7 Traits of Highly Desirable Men | Episode 229: The Roommates Podcast

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

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[@vermillion4916]

Bro I love your content but it would be greatly appreciated if you’re able to add time stamps to your podcasts!!! It helps a lot with seeing the topics discussed and length of each part.

[@damiadeniji]

I'm leaving this here because I can see myself coming back to this video: 1. Money 23:45 2. Confidence 35:38 3. Assertiveness 45:13 4. Muscle Mass 52:05 5. Decisiveness 1:00:45 6. Level headedness 1:08:10 7. Ambition 1:17:38 I really recommend watching the section before the first trait as well because a lot of useful information was given there as well.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you!

[@andreford1753]

You the real MVP 🙏🏿

[@matthewp5472]

The word you guys are looking for is leader, not assertive.

[@thecurrentmoment]

Level headedness could also be called 'grounded' but I think level-headedness describes it better to most people

[@mouseofharry1703]

Thanks for this

[@katezatt]

"Women seek for somebody who doesn't get crazy when they are crazy". YESSS! I want my man to be calm and wise. As a woman emotions hit me hard even when I try my best to be calm. Women also tend to be easily scared by noise or situations. So a confident and calm man WINS.

[@Thatgirlwiththecows]

Agreed!

[@jessih980]

i think that "calm confidence" just shows that you are not in a rush (to get someone) and you are truly confident and don't have to proove yourself all the time

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Great explaination

[@veronicaprigmore4971]

Right!!!

[@jeffreynanatakyicollins101]

Am pretty sure calm confidence is the best way to describe me. I don’t look for validation and stay in my lane but at the same time I get stuff done and look for ways to progress my life. If that attracts someone then that’s great

[@jordanprice9285]

@@TheRoommatesPodcast I believe the word you were looking for was "Stoic" or "Stoicism". Being a Stoic is basically being level-headed and calm even in times of stress and chaos. Where you can remain in masculine frame and handle things in the most rational way possible while still being yourself and "cool" as it will haha. I myself have been practicing this as it works so much!

[@focused5604]

Beginning of the year I was 270 pounds. As of today I'm down to 215 pounds. With that came better feeling, sleeping, and my outlook on life became more optimistic. You get what you're willing to work and sacrifice for. Improvement is a process that is not overnight.

[@erinbrunson894]

as a woman, i would like to thank you guys for this. EVERYTHING you said was %100 dead on the nose. and i never knew a single man quite understood these things. but, they are so very accurate. especially the points about protection & decisiveness. perfect example of planning the date. guys who say: “i made reservations at this place, on this date, at this time”, make me melt. i feel like im in good, strong hands with a smart, confident leader. as opposed to guys who are so lacking in confidence, that they literally ask you to give them all the details of what to plan. those guys never get the date. if you can’t take charge on something as simple as a date, how on earth are you going to lead our lives?? thank you for sharing this valuable information. it is much appreciated 🙏🏾💕.

[@Mingo-Esq]

I am so happy to have found this channel. As a young black man, growing up without a father figure was tough in the sense that I was not taught some of these things. I’m definitely taking notes and will improve myself throughout my years. Stay up Kings ✊🏿

[@Thatgirlwiththecows]

👍

[@Mary_Quaid]

Wow! Once again, amazing work. My husband graded my on how well I am performing in the 7 traits for women. Now, I can evaluate him! Thank you very much for helping us keep our marriage strong. My husband and I have had great conversations and are really enjoying putting in the work for each other. God Bless!

[@mrpeacemaker9462]

Listened to this 3 times in a row. Once in the morning, and twice while in the gym. Let me tell you this is more motivating than ANY song in existence. I just want to be better and constantly hearing how I can be and continue to grow made me lift heavier than I ever have before. Love y’all and I appreciate all the work you guys do. I’ll be up there someday, trust me.

[@Thatgirlwiththecows]

Proud of you!

[@BigSpif]

Finally a men channel ... not that MGTOW bs. Thanks guys 🙏

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

You're welcome!

[@uncledrew7633]

Amen❗️

[@goofywill90]

Alexander Grace is good with that as well

[@kassaken6521]

Some mgtow guys shut me off from the movement. I agree with a lot of points but I get called a simp for wanting sons and daughters 🤨.

