent of a woman. You must not just know how to make money, but you must have your life all together; know how to cook, clean, wash. When you truly don't need a woman for those things, the right one will show up to compliment your life, NOT complicate it.

[@georgecothran4760]

You are absolutely right Ladies. I am talking with a 53 year old Filipina. She is the sweetest lady I have ever talked with.

[@Tmidiman]

Great interviews Pea! Hearing all the various views for the different ladies have allowed you to raise the KZbin panel game! Please continue to do these types of interviews from time to time. And thanks to the ladies for sharing their thoughts with the world. They were enlightening and eye opening.

[@rogermcginnis2765]

Sasha is correct, there is a small group of men from every nationality that are only looking for younger and too young women with no interest in marriage/long term with the woman. Most men want to find the one for the rest of our lives.

[@markplimsoll]

Biology 101: Men over about fortyfive usually cannot start families with women thier own age.

[@billtillman3681]

Actually a large group.

[@kawasaket]

I personally will be looking for a wife that either has kids and doesn't want any more or does not want kids at all. Might be hard to find, as I got snipped long ago after I had mine :)

[@djttv]

Wow, I'm impressed with the ladies answers. Curious what they would say if asked about jealousy. Btw Miss Pea, if all your subscribers were together, they would overflow an NFL sports stadium. That's a lot of people!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, I never thought of it like that! Cool 😂👍

[@javieritomac]

Hi pea 👍 great interview with the 30 and up ladies I hope we can see a continuation or part 2 of the interview. It is pretty interesting there different points of views 🤔 .

[@amafille]

I think Andy got the questions to the test in advance. She’s picking a perfect 10🎉

[@johncutrupi9864]

Thank you Pea. Great perspective from these slightly more mature girls about life, ambitions and dreams. What more can I say other than,,, Andy, Andy, Andy 💖💖💖💖

[@geraldwalsh3644]

She really hit it with the viewers didn't she, what a beautiful young lady.

[@rhomahno8878]

Awesome video Pea, super interesting to hear what these beautiful ladies had to say...great questions too. And like many of us, life hasn't turned out how we expected it to, but that can all change with a moments notice. Not gonna lie, if I bumped into Andy at a grocery store I'd be keen to try and catch her attention! 😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks! And yes, Andy is quite attractive and smart 👍❤️

[@paulatudor691]

Andy don’t worry most Americans or foreigners can grill . They can watch KZbin if needed. Coffee is a good icebreaker where you can get to know someone without having to be there longer than a cup of coffee unless you want to.

[@woodspirit98]

I wasn't looking for a filipina. In fact there were women contacting me from japan, alaska, montana, texas, california etc. Oddly women who only lived 30 miles away weren't interested in me because I was too far away. Then she contacted me and we spoke for awhile. We had so much in common. She was a filipina. I had to look on a map to see where it was exactly. I knew less than zero about the Philippines. We've been together now for over five years and she is 51 yrs old now.

[@StevenGrahamHypnotherapist]

All beautiful Filipinas. So open, honest and genuine. I miss living there. Hope I’ll be back post-covid when your beautiful country reopens. Blessings ladies! 😊 ❤️

[@vp4022]

Andy seemed Smart and well spoken it can't hurt that she's that beautiful either I can't believe she's not taken.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

There are many women here like Andy 👍😊

[@stevebramblet7192]

My Filipina is 37 but looks 25! 😜 I'm planning to see her in Manila in January if we can swing it! 🙏🏻😄

[@dylanross235]

The fact you can ask "what do you bring to the table" and they don't get mad tells me everything I need to know

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@ligafftheindifferent3495]

US women are the table. Just ask them. No wonder men go overseas to find love.

[@Comehomejimmy]

I wish there was a “Filipina Pea” filter on these online dating sites. Any of these three women would be favorited by me if I came across them. There are a lot of beautiful women on the sites but I need someone I can have a conversation with as well. And I feel that’s what all three of these women bring to the table.

[@anthoniodave2800]

My loyalty lies with my beautiful.filipina wife of 6 years, many misunderstandings throughout the years but all.worth it 。

[@robertbarker5802]

I like that the one woman straight up said she wasn't willing to generalize.

