ASKING MY WIFE *JUICY* QUESTIONS MEN ARE AFRAID TO ASK WOMEN | South African Couple YouTubers

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In today's instalment, Lerato asks Phetola juicy questions that men are afraid to ask women.
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[@KhanyiLight]

This new intro is giving what it's supposed to give 😭🔥🔥

[@TheMakhs]

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🥂🥂🥂 thank you!

[@nyeletimanganyi4197]

Yey!!🔥🔥🔥🔥 its doing it

[@wandilekwanda541]

When my girlfriend starts saying I'm fine, Immediately know that there trouble in paradise. If shes really fine she would never use the word fine.😅

[@sarahletsoalo9668]

😃😂😂😂

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂😂😂Always!!!

[@kabelodale_]

You sir have figured woman out😂😂

[@mercyjarachara4735]

The Queens laugh is so contagious bathong, makes my day. Absolutely adore your compatibility.

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️🤗🤗🤗

[@tlegoo]

She’s so cute 🥰🥰

[@meesheeli9107]

Pheto's laugh is contagious manh😣😂😂❤

[@Keabetswe.Sithole]

A man of is word is what attracts us more to a man. A man who can hold it down, who is self-aware of himself...so attractive! And of course, a man who has a relationship with God.

[@siviwemapekula1689]

Definitely💯💯

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯

[@simplyteedee8735]

Most bad boys are very charming and manipulative, they're always ready to attack whereas good guys take time to even shoot their shot, sometimes women want that exciting factor thinking they could even change these bad boys

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Yesss‼️

[@TheMakhs]

Such a valid point! I think as women we also like “projects” thinking we can change someone. We learn the hard way. A human being can’t change a person.

[@josephineamutenya2656]

Some women do it, to protect their partners, because if a man knows that they did not satisfy you, they feel like they failed. And that put pressure on them. While some might lebel their women as needy.

[@TheMakhs]

So true.

[@vuyelwagoqwana4587]

Sometimes guys feel like we don't enjoy it when we don't orgasm and it's not even the case so we fake it so that they don't feel like they're not doing it proper, it's basically feeding their ego.

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Agreed💯

[@FendiYT]

Thats deception

[@ipsobond21]

You guys don’t even understand HOW PROUD I am of Pheto!!! I mean in comparison to some of the 1st videos where she in the hot seat??? PHETO YOU KILT THIS!! You are opening up and getting more comfortable and we appreciate it sooo much! Keep it up sis, you repped us well! Lerato held nothing back with these questions 😅 I love you guys ❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much Aba! Really appreciate your beautiful words❤️

[@_Kuria_]

I personally like it when my man is comfortable enough to be vulnerable around me...once in a while just be in my arms for comfort...I wouldn't mind...

[@TheMakhs]

We really do love it♥️

[@guguginindza9866]

We fake it so that you can finish hey...am tired or you annoying me that time. You doing something very wrong/ boring me at that point of time neh. Size does matter... something that is not too big or too small. Something that will reach the right places at the right time 😅😅😅😅🙈

[@BekaSmalls]

Wanting a bad guy is more of feeling of security. In a young mindset perspective bad means protector, exciting.. it's the demeanor and we like confidence. As we grow older what we admired we than realise we deserve more and the good guy will end up finishing first if they stay consistently good!

[@simonmahlangu923]

Then you come with trauma to a good guy that he will most likely pay for or make up for all the trauma that was caused by the bad guy because guaranteed for sure your bad boys batlao hurdaa 🤣🤣

[@BekaSmalls]

@@simonmahlangu923 we all have some sort of trauma but anyway a bad guy doesn't have to turn a woman into a bad person. It is all about self value if you believe you're a good guy, why would you tolerate any less.. it's a cycle what attracted you to a "bad girl" in the first place ?

[@gworrl2221]

True!!!!!!

[@simonmahlangu923]

@@BekaSmalls Most men don't want "bad girls" we fuck them yes because they're attractive but they're not meeting my moms. Let's be honest a bad boy doesn't symbolize "security" or "protection" because you know that relationship will most likely fail. Here's something to think about, a good man makes a woman feel bad because she's not a good woman and a bad boy makes a woman feel better about herself. He takes away the pressure/responsiblity of being a good woman. Take your time, think about it reread again.