[@Zorua89]

What is MGTOW? Sounds like some Magic The Gathering Knock off 😂

[@mouseofharry1703]

This is pure gold, I guess I gotta work on financial stability, muscle mass, assertiveness and aspects of my ambition

[@dvampofo]

1. 23:49 - Financial flourishing 2. 35:45 - Internal Confidence 3. 45:15 - Assertiveness 4. 52:20 - Muscle mass & [body] size 5. 1:00:50 - Decisiveness 6. 1:08:30 - Even-keeled/Tranquil/ Level-headiness 7. 1:17:40 - Ambition (could be #3) & Drive

[@thebabyface8833]

*1 Rich 🤣

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Letting go of what you are not will give you a much better understanding of who you want to become

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Amen

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

Preach.

[@thecarloswilliams]

Thanks Jaxx. I needed to hear this. Lately I’ve been hard on myself because I feel that I’ve failed in different areas of my past relationship. I’m 36 years old and for the first time I’m being proactive in learning to become a man.

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

@@thecarloswilliams that’s what’s up Carlos! Keep grinding

[@johnsmith-vu3sv]

I think its less about setting a goal and becoming the person who moves towards the goal, even if you're not there yet.

[@BlackySpeakz]

Fire episode fellas ! good stuff

[@ColinSupremacy]

Blacky you watch him to

[@johnathanfludd]

The overlap is REAL

[@codydodd5313]

Whatt?? One page I highly respect with great insights and articulation giving props to another page I highly respect that teach about the values of manhood? Freaking awesome!!

[@catreflex]

OMG !! Blacky!!! this is an insane collab.. maybe you can be on one of the Podcasts 👀 face reveal 👀👀

[@jonatangomez3561]

BLACKYYYYYYY

[@dalytheos]

i appreciate the balanced perspective this conversation provides. women are not afraid and are willing to provide for the lifestyle we want BUT we do know our physical limitations and want to be connected with a man who doesn't resent his natural male role. i'm not saying we're perfect. not by any means. we can and should step up our game. however this conversation doesn't pit men against women. thank you.

[@mrsalviboy94]

Emotional intelligence is a power derived from unshakable self confidence, women can feel that energy from far away.

[@hartmanmadu6017]

Man, that introduction was fantastic and those 7 traits were brilliantly described!!! Hafeez, you and Chris need to co-author a book and title it "7 Traits of Highly Desirable Men." Do it ASAP. I will buy it. Use your voices to record the Audible version. Thank you in advance!!

[@ajtaylor8750]

Just re-watched The Last Dance, and Michael Jordan exuded confidence throughout his entire career. He knew he belonged in the league and that he was indeed the best player alive, and that's why all his peers, even Isaiah Thomas, were in awe of him. You have to believe in yourself and your abilities and know that you're good in any situation you're in.

[@cyber6sapien]

Yup. Michael Jordan epitomizes the idea of the alpha male. Back in the day I would be watching a basketball game and my annoying older sister would go and kiss the television screen whenever Jordan was being featured. 😂

[@EmmanuelKamau]

I came across both of you from the recommended side of the Podcast app and I am so grateful for everything you do. It's like having big brothers/mentors giving ACTUAL great advice and not trying to impress anyone.

[@jonatangomez3561]

I found this channel about 5 days ago and I took it as a signal to take initiative to finally change my life for the better. This channel has so much info I didn't know I needed, I'll take it upon myself to soak it all up and grow going forward

[@sheloves3663]

The way you mention the “horny” skills is so true. As a woman, I’ll admit even if a man does everything well (dates, etc), him lacking those skills makes me lose interest, but when you mix them both it’s intoxicating 😜 lol

[@flavorsaver8091]

Consistent Balance is what women need.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you !!

[@relaxwithme__]

Yes. I’m so glad they are addressing that aspect of attraction. It’s so crucial.

[@sheloves3663]

Yes. They explained it perfectly but I could never could put my finger on what exactly it is some lack, even if they’re doing everything right.

[@viceanterra3]

I've learned that what turns people on isn't typically condusive to a healthy relationship. On the flip side what's necessary for a healthy relationship can fizzle out desire. Which means men and women really have to find a healthy balance when it comes to fostering desire while maintaining comfort and stability. It's a paradox. But manageable.