[@andrewt.2850]

Great video FP. My Filipina wife is 8 years younger than I am; she was early 40's and I was late 40's when we met. She was never married and is a "career woman." She told me that Filipino men are quite picky about women there and generally don't look at women after 30 or if they don't fit a particular category of woman. A women with 3 kids would not be ideal, sadly.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yup, sadly that’s true 👍

[@DennisSleeswijk]

"A women with 3 kids would not be ideal, sadly", especially with a live in partner ..... For me that sentence was such a turnoff that it feels like if I would engage with her, I would make her cheater and I would be the cause of that. I'm not ready to "mingle" with womans who have a partner.

[@dustyinc.8]

Pea, thank you for bringing adult woke Filipinas on your show. Filipina women, I feel are the only TRADITIONAL WOMEN THAT KNOW AND UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF TAKING CARE OF THEIR MAN. We salute you pea, great content keep up the great work!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Willie 👍😊

[@eelenavarguss]

What do you mean "woke".

[@laynefischer2021]

Find you say real and young true Filipino mate , my wife was 22 now 28 , and she is as true as they come . You wouldn’t find a more caring thoughtful girl bust leg now 12 weeks she has take so much care been to every medical 🏥 appointment and works .. so don’t agree with your comment . It’s a matter of finding a true girl

[@markplimsoll]

Male chauvinist spittle. Traditions should be seen and not taken seriously. Willie want a woman walking five steps behind? Grow up.

[@dustyinc.8]

@@eelenavarguss adult women that have had true life experiences and organic goals not young giggly little girls with no clue on real life perspectives, nothing wrong with younger women if that's your thing, not me . I DIGRESS...

[@billytheallstar471]

I’m beginning to Believe that the PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭 has BEAUTIFUL WOMEN are running around EVERY WHERE!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

We do! We do 😂

[@peteb6072]

It’s true… many more beautiful women per capita … and the Philippines makes you feel 20 years younger.. A good combination

[@speedracer2336]

Lived all over Asia, the Pinay is the prettiest!

[@shawnbrouse7064]

My honey has been 30 for the past 16 years. She is the most amazing woman. We have been together going on 7 years. She is so dedicated, funny and caring. I support her, our 3 kids and family. We have been waiting for the Philippines to open up so we can get married. Yes, I have been to the Philippines several times. I can not imagine my life with out her.

[@andyreiben]

Interesting interview, I liked your questions and their honest responses, my choice is for Diane ! I appreciated her attitude and maturity.

[@stefandevries9500]

Wow your asking the real questions like; what do you bring to the table? and if they hit the wall. 😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I don’t pull any punches, nope 😂

[@royjones8012]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yes for a second there I thought you took the red pill.

[@kawasaket]

I think a lot of foreign men seek younger 18-25 yr old women for both their youthfulness and the lower chance of them having an "ex-husband" and that could create issues since there is no such thing as divorce in the Philippines.

[@markplimsoll]

Men instincively go for young healthy women under 45 because the purpose of life is to reproduce, i.e. the "Selfish Genes." Don't want to believe it? So many bugs with no mouths to eat with, just reproduce. Salmon swim upstream to mate and then WHAT? Die. Of course these anecdotes don't prove anything; just food for intelligent thought.

[@jessemoore3074]

Pea, you have brought out another set of beautiful women. You need to start a matchmaking company. Set me up when I come to the Philippines.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha No matchmaking for me 😂😂😂

[@Volar777]

Thank you so much Pea for interviewing girls over 30 because all hearts crave the same thing and this segment engages these beautiful girls and validates them for the future they wish to share with their special someone. Girls over 30 have a lot of things the much younger girls do not possess and that is maturity and wisdom based on life experiences and KNOW how to love and what it takes to Keep love in a relationship. There are some girls much younger that are mature too but the majority are like these girls and time has still kept them young and sexy yet gave them so much more confidence that they so much deserve. I truly loved seeing the LOOK of love in their eyes and it gave me hope for a future that i can imagine coming for me.

[@haraldg.83]

Great interviews Pea...intelligent art of questioning...go forward!!!

