Just Be Yourself?

[@allsmilez13]

I have to hide my authentic self at work. Sometimes I wanna tell people to stfu but I wanna keep my job so I just put on my headphones.

[@stephie199210]

Me.

[@00samira00]

LMAO 😂😂

[@shamallia1]

💯💯💯

[@SWEETLILLY2]

Agreed 👍... I wanna bitch slap some of those mofos at my job.

[@ennvee1989]

this.

[@ivyville]

It's so funny how a lot of the time they can't relate to Adrienne and I find her the most relatable.

[@helenatube]

+Ivy Ose Same! I honestly think she keeps it the realest of anyone on this show. She and I think alike.

[@luckyarchery]

I agree. It's so annoying that sometimes Tamar and Tamera ostracize her and throw shade at her for being different but I agree with Adrienne a lot of the time. Same with Jeannie as well.

[@kataus1818]

Right! 😂

[@kevinl.1052]

+Adia Sinead you people really read too much into it ... they don't throw shade. And of course we will find Adrienne more relatable : she's the youngest and closer to our age, because I'm sure our moms definetely won't. You have a panel of 5 different women with different life journey especially made for each and every woman to feel relatable to one of them

[@des8679]

Bethsaida Romelus Loni is too!

[@Idocollect124]

Quotes that the ladies say in every show: Tamar: "You tried it!" "Lies!" "What you mean?!" Tamara: "I'm a mom!/As a mom..." ""Adam.../Aiden..." Loni: "Bacon..." "Brown Licor..." "That's why I'm single!" Jeannie: "It's so gooood!" "Mama Mai..." Adrianne: "ABSOLUTELY!" "As a Latina..." "I'm from New York, so..."

[@AccessoriesAddict5528]

😂😂😂😂

[@ThaShiznit1986]

Lmaoo. #NailedIt 😂💯

[@mayalicious203]

Lmao for Adrienne you forgot "lower east side" "I'm from New York so "

[@p.a.8746]

💀💀💀💀

[@erinturner6139]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 yes!

[@RinaPinxz22]

Adrienne admitted something that most people who go to church would never admit.

[@myhextixmind8632]

I've done that before.

[@RinaPinxz22]

Lisa Bibi Lol, wow. Did you repent? Haha

[@calineotelo6244]

so true.

[@leaderoftaehyungnation9766]

+Lisa Bibi Gasp!! Best hope no elders heard.

[@dmajor991]

Yess, I've slipped up before, "God is so d*** good, " but it was in the best of ways to use it but never again 😁

[@MsBrooklyn11232]

When I was younger, I used to not be myself at work, church or school because I felt that people were always judging me and watching my every move, and I cared about other people's opinions about me. Now that I am older, I stopped caring what other people thought and say about me and I am true to myself because life is way too short to be worrying and caring about what other people have to say about you and I wasn't put on this earth to entertain or please people.

[@DevBee]

I love this! I'm learning this now.

[@Mel__21]

amen to that!

[@bluejunegraduate]

+Blue Berry So am I

[@queensspace82]

ummm...true talk who cares what people say...its not worth carrying that weight...no not at all

[@cassandratype4]

+MsBrooklyn11232 When I was younger, I was taught to not be myself. I would be my true self with my schoolmates, siblings but not around the adults. Today, I don't care either since I realized they were very old fashioned folks.

[@tranvo1846]

The way Jeanie described "the white family" 😂

[@Cbell27]

I honestly think all of them is their selves no matter what. they're so outspoken

[@annieparker2788]

Absolutely they all keep it real.

[@helenatube]

+CBell27 I don't, honestly, and I don't fault them for it. As public TV figures their actions and words are scrutinized, so of course they're not 100% real "no matter what". No shade, just being realistic.

[@annieparker2788]

Helena Another sideline hater.

[@helenatube]

annie parker Not at all. I think they're good at what they do and I like this show overall, but that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to criticize any aspect of the show or its hosts whatsoever. That's not realistic. I take the show for what it is. If you're not mature enough to respect that, then I think it's apparent who the real hater is. ✌🏼

[@nikkibyrd703]

+annie parker That's her opinion.

