Are Filipinas Talented In The Bedroom? The Truth Revealed!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@thebigmann81]

He should have had a talk before he moved in with her. But ar least he knows before he gets married

[@thebigmann81]

A hug or kiss on cheek is normal but the kiss below the ear that isn't real so innocent in western culture.

[@WolfsDE]

It is the last issue that makes me wonder about dating a province woman vs a city woman. I know from the videos on KZbin, city women tend to have more experience in bedroom matters. Which can be good or bad or a mixed bag, depending on the situation and perspective. I personally love an experienced partner because at least they know what they are doing. Now, this doesn't mean I want her to have been with an entire battalion of soldiers. Just would prefer someone with enough experience and confidence to know what she likes and can communicate what makes her really happy. Someone who knows how to please her partner as well. Is willing to be open minded and try something new now and then. Because it is important to keep the romance alive in the bedroom.

[@karlcauckwell2947]

No problem. It’s great to see another Filipino pea soup adventure video lol😂😂😂😂

[@dallasarnold8615]

Pea, you handle these issues so well. I think you have given so very good advice. One might think you have had formal training as a counselor. And WOW what a repetoire of innuendo for oral.

[@Walts-Travel]

I've found out for myself about how orally talented they are. They can talk talk none stop. 😅🤣😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

HAHAHAHAHA Very true 😂😂😂

[@hansmeier3287]

Every woman can

[@jamesoconnor2753]

And very loud as well.

[@nahteo]

Omg this hits hard lol

[@thomasgordon1792]

Amen! Some days I pray for Tampoo lol

[@jerometruitt2731]

1) NEVER move in with her. 2) If she has kids that should be part of your vetting process. Lazy undisciplined kids mean a lazy undisciplined parent. Get outta there FAST!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Faster than fast, if possible 😂

[@DMSProduktions]

ODD for a Pinay mum!

[@Amazonkiller65]

Not necessarily...I am a single parent and sometimes it is overwhelming...don't be to quick to judge especially if you don't have experience with being a single parent!

[@Amazonkiller65]

Help is what they may need...it's your responsibility to build trust in the family unit so that you can help develop them. If you are not committed then don't waste her time!

[@RickTheBoss98]

Europeans brains and bodies develop quicker than East Asian brains and bodies we hit milestones quicker and puberty and such like quicker so maybe a 10-year-old European child is more similar to a 12-year-old East Asian child somewhere around a 12-year-old East Asian child and their behaving like a 10-year-old European child we might say well they're lazy or rude or not disciplined but the reality is they're just behaving their age we're just ignorant to that

[@MN_Engineer]

The first email isn't a cultural issue. It's something you'll run into with dating single moms.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then don’t date single moms 😂

[@mikelund327]

@@TheFilipinaPeaExactly

[@49525Bob]

@TheFilipinaPea "Dating" sure has a different meaning from when I was doing it 60 years ago.

[@alastairthegreat2887]

​@@49525BobTimes change

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

For what it is worth @@TheFilipinaPea I married a single mom decades ago and we were very happy together until she passed on. I plan on repeating that 'mistake' in the hopes that lightning will strike again.

[@jonathanjohnson7036]

My ex-wife was Filipina and an expert at "playing the flute". She said she loved it because she enjoyed the feeling herself. Many times she would tell me that she wanted to play the flute and the rest of me should stay out of it. She wanted to know how it all worked. She was a serious student. In short, every woman is different. Everyone has things they like and do not like. The key is to try under the best circumstances. The advise I would give is to talk about what is good or bad and why something is good or bad. Encourage experimentation. Work at making your partner comfortable at trying something new or different. Trust built through communication.

[@angelbrother1238]

I have to thank Filipina pea for turning off of Filipina women as she admitted yes that most don’t take their religion seriously :) Thank God I got this info now . I like the honesty anyways

[@numinous2506]

Smart

[@Trodpint-A]

Playing the skin flute .

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

That's hot

[@glenfoxh]

Have talked to many people. Be in an online site, or in spaces such as VRchat. One thing is for sure, everyone is different. And not everyone fits in some boxed in stereotype, even if most do. Many have a thing for "paying the flute." Not just women. Sad but true, in part due to such concepts of modern feminism among women, and the "Red Pill" community among men formed due to modern feminism had gotten women to think about men in general, a concept called being Bi-Curious was created. That is, basically strait men, letting gay men who love to "play the flute" preform for them, when no women can be found who is willing anymore. >.> Is no wonder as to why many strait guys are wanting to find women outside of the US. It's not only far less gay, than to relent to the idea of letting gay men preform for a guy who is not gay, but makes it easier to find "women" many men actually want.

[@robertmeshew1935]

Great advice! Moving in with a ready made family is a difficult journey and will always invite conflict! Avoid being a third wheel and just enjoy her company at your home on your terms but do not be surprised when she decides to move on to a more permanent relationship! Either look for a woman that does not have children or enjoy her as a short term fling, because she will move on!

[@Brandon-yy5cc]

For the first guy, this is why I don’t date single moms. Weather they are Filipinas or not. Thank you Pea!❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If I were a man, I wouldn’t either 😳

[@reddragon4482]

Agreed bro, I have dated them and it's worse than just staying single. You have no say in what way they are raised at all and you get no respect from anyone.

[@nickythekidd5517]

Single men and women should stay clear of single parents

[@streetfreakpatrol240]

To get the kid to stay out of the bed make sure you get hot with the mother while the kid is awake, within minutes the kid will disappear.

[@michaeltamares7974]

What about single guys who have kids? Double standards?

[@CG87343]

The lengths you went to making that last question KZbin friendly was absolutely hilarious. Keep it up.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I scrubbed it as clean as I could 😂

[@christopherturco197]

@@TheFilipinaPea That was a stroke of genius!