[@MrVenom-iu9rs]

Thank you Pea for asking the question "what do you bring to the table for a man to want to date you". Only one of them partially answered the question. But at the end of the day they all answered the question on what they would like to have brought to the table for them. Women don't know how to answer this question yet all day long women demand this that and the next thing from men to bring to the table. These are pretty much the same answers you would get from women in the west. Not good.

[@blokeabouttown2490]

Good observation.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s why I asked it, so that women will have to consider why a man should pursue them. It’s always a look of surprise on their faces when that question comes up 😂

[@MrVenom-iu9rs]

@@TheFilipinaPea I much appreciate you asking it. I think you should write a book Pea, I think you've got enough material and knowledge to help your fellow Filipina's. But to break it down in what a man is looking for is the following. Men are the kings of their own situations, we are looking for a Queen. And when I say I'm looking for a queen I don't mean someone that thinks they can just exist because they think they are special, no. When I say Queen I mean for lack of a better word a Cheerleader i.e.. no matter what company (friends, family, co-workers, etc.) is around you have my back and support me 100% (don't talk shit about me to other people, as well as defend me if other people are talking shit) I am #1 in your life, and you are #1 in mine, sorry but kids should never be #1. If I'm having a bad or rough day you know how to bring me back up to keep fighting and winning. While yes I am the decision maker, you are my most trusted advisor and I should feel comfortable to seek your advice/wisdom in case I'm missing something. In regards to home management I'll manage external affairs while she manages internal affairs. Things like this aside from yes the general cooking and cleaning and sex is what men want and appreciate. Men know we are disposable beings which is why society protects women (one man can have hundreds of kids in one year while a women can really only have one. It's biologically imperative that men sacrifice themselves to protect women). So with that said if you want a good man who's going to treat you well and provide for you and make you his queen, then make him feel like he's a man, that he's your man, and that he can take on the world for you. Cheers.

[@bluebehir]

@@TheFilipinaPea I believe you can forewarn the ladies that you will ask that question. I believe being unprepared to answer the question is a little unfair. After all, if you ask me what I bring to the table like that, you could ask me five times and I would have five different answers. Ask me in advance, I can be honest about it but actually have a valid and accurate response that brings value to the conversation.

[@pa4765]

Well said.

[@dougrichardson1393]

This is a great video Ms. Pea. These ladies demonstrate what a rational, normal man should hope for in a partner. That is, a sense of responsibility, an interest in improving themselves and working to that goal, and a real beauty much more than skin deep. These ladies show a maturity which is very attractive, a significant difference to many of the stereotypical Filipinas. Very good interview, smart questions which needed some thought. I think this is one of your best. Thanks Ms. Pea! 🔥🔥😊🌹🌹♥️🍷🍷👍👍💪

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Doug 👍😊

[@buzzd4a]

Let me say here and now that I'm married to an incredible filipina on Bohol. I'm and Engineer and consider myself an intellectual thinker. I find Andy to be mature, smart and funny. Andy you will make some lucky man a great life long partner and friend. I find myself attracted to you and find you are a special and different kind of woman. I hope some smart and intellectual man snatches you up quickly because he will have himself a real high quality diamond in the rough. Good luck and keep up your strong and beautiful personality. Go for a Canadian Guy. Canada is made up of 135 different countries, everyone in Canada is from somewhere else. Canadians are more open and open minded to other cultures so there is no culture shock . We have a huge Filipino population here so if you come here you will have a large filipino population to socialize in.

[@mickyw1455]

I think it's fair to add that not all of the various peoples/cultures from other parts of the world are spread out evenly across Canada. Culture shock may still arise because of this and due to the realities of day to day life wherever one lives in our country.

[@bobjacobson858]

Agreed...but why do you qualify it with "in the rough"?

[@gordonweber2972]

All four of you ladies are high quality, grounded, intelligent and beautiful women Be patient and wait for the best man out there to compliment and encourage who you are! Thank you for sharing

[@ogsilverback971]

@The Filipina Pea, I have been following you for a minute, and honestly have to say that this is one of your best shows. I loved the panel and their honesty.

