ASKING MY WIFE *JUICY* QUESTIONS MEN ARE AFRAID TO ASK WOMEN | South African Couple YouTubers

[@Keabetswe.Sithole]

A man of is word is what attracts us more to a man. A man who can hold it down, who is self-aware of himself...so attractive! And of course, a man who has a relationship with God.

[@siviwemapekula1689]

Definitely💯💯

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯

[@wandilekwanda541]

When my girlfriend starts saying I'm fine, Immediately know that there trouble in paradise. If shes really fine she would never use the word fine.😅

[@sarahletsoalo9668]

😃😂😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂😂😂Always!!!

[@kabelodale_]

You sir have figured woman out😂😂

[@_Kuria_]

I personally like it when my man is comfortable enough to be vulnerable around me...once in a while just be in my arms for comfort...I wouldn't mind...

[@TheMakhs]

We really do love it♥️

[@mercyjarachara4735]

The Queens laugh is so contagious bathong, makes my day. Absolutely adore your compatibility.

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗

[@tlegoo]

She’s so cute 🥰🥰

[@KhanyiLight]

This new intro is giving what it's supposed to give 😭🔥🔥

[@TheMakhs]

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🥂🥂🥂 thank you!

[@nyeletimanganyi4197]

Yey!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 its doing it

[@RebekaSmalls]

Wanting a bad guy is more of feeling of security. In a young mindset perspective bad means protector, exciting.. it's the demeanor and we like confidence. As we grow older what we admired we than realise we deserve more and the good guy will end up finishing first if they stay consistently good!

[@simonmahlangu923]

Then you come with trauma to a good guy that he will most likely pay for or make up for all the trauma that was caused by the bad guy because guaranteed for sure your bad boys batlao hurdaa 🤣🤣

[@RebekaSmalls]

@@simonmahlangu923 we all have some sort of trauma but anyway a bad guy doesn't have to turn a woman into a bad person. It is all about self value if you believe you're a good guy, why would you tolerate any less.. it's a cycle what attracted you to a "bad girl" in the first place ?

[@gworrl2221]

True!!!!!!

[@simonmahlangu923]

@@RebekaSmalls Most men don't want "bad girls" we fuck them yes because they're attractive but they're not meeting my moms. Let's be honest a bad boy doesn't symbolize "security" or "protection" because you know that relationship will most likely fail. Here's something to think about, a good man makes a woman feel bad because she's not a good woman and a bad boy makes a woman feel better about herself. He takes away the pressure/responsiblity of being a good woman. Take your time, think about it reread again.

[@KRallele]

The transparency here👌👌 you did well Phetola. It's honestly reviving to see a young christian couple that is so open in talking about such issues.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much♥️♥️

[@ipsobond21]

You guys don’t even understand HOW PROUD I am of Pheto!!! I mean in comparison to some of the 1st videos where she in the hot seat??? PHETO YOU KILT THIS!! You are opening up and getting more comfortable and we appreciate it sooo much! Keep it up sis, you repped us well! Lerato held nothing back with these questions 😅 I love you guys ❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much Aba! Really appreciate your beautiful words❤️

[@josephineamutenya2656]

Some women do it, to protect their partners, because if a man knows that they did not satisfy you, they feel like they failed. And that put pressure on them. While some might lebel their women as needy.

[@TheMakhs]

So true.

[@1Nubien]

The less you know about how many person your partner has been with is the better it will be for you both. Something are better left unsaid, which makes for a peaceful life.

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯

[@Ipsydelic]

To me as an individual and as a woman who speaks on her behalf. Size doesn't matter, as long and "One" knows how to use it PROPERLY

[@Pabistar]

Awww fam🤭! Thanks for the shout out😁💃. Ke le rata hurree❤❤! Just to add to Pheto's answer, I think security is very important and not just financial security but emotionally, spiritually and physically as well. To know that he's got me covered, no matter what and he has my back. That makes me feel safe.

[@ziziphomagula8183]

Women definitely look at the character. Integrity! Presence! Knows exactly what he wants

[@allgrownupFl]

Good boys are scared - Bad boys are bolder. We dont want to be mistreated, but we dont want someone afraid and boring with no ideas. LOL

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Yesss‼️

[@meesheeli9107]

Pheto's laugh is contagious manh😣😂😂❤

[@leratonkatswang9306]

Sis Phetola's laugh!! Love it

[@zaweddelynnette9445]

The joy in his face at 10:19

[@keletsomekwa]

Sis Pheto, you answered really well😍🙌 With regards to the period thing, I totally agree. Gaslighting tends to come in such subtle ways and I think guys have to be mindful of their words even if they feel “justified”. Some people even take it to such extreme measures where they will avoid accountability and hide behind “it’s that time of the month”.

