a British accent say "papi" has to be one of the worst things I've ever heard
@scarlettrose3625 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Cupcake sounds like she’s going to go get her papi from the gyno 😂🤣
@mickisei35475 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I'm not the only one that thought this!!!
@TyTy-fq2bp5 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Cupcake 😂😂😂😭
@alay32874 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo right when I was reading this, she said it 🤦♀️
@DavidBenson24 жыл бұрын
Agreed😂
@EliteXtasy7 жыл бұрын
Why would someone in the UK question whether a Pakistani is actually Mexican?? There's very few Mexicans here in the UK.
@stanbily94165 жыл бұрын
Mr. Bean Black people did.
@stanbily94165 жыл бұрын
Incognito The only silly one is you, trust me.
@kingdraco30694 жыл бұрын
@Jose Moran lol everyone considers Italians white because they are
@marinakazemi42124 жыл бұрын
King Draco King Draco the US government tried to prevent a huge amount of immigration from Southern Italy after the First World War as at that time...Italians were not considered to be “White!” They only changed the definition of white in the latter half of the 20th century!
@KM-op6gj4 жыл бұрын
Elite it doesnt happen and still hasn’t
@ariannadiamond2116 жыл бұрын
Having a racial preference isn't wrong. *Degrading* and *objectifying* someone based on their race is wrong. I am more than my skin color. edit: don’t look at these replies they’re full of ignorance lmao save urself
@Triangulove5 жыл бұрын
Does that include the stereotyping of white males? Is dat also not okay? Or just anybody BUT white males? Oh dats right, it's okay to accuse white males of wanting Asian women just cause we got dat yellow fever, cause ya see, everybody allowed to have preference except white males. Aye?
@witchplease96955 жыл бұрын
@British Blue You are definitely a white incel or self hating Black man. Your irrational hatred for Black women tells me you've been rejected a lot.
@MyspaceEmo5 жыл бұрын
@American Nationalist White men do rule, however if you truly viewed yourself in that light, you wouldn't feel the need to degrade others. Insecurity is at the root of narcissism. True superiors let their greatness speak for itself.
@toddleroy27724 жыл бұрын
witch, please question what’s wrong with incels or black men?
@jlivb4 жыл бұрын
ClayMation that’s a fetish not a preference
@bpheta5 жыл бұрын
Your hurting because you care what they think of you. I dont loose sleep over what race wont date me. My black queens celebrate me and i them.
@uniqueplayz79795 жыл бұрын
@JeJeMoN ME do it then
@tierracooper33565 жыл бұрын
Since I was in middle school , I realized that I was extremely sexually attracted to white guys and Mexican guys. Honestly I felt terrible that I was never attracted to black males but black males is all that I would talk to. One day in high school I decided to finally just let go and find me a white boy or Latino and it came rather quickly. Honestly I’ve been the most happiest ever since. IF YOUR BLACK , ASIAN, MIDDLE EASTERN , HISPANIC WHAT EVER , DATE WHATEVER YOUR HEART TELLS YOU. DONT LIMIT YOURSELF, DONT FEEL BAD , JUST BE TRUTHFUL TO YOURSELF AND GO ON !! I AM PROUD TO BE BLACK AND I LOVE AND CHERISH MY BLACK BROTHERS AND SISTERS. I LOVE ALL RACES !!
@TheTonyspik4 жыл бұрын
it's not about "loosing sleep" because another race won't date us. It's deeper than that. I'ts about feeling undervalued. Feeling less than. It's saying your value is based on the size of you dangalang, or your exotic curly but not "nappy " hair. It's about the fact that although I value human difference someone that I'm interested in doesn't value my difference. And let's be real black people maintain many of these same prejudiced stereotypes. Not all skinfolk is kinfolk.
@Jambuc8294 жыл бұрын
Sarah Young That’s because America promotes “white beauty” and every guy wants what’s promoted including black men. But I love black women.
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl62063 жыл бұрын
But what about the black men though :? :/ ?????
@prynner7 жыл бұрын
being attracted to your own race only requires no apologies whatsoever and is perfectly normal..
@diepiriye7 жыл бұрын
Can you explain more. How can race be a dating preference if not a fetish?
@MaksonCheese6 жыл бұрын
Dr. Kuku it's what you're attracted to, not *specifically* sexually. if you're attracted to a pretty smile and you wouldn't date someone without a pretty smile, that's not a fetish. if you generally prefer koreans, for example, it just means you find them as the most attractive race and you only want to date koreans.
@adad-ec6ht6 жыл бұрын
If you are White, consider yourself to be blessed because you will be swiped...
@sovietai25956 жыл бұрын
First Name Last Name There is nothing wrong with having likes and dislikes.
@dubsideproductions28596 жыл бұрын
Rod Prynne have fun being a racist
@Sam-vx7vg4 жыл бұрын
“Oh so you’re Pakistani? Are you sure you not Mexican?” -No one
@JaySlay692 жыл бұрын
I'm mixed (half black, half white) and a few months ago I was talking to some white man and he didn't believe that I was half white; he was adamant that I was 100% black and merely lying to him, even though most people (or I at least HOPE that most people) would clearly see that I'm a lot lighter than people who are 100% black. It's as interesting as it's tragic how so many white people believe that people of colour are lying about their racist experiences. If you're white, would you tell me why is that? Why don't white people believe people of colour?
@the-based-jew68722 жыл бұрын
@@JaySlay69 Black is the lack of colour white is the presence of all colour technically.
