Girl Chat: Would You Ever Date a Co-Worker?

[@ZaylordLeo]

Imagine going to medical school for however long to have a flight attendant to tell you "we're looking for a real doctor".

[@naturalcooking525]

That's some bullshit right there excuse my language

[@sucram1015]

@@naturalcooking525 don't excuse it.

[@Ashley-ur9in]

As a black female medical student, soon to be MD, I can tell you we do exist. Delta, please train your employees.

[@NellieKAdaba]

Zaylord Leo Taylor Wow

[@LiahB]

Zaylord Leo Taylor I would be like “and you’re not a real flight attendant” 😂😂😂

[@portialewis-gray3008]

- I dated a co-worker and it wasn't an issue for me. We ended up losing touch after I quit that job, but reconnected two years later. Long story short, we celebrated our 8 Year Wedding Anniversary in October. So, I say this to say you never know where you'll find love! #Blessings

[@portialewis-gray3008]

Tayshun Taylor Thank you so much! We really appreciate your kind words. #Blessings

[@portialewis-gray3008]

blessed_mama7 Our manager at the time always used to put us in the same area to work. We talked all the time and helped each other figure out where to put certain items on the sales floor. I would act like I didn't know where certain things went just so we could talk more, and we also went on our breaks together as well.

[@portialewis-gray3008]

nana nana Thank you! We actually talked more when I worked there then after I quit. My ex boyfriend got me in the way and kind of ruined things for a while.

[@hermidaslove3182]

Aww what a cute story 😊😊

[@portialewis-gray3008]

Hermidas Love thank you!

[@DHE713]

“Was he good?” “I don’t know, I didn’t mess with him!” 😂

[@gg6162]

Danielle Evans that killt me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jodha1]

Rolling over here

[@jljacobs0127]

I was cracking up at that one!!!

[@sarahpotter9825]

😂😂😂

[@jackiebrainy2274]

I really hope that attendant was fired instead of delta just saying they will "investigate" it because racism is racism and should have consequences especially in such a dire situation as that.

[@vanessamallard1111]

No! You never ever date a co-worker, take it from me! Let’s say you work closely together, if you had a fight at home, you’re going to end up taking that fight to work and vice versa. Plus being around your partner at work and at home can be a bit suffocating. And if you guys break up and work at the same place, you’ll start hearing gossip about him and the girls he’s talking to. That’s just going to drive you crazy and hurt your feelings. Don’t do it loves. 💔

[@sucram1015]

Actually I agree with you because my sister told me about this married couple that works together at her job and basically there relationship is something were I believe other coworkers know of. And my sister told me stories about how the husband is sexist and he takes but never gives back to his wife and he doesn't treat her right and it shows in her work place.

[@lstarsabb]

Yeah... I had to learn that the hard way. He ended up quitting for another job, but a few guys that work in his area will not let me forget it. I've had a few guys express that they like me but i won't cross that line because i remember how awkward things got when we broke up with my ex.

[@bambi7563]

Vanessa Cortez nah that depends if you're mature or not. All the problems you just listed sound immature af. My sister and her husband been working together for years and they never had any of those problems 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@LimeChan1]

@@bambi7563 You're right. My bf and I keep it professional. Been dating for almost two years and known each other for almost three. 🤷‍♀️ All about maturity.

[@CruellaDeVil.]

Met my boyfriend of 3 years at work

[@emitch667]

I dated a co-worker once. Boy was I dumb. Worst relationship I ever had

[@NellieKAdaba]

Elizabeth Mitchell Wow

[@littlegothgirl8869]

@martinski .... Someone's taking this personally. 😂

[@cwchris_]

LittleGothGirl right girl who hurt her 😂🤧

[@Tabby.cat2]

Elizabeth Mitchell, you live and learn 🤷🏽‍♀️!!! I did that too, bad move!!!

[@nataliacantarero414]

Elizabeth Mitchell Same !!!!

[@nnennia99]

It’s crazy how he’s explained loni’s type as a dark black guy but the man she’s with now is the total opposite😂

[@riss5693]

Nnennia ike-anazodo was thinking this lol

[@myhextixmind8632]

lmao it be like that sometimes

[@Stargazer3131]

she checks for them, but they aren't returning the favour, so she FINALLY woke up and got the qualities in different packaging! :p

[@Stargazer3131]

@Hamza Faison Corretion; black men dont want her in the same way she lusts after them!

[@Stargazer3131]

The panel are all on summer break so if you are watching clips on KZbin, the show is uploading old segments.

