The Male Loneliness Epidemic - Is It Women's Fault?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@dongshengdi773]

Of course it's women's fault. They insist to make it difficult. They are like teachers who make it difficult for students, not realizing that you're supposed to make it easy for students to learn. Funny that women pity these lonely men when in fact , men have nothing to worry even until they reach over 80 . Men can still do it with young women for $20 to $50 a pop. But when women reach 35 , they will experience a lot of problems like difficulty getting a partner, difficulty in getting pregnant. By the time she reaches 45 , she'll be a reject. Many of my female friends who are now old maids regret it now . Sorry for these women. They have no chance . But old lonely men can just go to Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Africa, and many other poor countries, they can easily become Passport Bros.

[@BrianHeffner-l8l]

I would love to have you as my partner here in Florida, USA

[@gideondejongh838]

You are definitely putting a smile on my face with your humour even if the subject is not.

[@openmindchannel1978]

Sorry, Ms. I don't know where are you women getting this nonsense that men are lonely or there is a loneness amongst men. If you have a man , you will no that men like being alone, by themselves, in peace and not bothered by even their own wives. Don't worry about us dear we are the happiest we ever have and the freest we ever been , without the headaches and bullshit being around toxic, complaining .. Let us enjoy our peace and freedoms ..Thanks

[@markplimsoll]

​@@openmindchannel1978Sorry, but svience finds that you (people) will live longer in a relationship. Not having one is "more dangerous than smoking!" You need to read more, now that you have so much alone time. 😅😅😅

[@hongolloyd8728]

Indifference is not loneliness, it’s self preservation.

[@ballergame1017]

Indeed,Once dudes get or put their passport to good use that loneliness disappears.I feel for the without it anomie is eating them alive.

[@RazuX5]

Agreed

[@KEVWARD63]

And alone doesn’t mean lonely

[@alyssawoodman]

Except it isn't indifference. Men are offing themselves.

[@timwest277]

Amen to that

[@cgrilley]

You can't treat 50% of humanity as unneeded, incompetent, a competitor or an enemy and expect to have a society that doesn't implode eventually. On point, Pea!

[@frosty3693]

That is one reason the USA is importing people from south of the border. The US knows it needs more workers not just to replace the boomer generation that is retiring but also to work in plants the US is bringing back from China, though a lot of that is being moved to other SEA countries. The real implosion may take twenty years to happen.

[@taras3702]

​@@frosty3693They are importing them to exterminate the founding stock, one way or another.

[@grasshopper1153]

men are typically more aggressive than women, maybe because we have testosterone. if AI robot companions don't get here soon, we may have more global violence on our hands all because of feminism and woke ideology in the West

[@marcelleorton95]

​@@frosty3693where do you get that?! Biden is allowing the illegals for votes! It has nothing to do with labor. You must have blinders on our just want to find any excuse to write a post.

[@TheWallReports]

I find it's interesting after men have civilized the world, invented the technology, built & maintain all the infrastructures & systems of the modern world that women do NOT need men anymore. This includes all the useless jobs & degrees men created just for the sake those women can feel important.

[@andymanaus1077]

I have never been so lonely as when I was in a loveless marriage where my ex-wife thought it was funny to abuse and denigrate me for no reason other than she could. I put up with it for two years and then left forever. Loneliness is better than loneliness and misery.

[@gideondejongh838]

You deserve better man and I hope you find it.

[@DMSProduktions]

What a moll!

[@markplimsoll]

You escaped finding out how women rape men - after ten years (varies by State) they divorce and get alimony. That hurts WAY more, and for a much longer time, than physical rape which most often gets decided by the female during her hangover. 😅😅😅

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And finding a quality woman can be even better than loneliness (so don’t give up unless you want to) 👍😊

[@bryanoldaker3730]

I was in a loveless marriage, my ex of almost 25 years repeatedly cheated on me, then I was to blame, over and over..I own my part..but its 50/50...

[@traindawg21]

I'm just used to being alone. I actually love it. Peaceful, quiet and just just content.

[@ronfindley2874]

I married my filipina wife 24 years ago, and we are still going strong. The current mindset of western women is disturbing.

[@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2]

Did you take her out of Phillipines, often the filipina sours when she gets in contact with our culture.

[@PASSPORTKING2106]

ID ADVISE TO STAY WITH HER MY GUY DATING THESE MODERN WESTERN GIRLS IS ........DEPRESSING AND DISTURBING

[@dongshengdi773]

Of course it's women's fault. They insist to make it difficult. They are like teachers who make it difficult for students, not realizing that you're supposed to make it easy for students to learn. Funny that women pity these lonely men when in fact , men have nothing to worry about even until they reach over 80 . Men can still do it with young women for $20 to $50 a pop. But when women reach 35 , they will experience a lot of problems like difficulty getting a partner, difficulty in getting pregnant. By the time she reaches 45 , she'll be a reject. Many of my female friends who are now old maids regret it now . Sorry for these women. They have no chance . But old lonely men can just go to Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Africa, and many other poor countries, they can easily become Passport Bros.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You really hit the jackpot, Ron 👍❤️

[@ronfindley2874]

@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 we've lived in Florida for 17 years.

[@hughjohns9110]

“Going up faster than the numbers on their bathroom scales” - 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂 And the woman who complained about men letting themselves go….that left me speechless!

[@jessiesheldon-huffey1824]

She should have said "going up faster than the number of men subscribing to 'Only Fans'.

[@RaikenXion]

Yeh lol, she will be that woman who regularly checks into her local clinic for her daily nip/tucks and botox sessions. Stuck in that never-ending cyclical process of fighting against "Gravity". Yeah that woman can Stay spending most her wages on such bs, the WALL defeats them.

[@fearthemerciful]

I grew up in a large Feminist family and I tried so hard to be a good boy. I did my absolute best to listen and understand women's issues. It wasn't until I was suicidal that I realized that I was never going to be okay in their eyes. To this day, they see me as a white supremacist misogynist, even when I try to reach out with goodwill. If it wasn't for the Grace of God, I wouldn't have survived my youth. How these women don't have empathy for people like me always blows my mind. I never wanted to harm women and I wanted to be a Feminist. I'm still dealing with the trauma of the whole experience and I wonder if I'll ever be healthy enough to be in a good relationship with a decent woman. How can people be filled with such hatred towards the innocent?

[@ThorgalsWalhalla]

That's the worst. Sorry to hear man. Many guys really suffer from single woman upbringing. One thing i learnt is never ever listen to female advise.

[@Maxmellow94]

So sorry to hear that brother 😢 glad you’re doing better

[@davien001]

Eat well, get good sleep and set boundaries.

[@fighter77weon]

There are people that simply are rotten to the core, others have no soul, and I mean literally, no in a retoric way, they literally are souless beings so they can do all the evil they want because they have no sence of guilt or remorse.