[@maravilloso002]

The best level up channel on KZbin

[@jerviasjohnson700]

I would say confidence is the energy exuded, while assertion is the vehicle which transports the energy

[@I_amOS]

#6 word is composure ✊🏽...a man who can keep his composure when everything around him is burning is in control of himself

[@BetterLoveMovement]

Folks, understand that much of what Hafeez and Chris are talking about is deeply biological. Our brains are thousands of years old and it’s deeply subconscious. What men desire and what women desire is a drive that lies beneath the veil of consciousness. This is why many men and women fight these types of conversations about what a woman truly desires and is drawn to in a man. Same for men. I believe instead of continuing to FIGHT against it with your conscious understanding, tap into your subconscious programming and flow with that. Men, stop being mad about the provider/ protector role. Women, get over the fact that men are seeking beauty, youth and fertility. It’s in us to be this way. The culture wants to take you in a different direction, however it would take thousands of years to rewire that. This old programming can be updated and that what Hafeez and Chris encourage. But to expect us to completely abandon it is highly unlikely. Guys, all of these traits will make you into a comprehensive man. A well rounded masculine figure. This is the goal for you!😉❤️

[@viceanterra3]

It's all about balance. The thing is, the way we were 10,000 years ago isn't exactly conducive to a peaceful and safe society. We shouldn't deny biological imperatives, but we shouldn't ignore that there is a reason we are no longer in that place as a species. Many men claim it's in a man's biology to reproduce with as many women as possible and that we aren't built for monogamy as an excuse to irresponsibly father as many children as possible. There's probably a ton of "biological imperatives" I can name that just are bad for us as a species. As men, we can't go around killing eachother to establish dominance. We know and see that's not ok on many levels.

[@4seasons546]

Hello Anita ! (Woman here )Im a subscriber of your podcast & have bought your books 📖 I was thinking of you as I discovered this video ! Im glad 😃 to see you here commenting & know that you have seen this too. Lets get better together & love 💝 one another

[@BetterLoveMovement]

@@4seasons546 Thank you for your support! I am a BIG supporter of Hafeez and Chris' podcast and work!🥰

[@uncledrew7633]

Thanks for this Hafeez and Chris I’m going to have to have this one on repeat for me. I’m a young guy so there’s a lot I can work on the financial aspect, confidence and purpose, assertiveness, physical and learning how to lead. All this is a process so hopefully this is something I can master by 30 or later

[@MsJacquena]

Wow I really enjoyed this conversation 🤩 I’m hooked on the channel. It’s nice listening to men helping other men and bettering their self.

[@scooterlovya]

Helping women too 😜

[@marcelchalobah7946]

Much respect from Ireland, please get a financial advisor on your show. Do a before and after of some who has levelled up from patreon

[@Dedicated_.1]

Great idea. How to get started with managing finances and career.

[@flavorsaver8091]

Faxx

[@justinxiao9098]

True that. Though I have a different definition of financial stability. It's TIME. How much Time can you spend without making money before you need to start making money again? I want that time to be FORVEVER. That's why I work hard.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thanks for the suggestion Marcel

[@jasmineb1211]

I do highly desire all of these traits 🥰

[@successizmymiddlename]

We need a book ASAP! Love this channel.

[@mouseofharry1703]

I second this motion, plus add a movie deal

[@relaxwithme__]

This list was on point. No lies told. 🙌🏻

[@macanthonynoble5786]

This is one of the most comprehensive channels about this whole masculinity stuff and it’s like the moment they started conversing I got what it all was about, the other channels keep on shouting red pill and alpha and it just keeps on annoying the hell out of me... I watched this video two days ago and then I wanted to beast everybody out and then I’m back here two days later and I’m receiving new insight, the balance is key, and I think that’s what I’m going to be working on from next year... One of the best channels out there....

[@ScourgeofBabylon]

Amazing video. I happened across this channel a few months ago and it's been just immense mental growth. It supplemented the journey of self improvement I've been taking since the beginning of this year. Men need to experience this kind of content much more. Definitely will look into your premium programs!

[@kamalsmusic]

Really helpful episode. One thing I'm curious about is why having a sense of humor/being lighthearted isn't on the list.. because it seems like a lot of women want that as well? Is that less important than these other 7 things?

[@chanteljacksonlmsw]

Flourishing finically is KEY! Coming from a woman who has her own and will never need a dollar from any man. We want a man who can provide and we aren’t struggling. I want to go on vacation when I feel like it. I don’t want to hear we can’t afford it especially when I can afford it.

[@anymouse6169]

just curious. why do you say you financials are so important when you also state that you have your own money and don't need dollars from any man? if you don't need his money, why is his financial success important?

[@chanteljacksonlmsw]

@@anymouse6169 because of the life I want to live. I want to go on lavish vacations and purchase things that we both can afford. I’m not paying your way every time because you can’t keep up.