[@tisha4lives]

"Be gone brother, she good"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sarahpotter9825]

😂😂😂😂

[@deevee08]

I dated a coworker. He ended up switching jobs almost a year in and I found another place a few months after as well. We’re still together & i don’t regret taking that risk. You never know who you fall for and life’s too short to be scared to take that chance. I say go for it and hope for the best 🤞🏼

[@Honeyybjj]

True!!

[@zeesummers]

Coworker is one thing, but Hilary duff is dating an employee lol. I’m not gonna date you and you’re on my payroll.

[@immapunchu5313]

Man do that all the time? All of these soap opera literally want us marry our boss 🤷‍♀️. Money always comes first. I mean if I'm a CEO and apparently in an elevator with one of my workers and he has an anime keychain imma marry him 🤣🤣.

[@elishawilson9456]

She paying him, as her physical trainer

[@calebenos808]

Please bring Gary back soon, he cracks me up.

[@imWillJ]

Ruth 1: 16 " But Ruth replied, "Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God."

[@thecouch6306]

Nice scripture reference

[@guidofeliz8384]

Why are you quoting the Bible, idiot?

[@Tabby.cat2]

Guido Feliz, noooo...not idiot! But, yes why the scripture reference 🤷🏽‍♀️?!?!

[@michellemcmahon3918]

I dated a co worker, now we are married with 2 daughters and a son on the way. Sometimes it works.

[@cwchris_]

He’s hilarious he has this feminine side that I love even though he’s straight.

[@MaxRoc21]

Bisex?

[@cwchris_]

Roccontrolz22 is he? That would be even better lol i am.

[@biancadesousa]

lol who cares about people’s sexuality.

[@cwchris_]

wildflower when you’re gay or bi like I am there’s something about being able to have a male friend with no romantic connection. Like a girl having a gay best friend with no feelings. We have straight best friends lol.

[@melog5533]

It really depends on the person. My man and I worked together but in separate departments. Still everyone would see us together and asked, we always kept it on the low. Now we've been together for 4 years. I think it takes maturity to know that you do have to separate your personal issues vs your work. Always leave those problems outside of work, it can mess up your hustle.

[@lulujin1873]

Some people will judge us through looks. One time, the panels told me that they cannot hire me because I look young to be a professor and students might find me lenient and easy. In my head, "where did they get all these thoughts?" They even not bother to scan my credentials. I told them, "At least I know beforehand how you treat your employees, maturity does not come with how we look and even how young and old we are. It takes respect, experience and understanding." #DodgedaBulletThankedGod #blessedwithabettetjob

[@60wwediva]

they were saying because you're asian you would be submissive and walked allover. if you were black or white they would not have said that about you as those races aren't subjected to those sterotypes.

[@jolaikavolcy5272]

@@60wwediva no there's a white teacher in our school and some people love her but some also hate her cause they find her weak and two easy and stufg

[@abbyfer8705]

Same thing happened to me. I've always looked younger than my age and one time the Director in my job told me he believed I was the best qualified for a higher position but he couldn't give me the job because I looked young and everyone else wouldn't respect me. So they gave it to someone else with less experience. Right after I quit and found a job that paid me twice as much. Their loss.

[@safiyaallard6754]

He said be gone brother

[@TheMajesticKnight]

Lmao

[@safiyaallard6754]

@*insert type* he is invited to the cookout 😂

[@captainamerica6545]

Gary Owen seems so chill. I’d be friends with him.

[@idelizclarke9050]

Lmao!!!! Omg!!! "Why are you looking at me?" "Because I'm getting a flashback" lmao!!

[@rjscott3939]

2016? Why are y'all uploading clips from 2 years ago?

[@MajesticMyronn]

RJ Scott they have a girl chat vault playlist

[@NellieKAdaba]

RJ Scott lol

[@kayA-gv1rb]

That's what I'm say

[@Jodha1]

For people like me who didn't get to see it.

[@onceuponawalkingdeadpll8355]

Because I've never seen them 😂😂😂

[@chickenbaddie318]

did anyone else hear what Adrienne said at 9:20 lmfao the way they were looking at her. pooorr girlrlrl

[@lg231]

Chicken baddie TAMS FACE!!!

[@maxineramsy1425]

😄

[@maxineramsy1425]

I thought I didnt hear what she said properly. like what? 😯😅

[@chickenbaddie318]

@@lg231 LMFAO i didn't realize

[@chickenbaddie318]

@@maxineramsy1425 ikr i had to replay that at least 5 times, it just got worse each time

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

Gary needs to be the 5th CoHost!

[@LarryOfilms]

@Bitch! Have Several Seats! I think a man in the panel would help balance them out cuz sometimes the girls can be too much.

