A particularly personal share today - this was 8 years ago for those that asked - hope everyone is well - new shop open for USA subscribers now 👍 👉 SUBSCRIBE: www.youtube.com/@thenakedguruthailand 👉 MAIN CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/@LifeInRuralThailand 👉 OUR FULL STORY IN UNDER 20 MINS: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bJTXlXqApqeUi8k 👉 OUR COTTAGE BUILD: tinyurl.com/bdd8uh3a 👉 COSTS OF LIVING IN THAILAND 2024: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rYjLn6Zof5Z_rtksi=5MQb89Nykwfsjaml 👉 PATREON: www.patreon.com/lifeinbamboo
@farshimelt Жыл бұрын
84 yrs. old, 10 yrs. retired in Thailand. I met my Thai wife in Australia in 1958. We parted and she found me in 2013, came to the US and we married and moved to Thailand. With all the annoyances of living in Thailand, she has taken care of me. Looked out for me and is very protective of me. I've never met another woman like her. If you find a good Thai woman, never let her go. Stay out of the bars, you won't find one there.
@acajudi100 Жыл бұрын
I will be 81 in October, and can still take care of myself..Thank God. Many people have been killed by spouses for retirement and assets, and ex pats have done the same. I give to none beggars, but I kept my money in my bank account. I live in Queretaro, but I have to be alert no matter where I live. Happy I never had a drug or alcohol problem. Thank God. I listened to my elders, and I obeyed, and I watch how others mess up their lives, and I learn not to be them. I kept written, audio, and video journals.
@jamescalifornia2964 Жыл бұрын
@@acajudi100😳❗️Oh my ...
@BlueSky-td9in Жыл бұрын
@@alexdeonversaagdeơi
@jamesmcglynn5825 Жыл бұрын
Thai women are a bunch of lying , cheating whores , all they want is your money and will do anything they need too , to get it
@michaelchristophergutierre7244 Жыл бұрын
Awesome love story and great advice❤
@stevecoombes4822 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am 73 years old so know how life is filled with cycles. Like you, my Thai wife of 25 years has stuck with me through a couple of them and we now live in Chayaphum province in a house we built and love more than anywhere else. I have never been happier :)
@luceinbattaglia9425 Жыл бұрын
❤🔝👏
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Congrats Steve!
@RajanatTitan Жыл бұрын
Southeast Asia is the best place to retire. Recommend Vietnam and the Philippines, also Indonesia because the people understand English much better than those of Thailand
@zandig666 Жыл бұрын
Great story sir !!
@wanderingdoc5075 Жыл бұрын
@@RajanatTitanI'm 38 years old, well-travelled, and I'm going to Vietnam for a month and then the Philippines for a year. Anything I should look out for? How is the heat
@TuesdayLR Жыл бұрын
You've not lost everything, you still have your family so keep up the good work lad.
@gordonthomson3070 Жыл бұрын
You can’t please everyone, just make sure you please yourself. Your lady is an absolute diamond mate, hold her close ❤️
@hippychik Жыл бұрын
so relate to your story Ryan.. 21 years sober here and grateful.. spent the first half of my life in bars and night clubs etc.. was my life and it nearly destroyed me but through some sheer tenacity and AA I'm able to write this today.. i started drinking at the age of 12 to numb some very deep hurts that was happening.. I'm now 56 and own 25 acres in the mountains of NZ with a menagerie of animals living mostly off grid married to a good soul.. grateful to have built myself back up from self destruction and also grateful for the lessons i went through.. built me into who i am today.. at peace with myself and life.. awesome vlog my friend.. much love to you Damo and Tis and Hugo.. 💜🦋🥀
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Big love Hippy, kindred spirits 🙏🙏🙏
@mototouro Жыл бұрын
No fancy editing, no drone shots. J cuts, L cuts, mood music, nothing!. And I watched it all the way through! Thank you for sharing. A very touching story that far too many of us can relate to.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@genevievemattie6017 Жыл бұрын
It's not how many times you fall, it's how many times you get back up. You have been blessed with a great lesson. You are young and can start again many times. I am starting again at 70. Just get up and keep going.
@RickyIsaan Жыл бұрын
Great story Ryan. I'm glad you conquered your addiction and managed to bounce back in life and be in the postion you are now with your family. Seeing the damage alcohol can do as child is the reason I don't drink at all today.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Congrats on that Ricky, hope all is well!
