Theist Calls In, Ends Up Debunking His Own God Belief

Theist Calls In, Ends Up Debunking His Own God Belief | Matt Dillahunty + Jimmy Snow

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@geraldammons5520 11 ай бұрын

I believe that "I don't know" is the most honest answer that the caller can give.

@david-pb4bi 11 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@AsFewFalseThingsAsPossible 11 ай бұрын

This is the beginning of scientific thought

@jonra3 7 ай бұрын

It’s cliche but: it really is the 3 hardest words to string together

@dx1450 4 ай бұрын

It's the most honest answer anyone can give. And despite what a lot of people think, it's a valid answer.

@DefaOmega 11 ай бұрын

If only all people were so rational and reasonable. Watching someone honestly deconstruct their own faith based beliefs was wonderful.

@Fernando-ek8jp 11 ай бұрын

He had already done the legwork. This was just the bouncing of ideas he needed to embrace what he already believed, or didn't.

@Pibblepunk 11 ай бұрын

Genuinely a touching moment. Landon is one of the most intellectually honest people I've heard speak.

@n0etic_f0x 8 ай бұрын

Yeah, this guy reminds me of myself. Everything that excited terrified people I was with when I went out to share the gospel. Oh wow, this atheist has a sense of morality? I can tell them how to find true compassion that goes from God! People with me: _"No that was only given to you by god! Why do you deny him?"_ Me: Wait... what? He has compassion! He wants a deeper source. People with me: _"All compassion comes from God! He has none!"_ Me: WTF is wrong with you?

@DarthMagog 11 ай бұрын

A GOOD NATURED theist call? This was downright pleasant actually, I do hope we get more like this

@brucebaker810 11 ай бұрын

That's Jimmy's favourite kind of call. I think he has said he's acting to get more somehow.

@Bomsanchu 3 ай бұрын

I wouldn't call this a theist anymore, he already didn't believe in God he just hoped God would exist.

@13bellhop 11 ай бұрын

Landon is on the right path and asking all the right questions. Best of luck buddy.

@dorememe8548 11 ай бұрын

Maybe he’ll be an atheist someday, and maybe he won’t. But I think he has a better chance than the brash and dishonest type of theist.

@johnsperry9494 11 ай бұрын

@@dorememe8548 *than*, not then.

@dorememe8548 11 ай бұрын

@@johnsperry9494 Thank you. I fixed it now. I don’t know how I missed that the first time.

@geoffstockton 11 ай бұрын

This was really one of the best calls in the history of the show, in my opinion. Hats off to Landon for letting honesty guide him.

@dorememe8548 11 ай бұрын

This was such a neat call. Whereas mindless calls with dishonest theists can be quite amusing, seeing an honest theist and atheist talk things through together are very stimulating. I can tell Landon’s going through a lot, and I hope that he finds comfort and happiness whether or not he deconverts.

@gregwolking 11 ай бұрын

I think it was brilliant; the way that you (Jimmy and Matt both) did not "preach" to the guy or try to "convert" him to atheism, you just asked him about his beliefs and, in so doing, guided him to reach, on his own, (what I believe to be) the proper conclusion. The more I watch of this show, the more thoroughly impressed I am with the approaches, methods, and attitudes of the various hosts. I think *all* of you guys (and gals) are doing a *great* job here.

@Anne--Marie 11 ай бұрын

This call was superb. Landon has an incredible ability to listen and to process information. Landon, if you read this, my brother lived 55 years in pain from a kidney disease. While he was going through that, he wanted to make other people laugh. You can find your own niche, whether it's creating art, making people laugh, gaming or journaling your processes and make it work for you. There are so many ways to create your own niche. Best of luck to you Landon.

@aukemebel4263 11 ай бұрын

You are a legend Landon, You are honest and willing to research your previous held beliefs. Your value to me is already by making my day finding such an amazing call from this show.

@arkdark5554 11 ай бұрын

Thanks Landon, for being honest, and genuine. Something that theists always lack of.

@tempestive1 11 ай бұрын

Clearly, not always :p

@Fernando-ek8jp 11 ай бұрын

That's an incredibly tribalistic way to put things. How do you expect others to try and be honest if, from their point of view, you'll always assume the worst from them?

@nameofthegame9664 4 ай бұрын

@@Fernando-ek8jpI can agree that “always” was a bit strong but listening to AXP or similar shows paints a pretty clear picture. I’d say that 99% of the calls they get from theists are being intellectually dishonest.

