If Your Crush Isn't READY for a Relationship, Try Doing THIS

[@alexcolin949]

This is a GIANT coincidence. I literally just asked out a girl last night and she said to give her some time because she isn't ready for a relationship yet lol

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey it happens Alex, I would shift gears now to getting to know her better before you ask her out again in the future

[@WarlordCreed]

@AlllexCollin we're in the same boat dude and I'll definitely do as JOSH my namesake👌 said.

[@gamerk9343]

Sooo how it go

[@collector6815]

Same

[@mad-hl1rd]

The problem is that I'm pretty sure that I can be in a relationship with my crush but she's scared of failing because she had some big problems with her ex😔

[@bebored]

Same she said she has feelings for me but she’s not ready for a relationship but that she’ll tell me when she is

[@sxiepe976]

@@bebored yooo me tooo

[@algrande2841]

She sounds like damaged goods bro run

[@virgil5917]

Went through this two days ago🙂

[@Doula3]

She said we should stay friends because she isn’t ready for a relationship with me right now... 🥲

[@ianbetts4435]

This is the advice I needed just now. There's seems to be 1. Hanging out as friends 2. Dating 3. Relationship Be happy with this but try not to get stuck in 1. for long.

[@jonshell6588]

Yeah, that is what I was thinking because I work with my crush Maria but I cannot date her because me and Maria are working together at Walmart and dating a coworker is a bad idea because if we date each other in the workplace, things could be complicated and we both could get fired and we don’t want to lose our job but the best chance for me and Maria to date in order for her to be my girlfriend is to wait until maybe in the future because It will happen in the future but not in the workplace because I have to be friend with her and I think that it a smart move because I think that in the future, I will be the first and only boy to be Maria Boyfriend and that if one of us change jobs then I will pursue her to be my girlfriend and I will be very happy to have her as her boyfriend and I will have Maria as my girlfriend like me and Maria will be boyfriend and girlfriend in the future at some point when the timing will be right.🙂

[@razzrul5838]

It depends tho. Try not to have high hopes, if it meant to be it will . Learn to be patient , you want to generate genuine feelings not a rushed one and don't give up easily. Give them time and space. I'm having the same current situation but all i can do is to give time and space for girl to think about it. Edit : try not to bring it out about this topic when you guys meet because it might pressure them. Relationship is a huge commitment and trust , not about flashy love type of stuff. Do remember that you guys are still friend , chat normally.

[@BumDestroyer]

In my case I was the one who wasn’t ready, I don’t have a job, I live at home, I barely have any money, we live in opposite sides of the US. It’s not because I didn’t like the person but I want them to be happy with someone that can offer them 100% we agreed to be friends and it’s been a pretty good friendship so far and they are dating other people while I’m just focused on myself. Definitely don’t want them to wait for me.

[@gio2x]

That’s how this one girls feels 😭

[@jessiedxo]

That’s honestly really respectable and honest of you. It shows you’re a good man with morals you just need time to sort stuff out

[@twistedlemon266]

I'd they aren't ready for a relationship then don't keep asking them and annoying them?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I agree, people will come around when they are ready, I think the best way to not be left confused and hanging is to just ask though. What would you recommend people do?

[@devanandamr8276]

Idk man you kinda look like GeorgeNotFound

[@twistedlemon266]

@@devanandamr8276 because GeorgeNotFound is my profile picture

[@devanandamr8276]

@@twistedlemon266 that makes sense

[@twistedlemon266]

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[@thejester1749]

This basically happened to me a couple weeks ago. she said I was cute, but she wasn't ready for a relationship, & ever since that, I've been overthinking way too much about whether she was sugar coating or if she was being genuine, & its been messing with my self esteem because I don't know if there's something I need to fix or if she really is not ready for a relationship.

[@bxnsheesfx]

This happened to me yesterday... then she asked if we can be friends for now, What do I do, should I wait until she's ready for one?

[@kyngreactionz]

@@bxnsheesfx bro its hard to take this advice but stay away from her she'll want you 100% more and wonder why you 2 aren't talking as usual.