[@michellewilliams6266]

the way tamar and Tamera looked at each other while Adrienne was talking lol

[@positivevibes8516]

She's...

[@peanutjelly727]

+Girly Fab saying "oh my God" is bad in church? Also, I don't know why, but Adrienne strikes me as a relationship chameleon, for some reason. She seems like one of those ppl who change their personality and interests to suit the person they're with at the moment. I have a hard time picturing Adrienne with a church leader. Tamara, yes. Adrienne, no.

[@peanutjelly727]

+Victoria Pretty I don't understand why you're confused. Maybe English isn't your first language. I didn't say that she doesn't go to church. I don't know her life. I just said she doesn't STRIKE me as someone who would date a church leader. And going to church your entire life doesn't make you religious. Tamar went to church her entire life, but she also goes to strip clubs with her husband. What's your point?

[@girlyfab]

peanutjelly I don't think saying oh my God is wrong. She said she was like... "Oh my God that s**t is soooooooo true"!! And I totally agree about her being a relationship chameleon.

[@imanetahtah33]

+michelle williams what did Adrienne actually say in church?

[@DivineVibrations9]

I remember last years season during the food segments, all the comments were about how much Adrienne ate "adrienne needs to calm down with the food" And then it turned to how little Tamar ate "Tamar is so annoying she never eats". Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Do you Tamar!

[@positivevibes8516]

The way of society damned do damned dont

[@RinaPinxz22]

+kalifa simmonds Exactly. Well said.

[@helenatube]

+kalifa simmonds That's why I love Adrienne during food segments. She does not hold back. Tamar I can tell is like me; if I don't know you I eat like a rabbit but when I'm comfortable I'll grub in front of you 😋

[@tmo7297]

PREACH!

[@KimberleyVlogsXO]

I always love when Jeannie tells story lol.

[@Prinnncesz]

gorl. Loni's hair is a trip. im all sorts of confused

[@austinfrombustop]

LOL PLEASE STOP

[@Yae391]

+Prinnncesz ....Me too! LOLOLOL!!!

[@1Prettypinke84]

they playing in our face

[@ida5067]

+Prinnncesz LMFAO i saw this comment then watched the clip like "this girl was right"

[@fa321]

Lmfaoo fix it Jesus

[@kayt7059]

I love your personality Jeannie. It makes you memorable and approachable.

[@mariamaceesay6447]

"You a thug in church" Lmfaooooooo Loni

[@justforfunhaha69]

One of my old managers hired me partially because we clicked the first few second that she was interviewing me. I was also being genuinely honest with my answers and wasn't lying about anything. After the interview, she told me that she liked my attitude, and I was hired. Always be yourself in whatever circumstances you are in, because the right people will appreciate you.

[@helenatube]

+Judus Lauj Nothing but the truth. Very wise 💯💯💯

[@sugarspice8300]

That last sentence hit me hard and made me cry. Thank you. ❤

[@redeyes533]

6 MINUTES ?! Wow the producers scored last night...

[@imacutedoge]

+Red Eyes they heard our cries of making it longer than 5 minutes!

[@Evaline522]

+Danny Nguyen So they gave us a minute longer! hahaha they triflin' indeed...but our asses should be grateful 'cause i still see some 00:56 seconds clips lingering 🤐 🙊

[@ValerieAbena]

At work, being professional is more important than being yourself

[@93RZ]

I'm like Tamar! I'm such a messy eater and i also eat A LOT so I have to really be comfortable around you to eat how I authentically do 😂 otherwise I feel like people are constantly judging 😩

[@helenatube]

+RayOfLife lmbo same. I get in there with my hands and everything and eat a lot. People have often commented on how much I eat so I've come to be a very different eater around strangers, but once I'm comfortable..... omnomnom 😋😋

[@tlcmnchld]

+RayOfLife Same, this is why when I eat out with people I'm not entirely comfortable with, I always get something I had to eat with a fork versus my hands so I don't seem messy af.