@keifer78132 ай бұрын
When you accept the blackpill, this all becomes clearer. There is a racial hierarchy, just as there is a height hierarchy, a looks hierarchy, and a hair hierarchy (full head of hair vs bald)
@avut76 жыл бұрын
its true man, being an asian male and having experienced online dating too my white male friends is undeniable, they get way more matches and easier attention from all kinds of females and i live in Canada
@avut76 жыл бұрын
British Blue its not just white woman but woman in general black, brown, white,asian due too partly the media and stereotypes
@abdirahimmussa27085 жыл бұрын
MMA REBELZ bro don’t worry about that My friend, remember this World is short
@abdirahimmussa27085 жыл бұрын
British Blue init
@abdirahimmussa27085 жыл бұрын
Trust me
@mrblackalchemist5 жыл бұрын
@zadose lol
@StyzeSoulmaker7 жыл бұрын
These people talk about race all the time, but when people ask them something about their race they get triggered wtf
@valuecalc4 жыл бұрын
Styze Soulmaker , they should just date their own.
@sovereignty78974 жыл бұрын
Because you're asking stupid questions
@TITANICLUSITANIA4 жыл бұрын
It’s not their job to teach you. You can use google, no?
@ladyboywonder91394 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@anguswiebe4 жыл бұрын
It’s because they are the ones actually obsessed with race
@zbsz927 жыл бұрын
This is more about inappropriate questions based on stereotypes
@PHlophe7 жыл бұрын
which does not make it any better.
@greenaesthetic63875 жыл бұрын
Lechiffresix six exactly
@YellowSynth4 жыл бұрын
we stereotype the food we buy the film we watch, clothes we wear and cars etc it is human to stereotype. how else will know what is what if you don't question things. the stigma associated with stereotype is something we not honest about. when you date a tall person over a short person that is a stereotype.
@l.c.933 жыл бұрын
@@YellowSynth i agree with this as I've read about the psychology of stereotypes from professors and such. Everyone stereotypes.
@venusgodess26362 жыл бұрын
Are stereotypes appropriate then???
@iLuvsIjaee6 жыл бұрын
I'm a black woman and that black girl problem isnt her blackness its that she has self hatred. You have to love yourself before others can love you
@abdirahimmussa27085 жыл бұрын
WellActually true
@SadD3adGirl5 жыл бұрын
Well Actually If thats your profile pic its hard to tell you look middle eastern
@MyAb1114 жыл бұрын
Wellactually - It's not "self hatred". Most so called "black" people LOVE themselves. Our skin is Earth Camouflaged to blend us in with nature because we're the originals and have been around longer than clothing. Brown is mother natures most used color. It's hatred from her own society, and the racist beauty standards it programs into people. So called "white" people get all of the positive media promotion while people of color are always depicted as some unattractive stereotype type. When they want a white person as a lead actor/actress in a blockbuster movie they go out and find the best looking white person on Earth at the time. For black, or Asian, leads roles they usually choose our average, below average, or a mixed person to represent us. I see racist programming in all forms of U.S. media everday, all day. I used to be blind to it. Now I can't even enjoy TV shows or movies anymore. Ignorance was bliss. You have to learn to think more deeply.
@jlivb4 жыл бұрын
BOONIQUE yes
@jlivb4 жыл бұрын
I feel like most times, it would be other people, not her fault of her low self-esteem. If the environment is toxic, then she will have a toxic way of thinking naturally and it’s not low self-esteem if she’s calling something out. She stating how she feels about the matter and her experience. She’s probably very confident but if she has to deal with it on a recurring basis then she feels insecure from that.
@Azerrz6 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with having a preference. But presenting yourself with the idea that you cannot physically and mentally bring yourself to date outside your race simply because you have preconceived notions of an entire culture of human beings is ignorance in it's purest form.
@Jamcad016 жыл бұрын
Azerrz Well a gay man must be sexist if he’s unwilling to date a woman then
@TheIronyGiant5 жыл бұрын
Azerrz Finally, an intelligent comment.
@DeWayneokc5 жыл бұрын
Love ur vids
@goldenboy065 жыл бұрын
DarthVader I always felt attraction was innate.
@Jamcad015 жыл бұрын
GurlYouKay Sexual orientation isn’t determined by birth. There’s no evidence to determine what exactly causes it. I’m bisexual and only felt like I was since I was 20. I don’t feel born with it at all.
@ReasonAboveEverything5 жыл бұрын
Why is it always about skin color. What about facial features.
@parzival83313 жыл бұрын
See that's just the thing I find asian, black, native american, and middle eastern faces really attractive but not white (I'm white) I don't believe I'm racist but does me having a preference for certain races make me racist?
@ReasonAboveEverything3 жыл бұрын
@@parzival8331 No. That is called a personal taste.
@zhi22193 жыл бұрын
the fact that you're all pressed and defensive says A LOT lol
@theisheep26763 жыл бұрын
Technically speaking race isn’t just about skin colour. It’s also about hair texture and the shape of your skull
@luciraldosilva19922 жыл бұрын
@@parzival8331 Races doesnt exist, and why you need approvation From other people? Pathetic.
@immortaltyrant24745 жыл бұрын
Not being attracted to people of different races is not being racist.
@Triangulove5 жыл бұрын
It is, especially if you a white female not being attracted to guys of other races. But if you a white male, you ain't allowed to have no preferences cause then you racist. See, white women is allowed to date black, but white man ain't allowed to choose Asian cause we got dat Yellow fever thang. White women don't got no chocolate fever though, they the lovingest thangs on the planet.
@Jenabebe5 жыл бұрын
its a little racist I must say. preferences are kinda racist
@Jenabebe5 жыл бұрын
@Dnomyar Akunawik think so if you didnt know everyone is actually a little bit racist we call prefer our own race because biologically we prefer people who loo like us and enjoy common interests. im not saying it s a problem im just saying technically its still racist if you write off an entire race jut because of their skin color
@jointlucas81875 жыл бұрын
Kenya Grant so gays are being hetrophobic because they aren’t going for girls. We don’t get a choice in who we find attractive it just comes to us.
@Stingraycoolpodcast69964 жыл бұрын
@@Jenabebe true
@Sinfulgaiden7 жыл бұрын
I only date someone if they have big hairy toes.
@ahmadsaif67025 жыл бұрын
you will love me.
@docfabz5 жыл бұрын
A preference I can get behind
@jlivb4 жыл бұрын
docfabz a preference?