[@virgil5917]

@@bxnsheesfx the exact same thing happened to me 3 days ago she told me lets just stay friends i said ok and didn't talk to her since now she subtweeting about me

[@swayzecrapdog5004]

I love your videos keep doing what you’re doing man

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks Swayze, glad you enjoy them!

[@anto9266]

Googoogaga

[@gravediggercj]

@@TheJoshSpeaks sir can you do a. video about why dose a girl tell u to change bc my girlfriend said i need to change i don't know what that is

[@victorfigueredo6014]

Man this video made me feel a lot better! Your voice is soothing and makes you understand

[@pip10g5]

if someone says they aren’t ready it basically means they dont like u but dont want to say it. I know from experience 😂😂

[@pip10g5]

But your right there could possibly be other reasons

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Yea, I think for the most part it's a soft rejection from them. That's why it's important to follow up with asking to hang out so you can make sure.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

yea, and I think given everything going on today people might be more hesitant to jump into a relationship if meeting up and hanging out isn't something they might be able to do for a while.

[@Iam_Eston]

Modern Bro25 sure

[@azukeraK]

You were right

[@Mogojoegotube]

I think my situation is the 2nd one. Mainly because they pretty much told me that they find me really attractive and that they love talking to me but they're not ready for a relationship and that it wouldn't be fair on me because they're not in the right place. They're busy with work and education, just got out of a long and horrible relationship. I really like this person and from just speaking to them loads I can tell there is something mutual here. But I wont lie the situation its put me in has me overthinking things but it is what it is. Hopefully it works out in the future only time will tell 😌

[@gauravupadhyay8724]

Hey Josh I’m in a similar situation with this girl. She has come out of a 2year long toxic relationship. We are currently dating and are serious about each other but the both of us feel that she needs to get over her ex completely first for our relationship to be healthy. So my question is how do I take things forward and help her get over him and what precautions do I take for things to stay healthy between us?

[@kuragamii589]

Make it known that your better

[@KingRastaj]

Simple. Give it time. Get to know her slowly. Don’t push for anything just hangout and have fun. Don’t friendzone yourself always keep it romantic. When she is ready she is ready, you can’t “help her get over him,” that happens naturally. If you can’t wait for her to be ready while maintaining her interest, to be frank, you don’t deserve it. Hope this helps!

[@gauravupadhyay8724]

@@KingRastaj Hey Aaron. I did exactly that, things were amazing for the next 3 months. She’d confessed falling in love with me and being sure about getting into a relationship. At that moment it really felt as if she was head over heels and really valued me. I don’t know how to comprehend what went wrong because just a month after that her ex came back into the picture, they started talking again as friends initially I was ok with it cuz I trusted her but later I found out from her ex that eventhough she had made it really clear her intent clear with her ex (that she is in love with me) she was simultaneously leading him on for a month. Thus emotionally cheating on me. Simultaneously my mum was going through cancer thus putting me in a already emotionally vulnerable position so I decided to take a break from her till she doesn’t sort things out and keep her intentions clear. It’s been 3 months since I haven’t Spoken to her, she has decided to get back with Jai and choose’s to ghost me ever since. Sometimes I really feel like venting out to her about mum but it feels like she’s turned into a completely different person who does not even care a 1% of what she used to 4 months ago, which makes me question if it was all fake

[@jonathanschechter6171]

@@gauravupadhyay8724 damn bro I'm sorry that's rough, I hope you'll find someone else and your mom will get better. I'm in the middle of a similar situation so I'm worried too about how it's going to work between us...

[@fizasalam6756]

@@gauravupadhyay8724 dude any updates?

[@victorrosales7565]

She told me she would let me know and that she cared for me but she had a previous abusive relationship and every guy she went on a date with since then just wanted to use her if you know what I mean also she told me she might be bisexual and she is going through a very tough period of her life right now with depression but I honestly can't sit around waiting for her because I have a deep insecurity were she is just playing with me and will date another guy right away if she Where to get the chance too I just really love her we have been friends for 2 years now and I stupidly fell in love even when I said I would never life is so weird

[@RJ-ox3gi]

Yesterday my girlfriend broke up with me for that reason so I’m going to use some of the tips in the video to help me get back with her.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Yea, it's tough sometimes because people may have things on their mind that they don't share which can lead to relationships ending because of it.

