PART 1: UNWRITTEN RULES THAT SHOULD BE WRITTEN | RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

[@SheIsAmile]

This couples channel is not just for vibes. We get counselled here! Been binging since I subscribed last week. Love it, thank you!

[@temasrapz221]

Yoh Pheto🤗... That reasoning behind the Be alert because the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour was just so on point mo-girl...Such a rare breed

[@MohauSefanyetso]

Hey family I would like to make a request if I may, just to get your views on the following points which I just need a different perspective of: 1. Transparency vs Honesty (is it the same thing for men as it is for women? ) 2. Trust (Lies or rather, incomplete truth - How to really work that trust in a relationship) 3. Privacy (Cellphone, Outside Relationships with same/ opposite sex) 4. Roles and responsibilities of two individuals who are in a relationship. 5. Abuse in relationships (Not particularly referring to physical abuse nor excluding it, but verbal abusiveness, emotional abuse, etc) I'd really appreciate just an outlook on the points I've mentioned above. Also, thank you guys for the knowledge you share - I believe you are making the world a better place. Thanks and God bless

[@kiaashlii6268]

Your wife is a very wise woman. 🙏🏾 love from Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@tumelosoqashe9368]

Mrs Makhs, I told my male friend long ago that I would cut my friendship with them if I were to be in a relationship. I totally understand and relate to your point of view

[@_sesona]

I can't get enough. This is so building and the topics are so necessary. I love how you don't have the same view on everything yet differ so respectfully, I'm really learning. It's interesting how every episode really leaves me thinking a lot 😅 When you spoke about seasons where weaknesses are highlighted I feel like I got a relevation!!

[@TheMakhs]

YES! This makes us smile 😊. Lerato believes in questioning everything, and pursuing the answers to satisfaction. ❤️

[@sodvine3486]

I don't think there should be a curfew, out of love and respect for your partner, you would take their feelings into perspective. Your wife said it, a personal conviction towards your partner's feelings. And the church say Ament❤ Ps... He said it At the end😆..bravo 👏👏

[@dineomasetla3443]

I’m a new member,just bumped into this couple on instagram today and I rushed to yt to see their content and I feel like I’ll fall inlove with them..I love how yol just talk so calm and mature.

[@TheMakhs]

Dee that’s amazing. Thank you for joining us. We look forward to journeying and growing with you. Welcome ❤️

[@gomo8523]

Aus Magauta...I just landed.. 😅🤣😂

[@2soothingchannel296]

your wife is soo principled loooove her.so like me❤❤❤

[@TheMakhs]

She’s a dream! We love to hear it...

[@chocolateanddutchy]

I always say the same to Nana. That I trust him I Just dont always trust the other woman. But we always communicate and not putting ourselfes in difficult situations. Very good video, Thank you 😊

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you for always engaging with us. We love your love 🙏🏾

[@tinyikomokale1872]

1 Peter 5:8 🌻

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you 😊

[@ms.jackson9349]

I vouch for curfews also, especially for children! There are boundaries and set times to arrive at 9-5 jobs (as an example) and we follow them. As said, it should be a conviction. As women, this can work in conjunction with security and protection. For children, it helps with obedience, discipline, learning to adhere to authority and gradually as the child grows in maturity/readiness to extend privileges (definite distinction between adult and child / the same privileges do not apply nor is it appropriate - everything in season). A child may (depending on age) may not be ready for the responsibility that comes with no curfews. Pertaining to adults/married couples or partners, perhaps the word “curfew” has a negative/adolescent undertone. So, coming to an understanding is paramount. Again, to each it’s own and couples must have a meeting of the minds. I appreciate your sharing and transparency in topics to consider for discussion in marriage and preparation towards. Blessings!