@crappyaccount4 жыл бұрын
g i m m e d e m t o e s
@-amoureuse-94894 жыл бұрын
Uh
@keepingitrealandtruthful.50817 жыл бұрын
We as black people should never think of dating outside our race. We should not be worried or but hurt about other races that prefer not to date us.
@macy-37846 жыл бұрын
I don't. I prefer dating outside my race, I prefer doing that than being with my race, it's not insecurities or anything. Everyone just expects you to marry someone in your race, marry a girl who's the same nationality as you so I don't really find it interesting anymore. I want someone just opposite from me. I've liked black girls all my life so when you see a new race or girl with nationality you get interested in them and want to be with them because they are different from you. It's like a regular burger and a cheese burger. You only ate a regular burger all your life, when you finally discover a new burger you like you'd eat that more often now. Idk how to explain it well. A next example is like when an Asian part want their child to be a doctor since 5 year old and that child kept trying to achieve and found out he like a different career much better. I think people should date outside their race and inside.
@raymondleggs55086 жыл бұрын
Thats racist
@adad-ec6ht6 жыл бұрын
As a brown man, I respect your spirit brother.
@adad-ec6ht6 жыл бұрын
If you are White, consider yourself to be blessed because you will be swiped...
@miasims75756 жыл бұрын
it’s not the race that prefers not to date us.. it’s the people. If someone isn’t interested in you just for your skin color.. oh well, move on. But just because one person is like that, doesn’t mean that everybody else the same race as them acts the same way. What’s wrong if I like black and white people ? Nothing right.. okaay 🤷🏾♀️ Not everybody has the same opinion on us black people, you just have to meet them people. Just like my bestfriends.. they love me for me and they are black, lightskin, Asian, and my boy bestfriend is white. They don’t care what my skin color is, because I’m a human just like them and I have feelings and emotions just like them and the only thing different is what’s on the outside of us. BUT THAT DOESN’T MATTER TO ANY OF US, BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT ANYBODY SAYS.. WE’LL ALWAYS BE THE SAME PEOPLE THAT WE WERE BEFORE .
@maximum_yes6 жыл бұрын
Still lacking the asian male experience.
@NoOneHere2Day7 жыл бұрын
They're all crying out for love from white people, sad case.
@goldenboy067 жыл бұрын
yup...the ethnic women in particular are not happy enough with their own men.
@starlight85547 жыл бұрын
Lol that's what you got from this?
@the-based-jew68722 жыл бұрын
@@starlight8554because it's true.
@Bumblybee2567 жыл бұрын
Preference is preference. If I want a white guy because I want to have white children and propagate my own way of life and culture that's my business. You wouldn't question that in any non-white person.
@darthfabulous92364 жыл бұрын
@Altijdinvoormeer Are there any exemptions to your rule? The Maori, or others with distinct cultures and customs, hidden tribes in the Amazon who shun and attack intruders? Should they date outside their race? If so, why? I'm mixed race btw, wondering why people get their knickers in a twist about having racial preferences in dating. I find it all fascinating.
@nomg5633 жыл бұрын
@@darthfabulous9236 interesting points brought up
@juicyfruitsnacks97715 жыл бұрын
My friend has been harrassing a kid in our 6th period because she has had a mega crush on him for three years. He's rejected her so many times and has asked her to leave hin alone because she is getting extremely touchy and makes him feel uncomfortable. What makes it REALLY sad is that it's only because he's Asian and she's obsessed with Asians. She even says white is 'bland' and black is 'ugly'. She harasses other asians too, saying that 'their bodies were basically made for the pleasuring of others.' He's just her favorite, apparently. I have tried to tell her that there is more to somebody than their race but she gets mad at me whenever I bring it up. I'm still dealing with this problem. It's not exactly MY problem but I have to deal with feeling extremely bad for the poor kids she won't leave alone, simply because of they way they look.
@whyme37722 жыл бұрын
It’s ironic because Asian men are usually at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to dating. Hope she finally quit harassing those guys.
@jaslawrence2 жыл бұрын
Omg that's so creepy.... Smh... Fetishes are so creepy sometimes
@reaux39212 жыл бұрын
Nobody cares
@reaux39212 жыл бұрын
@@whyme3772 that’s why it’s a lie. White girls don’t like asien
@reaux39212 жыл бұрын
Why are u friends with a harasser?
@tranquil_dude6 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with "can I touch your hair?" It could mean that the person who said it finds your hair beautiful. Not everything has to be fuel for discussing racism !
@tellatubbies59185 жыл бұрын
Baoqing at least they asked...
@kuronomalin23925 жыл бұрын
Nah keep your hands to yourself
@meiasabine45175 жыл бұрын
Exactly, touching people’s hair can be a way of interracial flirting ... I thought these people wanted more interracial dating, now they stop you from asking for physical contact fml 🙄
@Taylor-sj2mm4 жыл бұрын
Kyle S., That's a really sick thing to say. I'm sorry. I didn't realize that you were a black woman. Just because you've not heard of it happening consistently, doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.
@MAI-mq6kv6 жыл бұрын
i don’t think that dating preferences are racist. growing up in asia and only seeing asian men around is going to make you used to asian men and make you attracted to them. just because you’re not attracted to neither black or white people doesn’t make you racist, you can have preferences as everyone else.
@Not-Ap4 жыл бұрын
So what advice would you reccomend to Australian aboriginal person who parents moved to China and raised him in Chinese community? (I know it sounds outlandish but hypothetically) What's he supposed to do if he's just stuck with pretences for people who don't prefer him? There's no right or wrong answer I'm just asking. He can't change and you can't change so now what?
@uainjansun3 жыл бұрын
Well it is racist when it's compared unfortunately
@zenni.2 жыл бұрын
@@Not-Ap Well, everyone is different. Surely not everyone in that Chinese community only prefer looks, tyere are people who prefer personality too. And besides, the guy would've blend in with the Chinese people's culture so there might be a chance where people would prefer him.