[@anymouse6169]

@@chanteljacksonlmsw you know. that sounds like as good of a reason to expect somebody to make money as i've heard......and good on you for making your own.

[@alejandromelendez1609]

Translation: you’re shallow.

[@chanteljacksonlmsw]

@@alejandromelendez1609 so?

[@faithybyfaith]

I support this dialogue it was really true regarding the biology of what attracts women and why. And how women mature to wanting a balance between a tender man at home but a boss when he is outside of the home.

[@HigoreHabboOficial]

The way you guys addressed this topic was AMAZING, I’ve never seen a content so on point like this

[@kimberlysmithcarlson1777]

First of all your dynamic together is so very special. Its a gift what you are both offering to people though the presentation of your relationship with each other as well as to yourselves. You both embody what healthy same sex platonic friendships should look like (open, honest, supportive but yet also holding each other accountable) and that is so important to model at this time in the history of our planet. Second, the topics you are offering and discussing are so very helpful for people to see/hear as well. I just want to thank you and express my gratitude for what you are doing for and with other people. I have learned a lot from you. Its true that sometimes others are 'turned off' or turned away by how we speak and the vibration we carry and to me that is nothing but a blessing. The people we are meant to help and assist will experience a deep knowing and sense of being 'home' to us so the fact that you are not appealing to certain people means they are just not on your level or vibration and its actually a spiritual protective measure being employed on your behalf. Energy and a higher power work in this way to help us all the time. I also believe the time has come for men to be free to leave their 'shells' off and still be valued, revered and just as desirable as the ones with the shells on - if not MORE. To have to bear the burden of wearing that shell and hiding behind a mask for most of their lives is traumatizing to men, no longer necessary and is an artifact of a lifestyle that no longer exists. A fully balanced, empowered and self-actualized man is able to be publicly and privately vulnerable and his ability to do so will truly set him free from the prison culture and society have placed him in for far too long.

[@seanaom3882]

Big up The Roommates! ...Man, I love the way all these podcasts are so easy to listen to and easy going!

[@jasmineadjei2552]

Honestly this conversation was so profound. You dropped some gems in here.👌🏾wowee. It was difficult to hear, but very much needed, thank you.

[@SilkEclipse]

Listen, when he says "be assertive", he does not mean "be an asshole", there is a big difference between the two.

[@haggs2014]

Balancing is the tough part for me. When I try to be assertive I am a bit too much

[@SilkEclipse]

@@haggs2014 A good video example of assertiveness without being an asshole is John Cena telling this random dude to stop recording him because he didn't want to be filmed randomly...

[@THESKYLEE]

Not only the best podcast, but the best episode honestly 😤💪🏼💪🏼KEEP GROWING MEN

[@dredakin]

I love the Christmas flavor with the intro/outro. Great content fellas. God bless y’all!

[@wisdomsfruit]

Love the lobster analogy! That sounds accurate

[@PsychologyOfTheFight]

Just commenting for the algorithm, thanks for the great content brotha

[@jennr8235]

The episode for women that you are mentioning in this video I watched. What I liked the most is that the message was delivered with the knowledge of a woman's sensitivities. The wording in the delivery In the message seemed qto respect that about a woman. Thank you

[@jorgefigueroa2231]

I've seen other videos covering this stuff but you guys did an amazing job covering these topics. I'm saving this video

[@Averagecollectorchris]

I gotta work on dropping some weight and becoming financially stable! Great vid guys 👍

[@tremainejordan8251]

I have motto that i wrote down on lil notes and put up around my house, "I GOT TO DO IT!". You got it, why because "YOU GOT TO DO IT". You got it bro, one day at a time, be consistent, never stop, and just do it. Start Today.

[@HG-bh7zi]

Thankful to you guys! Women like me had the thought of the exact guy she wanted however couldn’t put it to words or brushed the thought away, thinking it was too unrealistic. People be like, “give him a chance, people grow” and sorts. I be telling myself the same thing while dealing with so much indecisiveness from him. Im always the leader, if my man can’t lead the dance.. However, I’m willing to let my guard down and be the woman. I’ve always wanted that! I’m happy to hear that there are men out there keeping their game up. Shout out to all them guys keeping it a hundred.. Ps: I might be breaking up with bf real soon 🤭. Lol I ain’t settling for less.. Thanks to you masculine energies😌.. This is powerful stuff for everyone out there. Highly recommend video. ✨✨

[@limitbreakplusultra7551]

The word you were looking for instead of level headed was stoic.

[@werwerwer1234]

When you say level headed it pairs with being in control of your emotions

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

Thank you guys for putting into words what I been trying to say!