[@93RZ]

+tlcmnchld18 hahaha me too like pasta LOL

[@tlcmnchld]

RayOfLife I won't do pasta. I don't want to be slurpin' it up in front of people. Lmao. I mean, I try to roll it on my fork the best I can, but sometimes it doesn't all make it.

[@93RZ]

+tlcmnchld18 oh hahaha

[@DaughterofSarahisreal]

I work for a fortune 500 company and there is only like ten black people out of the whole company including security lol, I can't be myself lol

[@tutulakish6506]

+R riri Yes thank you.

[@helenatube]

+R riri good point 😂

[@peanutjelly727]

+R riri and that really sucks. how come these types of companies look down on ebonics, but when your colleagues talk like frat boys, saying "dude" and "like" before every other world, it's acceptable? that's not standard English either, but no one has a problem with it. ijs

[@cassandratype4]

+R riri Are they blacks from other countries? Sometimes, I get judged by other blacks because I am from the Caribbean, they don't understand why I am different.

[@eonpahraye7625]

+peanutjelly I say this ALL THE TIME it's ridiculous.. And what makes it worst is I have NYC accent and my whole fam is Jamaican and sometimes I try to change how I speak or the words I use without knowing cause I feel like the second ppl hear it they gon be like ohh she's ghetto.. But clearly I AM QUALIFTY or wise I wouldn't be here..

[@robyndae5416]

Funny how at the end Loni said "y'all can be yourself with each other" okay what about you? She always tries to alienate herself from the convo & this one in particular bc she is the least open with these girls.

[@crybabykermit8651]

So true

[@plw8414]

I would say I'm not my full self at work. I'm quiet in general but I don't open up to my co workers or tell them much when they ask me questions. I'm not much of a people person. I'm just there for the money. don't really care much about making friends at work

[@SuperSouthchick]

+PLW same

[@jackiepeavy5505]

diddo watch out at work with some folk. Love Tamar's blouse and Jeanie Mai's hair today also good job on Adrienne's hair. ....big 👍 to the stylists

[@ubbacal]

soo me

[@RTA6226]

Lonnie is right. In the workplace there ARE certain boundaries you should adhere to. It's a drag some times but it's a reality.

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I agree with you girls, it always depend on a situation or the place that you are in.

[@janieacevedo6021]

"You're a thug a church." Loni never fails to crack me up. 🤣🤣

[@RTA6226]

"You a thug in church?"Bwahahaha!! 😅😅😅😅😄😄😄😃😃😃😃

[@RTA6226]

L💘VE Tamera's dress!

[@cherishokoroafor5227]

You girls are my sisters, as a 17 year old back girl growing up in England , you’ve done wonders for reminding me of my own value, thank you.

[@LeniJayTalks]

1 - Genie looks beautiful (hair & makeup are on point). 2 - Being authentic is liberating! It's a beautiful, stress-free way to live your life free of the inhibitions and reservations of others. 3 - In your authenticity, do what you do with Love, and you won't go wrong :P

[@jesseli2929]

Meanwhile sucking bones

[@thewritergrl]

+LeniJay Talks best comment ever

[@LeniJayTalks]

Amor Moreno Awww, thank you! :)

[@jaspreetdhaliwal4953]

You can't be authentic when you work a professional. Imagine you're a teacher, nurse or doctor and you're talking Ebonics lmao

[@PaulaMelissaXX]

Someone explain Tamar's shirt and Loni's hair?????????

[@nessak1993]

+Paula Melissa dont really like tamar's top but what is wrong with loni's hair ?

[@D.Drayton]

+Paula Melissa Ok good so it's not just me then. I love them, but I am confused.

[@Mafi19]

Loni's braids are getting old. So she's trying to hide the "tired" frontal part with the lenght of her braids (sorry I'm not fluent so it's kinda hard for me to explain). And Tamar is still paying tribute to Prince!😂

[@ClearLavenderSky]

+Paula Melissa Loni's roots are showing because she had those braids in too long and she's covering them up with that style.