@Fernando-ek8jp 4 ай бұрын

@@nameofthegame9664 "Theists always lack" Not "Callers always lack" Also, it is still a tribalistic way of looking at things. It ignores how irrational us humans are as a rule.

@Fernando-ek8jp 4 ай бұрын

@@JD-wu5pf The cast majority of the world has that insane belief. That doesn't make it right, but it should tell you that religiosity isn't a curious anomaly, but the human brain working as expected.

@PatriciaCross 11 ай бұрын

Such a wholesome call. Actually gave me some extra ammo in helping a friend who's life has completely fallen apart and is struggling with the idea "im a good person, why is this happening to me?"

@blanktester 11 ай бұрын

I hope your friend makes it through this and comes out better.

@PatriciaCross 11 ай бұрын

@@blanktester ty They already seem to be on that path. I'm actually pretty proud of them.

@vodking 2 ай бұрын

Got an update on your friend?

@patchso 11 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that Landon is suffering. For me, the most useful remark was when Jimmy said about making you own value and meaning in life. This is something you can do (or at least attempt) even in the most dire of situations. Good luck Landon.

@trishayamada807 11 ай бұрын

My grandma used to always tell me you can make a hell out of heaven or a heaven out of hell. Yeah, it’s got religious connotations but she wasn’t using it religiously.

@dimitrioskalfakis 11 ай бұрын

what a refreshing call. hope is waiting just around the corner.

@david-pb4bi 11 ай бұрын

Bob Dylan “Freedom just around the corner for you But with the truth so far off, what good will it do?”

@kengames8865 11 ай бұрын

one of the best calls in a long time.. as in, this was a good honest conversation. No yelling..

@secularidiot9052 11 ай бұрын

- Directly articulates their point - Engages in conversation - Recognizes the validity of the host’s points - Doesn’t try to change the conversation - Directly challenges the beliefs they have rather than trying to warp their beliefs This has got to be the best caller, they defy the typical call on these types of shows!

@reddish22 11 ай бұрын

This was an amazing call to listen to. Someone who is honestly wrestling with beliefs and kind assistance from Jimmy and Matt. Thank you for sharing this!

@ezriahblack8770 11 ай бұрын

This comment is here to help The Line beat the algorithm. ❤

@sawyersimpkins9428 11 ай бұрын

An honest interlocutor? Refreshing

@brucebaker810 11 ай бұрын

Indeed. Saw another on a Line clip lately. Zachery. That's how they spelled it.

@gregorygarcia6542 11 ай бұрын

I was on the verge of death at 22 and received a liver transplant. I'm now 52. I have to take medicine for the rest of my life. My son was born with arthrogryposis and cannot walk without crutches. I tell everybody exactly what I tell him: Nobody has a perfect body. And if you think you do, just wait awhile. Nature is not perfect, but despite our limitations we can look on the sunny side of life and make this time together great.

@TheTruthKiwi 11 ай бұрын

After watching a few (very) old calls where people would call, quote the bible and be shocked that the hosts didn't believe it it's good to see people are at least thinking more rationally and reasonably. Some people anyway. Also, Jimmy asking the caller to find the flaws in their own argument is brilliant. That is the foundation of healthy skepticism. Great call.

@Locust13 11 ай бұрын

See what happens when the theistic caller just engages in conversation honestly? A perfectly pleasant conversation.

@rumple7551 11 ай бұрын

Such a refreshing call. No dancing round answers. Brave man all power to him. welcome to the real world. Enjoy this life sir the only one any of us really know. ✌️❤️ My fellow ape.

@RoozleDoozle-9210 11 ай бұрын

It’s nice to see a call where the people who’s minds getting changed is the actual caller.

@brunorhagalcus6132 11 ай бұрын

He’s inner-gossiping (avoidance coping) to pacify his cognitive dissonance telling him his theism is bunk too. With his level of empathy, “Subtle art of idgaf” is great recommendation. Great guy! Unbelievably articulate. He should become an influencer to help others on their way out.