[@910Youngn]

Wish I would have found out about y’all podcasts so much sooner. Respect

[@bengrant9900]

Powerful video guys. Just to touch on about level headed ness, there’s a fine line between being calm in chaos and just allowing people run over you like a doormat. I think it don’t make sense to be “level headed” if someone blatantly disrespects you to a certain extent that hinders an aspect of your life and not call the people out on it. Sometimes the person needs to know and be made an example of otherwise it will open the door for other people to disrespect you because they feel they can get away with it without repercussions

[@ha8av]

Thank you lads!! All the way across the pond from London, UK! 👊🏾

[@reesejohnson2788]

I really needed to hear this. Thank you

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

You're welcome

[@Olga-nr6uk]

You guys are awesome! God bless you! Thank for sharing your knowledge!

[@Rastavibration7981]

As a girl, the nice girl gets screwed too then the ones that don't care at all, get the guys

[@Sarah95-e8z]

Unspoken truth 🙌🏻

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thanks Shurdeah

[@joshuamorales1095]

I guess it depends on your beauty, and overall status as well. Its difficult to imagine a nice girl with beauty and status to choose a incompatible partner.

[@kimberlygreen1078]

Like I said a lot of guys like "crazy" women. They will not admit it but they do. I gave the example of John Gray. He said he got married twice. The one he initially wanted didn't want him, so he married someone else. He said the first wife did everything right but guess what? He divorced her 2 yrs later and went and begged the other lady to marry him.

[@Rastavibration7981]

@@kimberlygreen1078 I don't really think they like "crazy". I think they like confident women just like we desire confident men. Its why most women too desire bad boys until they grow to realise they just be selling us a dream. Most nice girls can't stand up for themselves. Just like "nice" guys, nice girls honestly with all due respect, things get boring.

[@AChicRevue]

Well said young men

[@pjspeaks425]

COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF! BLESSINGS - PJ

[@ngabo2781]

27:19 If you out here hunting and you bring back a squirrel 🐿 😂😂😂😂

[@MarcoBoomin]

Been tuning in since the Steph Is cold interview, keep it up 👍🏾

[@abtahitishad9454]

Best tip for others: Most of the things wrong in your life are probably your fault. Although this mentality may seem self-scrutinizing and a sign of low confidence, if you apply it correctly you give yourself the power to improve yourself in every aspect. When you attribute failures to yourself, you are implicitly admitting that it is within you to change what caused that failure and become better. It's empowering. It's a better mentality that attributing everything that's wrong on society or others because you cannot control others or society. You develop a "damsel in distress' mentality. However, blaming yourself puts the loci of control within you and not society/others.

[@equivalentexchangeisalie5726]

Well said

[@lavarball7538]

Best comment I’ve seen in a while! Yes yes! Perfectly put. I hate victimhood. I believe in self reflection first always, whenever something bad happens you have to accept you did something wrong. As a Muslim I believe either 2 things. It is my fault OR it is not my fault but a test from god, so I shall grow and not complain. Simple. Complaining and moaning will only make one grow bitter and age horribly. Life is a big test.

[@christianhenry4173]

@@lavarball7538 I'm not Muslim but that's sound advice I can agree on

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you for sharing

[@lavarball7538]

@@christianhenry4173 respect brother. God bless

[@deedcg577]

You guys did a great job with this one. I mean hit the target on the spot with each trait!!

[@Yvonne-ox8sv]

It seems like modern men want a traditional woman but don’t want to be full time providers which makes no sense . Like I want to do all these things but where is the time ? . You can’t be his peace and be working a hectic job . I’m curious, are y’all ready to be full time providers ?

[@wilfigs9705]

Beautiful day today enjoy!

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you William

[@wilfigs9705]

@@TheRoommatesPodcast 👍👍👍

[@ilai7893]

Props for the shout-out to Asian guys Hafeez, feel like they are underappreciated in American society.

[@Thatgirlwiththecows]

Thank you for being wise!

[@SeanLudwig12]

Your also read 12 rules for life !!! Huge fan man really appreciate that reference big respect !!!

[@elafal377]

Number 6 should be in the top 3. Crucial for a long, healthy, happy relationship.

[@inventorBlack]

Loving the Jingle!!!

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Great!

[@nayaalwal]

I also think financial flourishing is God forbid anything bad happens to either one of us, or our family, but if we need to tend to a family emergency or something of that nature; bills can still be paid, our needs are still met, and money is still coming in for at least 1 to 1.5 years.