[@alesiadhana6577]

Lerato was savage with this!!! I couldn’t stop laughing. Phetola was spot on for all the answers!!

[@TheMakhs]

Right!!!????He went iiiinnn😂😂😂😂😂. Thank you Alesia!

[@Theinspiredjourney-kb]

The Makhs always giving me a dose of laughter 🤗

[@mrspboledi]

I like that, the most important thing about a man is character,literally nothing else matters. Consistency in words and actions.

[@TheMakhs]

That’s so attractive! We feel safe with a man whose word means everything to them♥️

[@nomthandazoxulu9830]

I love the answer about periods and moods. 💯

[@BubuhleGobodo]

Phet really represented us well on this one❤️ I literally answered all the questions first, and she said the exact same thing!! She is me, I am her, we are one😂❤️

[@brigettebond6088]

Wow Lerato I never thought men want to know these questions. Phetola I'm with you girl Lerato really put you on the spot but you did well

[@zandilemiya3930]

Character! Character! That is so true a man of His word

[@dimainspire957]

I love Phetola she's so authentic ❤

[@pamelamakhanya7639]

Ausi Phetola "A man of your words" on point🙌. For us its simple, mean what you say and that's an outstanding character. I pray everyday to find a man like that🤞

[@keneilwemokoena9016]

About the emotions, Sesi Phetogo answered very well👌👌💯

[@simplyteedee8735]

Most bad boys are very charming and manipulative, they're always ready to attack whereas good guys take time to even shoot their shot, sometimes women want that exciting factor thinking they could even change these bad boys

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Yesss‼️

[@TheMakhs]

Such a valid point! I think as women we also like “projects” thinking we can change someone. We learn the hard way. A human being can’t change a person.

[@mathapelonyembe4702]

Well done Phetola for representing!!! 👏❤️ Loved all the answers honestly!

[@lengwebobo7418]

The character answer is on point 🙌🏽

[@ntombizonkentuli3770]

Yohh such questions Pheto jeeezzzz Girl you were not ready🤣🤣🤣🤣. Next time know Lerato given a chance to ask questions He will not hold back🤣🤣🤣 be prepared from the hardest hardest most uncomfortable questions.

[@zeekay7576]

Phetho answered really well..Representing us ladies

[@Sebongile_Baloyi]

I agree with Phetola bad guys are fun and always know how to make you want them even more. And good guys are normally real & never just do things to get what they want from you.

[@daphneymogano7566]

Height, a bit of muscle and good hygiene works for most women

[@nompilomazibuko4615]

"im ready for you to be a FATHER!" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@LethoHali]

You did awesome Pheto! You represented well!

[@wethujonga8681]

Love it for the Makhs!!! And the new intro 😍😍😍

[@jemimahbondo567]

You definitely represented us well!!!

[@wewemhlaba7593]

You guys are so amazing😂😘😊I really love this channel can't believe we are on 45k.I was one of the first 5 subscribers.We've grown so much💝💝💝

[@I.t.u.m.e.l.e.n.g]

I am fine😂 while they are tears in my eyes. As per usual love the yall👏🏾👏🏾

[@torixx9910]

I’m fine could also mean let me process my emotions and then speak clearly to you when I’m ready. Also, if you don’t leave us alone we may say some not nice things which we don’t want to do.

[@mashimborose9168]

We date bad guys when we are not yet serious about any relationship. Because we think breaking a heart of a bad guy may not make us carry as much guilt as we would carry if we broke the heart of a good guy. When we finally make a decision to date seriously, we then choose good guys Ladies, does this make sense????

[@MarWat1407]

I absolutely loved this. Its wonderful how freely you guys communicate. Very important aspect of a relationship. Content is rich as always. Shout out from Sarah from Jamaica!!!

[@Queenshono_Diaries]

Very well represented by our Queen!!! Everything was answered just the way most of us would have answered. The size question 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I’m dying💀💀. Yes the size matters.💁🏽‍♀️ and well answered. I’m not really for the physicality but rather the brains. As my man, are you able to give me answers on things I don’t understand or need to know? Are you able to contribute to general conversations? Can you reason on my behalf? It’s not even about qualifications but just INTELLIGENCE. Emotional support is a must have felas. Be emotionally available and DO NOT compete with your Queen, you will push her away.

[@madampraises4450]

Spot on!!