[@RJ-ox3gi]

I believe that maybe giving her the space she wants will hopefully make her miss me, and when timing is better I can get back with her.

[@mcc2986]

Ive been talking to this girl for 9 months and she just broke up with 5 years relationship with the ex and they almost got married..but i gave her time to move on and just let me know when shes ready and we talk again after 3 months and shes said shes ready for me to court her..she said she wants to take our time to get to know each other and she still want to enjoy her life being single because she wasnt able to go out that much while she was with her ex..so everything was doing fine we talk eevryday and she said she likes me but still want to meet up first but we cant since its covid and canadian border is closed..so i kinda get needy i would reply right away even if she replies after few hrs.. we werent talking as much as we do..so I finally told her that hey ill give space to enjoy you life and ill have to enjoy mine too and dind someone that they need me in their life..and she answered its ok you young find someone that maybe pefect for you..what should i do? Cus i really like this girl alot but i feel like im losing her. Please help

[@strangerboi101]

I'm not sure if I still like my crush. How can I tell if I still do

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hmm, how do you feel when you think about them? Talk to them?

[@devanandamr8276]

Bro Study first😂

[@mrclean1760]

This just happened to me. I was dating this girl I really liked for about 2 1/2 months and we went on like 11 dates. Just last week she told me she didn’t want a relationship.

[@ntah98]

How was it now?

[@cadenjohnston9489]

Question: what if you dream about a random person and you like them in the dream

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey that's a totally normal feeling to have. Sometimes people we come across that we like in our dreams are just people we saw in person before or our brains cleverly constructing them!

[@cadenjohnston9489]

The Josh Speaks ok thanks

[@GenericLifts]

I watch a channel called beno and he has benoed me out of wanting a relationship because i see his videos of him on top elevators and going in places you dont normally see and i dont see people on social media being happy in couples

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I think what you may not see a lot of on social media are couples spending time getting to know each other, having someone to confide in and open up to, being able to joke around with and try out new activities and fun stuff with. That's not always glamorized on social media, a lot of times what you tend to see is the glorification of the self, people showing why they are cool and worth paying attention to. Being in a relationship is all about going inward though, finding out who you are and finding a real authentic person to share it with, not your followers on Instagram.

[@thelegendofdarius]

Since I keep hearing the word Simp everywhere whether it’s online or off-line. Would you ever do a video on Why you shouldn’t use the word Simp as an insult?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey Dario, that's a good idea! I think if people use that word without explanation, they might just be doing it to name call.

[@thelegendofdarius]

The Josh Speaks Thanks Josh! I knew that this will help.

[@ounceofmagic7825]

This girl who I’ve known for 6/7 months I like said (after I asked her to be my girlfriend) “I’m not ready, I like you but I’m scared to get into one, I have thought about something like that with you, let’s see how things go:)” She’s diagnosed with depression, and I’m still trying to understand that and better myself in that manner, I think it’s the right answer that we go with the flow, what does anyone who reads this think?

[@icyteddy8784]

I dated my ex for 11 months. IT was insane, we wanted to stay forever together. She dumped me, and It was my fault, started acting bad, etc. I deserved it, I had to change. Its been a year now. I dated few girls. SHe had a relationship for same time as we did before, almost a year. They recently broke up 3 weeks ago. since they did we stareted talking again and its insane, we have huge connection, she likes me. wants to like sleep with me. We have cheesy texts etc. She is certain the she doesnt wanna relationship. and she is sure that if we keep doing this, we will end up together. and she doesnt feel ready to be in a relationship. What should I do. anyways. nice value content. Just subbed.

[@jerrytravis4044]

Give her a little bit of time bro and if nothin happens well then it's up to you if you want to wait longer or just leave that's what I would do.

[@theundeadafro8565]

The girl I like figured out that I liked her and told me she thought of me as a friend. She said she wasn't interested in dating at all. I'm not sure if I should try to get out of the friendzone or if I should just give up. We've only known each other for a couple of weeks and I didn't even want her to know I liked her.