@darrenfearon4288 Жыл бұрын
I get what you are saying but if a majority of people choose a race that is unattractive, more people would say dark skin people are bellow the list , it is a conditional thing, we all are bred to believe from beliefs that people with lighter skin and eyes are the superior race or more attractive race. It all came from this idea when White people took over countries that they are the dominate race, they are better looking, it is a class thing rather than a race thing.
@remixmas Жыл бұрын
@@darrenfearon4288 if every country sat back and let whites take over then yes I want to be part of the clearly superior race that will succeed In a fight to the death
@tfl48174 жыл бұрын
I am just more attracted to my own race....so I am a racist?
@I_Am_NiiTA3 жыл бұрын
No because that's what your used to 🤷🏾♀️
@travelingdude16212 жыл бұрын
I’ve dated outside my race and I realized it’s not for me. Too many issues. I love my white people and my white women. I’m proud to admit it too.
@oofidk60105 жыл бұрын
Brown girls are Asian as well, so I don't understand why they separated the two. "Asian" doesn't equal just East/Southeast Asia.
@jijiji6615 жыл бұрын
Clearly being Indian and being Chinese are two different racial groups. They look nothing alike. Why are they classified in the racial group to begin with....
@somegirl84105 жыл бұрын
oof idk they separate the two because its just easier. because when people say asian they mean chinese, japanese etc..
@faith-ei9bv5 жыл бұрын
The Dominican Renaissance north east India has Chinese looking Indians, North India has light skinned Indian and South has dark skinned Indians. The north east India look Chinese, are you saying they are not classed as Indian either.
@Midnight-og3rk5 жыл бұрын
@The Dominican Renaissance are the Khoisan of Southern Africa not African?
@starrix47124 жыл бұрын
Yes brown girls are Asian - SOUTH Asian. Chinese etc is East Asian, not just “Asian”. That’s a simple yank term when Asians isn’t even a race lmao
@livy65865 жыл бұрын
Honestly for me, I would just date anyone that’s a good person and that is a good person. I wouldn’t date someone of all they’re going to be with me for is my looks like butts or whatever.
@JohnnyWalkerBlack1422 жыл бұрын
Yeah okay, let’s see if your actions follow your words
@degen791 Жыл бұрын
Unless he is 6'3*
@OwenWu-f9t10 ай бұрын
unless he's white
@angriboi4 жыл бұрын
This doesn't change anything about the fact, that I want someone with a similar background as myself. As a white men, there would be too much difference between me and a PoC-woman.
@mosyed43524 жыл бұрын
Sure just generalize all POC. Open your eyes, we are all humans. Or just decide to stay in your bubble.
@laureal36594 жыл бұрын
@@mosyed4352 you're human but you're not my ethnicity.
@mosyed43524 жыл бұрын
Laureal you don’t get the point 🤦🏽♂️
@laureal36594 жыл бұрын
@@mosyed4352 i do. Ethnicity is not a stereotype, it's in your dna
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl62063 жыл бұрын
Well then I take it that you probably haven't dated any poc woman?
@lettylunasical47667 жыл бұрын
Some people in the comments are being so defensive they've not even really listened to the video, and that's a real shame.
@lettylunasical47667 жыл бұрын
Anne Isopod Not what I said and I resent that you suggest that's what I implied. Some of the comments were complaining about things that people in the video hadn't claimed.
@artalcoolique33415 жыл бұрын
Dylan Hader Damn imagine being so pressed. I could never.
@blondemommyvomit5 жыл бұрын
@@owenwu4708 Lol, no. White Europeans are the most tolerant and welcoming than any other race. Prove me wrong.
@bazle645 жыл бұрын
@@blondemommyvomit whites are sly about racism
@abdirahimmussa27085 жыл бұрын
jerszak i agree
@randalladkins7 жыл бұрын
that girl was complaining about not getting dates because she is black yet all of her matches were white guys.... wtf?!
@firstnamelastname44276 жыл бұрын
randall adkins A lot of black men in Britain won't even entertain black women from what I've heard, and put "no blacks" on their profiles.
@Crissybooable5 жыл бұрын
She only had like 7 messages
@iriejones82927 жыл бұрын
Beside the point, but everyone's flat is so beautiful.
@PHlophe7 жыл бұрын
everyone is mad pretty. But I came here just to collect white tears so I can flush my loo with it . The comments are predictible ha ha ha ha that's a good thing because I am never surprised ( especially an invisible mixed race ) .
@chanelporter82276 жыл бұрын
It's okay to not to want to date or be attracted to a black person. geez
@moonie18254 жыл бұрын
@Eros Delorenzi man are those black women missing out.
@sueme554 жыл бұрын
Eros Delorenzi o don’t think you would find one black woman who would be crushed that you don’t like us. I think we will be ok 😎
@torkelsvenson64114 жыл бұрын
It's easy to tell from the comments which ones actually bothered to watch the video first.
@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl62063 жыл бұрын
What first video :\ ????
@briggie283 жыл бұрын
"I wouldn't date an actual Black girl....but I would date you" That's quite bold!😬
@Stephan59162 жыл бұрын
@Classy 4 life That's because she's not black even though she would be seen as black.
@stephen7690 Жыл бұрын
1:04 she just dating people for their skin color. notice how none of her matches are black, theyre all white
@nihilistlivesmatter7 жыл бұрын
I've never had a black, muslim, trans, paraplegic, lover, I guess that makes me racist islamophobic, transphobic & ablist, I feel terrible what an awful person I am, but then I am a white male so I guess it's to be expected
@nihilistlivesmatter7 жыл бұрын
I'm not a nihilist sweetie
@danemma36107 жыл бұрын
I walked in a shop the other day and went up to the counter to pay. The items I had were milk, white chocolate, white sugar and white bread. Oh boy did I feel awkward when I got served by a black man.
@witchplease96957 жыл бұрын
Thats not what the video is about dumbass.