[@rosej5029]

As much as Jeannie mentions Mamma Mai on the show, Mamma Mai is the unofficial 5th cohost on the panel.

[@PapaGilbert18]

Was he good? “I didn’t mess with him” 😂😂

[@Mamamia90210]

I’ve dated someone from work but it usually never works out. So I just keep it flirty and fun but never let it go any further. It’s fun to dress up and look cute when there’s someone that’s hot at work lol

[@YesDaddyTDPop]

When I see all the women being flirty to a lot guys at work I know it’s all for attention.

[@balue707]

9:05,Garry and Lonnie hit A with that simotsneous.“-___- mmhm(girl,you in denial.)”,lmao!

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I think it's natural if you fall in love with your co-worker because you see them each and every day and I guess there is nothing wrong about that.

[@cicikizable]

I’ve dated a coworker and it was horrible. He acted like we don’t date pretended that he doesn’t look at me. It is the worst feeling if the guy acts in public like he don’t even know u. So I’ve ended it after a few weeks 🤮

[@delicatedee23]

I met my husband at work. I would date a coworker. But know the outcome if it doesn’t work out. I dated a coworker and it didnt work out. Ohhh drama.

[@NellieKAdaba]

D Swift It depends on situation, it’s not for everyone.

[@jillmoran2077]

D Swift me too!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ that’s awesome

[@delicatedee23]

Nellie K. Adaba i know. But some people think its impossible and not normal when it is.

[@misst9610]

Exactly

[@shelseajat]

Dating a co worker could lead to a long relationship but it doesn’t change the fact that it’s unprofessional

[@IwasDiana]

The girls makeup are on POINT ! Who was the artist that day 😍

[@ReinaRainhaRegina]

I never dated a coworker. It was always a rule of mine. Once a relationship is over I don’t want to see you. It would be complete torture if I had to see my ex everyday right after a fresh breakup.

[@ansaviadavis3633]

preach girl I know exactly what u mean

[@AG-kr1my]

I married my co worker when I was 23 and 5 years later we are very happy and our 3rd baby is on the way 🥰

[@lilmakori]

After someone said they're "looking for a real doctor" I would have put my hand down, put my headphones on and minded my business. If you don't want my help I'm not looking any sleep

[@lilmakori]

@Company Name yeah the patient probably doesn't care who the doctor is

[@ilovetortillas123]

Doctors actually take an oath once they've graduated medical school. It isn't an option to just sit there when there is someone in need. No doctor would do what you say you would do in a situation like that.

[@MissShootingStar5]

It's not the patient's fault that the air attendant is racist.@@ilovetortillas123

[@lilmakori]

@@ilovetortillas123 but if someone is refusing your help, yout can't force them

[@ChillyMilly908]

the person in trouble wasnt refusing help though. it was the flight attendant....

[@charletarhodes1442]

Been married 16 years to my co worker.

[@sagala30]

To make it more awkward. Why couldn't they get that flight attendant on the show to get a response or a chance for her to apologize or let us know if she still a flight attendant after that? That flight attendant at Delta should at least be facing some penalty for putting the other passenger at risk for discrimination against the doctor that raised her hand.

[@xquicyntbeauty1803]

I dated a coworker and we have been together for 5 years now. I will admit though it got really awkward really quick so I ended up switching jobs.

[@Mh-xe1zh]

BeautiFro how’d it get awkward ?

[@YesDaddyTDPop]

m e maybe because people knew they were together and making love jokes about it 😁

[@aristotlen21]

Was he good? I didn't mess with him 🤣🤣🤣 best answer

[@kingj6626]

Yooooooo Gary Owen’s is the man he said naw naw be gone I don’t play that

[@Yessi-with-a-Y]

King Jones 😂

[@mattyladancer8249]

When I worked at McDonald's. They seperated flirty couples even married ones. They said being flirty in front of customers is bad for business 😂😂

[@Adriana_Rantonio]

I married my coworker lol 11 years strong y’all

[@Honeyybjj]

Omg yas😭

[@umyeahok2097]

Word to the wise DO NOT date your co worker. I’m currently working at the same place as him and I see him everyday. Imagine dealing with that! I think I’m so good and over him and then I see him and I get anxiety. I’m currently working through this issue 😔 some co worker relationships do work, so I guess do it at your own risk LOL Update: I no longer get anxiety when I happen to see him. If you’re going through this rn just know that as cheesy as it sounds time really does heal wounds. Focus on yourself and stop giving them energy.

[@arianeestevesrios6936]

Would You Ever Date a Co-Worker? Well, that's how I met my husband ;)

[@KindaCrazy73]

Ariane Esteves Rios me too!