[@thobekahmngoma654]

Love this comment, couldn't have articulated it any other better way.

[@nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181]

As a woman, I feel well represented Ma'am, thank you very much!

[@akhutlelengkekwaletswe4517]

Oooh wooow! I just heard my name right there! Yes! You pronounced it very well. You are doing an amazing job. Thats ministry right there. You have no idea! Keep up the good work you are doing. Stay blessed!

[@primrosedianahnatukunda861]

I enjoy Phetolaz laughter..it's my highlight🤸🤸🤣🤣

[@HerHighness160]

Its the consistency for me.. you guys are amazing..😍😍🔥 #notificationGang

[@asiphebekwaphi8547]

Gang gang we here!! It's the consistency for me♥️♥️ dankie fam

[@nthabie_m661]

I agree with Pheto Character really outweighs everything.

[@bellindapule4172]

Here's my 2 Cents from personal observation(I stand to be corrected): Women do want a Good Guy but fall for/date bad boys because they have kinda studied "the game". It's like they research which Qualities does majority of women like in a Man(Eg romantic, sexy, confident, lil bit dominant, funny, spontaneous etc).. So they have learned how to LURE in their prey(women) by presenting these Qualities to them. I guess that's how most of them also manage to date multiple women.

[@gomop4649]

Shout out to us who comment before even watching the whole installment🤣🤣🤣❤❤

[@professoramutenya6195]

You guys are the best❤️ Much love from Namibia ❤️

[@NkuliX]

Another response to Question 1. We are -lovely dovey - NEEDY -we want to be in your space,-what's yours is mine...

[@daphneymogano7566]

Size depends on preference and ur women's size as well. Bt what matters most is skill more than size

[@andybizzle4376]

Skill babe, skill 💯

[@vuyelwagoqwana4587]

Sometimes guys feel like we don't enjoy it when we don't orgasm and it's not even the case so we fake it so that they don't feel like they're not doing it proper, it's basically feeding their ego.

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Agreed💯

[@FendiYT]

Thats deception

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

hahahaha.. this was a fun one. Lerato represented majita well. My husband was so excited you asked those questions hahaha. Pheto did very well, we kept pausing and i answer first before you answer..then our answers are the same... The reason i used to fake orgasm is because i felt like i didnt want to bonk and the sooner we get over and done with the better. The easiest way to get over it is if i fake orgasm. I didnt have the guts to say i am not in the mood for bonk just not to hurt hubby and his ego. These guys always want to be "phakati inside" and rena ra lapa yoh. Bad boys are fun, the have vavavum bo good guy bana le go borrra hle. Whenever i am on my periods i put a disclamer " babe dont mind my moods, its that time" Overall 10/10 Pheto.

[@nonjabuloshongwe1212]

Installment after installment has been wonderful and a pleasure to watch. You guys have kept the honesty and openness consistently & that’s why I keep coming back. Phetho you represented us well guuuuurl!

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for journeying with us♥️♥️

[@soleilmutimunyuzwe4955]

Phetola made me also laugh 😂 specifically on the question of “does size matter “ it was indeed uncomfortable 😂😂! Am obsessed with this dream Team ❤️❤️You’re doing great guys

[@kabelodale_]

Ayy this new intro real got me dabbing for real🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@blessjoy]

Hei mara!!!these questions are hard🙈😅but you represented us well.

[@jenniferbanda]

Represented 💯 🧡 I am fine 🤣🤣🤣that is so me. You answered so well thank you. Yah faking is caused by the ego. He will definitely finish... 🙈

[@Shka_maru]

"Whats the most important thing a woman looks for in a man?" She gave the answer what they SHOULD look for, but lets be real....that isn't what a lot of women actually think about initially or at all

[@rethasebata3718]

I was passing by and I saw this channel I like ur channel guys

[@rudymutoya6175]

Pheto did really well.#representing.

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

I agree with you

[@godswaywithmphosebola8149]

Shuu... Love the new intro🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@chedzamoon9352]

Outed me ha Lerato a re "Boris Cojo and company" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thembinkosimakhanya6869]

Mr Makhs came through for the gents🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo]

I love Mr Makhs's facial expressions when wifey answers 🤣🤣🤣.. You guys though 🤩🤩🤩

[@nomkhosingcongo5069]

Sisi Phetola thanks, you represented us very well ❤❤❤❤.