[@kenkneram4819]

I feel you bro! My whole childhood was spent listening to comments such as "Men! That only want one thing." And "Men are worthless!" And the all powerful simply "MEN!!!" I grew up hating other men and working hard to mold myself into the kind of man that I'd been taught that women wanted. I had no male friends or female for that matter. I was alone. The guys hated me because I looked down on them and the girls didn't trust me because they thought that I was phony and weak. I couldn't understand why the girls kept going out with the assholes with the nice cars who treated them like shit. These guys would do anything to win. They'd do anything to get what they wanted. Lie, cheat, steal, break the law... It wasn't until I was in my 30s that I realized that it was the same qualities that made them jerks that gave them an advantage with women. They play to win. At ANY cost. They were cocky and arrogant which is extreme confidence and they were expert at destroying other men's (boy's) confidence. They were hard working and socially adept so they had high earning potential and could lie convincingly. Lastly they had no integrity and didn't mind lying to someone's face to accomplish they're goal or to get away with whatever crimes they were committing. (Including on a few occasions rape.) Guys like this have always disgusted me. BUT!!! What if I could take the beneficial aspects of this way of being and hold onto my integrity and virtue, 🤔 I wondered. Is there a way to develope the level of success without becoming a criminal? Can I win without cheating and being a jerk. I started kind of late, but I'm now focusing on building mastery of myself and cultivating skills that will help me be an amazing provider without being a jerk or a criminal.

[@sharplikecheddar]

100% facts. I was 32 when I went to Colombia. I was tired of the dating scene here, I found a person who was almost too good to be true. Her mindset, hustle, work ethic, traditional way of thinking, and values all aligned with mine. Now we are married, living in the USA with three beautiful children. I can not be happier. And the most important thing, We both haven't changed.....

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You’re living the dream ❤️❤️👍

[@markplimsoll]

A Mexicsn advised me to skip Mexicanas and go to Colombia, like he did. Wish now I had taken his advice. Mexicanas are seriously conflicted: "Vale madte," and either La Virgen de Guadeloupe, or the fallen La Llorona looking fir her dead children along riverbanks, totally chingada. 😅😅😅

[@DMSProduktions]

@@markplimsoll QUE??

[@sharplikecheddar]

@markplimsoll I know right! Lol... I am Mexican American 3rd gen. And I took the advice from a coworker who said. Study everything about Colombia, the history, good and bad, and the culture. accumulate contacts and just meet people in person, no internet meet-ups. Colombianas are very approachable and appreciate being flattered. They do have some issues like we all do. But it was very worth the time and effort. The best part is getting stared at while we walk in public together from both guys and women here.. lol 😁

[@sharplikecheddar]

@TheFilipinaPea thank you pea. I love your content!!

[@Michael_Skinner]

I am married and still lonely. Kids are almost done growing up. So they don't need me anymore .My 'wife' never pays any attention to me probably because she is narcissistic. She did not even go to Hawaii with me last month. The loneliness epidemic is not for just single men.

[@bobbruce4135]

Truth. And, I tried extensive dating in the PH and I found it not any better except there is more honey than money (think poverty and the need for extended family to support). So, many thirsty guys will be the provider and refuse to see they aren't really loved. No money = no honey.

[@CarbiesChronicles]

sorry to hear that

[@victoryasher1729]

Yo bruh, sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but somebody’s running up in them cheeks. It’s not that I don’t have compassion for your situation. But I’m just being brutally honest. I’ve seen this story roll out of closets throughout my lifetime time and time again. Heck embarrassingly, I was the Chad in some of them, of which now I deeply regret. All I can do now is repent and live under God and His forgiveness. But there’s a Chad or Tyrone who has been/or is still in the mix. Especially if you haven’t been sticking your wooden spoon in the cake batter. Trust your instincts, they never lie to you.

[@buckjones4901]

That is a piss poor wife, sorry you got stuck with her.

[@CptAHad]

I'm so sorry, brother.

[@LarryaproudU.S.citizen]

I lost a good women to early demensia and was devastated at her loss. I didn't see good choices in women so I just started hobbies. Working on a blower to give me 1000hp in my Mustang, running marathons, learning chemistry, fly fishing, brewing beer then started drinking too much. Circumstances forced me to look at finding someone to be with. I was very lonesome. I put myself out there to find someone, but things had changed in the American women. So I checked out the women abroad. 160 hits in a day with real profiles. I found the women that I adore. We are both seniours, been together over a year. I am happy now.

[@Supremmo]

Good stuff!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ Congrats!!!

[@markplimsoll]

​@trevorsmith7753Creep. 😮

[@Yohann67]

@trevorsmith7753Keeping it klassy!

[@itree4]

About that 1000 🐴 power...... 🤔.... 😊

[@alvinallen5334]

I rarely comment on anything. I recently got divorced of 38 years. A relative introduced me to a Filipina last year. After traveling there for three weeks and experiencing the way men want to be treated in the west, it was a no brainer for me. I didn’t even know this was a thing going overseas to find a traditional wife. Needless to say I’m moving to the Philippines in September and getting married in December. Keep up the good work.

[@timjones9962]

We are not lonely we are alone, huge difference. Men have decided being alone is better than living a nightmare.

[@Illopportunity248]

delusional

[@tomkelly3896]

So true

[@ottowokeninger9617]

That's not a natural way for humans to live though. It is not socially sustainable in general, as has been stated. We are not meant to live that way, by design. A symptom of sick societies, and I'm sure a lot of men are indeed lonely in it. Many expats expressed such before they left the west. It's best not to embrace communal abnormality. Many have decided they are just okay with the absurd way things are. 'Rage, rage against the dying of the (nation)'

[@chaoscriminal]

@@ottowokeninger9617 as a man, what must one do? it is better to preserve one’s peace of mind and stay alone than to chase the delusional modern woman in america. if we are unable to easily attain a mate, why despair in the process? for some, it is literally not a choice to find a mate. it is about learning how to be happy by yourself. nothing wrong with that. fulfill yourself and find your own peace.

[@skorpion7132]

We are primarily alone but both are still true. The biggest issue is that being alone is the lesser evil when required to choose between a "western relationship" and "being alone". But neither is an actually 'good' choice I would say.

[@fnerron]

This reminds me of the story of Norah Vincent who spent a year disguised as a man to live their reality. She wrote a book called "self made man". Some time after ending the experiment, she was so disgusted how bad men were treated by women or neglected, she committed suicide!

[@gumdeo]

RIP Norah, she will not be forgotten.

[@Rscottphillips]

⁠@@gumdeoYes indeed I watched the Norah Vincent documentary. I won’t forget her either.

[@baronvonlimbourgh1716]

Good book.

[@johnsheakley8836]

After one of our teammates killed himself, our coach told us he should have waited to think more about it. Ms. Vincent should have gone to the Philippines before she killed herself.

[@Nordic_Sky]

I had completely forgotten about that book. Really enjoyed reading it back in the day. Didn't know she had died. It was via assisted suicide.

[@gumdeo]

Wow, how cruel and mean those women in the clips are. 😦 No doubt they would be the first to claim to be empathetic, yet they couldn't care less.

[@Mr.Gump5780]

You would be shocked at how these types of women will lie in divorce court. They make up the most outlandish lies to gain sympathy from the judge…facts.

[@joeconrad3828]

They are awful. Cruel to men, and even worse to other women.

[@TheSm1thers]

They are too stupid to realise that any issue affecting men affects women too. They're stuck in a childish boys vs girls mindset. We're all part of the same species, men need the support of women and women need the support of men.

