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[@theGrayArea2]

The tragedy in this story is her husband is a 40yr old man who wants to lift a Tahoe 😭😭😭

[@tomrado5249]

Ya no kidding 🤢

[@Migglesworth]

The tragedy in this story is that she is married to a 40yr old little BOY. Hey, all you males out there who think there is nothing wrong with this? Yeah, I'm calling you spoiled little BOYS. You are still playing with your trucks and your video games and your other toys, when you should have become a MAN a long time ago.

[@chcarroll5164]

the $8K would be better spent on a divorce

[@llexcusesll7933]

Being single isn’t so bad

[@jaya.0069]

Exactly! And I'll stay that way without any BS...

[@bryson3401]

I love it. Lol

[@nicole4779]

llExcusesll 😂😂😂ikr

[@catsmama1001]

Yeah if my husband suggested that, I would be delivering divorce papers.

[@LGnLA]

💯👏👏💯👏👏💯👏👏💯

[@ithacacomments4811]

I was married to a man child and it took me 12 years to recover financially after we divorced. I paid every penny that I owed. God forgives but He doesn't always take away the consequences.

[@chrisavgisourgoutsis2568]

No truer words have been spoken. Glad you are now free.

[@Mags765]

Amen

[@saiga12forme88]

Well said.

[@rachelgooden9981]

Deep!

[@Faust_saint]

Not very Christ like of you

[@unique32journalist]

Pack him a suitcase and send him back to his mother. She needs to finish raising him. 😂

[@natas0733]

Back to his father. He needs to begin raising him cuz he never did.

[@AndyinMTL]

I hope his mama whoop him with a leather belt while she’s at it! He needs it

[@AndyinMTL]

I hope his mama whoop him with a leather belt while she’s at it! He needs it

[@user-ot7jd9dt7t]

Looool

[@jacquelinevega8495]

That’s what I did to my husband , best thing I ever did. Just me and my 2 year old now and better than ever !!

[@NickPeitsch]

Don’t buy things you can’t afford with money you don’t have to impress people you don’t like. This simple concept applies to 99% of these people’s situations.

[@andytaylor1588]

It's rocket surgery, right? It certainly is easier on the outside of it. "FEELS" tend to obscure the logic.

[@Macheako]

Bruh...come on...you white...I KNOW you've heard that old saying "Knowing is ONLY half the battle" Now why you think that was such a popular saying in history lolol

[@Macheako]

But dude, for what its worth....you TOTALLY got the "Knowing" part down 💯 lol

[@JK20239]

Human behavior is more complex than sociology 101.

[@robzzzzzz1]

And don’t impress people you do like either !

[@MrWatchmen759]

Choose your spouse very carefully. Debt free and single for me until I find what I’m looking For

[@donnawheeler2195]

Hubby and I made an agreement not to buy anything if we can’t pay cash for it. That means saving.

[@pw5146]

We did too. We really want new furniture but until we can pay cash for it we'll just wait. I hate the idea of putting furniture on credit or payments

[@JohnDoe-fm6md]

But how are you guys going to put $8,000 lift kits on your new trucks???

[@Ant0417]

8k on a credit card for a lift kit on a Tahoe, while making 55k in CA and drowning in debt. It’s hard to believe there are grown ups who think this way.

[@xyzsame4081]

The only excuse would be borderline - being maniac.

[@ghost-adventure-timewith-s2285]

No one there is. They always used to having people solve their money issue when younger so they don’t care when adults. The mentality of everything will resolve itself out will come to a rude awakening soon.

[@roseother8306]

Owing $8k already and they just GOT the credit card! She watched that happen.

[@Mombal5]

58k in Ca is poverty status. I live in California and even 100k is. Hard to live on over here. What a mess they are in!

[@wordsrwind22]

“Hi Dave, calling for your advice because we didn’t follow your advice”

[@FlyingMalamute]

Her husband sounds like a scammer by nature. Very hard to fix such bad character.

[@2HootHoot]

The fact that he has that kind of mentality is alarming to me

[@DrogoBaggins987]

That way of thinking is common in some circles. I came from a mean little hillbilly town and that sort of thinking was not hard to find.