[@Xanyj]

How’s it going

[@theundeadafro8565]

@@Xanyj i'm trying to get out the friendzone right now

[@allandavid8807]

Thanks man "Time" is the answer to my situation👍

[@AshleyChing-c3o]

I totally understand where you’re coming, but I still want to get to know you.

[@bilalmran4473]

How can I get her to change her mind, I’ll never win her over, let’s hope she finds someone better.

[@jsoqbwbeks2653]

I feel that man. She says "she doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now because alot is going on" I try looking at that as a win. But then I snap back to reality and realize that she doesn't like me

[@thewizard-om2zu]

I’ve found the golden ticket

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Good job! The factory is yours now Charlie!

[@thewizard-om2zu]

The Josh Speaks thank you so much josh.I have been searching for a video like this for ages.Again,ty😃

[@ColtenO47]

Thx josh. I needed this

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem. I hope it helps!

[@user-xr4xd4qc5m]

What do I do if we hung out only once and then she hits me with this. Her reasons seem very understandable: she’s got school going on, soccer practice, and she’s focusing on going to college. We legitimately had a good time together and her best friend told me that she was taking all about our date but her rejecting me makes me feel as if I did something wrong, like she never liked me in the first place😞.I don’t want to put the pressure on and look needy by asking her to hang out again but I want to show her that I’m willing to be there for her. What should I do?

[@brogamer4574]

Here’s a thought if she’s not ready then give her time

[@spirit-teacher]

Excellent advice. Subbed,

[@doobly5644]

Fuck... She said yes just to say no a couple hours later...

[@akonemanaba4183]

Damn this guy is reading my mind

[@midorin5301]

Yo Josh I moved on from my crush but still she seens my message and doesnt respond we both aren't ready for a relationship. Did I make the right move?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, if she's not responding to your messages and she isnt ready to date then it's probably best to move on. It's worth pursuing people who are interested in pursuing you too.

[@midorin5301]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Thanks Josh do you think she will be awkward when school starts because I want to be back on the track as a friend and I don't know what happened she ignored me though. I just wanted to feel close to her again that's all no feelings added. Do you think we can be close again or not? Thanks again

[@devanandamr8276]

@@midorin5301 maybe stop messaging her so much and Post a lot attractive pics and videos...Maybe she'll feel something, But just stay away from her for some time, Don't message her exept on her special days....Good luck, stay safe

[@painting.is.cool3]

ty i really needed this! 😌

[@itsmeyaboy]

2 topics: 1st-Just figured out my crush is asexual. Welp 2nd- She hates facetiming, therefore I won't be able to see her (unless we meet in person, but quarentine) till my school opens back (August 2020). How will I be able to see her if we're stuck in a quarentine and she doesn't like facetiming?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey that's a tough one. If your crush is asexual and you want to develop a relationship with someone that reciprocates the same level of physicality that you do, you may want to rethink pursuing them. To the second point, you can always try recording audio messages on Instagram and sending those, or sending pictures, texts, basically anything that would get them to feel more comfortable communicating with you.

[@itsmeyaboy]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Thanks. I think I might need to stop pursuing her, as there's just been too many roadblocks along the way, but I'll still try to be the greatest friend I can be. I've sent many pictures but haven't done any audio. She's just an amazing friend and I want to take it further, but it seems anytime I get close to acomplishing, I face another roadblock. She's got a boyfriend right now and just got them before quarentine, and I noticed that they were really close, but I didn't act upon at all, and she asked me to kiss her or slap her. I've thought back to that ever since it happened. I think I could've dated her if I chose to kiss her, cause I think she was testing me to see how close we were, but I paniked, and now I've missed my opportunity to date my crush.

[@Savvy_VR]

Helpful video, thanks!

[@Trx21.]