[@TheRetroWoman80]

+Paula Melissa .....I can't. lol

[@LaCheleWallace]

You act accordingly. If you're at work, be professional. If you're just hangin' witcho friends then that's another thing.

[@Real_Life2]

Sometimes when you are yourself people judge, well I say who cares what people think. Tell them to have several seats!

[@shiningstar7775]

How ironic that Tamar was 'real' and got fired for it - LOL

[@theonekayy2251]

"Authenticity Funky" 😂😭😭 , "Nah he said Duck" 😂😂Tamar is Funny 😭

[@queno803]

2:39 the sound that came out of Tamar! 🤣😂 NO! I WOULD NEVER!

[@johnmcclintock2092]

The way Tamera said Deloitte 😭😭😭😭

[@ThatGirl-cs1gt]

+Diego Ariza For real it's sad she doesn't know that

[@okand5138]

When? I didn't catch that

[@peanutjelly727]

+Diego Ariza yeah, I had no idea what she was trying to say at first! lol

[@rorob6865]

4:35 - I almost pee'd myself, that was so random , damn Tamera 😭

[@kadinea.6376]

Hahaha! She was being her self

[@bostonharris4560]

HU-HUH

[@NallahBrown]

LMFAOOOOO

[@abigailj2485]

+CurlsBy Roro I DIIIIIIIEDDD. so freaking hilar !!

[@Hooked_on_ray]

Lmaoo I re watched it like 5x

[@baetoulk5888]

I'm like Tamar omg I always ask people what they ate...because I care too!!! Lmao I've never found someone who does the same thing.

[@jka0rii]

I do the same thing!! I never realized I do it I just like to know these things though

[@victoriasmith2965]

I do the same

[@xiamariansupreme72]

I can't help, but be myself 24/7. My ratchet-ass, sassy, big-mouthed, no-sugar-coating self. 😂😂😂

[@TheRetroWoman80]

+Infinitty Tokio Queen Do you. Don't change, no matter what anyone says. And if you come across the "something is wrong, you need to change" types......smile (or whatever it is you might naturally do) and keep it moving.

[@StrickenWithFear]

I just want to comment that your profile picture is the bomb dot com.

[@xiamariansupreme72]

StrickenWithFear Thanks 😄😄😄

[@StrickenWithFear]

Infinitty Tokio Queen You welcome.

[@robyndae5416]

Tamera it is so obvious that you're an introvert and over emotional lol we've seen it on the show too often. Idk why there was a long pause when she first said it.

[@kevinjohnson4877]

I have to be different at work because in real life I talk very improper English and I do a lot of cussing. I'm also extremely goofy and corny too so that could never work.

[@TheRetroWoman80]

+Kevin Johnson Goofy and corny work for me any time. Kevin, do you...any time, any where. Those who are down with what you're about will naturally flock to you. And those who are not, just aren't. NEXT! You feel me? :)

[@theafromath]

Tamar of ALL people is 10000% herself lol that's why we love her

[@sweetvictory89]

I love the way Loni's braids are styled. Simple yet beautiful. I might copy I got purple and black braids now.

[@CourtGeorgee]

I agree with Loni 10000% percent. In jobs outside of theirs. Some of the break room shenanigans I’ve experienced im blown away. People take their shoes off when people are eating, or watch videos full blast with no headphones, airing dirty laundry, smelling horrible, I’ve seen it all. Have a respectful work ettiequte PLEASE. I always ate lunch in my car

[@salam5]

When you're always the first to watch but you too broke and young to go see the show😢😢fave show❤️

[@pinkworrys5328]

Same here😂😂

[@SSS-pm1do]

+Salam Kasu pretty sure the tickets are free

[@adl1585]

Or when you live halfway across the country and can't afford to travel from Houston to Los Angeles. 😭😭😭

[@sparkle1derful]

+adl15 or when you don't even live in the U.S.