[@arohawaaka6255]

Id have walked with that statement. He's a thief

[@DrogoBaggins987]

@@arohawaaka6255 If you would have walked with that one then you never would have gotten into this situation. I guarantee that many things have revealed this part of his character before they even got married. The weave in the fabric of a persons character can't really be hidden for long. And that means that she has breezed past many things like this in the past and what she says about him is probably also true abut aspects of her own character.

[@arohawaaka6255]

@@DrogoBaggins987 You are absolutely right there on all points. I think she may have only just started to realise how bad this relationship is.

[@ShadeMiller]

@Bonnie Holman so people should never have a chance to get better again because of one idiot?

[@pimpballer3]

Bank will be using this video as evidence

[@Kevin_Roche]

The banks don't watch Dave Ramsey 😂

[@Michael-vf2mw]

@@Kevin_Roche hahahaha, valid point

[@martinshoosterman]

Tbh no they wont

[@scott4825]

If they cared, but it seems like they'd rather take the hit than go after minor ($$$ amount) fraud.

[@oneandone2744]

That lady doesn't need a "financial university", she needs to dump the gangster as quick as she can and get a life. People who are stealing in their fifties will never change.

[@timothyfinn905]

when debt comes in the door love goes out the window.

[@wildflowersmile3224]

I am going to have to disagree. My parents were married 47 years when my dad passed and they endured debt, foreclosure, business failures, cancer, a heart attack, untimely deaths of their parents, and more and it only brought them closer together. I have never seen such a loving and committed couple. It all depends on what kind of couple you are speaking of.

[@pinkgal206]

Lol

[@ceciliapreziose3783]

this isn't debt. It is stealing Dave is right........she is not overwhelmed, she is afraid

[@vladamirkb1]

When marriage makes you a partner in crime.

[@marvinabigby5509]

Sad but true

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

I rly hope not Totally hope a fair judge would see her side

[@CJG1419]

My dad did that when I was 10 years old. I saw his clay feet for the first time in my childhood. It was mortifying

[@sierra7534]

Clay feet? What does that even mean?

[@jeanlenor1858]

There's a lot of 54 year old children. I never saw that coming.

[@Thatperson2-u7u]

I see them everywhere, sadly

[@privateprivate8366]

There are children that are older than that also. My mother is in her mid-seventies and she has a hard time convincing me that I need to wait on her, hand and foot as, some of my coworkers might be around her age and they work and can do the job.

[@Jane5720]

There are a lot of people that are very immature at that age oh, there's some people that never never never mature and grow up

[@SummeRain783]

I met one recently. Total man child

[@NickPeitsch]

Dave is completely right. This is an immaturity issue!

[@360BLK]

My aunt and uncle did the something similar. They knew my uncle was getting a job transfer to Germany. Ran up a stupid amount of debt, defaulted and ran to Germany. Now we get harassed by their creditors.

[@76482]

My brother and his wife did it and unfortunately their plan worked. He is a veteran so even with ruined credit they were still able to get VA loan on a new house.

[@fleurelise997]

Report the creditors for harassment. Threaten to sue, it's against the law to harass anyone over debt.

[@buffymcmuffin5361]

Thanks for calling out that Thief.

[@jacosisaba]

Sounds like someone who would want a lift kit on a Tahoe.

[@nicksincredibleopinion]

2 combined incomes in California with college degrees is 55k? What?! What was the point of college?

[@mida8261]

Which only brings us back to Nick's point as to why bother going to college.

[@koreypaul6698]

I thought they were still going to school...

[@EmpressMermaid]

Actually I did hear her say one of them was currently going to school.

[@barbieblue3336]

Why everyone paying 2021 tuition, making 1981 wages?

[@JK20239]

This is dave ramsey not dr. Phil...lol

[@iluvrachellef]

🤣🤣⚰⚱

[@cristalcruzzin1756]

honeslty lol thats what i always say

[@stalstonestacy4316]

When you're married debt is a two-person problem

[@blakeb4583]

Divorce this man-child IMMEDIATELY. He will cause both of y’all to be poor your entire life.