@robert9248 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed listening to your story. I met a woman in Bangkok, a school teacher, and came back to visit her many times as the years went by. After four years, we gotmarried after the Covid lockdown was over. I was retired but worked an addition year in 2021 and had a well paying job. She was from a rural area in Eastern Thailand called Sisaket. Her family were farmers and she had a plot of land of her own. Therefore, I contributed to the property by building a two bedroom house. We moved in two months ago, it is finished but we have a metal gate and metal tops to be installed on our front wall. We did completely inclose our property with a brick and concrete wall. I have lovedThailand since my first visit in 1969 visiting from the Vietnam war. I could tell you are a bright young lad, well because you knew the first law of thermodynamics. The other thing you said that caught my ear was about not being the same person as when you were young. I wrote a poem once about that. “My children are dead though they sleep soundly in their bed…They were replaced by ones that grow…But I can help missing those young ones so.” By Robert D. Womack
@zandig666 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed reading your comment sir ✌️✌️😄😄✌️✌️
@mrboogang Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so raw and honest mate. I'm currently going through a similar thing at the moment, coming through the other side now, but COVID and being made redundant after 15 years all at the same time, almost destroyed me. All whilst trying to find a new job, paying a mortgage and raising kids. It's not easy, and yes, it nearly destroyed me. Your self esteem, self worth and self confidence take a massive canon hit. Glad I'm almost through it now though. And, I pretty much did it all alone. Never mentioned a word to anyone.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Keep at it brother, there is a higher purpose
@jeffedwards5028 Жыл бұрын
I applaud you for your honesty Ryan. Thank you Jeff.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jeff 🙏🙏
@adrianw5219 Жыл бұрын
Takes a lot to open yourself to others and keep it real. So well done
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thanks Adrian 🙏🙏
@GotoHere Жыл бұрын
Having traveled to Thailand regularly since mid 1980s. A common pattern I’ve seen, is a foreigner would open bar/restaurant. Spend $200k+ USD on a huge restaurant. Have seating for 100-200 people. And charge $3 USD for a bottle of Leo and $12 USD for a meal. Have 4 to 6 customers on a Saturday night. You can’t compete with that business plan.
@tammyiwaniski Жыл бұрын
Your honesty and openness is just beautiful and always appreciated ❤️. Love n blessings to you, Damo, kids and the whole family🙏🙏🙏
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tammy, always appreciate your comments 🙏🙏
@nikkimclay5474 Жыл бұрын
Damo is tough & hard working like her mum !
@nikkimclay5474 Жыл бұрын
@@lifeinruralthailand or you Ryan ! omg the last shot was you in your lounge days ?! I couldnt recognise you ! Would love to see some video of you playing from back then ! You are both very special & inspiring humans !
@krelldragon151 Жыл бұрын
My wife of 30 years divorced me last Christmas. It was unexpected and I died awhile but got back as what you said about yours. I suffered general anxiety disorder over a decade and got its worst during Covid. My mood changes, frustrated, fearful and dispirited. I have a violent temper and much have to be blamed on myself causing the divorce. At first, I couldn’t accept it but with help from some good souls (was lucky), I picked myself up and found I am now reborn and aspiring to live my last phase of life retiring in a place like yours in north-east Thailand. I chanced upon your video while following vlogger (Ben from the UK) in the video “Living in Thailand” where he built a house in Nong Bua Lamphu. Life shouldn’t be complicated and tied to many ‘things’. We live in a consumerism world and got trapped !
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story, you may enjoy out many channel Ryan & Mo life in rural Thailand where we also have a build for inspiration. Sounds like you are born a new can be happy again 🙏
@jomontanee Жыл бұрын
Such an inspiring story! Thank you so much.🙏🙏 What is the channel of Ben?
@alanconroy Жыл бұрын
Ryan you are wise beyond your years, thanks for sharing these life lessons, your journey is inspiring.
@tometiger47 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Ryan, it brought certain parts of my life back to me and struggles I have faced and overcome.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@betweendrinks8885 Жыл бұрын
I too had a drinking issue for years ( also lost a brother in Thailand 8 years ago) I still have a couple of beers but my partner of Ten years got me to chill out Meditation some times - gratitude practice / Rural farm life - “” The universe gives you what you need in order to learn” glad you’ve found inner peace
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about your brother 🙏🇹🇭
@emptyemptiness8372 Жыл бұрын
Full respect to Damo, bro that sort of loyalty is so rare it is more precious than all the gold in the world. You are truely rich.