DUDE YOUR ADVICE SHOULD'VE WON YOU A NOBEL PRIZE

[@skejjs3091]

Bro im not even confident to walk up to her and talk to her no more after she was like, i dont want to be in a relationship right now

[@senpaidaruto4959]

Hey josh if you see this, I’ve like a girl for 2 years now, she tells me she likes me but doesn’t really show it. I’ve asked her out and she said you know she just isn’t ready and she needs time. I’m really conflicted right now and I don’t know what to do. Thank tou

[@deanhamsah]

We date , kissing etc etc but she said she is not ready for relationship 😅 im confused . Should i stay or just walk away

[@austynxyz]

Stick around if you really really feel like she’s the one bro, trust me go with your gut

[@kewmed1069]

Stay man in the end everything will be fun just sayin

[@khuranaishaan5]

Hey Josh! I’m new to your channel and this is probably the second video of yours I saw. They are really insightful. I had a question. I went out with a girl from my cs class 2 times before she started acting distant and when I asked her (after giving some space) she told me she isn’t really interested in dating rn but is really glad to have more friends in comp sci. She offered to go bowling and then the 4th time we hung out at my apartment. This was all pre-covid. After that things kinda fizzled out. However, I touched base with her a week back and it felt good. If things go back to normal and she comes back to campus in the fall, do you recommend me to hang out with her to get to know her better?

[@Cyberiotyt]

Hey my crush said that she is not ready and she told everyone who had a crush on her she would date them in gr9 what does that mean 😕

[@Iquit-u6m]

Thanks!

[@Joel-xy7qg]

Thx josh, your tips really help🙏👊

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem Joel, I'm happy they were helpful!

[@Joel-xy7qg]

@@TheJoshSpeaks 👍

[@SouthpawSatch]

I'm in the 2nd category which feels worse than the 1st. We have a spark and instantly clicked and we have nothing admitted we like each other and are attracted to one another she is open to meeting up and getting to know each other however she stated she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship and enjoy her own space after an abusive relationship she got out of a few years ago. I think part of this is her being caught in two minds and I myself want to keep thing light and fun but I do feel I have rein myself in and the whole thing is confusing.

[@feethub1225]

I rather walk away to next if rejected

[@h.a.m952]

idk what to say anymore just thank you

[@skyle7658]

So I kinda need to hear this instead of tarot lol I know it’s true that I need to respect his feelings and decision. Not saying he decided to be friends or whatnot but just in case, like you said I have to be willing to let the connection go. So I tell myself everyday to not look at him as a future partner, because you know mind runs wild on its own. But still, it is just hard whenever I think of it *sigh* I’ve been trying to be cool and go after him for about a year now, and it’s really confusing. Of course saying that “oh, girl you deserve better” is easy lol. And tbh, he’s a nice guy who helps me with my positive outlook in life after my divorce so I’m thankful for it, and after one year I know my feelings weren’t just a mistake so it is hard to give up. I understand not putting label on things is good but it is also tiresome not knowing where you stand.... just venting anyway haha.

[@ziadahmed2295]

Hey Josh! My crush knows I like her but I still am scared to talk to her. I know she's waiting for me to make a move but I'm just scared and I can't get over it. I don't know what to do. I tried the ice breaks, I trie everything I could think of.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, the best thing you can do is to maybe write up a few things you want to say and then stick to your gameplan and text them. Having an idea of what you want to say beforehand may be helpful in doing it

[@ryankhawaja281]

My crush blocked me on instagram does she hate me help

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I would think back to what the conversation was like before you got blocked. Did you say something that may have rubbed her the wrong way?

[@ryankhawaja281]

@@TheJoshSpeaks we didn't really talk before pandamic in school

[@KingRastaj]

@@ryankhawaja281 sounds like you may have came off as creepy. Best to talk to people in real life as often as possible as anything can be misinterpreted over the phone. Only ever use texting to setup a date and possibly engage in small talk. Conversation over the phone is unnecessary. Also she may have been responding just to be nice and you may have thought that this made it acceptable to blow up her phone to try to get her to like you. This is never okay and just plain creepy if the girl doesn’t like you. It’s okay we’ve all been there done that lol but take it as a learning experience. If a girl is nice enough to respond to you, get down to business and ask her out! If she says no, NEXT! Either way with this method it saves you both a lot of time and is way more classy. It’s okay to text a girl from time to time but never have a full on conversation over the phone, this is meant to be done in person. Hope this helps hang in there!