[@BluEx22329]

She was baring up 😂

[@stevef68]

Yes, those were hilarious!

[@Papasan6363]

I have dated a few Filipinas, only 1 would not have a banana snack. Once she informed me that is something she would never do ever and no sex until married, and this was after she pushed me into a trip to Niagra Falls. Sorta felt used because if you basically demand someone take you on a trip somewhere, especially a romantic location and then you say that AFTER I took care of her "man in the boat" just seems like false advertisement. She had been in the US for years, even works for the federal government. So she definitely knew she should have mentioned before the trip. So much for trying to make our first time together special. All I am saying is, a woman should be honest so a man will know BEFORE he takes her to a romantic location.

[@Trodpint-A]

She could’ve been saying those things for leverage on you. Why do anything for a woman who refuses to sleep with you?

[@BillyBoy444]

As always Pea you're never afraid to dive head first into such a sensitive subjuct. Giving guys a heads up on how to get ahead in the Philippines 🌭😂

[@adventurearyck64]

I see what you did there! 😂 It’s the best way to get in a women’s Head and see what she’s thinking 😅

[@jerometruitt2731]

Going downstairs for breakfast and Kissing the Wookie are my new favorite innuendos😂😂😂😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😂😂😂😂😂 Happy to help!

[@bobbruce4135]

Warning: In my experience (and many other men who made the mistake of putting a ring on it or a visa petition) you'll be having no breakfast and getting a cold sandwich for lunch.

[@anthonyharris478]

🤣🤣🤣😅😂

[@rockersheart]

Biggest mistake is dating a woman with two kids. Don't do it guys. You have no say in discipline for them, they aren't yours! They are her kids. Just get your stuff and walk away. Not worth the headache

[@dirttrackin280h]

What about one with 6 kids...? 🤣🤣

[@rexlaughlin3897]

That would be mine she has 6 kids and she expects me to do the discipline 😂

[@perrykomick9478]

Amen...NEVER get involved with a woman with kids...biggest longterm waste of time/money ever.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

In most every case, I agree - for many reasons 👍

[@homebasebelgium359]

I would sit her down before moving in with her and I would say: "Listen, hon! I'm quite OK with the fact that you have two children and I'd love to be a responsible and caring father to them. But then I also expect them to accept me as such. I will be there for them when they need me. They can talk to me about anything. I will protect them from the dangers of the world. But they should realise that they are children and I'm the man in the house. What I say goes and I expect you to back me up on that. If I need to discipline them I will do so and I need you to accept that. A relationship between a (step)father and his children is pretty much like a relationship between a man and a woman: the love has to be mutual and respect has to come from both sides."

[@captainmango1355]

The issue with the children is a good example of why many men don't want a "ready-made" family. Wow, I thought I'd heard every slang for oral activity...but now I can add a bunch more to the list! I'm glad Starlink is doing well for you!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If I were a man, I’d rather have my own family or none at all 😳

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

​Excellently Stated 💯

[@DMSProduktions]

@@TheFilipinaPea Hear hear!

[@metaphy]

@@TheFilipinaPea If you were a man, we wouldn't watch you 😁

[@napoleonmdusa8877]

@@TheFilipinaPea Come back to America and you'll be able to change that (act like a man) or take a side trip to Thailand to come back as a "man".

[@neildillon837]

There is no reason to ever fall into the trap a being a step dad especially in the Philippines. The choices of beautiful, motherless girls abound.

[@michaelb2388]

Motherless? Perhaps you mean childless...

[@reginaldhall1810]

Queen pea? You're advice and your way of breaking things down telling like it really is and no sugar coating the truth 😊 two thumbs up to you

[@dennisw5803]

The first letter regarding the kids really hit home. I had a lady with just 1 kid, exact same issues. I ended our engagement and walked away.

[@santos.2020]

For a time now, I'm seeing a lot of red flags around pilipinas women, I'm considering look up for Thailand or Cambodia 'cause they are more disciplined people when the subject is family and marriege. The Philipines culture is more complicent with undiscipline and careless about following foreign rules.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m so sorry, Dennis, but at least you got away 👍👍❤️

[@michaelbarmby9105]

​​@@santos.2020🤣🤣🤣🤣 look forward to reading/hearing your sob story on a podcast or in the Bangkok post. 😁

[@spartanx169x]

You didn't see that before the engagement? You should have been able to see that within 5 or 6 dates.

[@PabloGonzalez-qh6ii]

​@@santos.2020Yet again you are generalizing. You can't really escape it.

[@JohnTanquary]

Hey Pea. You are amazing and your take on question was hilarious. Have to say I have never heard such a playfully tangled mix of metaphors for question #3: From a "Bill Clinton" to "carrots" to "dining pleasures", you were brilliant both at avoiding YT censorship and conveying your ideas and sound recommendations. You ARE the best!

[@joesixpack5691]

Vlogs like this make me appreciate my sweet and educated Filipina wife of 12 years and her not needy, no drama small family. Don't sell yourself short, fellow expats. The good ones are out there...just takes some time to meet them. Don't end up with low hanging fruit.

[@Bipolarintrovert]

6:11 THAT IS GREAT 👍 ADVICE, 👁 THINK 🤔 IF PEOPLE NEED THERAPY SESSIONS, THEY SHOULD JUST COME TO YOU

[@mpeugeot]

Some are more talented than others, but most are passionate and willing to learn, especially if they care about you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And that’s really all that matters ❤️👍

[@ClovisPoint]

IF !!!!!!!!!!!