[@emilyc1988]

100%

[@audm.5946]

Blake B Divorce seems to be the answer when things start to go badly. Bad advise and not what God wants. Marriage counseling, yes.

[@blakeb4583]

Aud M. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Most people are married to people they shouldn’t even be married to in the first place-this ain’t about God disapproving, this about helping yourself by removing toxic people from your life.

[@davem4193]

@@audm.5946 my ex wife took out credit cards in my name without my approval. She hid the bills from me. She maxed them out without my knowledge as well. No amount of marriage counseling is going to turn a thief into a good person. I chose to divorce her and my life is 100 times better without her.

[@accountcompromised2166]

Exactly, He seems like an ignorant husband. Unable, to think strategically long term. This man is reckless living in the moment, Im pretty sure he's just as sloppy when it comes to his wedding vows.

[@jimroscovius]

Marriage is wonderful, when you have it together. This husband is a spoiled, rotten bratty thief!!

[@aplanefliesabove]

The fact he had the gall to say that sort of BS to his own wife, is crazy! WOW

[@CFproductionsTV]

Welp, she just ruined her husbands dreams of putting the lift kit on the Tahoe, and put ing it in the bankruptcy.. IRS is going to be on to them now hahaha

[@MinnieMoo48]

She needs a counselor more than anything, for herself and for their marriage. Sounds like money is a symptom of the problem.

[@Apollyon-sz9sn]

I feel like Einstein listening to Dave's callers.

[@sblijheid]

I hear ya. These people are so stupid, I'm surprised they haven't killed themselves by accident yet.

[@ChrisMFlorida]

Someone once told me you can do bad by yourself..

[@IsaidwhatIsaid-k4t]

🙌

[@LGnLA]

👏Best👏advice👏ever!!👏

[@wkhristafer]

That person was bitter not smart

[@fabulouslifeinchrist1349]

Madea?

[@wolfofdubai]

A marriage should be fair and trustful in every way, love, live and even finance!

[@mida8261]

Instead of Live, Laugh, Love, I'm just picturing "Live, Love, Finance" on someone's wall.

[@byefelicia8632]

Yeah yeah yeah. Thats what everyone wants but NEVER gives.

[@gretableak6873]

If they declared Bankrupt would their Tahoe with lift kit get seized? 🤔

[@Shreendg]

No. Essential item.

[@pep590]

UNless at least a year or more go by, he could not claim the kit. There are laws against doing exactly what he told his wife he wanted to do.

[@TT-nh2od]

I can’t understand half the things she’s saying

[@beastfromtheeast9318]

Sounds like she got a mild speech impediment

[@rayj.9568]

Yes. It sounds like she is speaking under water. Blowing bubbles simultaneously.

[@monroe7403]

I think she was nervous and upset.

[@Mexicobeanpole]

I think she was on the verge of tears.

[@headbanger5556]

THANK YOU. I got about every fourth word. Couldn't make heads or tales out of it. Even the CC couldn't figure it out. Caffeine much ???

[@chrisrush3513]

I love how he hits mute before she gets a chance to defend his immaturity and lack of integrity, brains, and character.

[@acebuick]

The husband is going through a Mid-life crisis. He is going to lift his truck w/ new rims, file bankruptcy, then get a new wife that's 22 years old.

[@WCGwkf]

What 22 yr old would want to be with a bankrupt child that old

[@bellmeisterful]

Sounds like a good gig

[@WCGwkf]

@@CedarMountainsnow I find it hilarious when girls on dating sites have their age limit set to 2-10 years over their own age. Such a red flag.

[@bellmeisterful]

@@CedarMountainsnow I'm 50. Is that old?

[@bellmeisterful]

@@CedarMountainsnow Lol. I know. Honestly, I wont even date below 36-38 cos its just too big of a maturity and generational gap. I'm not one of these guys that tries to get with young chicks. Its kinda pervy to me.

[@culdesacgrocerygarden]

This lady needs a lesson from my gramma. She always said girls need shoe money. Put back some cash every week and hide it in one of your shoes. Because the other shoes gonna drop and your gonna need to get away from him.

[@ceciliapreziose3783]

what a smart statement!

[@Apollyon-sz9sn]

Theiving from the man being accused of being a thief, got to love your women logic.