@nihilistlivesmatter7 жыл бұрын
@ tigerlily, why so hostile?
@seeker_of_lightning19977 жыл бұрын
"Oh, we're soooo diverse!"
@kefkapalazzo17 жыл бұрын
Romalio Jeune by how many miles didn’t you miss the pint you think lmao
@lexj20564 жыл бұрын
xZANZIBARZx wtf are you talking about
@123DOWNUNDER8905 жыл бұрын
These people are all insecure
@pinklemonade65976 жыл бұрын
In school we were talking about racism with a group of people and one of them said oh yeah my brother was having a go at me when i said i wouldn't date a black girl because its just my preference and he was like its not racist its just my preference(this was awkward for me because im a black girl) i didn't really know what to say tbh
@iLuvsIjaee6 жыл бұрын
Asians only have to deal with positive stereotypes. "You must be good at maths". I wish that was the worst racial stereotype ive heard
@maverick1991able5 жыл бұрын
Im not predisposed to violence. But dont push me
@disarmsox7 жыл бұрын
Preference is not allowed now? This kind of thinking is so unhealthy. And the Guardian want us to support them financially. Not a chance. They are sick.
@notorio5267 жыл бұрын
They never said that, clearly you were too triggered to even watch the video.
@Leo-it1lo7 жыл бұрын
'If you're only dating someone for their skin colour, you should consider why' sounds like the title's calling me a racist but you "don't see colour" so you can't read what's in black and white, can you?
@liceherz13527 жыл бұрын
Leo Feypel the title means if you are only dating them (like romantically) for their skin color, and not their personality or a connection between both of you, then you should rethink it. Just expanded some of the words lol based on the rest of the video
@HammerheadGuitar7 жыл бұрын
I don't even get where the skin colour argument came from, any racist can tell you that skin colour is one of the least relevant aspects when it comes to race. Race is about ancestry, genetics, bone structure and facial features.
@diepiriye7 жыл бұрын
WARNING: WHITE MALE BACKLASH here. Historically this backlash proceeds violence!
@jamesc46965 жыл бұрын
I'm a white guy, and I'll say that I definitely feel the white privilege when it comes to dating. Girls of all races seem to exclusively want white guys.
@adamthetired93195 жыл бұрын
And you shouldn't try to change it. All this "altruism" - (changing the European countries, be they in Europe or elsewhere, like the US, and changing the entire European Civilization to please the non-Europeans) - is going to destroy you, if not stopped.
@iviewutoob5 жыл бұрын
not me
@nikolaimaharaj23194 жыл бұрын
Same thing with white women
@sueme554 жыл бұрын
That isn’t true at all. It might be true for white and Asian women to prefer white males but black and other women prefer their men.
@sueme554 жыл бұрын
Nikolai Maharaj that’s not true. Middle Eastern and Asian women are most sought after in those dating apps.
@morbid1.7 жыл бұрын
she got 99+ likes... I open tinder and it's empty :F
@CK-wv5hg6 жыл бұрын
Neurotyczny Kot You're probably a guy
@invisiblehatednotwantedforever6 жыл бұрын
Because she’s a female. It sucks being a man on a dating site or app it sucks being a man. Especially a black man that’s not dark
@TomC9034 жыл бұрын
You're either marginalised or fetishised because of what you look like. Unfortunately it's a minority which looks beyond the surface to get to know who you are.
@blazedandconfused4776 жыл бұрын
Diverse? Probably the blandest group of people I've ever seen. BUT THEY HAVE DIFFERENT COLOURS OMG!
@MyAb1116 жыл бұрын
And you inbred albinos have skin that ages 10-20 years faster than a human with Earth camouflaged skin.
@lexj20564 жыл бұрын
BOONIQUE facts
@lexj20564 жыл бұрын
Cat Attacks nappy hair hun they have beautiful curls and wtf r u talking about some “fat bodies” that’s every race 💀
@lexj20564 жыл бұрын
Cat Attacks you mad🤪
@crappyaccount4 жыл бұрын
@@MyAb111 racism much?
@cw2146 жыл бұрын
i don't understand how anyone could think that the desire to only date certain races and not others has no relation to the cultural stereotypes we have about the characteristics of each race.
@Michelle_Schu-blacka7 жыл бұрын
I totally get this ... I'm half Asian, half Jamaican but look like an ordinary black person. I either get people who assume I'm a black stereotype or people who actually _want me to be_ a black stereotype.😤😤😤
@ricarojas90366 жыл бұрын
Nakoruru The Extra Terrestrial You're NOT Asian. Asians have BOTH Asian parents, an Asian father and an Asian mother.
@firstnamelastname44276 жыл бұрын
Rica Rojas He clearly said he's half Asian.
@TheIronyGiant5 жыл бұрын
Yoruichi The Extra Terrestrial What about people who want to date you because they like you? Ever thought about focusing on that?
@lolaasayolkkk70854 жыл бұрын
Well if you never date Asian guy/or girl if guy or girl
@Michelle_Schu-blacka3 жыл бұрын
@Abi Valdivia There are plenty of people who care about your skin colour. That's the problem.
@NoTaboos3 жыл бұрын
Whatever you find/don't find sexy is legitimate. How come white women are allowed to say they are not attracted to Asian or Indian men, but if a white man expresses his preference, he is villified? Personally, I find blondes a real turnoff.
@reaux39212 жыл бұрын
White women aren’t allowed to say that without backlash
@cjo42107 жыл бұрын
Lot of triggered snow flakes in these comments lol. They didn't even mention white people and you guys are flipping out.
@LocaBaybeex6 жыл бұрын
We all know it’s about white people. When is it not? Lol
@GigaChadh9766 жыл бұрын
You really don’t need to.
@Nopebrbra6 жыл бұрын
British Blue wkth that creppy mindset , I don't think so . Whites aren't that good . It's pathetic..