[@myhextixmind8632]

truth

[@mclenalex]

Girl said it exactly. `thats when you know you are family, when you can be yourself`` Aint no family of mine, i cant be myself around you.

[@nxdiuh]

Jeannie is such a beautiful person inside and outside!

[@codedlulu8821]

61% Am one of them. Honey, we'er both here make money point black period, we don't have to be friends. when we punch the clock at the end of the day, am not coming for drinks after work, nah ah, you don't know me like that, you go your way I go mine. This way, when you have to cut people due to budget I wont be disappointed and throw a tantrum, I'll understand, it's nothing personal it's just business.

[@calineotelo6244]

straight up.

[@jarellhd518]

💯

[@NostalgiaVibes420]

I so agree with u I can only be my true self around people I'm comfortable around but like u said we all here for the same reason do our job get paid and go home

[@smilechynwa]

Last year my mum got fired from her job. Don't get me wrong, she deserved to get fired. The problem is that it was someone who she considered her friend at work that reported her. She was so shocked and finally realized that you can't have friends at work. Just keep personal life separate from business.

[@100Stratusfiedx]

I agree with tamar on the eating thing. Time after time I would order takeout and at different locations they would be like " you're not gonna eat all that are you " or " that's entirely too much food"

[@Kyshalise]

If tameras true self is to cry all the time then LET HER CRY!!!! Period ❤️

[@chamodi410]

i wish I had an ounce of confidence that Jeanie has. I love her

[@couchpotatokid05]

Look how Tamar looked at Jeannie at 0:18 when Tamera said the Asian woman's name ... lmao

[@BoxerBriefs4]

I love Adrienne. She was the REALest on the panel, today. I was so over Tamar and Tamera's holier-than-thou judgmental faces.

[@anaointa]

I'm that person that always wants to know what people eat too LOL

[@adl1585]

Soooo....when are y'all gonna upload Tuesday's "You Tried It!" segment? 👀👀👀

[@jbrown8726]

Lmao that thang long gone lol

[@kadinea.6376]

LOL I'm saying

[@nawal10]

+adl15 u tried it!

[@adl1585]

+nawal10 No they tried it!😂 We all know "You Tried It!" and "Fake It Or Take It" are the two top segments on the show.💯

[@nawal10]

adl15 haha..be patient

[@lizv7176]

I love these ladies they are so genuine. They just make my day. I love 'em 💜

[@yooo5921]

Tamera always get that one clap from the audience lol

[@TiffaniStarr]

I am so thankful I have a job and life where I don't have to censor myself and I can always be myself. I would not be able to handle a job I'd have to put up a front for.

[@discoveringhealthandfinanc8328]

what do u do?

[@TiffaniStarr]

Write/art/freelance stuff

[@meesh11p]

This is totally true, I'm an anxious person and have a hard time being myself at work. I am totally myself with my friends though.

[@ese4741]

I LOVE TAMERA SHE'S SOOOOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL

[@natashamaginley3297]

I pray for 2018 that the host of the real and Tamar will reunite and be friends, I can see in every video how close she was with the girls especially Tamera and Adrienne. Loved the connection they had.

[@RosefrmVenus]

I'm back here to see if things are weird after seeing those firing rumours.

[@anawithonen3298]

Omg me too!!! lmao I'm trying to see if there were any clues in the last few episodes

[@AnnaSkyyy]

Omg I feel Tamar on a spiritual level when she talked about loving food. I’m always asking people what they’re eating too 👀 like mmm sounds good

[@rachelnewman5602]

I'm only my authentic self with my friends. If i'm at work and we are not friends, you don't need to know who I am. All you need to know is that I can do my job well.

[@iamastaryes1258]

"You a thug in church ?"😂😂😂😂

[@veeevs]

i finally got what adrienne said. "oh my God, that fucking spoke to my spirit".