[@masithembemvunyiswa708]

Caught a glimpse of you on Buli Makhubo's channel and I'm in love. I've been binge-watching since. Y'all are so cute! The title sequence! Ntate Makhetha's voice! Mme Makhetha's crown! The Senior Makhs! The wisdom🥺 Konke nje😭😭😭

[@TheMakhs]

Your message🥺🥺. So full of love and warmth. Thank you so much❤️❤️

[@doughagan7719]

She is wise. Learn from and stay safe

[@wandilekwanda541]

Beautiful family great conversation took some notes stay blessed ❤.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for your kind words! We appreciate the support🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@vistorinaamputu4682]

As soon as I came across you (AMAAAAAAAAZIIIIIIINNNNNNG couple) I am hooked and wow, everything you share is so so invaluable. I now sit with a notebook to take notes, because when the Mr shows up, home girl will be ready😎☺️😁🙃🤗💃🏾. Loads of love, best of wishes and abundant blessings upon abundant blessings from 🇩🇪 . You two are the realest👌🏾. P.s Now I am shamelessly going to copy paste this until I get a shout out😂😂

[@Tao_Moe]

You are very wise Mrs Makhs. I have been married for a year now but I am learning alot from you.

[@boitumelokutlwano1716]

Notification gang...we like before watching

[@TheMakhs]

That’s it 🔥🔥🔥

[@lithankepu]

You guys are building good relationships -marriages with this channel.

[@kwanelenomondemncube3478]

Wonderful and deep cutting conversations. With regard to the 'married person's curfew', I have to agree with Mrs Makhs.

[@masabathamhlongo6378]

Mouthful thanks guys for always delivering wisdom!❤️❤️

[@VhugalaHaweM]

my fav... South Africa is yet to find out 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@TheMakhs]

Oh man! This is special. Thank you for the love 🙏🏾

[@phiwo8998]

These videos are counselling man ! We start a video thinking why is it so long but stay engaged throughout. Just awesome!

[@miggodtwala]

Heyi!! After midnight the day and date have changed.. sometimes even the year has changed... so yeah ke sleep out

[@TheMakhs]

The number you have dialed is not available Sis 🤣🤣🤣

[@nhlapogranny6439]

I'm obsessed with your channel I love you guys 😍. I've learnt so much most importantly I'm discovering myself a lot. May God bless your union. So much love for you 💕

[@samanthab4524]

I apologize, i tend to agree alot woth Mrs Makhs, the queen is so wise in my eyes ♥ matured, she doesnt have to experience situations to know how they are... Thats principles ryt there ♥

[@kebaabetswengwenya5871]

I’m here for this and more. Thanks for being such inspirations 🙌🏾

[@TheMakhs]

Thank YOU for joining us... ❤️

[@cookingwiththabang545]

Mrs Makhs looking beautiful as always. Great video, always learn something 🤗

[@TheMakhs]

❤️ thank you for joining us 🙏🏾

[@hypeman_tv]

I like how you guys are principled but also very understanding of different situations. 🤗

[@refilwemasela8603]

I love going out... and my husband is the direct opposite. I automatically feel bad once I pass boma 8-9pm if it was not a planned outing. 12am i must be home unless we are together. These are not rules we set, I just hold myself to that knowing that I would expect the same.

[@TheMakhs]

The last sentence is everything!!! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@luvogiba1526]

I am learning so much from you guys, thank you guys for going into this uncomfortable topic of friends and thank you for being so raw about it. This is definitely a big one for me, one I myself struggle with, and I particularly like the point that Lerato made about honouring his wife despite his position. It is definitely a difficult one to navigate especially when the relationship is new. My take home: We can all be friends here mos 😅

[@TheMakhs]

LET’S ALL BE FRIENDS! 🤣 Thank you for watching and for the affirmation. It encourages us to do more. We appreciate you fam. 🙏🏾

[@aliciapapo7825]

I just love you guys❤️Keep the content coming

[@TheMakhs]

We love you too!! Thank you for the love and support❤️🤗

[@londiwembuli6760]

I love the whispering🤣🤣. Am obsessed with you guys ❤️

[@mollychikafa7594]

I admire how you guys communicate or let me say have open conversations in your marriage. ❤️❤️

[@fikilemahlindza3152]

Ausi Phetola's hair always on point 😍😍

[@jesiahselemela3222]

This episode clearly shows that men and women do differ, men can go on and on just being majita. We have fun in different ways

[@Marsh_Mel]

Friends of the opposite sex can miss me, I am jealous goed and unapologetically so. It's rough out there and people are lonely and thirsty. I'm addicted to your channel.