[@mr.meatsoup5639]

@@josephboyat-bt1jf Education has nothing to do with it. Its just narcissists and sociopaths who finally have a global platform to spew their twisted world view on others, while hiding behind their gender as "victims". I wouldnt be surprised if you were one of these women posing online as a guy who writes these antagonizing comments "A woman with a higher education is like a fish with a canoe." just to drive the narrative forward.

[@SamsungAndIphoneUser]

The fact that the other 3 replies cannot be seen is very concerning

[@FREEDOMFreedom-bv3vu]

I was married to an American woman for many years. The last 8 years was the loneliest of my life. We divorced and I resettled myself. Years later I met a real woman. A wonderful Filipina that is feminine, respectful, loyal and sweet. She is a true Partner in life. I really love your channel and keep up the good work.

[@Miranda17137]

Male loneliness isn't just a problem of lack of romantic connections. It's personal connections of any kind; familial connections, work connections, friendships, etc. It just underlines the narcissism for these people to reduce it to romantic connections.

[@ampwyo]

100% As usual, a nuanced and complicated issue is getting reduced to dichotomous talking points down opposing internet rabbit holes 😕.

While I personally don't understand how anyone manages to be lonely (there are humans friggin' everywhere) and would give my left leg for some more alone time, I still understand that it sucks for anyone who is. It's quite interesting that _I_ don't have any problem sympathizing with lonely men despite not being afflicted by loneliness myself while women don't even care because it's not a problem _they're_ facing. What an empathetic gender indeed!

[@RaikenXion]

@ Well believe it o not you can be surrounded by people every day and still feel "lonely". It's the lack of any real "connection" with people that's kinda at the heart of why alot of people in general feel this way.

[@RaikenXion]

Well i mean deep down psychological i think it's just a serious lack of "Love" in relationships now. If you take away the "nice cars", eating out, bars, social media etc. All that, where is that crucial "Human Connection" ?? take away your average young couple's smartphones especially, where is their real connection with eachother. It's like so many young people especially have just became very shallow, and it's all about - "oh look at us!" look at how cool we are as a couple, and all this keep throwing up tons of selfies, and pics of yourselves as a couple. All that bs. Instead of actually enjoying eachother's company, really getting to know eachother deep down, on a personal level, to such a point you can tell the other your most personal things. Like REAL Human Connection, that's what seems to be sorely lacking. these young couples it's like they're more focused on EVERYONE seeing them, and standing out that they are actually eachother. When the woman is saying things like the kind of guy she wants absolutely has to be earning atleast 30k, has a really nice car. is toned and muscular, of a certain height, AND is "Funny", "Intelligent", "Down to earth" blahblahblah, the usual jazz, you just know she's narcissistic. But i gotta fair, alot of young guys are like this too now. this i think it truly what all this "Social Media" and this age of "Reality tv" has done to the younger generation. Made them very Self Entitled, Smug even, Shallow, Vain and just yes - Narcissistic. this sadly has spread across the board in Western Society now.

@@RaikenXion, yeah, so I've heard. It's personally not a need that I have so my understanding of it is only theoretical but from what I gather, neurotypicals can get physically sick and in extreme cases even die from loneliness. I have also heard that it is possible to be lonely in a sea of people and that too is just bewildering to me. What is it that you require for this "connection" to happen? Is there any way that I can know if I'm providing that for someone?

[@LowtechLLC]

My dating experience after divorce at 50 has been as been worse than I ever expected. You're described the problem so well. The only thing left out is the threat of violence against men.

[@itree4]

GET THAT PASSPORT 🛂 BRO! 💯 👍🏾

[@benzagorski4136]

This video is an example of many why your channel has exploded in popularity. You are not afraid to tackle hard subjects. You also speak with clarity. I believe you would do well at whatever you set your mind to. Your a real gem and a pleasure to watch. You are much more than ear and eye candy. You support your thoughts with sound logic. All the best to you Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for that, Ben 😊😊👍

[@doncarlin9081]

She’s a woman who does not hesitate call out other women’s bs 😅

[@Shizzle700]

I have encountered so many wacko relationships since my wife's passing 8 years ago. One past relationship recently frosted the cake. We had parted company about 6 years ago because she decided on another guy and I moved away about 1600 kilometers and came to Florida. She called me up about 9 months ago screaming at me on the phone because I didn't send any money for her son's birthday. She went on and on cussing at me and talking awful. I finally just hung up and blocked her. The problem is ... She got married about 5 years back but continued to call me. I told her before I blocked her that it's inappropriate to send gifts to a married woman. This is just one chapter of a book I could write. Single women here are crazy!

[@khure711]

Yup, I started dating a woman, we are at day 4 of dating each other. Out of nowhere she starts yelling at me how she being evicted and has 2 weeks get out of the house she’s renting, that if I want to be in a relationship I have to “man” up and she had all these ultimatums. I just sat there quietly and listened to her thinking about what all she said. This of course infuriated her even more being quiet. Then as I was sitting there I realized it was a “test”. In my state you need 60 days notice to legally evict a home renter. She was playing games with me. I left her house, she called me screaming why I left. I just said this isn’t going to workout. Hung up and blocked her.

[@Shizzle700]

@@khure711 Oh I had another one that showed up on a date and later on her ex husband shows up and she leaves with him. True! I was dumbfounded. If that's not disturbing I don't know what is.

[@khure711]

@@Shizzle700wow that’s a good one.

[@nashvilleoutlaw]

​@@khure711I had one girl I use to hang out with in shool but hadn't seen her in 25yrs. I told her straight up I wasn't interested in dating but wouldn't mind hanging out and catching up because I hadn't seen her in over 20 years. That eventually resulted in her getting upset accusing me of being a virgin because I wouldn't sleep with her😂😂😂 Sorry not interested in single mother's with thighs bigger than my waist 😂😂

[@khure711]

@@nashvilleoutlaw yikes run for the hills

[@Jenkkimie]

Good video. As a male therapist by my first profession, let me add that male loneliness isn't just about romantic relationships but also the difficulty of establishing and maintaining friendships.

[@samwalker1691]

And this is why I left my 34-year marriage (the last 10 were miserable), sold everything, gave her half, and left the U.S. forever. Now, I have been here for 7 months and very happy with my little pinay, who treats me like a king. And I treat her like queen

[@birhanjommy]

Pinay sounds Asian. The rise from miserable nobody to king is the dream of many. Seven years ago, I left a 15-year marriage behind me, but still no sign of a new path that could make me king.

[@mobunagathevoiceofresistan801]

1:08 she forgot the 4th outcome: We get our money straight and go to other countries to find women we can vibe with.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, they always seem to forget there’s a number 4 🤣🤣

[@dongshengdi773]

Of course it's women's fault. They insist to make it difficult. They are like teachers who make it difficult for students, not realizing that you're supposed to make it easy for students to learn. Funny that women pity these lonely men when in fact , men have nothing to worry about even until they reach over 80 . Men can still do it with young women for $20 to $50 a pop. But when women reach 35 , they will experience a lot of problems like difficulty getting a partner, difficulty in getting pregnant. By the time she reaches 45 , she'll be a reject. Many of my female friends who are now old maids regret it now . Sorry for these women. They have no chance . But old lonely men can just go to Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Africa, and many other poor countries, they can easily become Passport Bros.