[@kupidrosalindavateri3965]

Apollyon 1975 how is she a thief when it’s their money?

[@Simon-oy7kf]

What's a gramma? It's either Grandma, or Grammar

[@Simon-oy7kf]

@@Apollyon-sz9sn How is saving your own money theft?

[@TheJonOrtiz]

I think Dave’s video unintentionally show how student loans / schooling can be a potential toxic abyss financially. Especially for those that aren’t in the field or chased a dream rather than what’s needed in the world. My wife has 10k in student loans and doesn’t even work in that profession anymore.

[@ransom182]

Hubby is a sketchy dude. Watch out.

[@jimmyvaught]

I’d say she’s a bit looney as well.

[@barbararepko4824]

ransom182 If she lets him involve her in his fraud, she’ll be going down with him.

[@Scorpiomaj27889]

Makes you wonder how many people buy boatloads of easily re-sellable assets and then declares bankruptcy. Then we wonder why credit card interest is so high, to pay for this thief.

[@ThePeterDislikeShow]

I saw a discussion online one time about hoarding cash, buying gold and silver coins locally from different coin dealers, while living off CC's and then filing BK.

[@tapercandles3838]

I had husband like that. The lack of honor, character.. Run..Now. it's coming for you if you don't. Took me 15 years to dig out.. after I left him.

[@kevinb8881]

Thank god it's Friday, oh God it's Monday, LOL!!!

[@cooperscreditconsultingint6792]

Amen! "I can't participate in your craziness"! - Dave Ramsey

[@gangatalishis]

how do you run up a bunch of debt and just declare bankruptcy? Wont they just repo anything you bought, making the whole thing useless?

[@joshmiller3673]

Credit cards are generally unsecured debt, so no. Loans on cars, yes.

[@Thatperson2-u7u]

They can garnish your wages if you have income above poverity level, or force you sell items of financial value- like the lift- even house or car if its worth more than a minimum about per state law.

[@dr.bradshaw]

Husband probably wears affliction shirts too

[@tinmanslickgreasy999]

And bedazzled Jeans....

[@Kysen10]

I doubt she was expecting real talk from Dave.

[@DanielIles]

*Wow, some people need A LOT of help*

[@matthewmp111]

He wants a lift kit on his truck...it’s all you need to know about this situation. PS isn’t that just good old-fashioned fraud?

[@paulanull8731]

Yep it's fraud. And don't think the courts don't figure that out in a NY minute. Plus from what I've been told there are two kinds of bankrupties, one where you're cleared of debit and another where you are bankrupt but must pay so much per month and you pay the rest of your life.

[@666dynomax]

sounds like an idiot. lets get him some hockey pucks

[@michelleeaton6602]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Ryan_DeWitt]

For a lift kit on his Tahoe? How old is this guy? FFS grow up!

[@benjaminb4056]

Says the guy with a back like a rhino.

[@christinaheuer7169]

Benjamin B

[@thetechrealist]

@@benjaminb4056 That's called being a man!

[@robertcampbell6349]

Dave nailed it when he recommended a marriage counselor. The husband has bigger issues than just a lack of control with money.

[@privateprivate8366]

I’m 54 and the ONLY thing I really want to spend money on now, is something that I can do as an entrepreneur, for whenever my job disappears.

[@kimberlyrinehart5525]

How do they live in California making that little? I made significantly more than that and I ended up leaving because it’s insane

[@MrTmenzo]

What city did you live in? There's still affordable places to live in here in Ca.

[@kimberlyrinehart5525]

the doge I lived in a bunch of cities in San Diego, Orange County, and LA. It’s ridiculous everywhere. Of course there’s a few places sporadically that you can afford on that salary but… with multiple people on that amount it’s crazy.

[@MrTmenzo]

@@kimberlyrinehart5525 You named the 3 most expensive areas aside from the bay area huehue.

[@multistack1502]

I live in the bar area and am evacuated due to the fires right now

[@BuckI2Bdad]

I always give California refugees this piece of advice " DON'T vote the same way you voted in Cal." 🤔

[@Steve-ou8nw]

He's openly talking about committing fraud to her. You can bet he talks about her in the same way- to his side chick. Smh

[@byefelicia8632]

How do you know he has a side chicken? 😄

[@mirandaspeaks4448]

I have never wanted to see photos of actual subjects more in my entire life.

