A man of is word is what attracts us more to a man. A man who can hold it down, who is self-aware of himself...so attractive! And of course, a man who has a relationship with God.
@siviwemapekula16893 жыл бұрын
Definitely💯💯
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@wandilekwanda5413 жыл бұрын
When my girlfriend starts saying I'm fine, Immediately know that there trouble in paradise. If shes really fine she would never use the word fine.😅
@sarahletsoalo96683 жыл бұрын
😃😂😂😂
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂Always!!!
@kabelodale_3 жыл бұрын
You sir have figured woman out😂😂
@KhanyiLight3 жыл бұрын
This new intro is giving what it's supposed to give 😭🔥🔥
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🥂🥂🥂 thank you!
@nyeletimanganyi41973 жыл бұрын
Yey!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 its doing it
@mercyjarachara47353 жыл бұрын
The Queens laugh is so contagious bathong, makes my day. Absolutely adore your compatibility.
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗
@tlegoo3 жыл бұрын
She’s so cute 🥰🥰
@_Kuria_3 жыл бұрын
I personally like it when my man is comfortable enough to be vulnerable around me...once in a while just be in my arms for comfort...I wouldn't mind...
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
We really do love it♥️
@RebekaSmalls3 жыл бұрын
Wanting a bad guy is more of feeling of security. In a young mindset perspective bad means protector, exciting.. it's the demeanor and we like confidence. As we grow older what we admired we than realise we deserve more and the good guy will end up finishing first if they stay consistently good!
@simonmahlangu9233 жыл бұрын
Then you come with trauma to a good guy that he will most likely pay for or make up for all the trauma that was caused by the bad guy because guaranteed for sure your bad boys batlao hurdaa 🤣🤣
@RebekaSmalls3 жыл бұрын
@@simonmahlangu923 we all have some sort of trauma but anyway a bad guy doesn't have to turn a woman into a bad person. It is all about self value if you believe you're a good guy, why would you tolerate any less.. it's a cycle what attracted you to a "bad girl" in the first place ?
@gworrl22213 жыл бұрын
True!!!!!!
@simonmahlangu9233 жыл бұрын
@@RebekaSmalls Most men don't want "bad girls" we fuck them yes because they're attractive but they're not meeting my moms. Let's be honest a bad boy doesn't symbolize "security" or "protection" because you know that relationship will most likely fail. Here's something to think about, a good man makes a woman feel bad because she's not a good woman and a bad boy makes a woman feel better about herself. He takes away the pressure/responsiblity of being a good woman. Take your time, think about it reread again.
@meesheeli91073 жыл бұрын
Pheto's laugh is contagious manh😣😂😂❤
@alesiadhana65773 жыл бұрын
Lerato was savage with this!!! I couldn’t stop laughing. Phetola was spot on for all the answers!!
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
Right!!!????He went iiiinnn😂😂😂😂😂. Thank you Alesia!
@ipsobond213 жыл бұрын
You guys don’t even understand HOW PROUD I am of Pheto!!! I mean in comparison to some of the 1st videos where she in the hot seat??? PHETO YOU KILT THIS!! You are opening up and getting more comfortable and we appreciate it sooo much! Keep it up sis, you repped us well! Lerato held nothing back with these questions 😅 I love you guys ❤️
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Aba! Really appreciate your beautiful words❤️
@allgrownupFl3 жыл бұрын
Good boys are scared - Bad boys are bolder. We dont want to be mistreated, but we dont want someone afraid and boring with no ideas. LOL
@HappyHealedRelationships3 жыл бұрын
Yesss‼️
@ziziphomagula81833 жыл бұрын
Women definitely look at the character. Integrity! Presence! Knows exactly what he wants
@1Nubien3 жыл бұрын
The less you know about how many person your partner has been with is the better it will be for you both. Something are better left unsaid, which makes for a peaceful life.
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@josephineamutenya26563 жыл бұрын
Some women do it, to protect their partners, because if a man knows that they did not satisfy you, they feel like they failed. And that put pressure on them. While some might lebel their women as needy.