[@MrJx4000]

Be careful what you wish for--once they "learn" to do that new thing, they may not want to stop doing it, and it won't be with you ;-)

[@robertlalor8090]

Pea, you are simply the best. I haven't laughed so much for a long time. You address serious issues in such a humorous way, while providing brilliant advice. Thanks so much

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Perfect! Then I consider that mission accomplished 😂😂👍❤️

[@RickTheBoss98]

@@TheFilipinaPea do you think using Christian Filipino I can find wife material in the Philippines and bring her to the UK? The problem is the UK has very bad prenuptial agreements so I don't want to be legally married in the UK I own one house mortgage free and soon will own a second mortgage free and I already have four children so I can't afford to lose their inheritance I did not inherit these houses I had to work for them so I value them highly I'm 35 years old and white male

[@ronaldjohnston439]

Yes Pea you are the best and I like the girl hitting on you at the beach here in America. On the third question my girl and I use it as foreplay to get ready for the main event she is worried if do it to long she might bite me and we would not want that and yes she is from the Philippines.

[@55018]

Great video Pea ...The 1st guy needs to step up and act like a father if he wants to move in with a Filipino mother, it's not all about him. For sure the Filipina would love him more. He could gradually introduce a few rules...and put a lock on the bedroom door! #2 Should mention the wife's sisters over amorous nature to his wife but very tactfully, and like Pea said... Slow down with the compliments. The last guy ... I think if he pleases his gf regularly... She will become more confident in the bedroom and want to return the favour! Well those are my thoughts 😊

[@smann7236]

@@RickTheBoss98 how did you manage to get two houses in England? The prices are super high...did parents help? Just some guy needs advice on the ladder

[@markmcdougal1199]

"A no denture adventure"??? OMG, I almost spit out my coffee I was laughing so hard.... For some in that sweet, innocent, naive country, where do you come up with all this stuff? You're amazing. 🥰

[@jamesmichaelfrank]

😂😂😂😂😂👌

[@Crazykid949]

my hot coffee came flying out my nose on the third e-mail when she got to her innuendos. Now I have to clean it all up

[@matthewgraham2546]

Pea's sense of humor is sharper than a dime store tack. Just when you think you've heard it all!

[@Crazykid949]

@@matthewgraham2546 it takes a high level of intelligence, a wide perception of things, and a really good understanding of cultures and vocabulary to be as funny as Pea is in her videos. This is one of the many reasons her videos are so entertaining.

[@matthewgraham2546]

@@Crazykid949 This is why I won't eat when watching Pea, she will suddenly say something so funny I'm afraid I will spit my food out.

[@rvail136]

FP, you dont need bigger pompoms....youre fune just the way you are.

[@chrismacqueen4891]

If she's not willing to happily service you 6 months it it won't change. I've had this issue myself and known many foreigners the same. They act like its the end of the world and that you are so bad for asking. Let them know its a deal breaker for you and they will *promise* to work on it but never really do because they don't want to. Filipina's don't get it or care that sometimes you do things you don't personally like to make your partner happy and they don't understand the pleasure in making their partner happy doing said thing. They aren't materialistic as western women but they are still women so mostly self centered.

[@bobbruce4135]

Truth. I made the mistake of petitioning one and I met many Western men who had wives that were colder in the bedroom than a fish. We hear lots of accolades from married men on this site. But that's not what I've observed at Asawa couples parties. If the men mostly wanted babies they hit the jackpot. But, if you want "fun" and have the snip it's often disappointing.

[@CaptainJackSparrow110]

Why would you think dating a single mother has a "happy ending?"

[@reddragon4482]

It does for the kids father as he can fuck off and laugh at you the whole time lol. Men need to grow a spine these days and give these women the shame they deserve because, it is shameful.

[@RickTheBoss98]

It does for many couples I know people have had the same step dad for 30 years

[@willietee8979]

I am Celebrating my 1st wedding anniversary in November. Everyone is different and you will have mixed feelings about alot of situations. My wife is the Greatest!! We are dealing with our differences as they arise Yes, it requires alot of give and take. But, if you are both in Love, I recommend to sacrifice yourselves. Do not let lustful behaviors change your feelings for her/him. After all lusting and certain lifestyles that you may prefer, may be against the Laws of God. I know it's tough, but if she doesn't like something don't make her do it. I would do anything to make my wife happy, within reason. But, she does the same for me. I cannot complain about my Pinay. But, I am thankful to God for his gift!! God Bless everyone and your relationships!! God is GOOD, ALL the time!!❤❤

[@kmorris180]

Pea, I want to thank you for some advice you gave over a year ago. I had a situation wherein the girl started with acting like I was insulting her by offering assistance (I know, I know). But then a little help was ok. Suddenly she stepped it up and started threatening to do cam shows if she couldn't find another way to cover the family's needs. She stopped the affection when I became unable to help and never asked how I was doing when I had a sciatic attack. I know that I should have listened to you from the get. But I was in it big time. I came to my senses when in a dream I remembered what you said. I walked away and I want to thank you. Pea, I think you saved me from some horrible trouble on down the line. I'm sending you a virtual hug and high five. Winggirl Pea, the Kenman owes you one. ❤❤❤❤❤ Also, I don't think that I have ever heard so many ways to say "slob the knob."🤣🤣🤣

[@Solo-sailor]

Dear Sweet Pea, Excellent and Very informative video! True story: After my divorce (from a mid-western woman), I began dating a recently divorced Filipina (10 years my jr). She was very playful in the bedroom (lights off, of course), until I wanted to pleasure her down there! Her exact response: “dirty down there”😮- although she (voluntarily) provided lip-service to me. I tried to reason with her. Told her it was unfair, why should I have all the fun? Then about a week later, without asking, I slowly went downtown, fully expecting to be rejected. To my surprise, the forrest was bare, and her 🐈‍⬛ was pleasantly perfumed! Without getting too explicit, let’s just say she was (literally) singing a different tune! On a side note (if any Filipinas are reading this): this is another great reason for choosing an older partner- we know where the “little-man-in-the-boat” is located😉! Before long, my Filipina was ready for more adventures, like the 68+1, for example. In conclusion: a man just has to “plant a seed”, then be patient, and let her figure it out. Filipinas are so willing to please that I believe there’s almost nothing she’s not willing to try, at least once. And if she likes it, you can add it to the repertoire. I found out later that she talked to an older Filipina friend, who convinced her that the act in question, would be to her benefit. Well that’s all I have to say (for now) except your Pom-Pom’s are purrr-fect ! ❤

[@n3xr0th]

The puns had me laughing. Also, love the outros. Thank you for the videos.