[@LordHerek]

"we can vibe with"? What does that even mean?

[@courtneyharris1006]

​@@LordHerekyou know what it means. You just don't like his lingo

[@DMSProduktions]

@@LordHerek Vibrator?

[@mobunagathevoiceofresistan801]

It's so weird to me that they only think we are upset that they have degrees and earn more. We don't care about any of that. We just want peace. Which is obviously something they have no clue about

[@TheFilipinaPea]

True, they really don’t get it 🥺

[@gideondejongh838]

True since when did we care about what job they have? If a woman asks me what my opinion is then I will gladly tell her I don't want her to be a slave to the government or corporate world like we men are. I want her to be a homemaker and be the queen of my castle. Is there anything wrong with that? Seems women value money more than themselves. If money is all they care about then they need no man and can be a slave monkey for the rest of their lives. Money however does not take care of you when you are ill or when stuff is too much for you to carry. Money also does not provide or keep you safe.

[@DMSProduktions]

They don't WANT it either! They are ADDICTED to DRAMA!

[@courtneyharris1006]

They get it. They just have no intention of offering it. They've been conditioned to bargain their insufferable solipsism in relationships over femininity.

[@kenkneram4819]

Agreed. In fact I wouldn't mind having a woman who is the major bread winner as long as I have my money to do my thing with. But very few will even consider a man "That I a have to pay for his broke ass!" "What's hers is hers and what's mine is ours." As long as that's the way they look at it this VERY GOOD MAN is single. I didn't read pill early enough and now I'm too old to make a fortune. 😭

[@lengabel9479]

Great video Miss Pea. I've been alone for 10 years now and happy not to have to deal with a one way relationship. You get out of it what you put into the relationship is just not true anymore. This is the main reason I am thinking about retirement in the Philippines.

[@ForAnAngel]

Why is it that when a woman says she doesn't need a man that's empowerment but when a man says he doesn't need a woman that's a crisis? I have never been so happy to be single than after watching all of those TikToks.

[@yami6499]

if u dont marry and become workhorse for society....the ones ruling it will get less taxes......society runs on turning young men into workhorses.....we all r seeing live example in Ukraine...where young men are kidnapped and forced to be sent to a meat-grinder while ukrainian women are complaining about 'dating challenges in germany'

[@reedy_9619]

The crisis part is not men wanting to be alone it’s men being unable to be around anyone

[@ForAnAngel]

@@reedy_9619 what do you mean?

[@reedy_9619]

@@ForAnAngel there is a loneliness epidemic because many men feel like society (and women) reject them. People don’t want to he around them. It’s not because more men than before want to stay alone. Just like girlbosses doing their thing isn’t an epidemic but women being unable to find men in uni because there are too many women was talked about as a crisis or at least a problem,

[@ottowokeninger9617]

You have to realize that it is not normal though, not for a population. You may be okay with being single, but that is not desirable in general human nature. It is a basic need not being met, and even made increasingly difficult or impossible.

[@markieone12]

Men , don't settle for whats handy , sit down figure out exactly what you want and go get it . I settled a few times in the states and once they drained me i was cast aside . After the last time and being single for four years I chose to consider the women in PH. I took my time and found an incredible partner , my only regret is I wish I had not waited so long !!!! Thanks Pea for another awesome video

[@rnt45t1]

Women, I'm NOT lonely! I just don't ever get laid, and I won't ever have kids at this rate. It gets me down sometimes, but I try not to dwell on it. I focus on the house I'm renovating, working out, my other projects. There's a lot more time in the day. At this point, at 35, debt free, paid for house, money in the bank, other investments, and a life to live, if someone else wants to be a part of that it's their problem, not mine. NO MORE SHAME.

[@Grimberian72]

yep! not very easy finding women that meet our value's and needs! am happy being single but would love to share the joy and pleasure in my life! but the women in the west do not share those value's

[@curtisalex456]

Get yourself a passport!!!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Definitely no shame, for sure 👍👍

[@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2]

" If someone else wants to be a part of that, it's their problem" What is incredible, mind blowing, is that you are so clueless and unaware that you wrote that sentence in your comment. I do winder tough, with all that money, do you pay for the dates? 🤔

[@samual3006]

​@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2Excellent comment 👏

[@tanglewood1053]

Well said, marriage is an equal partnership, with each member performing different roles.

[@mckeeasdf]

I'm 55, never married, no kids. I chose that path in my teens. One of the best choices I ever made. Fully half (and growing), of all men have given up on modern western women entirely! Most are simply more trouble than they are worth.

[@lanctermann7261]

If I'd had common sense, I'd have done likewise. I spent decades thinking there was something wrong with me. We have to educate younger men ASAP before they suffer the same fate.

[@SilverLake401]

Please tell me you moved to Asia. Could get you a nice 25 year old traditional Filipina that’ll do everything you want and need 👍

[@jackblah5842]

@@SilverLake401 Or he could just get a dog

[@thefirsttrillionaire2925]

@@jackblah5842 yea no, but he could get both

[@georgiabobcat8695]

Same here and a lot of single men like myself are single and happy, not lonely.

[@DTBsoe88]

11 years ago, I went to my first college class and was called a misogynist by the entire class because I held the door open for a woman behind me. I had apparently “insulted” her by “assuming she couldn’t open the door by herself”. Misandry has become a 2nd language to most American women

[@malin5468]

I am glad you have used that word “misandry.” It is should be more widely known and used as the counter to the feminists’ ubiquitous misuse of misogyny to attack men.

[@Mr.Gump5780]

One way that you could have ended that quickly was to just tell her f..k you then, I’ll never try to help you again even if your life depended on it. It’s something about a great retaliation that ends stupidity very quickly. 100% true.

[@martypoll]

You should have said you hold the door for men and women because you are a decent human being

[@roadmonitoroz]

Oh no ! I just realized I did something wrong today. I was delivering parcels, got access to the building, went to walk through the door I had just opened to the apartment building and saw a girl approaching so I waited, let her walk through before walking through the door myself. Dang it ! The door was only wide enough for 1 person at a time but dang, what a mistake I made. Funny thing is, I was exiting a building the other day (following a woman out [just in the same direction - What an evil man I am] ) and she held the door for me and I thanked her. I guess I was an evil man for thanking her / being behind her / accepting her holding the door / etc. Is that reverse misogyny ? Ps I have also been known to hold the door for men. Does that make me a homosexual misogynist (or similar word) ?

[@seanbays1235]

I learned my lesson. Now I hold the doors closed and make them fight me to get in. That way if they make it in they know they beat the patriarch and earned their way in.

[@Time2Live.online]

I became an expat almost 30 years ago when I left the U.S. vowing never to return. After watching this video, that's one vow I don't ever plan to break.

[@get_it_done4580]

I wish I could. Stupid child support, but now known as mommy support. Evil as all hell. 14 more years to go and I'm out of this evil country.

[@tomkelly3896]

I wish i went overseas...i went to mexico....females are just as bad there as in usa🙈

​@@get_it_done4580, I would never encourage anyone to commit a crime, but accidents _do_ happen. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[@ottowokeninger9617]

It's best to be away from a failing empire. Hopefully the PH distances itself from the unnatural US. It's the worst kind of ally, one that pretends to be righteous while in reality the opposite.