[@lianelayman7577]

A lot of people I worked with at the Insurance Co. met each other.

[@okiedokie1817]

Random observation: Adrienne is wearing the same shirt here as Tamar wore in the DNA test episode

[@francescadeyo7045]

Loni's worn it too in later episodes

[@lizImoleayo]

you know this is an old video when you see Jeanie wearing her wedding ring

[@sexyhomeowner9345]

The shade, lol.

[@redniggah44]

This should have had a different title for the first half.

[@BelanceM]

I LOVE the hair pieces that jeanie always wears

[@adelesmith7068]

Love the old clips...these were the times when most of the comments were about how you could relate and have a healthy debate instead of now when all you seem to read about spreads hate!

[@kiugi794]

"Be gone brotha, she good" lmaoooo yaaaaassssss

[@Cbell27]

“I ended up dating that person” Oop didn’t she kiss roger? 😏

[@dreamgrlarchive]

CBell27 I think she meant Jordan

[@riss5693]

I was thinking that, but she’s stayed in contact with him so I don’t think it’s him.

[@xxxmickyxxx3]

Yeah he was at her wedding too, so doubt it was him. A lot of people say it was a guy called hosea if I remember correctly

[@xhpfanx]

Dating a co worker sadly never looks great for the woman. The man always gets away with it.. no one will say anything to him... he'll be fine that way. But the woman? Nah fam. Co-workers will judge and everyone will talk, so it's better to never go down that road.

[@queenchels7669]

"Dated" a co-worker once and I'll never do it again #lessonlearned

[@misst9610]

Exactly

[@mrsvr]

Met my husband at work. Reconnected after 7 years and now we're married

[@cicigetthat07]

Omg it was meant to be!!

[@simplymonica6888]

I paused the video at 1:23 to say this is a beautiful look on Jeannie.

[@yessi-pm8qb]

Can we PLEASE have more Gary Owen 😂💜

[@misst9610]

Exactly

[@Cbell27]

“Not no dude” 😂😂

[@rosiev1702]

I like this Gary guy. They need him back more.

[@skywonder3173]

I dated my co worker and we didn’t last after he quit, but even tho I didn’t have to see him it was awkward because everybody knew about us and kept asking about him and telling me that they run into him at the store with some other chick 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Cbell27]

I don’t find anything wrong with dating people you work with? I think love is love

[@loveuall14]

I won't dp that again . It happened to me. I started dating my co-worker and when we broke up it was so difficult to work together haha it was so uncomfortable.

[@aiishadyer-fletcher1834]

Gary needs to make more regular appearances! 😂😂😂

[@BossBible]

I really like their vibe. They are like proper friends

[@ccc-fd3ls]

Nope nope nope never date a coworker...don’t do it nooooo

[@mikenelson8377]

c cc THANK YOU!!! I’m glad I’m not the only one that thinks this 🙏

[@g.3715]

I love loni 😂😂 she needs her own show!

[@DelicatelySinfulCrochets]

I have and I did and I married them. Periodt!

[@senoraantero2836]

Gary Owen’s hilarious

[@justvibinchy]

This didn’t happen to me But two of my coworkers were dating And they broken up because of competition with promotion

[@AngelFriend911]

This my second time 🤦🏾‍♀️it just ends up happening like you can’t control vibes

[@missmessi]

me and a co worker knew each other for 2 years but never spoke in more than friends type of way. then in january (4 months more than friends - to april) we started talking. he liked me i knew from the start as he kept flirting. he then gave me his number, we spoke for ages day and night, felt like we knew each other forever. we connected soooo well. we was both falling so hard but so quick. he said i love you pretty quick and then i did 1 month later. but there was sadly big factors meaning we couldnt be together. he was 35 and had 3 kids, i was 25 and he was my first love. the first person i opened up too. as from the start i kept rejecting him saying no we cannot be together. but he broke my walls down. we mutually decided to cool things off as he said we would just break each others heart if we cannot be together fully. but he made it clear we would always be friends and be there for each other. he recently quit and before he quit he told nobody at my work place but me. he messaged me this huge para was cute tbh. basically saying i been such a good part of his life and been so good to him and we would be friends forever and good luck on my future and stuff. i messaged him back basically saying the same and told him i would miss him so much and he said the same. i truly loved him and still do love him but was a huge age gap and he had 3 kids and i was waiting for the 1 due to religious reasons and he was atheist so it would never work. but he was such a good guy and i told him if things were different i would always pick him and i dont know if i could love someone more than i loved him. till this day i cannot forget him. miss you J p.s nobody in my work knew and we kept it private so not even family or friends knew about us, as i told him i didnt want people to know about our business and he agreed. honestly this man wanted to propose to me in such little time he knew me. he was like i have never met a girl like you. im still single as im not over him yet, its been 1 month since we stopped 'dating', and i dont think i will be open to anyone anytime soon.