[@cynthiabanda8138]

I love MRS Makhs!!

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaahh🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@darxkinofficial6649]

You killed the trailer on Instagram for this episode. The yes s d no brought me here. I'm here for the marriage counseling.....♥️😂

[@TheMakhs]

🤣🤣🤣welcome all the way through!!!

[@isitgodly3059]

I agree with Phetola's point of view on relating with opposite sex...

[@raissaanyere4930]

Heyyyyy Please can you add subtitles when you speak venac ☺️🙏🏾 Love the content 😃

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for the feedback. It is well noted.🙏🏾

[@aliciapapo7825]

Married person curfew is important, I have the same issue with my partner

[@TheMakhs]

It is very important for couples to be agreeable with the decision they ultimately make.

[@siphelelexulu3884]

I agree with Lerato. I am extremely positive and trusting until something happen. If my partner is out with the friends. In case he is still having fun. He must enjoy himself, as long it's s not an every weekend. As long as I know where he is I sleep freely just like a baby. He must do the same with me. We are still individuals, independent it means that we can still enjoy our independence. Do not police each other. As long as we fair to each other I am good

[@sumeiyaali5663]

Thanks guys. Mrs Makhs knows her story hey! Married curfew, each one of us should be responsible enough to know what’s right and what’s not. Friends, I think yes, one can be friends with different sex (discipline and knowing who you’re and where you going and what you want in life)

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you!🤗🤗❤️❤️

[@thulibotha769]

As I wait patiently for ep2 ..love you guys

[@TheMakhs]

We love you too! ❤️Part 2 is up!🤗🤗

[@baboloki]

I love your hair Mrs Makhs..makes me miss my fro! you are so gorgeous!

[@isitgodly3059]

I believe coming home in the morning is a luxury of a single life...Now that you are a married person please it's very important to shift with the season...It's now longer about what makes you feel good all the time...Be mindful about how the other person feels... Getting married comes with new responsibilities and a place for selflessness and wisdom.Thats why marriage is not for boys and girls.

[@gomo8523]

I fully agree with abuti Lerato on curfew based on the fact that his wife communicates her whereabouts. At the same time I hear aus Phetola, as long as the partner accounts. So that when the kids wake up mama knows what to say to the kids. Malalaphi a everyday'vryday aowa!

[@TheMakhs]

🤣🤣🤣the closing comment is everything!

[@AnnstaciaK]

Aus Phet oreng? 🤣🤣🤣 bo ma 02h00 ga go loke selo... ong feletsang! 😂

[@carmelariley9491]

📖1 Peter 5:8 📖Romans 14:16-17~ let not then your good be evil spoken of People can be messy.... start gossip If someone sees your wife out to lunch with a man..... first thing they will think, she’s cheating on her husband Keep the “Peace “ in your home go out on double dates , y’all best friends with their mates😀

[@TheMakhs]

Living in harmony with one another is very important🙌🏾

[@tshenolontwagae]

Lerato has a really nice radio voice

[@wanda_za]

I always learn something from you guys. Thank you

[@TheMakhs]

Thank YOU ❤️

[@rirhandzu8100]

You guys got married on my mom’s birthday 😄♥️

[@flowthinks]

"Mphe chance my love"

[@AnnstaciaK]

As for o sehlefetse! 🤣

[@AnnstaciaK]

And we’re #TheMakhsDreamteam 😩

[@lesegostorom7779]

Taking notes

[@nomsa06]

It would be awesome to see the video done a year later… do you both still hold the same views?

[@markuskiefer4625]

Such gold! 🙏🔥

[@TheMakhs]

We appreciate you bro 👊🏾

[@segobernice2103]

After midnight ago loke selo!🙅‍♀️

[@berniceshaffer-parmeley2784]

I suggest this husband/wife; Proverbs 3:5,6, ... in all your ways acknowledge God and HE will direct your path

[@sisiphomzondi5421]

I think with the married people curfew, the question is how often can a married person be out late. Because personally I would not have a problem if my partner would be out late once in a while.

