"There Is No Single Woman Above 30 Who Is Happy Being Single"

[@Mastirpeace]

Happiness is a state of mind and everyone has his/her own version!

[@LADY-E.COMEDY]

Thank you !!!!!!

[@uprightaardvark]

I just put the Pharrell song a repeat and practice smiling while looking out the window directly towards my neighbors house. They seem to think I'm possessed or some other nonsense for some reason.

[@Taparrish7Outof100]

Some ppl accept this earlier than others, we experience happiness through healthy relationships .the human species is a social creature

[@Nonya-abc]

@@Mastirpeace Actually happiness is dependent upon what is happening.

[@MiggieJean]

My happiness is dependent on my financial and physical health. I don’t know about the rest of y’all but when those 2 things are good, I’m great.

[@TheVtaylor123]

Yep! That's what truly matters to me.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

Then you'd be happy being single for the rest of your life then? Yall ego is crazy

[@uprightaardvark]

Yep, when I made the realization that I should just want to be healthier so like I didn't have to gasp going up a hill or doing any physical activity, it became a lot easier to eat healthy and get exercise in. A lot of the downer feeling truly was weight gain during pandemic, which I always knew was a possibility but before then I hadn't ever been chunky like that. After losing 65 pounds and back at reg weight I make sure to tell everyone the difference in mood and stability over time. I was never one to even have the ideations towards self harm but when I was heavy I could see my thoughts turn down those paths, which was wild. Hasn't happened once since I lost the weight, also lower brain vein hemorrhage paranoia from high bp gone. That stress and downer cycle is like self accelerating since it also effs my skin up too, with stress hormones. I ain't ever have anyone else in my life beat my whole self esteem out me like fat me.

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@MiggieJean thats nit how women are built. Thats some feminist programming and you bought it hook line and sinker

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@hueyfreeman5509 Weren't you the same weird dude who talked about my mental state on another video. Now you're over here commenting about this woman's ego because she said she is happy once her finances and physical health are good. What ego? Those are basic needs. You need to seek therapy so you can figure out why her being happy and single bothers you so much, because that's weird as hell.

[@marvdatboi]

Happiness is not tied to a partner..

[@uprightaardvark]

Out here in the early 2000s this dude tried to snort the word happiness in pure pcp powder, and went into psychosis. He's still in the mental institute, most likely permanent. I would not recommend tying it to this route either.

[@godisamazing7074]

Exactly

[@SomeofThisSomeofThat]

Aint nobody said nothing bout no partner

[@fadearomolaran9538]

Up until a certain age*

[@adriandorset5374]

Check back in when you’re 65

[@kimberlybrown6352]

Add Loren's mom as a host. This was precious.

[@juleemango84]

Single doesn’t mean not dating or not connecting with another person… Single simply means not married. Single doesn’t mean lonely or alone… it simply means not married. Happiness doesnt activate ONLY when in a relationship. Sigh… I gotta figure out how to detach social media because this is tiring 🙄

[@hueyfreeman5509]

Relationship status is the most of one's happiness though, it's human nature. So if you're single, esp as a woman, you're not not happy because if you were, you would just stay that way forever

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@juleemango84 so what do dating mean? You women have so many definitions for it nowadays

[@brandyb5799]

@@hueyfreeman5509 I see you really trying to push this narrative. A person has to be happy regardless of their status. Fun Fact: Did you know that married men outlive single men? In contrast, single women outlive married women. I found this statistic to be interesting to say the least. I think man or woman it is about finding someone compatible to share your journey with and if not he/she still has to live, be happy and enjoy life.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

@@brandyb5799 I'm pushing facts, the problem is yall pushing feelings. That who lives longer study is the latest out of context bs yall have to attack men, not realizing that's not the only success metric to a relationship. In a marriage you get his security, his commitment, and his money, but you're telling me because a study says a single woman who decides to live a miserable life can allegedly do so for longer than a happily married woman, that somehow means something. Lol sit down

[@rௐண]

​@@hueyfreeman5509🐂💩

[@susi09]

Loren’s mom is so precious 🥺

[@cave129]

😕

[@blaqmagik1999]

😂

[@uprightaardvark]

Old people always are hella precious.

[@jetcrews97]

Word

[@BadKattitude]

🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@Here4theecomments]

happiness in life does not have to be tied to another person. Man or woman. You can be single and happy and still want a significant other. All of this can be felt at once.

[@emmalupupa4262]

That part!

[@hueyfreeman5509]

It's only women that deny the fact that they need men while simultaneously putting up thirst traps on their ig. Yall egos are crazy

[@kikash7549]

Thank you!

[@hueyfreeman5509]

If you still desire a significant other then you're not currently happy

[@deniseclark9277]

@@hueyfreeman5509 That sounds stupid .. You can want something and be happy lol

[@srianna0416]

Its alot of unhappy married women as well. Not saying single is better, but as someone who's around both single and married women, it's bad on both sides . Don't just marry just to marry because you will be divorced before 40. It's a lot of divorced people in their 40s.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

Yall always use the exception to the rule. Your chance at happiness is best when you're married, and even then you're not going to be happy 24/7 but they'd rather that than be single

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

@@hueyfreeman5509what’s the happiness it’s inevitable people marry to marry. Because people like you think once you get older you have to

[@hueyfreeman5509]

@@InfiniteCoreXD what?

[@srianna0416]

@hueyfreeman5509 I'm not saying marrige means unhappiness, but alot of people in their late 30s and 40 are getting a divorce right now.

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

@@hueyfreeman5509 marriage is not a requirement in life. If that makes sense to you. You don’t need marriage, it’s a want. No one is holding you hand cuffed saying you gotta get married. Marriage is gonna be a thing of the past too.

