3 Flirting Tricks to Help You AVOID The Friend Zone with Your Crush

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

*QUESTION:* Have you ever been friend-zoned by someone before? Do you flirt with your crush only for it to not go anywhere? Leave your comments down below and we'll talk about it.

[@crc1217]

Yes but i moved on

[@Te4mshrk7800]

I got a question!! A BIG one, people at my school likes to make rumors about other people with relationships and I want to know how to avoid them when they make rumors about me in the near future, can you please help me??

[@henryyin2471]

Hey Josh Speaks, so basically I have a crush on this girl and she told me once I asked her out, that she was demisexual so either I've been played or I think I failed to get in the friendzone. What should I do now? I still like her but I'm not sure I should chase her.

[@crc1217]

@@henryyin2471 damn bro tht sucks

[@teaganthedashman]

Yes and yes

[@chshjsjsjsjsjjdjx2889]

Thank you so much josh! I had so many opportunities to flirt that I never knew of. I kept having a neutral opinion, and now I know that I have to be bold and opinionated for her to notice. I think that she kind of likes me but isn’t sure if I feel the same. I will use your tips!

[@kc270352]

Flirt, Banter, Tease, and Sarcasm, it definitely works with women lmao

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Agreed, it helps show that you are confident and playful rather than timid and scared around girls.

[@41g28]

My mum always says ‘Banter is bullying’ and I hate when see says that

[@ricklil8174]

Guys, I just want to tell you all something. If you all want to improve your dating Lives, you SHOULD STOP, trying to please everyone, specially your Crush, and if possible, don't have a crush. I have been watching these kind of videos for a couple years, and I have noticed that many youtubers don't actually say what is really important in a relationship (VALUE). 1.What do you want to get from the relationship that you are trying to get into? 2. Do you have anything to add in the relationship? If not, start building yourself up by learning new skills, learn how to dress properly, start building your confidence by doing small tasks that are out of your comfort zone, and one that you can start implementing now is: Taking Cold Showers. 3. Don't try to get into a relationship if you are not feeling good with yourself the way you are currently, and start doing something about it (meditate, start being more aware of your environment, your thoughts and the kind of things you watch and listen to, they have a huge influence on your current behavior). 4. Before subscribing to a youtube channel see if the channel will add some good values into your life, and not make you a needy person; 5. I think everybody already knows abouy this. DON'T WATCH PORN. It messes up with your brain, I will list a few things about how it will mess you up if you continue watching it: a) It makes your brain sexualize every girl that you see, and you will not see a girl for what they are, you will see them as objects that only serve for sex; b) makes you more anxious creating social anxiety; c) It reduces your energy throughout the day; d)It makes you unproductive throughout the day; d) It makes you less attractive, because you will lose value. What I Recommend: -Start building yourself up and adding value into your own life, caring and loving yourself for what you are; -Meditate to be more aware of your own thoughts, because thoughts create emotions, that create actions; -Start learning something that you always wanted to buy never had the time to, if you don't know what to learn I will recommend you 3 books; i) The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; ii) How to Influence and Win Friends by Dale Carnegie; iii) Neil Strauss Challenge (The Game) Sorry for the long message, but I felt that I needed to give you all a message, because I have been in that kind of situation.

[@mattfischer1]

You’ve answered all my questions I’ve always had my entire life in this video! I’m going to memorize this!!!

[@-A-c]

I think I'm going to need to put this one on replay......

[@geoffreynjuguna819]

I'm mentally dating a celebrity who doesn't know I even exist 😂

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Maybe one thing you could try doing is outlining what about that celebrity you like and making a list of things you want to look for in a real life partner.

[@RoqueSox]

😂 i've been mentally dating Ash from pokémon since i was 7! (i aged him up to always stay 3 years older than me lol)

[@geoffreynjuguna819]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Sure I'll try that

[@JohnSmithAnythingChannel]

"Flirt with everyone" Flirt with my friends (including guy friends), brother, parents, cousins, grandparents, aunts, uncles, complete strangers that I randomly see in the store and have no reason to talk to, even enemies

[@fame69yt5]

Man you should go very VERY VIRAL

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hope so!

[@clarkepercivaljaeblood4886]

... Okay, wow, I absolutely adore the face warps and voice changes so much 🤣 Keep up the good work! ❤

[@IsaacMartinezOfficial]

This video really helps cause I'm trying to find out how is the best way to move forward with her

[@yeetskeet_______________3506]

Same

[@a1uplift212]

Josh you're awesome with the videos!!