[@paynalward6921]

This is always so funny! And the best humor has a little( or maybe a lot) of truth in it. When in Cebu first spending time with my girlfriend she expressed a desire to learn how to orally pleasure me….sure I could teach but I decided to show her how there are literally hundreds of thousands of …uh…”instructional“ videos available free on line! Well, you would have thought I had found a treasure map! Being the great student she is my teacher friend learned quickly and moved on to many other subjects as well! 😂😂😂 Problem solved!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I think … you created a monster 👹 😂😂😂😂👍

[@shared-value]

@@TheFilipinaPea I think a that kind of "monster" dating service would be quite popular ;- 0

[@AS-ph4rb]

I had that same problem with my filipino girlfriend except it was her grandson. He would just walk into our bedroom without knocking and for the life of me I can't understand how she saw nothing wrong with that. Then he started sleeping between us, I spoke about it and nothing changed. So I started sleeping naked and what do you know, no more grandson sleeping between us.

[@TheJacali]

Hahaha 🤣

[@paulrine7447]

For me, when I first married my wife she had been a widow for several years. When we got married, I ran into conflict with our oldest son as he had been the man of the house since his father passed. When I showed up and stepped in, it caused an issue. (My wife had 4 kids at that time). the other 3 accepted me with open arms. The youngest, was 6 at the time, and I am pretty much the only father she has ever known. Since we have been married for almost 6 years now, the oldest has now come around and has fully accepted me with open arms. especially since I got him out a couple of sticky situations. Now we are all happy and one big family.

[@perrykomick9478]

Ufffdah...sounds like a nightmare!😂...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Four kids? You’re a brave man - congrats 👍👍❤️❤️

[@wolf30324]

You deserve a medal of honor.......I would have run at the sight of all them children. Not a ready-made family. Unless you never wanted a family of your own or have done that already.

[@pyramidlake7124]

Congrats for being a DAD! All good things come to those who wait! or "Work for it" as you did.

[@perrykomick9478]

@@pyramidlake7124 here is your Trophy for being a world class sucker...sadly he is being used...

[@TerryProthero]

There is a simple rule when it comes to dating single mothers. Don't. This guy is discovering why. The only way it ever works is when you have a say in how the kids are raised, etc. When my brother got involved with a single mother, he made it clear that was going to be the case or he wasn't going to do it. I think they have been married for about 30 years now. He is the only one of my six siblings who has never been divorced. So, it can work. But it usually doesn't. As a general rule, I would highly recommend not getting involved with single mothers.

[@thepassman]

Pea!🤢It's not a "Bill Clinton". I seem to remember that it was called a "Monica Lewinsky"🤣. Who doesn't like getting hugs from sisters-in-law? Like the old saying "When in Rome".😉

[@joshuaramirez6039]

I remember that you once did an episode about how Filipinas consider children as assets. One thing that Filipinas need to be educated on besides sex is that other men’s children are not assets when it comes to foreigners. Just having one child for a Filipina is considered by most as a dealbreaker.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They’re definitely not assets to a foreigner, no - they’re a cash drain 😂

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

JEEZ @@TheFilipinaPea ! Let's give the kids a break! Children are our future, so they deserve to be loved and need to be encouraged to remember how important family is. Not all foreigners are simply looking for an under-priced, very beautiful sex toy.

[@richwiedeman3128]

​@@Danno_A_JydThere is a difference between giving someone a break, and breaking your own happiness. Everyone deserves to be loved, but it's important to love yourself with the life you have. If you're sacrificing your peace hoping that someday in the future someone else's children will love you, then you are being a sucker.

[@Danno_A_Jyd]

I know just how wrong you are @@richwiedeman3128 because my ADULT kids STILL surprise me when they worship the ground I walk on. It is clear that you have had a bad experience. I'm sorry for your pain.

[@jerryfritz374]

Question number 2 Might turn to disaster. Don't be alone with the wife's sister. Always try to be around wife.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Agreed 👍👍

[@brandonlevy8680]

They are ruthless in the, Philippines. Especially on social media and text. Your partner's friends AND family will be messaging you to..."meet up", without the partner around.... This is seriously a common occurrence. So bad in fact it i a specific requirement when I hook up there. Don't add me to any social media unless you want drama.

[@dirtydoug5050]

He should parade around naked in front of the sister. Then he will know. It’s important to get to the bottom of this.

[@michaelmto]

Absolutely perfect guidance today Pea❤ You are mature beyond your years and have a perfectly wonderful attitude. Was so disappointed that I didn't get to run into you while you were over here in Florida but happy you got a chance to experience my country with all it's insanity and wonder Hope to experience the same in yours sometime soon. You really are fabulous girl

[@halomaniac74]

Philip bro RUN!!!!! Get out of the relationship ASAP. I have been in a lot of relationships with women with kids, it never works out and you end up getting attached to their kids and you lose them and her when the relationship ends.

[@paulace0674]

I love your diplomatic answer to the last email. Loving your content. Hope you are well!