[@fayr8807]

Why do people want single women to be unhappy so bad? 😩

[@writerforlifeify]

Because they're jealous of them!

[@calvingeorge2412]

If you are looking to others for your happiness , you will always be disappointed.

[@ginabrown1686]

I love how Loren show these guys what a real journalist does

[@uprightaardvark]

She's destined for greatness with this level of detail on professionalism.

[@GoodCitizen-g6f]

They're not journalists they're internet influencers.

[@ucallmekeyc]

@@GoodCitizen-g6fhow you figure?

[@ill71]

Yes it’s refreshing from what they had before

[@Butta006]

i kinda like her better than Jess.. but i love Jess..

[@abenameade5157]

You can be alone, but not lonely. It’s a big difference.

[@princellasmith7562]

Yes!! This describes me perfectly. I enjoy living alone. I promise I do. 😂😂

[@hueyfreeman5509]

But you're not happy that way

[@jetcrews97]

@@hueyfreeman5509exactly

[@usmanvcx]

Them dogs eventually pass away within 10 years unfortunately 😢

[@tristanmanuel7787]

Yea but at the end of the day when you go home and get ready to go to sleep and you lay down and turn to your right and there is nobody to hold you or kiss you and talk to you it hurts man it really does woman gotta stop being a shame it's OK to say you are not alone

[@djjay-kay7636]

Im over 30, not single and unhappy how about that lol

[@szn1580]

Lmao it’s time to leave him or her bro or sis haha

[@MrTwonetwone]

Cope

[@r-legemusic8034]

🤣🤣🤣

[@msmime35]

@@szn1580😂

[@szn1580]

@@msmime35😂 solid advice

[@BigGamer9211]

If a woman is single in this day and age, it is because she didn't want to settle, period.

[@etf42]

yep, hypergamy

[@amac23557]

You ain’t lie

[@jacks4009]

Agree, a man is the easiest thing to get. I could have got at least 3 today lol. We want a good father and a good husband

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@BigGamer9211 and settling for a woman is a maze of pure non sense

[@BigGamer9211]

@@postmastersgt1670 it gets complicated sometimes

[@jocampo85]

As a woman that was single most of my 30s and now I have a man and kid, I will say ladies, ENJOY your time alone!!! lol once it’s gone it’s gone 😂

[@Dsmooth974]

Your issue you had to settle. Bad advice

[@KasandraWilliams]

that part!!

[@thagrandpubah]

Got ran through, huh?🤔

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@jocampo85🤔 so you were on the 🎠 for most of your 30s now that 40 is approaching the wall is near now you found a simp to take you as you are baggage mileage and all

[@kareem8250]

Lol you can just leave your man if you want alone time? Why you with someone if you enjoy your time alone so much?

[@feleciaward1563]

God gives everyone the devine right of free will to marry or be single. Not everyone desires marriage and children. Not everyone desires to be single.

[@kikash7549]

you think these people at these big ass ages would know that by now 🙄

[@HunchoBidness]

That’s a lie

[@uprightaardvark]

Right now I desire a Kraft single. It ain't easy being cheesy

[@roncheak4479]

Chapter And Verse ???

[@mozzyl88]

​​@@roncheak44791 Corinthians 7:8 read the verse you seek. Paul speaks about being single and how those that can handle being single let them, bcuz their mind is better focused on Father God and not split between a spouse and Father God. yall should be giving Father God your full focus anyway, in any situation. however, we all know how YOU, THE WORLD, and SATAN seems to be more important to most people in this world

[@erinrenee31389]

I quit dating altogether 4 years ago to work on me. Man oh man I’m so productive and full of joy 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

stay that way

[@QueenShiba-p9c]

Is that your baby?

[@Coreyj06]

@@QueenShiba-p9c YO!

[@domow865]

I hope you find the happiness on your own. No one should be able to make u happy or not.

[@vlwebbjr]

Lies. My children brightened my life lol

[@ArtFromEarth_2]

@@vlwebbjrexactly people can say what they want but when it gets late a night and you alone that shit hits different

[@brittanyjohnson375]

​@@ArtFromEarth_2it's different because you don't love yourself enough to be ok with being alone.👌🏾

[@Taparrish7Outof100]

As you get older and hopefully wiser you will realize that the most joy you will have is in your healthy relationships with others. Not money, not material possessions but communion with others, sharing experiences with others ,

[@godisamazing7074]

AMEN

[@tpoppy9303]

Its obvious if a woman could find the RIGHT MATE they would get with him and the same of men. This shouldnt even be a question.

[@StraightGuyStraightTalk]

Women don’t know what the right man is anymore.

[@idontarguewithpeasants]

Too bad a lot of men are 🗑️

[@ThatGurl-eo2es]

​​@@StraightGuyStraightTalkThey never did. The sad part is neither do/did men. That's why they tell women to stay no matter what.

[@pmarcusb]

@@tpoppy9303 the problem is with the "right mate" is the list of right qualities is long and no one she can get has everything on the list.

[@moneymitchamp]

False. Women pass on good men all day everyday lol

[@hadijatkubrat3580]

I don’t want just a man. A partner, my best friend. Anybody can have a man. I don’t want to be single but if being single gives me peace. I’ll take it. I refuse to settle just for anything or the pressure of society. Being single isn’t a death sentence.

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@hadijatkubrat3580 depending on how long a woman stays single before that biological clock start ticking. A womans prime is not very long and in that time if you havent found a husband and had a family by then chances are you not going to and thats a grim reality for women.

[@hadijatkubrat3580]

@@postmastersgt1670 that’s your reality and societal norm that is misinformation. I don’t live in a box of societal construct.