[@evegreenification]

Googling “lift kit”.... Oh, sweet goodness

[@od4407]

@@rob-fb5xs ok boomers

[@shadowartist8892]

I just did it. She is married to a 5 year old

[@shadowartist8892]

@@od4407 they aren't boomers. They're Gen X.

[@od4407]

@@shadowartist8892 Nah, plenty of gen x'ers have lift kits....only a young boomer would have to google it

[@ClearwaterBeachBum]

Putting a lift kit on a Tahoe is bad. Putting a lift kit on a Land Cruiser is smart! We take our paid cash for a brand new 2002 Land Cruiser in Feb 2002. Our Cruiser takes us overlanding to see this beautiful country and soon the world. Being 54 with our first million in the bank and no debt enables us to travel across the country and share experiences together. The lift kit on our Cruiser allows us to go through deep snow and desert. Further than we could in a Tahoe.

[@brianvandy4002]

The bankruptcy court will likely catch that a new large purchase was made on the CC just before you filed bankruptcy. They'll identify that fraud.

[@timopraxis]

I can't understand her at all. It's too fast and muffled.

[@momthatdoesstuff1610]

Glad I'm not the only one who noticed. Maybe she was nervous.

[@oneeyedman99]

She speaks clearly until she gets to the important stuff and then all of a sudden she's got mush in her mouth. It's like my daughter when I ask her about her grades.

[@michellekulas282]

I think she got super nervous.

[@raniamenjour8590]

Dude you my day thanks so much🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@acebuick]

Those student loan debts want go away with bankruptcy. 🤨

[@elmagnificodep]

My wife and I make $120K in small town, low cost America. Even I don’t feel comfortable owning a Tahoe. My wife has a $20K (paid) Journey and I have a $30K (paid) Ram 1500. I’m not sure what they are worth now. Doesn’t matter as we’ll be running them into the ground.

[@thinkmackay8954]

Shop in Aldi's to save half of your food money. Rent a smaller apt. Use every leftover $ to pay your debt!

[@truegrit4752]

I (sadly) have more than one "acquaintance" that ran up their credit card debt with the explicit intention of going bankrupt. It is not uncommon.

[@dreadnoughtprime6301]

Lime a little kid who thinks he figured out the best way to get cookies from the cookie jar.

[@ImOldandSoAreMyBooks]

As always Dave cut straight to the point.

[@jxsilicon9]

A lift kit on a Tahoe? 😂😂😂

[@666dynomax]

get them groceries ya know

[@pants8029]

Buying a Tahoe in the first place shows a serious lack of judgement. At least start with a HIghlander or a Pilot. Also the caller sounds like she drank A LOT of coffee before calling Dave.

[@joshmiller3673]

Tahoe's are solid vehicles built on a truck frame, with tried and true LS motors vs a pilot which is a glorified car. Why would that be dumb?

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

Going through Financial Peace University is only helpful if you actually take the advice and apply it in life.

[@ozarked2363]

It never ceases to amaze me at the level of stupidity people have in their daily lives. In debt up to their eyeballs doing the very things FPU tries to eliminate from their lives, and he wants an $8000 lift kit on his truck on a credit card. The first step is understanding the difference between a need and a want. I bet they spend money every month on cable tv, Starbucks coffee, lottery tickets, alcohol, and tobacco too.

[@mandypdx]

I hope you make make $250k+/yr with a statement like that… “It never ceases to amaze me at the level of stupidity people have in their daily lives” - you sound uneducated

[@13tazzftw]

i cant take my eyes off his fingers. what happened?

[@Uncleamo42]

It's the lighting in the studio. They have to reposition the light.

[@lovelycru4256]

He usually has them stuffed under his armpits

[@murisacausevic3380]

It’s vitiligo

[@grumblyone3334]

Gotta remember these 2 have both been doing this for a while... she just was the 1st to be overwhelmed... FINALLY. If their actions have been "working" for them this long, she's not going to make much headway convincing him otherwise. Won't change until the weight hits him too. Grumbly One has spoken.