@basschoone6622 7 ай бұрын

Wow Landon is very honest and understanding. Great clip, I hope we get more of these kind of callers

@yongyang4544 11 ай бұрын

A theistic call that doesn’t end up in a hangup or yelling lol

@irrelevant_noob 11 ай бұрын

Well the hosts are the same, so it seems the largest factor in whether that happens or not is the caller and his interaction with the questions asked of them. ^^

@toddwolford2021 11 ай бұрын

You guys such a great job. Gentle, thoughtful and allowed the caller to really grow and develop a skeptical strategy.

@Zardward_Thebard 11 ай бұрын

In response to the caller's initial question, if you'd like to engage in discourse on these kinds of topics in a way that specifically attempts to bypass the backfire effect, I'd highly recommend looking into street epistemology. Instead of directly confronting someone, can have the person sort of confront themselves and assist them to think through things and reach conclusions on their own. The backfire effect can be seen as a sort of defense mechanism that can trigger in response to a perceived attack. However, the backfire effect seems much less likely to trigger when the attack is coming from within. If it does trigger then since the person is essentially arguing with themself, the likely result seems to be some form of cognitive dissonance, which can be quite uncomfortable and has ways of working itself out one way or another..

@MeganVictoriaKearns 8 ай бұрын

I really appreciate this comment. I totally agree with everything you said. ❤

@mwmccool 11 ай бұрын

Thank you Landon. I have been to this point of self/realization and acceptance, good luck.

@jesuslopez-fe7dv 11 ай бұрын

I'm right now in the same situation that Landon is. I tried to make evolution and creationism compatible by substituting the clay that God used to create Adam with evolution but I kept realizing that there are lots more contradictions or statements in the Bible that would not be coming from an immensely merciful, all knowing and perfect God; but I have been "Catholic" for 55 years. I stopped going to church since the las two years.

@philojudaeusofalexandria9556 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations on being able to start to find reason after 50+ years. It's very difficult to change the magical way of irrational thinking, and to accept the possibility that you may have wasted most of your life believing nonsense. So I applaud you and your bravery. It is not easy. Just remember - any single moment seeing reality as it actually is, is worth it. It took me 25-30 years as a fundamentalist, and I occasionally feel sad about my wasted youth, but I cherish every moment as a clear-thinking free person.

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 11 ай бұрын

I stopped believing over 25 years ago. One reason i did was because I asked myself, if someone gave me the same evidence I presented for god for another god why would I not believe it? If the evidence is good enough for Christianity to be true, why isn't the same evidence be good enough for another god.

@ZenWithKen 11 ай бұрын

Just remember that you are not alone. We all struggle, believer and non-believer. I'm one of the lucky ones who never believed. I've never needed a god in my life and I'm doing fine. There is absolutely nothing to fear. In fact, you will feel more alive than you ever have when you see that gods are not required to have a life worth living.

@ScottHendrix-yz3du 11 ай бұрын

@@zapkvrWRONG!! many great people used the bible in their work including scientists. Columbus believed the world was round because of the bible. The big bang theory was derived from the bible. Issac newton the greatest scientist who ever lived discovered gravity, invented calculus and invented the modern telescope actually used complex mathematics from the bible in some of his work. He concluded exactly what century Israel would be reborn in and that another nation would help. The current situation of the world is all laid out in an almost perfect setting for told in the Bible. No nation has ever been destroyed and came back but Israel has come back all 3 times the bible said it would. The bible said that to show GODS strength and power he would create Israel in one day. The UN voted and Israel was born in one day in that hour. A Muslim army attacked immediately while 200 Jewish civilians mostly women using bolt action rifles held them off. The bible said an uncountable amount of Jews from every nation from around the world would return to Israel. We WATCHED it happen. In 1967 3 Muslim armies backed up by the USSR planned for over a year to destroy Israel. Israel destroyed all 3 armies within 6 days and like God they rested on the 7th. The regained the west bank, golan heights,Jerusalem and the very desert wondered by Moses. This was the exact Israel from the time king Solomon lost it. People like the philistines have been found and even DNA tested after being excavated. We would have never known they existed if not for the bible. The Bible says only a fool or a liar says there is no god.

@benf6822 11 ай бұрын

@ScottHendrix-yz3du the bible says slavery is acceptable, do you believe that to be true?

@Bomsanchu 3 ай бұрын

this actually made me teary eyed, this is what we call help that was truly needed.

@jasonmoquin 11 ай бұрын

That’s a good dude. He’s putting in the work and that is WAY more effort than most theists devote to reaching intellectual honesty.