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
So true.
@KRallele3 жыл бұрын
The transparency here👌👌 you did well Phetola. It's honestly reviving to see a young christian couple that is so open in talking about such issues.
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much♥️♥️
@nomthandazoxulu98303 жыл бұрын
I love the answer about periods and moods. 💯
@kabelowame3 жыл бұрын
The Makhs always giving me a dose of laughter 🤗
@leratonkatswang93063 жыл бұрын
Sis Phetola's laugh!! Love it
@nompilomazibuko46153 жыл бұрын
"im ready for you to be a FATHER!" 😂😂😂😂😂
@daphneymogano75663 жыл бұрын
Height, a bit of muscle and good hygiene works for most women
@simplyteedee87353 жыл бұрын
Most bad boys are very charming and manipulative, they're always ready to attack whereas good guys take time to even shoot their shot, sometimes women want that exciting factor thinking they could even change these bad boys
@HappyHealedRelationships3 жыл бұрын
Yesss‼️
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
Such a valid point! I think as women we also like “projects” thinking we can change someone. We learn the hard way. A human being can’t change a person.
@Pabistar3 жыл бұрын
Awww fam🤭! Thanks for the shout out😁💃. Ke le rata hurree❤❤! Just to add to Pheto's answer, I think security is very important and not just financial security but emotionally, spiritually and physically as well. To know that he's got me covered, no matter what and he has my back. That makes me feel safe.
@keneilwemokoena90163 жыл бұрын
About the emotions, Sesi Phetogo answered very well👌👌💯
@zaweddelynnette94453 жыл бұрын
The joy in his face at 10:19
@dimainspire9573 жыл бұрын
I love Phetola she's so authentic ❤
@zandilemiya39303 жыл бұрын
Character! Character! That is so true a man of His word
@Ipsydelic3 жыл бұрын
To me as an individual and as a woman who speaks on her behalf. Size doesn't matter, as long and "One" knows how to use it PROPERLY
@keletsomekwa3 жыл бұрын
Sis Pheto, you answered really well😍🙌 With regards to the period thing, I totally agree. Gaslighting tends to come in such subtle ways and I think guys have to be mindful of their words even if they feel “justified”. Some people even take it to such extreme measures where they will avoid accountability and hide behind “it’s that time of the month”.
@BubuhleGobodo3 жыл бұрын
Phet really represented us well on this one❤️ I literally answered all the questions first, and she said the exact same thing!! She is me, I am her, we are one😂❤️
@EverythingQueenshono3 жыл бұрын
Very well represented by our Queen!!! Everything was answered just the way most of us would have answered. The size question 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I’m dying💀💀. Yes the size matters.💁🏽♀️ and well answered. I’m not really for the physicality but rather the brains. As my man, are you able to give me answers on things I don’t understand or need to know? Are you able to contribute to general conversations? Can you reason on my behalf? It’s not even about qualifications but just INTELLIGENCE. Emotional support is a must have felas. Be emotionally available and DO NOT compete with your Queen, you will push her away.
@madampraises44503 жыл бұрын
Spot on!!
@thobekahmngoma6543 жыл бұрын
Love this comment, couldn't have articulated it any other better way.
@mrspboledi3 жыл бұрын
I like that, the most important thing about a man is character,literally nothing else matters. Consistency in words and actions.
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
That’s so attractive! We feel safe with a man whose word means everything to them♥️
@bellindapule41723 жыл бұрын
Here's my 2 Cents from personal observation(I stand to be corrected): Women do want a Good Guy but fall for/date bad boys because they have kinda studied "the game". It's like they research which Qualities does majority of women like in a Man(Eg romantic, sexy, confident, lil bit dominant, funny, spontaneous etc).. So they have learned how to LURE in their prey(women) by presenting these Qualities to them. I guess that's how most of them also manage to date multiple women.