[@MmaNoko]

If you’re happy married or in a good relationship. NOPE, you won’t even check other men, they’re not even interesting

[@daphneymogano7566]

Height, a bit of muscle and good hygiene works for most women

[@tshegangndlela848]

Every woman deserves to date a bad boy atleast twice, then you'll know that it's not it😜

[@allgrownupFl]

Good boys are scared - Bad boys are bolder. We dont want to be mistreated, but we dont want someone afraid and boring with no ideas. LOL

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

Yesss‼️

[@fezilenkabinde9087]

I was never attracted to "bad boys"

[@keletsomekwa]

Sis Pheto, you answered really well😍🙌 With regards to the period thing, I totally agree. Gaslighting tends to come in such subtle ways and I think guys have to be mindful of their words even if they feel “justified”. Some people even take it to such extreme measures where they will avoid accountability and hide behind “it’s that time of the month”.

[@1Nubien]

The less you know about how many person your partner has been with is the better it will be for you both. Something are better left unsaid, which makes for a peaceful life.

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯

[@alesiadhana6577]

Lerato was savage with this!!! I couldn’t stop laughing. Phetola was spot on for all the answers!!

[@TheMakhs]

Right!!!????He went iiiinnn😂😂😂😂😂. Thank you Alesia!

[@siphiweledwaba5335]

🤣🤣Nope size doesn’t matter BUT don’t be TOO small 🙊. Pheto is ME I am Pheto when it comes to wanting dark ‘manly men’ there’s just something about a dark, tall, not pretty and bulky man that makes us feel safe/protected.

[@Kuda_Kwashe]

Its that manly factor u know and they look like they can take care of stuff in general you know and in charge!!!

[@mashimborose9168]

We date bad guys when we are not yet serious about any relationship. Because we think breaking a heart of a bad guy may not make us carry as much guilt as we would carry if we broke the heart of a good guy. When we finally make a decision to date seriously, we then choose good guys Ladies, does this make sense????

[@nomthandazoxulu9830]

I love the answer about periods and moods. 💯

[@kabelowame]

The Makhs always giving me a dose of laughter 🤗

[@KRallele]

The transparency here👌👌 you did well Phetola. It's honestly reviving to see a young christian couple that is so open in talking about such issues.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much♥️♥️

[@bellindapule4172]

Here's my 2 Cents from personal observation(I stand to be corrected): Women do want a Good Guy but fall for/date bad boys because they have kinda studied "the game". It's like they research which Qualities does majority of women like in a Man(Eg romantic, sexy, confident, lil bit dominant, funny, spontaneous etc).. So they have learned how to LURE in their prey(women) by presenting these Qualities to them. I guess that's how most of them also manage to date multiple women.

[@phumelelazuma4704]

I also liked bad boys because I'm kinda shy and reserved so I wanted opposite of me someone who's not shy and goes for what he wants because I'm shy about what I want so there's a balance. But iyoh it ends in tears batlago hurt'a 😂. So now I know better and I'm trying to choose better and to know even the nice guys when they are with someone they are comfortable with they can open up and be themselves.. ❤️.

[@ziziphomagula8183]

Women definitely look at the character. Integrity! Presence! Knows exactly what he wants

[@bevmwallo1712]

Before I met my hubby I will fake it if its bad sex or you are wasting time lol but once I met the one who brought it out of me, I can't fake it! He knows me too well. We are not faking things here. We are going all the way.!

[@LM-he7eb]

I’M FINE: I don’t want to talk about it now, because you’ve displayed that you don’t care. Why share my feelings with someone that doesn’t care.

[@sibobuhlungu4404]

Road to 50k in October 💃💃💃💃🙏🙏. Wow what an installment, Mr Makhs came prepared for real. But im grateful for this installment truly coz these are se Questions that couples often shun away to ask, they are regarded as "taboo" yet left unaddressed they are causing serious relationship damages. Thank you guys, truly appreciate you and the work that you are doing, God bless you fam💖🙏.