[@brittanyjohnson375]

​@@postmastersgt1670We can literally freeze our eggs and have kids later in life. Women don't need to settle for just some man just so we can say we have a man and kids. This mindset is why the divorce rate is so high.👌🏾 Most women would rather never have kids than to have kids by a shitty man.👌🏾

[@ghostgirlsghost]

Everyone wants a companion, period.. but it has to be right.

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

Don’t need one though. Want is different than need.

[@Urfav_lauren-jl4qm]

Umm no… give me a dog and a toy and I’m good😊.. I enjoy my peace and dignity

[@Mastirpeace]

Speak for ya self and not ignorance

[@LADY-E.COMEDY]

A cat or a dog !!!

[@TheIcemanthomas]

@@Urfav_lauren-jl4qma toy is not diginfying

[@iDaisyRay]

I hate the narrative that having a man equals happiness for women. It's like back in the day where women were perceived to only want a husband and kids to be fulfilled. Life is so different now. It's nice to be in a relationship, but if you -need- one to be happy then I think you need to work on yourself first.

[@alonzojones9626]

Always good to have self love, even better to share that with someone genuine

[@chavonnerodriguez6237]

Agreed. That narrative was created for a reason...to plant a seed and watch it grow inside the minds of the vulnerable. So Ladies, continue to graduate, start your businesses and have a good laugh watching these shook ones try to plot our next move! ✅

[@hueyfreeman5509]

Idk why you all try to deny you need men. You never see men deny they need women

[@jas1565]

​@@hueyfreeman5509we know men need women.. that's why men keep trying to tell women they need men when in reality, women don't need men at all.

[@TXLennyS]

Everybody is different...some people need other people some dont

[@kennethjacobs3716]

I feel like women can be over 30 and happily single. I'm 37 and don't really have a close friend. Would I want one, of course. But I'm not walking around miserable because I don't have one.

[@pambrown6319]

💣💥💯💯💯

[@ladylady8745]

We have to use common sense. There are so many videos or just people walking out here giving advice like it should fit everyone. I dont believe in being sad or constantly thinking about things that u dont have. I am single, over 30 and have a good life. Of course, I desire a relationship bc I am emotionally healthy, my human body is attracting to wanting a deeper connection with a partner that will involve intimate sex etc. just like it is normal to feel loneliness sometimes while u are in a healthy relationship with someone. Humans will have some feelings of wanting to connect with what is natural. But if is actually ridiculous to walk around and waste your mind on what u dont have. An example, I could be broke, have a horrible relationship with my fam, not love my job, feel unsafe etc. Not having a relationship isn’t going to kill me. There is more to life than just that one thing. My advice is focus on what u have and don’t stress too much of what u dont have. Life could be worst if u can compare it to a lot of things people suffer from.

[@danielscott7985]

Aren't you a man?

[@AtlNola1]

We believe you

[@Ghostaredead]

Everybody is different somebody can be happy single at any age

[@toyita4431]

Im 39 and married and let me tell yall good sista's something LIVE YO BEST LIFE and dont be worried about no man or having kids. It will happen when it's your time. I got married at 35 and had my baby at 36. Dont rush it! I was living LIVING do you hear me!

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@toyita4431 wtf do that mean you was living living?

[@prophecy0731]

You didn't have any kids prior, thats why u won, sis

[@samuelrigaud6595]

Being a ho secretly ​@@postmastersgt1670

[@Nonya-abc]

Each individual is different, the tweet says you can't be happy without a man; each woman is different. Some married women are unhappy.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

No most women are the same and most of yall want to be married. No relationship is happy all of the time, and marriage is not about happiness it's about duty. Stop making excuses

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@hueyfreeman5509 them wedding vows saud nothing about ones happiness. Its not your spouse job to make you happy. Thats all on you

[@brittanyjohnson375]

​@@hueyfreeman5509Most women are not the same...we are not a monolith.👌🏾 More and more women are moving away from marriage and looking more for a partnership.👌🏾Marriage SHOULD BE about happiness not duty... Who tf wants to sign a government contract for "Duties" as if we don't already have that working a regular job...that's just stupid.🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@brittanyjohnson375]

​@@postmastersgt1670 It's not your spouse job to make you miserable either... Your spouse should be adding on to the happiness you already have not subtract.👌🏾

[@hueyfreeman5509]

​@@brittanyjohnson375 Yes most women are the same, just like most men are the same. And no, women are not "moving away from marriage", you're simply not being asked by men to be their wives because there is less and less marriage material. And see there you have it wrong which is why a lot of yall are not worth it. Marriage is by definition about duty to preserve the union, especially since you're not going to be happy 24/7 anywhere.

[@oshun2866]

I felt more lonely in relationships. I learned fulfillment should not come from external validation. A good partner is an added benefit not a necessity for survival

[@ajohonly3721]

No one is always happy married or single.

[@Anna-fm7hh]

Exactly, happiness is occasional

[@cxm1211]

I am 42 sometimes I am happy single sometimes I’m not. I refuse to accept just anything this time.

[@uprightaardvark]

That's the spirit to have, you should do physical improvement and all that for yourself, since you want the energy and less health issues it comes with. I don't do no working out for others, holy. I gotta live with my bp every day, before I care about them lol

[@Theramblingzulu]

What are you looking for exactly?

[@Dsmooth974]

42 its over for you. You might want to invest in a dog for true company

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@cxm1211 at 42 its a little too late to be making demands this is post wall energy

[@cxm1211]

@@Dsmooth974 lol I am afraid of dogs.