[@yahirlopez7222]

I was talking to this one girl, she was interested in me and I liked her, we started talking and things were going okay until we actually got close one night we expressed our feelings and I thought I had bagged it but she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship because of her problems at home and that she didint want to jump into things like that. And the next day i started to flirt w her a little bit and it seemed like she didint enjoy it and seemed weird, she then ended up telling me it was best to be friends and that she didint want to lead me on this way and that she didint know what the future held in us. Made me very upset, but I can see why she said it and I’m having trouble recognizing my problems tho.

[@jerrytravis4044]

Bro i totally feel you man I had this exact same situation only difference was I was really mad.

[@jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn3454]

hi josh im not trying to worry about my crush and her boyfriend not talking to me I am ok

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's awesome Jaylen, I'm happy that you're moving forward!

[@jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn3454]

I still have deep fallings for her but I will see what happens as far as her ever talking to me again because im trying to be a better person

[@ankitkumarankit3951kumar]

I'm so much scared right now I can't even explain you. I totally like her and she just texted me that she like me so many times but suddenly this week she told that she don't feel for me the way I feel for she. She just told she don't feel for me so better we should not talk. That's what she told me. Please help me what should I do now?

[@mr.mannon1465]

Should I stay and try or leave it so she said she wanted to get to know me better before I dated her because I asked her if I was rushing anything she said I just want to get to know you better before anything and then she texted saying that she needed to love herself before she can get into a relationship and she said we can be friends but should I stay and take time and try to get a relationship or ditch it

[@shaansiddiqui1827]

I had a good time with my crush then i thought I should propose her I did she said that she can't get into relationship now. she told everyone who had crush on her. She said after 2 year I will think about relationships and she said that our friendship will remain as it was. so what should I do now? I really want her 💔😭

[@Hmusicent]

Thanks Man

[@ryandc4132]

Well I asked the person I like at work if they want to go out after this Covid stuff, She said she doesn't know yet and I got a maybe. Not sure how I can follow up with that after. I still talk to her after that though. EDIT: I'll also be OK with just dating her. I'd rather me and her learn each other more than me expecting something in the end.

[@Len-cf6iy]

I said to my crush I have a crush on you but she said sorry I’m not interested because she just got out of an relationship

[@ssilaphet7180]

How about this.. she only been with one guy her whole life and been married to but it got toxic and physical and they divorced.. she has told me she is scared to be with another guy and not ready for a relationship and she is bi curious and would rather experiance with women but the ultimate goal is to end up married and having a family with a guy. Like she wants to get physical with me but scared because of her marriage. So she feels much safer with women.. how do I show this women I'm not like her ex husband.. I feel like I'm giving 100 percent and I'm only getting back 20 percent . WY does she still keep me around?

[@ojs808]

Thx for the tip

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem, I hope they are helpful!

[@ojs808]

@@TheJoshSpeaks yess they are

[@imred8264]

She told me she wasnt ready for a relationship then I find out shes dating and talking to this other guy like I'm so confused does anyone have advice

[@fumblerr]

I have made so many bad choices I'm just gonna ask her to start over

[@lumatv7385]

How to convince a girl if she is interested but she is about to study abroad which would be no problem for me, but the reason that she is studying in another country is bit stopping her to say actually say yes to a relationship. But I would visit her and stuff, I would do that because we are really connected in a way... Can someone help how I can convince her?

[@johnnyb4181]

I'm definitely not OK walking away from the situation because it's my ex and I care deeply for her but it seems like every time I try and make plans to hang out she's always telling me she is another plans are until last minute and she said she's busy doing something else I'm really confused

[@davidc588]

The girl I like isn’t allowed to date till high school, so I’m trying to convince her but I don’t think she wants a big relationship with me, got any tips (besides walking away) I already tried walking away but I couldn’t I got to sad.

[@johnwebb7238]

Don’t be in love love has to be reinvented

[@edonbytyqi3157]

I was texting this one for 5 months went on 3 dates and now she tells me she’s not looking for anything serious what should I do she was interested before we got on so well but now doesn’t seem too interested

[@kuupersgorgeous6933]

I just told this girl I had a crush on her for a while and if we could get coffee. She said she's not ready to date right now but still wants to meet up to talk. People are telling me to cancel cause I got rejected. What should I do?