@EsotericElle6 жыл бұрын
Freyja Fia maybe y’all should disappear from the earth completely
@EsotericElle6 жыл бұрын
British Blue nah, the rest of the world just hates you lol
@hauntedlolita6665 жыл бұрын
I'm more physically attracted to single eyelids. That isn't something I have any control over.
@hauntedlolita6665 жыл бұрын
@GurlYouKay How would I have control over that?
@nikolaimaharaj23194 жыл бұрын
@YT no you don't choose how you genuinely feel
@valuecalc4 жыл бұрын
Why are some folks insisting on forcing themselves on others?
@randomlady68995 жыл бұрын
I’m a black woman who doesn’t get offended when asked where I’m from. People ask because I look different from the native white population and are naturally curious . White people with accents or foreign sounding names get asked the same questions too. So it’s not about colour. A white person in Africa would face the same. I’ve never had any issues with people touching my hair nor for noticing that my skin gets darker after my hols. I’m not offended firstly because there’s no offence intended. Secondly, because I’m not some hypersensitive weakling who moans about the tiniest slight.
@the-based-jew68722 жыл бұрын
You most likely weren't brought up to be a victim. I'm glad to see there are some people who are strong hearted.
@sgsdgsgagsdgsdg68745 жыл бұрын
But yet people can’t answer WHY they like a certain race over the other...what’s so attractive or unattractive about a certain race you like/dislike??!?!?
@uainjansun3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@SteelPanda2203 жыл бұрын
How about skin color? Eye shape? Nose shape? Hair type? Lips? These are all factors in attraction.
@minigachastorys90395 жыл бұрын
Poor self victimised adults
@Moran.A3 жыл бұрын
Am not racist but when you are in a very cultural African home like mine you can't think of dating any other race.
@hellabored31403 жыл бұрын
I'm black and I'm not attracted to my own race. There's no problem with only being attracted to a certain race or races.
@mariemaier56303 жыл бұрын
I am white and not attracted to white men either. I have tried to open my mind but white men just don't excite me.
@the-based-jew68722 жыл бұрын
@@mariemaier5630 way to generalise. I'm sure that singlemother future will excite huh.
@1232-e7b3 жыл бұрын
No one dates someone just for the color of their skin. It’s usually not the only thing that makes someone attractive. But it does play a part. Physically, I’m not attracted to darker skin than me. I won’t date a guy just for having light skin, but it’s a strong preference.
@Whyamisohot192 жыл бұрын
But I want you?
@Cittamatra5 жыл бұрын
You will *NEVER* be able to change the way people think, how some will talk to you, people's conceptions about you. *NEVER* . You certainly will never change how rude people can be on dating apps, due to their anonymity. What you can change, is how you *feel*. You can change how you react. You can change your mind, to stop being so sensitive. Our real problem is our unpleasant feelings in response to something that occurs. I get asked if I'm australian all the time. Or Swedish. Because of my looks/accent. Someone assumed that you're jamaican? So what?? Someone said, 'koneecheewa' or 'Nee how' to you? ........So????? I've been to thailand a few times and my ex was thai. Every single time i spoke with any of her friends, they referred to me as, 'farang', which mean foreigner. When i went to Thailand, lots of times, i was referred to as 'farang'. I live in NW London. Some of the indian people living there go out of their way not so speak to white people. In the corner shops, you can feel the lack of willingness to integrate with white people. Some of the most racist people I've heard have been Indian. Such an attitude. People will *always* suffering from ignorance. It's actually what being human is based upon. Unless you're getting aggressive, abusive, threatening behavior from someone... It just doesn't bloody matter. You'll never change people. Change yourself. The world is covered with sharp stones, wherever I walk. It hurts my feet. What should I do? Could I cover the entire surface of the earth with leather, to soften everything? Impossible... Then what practical thing can I do to ease my pain? I will wear leather on my feet. - Shantiideva
@estrangedsavant51122 жыл бұрын
I disagree, there are numerous examples in history of humanities perceptions of each other changing for the better.
@corriethomson2916 Жыл бұрын
@Jack W that's not really the point but ok.
@benedictcase42906 жыл бұрын
"Ooohh yeah you are racist is you have a preference"
@eruno_7 жыл бұрын
It's understandable that people have preference for skin colour the same way people have prefence for hair and eye colour.
@thomassteele57487 жыл бұрын
I get what you are saying, but there is more to it than being attracted to women with a certain hair and eye colour. Race definitely plays a factor even if it is nicer to ignore it.
@vinividivici77747 жыл бұрын
Hair/Eye colour doesn't quite have the same depth of connotations, culture and history attached to it in the same way someones skin colour and assumed heritage does
@disarmsox7 жыл бұрын
Thomas Steele so we are all racist then? Don't be ridiculous.
@thomassteele57487 жыл бұрын
I don't think everyone is racist, but I think people are deceiving themselves when they say they are colour blind. Please don't straw-man my points Disarmsox.
@notorio5267 жыл бұрын
The video isn't about that. You clearly didn't watch it.
@EmilyGloeggler79845 жыл бұрын
I have this problem with dating based on looks and skin color and superficiliaity.
@craigturner32372 жыл бұрын
I have this problem with White people dating outside their race.
@noblesiner5 жыл бұрын
I don't feel sorry for any of these people, because they disqualify people based on race and looks too.
@bassgirl_denalia90872 жыл бұрын
People don't realize that when you fetishize a certain race, you're being incredibly disrespectful and not taking into consideration the individual. I primarily would find Asian men attractive, but it's not a fetish, simply was a preference. However, I was never opposed to dating any ethnicity if it felt right. It's not fair to objectify someone based off ethnicity.
@anonymouse68904 жыл бұрын
Never blame anything on race. Always shrug it off, realize eveyrone is an individual.
@wl4153 жыл бұрын
Yup
@XanderBeckett14 жыл бұрын
Here is a question for thought, which is intended to widen the discussion: should you consider why if you only date someone because you are sexually attracted to him/her?
