How To Flirt with Your Crush (In High School)

[@Griffolicious]

I'm in college and this girl I like sits directly behind me. Yesterday morning I walked past and she had her college pass on the table so I pointed at it on the way past and said "wow, who is that cutie" I then sat down (my seat is about 4 inches away from her) and she laughed and said "You're not half bad yourself" I then asked if she wanted to grab a coffee after class and she said yes. I managed to get her number.

[@bbokgomu5422]

Omg I cringed but this is so cute hahaha

[@shodak9445]

TheLuckiestFish gay

[@zt7564]

Wow your lucky to have done something so cringe and still got her number 😂

[@witty2898]

@@bbokgomu5422 exactly

[@mreobax9861]

My mans has secured the bag

[@evalover2185]

I bet the hard part is worrying that if she says "no" the entire grade would know and you are embarrassed.

[@sirgold3412]

Who cares about the class? Get up. Don't lose , suffer now and live the rest of your life as the happiest man in the world with the girl/women of your dreams. There is nothing that feels better than getting that dreamperson trust me. Even when I never had that dreamperson , I'm still sure about that.

[@ritaaghajani7479]

Adeolu Ajayi ay just say at least I did something while your just looking at you crush Your welcome

[@motion2597]

If she says No move on to the next girl. The whole class won’t know

[@Mark-xw5yt]

Lol my school has 6000 kids id never have to worry about that

[@caseybeasley-bennett6851]

As someone who got rejected by his crush a month into freshman year, if the girl's not a jerk, nobody else will know

[@Hobo323]

This actually makes sense

[@devonbiggs2954]

I hate KZbin. I've had to re-sub to Josh four times

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Devolition thats so weird, i wonder if thats happened to anyone else?

[@chaithu-9999]

POV - he's a high school teacher

[@icebobk6702]

Me: accidentally makes eye contact with crush Her: what? Me: Ya like beans?

[@cynthiaoluchinoma-owens2918]

🤣

[@Kmotion_]

When you get backslapped for calling ya girl speedy😂😂

[@marwanayman9731]

Lol

[@jacklambert9030]

can you make a video on how to be confident in the way you look?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's a great topic, stay tuned for the episode tomorrow.

[@martinchurlin5241]

Josh I'm a pretty shy guy who over thinks everything and get really nervous talking to my crush around other people. I also run out of things to say can you help me please

[@jacobhowlett1644]

Martin Churlin Just ask questions

[@youngwolf1574]

Ask open ended questions and try to find common interest....share little things about you at first and let her do most of the talking and if you run out of things to say....end the conversation and tell her you gotta go do something and give her a hug or some and tell her you will see her around

[@brendacuevas1211]

my name is actually Juan I'm a 14 year old I knew that my crush that I liked for 3 three years didn't like me at all. I asked her out twice and she didn't respond, so I blocked her on Facebook. I was strong enough to let her go. I miss her man😖😪😥

[@user-gc9pq7zg9i]

there's more fish in the sea no matter what you think

[@winstonchurchill624]

Brenda Cuevas You wasted three years on one broad? Haha

[@zucc3039]

How the fuck do you like someone for 3 years after them repeatedly rejecting you? I would’ve ignored her ass after the first rejection

[@jhonnycalle5811]

In the words of the late Tupac Shakur , “ Bitches ain’t shit , we don’t love them hoes “

[@julliet2258]

I feel you but don't worry...You'll be okay!She is just not worth you💞

[@JT-hl6zd]

Came from Instagram live stream

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks for jumping on the stream :)

[@Zetrqhh]

The Josh Speaks Hey Josh my Friends GF broke up with him Becouse he was Watching Dora

[@comicfan1012]

have u ever done it before

[@ItsCamaro3]

If you’re younger than 14, you shouldn’t be here.