@brigettebond60883 жыл бұрын
Wow Lerato I never thought men want to know these questions. Phetola I'm with you girl Lerato really put you on the spot but you did well
@ntombizonkentuli37703 жыл бұрын
Yohh such questions Pheto jeeezzzz Girl you were not ready🤣🤣🤣🤣. Next time know Lerato given a chance to ask questions He will not hold back🤣🤣🤣 be prepared from the hardest hardest most uncomfortable questions.
@lengwebobo74183 жыл бұрын
The character answer is on point 🙌🏽
@thembinkosimakhanya68693 жыл бұрын
Mr Makhs came through for the gents🔥🔥🔥🔥
@zeekay75763 жыл бұрын
Phetho answered really well..Representing us ladies
@pamelamakhanya76393 жыл бұрын
Ausi Phetola "A man of your words" on point🙌. For us its simple, mean what you say and that's an outstanding character. I pray everyday to find a man like that🤞
@primrosedianahnatukunda8613 жыл бұрын
I enjoy Phetolaz laughter..it's my highlight🤸🤸🤣🤣
@jemimahbondo5673 жыл бұрын
You definitely represented us well!!!
@vuyelwagoqwana45873 жыл бұрын
Sometimes guys feel like we don't enjoy it when we don't orgasm and it's not even the case so we fake it so that they don't feel like they're not doing it proper, it's basically feeding their ego.
@HappyHealedRelationships3 жыл бұрын
Agreed💯
@FendiYT3 жыл бұрын
Thats deception
@rudymutoya61753 жыл бұрын
Pheto did really well.#representing.
@elizabethletsoso25583 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@torixx99103 жыл бұрын
I’m fine could also mean let me process my emotions and then speak clearly to you when I’m ready. Also, if you don’t leave us alone we may say some not nice things which we don’t want to do.
@I.t.u.m.e.l.e.n.g3 жыл бұрын
I am fine😂 while they are tears in my eyes. As per usual love the yall👏🏾👏🏾
@Sebongile_Baloyi3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Phetola bad guys are fun and always know how to make you want them even more. And good guys are normally real & never just do things to get what they want from you.
@chedzamoon93523 жыл бұрын
Outed me ha Lerato a re "Boris Cojo and company" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nompilomazibuko46153 жыл бұрын
"I was poor"😂😂😂😂😂
@nokuthuladelightmuranganwa31813 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I feel well represented Ma'am, thank you very much!
@wewemhlaba75933 жыл бұрын
You guys are so amazing😂😘😊I really love this channel can't believe we are on 45k.I was one of the first 5 subscribers.We've grown so much💝💝💝
@MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo3 жыл бұрын
I love Mr Makhs's facial expressions when wifey answers 🤣🤣🤣.. You guys though 🤩🤩🤩
@wethujonga86813 жыл бұрын
Love it for the Makhs!!! And the new intro 😍😍😍
@gomop46493 жыл бұрын
Shout out to us who comment before even watching the whole installment🤣🤣🤣❤❤
@professoramutenya61953 жыл бұрын
You guys are the best❤️ Much love from Namibia ❤️
@mathapelonyembe47023 жыл бұрын
Well done Phetola for representing!!! 👏❤️ Loved all the answers honestly!
@LethoHali3 жыл бұрын
You did awesome Pheto! You represented well!
@preciouschokoe96953 жыл бұрын
Nna setshego sa Sis Phetogo sa mpolaya🤣🤣🤣
@gaangalelwemofokeng50273 жыл бұрын
Hi my people love you guys Yoh mosadi much marato very smart, lovely akitse ke tlhalose byang girl O ntsetse words first time I met you ko Buli Makhudo I just fell in love with you thanks to Buli for that,but a minute ke utlwa O mogul wa pitori ka re yes I knew it O botlhale Maan .Rena kamo Garankuwa bona rena lwena 100% .keep doing the most💞💞💞💞😘
@mashimborose91683 жыл бұрын
We date bad guys when we are not yet serious about any relationship. Because we think breaking a heart of a bad guy may not make us carry as much guilt as we would carry if we broke the heart of a good guy. When we finally make a decision to date seriously, we then choose good guys Ladies, does this make sense????