[@1twistedcpl6575]

To where?

[@edelweiss5411]

Speaking as a man who generates enough female interest to date, etc., it's still difficult to find anything resembling a good relationship. Fortunately, or unfortunately, I've been in the position of rejecting women that made offers of sex, and/or relationships. What's interesting, is that they often project a sense of entitlement, and have a poor reaction if rejected. I thought no one was entitled to anyone else? It doesn't matter how nice the rejection is, they usually act like I have no real choice in the matter. When did that become reasonable? I recently had a conversation with a male coworker. At one point, he said "you know what women never ask me?". I replied "what you want". He responded in the affirmative. I reassured him, they don't seem to care what men in general want from a relationship, at this point. From my perspective, it looks absolutely insane. Why would I entertain women that act as if they're picking items off an a la carte menu, and couldn't care less if people starve beside them? The answer? I don't entertain them. I'd rather focus on living a good life, and leave them to their own misery. The cultural climate might change for the better, but it's anyone's guess when that will be.

[@dr.josefudeyama64]

Thanks for speaking up for us men Pea! We need more clear thinking down to earth and compassionate women...like u! Dr j

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I always try to think logically (that’s why so many of their arguments are easy to refute) 🤣

[@markplimsoll]

​@@TheFilipinaPea I wish you'd mentioned that science finds that you (people) will live longer in a relationship. Not having one is "more dangerous than smoking!" 😅😅😅

[@johnsheakley8836]

@@TheFilipinaPea Critical Thinking 101 was one of my favorite subjects. I almost changed my major. Critical Thinking changed me from naive and gullible to courageous and confident.

[@power-of-possibility]

Only if the woman has decent morals otherwise you will die quicker@@markplimsoll

[@kromeknifemind]

Just got back from the Philippines and I have to say it was a memorable experience. I returned to the U.S. and have begun to prepare my things to move to the Philippines by February. Selling my car and getting rid of things I cannot carry with me. I’ve already found a spot in Makati to move into.

[@johnsheakley8836]

I can't go. I'm paying $1,700/month for four very large storage units. I need to complete several years of income tax reports. I need to bring my younger brother to court to force distribution of our mother's will. I've never been married and I have no children. I'm a senior citizen and only earn enough to pay for my meager life and my storage units. I've wanted to marry a woman in the Philippines since graduation from college. I paid for an ad in the Manila newspaper (no Internet in 1988). I received over a hundred letters from women in the Philippines, some with a picture. My mother threw them away without my knowledge.

[@kromeknifemind]

Get rid of everything you own it’s tying you down. You don’t need it. Sell it. Leave the USA and go find a good woman to spend the rest of your days with. They are so warm and friendly and very feminine. You are missing out if you are just keeping yourself chained to material things. Do everything you can to leave you already know what needs to be done if you want a more fulfilling life.

[@gobfranklin6759]

Give away whatever is in the storage units. At $1700 a month it is not worth it. Ridding yourself of this will allow you to move on ASAP. The will stuff can be dealt with via a lawyer and some trips back, if needed. Time is wasting so leave now for the Philippines. You deserve it.

[@usaman7358]

Dude, get on with it! Empty those storage units and go! Or just go for 3 months. ANYTHING but waiting to die with this unrealized dream. @@johnsheakley8836

[@mikestout9588]

What kind of visa?

[@Yette]

Pea, thanks for your perspective. One theme that ran through the majority of the clips you played were women with a true absence of femininity. It's that trait that attracts men the most. It's becoming harder to find in the West all the time.

[@DrJamesBWood]

No kindness at all. The opposite of "pleasant to be with". I think these women should date each other!

[@jackdeniston59]

and, they are not even masculine. They are reallyjust shi**y appalling people.

[@frankstenberg2004]

​@@DrJamesBWoodI disagree because whatever you develop yourself into there is another corresponding half developing (albeit not necessarily in the same number of people) that you can form a couple with. The other half of these women are feminine soyboys and incels so I think they should date those.

[@DrJamesBWood]

@@frankstenberg2004 My thought was simply to just take men out of the equation (we won't miss these sorts of women) then they have to find something or someone else to blame for the consequences of their own behaviors.

[@JGTaylor62]

The older I get, the more I weep for the current generation as the Victim Mentality digs it's claws in deeper and deeper. The damage it does to relationships and happiness is incalculable.

[@timg5463]

When I was home in the USA and in a relationship I dreaded the four words of doom and misery, "We need to talk." The odd thing is, without fail' the woman wanted to do all the talking, and any non-compliant response I had was generally the end of everything and I was almost always glad.

[@Darren-su2gm]

Thank you you have pointed out all their misconceptions 👍🙂

[@MrThunderdome64]

Great video Pea.I'm alone but i'm not lonely. My wife passed away a year ago. She was Korean and her values and tradition surely was top notch and nothing like ANY of these western women. My 30 year marriage with my deceased Korean wife taught me what a true woman and man really is. I'm enjoying my life now and if i wanted to be in a relationship i would definitely NOT Seek a relationship from any WESTERN women. It's better to be alone and enjoy life than to deal with western women unrealistic expectations.

[@romwojo-qs7go]

You hit the nail on the head Pea with this one.My wife of 20 years passed 5 years ago.She was Taiwanese and some women hear said he married her because she is submissive.Believe me that wasn’t true.We we’re equal partners in everything,sharing everything. I have been talking to a Filipina for 2 years and luckily I found a person who always leaves me happy after speaking to her.Women here won’t even give me the time of day because I am older which evidently makes me undesirable.You can see what I’m up against.Thanks for sharing

[@Nehezir]

I can appreciate the gusto in the closing words, and the outro is good cheesy

[@BruceCinader]

You really have a great way to show the bad attitude of many of the Western women. Western men will continue to seek out a partner in other countries as a result of the attitudes that women in the West have adopted over the past few decades. Thanks for showing this so clearly.

[@Hrangue]

I've lost men in my family to this issue. They would likely still be alive had they moved abroad. My favorite uncle realized it was a mistake to try and love a family who didn't love him back and he wanted to get as far away as possible from these types in the video (and in the family), but he was too late. So I'm learning from his mistake. I already keep my distance, and I'll be creating more distance as soon as I can.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

As long as you find your happiness ❤️

[@markplimsoll]

Ouch. Distance is something to "stay away from!" 😂😂😂 Science finds that you (people) will live longer in a relationship. Not having one is "more dangerous than smoking!" 😅😅😅

[@Hrangue]

@@TheFilipinaPea Just like people come over here (US) and chain migrate in, I want to set up a business pipeline in SEA to chain migrate out. Other guys and one lady in the family are interested.

[@mikealsleben4671]

I'm a bible based man, and the most important good worldly thing one can do is to create and raise a good family. Most western women choose to believe that to stay home and run a household is to be oppressed by a man. So other people raise their children while women choose selfish paths with their lives instead.

[@johnsheakley8836]

@@mikealsleben4671 Childcare is the new norm in the USA. In the Philippines, the only childcare service is grandparents for grandchildren of a single mother because of bad men that screw and leave. Otherwise, there is no "childcare" service in the Philippines because women are real women, unlike women in the USA that want to be like men.