[@seses9432]

They gon talk about you on their way home in the car 😂😂

[@tresarobinson9]

100% with Tamar on being a foodie. I loooovvveeee when people post what they eat 😭

[@TheRetroWoman80]

For ages, we've been too wrapped up in politeness and manners and our fraudulent publicly presented selves to know what REAL really is on this planet. If everyone was just their raw, innate selves without the manipulation of mankind's "dos and don'ts" for whatever.....I'm not sure if the human civilization would survive, for real.

[@MajesticMyronn]

But it can soo be hard especially if somebody judges you for being you! If you don't like it then keep it to yourself or LEAVE!

[@keyraedynamite]

Tamera and Tamar were like no... No we've never cursed in church 😂 for real. Self control?

[@usadrones]

who isn't fave at work? If we were ourselves at work we either would no longer be employed or singled out.

[@juicienyad7582]

I'm a foodie and eat a lot too... Just eat a little in front of people and take the rest to go!!!! Eat at home where u comfortable!!!

[@marcus252tablet]

1:05 A- "We don't have that problem here" Tam Tam- "We do! *while laughing*" AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO CAUGHT THAT!!! Tam Tam you too. the shade 😎🌞🌞

[@TeamRiptide32]

I can't be myself anywhere because I can never could express myself anywhere without there being judged. My anxiety goes into overdrive.

[@CandiOsama]

Jeanie is so naturally real

[@devonteharris6277]

Ima chitown og n my wife n I watch these vids errday man luv u lovely ladies y'all amazing!!!!

[@amandaandersen7870]

I'm definitely more reserved at work. Then with neighbors and friend.

[@blessedbeyond5722]

Am myself at work , my workmates didn't like at first but now, they can't work without me. I laugh till I drop down.

[@jazzzzzz1233]

does anyone else watch there older vids just to see tamar

[@Theantonioleyva]

Tamar is Never her Self at times

[@annieparker2788]

Heifer Tamar is Tamar all day, every day.

[@lookhowshegobbledthat]

+marcos leyva At times?

[@clarke4400]

+annie parker all day everyday. Every single interview shes like this. Some interviews are calmer in terms of her over the 'topness' but shes the same throughout. DWTS, tiny tonight, just to name a few, even during motivational talks

[@ThaShiznit1986]

Tamar is ALWAYS herself. Unapologetically so! She doesn't change her, the way she talks, acts, her mannerisms and antics, and the way she is or her stance or opinions for no one. Many say she is "ghetto" or "ratchet", but that is just a clear example of her BEING HERSELF! And not changing or ACTING how others want her to.

[@blahgirl8111]

Tamar seems to be the most real out of all these girls

[@candyrain1566]

I’m not authentic with my family they judge tf out of you

[@MegaLadylove2012]

I have an issue with this. Even with interviews. I feel as if we're focused on what your look like, sound like, wear, etc than what you know. Too much emphasis is placed on appearance rather than the who you are as an individual. I'm over the subject. I've chosen to be the good rebell where I'm gonna be my authentic self, with or without approval, even during interviews. I'm gonna speak from my heart. I'm tired of the statement "fake it" to make it."How come we can never be ourselves? If you goof ard at work, even a lil or show any sense of humor, you're considered "unprofessional." If you express yourself, you're again being "unprofessional." Oh dare to laugh at the company's meeting, you the worse." All eye balls on you. Wait?" what? You guys never laugh? Everything has come down to a silly labeled nowadays. Authenticity is the real value of being human.

[@datsthe8082]

when tamera asked Jeanie the question you can already tell the way she said “yesss😀” 😂😂love her😂💙

[@fiyaindehole]

Just be yourself? The Real? I can't even watch this video anymore without seeing implied shade with that title.