@chantelltalbaard92783 жыл бұрын
It's "baby what does I'm fine mean" for me🤣🤣🤣
@nomkhosingcongo50693 жыл бұрын
Sisi Phetola thanks, you represented us very well ❤❤❤❤.
@Silly_tilly8093 жыл бұрын
Mr Makhs came guns blazing with these questions
@blessjoy3 жыл бұрын
Hei mara!!!these questions are hard🙈😅but you represented us well.
@ameliamathebula62133 жыл бұрын
Happy Heritage Day Family
@elizabethletsoso25583 жыл бұрын
Happy Heritage to you everyone 🥰
@asiphebekwaphi85473 жыл бұрын
Gang gang we here!! It's the consistency for me♥️♥️ dankie fam
@LETSOALO_LIFE3 жыл бұрын
hahahaha.. this was a fun one. Lerato represented majita well. My husband was so excited you asked those questions hahaha. Pheto did very well, we kept pausing and i answer first before you answer..then our answers are the same... The reason i used to fake orgasm is because i felt like i didnt want to bonk and the sooner we get over and done with the better. The easiest way to get over it is if i fake orgasm. I didnt have the guts to say i am not in the mood for bonk just not to hurt hubby and his ego. These guys always want to be "phakati inside" and rena ra lapa yoh. Bad boys are fun, the have vavavum bo good guy bana le go borrra hle. Whenever i am on my periods i put a disclamer " babe dont mind my moods, its that time" Overall 10/10 Pheto.
@koversbykuda16143 жыл бұрын
Phetola’s passion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You represented us well sis. 🙌🏾
@lehlogonolomasha96553 жыл бұрын
Yoh Phetola o botse hle bathong 🔥🔥😭😭😭
@soleilmutimunyuzwe49553 жыл бұрын
Phetola made me also laugh 😂 specifically on the question of “does size matter “ it was indeed uncomfortable 😂😂! Am obsessed with this dream Team ❤️❤️You’re doing great guys
@MarWat14073 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this. Its wonderful how freely you guys communicate. Very important aspect of a relationship. Content is rich as always. Shout out from Sarah from Jamaica!!!
@akhutlelengkekwaletswe45173 жыл бұрын
Oooh wooow! I just heard my name right there! Yes! You pronounced it very well. You are doing an amazing job. Thats ministry right there. You have no idea! Keep up the good work you are doing. Stay blessed!
@daphneymogano75663 жыл бұрын
Size depends on preference and ur women's size as well. Bt what matters most is skill more than size
@andybizzle43763 жыл бұрын
Skill babe, skill 💯
@nonjabuloshongwe12123 жыл бұрын
Installment after installment has been wonderful and a pleasure to watch. You guys have kept the honesty and openness consistently & that’s why I keep coming back. Phetho you represented us well guuuuurl!
@TheMakhs3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for journeying with us♥️♥️
@chubychix3 жыл бұрын
Aus Phetola you represented us well 😍. Completely cracked up when Lerato said he was dark because he was poor 🤣 😂😂
@sibobuhlungu44043 жыл бұрын
Road to 50k in October 💃💃💃💃🙏🙏. Wow what an installment, Mr Makhs came prepared for real. But im grateful for this installment truly coz these are se Questions that couples often shun away to ask, they are regarded as "taboo" yet left unaddressed they are causing serious relationship damages. Thank you guys, truly appreciate you and the work that you are doing, God bless you fam💖🙏.
@nthabie_m6613 жыл бұрын
I agree with Pheto Character really outweighs everything.
@HerHighness1603 жыл бұрын
Its the consistency for me.. you guys are amazing..😍😍🔥 #notificationGang
@vkmabunda95973 жыл бұрын
"Guys who look like they can go to war for them"😂😂😂
@sethunyamaifala36433 жыл бұрын
I can't get over the new jingle❤❤❤😭😭😭
@KeabetsweMahoro243 жыл бұрын
Well Represented... Just to add on the food question, I sometimes would say I'm full because I'm not sure about the meal I want to have and once my partner orders his then I start eating what he ordered for himself.