[@tdomonique504]

Everyone does NOT share the same ideas, values, beliefs or desires. There is so much more to attain within our soul's journey and within each life span we get to live to be focused on something as minute as mating. Now everyone has a right to their opinion, I just don't understand why folks feel like they have to include other people into their particular mindset. I still haven't heard anyone say what's wrong with being single yet. I really think this lady posted this just to go viral because she knew she would trigger some folks, lol.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

We all share human nature, and human nature dictates you're not supposed to be single, especially as a woman. That's like saying what's wrong with not having friends.

[@HunchoBidness]

@@hueyfreeman5509that’s not true man, stop with this BS

[@hueyfreeman5509]

@@HunchoBidness What's not true about it?

[@tresawelch2855]

I am 58, and I am happy. People's understanding of scripture is crazy. Not every woman or man, for numerous reasons, will be married. That does not mean you will not be happy. Nor does it mean you will be alone. Nor does it mean you will not have romantic love in your life. The Bible says in all things practice contentment. That includes singleness. If you feel you MUST have a mate in order to be happy, then you do not understand the nature of true Joy.

[@RusselOrhii]

I like Lauren on the show

[@jetcrews97]

Me tooooo

[@a.sam.2976]

She's too young. Get Tez.

[@ffyhvftg-dc1rw]

​@@a.sam.2976she 30 sum tho

[@dollbabypeterson884]

Im happy single, cause im happy. I dont feel that being in a relationship is going to make me happy. Im over 40.

[@ItsPhillyDH]

Ayooo Loren I’m in Philly can u share ya mom …dam everybody deserves a mom like yours !!❤

[@MishaSims]

I'm 45 years old and been happily single for almost 13 years. ain't no loser who can't even get a woman going to tell me how I should feel about anything 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and before any of you fools try it, i've already been married and had kids. all of my kids are ADULTS.

[@ogriss412]

You probably in a good space dating ain’t for everyone

[@hueyfreeman5509]

So in that almost 13 years no men have been in your life?

[@STEPHENisSTEPHEN]

when some says they been single for a long time it just translates to being a hoe

[@seann54]

So you ain’t had sex since you were 32?

[@Mastirpeace]

U talking all that but in life a woman needs a man. Who u think built all that things that keeps u alive and well, a car a house, air condition,everything is man made. Without us women don’t survive so humble yourself. When you’re in trouble only a man can be ya best solution to the things that are BUILT that keeps us on a daily basis

[@AndersonBen-st8ip]

I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH

[@MarahTayem-rz9hr]

I'm inspired. Please spill some sugar about the biweekly returns, I would be really glad

[@AndersonBen-st8ip]

All thanks to Christina Ann Tucker

[@AndersonBen-st8ip]

After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.

[@sylviadavis76]

Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Christina Ann Tucker.

[@Jasmine12-i3f]

I do know Christina A.Tucker, I also have even become successful....

[@SB_thatsme]

Find a person who makes the difficult stuff easier and the easy stuff sublime, then bask in your joy. Pro tip, sometimes that person is you.

[@KayExposesTruth]

HERE ARE THE FACTS: A WOMAN WHO KNOWS WHO SHE IS HAS NO PROBLEM STAYING SINGLE IF SHE HAS TO SACRIFICE/COMPROMISE HER HAPPINESS JUST TO HAVE A MAN... There's a HUGE difference in wanting, needing, or keeping a man ... SINCERELY 40 & UP SINGLES CLUB

[@hueyfreeman5509]

But you're still not happy single

[@KayExposesTruth]

​@@hueyfreeman5509I've never met a mind reader online in a comment section before that's wild work 😂👏🏽😳 what credentials & expertise do you have to tell me wtf I want??? This is ground breaking NEWS 🗞️

[@KayExposesTruth]

​@@hueyfreeman5509I've never met a mind reader online in a comment section before that's wild work 😂👏🏽😳 What expertise & credentials do you have to tell me wtf I want? This is ground breaking NEWS 🗞️

[@KayExposesTruth]

@@hueyfreeman5509 I've never met a mind reader online in a comment section before that's wild work 😂👏🏽😳 What expertise & credentials do you have to tell me wtf I want? This is ground breaking NEWS 🗞️

[@KayExposesTruth]

@@hueyfreeman5509 I've never met a mind reader online in a comment section before that's wild work 😂👏🏽😳 What expertise & credentials do you have to tell me wtf I want? This is ground breaking NEWS 🗞️

[@deemays12]

Sounds very Kevin Samuelsy to me.

[@UpxSetter]

Truth hurts.

[@UpxSetter]

You should watch Dr Shahrazad Ali. She’s been saying this years before Kevin Samuels.

[@wildterk6631]

And he has been right still

[@LilHondaCivic808]

That’s because that nigga was the truth 💯🕊️🍾

[@uprightaardvark]