[@SlamminGraham]

I left my family home when I was 18 and I have done every possible chore you can think of -- cooking, cleaning, laundry, dusting, vacuuming, mopping, fixing the car, scrubbing the bathrooms, fixing the house, upgrading the house, in addition to just basic hygiene, exercise, dieting, and grooming -- all without the help of any woman at any point. Not once -- NOT ONCE -- has a woman ever helped me with any of it, nor would I want them to. I want it done right. I don't want them involved, and I don't want them to be slaves for my labor on my behalf. I don't know any modern man who wants that, either. I don't know where modern women, even after decades upon decades, continue to get this idea that men want them for labor. We don't. We just want basic respect, and to be listened to, and to be understood. We don't want to be used, and we don't want to use. It's so weird to us that women continue to think this way. Do we want sex with certain women we are attracted to? Of course we do. We are men. That will never change, sorry.

[@-haclong2366]

They think that because they are literally indoctrinated into thinking that men want this.

[@victorguide4599]

Philipino Pea greetings Unfortunately I don’t know your real name and you are fantastic and extremely smart lady and thanks for your intelligent judgments

[@Old_Skip]

Thank you Pea. This is why we seek companionship outside of the west. I would rather hang out with my dog, unquestionable loyalty, than have to deal with a self absorbed western woman. I am not lonely, I just don't want to deal with them.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Single by choice 👍😊

[@lamontpearce170]

1836 Texas independence

[@Old_Skip]

Exactly

[@gumdeo]

Doggos are man's best friend 🐶

[@johnsheakley8836]

@@gumdeo I had a dog during high school. Not for me now. To end up with just a dog is like a feminist that ends up with cats.

[@The_Drifter_13]

Those video clips were certainly eye opening. The amount of narcissism, cruelty, and abrasiveness is astonishing… Though I’ve been in a few enjoyable relationships, I’ve never been married or had children, and at this point probably never will. This is nothing I’ve ever whined or even talked about. I live a great life and am quite happy, even though I’m alone. Sharing happiness would be wonderful, but adding toxicity would not.

[@miguelben610]

Come to the Phils for 6 months it will change your life

[@bernibeckmann9753]

My biggest fear is when a woman warms up to me and wants to be "friends" because then it's all down hill. Women only want to be friends with purpose and that purpose is investigating if she wants you to chase her and that means your role, your job, is ultimately to make her happy whatever that entails.

[@marksamson932]

You have to get sexual fast to stop that from happening and if not move on. Never let her see you as a Platonic Male friend. Also you need to be very good in bed so when you have sex will crave sex with you again and again. One of the biggest problems is most men suck in bed. When you're really good in bed all of these B.S. goes out the window and women treat you much better.

[@bernibeckmann9753]

@@thegoodtom1718 I don't understand the kind of friendship where the best strategy is to stay aloof and keep her guessing. I'm beyond being given advice.

[@help8help]

Why would you want to that level of effort for the rest of your life? Seriously, all you’re winning is a high maintenance booby prize type woman incapable of giving you actual love.

[@DrJamesBWood]

@@thegoodtom1718 The juice may not be worth the squeeze. If the effort is a bunch of shit tests, it for sure is not.

[@e_eulogy942]

Litteraly nothing anyone of these women said has anything at all to do with the topic of male loneliness. Every single word out of their mouths was a non-sequitur. ...wtf?🤦‍♂️

[@slainteron4027]

If I was single and lonely, I would take that girls advice at 1:22 and live with cats. I would choose that over the torture of listening to her mouth every day.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2]

Man I would prefer a mattress of nails over those women LOL

[@slainteron4027]

@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 LOL

[@bill-the_virtual-deal-maker]

Well stated listening to her would be like listening to someone scarping that fingernails on a chalk board

[@taras3702]

Listening to these harridans is about as pleasant as hemorrhoid surgery while on a bed of heated nails.

[@PaulSchmalz]

Thank you Pea for bringing up this topic. You can clearly see the frustration about men just seeking a 50/50 relationship.

[@bkeepr4246]

By seeking a 50/50 relationship you are automatically setting yourself up for the woman to loose desire for you. She has to always be looking up to you as the better person. To do that you have to always take the position that you are to be treated better, that she is lucky to have you, she must work for your approval. A woman has to look up to you else her biological instincts will kick in and drive her to seek that better man she can look up to. Remember the moment you accept her request for an exclusive relationship, you are devaluing yourself as a man because you are surrendering your right, your biological job, to spread your seed widely, by submitting to just a single, weak, woman. She sees it as you being so weak that she can control you, thus any other woman can also do so, let alone other men... you are not a good choice to bet her life and her future children on (biological driven instincts don't get overwriten by modern society). So you must be strong and better than her in most other aspects of life. Every weak step, such as doing feminine tasks around the home or deferring to her when decisions must be made, after that is putting your relationship with her on the downhill path to her going to another man.

[@bobbruce4135]

@@bkeepr4246 Preach. Also, most dating advice vlogs do 2 things. 1. Relate to your problem / pain (like this video). 2. Sell the snake oil cure (PUA, geo-max, etc). If they didn't offer cope they'd have no subscribers. Sadly, from my passport experience in the PH, I found it no better than the West, just different. It's purely about a better life financially and utang na loob. But, $imps are happy to fit the bill and live in a bubble of delusion.

[@daveuk980]

So that man must be alpha male,

[@korellamalfoy]

50/50 guys can search for fools somewhere else. No sane woman who has self-respect will deliberately choose such a "man" (who's not even a "man" in a social sense). In Russian there's a special derogatory term for a 50/50 "man" - пополамщик. You want to go 50/50 but then complain that women aren't feminine anymore? How can a woman be feminine if her "man" turns her into an "equal" 50/50 workhorse?

[@happydantravels]

I came to the Philippines and met a kind, sweet, gentle, loving, giving, loyal, cheerful, beautiful, friendly, sexy, teachable, mailable, and so much more. It is like God heard all my prayers and built a lady just for me. To say I’m grateful is an understatement. Thank you, Jesus for my Filipina!

[@matthewgraham2546]

Dude, any other superlatives you can ad? lol Congratulations.

[@happydantravels]

@@matthewgraham2546 lol. I’m just trying to say that she means a lot to me. I could never find us back in the US.

[@TheVaryus]

Same except for the Jesus part that’s crazy. My Filipina is an atheist thank the god neither of us believe in 🤣

[@matthewgraham2546]

@@TheVaryus The Jesus part is crazy. I'm a non believer also.

[@matthewgraham2546]

@@happydantravels All the best, you hit the jackpot.

[@JamesMartin-bu8yu]

You're a gem, Filipina Pea. Never stop making videos like this.

[@TheKencmh]

My wife died about 9 years ago after 30 years of marriage. I looked around for a woman in the United States for about 3 years that would be worth having. Could not find anything it was better to be alone. They still make wife material Filipinas. Found my fiance in the Philippines

[@Downsdddgh]

Good for you!