[@RonStayDolo]

Villager I’ve been 14 since October

[@averybrooks8537]

Shhhhhh

[@gshsenpai6446]

I’m 15 😄

[@Moosewoodworks]

@hollie gtfo 😠

[@Broski1198]

Jokes on you cuz I am 14

[@girlnthebackground1525]

As a girl i watched this to see if it was true. #1 should be helpful but I kinda like it when a guy has his arms crossed because to the side doesn't look as natural. #2 is awesome advice nicknames are good. #3 is good. Compliments are great but the follow through is just as important. Questions are helpful as well. #4 is great because of the great conversations. It will cause a bond and us girls like to feel closer to guys. It makes us feel better when we know more about you. #5 i love a good mystery!!!! Especially with guys, but only good mysteries. #6 be true to yourself, YESSS. I would like to add, make eye contact and smile!! That's one of the best moves. The eye and smile. Also, when you feel confident enough, do a little, settle, wink. That's always good.

[@mimitos3838]

YAY! A GIRL!!!! I thought I'm the only one girl in the comments ❤

[@moisesescobarr]

Great video josh you never disappoint me, but can you do a video of relationship advice like how you can have a healthy relationship and how to a keep a convocation with girlfriend going. Btw you're almost to 100,000 congrats!!

[@Bman2024]

Hi everybody, I like this girl in my high school and I have 2 classes with her and I sometimes see her in the hall ways. So you would imagine me have so many opportunities to talk to her and tell her that I like her, which I do but the key thing that I don't really have is self-confidence. The only thing that I can say is hi. In one class she had a huge group of friends with her but then the other class she is all by herself. I never had this trouble to talk to anybody but with her which I think about all the time, I can't really say anything except hi. I really really really need help. I only have less then 4 weeks of school and two of them is half of a week. We are not even friends, I don't think she even knows me at all. So yeah I don't know what to do.

[@bugs_bunneh]

Brendan Cumming, I bet I can one up you. The guy I like works for my grandmother in Colorado (I live in Texas) and I have seen him exactly twice in my life. Once was for two weeks. I've liked him for a year and a half now.

[@Bman2024]

@@bugs_bunneh ouch. Yeah thats not fun. Well, next time you see him tell him how you feel.

[@alexlyon3833]

What happened?

[@Bman2024]

@@alexlyon3833 yeah nothing. I found out that she had a bf and thats it. I still follow her on Instagram though. (Which I don't think it's a good idea but hey whatever). I moved on and actually moved to a different city a few months later. So it wasn't the result that I was hoping for but it's all good now. Thanks.

[@spacechimp3199]

This is the push pull method. Very nice.

[@accountingchamber5735]

Hi bro!! Love u from India 🇮🇳 ❤️ Trying ur ways today!!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Sayyam Sood awesome, lemme know how it goes

[@skyrim8384]

I hate high school tbh. Who's ready for the Finals y'all

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha counting down the days?

[@skyrim8384]

The Josh Speaks 18th and 19th. About two more weeks.

[@ApeNaticZoo]

Skyrim's a good game btw

[@Oskiito]

It's been 2 years. What you doing now and what do you wish you did do

[@obsessiondesigns]

Oskiito lol

[@JeffreyVariety]

I am in high school and I get so scared to talk to my crush I wanna start talking to her but we are kinda strangers and I don't know how to introduce myself

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I made a video about the 3 second rule which might jumpstart you into action. Check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXbIpY2qab2Xi5Y

[@itsmeyaboy]

never thought I'd have to come back to this video after my last experience but I have gained new feelings :) :) :)

[@ianmorin8017]

I usually when I watch these videos I just take the advice and apply it to me. I related what he said to how my crush acts around me and now I’m pretty sure she likes me.

[@codezine_5466]

You just got a subscriber my man. hope to see more videos like these in the future well wish me luck tomorrow people I guess :) 🇩🇪👏

[@benkohalmi8152]

love your vids bro

[@gyrozeppeli7573]

This essentially says become their friend without them feeling about you as a friend . Now watch the video . You will understand the video better

[@jayzeegt5721]

Add this: Me: The weather is beautiful today Her: Ye, I agree... Me: You know whats more beautiful? Her: What? Me: You.... TRUST ME GUYS I TRIED THIS AND IT WORKED!!

[@_yombi_]

u r gay

[@benromeromontoya9493]

JcProdegy you got friendzoned cuh

[@themovieraider1028]

JayZee Did she have a boyfriend already like the girl i am about to try for??