[@LandonNicholson]

My man Josh! Great video man truly inspiring , could you do a video on tips on how to become an inspirational speaker?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey Landon, that's an awesome idea! I'll definitely make a video on that!

[@LandonNicholson]

The Josh Speaks Ok thank you!

[@-A-c]

My big problem is that im not used to tension and i'm worried ill just chicken out in the midst of trying these ideas out. What are some ways that one could practice being okay with "letting tension sit?"

[@toosieslide4306]

To late I’m already got friendzoned but I chose not to be friend but I’ll think I will get over her

[@andrewgarcia626]

It's to late man . if you are childhood friends you never had a chance. Trust me man . It just makes it awkward

[@ilai7893]

@@andrewgarcia626 lol when did Toosie ever say anything about being friends since childhood? o_O

[@andrewgarcia626]

@@ilai7893 I meant if they are it's to late . I tried asking my best friend if she would want to go the movies. She laughed and said like a date ? Then she saw the look on my face . And walked away. We haven't talked in two weeks. 😥😥

[@brotatochip1019]

Thank you for the techniques I can use Josh. I never really knew how to flirt at all but I believe these methods will help me.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome, I hope they motivate you to take action!

[@brotatochip1019]

The Josh Speaks it does motivate me to take action.

[@thomasgoodwin3930]

yeah i usually flirt with my girlfriend and be a bit cocky to stir her up even though i may get a bit angry and jealous of her we still get back to flirting. the face warp thing was so funny i was laughing hard especially at the end

[@BlossomFlicks]

Hi Josh, can you give me an advice? She first made a move and she told me that she likes me, I liked her too but not in a romantic kind, but then she became colder each day till we don't chat a day or two, sometimes I missed her and I wanna tell her that I'm open to the relationship but it seems she's not interested anymore. What will I do?

[@Obi-Goat_Kenobi]

My crush: “The mandalorian is the most boring tv show ever” Me: I’m sorry but your free trial of living has officially ended.

[@41g28]

I can see you love Star Wars although you seem like the guy who likes the prequels

[@Issijwz]

What if you flirt and you don’t get the same energy back? Should you then leave them alone or try it more and more? Because there’s a chance you’ll lose them completely.

[@luisitoburgos1217]

Any advice on having a Crush who never initiates text and never even met in person to get them to see you as more than friends

[@luisitoburgos1217]

Note: I’ve complemented her and yet she only sees me as a friend

[@Ginfio]

first here, but I didn’t know what to comment besides, *“FIRST”.*

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Haha it's all good, after you watch the video you can always edit your comment with your thoughts. You'll still have the first comment spot!

[@jenshub]

Shield Liger well that was out of the blue

[@thejoshsings894]

Second

[@greatcitysportaction2289]

Nice but however an important part of it is giving your crush extremely nice compliments.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I agree, compliments will play a huge role here but you want to make sure you're giving compliments + taking actions. Asking them out is an important step, because otherwise compliments with no action will make it easier for your crush to feel like you're complimenting them as a friend.

[@greatcitysportaction2289]

The Josh Speaks Ok thx for the tip I’ll follow all tips to not get in the friend zone. Also you make good videos keep up the good work👍🏻

[@davideostudio2664]

Have you ever thought of critiquing movies, TV shows, etc. about relationships? Because sometimes pop culture and even other people get it horribly wrong on how to get a romantic partner. Seriously, we need more honest and straightforward tips on how to be more successful with relationships like yours and Dr. NerdLove's and not the bad advice stuff that only makes things worse like "start off as friends" or "you gotta lie about being someone you're not" or "you gotta lie to protect his/her feelings" or "just be yourself". It's all too surface level and needs to be fixed big time

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's a good point, what are some things you would want to see me critique?

[@davideostudio2664]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Ok some examples would include Atypical, Roxanne, Kyle XY, WALL-E, Megamind, Twilight, and that one scene from When Harry Met Sally. There are many more examples but those examples are good starters

[@ColtenO47]

I didnt know i needed this but i watched it then i figured out i really need right now

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I hope it's helpful Dynamite! Check out my friend-zone playlist as well!

[@ColtenO47]

@@TheJoshSpeaks ok thx a lot

[@andreas798]

Damn your ideas and/or advices are great ... but idk why whenever I see her... I couldn't talk😅 (shyness...I guess)

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I hear you on that, shyness tends to get the best of us. Search my channel for videos on overcoming shyness though, I have a few ideas on what you could do.