@yichengyi 11 ай бұрын

If you're out there Landon, just know that you're not alone, brother. You never know what contributions you bring to the world. You definitely affected me, so thank you, and I am very grateful for your existence!

@shardinhand1243 4 ай бұрын

this was a rare treat, best to this caller i hope his illness and fears of leaving the faith pass by.

@jpizzleforizzle 11 ай бұрын

This call was absolutely fucking beautiful.

@Shane6387 11 ай бұрын

Let’s go Landon! But seriously man, I hope you read the comments. The way you are able to reason and think about your own beliefs, that shows you are a good problem solver. You can find meaning in that.

@thelatepetercook 11 ай бұрын

What a beautiful conversation.

@ryanpereira8264 2 ай бұрын

This is great to see, just a good rational conversation and the realization of how skepticism can achieve better conclusions. Thank you for your honesty and rationality Landon, and great responses from Matt and Jimmy!

@sordidknifeparty 4 ай бұрын

I can't remember which apologist I heard say this, but I heard one say that if the Bible said that 2 + 2 equals to 5, that he would assume that math was wrong and not the Bible. That he would begin from the position that 2 + 2 was indeed 5 and then work backwards to try and prove that it was true. When You Believe in a dogmatic source of knowledge, and that source does not line up with what is logical or reasonable, people who begin from the position of that sources perfection will generally ignore The Logical problems and instead side with the Dogma.

@orgixvi3 11 ай бұрын

Honestly, one of the nicest calls I've ever seen on one of these types of shows. I hope things go well for Landon. It's always fascinating to see people work through their deconstruction since I've ever held a theistic belief in my life (despite my mother's wfforts).

@kurtfrederiksen5538 11 ай бұрын

From what I have seen most hosts of The Line and Atheist Experience are nice provided the person is honest and answers their questions without too many dodges. More or less if someone calls and tries to have a honest conversation with them they are kind and patient with them. From what I see the hosts enjoy these calls which may be why they are able to be a lot nicer. The issue is with many of these call in shows you get many who call in and just want to preach/convert, dodge answering the questions asked, or acknowledging when they are wrong. Unfortunately I think these calls are the ones the hosts do not enjoy as much as they have to expend so much energy just to get answers to simple questions.

@JohnFleshman 11 ай бұрын

Landon sounds like a very smart dude I hope he gets it all figured out.

@TheSneakyBlanket 7 ай бұрын

Landon is such a precious gem, I just want to hug him while I whisper the Atheist Manifesto in his ear to get him to put his faith behind him

@JohnnyNada 6 ай бұрын

Lmao this is the worst

@seannelson3613 4 ай бұрын

As fearful as the caller said he was naturally, his courage put most of the believers that call the show to shame.

@mattirealm 4 ай бұрын

This is pretty amazing! I know a lot of Theist's "lie" and say they came to their fucking faith with hard times. However, a LOT of people actually come OUT of that crap when the hard times hit. That is what BROKE ME OF MY SPELL with Christianity and showed me a lot of "light" that I hadn't seen before. I feel for the caller and I hope they can find what they are looking for. Nobody needs religion and that is a truism to me for sure!

@sordidknifeparty 4 ай бұрын

I'm a staunch atheist and have been nearly my entire life. That said, there are many people out there who do need religion. People who would without the threat of hell and the promise of the reward of Heaven would be doing atrocious things to other people because they can't wrap their minds around secular morality. Certainly it's better for someone to believe in God, and therefore not commit murders that they otherwise would, then have them believing the truth at the cost of the lives of others.

@oldschooloverlord 11 ай бұрын

Best of luck to Landon, and I feel like these are the calls Matt & Jimmy do this for.

@chrispfeifer7628 11 ай бұрын

Great call and convo. Matt better be careful or he's going to be accused of being a good guy and that would just not work at all for the apologists and their atheist are evil schtick.

@rickyward542 5 ай бұрын

As someone who lives with chronic illness from a young age I can understand where he is coming from. Regardless of what he believes I hope he can find a treatment that will help him live a better life. Living with chronic illness can result in focusing on yourself. I have found great satisfaction in finding people who need help and helping them. I hope his life will be more than work and sleep. Many people with chronic illness cant work so at least he has that.

@archivist17 11 ай бұрын

What an interesting discussion.