@rethasebata37183 жыл бұрын
I was passing by and I saw this channel I like ur channel guys
@michelleelias53363 жыл бұрын
Phetola is right we want all things manly... dont be overly sensitive, be bufff enough to squeeze me when I cry, be tall enough for me to hide behind you when danger approaches, a lil hair down there, be dark mhani!!!
@ogiyonkematiwane12243 жыл бұрын
The tidal sequence is doing the things 😍😍🔥.. Love how joyous Phetola is😍😍😍..
@jekmzee3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that many men face the same questions and women somehow react the same way.. “ I’m fine”, then why did you not ask me what was wrong… Glad to know we are not strange 😂😂
@phumelelazuma47043 жыл бұрын
I also liked bad boys because I'm kinda shy and reserved so I wanted opposite of me someone who's not shy and goes for what he wants because I'm shy about what I want so there's a balance. But iyoh it ends in tears batlago hurt'a 😂. So now I know better and I'm trying to choose better and to know even the nice guys when they are with someone they are comfortable with they can open up and be themselves.. ❤️.
@siphiweledwaba53353 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣Nope size doesn’t matter BUT don’t be TOO small 🙊. Pheto is ME I am Pheto when it comes to wanting dark ‘manly men’ there’s just something about a dark, tall, not pretty and bulky man that makes us feel safe/protected.
@Kuda_Kwashe3 жыл бұрын
Its that manly factor u know and they look like they can take care of stuff in general you know and in charge!!!
@rumbieguveya61863 жыл бұрын
Loving the Current Intro Guys,My 9yr old stopped in her tracks and was like "Mummy I love it" 🔥
@jenniferbanda11 ай бұрын
Represented 💯 🧡 I am fine 🤣🤣🤣that is so me. You answered so well thank you. Yah faking is caused by the ego. He will definitely finish... 🙈
@kabelodale_3 жыл бұрын
Ayy this new intro real got me dabbing for real🔥🔥🔥🔥
@Shka_maru3 жыл бұрын
"Whats the most important thing a woman looks for in a man?" She gave the answer what they SHOULD look for, but lets be real....that isn't what a lot of women actually think about initially or at all
@MmaNoko3 жыл бұрын
If you’re happy married or in a good relationship. NOPE, you won’t even check other men, they’re not even interesting
@euldahrixile25183 жыл бұрын
Did i not die when he ask does the size matter hahahahaa ses phetola you are really presenting us very well
@boonaang3 жыл бұрын
I think the big size issue being a thing is because we just say it to bruise a man’s ego most of the time, like if you break my heart I would just say you have a small * just to make myself feel better...
@believebecome993 жыл бұрын
Attacking the guy's ego to make yourself feel better seems like a sign of insecurity and immaturity.
@boonaang3 жыл бұрын
@@believebecome99 okay
@lithankepu3 жыл бұрын
Your questions dude😂😂! Lol the 1st one is so true, im usually hungry but not hungry. Also I genuinely say im not hungry just incase i ask for something that uguy feels is expensive and he didn budget for it. 😂❤️ Im fine means - probe more bhuti im not fine at all but u need to ask me about it maybe an hour or so later. 😂👏🏻 Well done Phetola u doing a great job with the answers. Spot on💡❤️
@thabi_lebothe3 жыл бұрын
Notification Gang 🔔 🎉 🥂 It's the consistency for me!!! 💥 DREAM TEAM
@maipelosentle13023 жыл бұрын
Well done Phetola, you represented us very well 😂😂❤
@neom6453 жыл бұрын
Great installment Phetola, you did very well ❤️😘
@mafokopetrusmokwena1263 жыл бұрын
Out of nowhere "Does size matter?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@viwemjindi39843 жыл бұрын
Aus Phetola 🤣😂😂 yey these Questions mara. You did well❤️❤️
@olorato95633 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the whole going for bad guy thing is really daddy issues manifesting themselves, or trauma from previous relationships, all you've ever known are these bad relations with the male gender... sexual relationship wise.