@soudee29 Жыл бұрын
I’m ready for your book to come out. Hopefully I can get it in the states. I have a drinking problem now and would like to overcome it like you.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
You will be able to get it in the states, for now i may recommend you take a look at johns hopkins research into psilocybin
@HawaiiGuy614 Жыл бұрын
Ah man this one really hit me with a dose of humility. I've been through a similar path, in recovery, and have a Thai woman who has also stayed through it all. I got off of most social media because it's always "glamorous and show boating." I look forward to the book.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the recovery brother and sounds like you got a goo done too 🙏🙏
@little_engine_goes_to_Thailand Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing. I have a similar story also involving F&B (my own shop) and alcohol. Now in Thailand and 2 years sober.
@robbie5413 Жыл бұрын
That was a beautifully human story and one I can relate to. I find the temptation of alcohol is even greater in Thailand and it is easier to drink everyday. Life is much better without alcohol especially for those who can't control it like myself. Thanks for another interesting vlog
@HawaiiGuy614 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's the truth.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Cheers Robbie 🙏🙏
@JanetEdwards-m9y Жыл бұрын
You are amazing. I agree with you 100%. Lived here in Issan for 12 yrs on and off. Now here permanent. I've met some shit Farlangs. I'm here alone among all the wonderful people😊
@little_engine_goes_to_Thailand Жыл бұрын
Exactly- alcohol everywhere here and I made it a point to quit before arriving in Thailand. I met a chap on the beach the other day and he said the amound of people that he knew and dropped dead here in Thailand was absolutely crazy. If left unhinged - Thailand is the worst place to be.
@kevwanders Жыл бұрын
Really commend the honesty of this guy!. Find your Channel by chance and tryna' keep up on your postings, Im alil bit behind but Thanks so much sharing and showing the things we need to know in Thailand. This could saved lives for sure. ❤
@ItsReallyMe. Жыл бұрын
Well done sharing all this Ryan. Great vid.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙏
@andreweldridge900 Жыл бұрын
Dear Ryan 100% Respect
@benharber8139 Жыл бұрын
Really pleased I found this enjoyed listening to your story named guru … looking to vist Thailand soon for a month I have found a female friend to show me around and hoping to meet her family so looking forward to that . Going to be doing a little tour of the areas . Hopefully I will love it and mabey settle out there who knows thanks for sharing your stories ❤🙏👍🏻
@androidtablet1082 Жыл бұрын
Your video appeared in my timeline today (by chance, I guess?)... started watching and your story rang a bell... then you mentioned Damo (sorry, I haven't watched any of your vids until today!).... Damo.... Ryan... Hua Hin..... English school... Saxphone Bar.... OMG! You and I didn't have a great deal of contact (though I do remember one somewhat heated school meeting LOL), but I worked with Damo for quite some time (super-lovely lady). So glad to see that you are both doing well and are settled and happy... and babies! Best of luck to both of you and so happy to see you back on your feet after losing it all. Been there, done that (too many times already)
@kimswartz2463 Жыл бұрын
Wow!! Ryan i really didnt recognize the guy at the end --as you-- // with that thousand yard stare & the rockstar look[[vibe]]going on // i wouldnt have thought that was you at all // probly too bc you have no hair to speak of//& now you do // but looking at you now i would have never guessed// you looked like you were in a really dark place but you look so much more happier & content now // happy for you //that (you) & the universe 🌌 & a solid wife helped put your life life back on track & turned your what you call your personal failures into (silver linnings )of those dark days (clouds)into todays sucess & valuable life lessons learned //its been enlightening knowing you didnt come by everything through some thai 🇹🇭//mystical magic // but you worked & struggled very hard to get where you are today & had alot of help & support along your journey// thank you for your honesty in this video// ive been so mad at myself for not getting further in life as i think i should & be in a position in life like you are im nearing retirement now & not happy with the state of things so i know i have to make big changes // you had alot of courage to move to thailand🇹🇭 id like to have that much courage
@salqubeq5203 Жыл бұрын
Good walk & talk. All organic & no lies. Honesty is the best policy (although difficult to do in real world). Good start for this channel
@nenadnedovic9246 Жыл бұрын
Interesting outlook my man. I lived a terrible life and hit rock bottom its hard to dig yourself out. Blessings to all.