[@kendonius7670]

The age gap question please. I was impressed with their English speaking ability. Yes, they occasionally paused to find the right word but easily understandable. is this level of fluency typical of most Filipinos? In general to all the Fillipinas who desperately want to come to the US, be aware that life here is not what they see on TV. It is not all mansions, swimming pools, and Escalades.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Their English ability is above average (I always search for good English speakers to make better interviews) 👍

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

I've been chatting with Filipinas over 40 for a few months. Really great women. All have been professional and well to do (own property, nice homes, highly educated). All have been in Manila or north. It is like 2 different countries. Very different in the north. But there is a problem with older Filipinas which is the exact same problem I ran into in the US....they have their life in place. I want to create a new life, find land I like. I don't want to just move into a woman's home and life. Maybe younger is better. It's like one of the women said "I can make my own money" meaning she has her life figured out and in place. She Is unlikely to risk that stability she worked so hard to get and that's smart,,,but a problem for someone like me who wants to create a new life.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Interesting point, Water Bug! Yup, I can see that being an issue ….

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Well, be careful when they say they can make their own money. That's sometimes a diversion so you don't suspect them of golddigging. That's your 1st lesson. Second, I'd recommend you stick to late 20s thru late 30s. Past 40 in any culture, they're minds are stuck in cement. Why invest time and resources into that?

[@mateor7302]

@@GUITARTIME2024 Glad at least one other viewer "gets it"

[@markplimsoll]

You guys speak from your unrecognized instinct to sire offspring with young girls; women over 40 aren't "stuck in the mud" any more than a teen with eyes glued to a smartphone, it's just the over-40 gals are running out of eggs.

[@davidjames3126]

Although I love leftovers when it comes to food...but these beautiful, intelligent women are a far cry from leftovers. I prefer the term ripe. At that perfect stage that makes them more desirable to anyone with a functional brain and recognize their spiritual wholesomeness

[@markplimsoll]

Spiritual wholesomeness of ripeness? The perfect desireable stage of life for your functional brain, hoss? And in which of your two heads is that brain housed, the smaller head? Go to college, read some books. You offend even yourself with your "edible" version of womanhood. And in a few years, do they "go off" and rot, decompose, become garbage? Or just become "spiritually" UNwholesome?

[@marcelleorton95]

I can't believe you just said that.. left overs? Take a good look at yourself! Now that is left overs! Why any Filipinas settle for you is wrinkled men is beyond me! They deserve so much better!!

[@リミ-e1q]

That was enlightening food for thought, thank you very much!!

[@ronaldharris6569]

Andi for the win she is the most down to earth and not having religious beliefs is awesome

[@timothygrulke1308]

Andy is definitely a catch and the Winner on who I would want from the three.

[@peterhuang1431]

pea seems like she's very knowledgable and does her research. she even knows about hitting the wall at 30s, the 666 meaning and others. Im super impressed. Pea is no joke here. lol

[@jarenge4255]

iam 668

[@markmeenaghan934]

Pea no joke anywhere. A force

[@dogeman9135]

Pea is an amazing young woman

[@hamiljohn]

The main takeaway for me was Pea admitting she was over 30! You look barely 19, so be proud of how beautiful you are. :)

[@normanzimmerman5029]

Pea, what is your matchmaking fee? Your guests are beautiful and so well thought. Kudos to you as master of ceremony.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Norman! But no matchmaking for me 😂

[@davidorman9592]

@@TheFilipinaPea but why Pea! You deserve love too surely?

[@secretagent86]

@@TheFilipinaPea i knew you were too smart for that

[@mafp22w]

@@TheFilipinaPea you would be a great tour guide, however. I would love for my son’s to visit the Philippines, but I would love for them to stay clear of the scams and those that don’t have good character.

[@judd_s5643]

Madame Pea

[@sneeekepete]

Andy is adorable! Men just want to know they are loved for who they are and what they can provide. Nothing more... We are very simple in that regard

[@quantomic1106]

Pea is red-pilled or at least aware of it. Also, I can tell by her reaction when she asked those girls about what they can bring to the table. Very rare for a woman. Respect!