[@micah4494]

Nahhh

[@EpicLakitu]

Hey Josh, long time viewer here. Thanks for all you've done, you've helped me a lot over the years. Anyway, I've got a problem. My crush has previously had a girlfriend, but I've possibly noticed signals pointing to her being interested. I can't be sure on my suspensions here. Is there a way I can find out if she's bisexual or not? Thanks.

[@teamftw2795]

Josh I tried the movie part at 4:20 - 4:26 and it worked great

[@narnar5253]

Team FTW not for me :(

[@claytontubbs9801]

Just found this channel and I love it

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

awesome man, check out some of my older videos :)

[@keepgoingcody3106]

I actually find it kinda easy to talk to my crush now! Thnx so much! xD xD xD

[@Gavin_M.]

Come on Cody we want to know

[@humblehenoc2912]

Thanks for the tips Josh

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem! I hope they are helpful :)

[@ohhithischannelisprivate5605]

My crush knows i like her because of truth or dare and i just told her its good to be honest. I have not gotten friendzoned yet

[@johnkurkjian9370]

I'm good friends with a girl who goes to another school nearby and we live in neighboring towns about 5 minutes away. I have her number and we have a snapchat streak but I don't know what to talk to her about i freeze up and say stupid stuff

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hmm it sounds like you may need to lead into asking her to hang out. Here's a video I did on keeping the conversation going but asking her out might be the next step. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fWiVi6N6jayor6c

[@debo2665]

Genius here guys thanks for helping a dude out

[@TNTMikey]

Josh I'm 16 years old and I'm a junior in high school, and I like this girl, but I don't know if she has a bf or not... What do I do???

[@roguetoa9787]

TheNanniesInTrouble don't be to forward about it. be really sudel. ask her if she's going to the football game or something if she says no say "oh why don't you just go with your boyfriend". like I said if you just straight up ask she will know you're interested. which isn't necessarily bad. depends on your approach

[@Tay7r]

@@roguetoa9787 you mean subtle?

[@roguetoa9787]

@@Tay7r yes. Thanks for correcting me in a comment i made 3 years ago. Edit: this is comedy gold that i was watching this in grade 10 thinking it would help me get that girl

[@sebastiandispo2306]

Thank you it worked 100%

[@Prodahh]

So im in junior high (7th-9th) and im in 7th but my crush is in 8th. I have her phone number and we see eachother in band but we dont talk really at all. Theres never really a chance to talk because when we can talk, theres nothing to talk about so it would be really awkward.

[@danmcleodmcleod7129]

You are such a legend josh

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha thanks man, I appreciate it

[@Gavin_M.]

Instructions unclear, this convo ensued: Me: You look really good in that hair, where did you buy it? Her: Excuse me? Me: I- uh *runs away*

[@subscribetopewdiepie3150]

I visit these videos too often 😔

[@zacbinns]

I really like this girl in my class. I want to ask her out, but we're really good friends and im worried asking her out might ruin our relationship. What should I do?

[@theartblockdacosta9643]

Zac Binns do itt!!

[@1111iv]

Go for it man!! If she says no, its really no big deal.

[@se142]

Zac Binns Ha relatable

[@jacobjuneau6005]

I'm in middle school in 8th grade and have a crush on a girl in my math class. Whenever my teacher does something stupid we sometimes make eye contact and smile at each other. I'm not sure if she's just being friendly or if she's into me, but I do kinda like her. I just don't know how to talk to a girl and "ask her out". How could "ask her out" without going on dates. My parents are strict and I can't go on dates. Please Help Josh!