[@ntombidube1858]

We say we want good guys, because we want to protect our hearts. We want someone who is going to take us out on dates, be loyal you know al the good traits. Mara the bad boys, yoh they are exciting. It's much like having a car and a bike. You know a car makes more sense for everyday travel, in terms of safety and and but soon as you get on your bike. The wind blowing your hair, unrestricted. Your chances of crashing and dying are so much higher but the adrenaline and excitement that comes from the danger. So it's that.

[@MmaNoko]

About bad boys: I don’t know either, never dated Faking the deeds: when a man is talking longer and by the time poor lady is damn dry. Size: size does not matter, rhythm matters. The dance, creativity etc.however, medium goes a long way

[@nompilomazibuko4615]

"im ready for you to be a FATHER!" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@EverythingQueenshono]

Very well represented by our Queen!!! Everything was answered just the way most of us would have answered. The size question 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I’m dying💀💀. Yes the size matters.💁🏽‍♀️ and well answered. I’m not really for the physicality but rather the brains. As my man, are you able to give me answers on things I don’t understand or need to know? Are you able to contribute to general conversations? Can you reason on my behalf? It’s not even about qualifications but just INTELLIGENCE. Emotional support is a must have felas. Be emotionally available and DO NOT compete with your Queen, you will push her away.

[@madampraises4450]

Spot on!!

[@thobekahmngoma654]

Love this comment, couldn't have articulated it any other better way.

[@rosa629]

Dark, tall handsome was my taste... Now am moved to handsome whites, I love interracial, ladies pray for me, I trusting God for interacial marriage

[@torixx9910]

I’m fine could also mean let me process my emotions and then speak clearly to you when I’m ready. Also, if you don’t leave us alone we may say some not nice things which we don’t want to do.

[@LETSOALO_LIFEest2013]

hahahaha.. this was a fun one. Lerato represented majita well. My husband was so excited you asked those questions hahaha. Pheto did very well, we kept pausing and i answer first before you answer..then our answers are the same... The reason i used to fake orgasm is because i felt like i didnt want to bonk and the sooner we get over and done with the better. The easiest way to get over it is if i fake orgasm. I didnt have the guts to say i am not in the mood for bonk just not to hurt hubby and his ego. These guys always want to be "phakati inside" and rena ra lapa yoh. Bad boys are fun, the have vavavum bo good guy bana le go borrra hle. Whenever i am on my periods i put a disclamer " babe dont mind my moods, its that time" Overall 10/10 Pheto.

[@I.t.u.m.e.l.e.n.g]

I am fine😂 while they are tears in my eyes. As per usual love the yall👏🏾👏🏾

[@gracehlatshwayo2789]

Listen if the guy is taking too long to hit the spot I'm seriously going to fake it, hence that's after I tried to communicate or demonstrate where to touch or feel me🤷‍♀️ ( that was then I'm married now and thank to God sex life is great)

[@wewemhlaba7593]

You guys are so amazing😂😘😊I really love this channel can't believe we are on 45k.I was one of the first 5 subscribers.We've grown so much💝💝💝

[@thabosibanda4923]

Women want security from a man

[@soleilmutimunyuzwe4955]

Phetola made me also laugh 😂 specifically on the question of “does size matter “ it was indeed uncomfortable 😂😂! Am obsessed with this dream Team ❤️❤️You’re doing great guys

[@MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo]

I love Mr Makhs's facial expressions when wifey answers 🤣🤣🤣.. You guys though 🤩🤩🤩

[@Kuda_Kwashe]

I like manly man, they look strong, in charge and they carry a certain presence about them you know....... Definitely some hair. The brush kind. Clean yet providing some coverage Faking orgasms i agree with Pheto that sometimes the process is not achieving the objective and its going on forever lol. Rather lets end it than having to explain. So fake it esp if the man is not the kind that takes well to critisicm. I have seen also what works is discussing or raising the issue in a different and more relaxed setting than during the thing

[@gomop4649]

Shout out to us who comment before even watching the whole installment🤣🤣🤣❤❤

[@gaangalelwemofokeng5027]

Hi my people love you guys Yoh mosadi much marato very smart, lovely akitse ke tlhalose byang girl O ntsetse words first time I met you ko Buli Makhudo I just fell in love with you thanks to Buli for that,but a minute ke utlwa O mogul wa pitori ka re yes I knew it O botlhale Maan .Rena kamo Garankuwa bona rena lwena 100% .keep doing the most💞💞💞💞😘

[@michelleelias5336]

Phetola is right we want all things manly... dont be overly sensitive, be bufff enough to squeeze me when I cry, be tall enough for me to hide behind you when danger approaches, a lil hair down there, be dark mhani!!!