[@nawal10]

I think if 90% of us women are authentic we'd never get a man lmao..and I don't even mean looks wise don't get me started XD

[@nawal10]

+jeanne violette exactly! Haha

[@evelynramirez6390]

Girl i burp so hard King Kongs growl got nothing on me lmfao

[@nawal10]

Evelyn Ramirez lmao gurrrl

[@cassandratype4]

+Evelyn Ramirez lol

[@rebeccalovatos9787]

girl your comment has me weak 😂😂😂

[@MarcusMartn]

for a longtime i covered up who i was while I work but as time went on i started to reveal myself to people in the work setting

[@beccamarie9782]

Not many of us is ourself in the workforce. We are expected to be professional by showing respect, using proper language, dress appropriate and helping our co-workers. Of course we should be like that all the time but not many of us go home and act like that.

[@finallyfreetobeme2871]

I tried being Authentic at work and it backfired on me completely!

[@heir_born4108]

lmao!! Tamera and Tamar looked mortified when Adrienne said she cussed in church! lol

[@joehanamathurin2872]

I love this show so much never go one day without wàtching this show love u guys so much

[@stunningbeaute1037]

I am definitely like Tamar on this one... I am a foodie... I LOOOOVE EATING and I am always self-conscious when eating in front of people because I know they’re judging me... I do have quiet an appetite and yes, I don’t eat the same amount of portions in front of certain people and yes, when no one else wants desert but me, I pretend not to want it either pretexting that I am full... when actually I am definitely not!!!

[@heidifoster4022]

Aww Tamara, I cry in church. LOL...ya know when the sermon just speaks to you? Yep, that's me! Sitting there hoping no one sees you. lol

[@missblessed100]

Tamar getting fired from the real brought me here😢

[@ayana5508]

+Missblessed Godrememberme Exactly, Im looking for the uploads

[@YeahYepYes]

I have been on a TAMAR watching binge today. :( So disappointed in that producer's reasoning for firing her.

[@missblessed100]

YeahYepYes same here Tamar made the show

[@YeahYepYes]

Yes, indeed. However, so many peopel throwing shade on her. I liked ...actually LOVED her personality. And she was more "real" than anyone...even in her faith. She was "REAL"...period.

[@YeahYepYes]

Missblessed Godrememberme Do you think they will replace her? This will be very interesting. They blame her as the reason why they couldnt get more A-listers on the show....I disagree.

[@keymeko95]

Loni is me. Like its work they ain't your friends I dont need you to be yourself at work. If you needy or touchy dont do it. It's a job we all are just trying to get through the day and leave. Be friendly but like ..... I dont need your life story or to be besties

[@anoelsilliw5256]

Tamar and Tamera at 3:33😭😭 they said "nah, baby, our mamas would sense it asap"

[@missygugu]

I didn't realize it till co-workers ask: why do you shake with your left hand..( I'm not naturally left handed) then I realized, when I go to work. it is as if my brain must have a switch, for when I am working and social. it's pretty strange

[@deedee7867]

Watching this now...makes you wonder who's their 'real' selves on this show

[@HJasmine10]

Thank Goodness they had Lonnie to bring the focus back to the original topic

[@meSsoFeclection]

I find this topic hilariously ironic since they just kicked Tamar off the show for "being her authentic self."

[@trent_king]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@katekamerun1550]

I can totally relate to Tamera..I wear my emotions on my sleeves too and I express my every emotion with tears be it happy or sad. My bf tells me I cry a lot but I cnt help it, I just can't even if I try to. Sometime I worry, myself.. I be like dnt cry now Kate dnt but I end up crying. I think I need help. Any suggestions?

[@SeniorLife2012]

ur not alone. I wear my emotions on my sleeves as well. I can't hide my feelings. no matter how hard I try.

[@calineotelo6244]

you are not alone.

[@calineotelo6244]

+Lauren07 👌👍

[@mia4484]

+La Suprema Catalina me too!!!! I hate it that I can't control my crying..

[@nonzuzogumede616]

OMW!!!! Tamera's black dress looks amazing on her!!! 😱😱😱❤🔥

[@servantJerubbaalgodSlayer]

Ain’t nobody got time for that! Takes too much energy. Just be yourself & if you can’t be kind, just be polite or don’t say anything.