[@TheMakhs]

We definitely believe that every house hold should work this out for themselves. Both couples have to be agreeable and comfortable with the decision.

[@mphoseshibe]

Notification gang 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@TheMakhs]

Yaaaaay!!!! Thank you so much! Hope you enjoy the instalment❤️🤗

[@queennandiey725]

Notification Gang💃💃💃

[@TheMakhs]

Aaamazing💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿!!! Thank you so much❤️❤️

[@hellenmed7998]

I agree with you gorgeous Mrs Makhs No platonic friends . if they are not couple friends then this may lead to a disaster in your marriage. NO No No Temptation is for all. I don't like drama either. Gal stick to your decision. I love you as a couple but on this one Mrs, Makhs is talking from a point of wisdom.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you for this. What we love about our friendship is that everything is put on the table for discussion and love and respect for each other comes first, despite differences in opinion at times. ❤️🙌🏾

[@hellenmed7998]

@@TheMakhs I absolutely agree. Much Respect

[@isitgodly3059]

This is so true ...This a very witty woman .

[@Tao_Moe]

I totally agree

[@kennymashile5681]

thank you

[@freshprince4382]

As a woman I don't see what the problem is in having male friends so long as boundaries are clearly defined

[@Amahle361]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, Phetola :you and kabo 2h00. You have a serious issue about those hours. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@seratisapelo]

He has a very beautiful brain🤞

[@mamaj4548]

Curfew e bohlokwa kudu kudu. You're not a street kid, you have a home so please eya gae ka nako

[@TheMakhs]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️ this comment!!!!!!!!!

[@Tao_Moe]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wewemhlaba7593]

The Makhs☺❤❤❤❤

[@TheMakhs]

🤗🤗🤗❤️

[@baybeecakes450]

Also your husband can cheat on you with another married woman. So hes right about not judging a friend cause their single or being threatened about single women around your man, it's about the character of your spouse

[@anitamhlongo4443]

At this point I don't understand...whether I'm human or alien... What's hard about know where you stand with a person...you like them or don't...

[@TheMakhs]

Clarity 🙏🏾

[@puseletsom3439]

I died on the 'married person curfew' 😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

It’s tense in the Makhs household 😬

[@2soothingchannel296]

I honestly enjoy your conversations ❤❤am a regular here

[@TheMakhs]

We appreciate you. Thank you for growing with us 😁

[@thelearnedteacher6763]

Favs

[@TheMakhs]

We appreciate you 🙌🏾

[@siyamtolo6733]

I agree with Lerato shem. Much as I can go out once in a blue moon when I do I realised ba kumnandi egroove bethuna by 12 midnight that's when it gets more lit. As long as I keep you posted. I hope I get a husband who understands this. PS: Ke mozalwane za and quite principled but yhu kumnandi egroove bethuna!🤣🤣🤣

[@TheMakhs]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mzalwane Za! GBC in the house!🙌🏾.

[@sthabile_xulu]

🔥🔥🔥

[@omphemetsemathumo6428]

wooow i love your content guys...i am learning alot..thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for watching. We appreciate having you ❤️😁

[@darxkinofficial6649]

Deep

[@TheMakhs]

✊🏾

[@lesegostorom7779]

Your body language says it all

[@nomsamsomi4535]

angisanithandi nje

[@TheMakhs]

Enkosi wethu... we love you too...

[@AnnstaciaK]

🤣 bare FAMILY FRIEND. Shuu

[@lindatafeni9402]

💝

[@berniceshaffer-parmeley2784]

Harken into your wife, you can have a working relationship for business only with your wife knowing that person of the opposite sex but! not all that one on one mess. Give NO place to the enemy!!

[@maxinejafta]

Ah the things that happen in studios though? ah

[@darxkinofficial6649]

Yooo first question tricky in the gay world 😂😂😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

Now that you say 🙆🏾‍♂️. Didn’t think about that! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@freshprince4382]

I am living proof that you can have good friendships with opposite sex married or not

[@sher40pal]

She is afraid the other woman might swoop in like she swooped in summer of 2008

[@cookingwiththabang545]

Mrs Makhs looking beautiful as always. Great video, always learn something 🤗