[@ntombizonkentuli3770]

Yohh such questions Pheto jeeezzzz Girl you were not ready🤣🤣🤣🤣. Next time know Lerato given a chance to ask questions He will not hold back🤣🤣🤣 be prepared from the hardest hardest most uncomfortable questions.

[@professoramutenya6195]

You guys are the best❤️ Much love from Namibia ❤️

[@thembinkosimakhanya6869]

Mr Makhs came through for the gents🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@BubuhleGobodo]

Phet really represented us well on this one❤️ I literally answered all the questions first, and she said the exact same thing!! She is me, I am her, we are one😂❤️

[@leratonkatswang9306]

Sis Phetola's laugh!! Love it

[@HerHighness160]

Its the consistency for me.. you guys are amazing..😍😍🔥 #notificationGang

[@keneilwemokoena9016]

About the emotions, Sesi Phetogo answered very well👌👌💯

[@keneilwemokoena9016]

I'm one of the women who want the good guy but date a bad boy, I think I'll help sesi Phetogo on that one.... My reason is that I feel as there is good in the bad boys even if they don't show it to everyone, plus they are over protective and gentle towards their women... But sometimes it's just exploring 😂😂😂

[@Sebongile_Baloyi]

I agree with Phetola bad guys are fun and always know how to make you want them even more. And good guys are normally real & never just do things to get what they want from you.

[@LethoHali]

Size matters. But there are guys who know how to use their small packages.

[@chubychix]

Aus Phetola you represented us well 😍. Completely cracked up when Lerato said he was dark because he was poor 🤣 😂😂

[@euldahrixile2518]

Did i not die when he ask does the size matter hahahahaa ses phetola you are really presenting us very well

[@Silly_tilly809]

Mr Makhs came guns blazing with these questions

[@thabi_lebothe]

Notification Gang 🔔 🎉 🥂 It's the consistency for me!!! 💥 DREAM TEAM

[@tshebeletsoselela5237]

with us it's always difficult , you just need to know how to deal with YOUR woman

[@andiswaedyantyi]

🤣🤣🤣Phetho's response on the size question, all women prefer a size 7 or 8 (if it were shoes) not too big not too small, re bad guys its chasing a thrill the drama of not knowing what's next its a bit crazy to be honest, plus some women are convinced they can straighten a bad boy and make him good.

[@boonaang]

I think the big size issue being a thing is because we just say it to bruise a man’s ego most of the time, like if you break my heart I would just say you have a small * just to make myself feel better...

[@believebecomedc3825]

Attacking the guy's ego to make yourself feel better seems like a sign of insecurity and immaturity.

[@boonaang]

@@believebecomedc3825 okay

[@Ipsydelic]

To me as an individual and as a woman who speaks on her behalf. Size doesn't matter, as long and "One" knows how to use it PROPERLY

[@nyeletimanganyi4197]

Size doesn't matter to me, I kinda feel like you've got to know what you doing still, i've been to both sides 😢 He could be bigger and have no clue on how to make you sexually happy, and he could be fairly small but do all it takes for you to be happy

[@asiphebekwaphi8547]

Gang gang we here!! It's the consistency for me♥️♥️ dankie fam

[@lucymburu155]

You really got her there 😂😂😂 why do women say they want good men and date bad boys 😠😠😠

[@ciciliaflanagan6390]

I I would say the emotional part. We would love men to know they can be vulnerable. Its ok. Society in general has killed our brothers and fathers with the saying cowboys dont cry. It's ok to say I am not ok guys.

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

True💯💯

[@olorato9563]

Sometimes the whole going for bad guy thing is really daddy issues manifesting themselves, or trauma from previous relationships, all you've ever known are these bad relations with the male gender... sexual relationship wise.