Oh God for a second I thought you were talking about Loren's mother. I was in my "awh old people are adorable," moment and read this lol. Yeah extremely similar you are right. His hygiene and physical grooming tips for the guys were solid I'll give him that, but kind of lacking in the introspective side of things, though that's just men from his era. My dad is the same kinda. I found that the key to being at peace was learning to achieve this single first personally. Like I guess you could seek a traditional relationship like the one he talks about, but I want one like my parents where they were able to hang out, conversate, have fun, and are still together near 30 years of marriage. Introspection and self-assessment as a man is kind of daunting but the actual secret is that it's different for everyone. Can't sell you a guide on it, if you're my friend in real life I can give you real advice and criticisms as you do it, and that's what you got to do for your bros. In ancient Greece this was called actualization, like philosophically. In fact if your already doing bro code right it's really easy, here is an example from my life. We have a friend in our group who grew up kinda sheltered and religiously conservative so had hard time approaching women. Hygiene easy enough to teach, the best tool to teach is positive reinforcement and letting outsiders not clown him, but if you're friends include him. Basic stuff to most dudes. Any I found out he liked to Salsa dance and got a triple solution ready quick. We enrolled in Salsa dancing class. I understand the whole clinical psych side of it thanks to my current girl, if that's how you learn I can write that out for you lemme know but there ain't any need to over complicate it or sensationalize it, it's dudes just genuinely being dudes. We all can tell at a certain point if we bullying outta tough love, power tripping or the worst, for the clout. Kevin Samuels is absolutely correct in saying building up gets more purpose and enjoyment, including your bros. I don't think I'm built serious enough for that traditional relationship stuff. Just the sex sound terrifying. Like if there's no light, no music bro, wtf how sex supposed to sound like?? With my luck I'd literally end up pooping myself in terror. Like do traditional couples even do stuff like random annoyances at each other? Conversating with your SO who lives under the same roof less than a room mate is gonna totally end up, with how much game of thrones I watch, I'd end up thinking my SO out to murder me. So now I'm planning on living on the edge of getting a 5150, dying, or doing life for murder. I prefer the annoy each other, and the random thing thrown every now and then. We both have physics courses we took, if someone asks we just tell them we're observing and verifying Newton's theories for use as a calibrated constant in future studies.

[@Tasha-c2e]

I'm 44, and I've been single for 2 years, but it felt longer because he made me feel alone, so I broke up with him. However, I've been in peace and happy, but I would love the right companionship. The pool is very dry.

[@MrColdwilliam]

The grapes are only sour to the fox that can't climb the vine. Wmn are conditioned to entitled passivity and that the issue is everyone else, everywhere else, all the time. And this thinking is ruining their own psyches. The pool isn't dry -- you're just standing in the dry end.

[@kikash7549]

That’s just projection. Theres people that’s happy being single or married and there’s the same reverse. If you ain’t happy with yourself then a relationship ain’t gonna cut it for you either. There’s nothing wrong with wanting companionship, you can get that either platonically or romantically. No matter how old you are learn to be happy with yourself and know that there’s a lot more to life than a relationship

[@hueyfreeman5509]

No woman is happy being single, and more people are happy married than unmarried

[@uprightaardvark]

Alright if you're happy give me the split breakdown on revenue for Pharrell William's "Happy" from Aug 11 2019 through Aug 20 2024. Make sure to include all medium, normalized per platform for profits please. Show your work.

[@kikash7549]

@@uprightaardvarkTf does a song got to do with other folk’s personal lives and choices? are you ok?

[@kikash7549]

@@hueyfreeman5509you’re wrong and you need a life 🙄

[@kikash7549]

@@hueyfreeman5509you’re wrong. Please go outside, touch grass, and get a life 🙄

[@simplynaomi]

I'm so tired of these men who cheated on their wives telling single women why they're single. Just because their wives stayed and let them treat them like that. A lot of women are willingly single and also happy 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@godisamazing7074]

I agree

[@deniseclark9277]

Thats a lie .. I am happier than I have EVER been .. People love projecting their misery onto others lol

[@amac23557]

You a lie

[@shataviaturner2481]

​@@amac23557 definitely not a lie at all

[@MrPiccalo3000]

Assuming you the one in the picture, you are still young and beautiful. But in 20-30 years you might be singing a different tune when you can’t get around by yourself.

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

@@amac23557women do nothing but breathe & lie

[@Dannean7]

I just want to know why is there so much focus on single women all the time in this society....why is everyone so bothered if a woman says she is happy single???

[@etf42]

agree. I literally could not care less about random women that i will never know or meet. I am completely indifferent or apathetic to them and their problems, desires, needs and wants.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

Lauren is the one who brings it up all the time so it naturally became a topic, and It's not that everyone is bothered it's just that it's simply a lie.

[@alexiskeys9985]

THIS! Society is obsessed with the lives of single women 💯

[@hueyfreeman5509]

@@alexiskeys9985 Maybe because yall keep making noise about it?

[@aquarius-woman5364]

Because men can't be single

[@_Tree]

Why do we care what other people are doing?!? We need to mind our own business 💯💯💯💯

[@daytonaguy3584]

You wouldn’t be watching this if you took your own advice?

[@_Tree]

@@daytonaguy3584 I take my own advise. I don't unbeatable why people aren't minding their own business

[@godisamazing7074]

AMEN

[@pmarcusb]

I know just from the title, Loren is triggered. 😂😂

[@602virginia]

They know how to start Monday

[@szn1580]

Facts lmao

[@scbanditcr5]

🤣🤣 facts

[@LastoftheMohicans116]

Where’s the father?

[@jetcrews97]

🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾

[@brooklynbutterfly3240]

Ppl need to speak for themselves.

[@samuelrigaud6595]

People lie⚠️

[@vastworldknowledge]

Yall need to keep Loren. Throw Jess away lol

[@taken4granite817]

ENVY GOT THE BB GUNS OUT 😂😂

[@1TZiyad]

Not the BB guns! 😅😅😅

[@BigbossBonita]

Instead of men saying women we miss yall and let’s start over. They came together to try and shame women for being 30 plus and happy with out them

[@Bforthepeace]

I think the problem is people are too one dimensional. You can be happy being single and still yearn for a relationship. Like, you can be happy and content with where you are but want more. Women in this day and age don’t want to suffer like a lot of our mothers did. They stayed married, overworked, under appreciated and under valued to men that used and abused them. (By abuse, I don’t just mean physically or even verbally). They stayed for the kids, they stayed because society frowned upon divorced women with kids, they stayed because it’s always down to the woman to keep the marriage together. This generation of women wants peace above all else! The fact remains, it’s better to be single with peace and happiness than settle for a man just to have a man. Waiting or searching for the right man for you, is truly the answer. Also 30 is not the end of life. You can find deep meaningful love at 32, 35, 40+, you just have to do what’s best for you. Having kids by a man you’re not compatible with just to do it, is insane.