[@TazCid303]

I truly LOVE mostly all of her material. Pea has pleasant voice. She's definitely creative and intelligent. But...I wish that she'd just talk in a regular conversational tone instead of sounding scripted or like she practices to be a news reporter every day. She REALLY has a beautiful disposition and it'd be cool to hear her in her genuine regular tone and voice. Ijs ❣️🇵🇭

[@AlanAwesomeness]

#1) I definitely knew about that cultural thing with shared beds and I addressed it well before we were married. It's not happening here. She has come to appreciate that fact that our daughter has her own room, appropriately decorated for her. #3) I definitely addressed that, very gentlemanly and delicately, on our first weekend together when dating. I love it and can't live without, giving and receiving. I told her she was under no pressure to do anything our first weekend together and we could just focus on getting to know each other. In fact, we didn't go "all the way" for several months. However, on the third night, just above the Taal volcano, she was frisky in the middle of the night and did her first ever "Monica." In our 7th year of our wonderful marriage, she has long ago read up on perfecting DT has never missed so much as a drop in the process. Hope I kept that clean enough for KZbin. I would address any relationship honestly, but gentlemanly, at the very beginning. This guy is already in a relationship, so I think Pea gave great advice...along with a hilarious way of telling the story. 😆

[@lobosolo3215]

Great video Pea. I was having a bad day until I watched your video and you had me rolling in laughter especially all the "excellent" word choices on the last email about bedroom etiquettes. You are very well educated above and beyond, I would say/think, 99% of Filipina women in all areas of life. Many Filipinas are very smart (well educated) yet they cannot hold a candle to you. Take care, glad to hear your system with Starlink is working. You will have issues during really heavy rains I feel as I use to have basically same system. Take care and may each day bring you joy filled and love into your life

[@Banyan3]

I LOVE "kiss'n the wookie"!😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😂😂😂😂👍

[@Jimbeam151]

If she let you move in with her when she has young children she's not wife material and you're not husband material.

[@jimgilbert9984]

Hi, Pea! "Forget all about your problems." It seems my only problem is that I don't have a Filipina in my life. 😞 💔 Though I've sort of given myself a Filipina GF virtually by introducing a Filipina nurse into the urban fantasy novel I'm currently writing. Kids: That first guy must not have any experience with children at all. In America, kids practically live on their phones, and it starts when they're babies. I can't count the number of times I've seen a baby kept distracted by mom giving the little one her phone while at the supermarket, doctor's office, etc. And parents have been using the TV as an electronic babysitter since the 1950s. 😆 I think your advice for him is right on target. Sister-in-law: I can't even get one woman to show me any affection, even friendly affection, and he gets two? Humbug! My advice to him? Enjoy the ride until sis crosses the line. Bedroom bewilderment: Holy Crow! I've never heard so many different ways of saying (and avoiding saying 🤣) one thing in my life! Very well done! 👍 I understand the third guy wanting a certain act performed in the bedroom if it's something that really gets him going, but I think he's watched too much porn, wherein every woman seems eager and more than happy to indulge every man on Earth in this manner. But in reality, not every woman wants to drop to her knees in worship of the manliness of her partner, not even in America. Your words of wisdom for him were right on target. It's not just Filipinas who are reluctant to indulge their partners in this way, as I said above. I'm happy that your new gizmo is working well, but I think the concerns some of your followers voiced about rain might be valid. We have a cable TV company called Direct TV, and you get a small satellite dish to place on your roof or rail of your deck when you sign up with them. It's not a flat dish like yours; it's a "salad bowl" style dish. When it rains, reception goes downhill for people with one of these satellite dishes. All I can do is hope your dish works out well. Thank you for another great and funny video. As always, I'm looking forward to your next video. Be well. ❤

[@Daehawk]

I would LOVE to have one. My wife passed 5 years ago and Im alone and bored.

[@mrvapor4791]

I predict that this is going to get some views.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You think so? It’ll be interesting to see ☺️👍

[@jorgschwartze6895]

Your choice and use of words in a language that is not your own is simply delicious. That was very entertaining.

[@deepskywishingwell2602]

I have found that the young ladies that I have talked to and currently the one that I am in love with have all wanted to, and explicitly talked about oral sex. I have not found any hesitation in the ladies that I have known over the last couple years to want to be more open in the bedroom to things they have not tried. I will admit, they seem to like the idea of a foreign experiment with me, but I believe it is all genuine and sincere so I don’t find Filipinos to be hesitant at all. Maybe it’s a stroke a bad luck for this gentleman but never for me.

[@blazengunnerpaul]

Well n my book , if u want 2 keep your 👨 n keep him 😊 then u need 2 give up all 3 🕳 🕳🕳’s ❤ Lovingly! 🤔n when he wants u! 👍✌️

[@blazengunnerpaul]

n 4 as long as he wants! 👍✌️

[@JJfromIA]

You can make any subject humorous. Thanks for the video, Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for sticking with me, Jason! ❤️

[@reddevilparatrooper]

I love watching your channel for your down to earth honesty!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Been married twice to a German woman and a Panamanian woman and have had bad luck. Me myself being born Filipino, my Mom wanted for me to marry a Filipina woman but knowing the culture of the husband being exploited by her family I said "NO"! Im getting older now and don't care. I chose not to get involved in any drama and move on to be just single. I chose to have my sanity over waking up angry everyday no matter where these women come from. I have noticed this working my job in casino security, domestic violence always happens....