@gersonencarnacion37444 жыл бұрын
Right? Apparently preference is something that other people control about you.
@159753smith2 жыл бұрын
@@gersonencarnacion3744 ah yea are you dumb?
@BVargas787 жыл бұрын
This is so ridiculous. Identity politics again. If you like someone and they like you, go for it. It shouldn't be more complicated than that.
@StDurendal4 жыл бұрын
0:53 - Discriminating against someone for something they didn’t have a choice on is wrong; excuse me while I casually flaunt my misandry. This totally isn’t the reason why respectable men worth their salt refuse me.
@reaux39212 жыл бұрын
No such thing as miSaNdrY 😂
@stephen7690 Жыл бұрын
1:04 she just dating people for their skin color. notice how none of her matches are black, theyre all white
@ibrainwashmyself36717 жыл бұрын
Dear POC you can't bully me into finding you attractive
@profzakaria63016 жыл бұрын
See What I Did There? Ok i'm racist.
@firstnamelastname44276 жыл бұрын
You can't convince us that you're not an ugly incel troll.
@bazle645 жыл бұрын
You can't bully me into rejecting black men
@bazle645 жыл бұрын
@@firstnamelastname4427 hahaha nice one, I laugh so hard
@roycriddle44245 жыл бұрын
I love pale white women and nobody will bully me out of dating them
@JoeDirtisawsome6 жыл бұрын
its not just about the skin color. different groups have different body types and facial features. your next video should be "If you're only dating someone for their gender, you should consider why"
@pendlelancashire3 жыл бұрын
*When will people talk about racist black guys and rude arrogant black Girls?*
@mermaidcharlise4908 Жыл бұрын
Ummm..... because we're not rude, arrogant, or racist
@youngkey30514 жыл бұрын
Random guy: ni hao Asian guy: dude I’m from Detroit....
@Jamaal4Jesus7 жыл бұрын
These are what I would call 1st World problems.
@toddleroy27724 жыл бұрын
Jamaal Williams no they are just problems.
@Adanmacreates6 жыл бұрын
I honestly don't understand why liking someone for their ethnicity is wrong. It's part of them and their personality. As long as someone doesn't assume what I'm like. If my race gives me a curtain look or my culture gives me a part of my personality, you better like it if you want to date me lol.
@southafricanizationofsociety206 жыл бұрын
It’s not the color of your skin, it’s your attitude that’s disgusting. Attractiveness is subjective. You can’t force your subjective on someone else but nice try.
@layth68574 жыл бұрын
Very true
@catholicfemininity21262 жыл бұрын
We can't always control the thoughts that come into our minds, or how we feel about others, but we can at least control our ACTIONS. If you aren't attracted to a group of people, that's fine. If you don't like a group of people, that's none of our business, AS LONG as you treat others with kindness and dignity, on the outside. (Notice how I said "don't like" not "hate"... hatred is a serious problem that needs to be healed and fixed.)
@ayuanabradford3206 Жыл бұрын
It will never be healed or fixed…
@davidpar26 жыл бұрын
It’s highly unlikely you’d find anyone dating someone “solely for his skin color,” guardian.
@toddleroy27724 жыл бұрын
That’s a lie.
@simmsr8015 жыл бұрын
You don't have to consider why you prefer your own kind because that's a natural inherited instinct that's past down generation after generation. Human beings generally prefer their own people and there is nothing racist about that at all.
@jameleason82005 жыл бұрын
Rob Robinson737 which inwardly justify peoples Racist Beliefs but i hear you smh
@jewelryboxballerina5 жыл бұрын
Rob Robinson737 So what does that say about black men? They don’t prefer their own.
@normalsaline89135 жыл бұрын
I thought that a core part of feminism was that nobody is entitled to your body. People cannot help who they fall in love with,.you cannot force love or attraction. I am attracted to caucasians and Asians, I guess I am racist. If you wanted to call that racist, then I am racist.
@jonmapa94187 жыл бұрын
Talk about first world problems
@TheIronyGiant5 жыл бұрын
Jon Mapa I’m fuckin sayin!
@nvanguy68684 жыл бұрын
More identity politics bs
@thelastdaybreathinginetern13854 жыл бұрын
Stereotypes are funny definitely when people believe what they hear in society or growing up. They should just simply ask what you like. I'm a black girly goth black guy, and I'm asexual . I love Pokemon to.
@thetearsofjungkook49856 жыл бұрын
My friend and I signed for one of these because I thought it would be really funny - I’m Malaysian and she is black, it was really gross - the amount of times I was basically fetishised (mainly by white people) was horrible and my friend barely got any matches, even though we used similar photos of ourselves and the same bio - this world is really terrible
@keysoteriq25903 жыл бұрын
I’m attracted to mixed women and I don’t know why. It’s just the complexion for me I can’t shake….
@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee3 жыл бұрын
Mixed with what?
@keysoteriq25903 жыл бұрын
@@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee mixed with aboriginal blood. There’s no other “mixed”. Either you are or you’re not.
@Not-Ap2 жыл бұрын
@@keysoteriq2590 What is aboriginal? That could be so many things.
@the-based-jew68729 ай бұрын
@@keysoteriq2590 mixed means mixed r'ce. So yes obviously there is hundreds of combinations.
@bobmunchen43647 жыл бұрын
Could we have an analysis on who these people inteviewed swipe?
@hellothere-ot6ln5 жыл бұрын
We need to question racial preferences as a society. Most of you commenting saying 'it's ok to have a preference' don't realize that the studies show an overwhelming inbalanced preference for white people, amongst whites and people of color alike. When see the data you realize it's not as 'personal' as you may think it is, but it is however the symptoms of unconscious race based conditioning we've all been exposed to by the Western media.
@Max-ek3kf5 жыл бұрын
having a preferance isnt a choice
@aniellofico24783 жыл бұрын
you're right a lot of times it's because people grew up in all white or black neighborhoods which even than who cares people can like what they want.