[@jerrytravis4044]

what you normally should do when someone tell' s you that is walk away but sometimes it is okay to wait.

[@Uugdrrb]

My crush doesnt do yes or no it mean??

[@ofeksror3032]

I don't know if anyone will answer this but I asked my crush over DM if she would like us to get to know each other, shes one year older than me btw She said * "IDK I'm not so interested...🤷‍♀️" * Does it mean that she isn't interested In me or she might not want a relationship right now?

[@bestproduct6938]

I dated a girl like 4 monds ago she liked me and I liked her but she just get out of a relationship off 3 years, and she wasnt rlly over that guy so she decided to go back for like 4 monds and she broke up again and now she says that Im not good enoufg and not her type off person. Like what can I do wait? Did I do someting rong, because she liked me 5 monds ago and I rlly liked her and now I have this to deal with,

[@devilish1281]

I really need help with this one , this girl told me she just got out of a relationship i asked about it and turned out to be true i asked her out before i knew that, she told me she doesn't want a relation right now , should keep going with her ? Ps: she told me she think's i'm her soulmate and she flirts with me too HELP!!!

[@12345mnick]

What if we hung out had a great time she told she wanted something serious we kissed and danced and even stayed over slept in the couch of course left home early texted her but my message didn’t deliver them I found out I was blocked?

[@KingRastaj]

Sounds like you either did something outrageous on your way out or she’s a psychopath. Either way bullet dodged move on my friend!

[@dx_ronin2882]

Hey josh my crush has a big exam and she knows i have a crush on her and when i ask her out after her exams she saids that she doesn't know and i know her only for one week on instagram

[@meghan3203]

I just wanted a video on dreaming about your crush about 2 years ago you did it. But i I need help! Like I know you said that I’m thinking about him a lot but it was a complete disaster dream of us too and like your video said I don’t know what my brain is telling me.

[@saurabhnarkar4315]

She says me that she likes me and m good for her...but she had a very bad past...so that day she told to her frnd she doesn't want to lose me...but when I ask for rltion she's like need more time...how can I express her that I just want her ...how can I tell her my value....I asked for dates too but every time there was a reason from her side..😅 m confused if she really feels or thinks about me....or just ignoring as u said they don't want to hurt Ur feelings

[@jerrytravis4044]

Same for me bro.

[@Hero-ln3oc]

Mine is totally diffrent she was my girlfriend and after three weeks she wasn’t ready and then a week later she said I love you and I said are we dating agian she said nahh I don’t know if you have any advice to get with her pls reply I don’t know is she is saying that we’re not dating or we are cuase she I sarcastic sometimes

[@flux_1849]

Hey so my crush likes me a lot she says and we call each other cute al the time but she is scared to date because she is mentally not ready for a relationship she also said that she has a lot of mental breakdowns

[@mr.mannon1465]

So kinda same here but instead she said she wants to know me better but first she needs to love herself first like what does that mean lol

[@jonathanreyes1856]

Hey man i just told my crush i like them but they said they are not ready for a relationship right now what do u think i should do?

[@jsoqbwbeks2653]

I feel that man. She says "she doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now because alot is going on" I try looking at that as a win. But then I snap back to reality and realize that she doesn't like me

[@yvngdotta]

Thank you so much

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem, I hope the video is helpful!

[@dannyblevins659]

What am I supposed to do when she say she not ready for a bf and mentally not ready but she ft me all the time and we laugh and have a great time and I think she likes me Bc she tells me everything 🥺but idk help me

[@GravityPlays]

This girl I like does the same w me man. she just admitted that she likes me a lot just a few days ago but said she doesn’t want a relationship cus she’s not ready.

[@saayoo3479]

if I watch this video 2day ago maybe now she doesn't rejected me 😕

[@kjy05]

Can I use the messages at 4:45 if I talk to my crush often already tho only online and several times when school used to happen but we aren't dating?