[@andreas798]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Okay brother...thank you❤🤘🏼

[@mrsheen5876]

Wish this video was out wayyyyyyyyy before now :( anyways Joshhhhh mi boy how u been? So i honestly wanna know if the crush joking about asking you for a relation ship and then saying its a joke right after what doe that mean?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey Tommy, I would say if your crush asked you out jokingly, then it's possible they're not too serious about dating. Think about it like this, if your crush did like you for real, do you think they would risk the chance of not dating you by making a joke out of it?

[@mrsheen5876]

@@TheJoshSpeaks i honestly don't know its because it never happened so i got scared

[@bryantsimmons490]

Josh thank you so much thanks you I have girlfriend thank you so so much dude

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's so awesome man, I'm so happy for you Bryant!

[@teaganthedashman]

I think my crush might like me too so I want to tell her but I can’t because she doesn’t have a phone and.... LOCKDOWN and no school 😢

[@FF-lk4oj]

I was friend zoned very recently and I'm stuck bc I know she only wants to be friends so I'm thinking I should just quit on her and find another girl but it was so hard to get this girl to be my friend I dont want to go thru that again

[@matthewentwistle8284]

Josh: Just flirt with everyone! Me: *goes full-on Jack Harkness with every man and woman on the planet*

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha

[@joeyemminger5052]

Hey Josh what do you do if you're crush calls you ugly and dosent seem like they are engaged in the conversation when you text them. Almost like they don't wanna be there????

[@SquidLordTV]

Sorry I'm new here and this is really long lol. I met this girl in Belgium, who I liked, but we lived in different countries. She had a bf but, as I would never see her again, I told her I liked her and she seemed cool about it. she broke up with him. We started talking more and we started sending each other love hearts. Then I asked her out and she said no but not because of me, bc she was “in a rough patch”. We kept texting each other, and she started texting me more and more and then letting me choose her clothes and showing me pics that were not nude pics but quite let’s say naughty. Then after a while, I suggested saying good morning/ night to each other. Then she told me she didn’t have any romantic feeling for me at all. Sigh. I was upset but she still wanted to be friends. Then I got pissed at her for a stupid reason. Then I met a new girl and asked her how to get her. Then she got MAD. Writing in full caps “fuck your stupid ass”, “You’re a dick”, “you broke me”, etc etc. I was shocked. Apparently I “broke” her and forced her to break up with her bf and she never liked me anyway. Eventully she snapped at her and she apologised. However I became overattached and she blocked me. Why did she send the love hearts and pics if she never liked me? Did I do the wrong thing? I didn’t mention her ex (I wanted them to break up but never told her to). P.S you make great videos Josh!

[@charlenemcleod4856]

Bro she was scares to lose you

[@charlenemcleod4856]

She loves u man

[@charlenemcleod4856]

Text her

[@jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn3454]

hey josh my crush stated liking all of my comments on her ig posts dose that mean she may want to talk to me again and she isn't mad at me? and should I find out if she is still dating her boyfriend or not?

[@itsjustmemiguel]

Imma use these tips as my advantage ima flirt real good plus goes good might ask her out tomorrow

[@13_godz54]

Hey so there has been this girl she is the cutest girl I know. Last night I asked her on a date and she said yes and I think we might date 🙂 and some of the stuff I did was from your vids.

[@13_godz54]

Well I just found something out that thing is don’t get your hopes up for a girl yk she just hits you with the “ it don’t feel right”

[@navdeepdanner0088]

Hey Josh please help me , a girl asked me out and she's my bestfriend, but now I'm confused that what should I do ? Should I go out with her ? Should I say no ?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey that's always a tough decision to make. Honestly, what you should think about is whether you prefer to have a relationship with them or a friendship. I made this video on how to ask them out but it has tips on navigating that type of relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqWlk2Zte6p2pLs

[@ryankhawaja281]

Josh help my school is reopning August 19 during the pandamic i told you before i got blocked my Freaind said that she don't hate me but she might be creept out what do ido

[@sarutouzumaki5841]

Can you plz give me advice on a girl I like

[@Bigboss12344]

4 foot 2 gang. . . . Just me huh.

[@Game_contents]

Wish I could have seen this video before but my crush just sees me as a "family"

[@Game_contents]

@Isaac Garro when girls say they see you as family it doesn't mean that they are related to you. so no she isn't my sister

[@Gail_Lee]

U deserve WAYYY more subs

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hopefully the KZbin algorithm likes this video enough to share it to a wider audience!