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

True‼️

[@Siphokazi_Fikeni]

I'm totally with you on looks. Indoda must be indoda...a manly man is attractive. When I met my husband he used to shave his entire beard off, I asked him to grow it and it just brought out that man in him made him look so yummy.

[@lithankepu]

Your questions dude😂😂! Lol the 1st one is so true, im usually hungry but not hungry. Also I genuinely say im not hungry just incase i ask for something that uguy feels is expensive and he didn budget for it. 😂❤️ Im fine means - probe more bhuti im not fine at all but u need to ask me about it maybe an hour or so later. 😂👏🏻 Well done Phetola u doing a great job with the answers. Spot on💡❤️

[@primrosedianahnatukunda861]

I enjoy Phetolaz laughter..it's my highlight🤸🤸🤣🤣

[@blessjoy]

Hei mara!!!these questions are hard🙈😅but you represented us well.

[@jemimahbondo567]

You definitely represented us well!!!

[@wethujonga8681]

Love it for the Makhs!!! And the new intro 😍😍😍

[@rudymutoya6175]

Pheto did really well.#representing.

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

I agree with you

[@ithabeleng83]

Does size matter? Yes and No. Yes because if they don't know how to use it then the size will need to make up for it. No because it could be small but the guy has talent.

[@Pabistar]

Awww fam🤭! Thanks for the shout out😁💃. Ke le rata hurree❤❤! Just to add to Pheto's answer, I think security is very important and not just financial security but emotionally, spiritually and physically as well. To know that he's got me covered, no matter what and he has my back. That makes me feel safe.

[@1Nubien]

For some of us women size does matter for others it does they just want to know you can give them pure pleausre at all times.

[@KeabetsweMahoro24]

Well Represented... Just to add on the food question, I sometimes would say I'm full because I'm not sure about the meal I want to have and once my partner orders his then I start eating what he ordered for himself.

[@sanelemjoli4877]

Haha Lerato udlisa iTeam why did you gain complexion? The Great I AM loves you

[@motheowalerato701]

😁😁

[@luciaaffinity5732]

Also indoda e thanda i attention on social media hai hai hai🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@zandilemiya3930]

Character! Character! That is so true a man of His word

[@leratomatlala9716]

Bad boys are fun, spontaneous, don't follow rules..say the right things ..it's exciting for a while then ends in tears

[@b_reshoketswe2777]

😂😂 well sesi Pheto you answered well👏🏾

[@rethasebata3718]

I was passing by and I saw this channel I like ur channel guys

[@Shka_maru]

"Whats the most important thing a woman looks for in a man?" She gave the answer what they SHOULD look for, but lets be real....that isn't what a lot of women actually think about initially or at all

[@jekmzee]

Glad to hear that many men face the same questions and women somehow react the same way.. “ I’m fine”, then why did you not ask me what was wrong… Glad to know we are not strange 😂😂

[@preciouschokoe9695]

Nna setshego sa Sis Phetogo sa mpolaya🤣🤣🤣

[@ameliamathebula6213]

Happy Heritage Day Family

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Happy Heritage to you everyone 🥰

[@meesheeli9107]

Personally I don't think size matters, as long as you know how to work what you have.💀

[@NkuliX]

Another response to Question 1. We are -lovely dovey - NEEDY -we want to be in your space,-what's yours is mine...

[@nompilomazibuko4615]

"I was poor"😂😂😂😂😂

[@motlalepulamonnapula8245]

"I'm fine" means I am not fine and I don't want to talk to you but I still want your attention.

[@dimainspire957]

I love Phetola she's so authentic ❤

[@bulumkobulumko652]

Molweni Molweni Wonder if i can get Pheto's email adress,PLEASE PLEASE

[@LETSOALO_LIFEest2013]

My husband says Lerato put a proud posture when Pheto commended him that he is a "good lover, putting her needs first"..Big ups Lerato a lot of women don't reach the orgasm stage because ga ba considerate ba inaganela bale 1

[@neotau9535]

Size should not matter it's the motion in the ocean. Every woman has their own preferences. Are men not over protective over their packages in public bathroom spaces and the gym? Woman are more comfortable in front of each other.

[@rumbieguveya6186]

Loving the Current Intro Guys,My 9yr old stopped in her tracks and was like "Mummy I love it" 🔥