[@uprightaardvark]

I mean I know plenty of happy men and women above 30. I'm just a random dude, I'm gonna give thanks to whatever power put me in this reality and not whatever reality that caller is in. Also I don't think I've ever had a relationship bring me happiness. In fact after I was able to be happy single, I seemed to find much more fulfilling and stable relationships.

[@deealia2568]

Omg! This is why I’ve stopped watching the breakfast club and am so annoyed that I watched this as it popped up in my feed. Charlamagne wants women to want a man so bad! When the woman said she’s happy being single he refused to accept it but then when the woman said she wanted a man, he congratulated her for being honest. This is so sexist, narrow and disgusting!

[@prettypri1740]

Y does society want to shame women for aging so bad ? I’m 24…. And it seems society only tries to make women feel ashamed of living normal lives

[@prometheus200]

Listen women out there, pursue happiness and learning to know yourself. Cliche as it sounds happiness is a muscle you have to grow. Knowing yourself, developing yourself because the world can only love you because you showed them how to. Plus a confident woman is the sexiest thing ever. And confidence isn’t fronting bravado or surety, but confident in the fact you are dearly and wonderfully made.

[@godisamazing7074]

Can't nobody define what someone needs or makes another person happy. Focus on getting yourself together and stop worrying about everybody else. Always keep GOD first.

[@chavonnerodriguez6237]

To be honest, the woman who even said that ridiculously ignorant quote, sounds so angry about what is most likely her predicament. I am over 40 yrs old and loving every minute of not having to watch over my back and deal with any drama. I wish I could gift wrap this feeling and give it away for free. Peace and Love to everybody out there...who actually wants it.❤ Stay Blessed!

[@yasmine6075]

Overall this seems to be the way a lot of us women feel and I think it’s sad that we've succumbed to this narrative. Ultimately if we were never hurt we wouldn’t feel this way.

[@MCtok11]

Yall have had to protect yourself but it’s not the preferred option. Understandable, blessings to the ladies out there.

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@chavonnerodriguez6237 40 years old no marriage no family just mileage and baggage. Yall be really proud of this too.🤦‍♂️

[@afrobear2310]

Your personal happiness should not depend on relationship status. Your happiness depends on one's temperment and personality.

[@mr_nadda83]

Lauren's mom is so adorable!! Love her already

[@JayDavante]

Assuming that someone is unhappy because they are not with someone says a lot lol. If you are a person who feels that you need another human to make you happy and enjoy life, that's absolutely sad smh

[@momusic3327]

Charlemagne is so disrespectful asking her mom about her daughter scissoring wtf

[@tenzoemury1714]

Well. It's funny. Some people doesn't take it as respect. Especially okd people. They way they be talking to me.

[@ItzD]

While I wouldn't do it, Momma would have definitely checked him if she felt some type of way. Older BW have no filter 🤣😂

[@hiitsme3039]

If her momma took it as disrespectful she definitely would have said something lmao 😂 she does watch the radio so she knows how it acts

[@Shay.Zeigler]

I noticed that I never hear anyone say that men aren't happy being single over 30. Why does society assume that men are happy and comfortable without a romantic partner after age 30, but women are not?

[@ari-jv]

Because men n women value different things. Men value respect and xes. Women value love

[@javidallas4113]

Woman will give the worst advice to other single woman just 4 them to stay single 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ladylady8745]

There will be lots of women single bc the ration for men to women is a lot higher for men. Also, it is weird that men have many options to date more women or a variety of selections of women bc it is more quality women, but u still find them like yourself laughing at the ones who are single. I wonder why?😊

[@javidallas4113]

@@ladylady8745 wow !!!!! I hit nerve , as long as supposedly hightear of woman keep on giving the 🐱 to anyone the results will come the same 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@pmarcusb]

@@javidallas4113 they do that because they see them as competition or know without the other single women, they will be lonely themselves. It's all bitter behavior. 😂😂

[@javidallas4113]

@@pmarcusb facts !!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Rico513]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@learningearning8385]

I can’t imagine a man improving my peace. Abstinence is bliss.

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

cut the shit u arent abstinent, celibate, etc

[@ASprinkleofAnime]

Am I happily single, not really, but would I stay with cheating men? Nope. Just give me a decent, faithful, selfless man.

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

theyre in your friendzone but you know already🤦🏾‍♂️

[@samuelrigaud6595]

Plenty of men for you sis

[@MsLaticia00]

Why is it that just because a woman might desire a mate, people assume she’s not happy while single?!?!! I desire millionaire status, but that doesn’t mean I’m not happy in my current status!!!

[@meanguy111]

Because for most its true maybe not for you but most women lie about being happy

[@BryanFury85]

Keeping coping, if they didn't want to be single, they wouldnt be.

[@thetruthsayer8347]

Some people actually don’t have the maturity to stay in a relationship

[@cw1345]

Some people just can’t do relationships

[@postmastersgt1670]

@@BryanFury85 by default women have more options then men so if they want to be single by choice is it really by choice?

[@QuanPookie]

They’re waiting for that mythical 6’5 rich Chad to come and sweep them off their feet. Anything less than that is “beneath” them.

[@startrak9548]

Why make this gender specific? Lmao I feel like most humans don't want to be completely alone.

[@pmarcusb]

@@startrak9548 so when it's a topic you don't like, you want to involve everyone. 😂😂😂

[@jas1565]

Because society has told us that women's purpose or ultimate desire is marriage and children. It wasn't that long ago that women needed marriage to basically survive. So women pushing back against that idea sounds implausible when society has taught us otherwise.