@JohnnysCafe_ 11 ай бұрын

Matt mentioned Alex Honnold, he is the guy that climbed to the top of El Cap mountain in yesemite ? National park, one of the most difficult to climb, he went up without tackle, hands and feet, an amazing achievement, the short movie is called Free Solo.

@JohnnysCafe_ 11 ай бұрын

@@robertl426 yes indeed, extraordinary.

@ArcaneEther 11 ай бұрын

How refreshing. A conversation that didn't end in circles of "Whudda'bout Jebus, dough?"

@acejenkina8472 7 ай бұрын

I’ve been where he is… he’s right at the door of freedom

@keithhicks9518 11 ай бұрын

Thanks

@yggorF 11 ай бұрын

Landon, your life has infinite value my friend. That you are suffering is a reason the rest of us need to work to help make life easier for you. All for one and one for all!

@yggorF 11 ай бұрын

And if no one else tells you that your life has value, I will. The reason is simple; because there are so many natural forces at work to try and extinguish life.

@kafkadre6440 11 ай бұрын

Loved this call!!!

@AdoptionLawSourceTrinity 11 ай бұрын

Great conversation!

@banonKING 11 ай бұрын

This was an amazing call.

@fohrum4757 11 ай бұрын

Landon, you are an incredibly bright young man, and you articulate your thoughts so well. I have an immense amount of respect for you after hearing this interaction. Never stop learning my friend.

@Valdagast 3 ай бұрын

What's so scary about being made to look an absolute fool in front of 70 000 people? Edit: I mean, this guy wasn't, but that's the risk callers take.

@melissaharris3890 7 ай бұрын

I have been watching your channel for a few days and you have made me more comfortable in my agnosticism. I was a worried/anxious about getting to see loved ones that have died. will I? what will it be like without them? answer: I'll be dead. I probably won't miss them because i am dead. If there is something (50/50 on) i will see them.

@phrozenwun 11 ай бұрын

Take the time to work and/or encourage the alleviation of mechanisms for human suffering, in some way shape or form - it does wonders for self redemption.

@elmolewis9123 11 ай бұрын

Matt hit on the problem with theists. The foundation for belief must be based on truth and reason, which is clearly against theist's makeup.

@Duchess_Van_Hoof 10 ай бұрын

Oh that was beautiful.

@MotoGoato 10 ай бұрын

That was outstanding.

@altriplett9099 10 ай бұрын

Believing, and logic, are mutually exclusive

@andralfoo 10 ай бұрын

how come? you cant accept propositions to be true without belief

@AlejandroFernandez05 9 ай бұрын

@@andralfoo well, if you saw someone shoot somebody else and they die, you wouldn’t believe they killed them, you would know

@andralfoo 9 ай бұрын

@@AlejandroFernandez05 and knowledge is a subset of belief, belief is just accepting a proposition to be true or likely true, if you accept the proposition that someone killed them then you believe/know thats the case, thats epistemology

@AlejandroFernandez05 8 ай бұрын

@@andralfoo you are right, thank you for explaining

@AlejandroFernandez05 8 ай бұрын

@@FightXScience-wh6kx you are right, thank you for explaining

@ΘάνατοςΧορτοφάγος 11 ай бұрын

Landon brought his H game 🤙

@slickandslaycious6579 11 ай бұрын

That was heart warming ❤

@17joren Ай бұрын

I’m so used to your titles telegraphing crazy/angry/bigoted callers getting shut down, this one made it sound like Landon was another smug, obstinate Christian with a “logical proof” that his god is real. But he was cool, respectful, humble, and came to this with good faith and an open mind! Sure, he called to ask for tools to approach and logically dispute other, more radical theists - and *ended up* debunking his own believes - but the title omits that reason for his call so it kind of paints him as what I assumed. Just a minor grievance over unfortunate phrasing. Great discussion otherwise, I agree with other comments that you two were great!

@neilfreeman5824 11 ай бұрын

Laindon. Top man.

@pneumike1 9 ай бұрын

I think that challenging a belief only causes the believer to double down and resort to confirmation bias to maintain them. Epistemology and self reflection are two of the best tools to start the critical thinking process. As Matt made clear however, the person must first value logic and truth over faith, or it is pointless to even attempt the conversation.

@pneumike1 8 ай бұрын

No, it is pointless, if they don't value truth and logic over faith.