@michaelj2528 Жыл бұрын
Damo what a lady she is to stay with you though all that , well thats true love . As you say some of us go through hard times in our lives like you did , as i am myself right now . Its inspiring that you came through it all so thank you for sharing is part of your life
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Cheers as always Michael
@leonards.9112 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed watching the dogs who followed along. They seemed so happy.
@donxz2555 Жыл бұрын
Very honest and open vlog, been in that place and by choice. Not touched booze for over 40 years (except for an occasional shandy 2% vol and Irish coffee at Christmas) Your a lucky lad in that you had a extremely supportive wife at your side. Carry on with the vlogs always informative
@gavindonaldson9124 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Ryan, I respect your honesty, and life experience. Most people would find it hard to talk about failure and addiction but you summed it up brutally straight forward. I always enjoy watching you guys around your paradise. We have a slice of the same, but only get to enjoy it 3 to 4 months of the year as we are based in New Zealand .My wife's Mum , with help from loyal workers and relatives help maintain the property. And Hugo , he is growing !!!. Take care
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thanks Gavin - appreciate the feedback 🙏🙏🙏
@rahasiaaustria Жыл бұрын
👍👏👏👏Thanks for your honesty! Hope your book will be selling very well!!!
@jaimeb2339 Жыл бұрын
Appreciate the honesty. A life lesson to those who come to Thailand and think everything is going to be fantastic.
@davidparker2173 Жыл бұрын
I think you have some real good dogs. They have their friends, and a lot of play and adventure in that rural area. It looks like you are doing OK now. What a calm rural area.
@danielfruhauf90522 ай бұрын
You really speak the truth and are on the right path, I think, I have also learned my lessons in Thailand and see it similarly to you. good health and happiness for you and your family
@buddybro1000 Жыл бұрын
Your story hits home with with me, Im 54 years old and have a soon to be Thai wife and 4 year old daughter that lives in Surin. I hope to meet you someday.
@crosbyong Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so candid.
@hawkeyenz Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing from the heart. I'm sure your story has touched and will touch many people.
@Kevin_Daley17 күн бұрын
Currently in Thailand and slowly working my way through your content … finding that it is really starting to sway me towards leaving the UK for good (again) and setting up in another country. Thank you for being a voice of reason.🙏
@FRED-gx2qk Жыл бұрын
Good Man thanks for Sharing Upwards and Onwards 😎
@robertvangsgaard2050 Жыл бұрын
I really like The calmness and around your channel..
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thanks Robert 🙏🙏
@DiabloValleyPeds Жыл бұрын
As I get older, I look back and I think I am more shaped by failure and loss vs success and gain. I think we do better when we struggle and fight for things that are important. Good on you for be reflective and learning from your dark experiences!
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Quite right my friend
@livinb450 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your personal tale. The booze just takes over. You have a wonderful lady, and congrats on how you've come around and what you are doing now.
@margarettownsley9500 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic vlog Ryan it’s very true we are different people from what we were in our teenage years and when we get broken in spirit from one thing or another we are different people again as certain things change us forever loosing can be a good thing even though it may not feel like it at the time but fate is a funny thing or is it Gods better plan for us who knows thank you for sharing your journey
@APPA1 Жыл бұрын
Hi mate, good to hear about your past life experiences, you certainly lived your dreams, no one can take those away from us. As we've lived through those past life chapters, for good or for bad. For me alcohol always given me negative energy but I still tend to drink but not very often due to its after effects. I admire how you adapted to a rural Issan life, you have a beautiful family. Seems now your on a spiritual path, enlightened by your creativity, academia, good luck mate, enjoy your attitude, honesty, self awareness in reaching out towards others, cheers.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thanks and appreciate the show of support 👍🙏
@WalkingmanPattaya Жыл бұрын
As the saying goes, "Alcohol, the cause and the solution to all life's problems" Exaggerations and "stories" abound here in Pattaya, normally it is all in fun, but if not, time to walk on. Am so happy to hear Damo stayed with you through your hardships and you made it to where you are now. Hugo's eyes are so mystical, beautiful, and wondrous. Shaman trance! 555 Stay healthy and happy all You keep it real Ryan.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Cheers my friend
@pierremorin4775 Жыл бұрын
Good video thanks
@Bartwon Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this so honestly - refreshing
@leannewheeler4192 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and opening up about a very tough time in your life.
@brentritchie6199 Жыл бұрын
Not easy to admit your mistakes and especially failures well done young man you obviously did learn a lot from the experience.