[@startrak9548]

@@pmarcusb What the hell are you talking about bro

[@pmarcusb]

@@startrak9548 this topic is about women. Don't try to all lives matter this topic. Grow up

[@thagrandpubah]

@@jas1565 No! It’s because men are just disposable to society.

[@Stone_Cold_Steve_Urkel]

Kevin samuels is looking up at us laughing

[@arnoldchanakira8174]

😂I see what you did there

[@NBnNC]

Looking up 🤣👀

[@prophecy0731]

The Godfather!!!

[@shestayready]

I strongly disagree with Charlamagne on this. Alot of people don't realize that your happiness is not dependent on someone else. You make your own happiness by setting and meeting your own personal goals in life. You fall in love with who you are, and THEN you should get a partner if you so choose. Your partner is not the factor to determine if you are happy or not.

[@JW95322]

I honestly think if he wasn’t who he was in entertainment he would have a different outlook on life. I can’t speak on his marriage but his means, resources and access to celebrity and star power I feel keeps him secured in marriage . His wife from the country too and doesn’t seem to have experienced much outside of him. Idk he talks boldly like life can’t change at any moment. I really don’t think his wife would’ve stayed around this long if he wasn’t who he was, so his perspective is washed

[@Jason-wp7ed]

Loren’s mom is so adorable 😄

[@bethanyjohnson8222]

Men like this make me so glad to be a single 30yo😂😂😂😂

[@djjay-kay7636]

That's so egotistical for Charlemagne to say deep down all women want a man without acknowledging that all men also want a woman and that all humans want companionship. Why is the world out to make women appear so emotionally vulnerable and dependent on men. Like we're needy to have human desires. It's weird.

[@pmarcusb]

@@djjay-kay7636 maybe just maybe because we constantly heard for decades how women don't need men.

[@hopesdaughter5947]

💯 ...and it's because misogyny and sexism exists. Many are affected by it without knowing what to identify it as and many perpetuate it without the full consciousness that they are doing so. ☮️

[@thelifeandtimesofadudename4050]

To be fair he’s just agreeing with what the post said

[@usmanvcx]

The difference is men don’t go out screaming they don’t need women. Women are quick to say I DON’T NEED A MAN, I JUST WANT ONE. Big difference

[@Mastirpeace]

U sound as a mf Men we don’t have estrogen we don’t think like women at all. Ion want no companion for what I love my mf freedom. Born gone die alone and that’s everybody. Women NEED men in terms of to survive cuz we men build what keeps humans alive. Men don’t NEED women to breathe we want woman. Know the difference instead of being mf ignorant

[@lisai2110]

I would bet 2 pay checks that their are more unhappy married women than unhappy single women. Im on my second marriage and I bet i won't sign my name on another marriage license.

[@MzMinniema]

I would have been so nervous to bring my mama up to talk with CTG he play too much 😂

[@cj10211982]

HER THINKIN CHARLA THE BOSS IS INSANE

[@hueyfreeman5509]

If he didn't want her there she wouldn't be

[@thagrandpubah]

@@hueyfreeman5509Just like he keep forcing Jesse Hilarious chronically unprepared on us.😒

[@daytonaguy3584]

He pretty much is. He is the breakfast club

[@prophecy0731]

I hate that about previous generations. Its radio. Its banter.

[@TheRedScareIsAlive]

​@@daytonaguy3584 she doesn't work for Breakfast Club. She's just guest hosting. An independent contractor, with her own businesses

[@chopgotsauce6812]

If ah man is 23 and not making 100k its cool to call him broke or not ambitious but a woman not married at 53 and is sleeping around we cant call her a 304? The Breakfast Club never challenges women on the dumb stuff they say

[@Erniejr1000]

And do

[@all4kicks]

NOT ALL NOT ALL BUT MAJORITY YES. SOME PPL ENJOY BEING A SATISFIED SINGLE.

[@r-legemusic8034]

The post didn’t say single women weren’t happy in general. It said y’all aren’t happy being single it’s a difference

[@Mr.Ming07]

Self healing to find someone healed before hoping into anything that could be crazy is a must

[@kmn2222]

sorry Jess, Loren be scoring triple doubles on this run

[@anthonyharper890]

Lauren’s mom is so proud of her❤❤, you can tell how she looks at her when she speak

[@ossier2796]

Don’t give it up before marriage.

[@PurpleToni]

I loved this so much. Please make Loren permanent! Breakfast Club please!!!! 🙏🏽 Additionally, Loren's mother is so precious. 💓

[@Whistlesonthewind]

Studies show that single wmn are the happiest demographic. No matter what fear y’all try to spread, you can’t change facts.

[@RobinLove-hx4nn]

This Is Just My Opinion, But Every Woman Is Not Unhappy Cause She's Single. I mean Everyone Wants Pretty Much To Be With Someone, But Dont Let No One Tell You That If You Are A Certain Age Its A Wrap . So many Young Girls And Grown Fall For Anything Wearing Pants And End Up With The Wrong Person Going Through Hell Trying To Hold On To Someone. Stop With The A-piece Of Man Is Better Than No Man Crap 😕 And Its The Same For Guys Too) You Got To Love Yourself First, And Stop Letting People Tell You That If You Are Over 30 And Not With Anyone Then Its Something Wrong With You. Please I'll Take Over 30 And Happy,Then In A Bad Relationship Any Day!