[@sethunyamaifala3643]

I can't get over the new jingle❤❤❤😭😭😭

[@sibobuhlungu4404]

Road to 50k in October 💃💃💃💃🙏🙏. Wow what an installment, Mr Makhs came prepared for real. But im grateful for this installment truly coz these are se Questions that couples often shun away to ask, they are regarded as "taboo" yet left unaddressed they are causing serious relationship damages. Thank you guys, truly appreciate you and the work that you are doing, God bless you fam💖🙏.

[@Natjhili]

Love this 😍Phetola represented well there! These are must have conversations with people around us

[@koversbykuda1614]

Phetola’s passion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You represented us well sis. 🙌🏾

[@micalkeza7184]

Love the new intro 😍❤️

[@rumbieguveya6186]

Loving the Current Intro Guys,My 9yr old stopped in her tracks and was like "Mummy I love it" 🔥

[@maipelosentle1302]

Well done Phetola, you represented us very well 😂😂❤

[@preciouschokoe9695]

Nna setshego sa Sis Phetogo sa mpolaya🤣🤣🤣

[@chantelltalbaard9278]

It's "baby what does I'm fine mean" for me🤣🤣🤣

[@ogiyonkematiwane1224]

The tidal sequence is doing the things 😍😍🔥.. Love how joyous Phetola is😍😍😍..

[@KeabetsweMahoro24]

Well Represented... Just to add on the food question, I sometimes would say I'm full because I'm not sure about the meal I want to have and once my partner orders his then I start eating what he ordered for himself.

[@nompilomazibuko4615]

"I was poor"😂😂😂😂😂

[@lexioko]

That intro? 10/10❤️

[@chubychix]

Aus Phetola you represented us well 😍. Completely cracked up when Lerato said he was dark because he was poor 🤣 😂😂

[@phumelelazuma4704]

I also liked bad boys because I'm kinda shy and reserved so I wanted opposite of me someone who's not shy and goes for what he wants because I'm shy about what I want so there's a balance. But iyoh it ends in tears batlago hurt'a 😂. So now I know better and I'm trying to choose better and to know even the nice guys when they are with someone they are comfortable with they can open up and be themselves.. ❤️.

[@Silly_tilly809]

Mr Makhs came guns blazing with these questions

[@jekmzee]

Glad to hear that many men face the same questions and women somehow react the same way.. “ I’m fine”, then why did you not ask me what was wrong… Glad to know we are not strange 😂😂

[@neom645]

Great installment Phetola, you did very well ❤️😘

[@boonaang]

I think the big size issue being a thing is because we just say it to bruise a man’s ego most of the time, like if you break my heart I would just say you have a small * just to make myself feel better...

[@believebecome99]

Attacking the guy's ego to make yourself feel better seems like a sign of insecurity and immaturity.

[@boonaang]

@@believebecome99 okay

[@gaangalelwemofokeng5027]

Hi my people love you guys Yoh mosadi much marato very smart, lovely akitse ke tlhalose byang girl O ntsetse words first time I met you ko Buli Makhudo I just fell in love with you thanks to Buli for that,but a minute ke utlwa O mogul wa pitori ka re yes I knew it O botlhale Maan .Rena kamo Garankuwa bona rena lwena 100% .keep doing the most💞💞💞💞😘

[@1Nubien]

I love the questions he is asking as a man, lots of times women don't really don't think deep about these questions, they just want a man and a good man but a good man is relative what is good for one woman may not be good for another woman. Plus what attracts you physically to a man may not be the same for another woman and that's just life.

[@leratomatlala9716]

Bad boys are fun, spontaneous, don't follow rules..say the right things ..it's exciting for a while then ends in tears

[@olorato9563]

As a man, it is an obligation to share your food with us, it's not goinyenywhere🥱... And sometimes I'm fine means I want to process my emotions alone.

[@thephakathiz9664]

Loving your topic before i even watch😍

[@MaleboRapotu]

Loving the new intro

[@thabi_lebothe]

Notification Gang 🔔 🎉 🥂 It's the consistency for me!!! 💥 DREAM TEAM

[@fikileassah1026]

Size doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is how u use the machine. It can be small but if its used correctly then its fine

[@lithankepu]

Your questions dude😂😂! Lol the 1st one is so true, im usually hungry but not hungry. Also I genuinely say im not hungry just incase i ask for something that uguy feels is expensive and he didn budget for it. 😂❤️ Im fine means - probe more bhuti im not fine at all but u need to ask me about it maybe an hour or so later. 😂👏🏻 Well done Phetola u doing a great job with the answers. Spot on💡❤️

[@HerHighness160]

You are representing us very well😅😅🔥🔥🔥 yaasss girl you're on fire