[@clayton8or]

Disclaimer- I certainly don't want to sound perfect or that I'm doing everything right here, cause I'm not. But this is my situation. I am currently in a relatively small school with about 300 kids, with only about 35 in 9th grade and 15 in 10th grade with 6 guys the rest girls (mine and current highest, will proceed each year) and I just don't get it.. I follow and absorb all of this advice, I know most of the "tricks" and am always myself yet constantly trying to improve.. Most of my friends are surprised nobody has ever liked me, despite only 1 relationship currently and the other guys not really the type for the girls or just not caring, and unless they want to drop a grade (which from the look of it they don't seem to keen on) I'm the only one left... currently 2 of the girls I like I can hear talking in their little groups about wanting to be in a relationship but being stuck with no one to choose from, and from knowing them for a year already and hearing a bunch of information my previous statements are true... I don't believe I am particularly ugly and my sense of humor is similar to and more adaptive than the others... I don't come off as hostile and i keep up with grades. I heard it was because I wasn't tall enough or something? yet one of the other potential guys is about 3in shorter than me so that's out of the picture... I've been told I'm just really unlucky and I'll find someone eventually, but that seems to be taking a really bloody long time.

[@clayton8or]

Any replies...?

[@hatlesszebra]

Make them apparent your their

[@clayton8or]

Hatless zebra Well its more complex than that, i certainly do but i dont get the best opportunities, its pretty good though.

[@hatlesszebra]

+clayton8or_2 well then talk to me what's up?

[@clayton8or]

Hatless zebra Nothing particularly special, its mostly the fact that whatever room we may be in gets divided into certain groups, and im not usually in one with either of them, but sometimes that can be the case.

[@iveseenbetter9236]

don't need the video, but its nice to see you Josh

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

thanks man

[@iveseenbetter9236]

The Josh Speaks hey I have a quick question. it's my last year of high school and I'm trying to focus on just graduating. how do I make sure I don't fall for anyone. currently I don't find anyone interesting enough for me

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Staying focused can get challenging, I made this video on staying focused which might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZzdl3mngLOab68

[@crxzi213]

Yes

[@smasher981]

I'm a grade 12 student. There's this girl in my PE class I've known for about 4 months. Ever since the first time I saw her I've had strong feelings for her. Sometimes I see her walking in the hallway and I get goosebumps and get super nervous. She's usually with her friends and we don't talk that much. I found her on Instagram and followed her but she didn't follow back. A few weeks ago I greeted Christmas to her on Instagram direct and she responded with "thanks you too". After a few days I asked something about a project at school which was mandatory for all students. She saw the message but never answered. I really don't know what do to. I'm not even sure if she knows that's me on Instagram because she didn't follow me and my profile in private. My profile picture also has some filters and it's not completely visible. What do you think I should do about it? Should I tell her in person it was me on Instagram? I really like her but I have no idea about how she feels.

[@alexlyon3833]

Try to start talking to her in person

[@prosportsfocus9212]

You always help bro. Keep it up!

[@IgnaAlvarezVL]

So my crush is dating someone but she flirts with me and constantly keeps talking about how she isn't happy.. What do I do/say when she does it again?

[@thegoatworld4572]

Ignacio Alvarez tell her how you feel about her and tell her I can treat you better than he can. Or you can ask her out.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I would let her know that you want to get to know her better but as long as she's with someone you're not going to overstep boundaries there. If she breaks up with him then swoop in.

[@juancarloshernandez8037]

Josh there's this 1 girl I like I have her for cross country and track but the issue is she always no matter what talking to her best friend what can I do ???

[@themovieraider1028]

corollatrek same here bro.theres 1 girl in my theatre class who ive had long ass conversations with on occasion but not always.There is only 2 things that are stopping me.1.Im ur average shy guy (Peter Parker pretty much) and 2.her friends are always around her and im only in the mood for HER not for her friends.Its just so confusing

[@oussplayz7405]

corollatrek if your talking to her through the internet it can be a bit hard. Maybe if your in a multi call. Tell him to hung up you want to tell her a secret. Or if he's with her in person. Just tell him. I want to talk to her for a minute. Is that okey? Hope this help!

[@firealarmperson4774]

Great advice!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks man!

[@theniub]

I'm 14,am I too young for relationships?

[@mintgardener]

TheNiub yes

[@frazzled5791]

No you’re not, go get em player

[@alexlyon3833]

Nah

[@daquanperry7140]

So there was a girl that I liked and I liked her but then I started losing interest and now she doesn't like me but I want her back. What do I do????