[@maltnmetal4085]

I'm so happy for you👍, my wife passed away 5 years ago now after 30 years and I spent 3 years since looking after my mother who passed away the other year. I started to meet someone but she was a total control freak and even flipped when i mentioned my 20-year-old goddaughter so I finished it. I have come to the conclusion Maybe it's just best that I stay on my own now. Good luck with your new life

[@90836usaful]

These women are correct. Let them spend their lives alone. I went to the Philippines and got a beautiful wife 41 years ago. She’s still the love of my life. She’s smart she’s feminine, but most of all she loves me unconditionally.❤️❤️❤️

[@arizseabee]

I encountered American females as their attitude was to use a man as a sexual object but wanted no attachment. I went to the Philippines 49 years ago and done some shopping around and found the lady I married and have the last 47 years both of as in love as we have ever been. If you are tired of the attitude here go find the woman for you, she out there

[@curtisbrilz1824]

I'm a retired air traffic controller. I retired at age 49; federal regulations requires us to retire at 56, but allows us to retire early, depending on age and number of years worked. One of the main reasons I retired early was the young women(and some my age and older) had one gear, an angry attack on anything you said or did. I actually went through a month long investigation, just before I retired, because I stood up for myself to these nasty women. When the investigation was completed several supervisors and multiple controllers were disciplined, due to false reports containing outright lies. I was found to be innocent by the female investigator, but chose to retire several months later instead of being subjected to the harassment any longer. My job job was stressful all by itself, add these problems and the stress level rises to unbearable. Love Your Podcast Pea. Take Care.

[@davethomas7088]

Always had deep admiration for a woman who grew up with many obstacles to overcome, a hard life with a smile and tenacity. Never asks for much and appreciates everything you do for her. Hard work, intelligent, kindness. Yes admiration for many many years long before you tuber’s. Love your videos Sweet Pea.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@davethomas7088]

@@TheFilipinaPeakeep doing what your doing.

[@LuckyLong589]

So well said, Pea. You’re one of the compassionate women.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I try 😊👍🤣

[@SoloDad905]

I recently found my amazing Filipina last year after watching your videos, and giving online dating in the Philippines a try. My only regret is that I didnt do it sooner. I just returned from visiting her in CDO in May, and I want to return ASAP. Your country is simply amazing. Everyone is so friendly, helpful, and fun, I felt right at home there and I am completely hooked. The difference between Western women and Filipina women is night and day, she truly makes me feel like the luckiest guy in the world.

[@KennethLane90]

What site would you recommend

[@SoloDad905]

@@KennethLane90 FilipinoCupid

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

I think every time I read a comment like this, God is pushing me in that direction of searching in the Philippines.

[@SoloDad905]

@@oaklandsoldier8520 Do it. I'm telling you, you will regret not doing it sooner. It's paradise on earth, with the most beautiful, feminine, caring women ever.

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

@@SoloDad905 I feel u. My first love in high school was from the Philippines and I miss her more than any female. It's no accident that she was from the Philippines. I'm seriously considering making my way there in the next year.

[@StrifeDaWize]

👀you win...I swear I love watching you chew these women out, is that bad? I watch one video and subscribed, now I get them suggested all the time, and can't help but end up watching multiple videos, keep up the great work.

[@zombiefeast1.039]

I love being alone. Less stress and more money in my pocket.

[@saliebeesi6593]

Get married, it's more fun.☺️

[@zombiefeast1.039]

@@saliebeesi6593 Been there done that. Lost my kids and 50% of my retirement.

[@damanibaraka7896]

​@@saliebeesi6593It depends on who you marry?

[@Filo-Joe]

You're a loser. Masterbator!

[@justflylow]

I love you Pea! ❤ thank you for sticking up for the western men. We definitely need a lot more women like you in this country call

[@VincentForrest]

Thank you, Filipina pea for your wonderful explanation on these strange women. This is exactly why I found my Filipina and married her. I have never been more happy in my life than I am now. And I finally get away from these toxic women.

[@RobertEskew]

I'm glad I'm not active on social media (except for KZbin). I find these TikTok videos to be reprehensible. I'd be dealing with chronic depression if I were exposed to this content on a regular basis.

[@williamgood6299]

Here in America, it's better to be alone or find a woman elsewhere that apricates us. I found my wife on the Philippines. Thank you for content. :)

[@spectrumgamer21YT]

I'm finding mine in Asia or North/East Europe.

[@1twistedcpl6575]

@@spectrumgamer21YT hows it going?

[@YoMama_Said]

I found mine in Amsterdam ❤

[@jonispringer]

It is kinda wrong to simply assume all the woman are the same though.

[@ihateurmom]

Men aren't afraid of a woman's success and achievements. It's the bad attitude that usually is attached to it that we find as a turn off.

[@pantherman8719]

That's it.

[@TheWaterman2011]

Pea, Thank you for another spot on overview. There is a big difference in being lonely and being alone. I was blessed to meet a Filipina who will be my wife very soon. There is a marked social difference. After watching your video it was interesting how so much spin was created by introducing things that men do not actually seek in a woman. We do not qualify a good woman the same way we get qualified by woman in the west. It was so refreshing to meet someone with an understanding of her feminine strengths and how they balance with a mans strengths.

[@bradcrane8364]

I traveled to the Philippines to get married but didn't work. The more I watch your channel it makes so much sense

[@michaelbrown7142]

As someone holding a passport and planning to visit Southeast Asia, this one the best promotional videos for visiting the Philippines I have ever seen. Thank you Filipina Pea!

[@kranzonguam]

Nicely done, Pea! Feeling like the enemy in a relationship really can make a person feel like "why bother?" Finding someone who is actually happy that you're there makes all the difference! P.S. Love the Bond outro! Take good care!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

My very old friend Kranz! 😊😊😊❤️👍

[@johnsheakley8836]

Pea's Bond outro is a metaphor of her logical critical thinking. Deadly!

[@edcrayzys3853]

Thanks for sticking up for real men. I have had to deal with these same types of women for decades and I found it easier to do with out. This captain needs a new ship.

[@newyorksbeerreviews1280]

Try being a 5’4 American male and constantly being told I’m not tall enough. Even if a women’s 5’1 like wtf!!!?! I love your vids and I’m subscribing, you give me hope!

[@AnthonyCataldo-b2q]

A few decades ago, while dating, 2 separate women told me they divorced their husbands because "he would do anything I asked." In both cases, they had 3 children with their ex-husbands. In both cases, their husbands were contractors and made a lot of money. I concluded that these women decided to divorce them to maximize combined child support and alimony. If you look at the scales that most states have for child support, 3 children tend to maximize child support. Not quite as large an increment for the 4th. Clearly, a well-planned strategy. Keep up the good work!

[@jerryfritz374]

This is why I Love The Pea. To the western women. No thanks

[@mariahulsey6999]

I was lucky enough to be married to the sweetest most loving Filipina. She was my everything. Until cancer took her away earlier this year. I lived in the west most of my life, now I live in the Philippines. All I can say is the west is broken. Men it’s time ! Make a move to something better. Pea thank you

[@fiestafire5781]

Sorry to hear. I want to travel there from the US to see what it's like. How old were you when you left the west? I'm currently 25

[@mariahulsey6999]

@@fiestafire5781 we move here for our retirement a little over 3 years ago. But I have been coming here for the last 17 years

[@7ShadesOfBlue]

I told my significant other that I was in a bad place and I wanted to be held at night. She then cheated on me for money and told me she didn't have time for me in her life. That's what it's like to be a man. So this crap about the bare minimum... boy don't even get me started on that.