[@Lovely-yg7ie]

Idk who that guy is but he is so funny lol they need to make him a host permanently!

[@aniyadupree4157]

"She likes dark men" 😅😅 Goes to Loni's insta 👀 Looks pretty darn lite to me!

[@Tabby.cat2]

Maybe I’m sour because my office romance didn’t work out 🤷🏽‍♀️!!!

[@misst9610]

🤔😕

[@marshacreary2442]

Gary wanted to know why a doctor would be flying coach

[@joahanagarcia1153]

The Guy hasn’t Finished saying Something and Loni is Already Laughing hahahah 😂😂😂😂😂

[@bailey7792]

People say you shouldn't date a co-worker because it messes up the work environment, if you're fighting.. and it does, because I've done it. But people act like you can't just find a new job. There's lots of jobs out there, so if you end up dating somebody and it fucks up your work situation.. then leave and get a new job. Though I wouldn't recommend leaving before you have a new job. And this only applies to people who work in fields where it's not hard to find another job. If you're an engineer, and that's the only position in your state open for you... then obviously don't do that dumbshit. But if you work at a bank in the credit department... you can easily find other work.

[@KhaiHakeemTheroux]

Tamara, your arms look so nice and toned 👑💪🏾 #Queen

[@allaboutariii777]

"Was he good? I didn't mess with him!!".😂😂😂😂😂

[@sherryhill7818]

I think if you do you should both agree not to tell anyone at work and don't be together at work in case it doesn't work out.

[@Honeyybjj]

Yess stay professional on the clock!! AND become friends FIRST. That would be my tactic

[@journalism101]

Let people die from their own prejudice instead of being saved to continue their beliefs.

[@janetmharadze3128]

i dated a co-worker and he is now my husband!!

[@mikenelson8377]

Made move 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@katherinerojas284]

To be honest , in my opinion I dont date co workers because what if we broke up along the way and it will be really awkward after the break up. Thats just my rule never date a co worker . 🤷‍♀️

[@localone1597]

He's a prime example of just because you date interracial doesn't mean you're not racist. He's giving the flight attendant every excuse he can. Even though he knows the real answer.

[@victoriamciver9900]

Tamera looks really nice!

[@spicytruth8721]

Are we gonna let him slide w saying “they probably never seen a black doctor “they just seen one!

[@Yessi-with-a-Y]

The Real should add a guy to the panel! It would be nice to hear things from a male perspective.

[@mak88119]

Never ever date a coworker. Do not mix business with pleasure always keep it professional.

[@amethystwolf24572]

This is a great example of why women of color should have their own special section of the discussions of sexism and racism. #Intersectionalism

[@tonythetiger1093]

“anybody in 2016”, yet posted in 2019💀

[@ndnaf3705]

I love Gary Owen!

[@oprahwilliams8752]

Didn't delta ask Gary's wife if she was flying first class when she was waiting to board?

[@LiseGood]

I met my boyfriend working together at Cracker Barrel 4 years ago 😍 He's my soul mate

[@mikenelson8377]

Lisa Goodson unprofessional!

[@LiseGood]

@@mikenelson8377 Lol reading is so important. There was no flirtation going on at work. That's just where we MET

[@tagaway6173]

@@LiseGood dont pay attention to him. he has been spasming comments.

[@lianelayman7577]

Man if I'm ever hurt or sick, I don't care what are who you are as long as you have a medical degree. I'm white and my doc. is a black women and the best doc. I've ever had. Valery Harper married her trainer and they were married 30 years,

[@ttstephanie0629]

Jeannie your hair looks so beautiful!!!

[@plantmadre.7]

Adrienne has the cutest shirts and dresses

[@beautifulmind1111]

I love when Gar my Owen is on the Real! 😂❤️. Hilarious

[@lakarox6777]

i did and he turned out to be the love of my life :)

[@lusciousphilippa]

I'm a female black medic and one of my cousins is a white and medic too. We both get called 'nurse' despite introducing ourselves from the get go. Think its stereotypes in people's minds.

[@ellerios444]

I dated my co-worker, 5 years later we have a daughter together ❤️

[@theredwestpodcastpodcast6395]

You guys should have Bill Burr as a guest

[@Jesusiskingofkingslordoflords7]

Yes! Put that guy in his place. His answer confused me... You can sense his discrimination...

[@sonedirectioner55]

4:44 i felt that Tam luv you💕