[@dennis380]

💯

[@cosmictruth3600]

All these sound very theoretical... very bookish

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hmm, whats your situation? Maybe we can talk about how they can actually be applied.

[@tyler1085]

This happened to me so many times but then after they find someone else to date 😢

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Sorry to hear that, it's possible you might be jumping into asking them out too soon?

[@thenazman5286]

This is actually happening to me right now, i was going to ask someone who i’m just speaking to, like before getting into a relationship, if they wanted to get into one, but i think they’re trying to avoid me asking by saying they feel sick and anxious. What do you think I should do?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, it's hard to say. If they said they feel sick and anxious they may be nervous about getting into a relationship right now? Maybe hold off on asking and instead focus on just comforting them

[@ckae2846]

Hi Josh, may I ask when's a good time to check in with them? I'm at a stage where I'm ready to let go if she doesn't want a relationship but I've already told her I liked her and we went out a few times, so I think having a closure is good.

[@yungmeatrabbit5808]

I sure could have used this video back when I was 16/17. The whole "I'm not ready" thing really stumps a lot of people, so I'm glad that now we can know what to say/do.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Definitely, it's a tricky phrase to hear from someone because it's not always clear how to move forward. Hopefully the tips in this video help.

[@yungmeatrabbit5808]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Definitely, I'll be saving this to my "favorites" playlist.

[@FF-lk4oj]

Love your videos. They are super helpful for a shy person like me. Thanks for what you do!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks! I'm super glad they're helpful!

[@Alex-gl1kq]

The women who is interested will move the sky and the earth to be with you. The best feeling in the world is when you like her and she likes you even more

[@jessiedxo]

Y’all if she said she isn’t ready leave it at that for a while. Having to convince or beg/force someone into wanting you is the foundation for absolute disaster.

[@fatfitnessvang299]

I like this girl shes she just got divorced with a kid. We planned out to go on a date but she cancel last min and she told me shes not ready to see anyone yet. She did tell me she cant promised me anything whatever that means. What should i do? Is it a meaning she dont like me and friendzoned me or she isn't really ready? I ain't tryna play the friendzone game

[@WarPigs413]

Same thing happened to me. We planned korean bbq date and batting cages fun first date tomorrow. We made the plans last week. We were texting/calling and sending each other pictures and I woke up and she said she’s not ready. Fucking pissed me off

[@fatfitnessvang299]

@@WarPigs413 forreals dude. Wasted time on planning shit with her to bail last min

[@skatewithsatty5855]

Instead focus on leaving them

[@PINEAPPPLEMANZS]

everyone tell me what u think and what i should do so i sent her flowers and a pizza with a note telling her i like her she seemed to really like that and she said she is not ready for a another Relationship yet since she was got hurt a lot in the last one and i said ok i understand im in no rush i want to get to know u better and she agreed and then she asked me if i want to go hangout later that week when we both were not busy i said sure and then she did ask me if i want to pick her up so i walked to her house since we both do not have cars yet well im not sure what to think or do so plz try to help of what i should do

[@averagekami]

What if my crush says we are close friends but asks me on a date?

[@andrewmilligan6718]

Josh, I thought you were married? Why are you chatting with Sasha Banks?! Do you not know she'll be busy with the WWE? 😂😂

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

What can I say, she's THE BOSS 😎

[@kamabokogonpachiro142]

thank you! this helped me a lot 😊

[@NUMBERZTV]

Sir, I have been proposing to this girl several times on WhatsApp but she keeps on telling me "we can't be more than a friend". When I call her sometimes she answers but sometimes she doesn't answer and doesn't call back when she misses my calls. She'll then come on WhatsApp and tell me she was having stuffs on the plate. She delays in her replies but she answers every question I ask her. I asked her out and her reply was "she doesn't go out even the first day I met her, was just by chance". Some weeks later I asked her out and she told me " she'll see if she could make it happen". Now our conversation is always on WhatsApp. She laughs at my jokes, sometimes she says "You'll kill me with your jokes😅". She keeps on saying "I'm sorry" when she replies my messages late". I don't know what to do now and I really love her to. Is there any advise for me ?