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well you definitely know Filipino culture then 👍👍👍

[@reddevilparatrooper]

@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you for being a great I say a truth teller and honest person. You have a great insight into human relationships in an in depth manner that even me as critical of all things, I respect that you are spot on in what you say. For me I love watching your content and respect what you present especially life changing things. I have made very bad decisions in my past that I watch your channel to prevent anymore bad episodes in my life as I get older. You have a great day and I will keep watch to keep my old dumb ass away from trouble. 👍👍👍

[@spykemxd]

I repeat, no single moms. Ever!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I do tend to agree ☺️

[@nostringsguy185]

Only problem is that a filipina without kids 99.99% for sure wants kids, and that is absolutely the last thing I want personally. I'm happy with single mothers 35 to 42 roughly, as by then the kid(s) are close to or past 18. Finding a filipina who doesn't have kids and who also doesn't want kids is like finding hens' teeth.

[@spykemxd]

@@nostringsguy185 oh no, I'll gladly give her kids, I just don't wanna play some other dudes save file, if you get my meaning.

[@nostringsguy185]

@@spykemxd yeah, understand. I'm way past the stage of life of wanting kids. I value my freedom too much.

[@spykemxd]

@@nostringsguy185 I can understand that.

[@ArtaherDuron]

1st guy: 1. Children walks into room without knocking. A. There's this little technology, been around for ages called a Lock. 🤨 2. Children eats a lot of junk food. A. You're clearly not the one buying the food. If you don't want the children to over consume candy then buy the groceries 🥱 3. Child is 9 years old & sleeps in our bed. A. This is really the only conversation that needs to be had. The first two are basic common sense. 4. Kids sit in front of tv, tablets, & phones, etc. A. That's what they're made for its a form of entertainment. Some kids read a book, others play outside, most use devices we designed for the purpose of entering oneself. I'm not even sure what we're talking about.... 😮‍💨

[@chrismacqueen4891]

This is why to avoid *read made families* in the Philippines. Even if you marry the odds are you won't be able to change things really if she's not wanting to very early on. Best to run while you can and avoid these single mothers unless their kids were raised with discipline.

[@justinwilbur4094]

hahaha I think your alternative language use on that last email was even better than hearing the original would have been!! Another awesome video, Pea. Thanks!

[@garygehegan1468]

I think that everyone should have healthy boundaries and a clear understanding of what you can except and the things you can't 🌹

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

A woman with children and no husband is a BIG red flag!

[@garygehegan1468]

LoL 😂 I have to say that your warm and always exciting humor is great 😸. Just wondering why a Beautiful person like yourself is still single. Are you not interested in a relationship or just being happy being alone and adventurous ❤️. Lots of LOVE SMILE and continue to SHINE BRIGHT 😎🌞

[@christopherturco197]

Pea, you truly had me rolling with your response to that third email question! 🤣🤣🤣 I didn't know there were so many euphemisms for "playing the upright organ" or for "eating clams raw on the half shell." You always entertain me with your creative wit, and I love your sense of humor! ❤👍👍👍 I especially love how you make yourself laugh when you turn a phrase as only you seem to know how to do. Hmmm! For some reason I'm suddenly hungry for a Filipina-made all meat taco. 😋🤭 Oh, well. See you in 3 days.🤙

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahaha Thanks for adding two more! 😂😂

[@preseil6285]

Pea, you are the best at double entendre 😄😄 As you know, my wife is a Westernized Filipina; however, some of my experiences with her are similar to what you describe regarding Filipinas born and raised in the Philippines. For example, when we first started dating I was expected to pretty much court her entire family and we were never allowed to go anywhere without a chaperone....usually her little sister 😄 Very different from what I was used too but well worth it as it turns out. Things are great now but when we first met she wouldn't even hold my hand in public😄😄 She said she didn't want to make her friends jealous😳😄😄 I won't speak to our bedroom activities but I will say that communicating desires, as you said, can fellatiate bedroom proclivities👍 Take Care, Pea! Have a good week😄👍🤙

[@lovebloomsfromafar6302]

fellatiate?!🤣

[@preseil6285]

@@lovebloomsfromafar6302 oh ...I meant facilitates 😁

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Fellatiate? And that, folks, was called a Freudian slip 😂😂😂

[@byronjones7263]

Fallatiate??? Wow that's a reach. "Please pass me the Tea Bag." @@TheFilipinaPea

[@daronrice9931]

Excellent delivery 👌... You were able to get your point across 100% without having to using the words that you didn't want to use.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s my specialty 🤣🤣

[@kingkanoworldmedia4389]

He is not ready to date, or marry a Filipina. He needs to move on now. Not all men are good enough to date a Single mother. It is not fair to those involved

[@perfektg]

It sounds like the second guy who is getting additional attention from his sister-in-law could easily deflect that attention by setting her up with or introducing her to a male friend or something. That way you won't be breaking her heart if she's really into you and you innocently don't have to even think about that issue when she's dating someone else. Problem solved.

[@Gmantrini]

Yes Phillip this is totally normal and won’t change. Pls don’t let your emotions control your situation.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s extremely common, yes 😳👍

[@Mottleydude1]

I’ve had the exact opposite problem with my wife’s older sisters. You probably know how domineering older sisters can be in Filipino families. Well my wife’s older sisters tend to criticize her for private aspects of our life and me personally telling them to mind their own business in a polite manner didn’t work. So I did what most Midwestern guys would have done. I repeated my “mind you own business” comments only in an aggressive, loud and not to be misconstrued statement. That not only got their attention it made their husband’s laugh at their predicament (I had talked to both their husband and they both gave permission to read them the riot act). The other issue was they have a bad habit of making unilateral family decisions that affect me without discussing it with me and just assume I’ll be ok with whatever they decide. Her one older sister is particularly bad about it. I know that part of the issue is that of hierarchy and status by age within Filipino families and even though I’m actually older than her sisters they view me as of a lower status because I married their Younger sister. Again talking to them about that was a waste of time. So when her older sister eventually crossed a line where that was concerned i again had to get her attention, in no uncertain terms. I hated having to be a jerk about but if they learned anything it was not to cross me when it comes to my prerogatives as head of household and family leader.