@davidspillane8753 Жыл бұрын
Just joined watched a few enjoyed your honesty and thanks for sharing your life I think we are quite similar you where your heart on your sleeve keep your head up your doing a great job Dave
@corriezietsman7061 Жыл бұрын
I really respect you Ryan!!!!!! Keep up your good work!!
@JohnDoe-zz3hj Жыл бұрын
I stopped by for the dogs, massive pot fields , kewl
@nicolaus9443 Жыл бұрын
A touching story, I'm glad you got out well. Greeting from Switzerland
@brendataylor8388 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Ryan!
@jessjackson5715 Жыл бұрын
Awsome bud ..dig it 100 % .. thank you ..
@drobinbarker Жыл бұрын
Absolutely fabulous candor and testament to the successful growth you have achieved in your life!
@krystalriverflow Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed your story.... when you give yourself everything then Life flows out of YOU from the inside to everything on the outside
@iandann8788 Жыл бұрын
been here 20 years ,living in a very rural area . finally you get wise to it ,how it works out here , the stories I could tell
@cathyac8545 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful life story Ryan. It shows what a real couple you and damo are. You stay through thick and thin when you love someone. Glad you are on the other side now and you and damo are reaping the rewards with your lifestyle 😘😍
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you Cathy 🙏🙏
@lizhaydon2250 Жыл бұрын
Admitting frailties is good for the sole. Good for you all.
@nisamccollum5030 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling your story 😊
@stevenrossgoldstein1693 Жыл бұрын
Hey bro. I lived in Ubon Ratatchani for a couple years but am back home in the states now. I landed on your video and really needed the message. Thanks for your story
@kumwengmak9900 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you for sharing your earlier challenges !
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@martinpeacocke8968 Жыл бұрын
A great video! Life is cycles of ups and downs. Everything is temporary. While we could do without the downs. I find I learned the most from my mistakes not in the great times. It helped me learn what is really important in life and have a plan B. Being truthful is much easier than hiding things by omission.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Exactly 👍🙏
@craigchislett71 Жыл бұрын
Respect buddy!thanks for sharing.
@CryptoGrifters Жыл бұрын
Love the honesty, I need to keep a watch the booze next visit
@dianecandoflamtaps9557 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honest story of success and failure, and your struggles with alcohol. I too struggle. Continue enjoying life and moving forward. ❤
@gogetter8866 Жыл бұрын
Nope,,, it was not a rant. This was a given moment to “listen”! To pay attention. Very informative thank you.
@DMDyoutube123 Жыл бұрын
Health is wealth … great story and very honest .
@dennisevans47397 ай бұрын
Refreshing honesty... self reveal... thank you for sharing.
@scottsurgener3423 Жыл бұрын
Cool! I enjoyed that vlog.
@littlerubster Жыл бұрын
I like you man. Brilliant vid. I don't even know how I came across it but what an insight.
@Kognito727 ай бұрын
Your wife is amazing! I love hearing your life story. Thank you!
@returntothailand Жыл бұрын
Learning means you got it right. My Dad was an alcholic and it ruined his later years and took years off of his life. Keep up the good work.
@TRICK-OR-TREAT236 Жыл бұрын
I LOST MY MIND IN THAILAND SEVERAL YEARS AGO AND I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR IT EVER SINCE.
@stevecarr1992 Жыл бұрын
Bar Girls will tend to do that to people, esp. with a little alcohol mixed in.
@josharound Жыл бұрын
Your awareness is legendary, thank you ❤
@graemeaylward8313 Жыл бұрын
Wow Ryan you are an amazing guy and have done so much in your young life. Your philosophy on life shapes who you are at this moment in time and other factors will influence you as you get older and experience other life events. In many ways I wish that I had realised the way I now live earlier in my life, but then I wouldn't have been the person I am now without going through all the changing scenes of life. We evolve through our mistakes and failures plus our successes. There are no shortcuts in life and being honest with ourselves and others and admitting who we are, in my opinion, leads us to finding our own happiness and the happiness of those we love. God bless you today and every day and keep you evolving with all those you love. 🙏❤😀
@internationalfranchisealli5547 Жыл бұрын
Good honest work. Staying humble is the key
@wendykinsey-o6x Жыл бұрын
You are a fine man Ryan and your videos are excellent. A good story teller you! And by that I mean you hold the interest of the listener. Good sharing on alcohol and how fast you can spiral down. Look at you now. May your life be blessed as it even was because of that experience.