[@patty109109]

She MUSTA dump this loser. He is a chump and will never be a good partner for her. She deserves better.

[@grumblyone3334]

"Deserve" is a dangerous word. She, very believably, could've been right along side with all this lunacy right up until the numbers hit home! She may have just hit rock-bottom 1st.

[@patty109109]

@@grumblyone3334 True, I was being hopeful :) At the age of 44 to have a lift kit on a tahoe seemingly the most important thing financially in this guy's life is one of the truly more pitiful things I've ever heard. Reminds me of when I was in my early 20's and a guy in my class kept spending all his money upgrading his honda as if it was the most important thing in his life. I assume he grew out of it.

[@davidmuth4571]

I have met people who tried to do exactly what this lady's husband was about to do. A coworker bought $35k boat, thinking he could refinance his house for it. Real estate had dropped that year, so there was no refinance. He had damaged his boat severely by trying to launch and load it by himself. So he tried to return it to the dealer, and parked it in their lot. The dealer had it towed. He tried bankruptcy. That was a no go because of the short time frame and his house had to be included. What a mess. He lost everything.

[@olianatenkorang1473]

There are alot of 54 year old children.....bam!!!

[@lovethemflowers]

I thought their excuse for getting credit cards was to try to build their credit so they can get a house in 2 - 3 years. How will they qualify for a mortgage if the husband plans to file bankruptcy? I could see them weakening and borrowing SOME money for something unexpected, like a vehicle repair to keep the thing running, but a lift kit falls under the “unnecessary accessory” category.

[@polares420]

Dave Ramsey solo is the best.

[@Gaia5D]

Good call out Dave! That guy def needs to do some personal growth in the morality department 😬

[@ErkFX]

He sounds like a keeper

[@janeprescott7381]

Yes keep him, somewhere an environment like a farm, where no money is needed. Or a job where he can pay back every penny.

[@davidli6899]

Meanwhile there are 16 year old out there making 50000 and listning to this show

[@seanearl]

Rather than judge these people harshly- which, you will note, Ramsey does not do- he focuses on the people's actions. Bad intentions, yes- bad people? Not so sure. They might be the people who pull you out of a burning car wreck, so judge not...

[@maria21932012]

Cadillac commercial plays at the end of this

[@erikanunez5058]

Dave didn't even bother writing anything down. Real talk coming right at you.

[@johnadams3418]

Dave is 100% correct and you should let him know that this behavior is that of a deadbeat thief. No matter any argument that it's just a shady bank or credit company, it doesn't make him any less of a POS for considering this as a legitimate course of action. If he bristles up and does not budge, get out before you wind up with a financial anchor around your neck.

[@harrisonwintergreen1147]

I hope he files for bankruptcy and the judge hauls him for a hearing on the $8000 lift kit charged on the Amex the month before he filed.

[@TheRisky9]

I wonder if the courts would sieze it as an asset in bankruptsy. Or force him to sell it and give the proceeds to his creditors. I don't know, but it would be funny if they did.

[@ryanmcgregorr]

It sounds like there is a lot of trust in this relationship... Lol

[@666dynomax]

daddy gonna get him a lift kit.... sounds like a typical chevy owner

[@byefelicia8632]

Looks like there’s a lot of skepticism and judgement in you.

[@ryanmcgregorr]

@@byefelicia8632 why are you judging me

[@random-nz7dy]

"We got a credit card to build credit for a house and it went downhill from there" Very important line for people to hear who think having a credit card is important for that reason.

[@ThePeterDislikeShow]

It has nothing to do with credit cards. It's the person using them. You must be against gun rights too.

[@random-nz7dy]

@@ThePeterDislikeShow huh? No very much a gun person. The point is 95% of people think they are going to be the ones who pay it off on time, not overspend etc. While 95% of people will do just those things. The math doesnt work. That's why credit cards exist and a new one comes out every day. The vast majority of people were responsible and pay them off on time and redeemed all of the perks and paid no interest in credit card companies wouldn't be what they are. And because of that many peoples poor spending habits can be tracked to starting out with a credit card and thus begins the overspending. I don't know what that has to do with guns haha.