[@wernerschneider4460]

Oh, one year before our marriage and one day before I went to the airport again to fly home, my wife's eldest sister, nicknamed "The General" by some neighbors and the local head of the Department for Land Reform, asked me to her house, seated me in a chair and started interrogating me (in the presence of my later wife) to find out if I was really serious with her youngest sister. It lasted 10 minutes and ended with her being completely satisfied with my answers. We have a very good relationship ever since, and she was twice in my country too (on her own expense, she can afford).

[@Mottleydude1]

@@wernerschneider4460 Now I would have had no issues with that. I’m the professional type myself. However, my wife can walk circles around them in her leadership skills. Not only that let’s just say her older sister’s decision making abilities aren’t exactly the best. Besides once I had my wife’s Nanay’s housekeeping seal of approval it was like that was it. I was in. Besides, I didn’t care that her older sisters were so bossy. I cared that they were sticking their noses in our personal business.

[@deejay7060]

You weren’t being a jerk about anything. You were being blunt.

[@grahammidwinter9895]

Similar experience for me, but my wife has become more westernized now.

[@Federico-ht7ks]

Guys, it’s so important to observe if the single mom you’re interested in has control of her kids. Do the kids respect her authority and do what she says? Or do they ignore her and view her as just annoying? Worst, are they running roughshod over mom? Then decide if it’s something you can live with. Find out before hand what kind of relationship does she expect you will have with the kids. Will she allow you to discipline them? Don’t be so quick to pass on what could be the love of your life because she has kids.

[@mannyrodriguez3933]

I’m dating a girl online who has one son. A 3 year old. What kinds of questions would you recommend me ask about this sort of thing you mentioned? I’ve been curious but I’ve been unsure what to say or how to pose the right questions

[@Federico-ht7ks]

@@mannyrodriguez3933 The first question to ask is to yourself. Are you up for helping raise a child this young as your own? You could be the only father the child will know. It will require patience, time, energy and financial resources for years. Can you see yourself with this woman, in this kind of relationship for 5, 10, 20 years? Yes, there's a risk that any relationship may not last like we think it will. But we get a feeling that this is the one and put all of our chips on the table. Now, the questions for the lady: Where is the father of the child? Is he still in the child's life? In your life? Do you still love him? What are your expectations of me as a potential step-father? As the child gets older, can we agree that I will be involved in disciplining the child as I would my own? A word of caution: If the lady is married, few can afford a divorce, so most likely her and the husband are just separated. In which case you want to seriously consider not going forward with the relationship. He can show up anytime with all the legal rights of a husband and you're out no matter what she says. Lastly, what kind of financial support will you be expected to provide for her family? This is a huge issue for some guys. Most Filipinas feel compelled to share their resources with their families. If you can comfortably and freely do it, of course it's a huge feather in your cap with the family and your Filipina.

[@ruben7937]

That was a lot of red flags. I would RUN!. She is NOT a good mother. The kids are used to use tv as a outlet, which is a very red flag in itself. Toi much propaganda and bad values will infect the family through constant tv vieweing. And that is how she handles her children?. And you as an outsiser will NOT realisticly be able to change such ingrained behaviours. You will ecome everyones villain if you try to change such addictions. You will loose.

[@Nature-bt3mj]

Ahh, when you said KEEP YOUR HEAD DOWN AND OUT OF TROUBLE, which head were you talking about? I'm confused. 😊

[@torahwarrior2442]

Enthusiasm trumps everything else in the bedroom...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@billbillson3129]

Great video Pea!!!! Incredible euphemisms as always! ❤❤❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Gotta keep it clean! Mostly 😂

[@billbillson3129]

@@TheFilipinaPea BAM! Another double entendre! Impressive as ever! Thank you for making and sharing your videos, and I hope you and your family are happy and healthy! Best wishes from Texas!🥰

[@xrpwatts2116]

They are as talented as you make them. teach them what you like.

[@tuberNunya]

I like your cheerful demeanor. After watching awhile, I think you should move to the US and work in TV.

[@lesewski72]

Hi Pea, Great Video & Oh I Watched Crazy Hot Matrix, that was really Funny so I left You a comment over there for You to Read, I know that it's 3 Years Old but I've only been watching Your Content for the last Week & I got to Say that You should be a Stand up Comedian. Your Hilarious.

[@leonardocrisostomo5975]

Omg . I almost died on happy meal.

[@VictorPrice4081]

My Filipina is happy with anything I like. I'm still in the USA right now. She insists to go with me to football games, to work with me, or any kind of special event. She loves anything that I love. She has a beautiful soul, but she doesn't seem to know much about Americans. She is precious trying to learn more about our culture, and it amazes me

[@StanHasselback]

I've actually found in Asia especially in Bundist countries that a "Lewinsky" is not a normal practice. The Philippines is more of an exception, I've read that Filipinos have one of the highest rates of watching certain videos or maybe it's just more westernize. I wonder if asking that question in a tasteful way in your interviews might be possible?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

The Philippines is the number 1 consumer of porn in the entire world. Fact. 😳😂😂😂😂

[@davideos5943]

then its a wonder that generally they don't have experience or desire for oral. @@TheFilipinaPea

[@robertwilliamson922]

@StanHasselback “…Bundist countries…” Do you mean “…Buddhist countries…” ? ?

[@swedishpsychopath8795]

OMG: What a bad and non-tasteful subject to bring up. Please don't bring this channel into the gutter, Pea? We want to see polite topics about everyday struggle for honest hard-working men and women.