[@MikeThaPhilosopher]

Charlemagne is out of pocket bruh 😂.. dude literally said “ your daughter like to scissor”.. who tf says that you someone’s mom

[@uprightaardvark]

The white women who work with my mom. White scientists have zero familial boundaries and it's why every white person somehow gets the rap when they absolutely should not. If you walk in on the mother and daughter looking at dick pic of daughter's boyfriend at the University lab aka workplace, instead of never mentioning it again, they'll think you were weirded out by consent not being clarified. I thought it was an overtly unnecessary formal apology letter but no, it's a damn notarized consent form, from some dude I've never met, authorizing me to see his dick pic. It had the freaking gold seal on it and everything. It'd like everything becomes technical and easily discussed in certain fields, unless you're literally not white. My mother just does the "That's wonderful to hear dear" and just stonewalls her with the polite no more convo smile. I gotta learn that one.

[@mimithomas]

I have been happy and single for 6 years and counting. I am enjoy my peace of mind, freedom, accomplish my goals, my mind is clear. I am waiting patiently for God to pick right man for me like boaz.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

But if you're truly happy single, why would you risk interrupting your peace of mind and "freedom" at all? Isn't the goal to be happy and stay there?

[@cynthiap4541]

Speak for yourself...is probably the best policy!

[@IamDaHuLKMcDaBeasT]

Her mom makes me miss my mom 😊😢. So much fun, thoughtful and joyous. 🙂

[@mecca6941]

I don't believe that's true for everyone... There should always be more than one thing that makes you happy in life

[@daytonaguy3584]

Your basic biological nature is companionship. This I don’t need a man/woman is some new school BS

[@ashleycampbell8025]

I know it says 30 but I’m 29 turning 30 in December and in this day and age i am very happy I’m single! Im not ready for a relationship right now and A man will come eventually but enjoy your sense of peace while you have it. AMEN 😂

[@corrierewilson6321]

I love it😂😂😂 I love Loren and Charla's foolishness and she's such a great sport

[@thatlovegirl12]

I am content with life. I understand that everything is not always greener on the other side. I’m child free so I think I enjoy being single a bit more because I have complete freedom over my life. If I never marry I am fine with that. I am not against marriage but I am not obsessed with chasing love and relationships like some black women are. I feel like there’s a fine line between desperation and wanting a baby & marriage by a certain age.

[@Lirra-p2c]

Having a manz does NOT NOT NOT make a WOMAN happy- a man cannot make a comment like that for me

[@hueyfreeman5509]

So being in the streets does? Cut it out

[@Lirra-p2c]

@@hueyfreeman5509 who said anything about being in the streets go back to whichever rock you came from under.

[@MrColdwilliam]

Nothing can make anyone happy besides the decision to be happy. This said - happiness is attractive and they miserable.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

@@Lirra-p2c If you're not in a relationship you're in the streets. Not sure what you don't get. It's not like yall stop posting thirst traps

[@charmedlilsis1]

Im 34. Single. No kids. Ive never been in a relationship or even on a date. Never kissed. Never held hands. An all the way virgin. And zero desire to ever date or marry or have kids. My root of unhappiness is the housing market being crazy and having to get up early to go to work. If I could win the lotto, I would completely happy and still single.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

You're clearly an exception to the rule and have some serious issues to deal with

[@learningearning8385]

@@hueyfreeman5509not really.. check the rest of KZbin channels. She is the new normal. Don’t let sexyredd make you think all women are thots.

[@charmedlilsis1]

@@hueyfreeman5509 Huey, dont make call Granddad on you. Go play with Riley and stop trying to analyze ppl. 😂 I would be perfectly fine living on Mars all alone if I could. Ppl exist on a frequency that I cant pick up or understand nor care to.

[@hueyfreeman5509]

@@charmedlilsis1 🤷‍♂I'm just reading what you wrote, and must want to tell somebody if you're putting your business on the internet. I'm just saying that's not the most fulfilling way to live since you're really just existing. Not sure what you've been so scared of all this time, but maybe you should figure that out

[@charmedlilsis1]

@@hueyfreeman5509 Im scared of not being able to sleep in on weekends, watch shows and movies uninterrupted, spend my money solely on myself, going on vacations and enjoying the experience without crying babies and noisy children, etc. Im scared of my house and car not staying clean. Im scared of raising a child who grows up and becomes one of the many weirdos in this world. Im scared of having a spouse who ends up sick and Im stuck taking care of them. Im scared that the comfort, peace, quiet, and joy that I have now will end if I have to spend all my time thinking about someone else. If you are a woman who is happy having a spouse and children, good for you. That is what makes you happy in life--spending all your time doing for others. But that is not everyone's place of joy in life. At the end of the day, we are all just existing as you put it. 200 years from now, you, your husband, your kids, grandkids, etc. will all be dead and unless you invent something or become insanely famous, no one will remember you including your descendants.

[@UpxSetter]

Dr Sharazad Ali has been saying this for years.

[@onlyalisaawilliams]

And she’s a pickme , thank goodness the newer generations are paying that Boomer shyt dust .

[@rawman18]

Facts! That wise woman has been on point for over 30 years

[@rogerblewett5595]

Fasho 💯

[@NomadA1]

⁠Finding one woman that affirms your biases is like using Thomas Sowell to speak on the black experience. But then again, the hotep to conservative pipeline is very appealing to ignorant black men. Do any of you really believe you’re the men these women want?

[@getithowyoulive2.]

Yup my favorite scholar

[@ileensosa4406]

Being single IS my happiness.

[@Matthew7.7]

Man I love these conversations! This is where uncle Char shines. Successful women like Lauren looking for successful men like myself. But a woman’s success is not important to us. Just be beautiful, fit, friendly and trauma free and not a liability.

[@morenabonita8834]

“If she lick it, we love it!” Lmao ahahahaha had me hollering at my desk!

[@a.sam.2976]

A Lick-her-license.

[@WANDIVISIONSTUDIOSLLC]

I’m her man and I’m on my way ! I’m manifesting it now 🙏🏿