[@dgw4049]

8k for a lift? Is he going to start doing monster-truck rallies? He could literally add 2 inches to his truck just by getting bigger tires. A set of 285/75/17 bfg ko2 will add 2.5 inches to the height of his truck vs the stock 265/70/17 without further modification. They will also destroy his gas mileage and throw off his speedometer. They will also make it an off-road beast for around $1200. He will have like 12 inches of ground clearance. This guy is a hoot!

[@pep590]

It's stealing and it's also against the law and will never fly in a bankruptcy. That thief thinks he is the first one to think of thuis stealing? You are not allowed to use those credit cards for months and months, before your bankruptcy court.

[@bmaiceman]

Iknew a guy. He got 4 CC. And used tgem to get him a car. His wife a car... And pay off his medical bills. Then filled Bank rupsy which wiped his slate clean. And left his famly with good cars and NO DEBT

[@ajoyforlife1]

Wow! Big failure on the bankruptcy court.

[@willelliott5052]

Dave said what needed to be said.

[@rcairforceone]

Lift kit on a Tahoe? Are you kidding?

[@axxxingforanswers4648]

Probably a TEN YEAR OLD hoopdee Tahoe!!!!!!

[@rcairforceone]

@Bethany Brown even it was, $8000 is a gross overpayment. The suspension lift will cost 1200-2000 depending on the kit and options. Tires and wheels can had for 1500. If you are going for the SEMA/show truck look, 20"+ wheels can cost anywhere from $200 per wheel to over $1000 per. He's definitely a child if he thinks any of this is a good idea.

[@Thatperson2-u7u]

Lol

[@forresthodge1024]

@@rcairforceone Add in labor for the install and regearing the diffs, front and rear, you can get reasonably close to $8k as the all-in price.

[@strat1080]

That’s gotta be the craziest thing I’ve ever heard

[@minimalmiranda471]

Fyi. That husband needs to understand, once you put a lift kit on any vehicle, that vehicle is no longer under warranty.

[@Visaliaipa]

I bet this guy has an expensive stereo system and two thousand dollar wheels on his Tahoe and a closet full of designer tennis shoes and clothes. Living in an apartment and clearly neither one of them are working in the field they got their degree in. He sounds like a guy that wants to portray he is wealthy by showing off his material stuff while being in debt. I’ve made my mistakes financially and overcame them, partly due to watching a lot of Dave videos.

[@xyzsame4081]

The excuse would be if he is borderline. it does not even matter, there is no cure for borderline (but with medication treatment you can manage it). At this point with borderline I would give them better chances compared to: he is an 15 year old idiot in the body of a middle aged man.

[@fmaz1952]

Not sure how it worksin the US, but wouldn't the Tahoe be seized if he declared bankruptcy?

[@Forever.Remain.Nameless]

Nah, just put it in his momma's name😂

[@scott4825]

The big banks understand that you can't make fresh squeezed orange juice from a bag of rocks. I don't think they bother going after such people most of the time. Some long court battle, followed by physically repoing the truck from the trailer part, just for the opportunity to sell a poorly maintained Ford at auction.

[@jackjones3657]

So she admits they went through Ramsey's FPU and is apparently unwilling to talk with her husband about the need to actually implement good money management. She has reason to sound exasperated. Their habits will sink them, or land the husband in prison for fraud.

[@angryox3102]

Going into bankruptcy to put a lift kit on a truck? I’m not even mad at the lack of character, it’s the lack of good taste.

[@Free-bt6gn]

Yep, there are plenty of thieves out there. She needs to cut her losses and move on. He will only pull her down!!

[@Lady.Luck.]

When a spouse is as entitled as he is, it's going to be very difficult for her to leave. there's no way he will come around to being a decent person at this age. she's probably been brainwashed by him and it will take the jaws of life to get her out of that

[@frawdulent]

GETTIN OUTTA DAYOT! - Dave Ramsey

[@c.1211]

A lift kit, really!

[@Jane5720]

They may not be allowed to file bankruptcy, not everybody can just because they think they can

[@lydiagingerich8373]

There’s a lot of 54 year old children 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