[@Gail_Lee]

The Josh Speaks I’m praying for ya my man btw r u a New Yorker cuz u sound like one

[@taniyha1130]

I'm struggling to pay for college. I've applied for scholarships after scholarships and I've been looking for online jobs with no luck. My parents never allowed me to have a job while I was in high school and now that I graduated I'm stuck because I have no money. I can't get a loan cause I need a cosigner and my parents have bad credit. So they all got denied. I made a gofundme but I don't know how to ask for help because I know there are so many people out there who have It worse than me. But if I can't get money I can't go to college. If anyone knows what I should do please help. Thank you for taking the time to read this🖤

[@crc1217]

How do u know how to do this, but this helps

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, these were all techniques it took me a while to figure out when talking to girls I liked back in the day.

[@crc1217]

@@TheJoshSpeaks so u dont like girls anymore lol

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

@@crc1217 Well now I'm married so the dynamics have shifted for me.

[@crc1217]

@@TheJoshSpeaks oh makes sense and good for u

[@thegameingpsychod9035]

Hi so im in middle school and i have a cruch on a girl and i jest dont know how to word it

[@coreyrose1950]

Hey josh bit late on this one but is there a way I can contact you I need some help on personal stuff I’ve watched you for a yr now would mean a lot hope you reply🙂

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Definitely Corey, the best way would be to become over on Patreon. You can schedule a 1-on-1 video chat with me there: www.patreon.com/thejoshspeaks

[@demoncyborg98]

About step 2 does it work for indian girls? Because as far as I know they find complimenting about looks creepy

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I think every culture may have its own spin on compliments and especially flirting. In some places being bold is the norm, where as in others maybe being more subtle might be the standard. How is it where you come from?

[@demoncyborg98]

@@TheJoshSpeaks I usually compliment their personality but yeah that needn't be any flirty but as much as I know complimenting little details like a change in haircut or a new dress does work

[@chocoboymindset]

Hay bro. I am the one who's asking questions all the time. But she actually replies by a time only. Then act like busy. Any ideas?

[@Abbody1337]

Every single dating channel would not exist if we just followed our religion by not having sex before marriage.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I'm not sure if that's true. A lot of the things I talk about is how to build a connection, intimacy and confidence in your ability to interact with someone you're interested in. Simply waiting for marriage to have sex doesn't mean you'll be knowledgeable in how to maintain a successful relationship. Plus, a marriage is about way more than just having sex, it's about being with someone that you're attracted to, someone that has your back and supports you and someone that shares the same values as you so you can build your own family.

[@juancortes85340]

I’m not someone who is worth getting to know so idk 😔

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey Yahir, why do you say that?

[@juancortes85340]

The Josh Speaks it is a long sad story 😔💔

[@hamishkay3010]

Hi Josh I'm still single but hopefully this video will help. Also I'm really trying my hardest to do things that make me feel happy.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's awesome Hamish, keep on learning and growing!

[@jenshub]

Hahahahaha yeeeees he did the face morph again

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha

[@jenshub]

btw, Josh, last weekend I’ve been getting a hella load of mixed signals from my crush. We had a few parties and she continuously went to me for some fun and entertainment and even after the party called me up to facetime and I was kind of forces a few months back to confess and she said she just liked me as a friend. Could it be she changed her mind?

[@Ninja-jg4fj]

Hey Josh my girl just hate me awhile ago and she block me on Whatsapp can u help

[@Ninja-jg4fj]

I'm a looser

[@mixa4238]

we all get 0 bitches

[@mixa4238]

and i have indeed been friendzoned or more like brotherzoned so yeah...

[@Claire-dq1mr]

HeyoooW first, i want to say that i juste loovvve your videos! Im writting this because i think i need help with this 😂, okay so i have a really close friend of mine (yeah like bestfriends) and i loved him since we were 10! (Im 14) its just that we went to different college and its not that we lost eachother (we actually have like a 1hour conversation every day and it has been going on for 2years) its just that i cant find the courage to see him again even if we are on the same town! Plus, im just fourteen and im scared that even if we had a relationship it would be too soon. 😢 okay so im sorry if i make mistakes in this pretty long text (im french) and i hope that you understand it 😂 im just gonna go now 😂 byyy have a great dayyy ❤

[@JibblyJayJohnson]

Turn to jesus

[@shantanu3231]

Dude ,you create good stuff but please go to the field also and show what it's like to approach women.

[@McJamEs209]

I'm curious Josh are you Jewish?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Nope, I'm Puerto Rican

[@keannegutierrez2975]

Your teeth are so white can you give me some tips😅

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I just try to brush and floss my teeth every day I guess

[@keannegutierrez2975]

Oh ok😅

[@cjbhud838]

WiLl U Be MINe 😂