@doughawkins2821 Жыл бұрын
I'm new to Thailand and newly married to a Thai lady. I was scrolling through clips and watched "How I lost everything", great testimony. I'm an alcoholic/addict stopped drugs 40 years ago, drinking 20 years ago. No matter what happens to me, I see the challenges in life as opportunities to grow wiser, stronger and for me to increase my faith. I don't have what I used to have, but I am living the dream, the best part of my life. I commend you for sharing, we definitely make a difference by doing so. Doug
@patdwyer8262 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the absolutely wonderful message. I am many seasons older than you, and have done many big things. I no longer have to "hurt people", as I am retired. I can be myself. That management shit is for the birds, I would rather herd cats. Thank you for sharing a piece of yourself. (How many of your listeners are worthy of hearing that message .... but being Bhuddhist, I get it). Best wishes to you and your family. Perhaps someday our paths cross.
@cheecharoo8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story mate
@collegeofcool8109 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video. Thank you.
@TheMagicofJava Жыл бұрын
Ryan I hope you don't mind me asking you how long it has taken you to find peace? I am a British ex-pat in Indonesia and have a similar journey. For me it manifested itself as being a victim of black magic, for some 12 years. But I have come to recognise that despite very real and disturbing evidence of black magic and its effects they are simply a reflection of my own fear. The only way to rid myself of this experience and thinking is to completely release my past and embrace the present. I am very happy leading a simple life in the mountains of Java, but my step daughters are in Jakarta where my wife wants to be. Embracing the present means understanding and committing to my loving Indonesian family. Whilst few ex-pats actually experience what I have, so many of us have a similar journey and the baggage we bring comes out in many strange ways.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
All that is required is to know who you are. At this point there is peace. But it can only be realized now.
@TheMagicofJava Жыл бұрын
Yes indeed, mine has been a journey of knowing myself and loving myself, understanding that so much of my baggage was not my own. That this goes back to what I had assumed was a normal childhood and remained with me throughout my 50+ years in the UK. I think this is the baggage we all bring with us as ex-pats, most of us refuse to confront it. But it would seem that more important forces have forced both of us to confront our own shadow.
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Beyond that story there is a deeper level of self that has nothing to do with childhood or this birth. Knowing who you are is knowing that you are not just this body, or this expression. 🙏
@TheMagicofJava Жыл бұрын
@@thenakedguru I love our response Ryan, a response that few dualists can get their head around. It would seem that we have both been very much affected by the belief systems of our adopted SE Asia countries. I took my family to Bangkok for the New Year, it now being cheaper for Indonesians to visit than Bali. We were all struck by the massive spiritual similarities and indeed practices between our two nations. Indeed, my wife burst into tears at the Golden Buddha. We were brought back to reality by an Australian pointing out that Thailand is Buddhist, Bali is Hindu and we were Muslim. We were therefore personally responsible for many atrocities in the world. But as non-dualist these are meaningless man-made constructs.
@TheThailightZone Жыл бұрын
I am glad you turned your life around Ryan 🙏 ขอให้โชคดี
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@starryspicytacgogh4331 Жыл бұрын
Just stumbled upon your channel. I enjoy listening to your insights and musings. When do you expect to release your book? Is there a way to get notified?
@cameronpickard7456 Жыл бұрын
just came accross this video how refreshing i hold honesty in high regard subbed straight away looking forward to more of tour talks,regatds from canada
@thenakedguru Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel 🙏
@cameronpickard7456 Жыл бұрын
ok@@thenakedguru
@martinomelbourne2714 Жыл бұрын
Good for you for sharing that.
@atulkapur9829 Жыл бұрын
Entertaining. Honest. Inspirational. Educational. Absolutely loved every second of your video mate. All the best
@kitjaw803 Жыл бұрын
Your experience will be your greatest wisdom…The best thing have not yet to come in to your life…so admired by you and your family…Best of luck!
@mattalford389 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your honest assessment Ryan! And I agree, these experiences in life shape us. It's what makes us more mature and empathetic too.
@auntyann6575 Жыл бұрын
Very frank confession. You are doing well now. Congratulations on your having a happy family. 😊
@Vastapha Жыл бұрын
I love your content because you are telling us a very honest story of each content you post .. your family is beautiful.. keep going ! Can’t wait to grab a copy of your book in making
@bijanguitar Жыл бұрын
Just subscribed to your channel. Thank you for your post. I enjoyed listening to your stories and benefitted from your wisdom.