[@fireblade_-bi8mb]

thanks

[@someonewashere1596]

I'm 17 in 7th grade should I watch this vid or watch the middle school one?

[@allkane5431]

Thanks g

[@josethariola7691]

Hello Josh, I have a crush on this girl named Elyssa, I help her with her assignments, gived her an advice everyday, giving her everything she wants, and making her happy, but still she dosen't like me at all, I need some help from you

[@DJfresh102]

whats about witha college girl you met during the summer, got her number and hanged out but was to shy to say anything now you haven't talked to her in months and it keep roming ur head and whant to talk toher again but now know how to get the ball rolling again

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey I made this video all about keeping in contact with your crush for the summer which might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iXiXl3iKa5xqfq8

[@gokublackhoward8424]

Good Advice

[@alexwise1]

Thanks bruh

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

no prob fam

[@flaminggaming5295]

The Josh Speaks I like this girl in high school. She is a sophomore and I am a freshman. We have a lot in common, for example, we are on the swim team together. And at the beginning, we did interact a lot, but we have kind of distanced, I don't know why. She used to say hi to me a lot and we would talk at practice and stuff. And I need help and advice on rebuilding our friendship, so that possibly we could move forward. If you could get back to me, that would be great, I am really at a loss because this is my first crush, and I don't really know how to make the next move. If you could write me back, that'd be great. Thanks playa!

[@jutindavi]

I’m a sophomore in high school. I have a class with this girl I like, but what should I say to her. I don’t want to look like a weirdo.

[@tylerarmstrong3178]

Where did u get that galactus

[@piffpuff9147]

Last time I was this early it was 2016 (see what I did there ;) )nice vid any ways bro always love em'

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha thanks for checking out the video!

[@violaman37]

is this the same thing for middle school.

[@colton8331]

violaman37 Pretty much

[@depraxgaming3518]

My mum does not allow me to go out with people. How do I fix this ?

[@darkmatter9487]

Deprax Gaming Tell her your reasons you think you should be able to date. It shows that you're confident and taking a stand in what you believe in. If you still get a no then be level-headed and ask her some time later again.

[@tagonkillick2270]

Josh I'm terrible with girls 😢😢😢 HELP!!

[@clayton8or]

In which way? anything specific?

[@tagonkillick2270]

clayton8or_2 everything I'm ugly I'm not funny and I just I'm not good

[@MasterWoof371]

Mega minecraft Are you anoying and Immature?

[@stonalisa3729]

so get good. I'm starting to work out again to get physically and mentally stronger

[@finleylacey5015]

Mega minecraft well considering your name is mega minecraft...

[@xdanieljacksonx6902]

hay josh u r the best

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

thanks man, I hope the video is helpful!

[@rickelmer]

Josh I like this girl but I can't tell if she likes me back and I'm always starting the convos and asking all the questions...how do I get her more interested??

[@monogrammicx2654]

The easiest thing in the world is farting under your covers in bed at 12 am, grinning as you know no one heard you!

[@Tay7r]

But then it smells like shit

[@StanEvanx]

josh. my crush knows i like her and EVERYBODY IN MY GRADE (10th) KNOWS. my friends told her and everyone (yeah "nice" friends) and dont get me wrong I wanna flirt and we have class everyday with eachother (we even run track together) aaaannd she told my friends on kik she doesnt like me and now ive gotten to the awkward, everyday person stage. I dont know what to do and its been almost a year since she found out! I dont know what to do!

[@calebjohnson9740]

theJevan4 yelnats Josh talks about this in another video called "My friend told my crush I like her". You should check it out

[@StanEvanx]

Caleb Johnson okay thanks

[@Deadpool....]

i go back to school monday im so scared x( i see her on my bus the fear of talking is high

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Talking on the bus is hard, don't worry though I'm going to put together a video on that soon

[@Tay7r]

Same man I have the same bus stop

[@gaminglegend3470]

Very helpful❤️

[@MrBeastlyJosh]

Hi josh there is this girl that used to like me and I used to like but we never got in a relationship because I didn't think she was the right one. I was speaking to her the other day and realised I do still like her and think I would be much happier with her. I need some advice please could you help

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

It sounds like she always got away, check this video out for some help on how to get things going again: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nHTSpIudhMetiaM

[@MrBeastlyJosh]

***** thanks josh

[@JRM_-]

58 seconds to 1:05 what do you do if you are walking in the hall do you stop and stay planted or keep on walking

[@thebanneddude4535]

What about middle school?