[@ReadySetGo113]

"Nearly faster than the numbers on their bathroom scales..." I nearly wet myself laughing so hard at that comment. Keep up the great work.

[@billammann9807]

Again young lady you have addressed the issue with the truth. And for many of us, we have gotten use to being single and not used as a dartboard for someone else's life.

[@MartinBanister]

Spot on with what you are saying pea X.

[@sharhune2735]

I have to admit that I have a little bit of a character flaw. When I'm not in a relationship, I'm a bit self destructive. I engage in activities that if I make a mistake, I could be serious injured or killed. Motorcycle racing, hang gliding, jumping out of perfectly operating aircraft and keeping your fingers crossed the chute will open. I'm almost 70 now and no longer do many of those activities. I found the love of my life when I was 31 and we have been together ever since. She literally keeps me grounded. If I'm in a relationship, the responsibility that brings, causes me to settle down. When someone depends on you, you don't want to screw it up. Take care Pea and I see you Tuesday.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow Shar, that’s one long relationship 👍❤️❤️

[@usaman7358]

You're talking about these things as if you did them yesterday. You're looking back FORTY YEARS AGO!

[@sharhune2735]

@@usaman7358 I'm lookin back fifty years ago from 1974 to 1986😄

[@sragga]

been with my thai lady for 13 years now. we have ups and downs like anyone. the female friends i made in thailand were always fun to hang out with, but a lot of the friendly attitude slowly disappeared as we spent more time doing things together, and not needing the show for the public. no different than anybody for worries, hopes, and dreams. the thing that made a few of them express anger that is usually bottled up, was their inability to travel. puk would get upset that us farangs can hop on a plane, and go there whenever we want, and thai people take care of us, but she can't get a visa to come visit our countries for a vacation. she asked me why every western country hates thai people.

[@ferney2936]

The reason is that Thai women are statistically much more likely to not go back home when they said they would. However, I do feel that we westerners are much luckier than Thais in the many opportunities we enjoy that they don't.

[@setoredan]

The first part of this video was just disturbing, listening to those women just spitting out their venom on the internet. I hope I do get to visit your country. Thanks for the video, Ms Pea.

[@DMSProduktions]

That lot were MENTAL! Pea picked the most extreme, but yes, this SORT, are out there!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I hope you do too, Dan 👍❤️

[@tyroneroyal2664]

Pea, you really are up on our culture. That comment about the penny I bet a lot of Americans didn't get the reference.

[@winpowell1024]

You really got to the heart of the matter with those snippy "ladies", Sweet Pea. I would not like to satiate my loneliness with any of them. One of my arms-length women acquaintances in my self--imposed loneliness summed up the situation well when she discovered that I was leaving for the Philippines to spend a month with my Filipina. "It's no wonder that you didn't want me!"

[@Rob-jd2oy]

I know you hear this all the time Pea, but just love you and the content you provide. You give me a sense of hope to be understood. The woman I'm with makes me feel like I'm the crazy one for just wanting to spend time with her and to be important in her life. Thanks for making me see more clearly.

[@DrJamesBWood]

Seems like you have reasonable expectations and made a poor choice for a partner.

[@Spectacular_Insanity]

Get out and get someone who actually appreciates you.

[@MoeNezbit]

Thanks Pea!!! As you have been able to see for a very long time now… the insanity that we’ve been putting up with is BEYOND reproach. Keep the great videos coming! Thanks👍🏾

[@vp4022]

Listening to these women makes me physically ill. Pea, thanks for taking our side. You are a sweetheart 💕

[@WatchTheseClips1]

These woman need to hear the truth from real woman like this!!

[@garretttanner6593]

My son has given up looking for a partner here in America also. He is 23 and said it is not worth it after a few relationships. I told him he needs to go to the philippines with me and see how different it is there.

[@danjones6702]

at 23 lol. he still has time to find someone. women in their 20's have no clue what they want and only want to use people for money.

[@ppumpkin3282]

Yesterday I went to a luncheon at my Senior Center, I met a lovely 85 year old Irish woman who came to the US when she was 18 as a nanny. She said she had four children and her husband traveled a lot on business. She said she made sure she did all the house chores including painting, mowing, carpentry, etc. because when her husband came home from his business trips, he could spend more time with the kids instead of doing house chores. Now that's a real women. Real women today would have a list of chores for the husband to do when he comes home.

[@DMSProduktions]

Woman.

[@davidrussell331]

Hi, Shall, I call you Filipino Pea?… Thank you for bringing up this topic and issues, and creating the path of a real female HEROINE for other females to witness! Being the bridge, of feed back, while embodying the inner beauty that all are witnessing in your presence. Sincerely and Thank you~*~

[@amazingchoicefinancialsolu977]

This was so brilliant! Pea, I'm so glad you're able to help deliver this content that offers a highly valued perspective that demonstrates what's really happening in America. I always love your thoughts and humor in each of your videos. Thank you for delivering the Manny Pacquiao knock-out punch in a literary format to all those outspoken crazy & aggressive liberated types who have no idea of what men value most in relationships and life. Always thumbs-up and Bravo!

[@lowtechderrick]

Spot on! Equal rights means equal duties, right? One of my dating questions is for her to write down just five things she is willing to consistently invest into a relationship... Maybe that's why I'm living alone on my boat 😂. Keep up the good work!

[@JtsTubes]

Being a 47yr old man, i can honestly say its not a "male loneliness epidemic", it's a "male not wanting garbage women epidemic". In the bay area 5's think they are 10's, many arent worth the effort of courting.

[@1twistedcpl6575]

Green Bay? Lol

[@iamcase1245]

Thank you!

[@halonova8995]

It definitely is a loneliness epidemic. A 5/10 woman will have a 10x easier chance of finding a partner than a 5/10 man.

[@bensondiabeatech470]

​@@halonova8995it's called briffaults law just to clarify

[@Malinkadink]

@@halonova8995 She'll never be happy though, she can sleep with an 8 or 9 who will use her, and when she settles for a guy who is a 5 she will still think she deserved the 9. You can still be lonely when around a certain kind of person.

[@garypw2265]

Well done Pea! Always entertaining, and deadly accurate.

[@randyd1922]

That's funny. A lonely man issue? Tik Tok has 1000's of women asking "where's all the good men?" I don't see men on there asking the same thing about women. I do however, see men on there telling the viewers why they gave up on dating, and how they are happier being alone. They found peace.

[@richarddkearney]

You hope was fulfilled, I did enjoy the episode! You are one of my favorite people on youtube and you don't even know me. Still you are funny and smart, just a joy to watch. How you are able to come up with interesting topics each time is just amazing to me. Keep up the excellent work, no pressure. Enjoy your day.

[@jameskeys8263]

You’re a very clever and lovely woman. It’s amazing what you are saying is absolutely true about a lot of western women. And yes there are a lot of countries that women want to take a traditional role in marriages. I’ve been married 3 times 2 divorcees and I can see the issue with men and women in Australia. If I didn’t meet my current wife I would definitely take a closer look at marring a woman from the Phillipines with positive goals and family orientation.❤

[@darrylpender867]

I love you, Pea. Your commentary is factual with a pinch of comedy. Never stop.