[@americanandpinay]

Comment 3: I have never met a Filipina that didn't do it. Maybe the guy needs to see if he smells or change his diet. That's what I notice about girls who don't want to do it. It's not that they the majority will not. It's like a taste and odor thing. Like a Japanese or Thai girl saying she doesn't is few and far between. I had a Japanese girl tell me she ate whale sperm soup, so male sperm was no issue.

[@stub4958]

Pea, you gave some good advice. I was thinking about just leaving the first girl, mostly based on the lack of respect from the kids. I believe if I'm going to live with a woman with kids and pay the bills, I deserve respect. I think you gave him a better path, including the go back to separate homes. It may not end well, but she couldn't say he didn't try.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I always try to avoid the most extreme options till all else fails ☺️👍

[@stub4958]

@@TheFilipinaPeaGood way to be.

[@Michael-we9vp]

My neighbor married a Filipino woman and all he does is smile! Every time I see him he's smiling ear to ear!

[@TheJacali]

That’s sweet!

[@kenjohnson9654]

Must be a huge age gap haha

[@fauxque5057]

The bedroom door is an easy fix. You have to swap out the door knob for a locking door knob. When my kids were little the simple push lock on the bedroom door was enough. But they figured out how to pop the lock and come in during adult play time. So I put a digital lock on the bedroom door so we could just avoid scarring them for life.

[@Tential1]

2:00 changing countries doesn't mean red flags aren't red flags... No discipline is a red flag....

[@martyb4815]

Lol, last Email Metaphors were excellent, your too westernized Pea. Great Job😲😭😱😄😉😉

[@steveforbes8287]

OUCH! Your response to the third person's issues had me falling out of my chair laughing like a hyena! You are too much! You are absolutely brilliant! Keep up the good work and never let your sense of humor fade!

[@colinsmith1071]

I can confirm my wife, hates it, I mean really badly. I can count on two hands, and we have been together for over 13 years. Also with the kids it seems to be a cultural thing. I'm Irish/Anglo-Saxon which it is the opposite, however either the kids are kidding into our bed or she is sneaking into theirs. IDK, i just kind of accept it.

[@bobbruce4135]

I've met dozens of Fil-west asawa couples at parties and the majority of the wives loath doing anything with their husbands unless it's for the purpose of making babies. I hear all the positive feedback in these channel comments, but that's not what I observe or what happened to me. IMHO, the bedroom goes cold after they make their retirement plan (babies).

[@robrussell8515]

That’s so funny! - adult happy meal! …

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣

[@bobbobbington3615]

Comes with practice... if she's/he's good at it, there's a body count.

[@smferreiro2610]

"Talent" is just a cherished ability developed with passion, love, and patience! Keep up the good work, guys! Rome's brightness glows just beyond the horizon!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍😂❤️

[@urbanws1234]

I love my Filipina wife. The differences we have make us both stronger. I don’t view any of our challenges as a problem.

[@Nordic_Sky]

How long have you been married?

[@urbanws1234]

@@Nordic_Sky 6 Years but that really is irrelevant. Nothing will ever have me viewing a challenge as something negative. Every relationship be it with a friend, family, or lover has challenges. It’s about how things are handled. Neither she nor I are victims nor do we view it in such a way. neither one of us causes harm and we both have good intentions. Also we both know that we don’t need to see eye to eye 100% and that is perfectly acceptable.

[@Nordic_Sky]

@@urbanws1234 Good for you! Reason I ask how long is in the initial period, when love is raging, it is easy to underestimate how important the differences are. But you've been married long enough you've figured it out. Congrats!

[@urbanws1234]

@@Nordic_Sky :)

[@kenjohnson9654]

The biggest difference that makes you stronger (and happier) is the age difference haha

[@Nature-bt3mj]

WTF! Every time I see you (The Filipina Pea), you look younger and younger!

[@Jim-ny2de]

Orrrrrr..... it could be time to catch yourself a 2nd wife😂😂😂

[@marioelcock9677]

You will never be number one in that house. all of her family is more important than you. don't think twice get out.

[@Thegoodlife007]

I enjoy your videos very much. I lived in the Philippines for 2 years when I was a teenager. My father was a career man in the Air Force he was there 6 months before me, my brother,and my mother. Going back and forth to Vietnam. We were there in 1966,1967+68. I loved your country and everything anout it. It was the best 2 years for our family. I loved the food and especially the people. The Philippines is just beautiful and has been a influence in my life since then. Thank you

[@genepothier8398]

Hi Pea .. just came across this video … I have to say the last of the 3 responses cracked me up .. especially at the end if I heard that right a ‘no denture adventure ‘a no denture adventure’ HAHAHA … that was great! Keep the videos coming… always very entertaining and informative … ty

[@jeffquelle7490]

Going to lie to you if I can't discipline the kids then the relationship is not going to work

[@jimgray9169]

Hi Pea HYD? Listen, I liked the way that you shaded out certain that you couldn't use on you tube kinda like the way when a movie comes to tv but they had to filter out certain words and other things after it was played in theaters. BTW ( By The Way) I started saying kiss my grits after you said it actually we both have Florence Jean Castleberry for that one.

[@thiawroane]

Are you REALLY "positive"? I have dated a number of Filipinas, and they seem more willing to receive than to give. It was never that important, because of the benefits of a-FORE-mentioned PLAY-ing around. But one in a while, a Western woman will need to fill the gap!

[@Kakkoii_ne]

I agree. That has been my experiences, too.

[@isaaknewtone6646]

isn't it a well-known axiom to never start a long-term relationship with a divorced woman that has kids from past adventures? I thought many men already knew that simple rule.

[@Alexfreeman75]

As long as you pay them,😊they will do the job well with happy end.

[@richardkoehler9917]

Alway enjoy you video . Stay safe and well .👍🏻🇺🇸🙏🏻❤