[@reizal7200]

hey josh can you help me with my problem

[@DanielAPEX15]

what if u are shy

[@redpillragex4625]

Josh why is my crush asking me if I have one of our mutual friends phone number?

[@johnkurkjian9370]

Can you please make a video about how to ask out someone in high school?

[@jojo6783f]

Im 14 in what school will I be in america

[@rosh9778]

great video

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks, I'm glad you liked it :)

[@karsonyorges2947]

Look, I have a crush on this girl and we’re also pretty good friends. I’m scared that if she ever found out how I feel she won’t want to be my friend no more. What do I do?

[@josephtimes5996]

Hey Josh the girl I like is one of my good friends and we've been talking a lot this summer and we also work together I want to ask her out or to just hang out but I'm not sure when and if I do idk if it'll make things awkward

[@13thseeker73]

Hey Josh I like this girl a lot in high school and we have a lot in common but I'm so nervous and I don't know what to do or say

[@MichaelJackson647]

You should make similar videos for current college students.

[@youtubesgreatestdeletes6958]

Hey Josh, I've got a really complicated situation with my crush and I was hoping if you wouldn't mind private messaging me on something please, thank you

[@keanuwang2622]

tbh this guy got some skills xd

[@humblehenoc2912]

I like this girl in my class and I have spoken to her but not that much. The good thing is that she knows who I am and what I do in school. With these tips I am more confident to speak to her more hopefully for me to invite her to prom in 3 months.

[@ItsSota]

lokking from your picture you're just ugly not confidence

[@missionpunani6648]

That's.... a bit messed up. Humblehenoc don't listen to this guy he's most likely bored and looking to start some beef.

[@xyzbca4357]

I have liked this guy for almost 1 year now and we are both shy around each other. I don't have the courage to talk to him and neither does he to me. We don't have any classes together and we don't see each other except in lunch.... at different tables. He hasn't brought my name up to his friends but he stares at me a lot. Does that mean he likes me or no. 😕

[@jadenlukacovic4484]

Happy New year

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

happy new year to you too!

[@Stellar_Neoma]

Hey Josh, I'm still a little confused in how to flirt, can you give me some more advice?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Sure thing, shoot me a message at www.thejoshspeaks.com/ask and I'll give more specific advice ony our situation

[@gustavovega4611]

I'm having so much trouble I need help

[@petarmarjanovic4607]

Im here and thats already a failure for me, but i will got to high school this year so yeah, wish me luck, or dont, im already doomed

[@creepersteal497]

How do you deal with flirting when you don't know how to flirt but every girl says that you are amazing at flirting? I have had this problem for awhile and when I actually try to flirt i am terrible at it, but if i don't try it works (not to where I get a girlfriend but you get what I mean)

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

It sounds like you may just be a naturally charming person who makes others feel safe around you. Maybe when you "try", it backfires because it's not authentic? I think the best thing to do is when you speak to people, try to ask genuine questions and really aim to learn more about them.

[@creepersteal497]

The Josh Speaks Well these people who I have done it with I am very good friends with and I had a crush on them at one time, so I did know them very well

[@sebastiaomendonca1477]

*test*

[@torin6102]

Come from snapchat great tips thx

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks for checking out my snap stories :)

[@torin6102]

Thanks for making such good content and helping me in band situations

[@alexiagooden4271]

Nvm

[@tristin_brown]

That galctus is badass

[@Martin-vf8co]

What if ur crush is in another state

[@christianguthrie9581]

im in middle school please help me

[@SaeParsan]

Im in high school and im having trouble even talking to my crush u can probably guess why

[@claytontubbs9801]

What if your crush has a boyfriend already?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey I made this video on what to do when your crush is dating someone already: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGnTloN6oZqbmbs

[@JaysaNerd]

Josh is love Jesus