@luciraldosilva19922 жыл бұрын
No such thing as "races"
@M.A.C.012 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Some of us what a chance for love and people are super picky it’s so unfair. And these are the people who say it’s what inside that matters. 😭 💔
@stephen7690 Жыл бұрын
1:04 she just dating people for their skin color. notice how none of her matches are black, theyre all white
@jesse3993 жыл бұрын
I feel like these women are addressing white men. Hey Okcupid did a studies on this and the results a funny.
@Hornscope7 жыл бұрын
Am really disappointed about the subject raised, coz, it doesn't have in depth analysis as I was expecting
@Competitive_Antagonist6 жыл бұрын
If you're only dating someone because of their looks then you're really shallow. I'd hardly date someone merely because of their skin colour, though I cannot deny I find a lot more attractive women with darker skin. I can't really judge were she is "from" by her features and keeping up on racial stereotypes would be exhausting so don't patronise me with belief code nonsense. I simply make an instinctual judgement of attractiveness after a brief look and generally my instincts settle on brown women bring generally more attractive. Though if I was to find a parter not I'd need to settle down with someone who has more than looks.
@Competitive_Antagonist6 жыл бұрын
People seem to be judging people with preferences as racist, merely by the responses from Tinder users. Maybe it's the dating apps that are at fault. I've briefly visited a few dating platforms and there does seem to be a common feature of swiping left or right at people's faces. Isn't that a great way to dehumanise people and see them only in terms of physical attractiveness? What about swiping at people's political beliefs or pets they have?
@ninjapirate1232 ай бұрын
Asian guys are going to crush the dating scene this decade
@layth68574 жыл бұрын
As someone who is of middle eastern and mexican descent, but I grew up only with my mexican side, I dont want neither. I dont like the idea of dating within my culture. It's like I have a mexican family and if I were to date a mexican woman it's the same thing all over again. I prefer white women problem is Most white women dont prefer brown guys
@cicci36664 жыл бұрын
It's the same thing all over again?? What does it even mean? You are fetishizing race
@Rebecca.xoxoxo2 жыл бұрын
Maybe stop going for white women? Try Asian, Black, Latina, Indian…
@layth68572 жыл бұрын
@@Rebecca.xoxoxo i mean, it doesn’t mean i have to stop but I do like other women as well
@Rebecca.xoxoxo2 жыл бұрын
@@layth6857 I agree, you don’t have to stop, were all humans and you like what you like, but def keep your options open :)
@layth68572 жыл бұрын
@@cicci3666 its a preference
@pabloalvez915 Жыл бұрын
PM Orban is right on this subject Whoever engages in race mixing should be fined by law. 😊
@Batman-sv1rg5 жыл бұрын
I got a question I'm a black American man but I've noticed that black British people or I should say black women who are British always seem to want to seek the approval of white men I don't understand is it their upbringing maybe it's a different culture but they seem to always want to date out their race instead of dating their own
@polishherowitoldpilecki55215 жыл бұрын
Batman Because culturally African Americans have been oppressed and discriminated against that. That they developed their own distinct community and culture. You can only see this in America’s black power movement and black is beautiful movement and also America’s anti miscegenation laws that didn’t allow black to intermarry. Britain on the other other hand never had anti miscegenation laws or discrimination laws. So to an extent African brits were more welcomed and intermarriage wasn’t a taboo.
@amit_patel6542 жыл бұрын
"Yeah, but where are you REALLY from?" Sadly, I've had this question from other (usually older) Indian people. Or other Indian guys that I don't know act like they're my brother just because we happen to be of the same race. It gets super annoying real quick. I don't even like my culture to be honest.
@disarmsox7 жыл бұрын
Video gets a thumbs-down from me. We all reserve the right to date who we like, who we are attracted to without being labelled a racist by "everything is racist" regressive lefties.
@moonie18254 жыл бұрын
Did the video even say you couldn't or call anyone a racist? In fact it didn't even specifiy any race
@HammerheadGuitar7 жыл бұрын
Because most people want children that somehwat like like them. It's not racist.
@Annyxotwod5 жыл бұрын
If you're heavily attracted to a certain race it's not a bad thing nor racist. Like for example I can't help that I'm really only heavily attracted to black men. I'm hispanic and Hispanic men don't do anything for me. That doesn't mean anything because I get along and like every race but perfer black men when it comes to dating.
@kingcfc17 жыл бұрын
Wow why are all of you so angry. People are just sharing their experiences of life, its interesting to see.
@diepiriye7 жыл бұрын
People of colour don't have the right to an opinion about the wider/whiter world because that's just complaining...when you raise these issues, one of them will inevitably tell you to go get a job because they cannot imagine that you can think critically about race, gender and class AND live your life at the same time. They are projecting thier own inability to do so...shady, right?
@kingcfc17 жыл бұрын
I am a student, studying history. That's not technically a job, but it means I can get a better one in future.
@autumnharbinger59237 жыл бұрын
history major. good job. pick one.
@super8mmo7 жыл бұрын
If they don't like it they can go back.
@KamalasNotLikeUs7 жыл бұрын
super8mmo So can you. Crawl back into your caves in the Caucus.
@lettylunasical47667 жыл бұрын
Lol, 4/5 trolling. Bound to get some bites.
@PHlophe7 жыл бұрын
if we don't like being avused we should f.o looool! get used to it. you have the right to speak , so do I . this planet is ours . we are here to stay and as a matter of fact I am having another child.
@askiavance32816 жыл бұрын
super8mmo Yep back to Europe
@firstnamelastname44276 жыл бұрын
DINDRAGON I doubt it.
@johnames64303 жыл бұрын
being middle eastern (and handsome as I've been told by many women) I still get rejected 99% of the time right off the bat, luckily out of 2000 women one might be DTF, such is life
@reaux39212 жыл бұрын
Okay “John” ur totally Middle Eastern. And ur not handsome if u women aren’t DTF or women are just not DTF in general, so what?