@mtl47 10 ай бұрын

Was that a Napoleon Dynamite reference?! 🤣

@jimbuono2404 3 ай бұрын

The problem with all religions is that they are rooted in the past, usually the distant past. As humanity technologically and scientifically progresses, the supernatural and magical falls by the wayside for anyone using critical thinking skills.

@robertvirnig638 11 ай бұрын

There needs to be a humanist alternative to religious communities. A community can not only share each other's company and enrich each other's lives but also do good things in the world. There may be such groups around the world such as in Austin, but I live in one of the most densely populated places (Southern California) and I can find no such group. Sure there are some anti-theist groups that do activism, but a group that's primary purpose is attacking other people is not what I'm talking about. There are also the Universalist Unitarian churches but they don't really have any shared foundational belief at all.

@brynpookc1127 11 ай бұрын

Did you Google? Also try freethought. I’m in suburban Kansas City and there are several in my area. Maybe agnostic, atheist, nonbeliever.

@Andrew_Sword 11 ай бұрын

ive seem more people deconvert live on shows like this than ive seen hosts convert.

@kappasphere 8 ай бұрын

As a programmer who likes ducks, I can empathise with this guy

@chelseawales1090 2 ай бұрын

nice monty python reference

@themplar 11 ай бұрын

I like Landon. Its not very often i see/hear a (intellectually) honest Theist. I loved the part he told his position, while saying it you could hear his innervoice say "FUCK". And then was intellectually honest to admit it, to recognize it and he will be processing it. Really amazing call, and approach. Landon, really well done regardless what conclusion you go to, the fact you recognize it. KUDOS.

@FourDeuce01 7 ай бұрын

If theists valued truth and logic, they couldn’t be theists.😜

@lonniec2116 11 ай бұрын

I think I dated that girl from Canada during a summer vacation way back.

@kishintuchis7076 11 ай бұрын

THERE IS NO WAY ANY INTELLECTUALLY HONEST PERSON COULD WATCH PROGRAMS LIKE THIS ONE FOR ANY LENTH OF TIME AND STILL BELIEVE THAT ANY GOD EVER EXISTED

@031767sc 3 ай бұрын

landon....awesome

@heinrichkn6475 9 ай бұрын

Is there any way you can make your vidwos louder? The difference in volume to the ads is getting ridiculous. I hope i don't get a heart attack

@colinleighton7113 7 ай бұрын

Good luck to Landon. It seems he is trying to think for himself rather than blindly follow teachings that make no sense

@SkepticallyQueer 5 ай бұрын

This call is so good, I suspect a plant. 😂

@ivanl.6797 11 ай бұрын

I would hope to hear Matt burp loudly while making a point.

@alisonjones8861 11 ай бұрын

Your online friend who goes to a different school in Canada sounds nice, @Jimmysnow! 😂 Enjoy playing the pirate games with her!

@PortmanRd 11 ай бұрын

He obviously one of those guys who argues with himself and loses.

@BatisteBieler 11 ай бұрын

What is the name of the pirate game you are playing?

@avaggdu1 7 ай бұрын

Yarrrtzee! 😄

@johntuel2375 11 ай бұрын

That one kind of hurt to listen to. I almost had to hang up on the video and watch something else haha.

@vodking 2 ай бұрын

Why is that? I thought that call was stellar.

@fcassmann 11 ай бұрын

Hi,the Netherlands here. Excuse me for the grammar. I think religion,all religions,is a evolutionair thing. Because we are aware of death.That makes us afraid of it. It is comfortabel too think there is something "higher", And don't have to think about:WHY. Accept that life is random is hard. Btw.I called myself Agnost. Greetings from Amsterdam.

@flyingsodwai1382 11 ай бұрын

Sorry Landon, Matt cant not attack... j/k

@vicdog7979 11 ай бұрын

🍿 😊

@user-xb1ht4py2v 11 ай бұрын

What! is you favorite color??

@Columbiastargazer 11 ай бұрын

does "if i can be honest' @8:45 means that caller is dishonest most of the time ?

@cassieandstuff689 11 ай бұрын

No. It's a turn of phrase people use to ease their own anxieties about breaking down a wall that stands between them and taking off the mask. I use it all the time and it's a proxy for "I'd like to take the mask I hide my true self behind off for a moment with you"

@irrelevant_noob 11 ай бұрын

*8:31

@HotelierNYC 7 ай бұрын

Exemplary.