[@waffle_chris2]

Appreciate the advice I’m in high school and Im realizing I’m too passive and indecisive but this really helped me out 💯

[@godgotme5300]

Same bro

[@jolistyles9123]

That “I got you” definitely hits different

[@juniorpollard7216]

What woman want and what they say are totally two different things. Remember, women enjoy window shopping.

[@MiszGreatBritain]

That lobster story was cool, very insightful

[@Small0Large0guy]

I love your conversation about the 10,000 BC man-woman relationship, but you could do that same exercise with just 100 years ago and almost end up with the same result

[@amlkfnew]

So I have listened to both your podcast on highly desireable men and women. And I don't disagree with your honest commentary, but thinking about it for a few weeks I figured out what was poking at me. I wonder what you might think, that you have not mentioned about the following: You have spoken about men providing financially and about providing security, you have mentioned men having a career and the self realization that can come with that, which likely also includes supporting needs of esteem and other parts of the needs mentioned in Maslows Hierachy of needs and you've given some mentions as to how a woman can contribute to different aspects. But as for what I have heard most apperently from you conversations in terms of a womans needs and what a man has to offer to a woman have really spoken only about physiological needs and safety needs in terms of money and physical safety (mind you a woman mostly still by what you have mentioned support many of her own physical needs in terms of utilizing the money her husband brings and all the other daily chores, that a busy husband would not have time for.) No I sure have some bias and assumptions my brain instantly jumps to. SO I wanted to ask if you would share more about the ways in which you set up this image of a lifestyle and how a man can create with a woman, the lifestyle that talks to the fullness of her needs and his needs or in other terms all the value either party in a relationship can help eachother offer and develop together . Its feels a bit short changing of men too, to feel like all that is mentioned is to bring is money and physcial security (you may have mentioned more, but the focus was so heavy I can hardly recall if you have) I would like to hear your thoughts about this, I am sure you have more say about this, that you just may not have brought out as clearly, I just feel like that might need a little more spotlight. I think it may be very important to highlight in future debates, this part that wise men and women already know, but that is given less attention so often. If its not brought out, I hope you can see why some women may get a little defensive or rejective towards traditional gender roles and what they need a man for and some men mistakenly and sadly overlook a lot of their own value beyond the basics and in the aspect of helping provide support of a womans/partners higher needs. Hope to hear from you. Thank you! (I know there is a lot of gender segregation in this, I mean a lot of it goes for just people relationships whichever form, the videos were just separated and thats what I had on my mind, so instead of rewriting it all, do feel free to personally adapt it.)

[@SkyyHeaven]

Where was this when I was in high school haha love yall vids

[@Iamtheovision]

Watching from Jamaica This content is fire

[@griotolu7040]

37:00 41:00 46:55: one thing women hate is passivity 48:33 Assertive person will speak their mind! 1:17:55: Ambition 1:22:15:

[@tonirain8115]

You guys were telling all truths...

[@danex2206]

Love your work! More power to you guys!

[@phil5301]

Here before 1 million views!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥Congratulations fellas!!! I gotta get that Jordan Peterson book.

[@ontopp247]

love the christmas touch on the intro!

[@johncrawford438]

I 100% agree with you everything especially financially flourishing, it’s hard earned!

[@_iampmoney_]

Quality discussion fellas

[@NiquazWorld]

Phenomenal video guys!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@u6okii946]

Time stamp is 1:23:45. Nice

[@Wim-Bella-ina]

So much truth in this...

[@jillalala8]

Well said guys ☑️

[@reginahutchinson4057]

Equanimity even in chaos I love your show

[@rickylopez7025]

Love the new into 💯

[@HypnoticHollywood]

Not everyone chick who likes successful men are gold diggers, most are just goal diggers...women who dig guys with goals.

[@lesstalkmoredo8613]

Grooming is KEY - LessTalkMoreDo

[@rodericgholston1432]

copying this from Dami Adeniji just in case I can't find it again "I'm leaving this here because I can see myself coming back to this video: 1. Money 23:45 2. Confidence 35:38 3. Assertiveness 45:13 4. Muscle Mass 52:05 5. Decisiveness 1:00:45 6. Level headedness 1:08:10 7. Ambition 1:17:38 I really recommend watching the section before the first trait as well because a lot of useful information was given there as well."

[@loveonlyplease]

Men must carry the archetypes: Healer Warrior Hunter Ego

[@scooterlovya]

36:33- other men respect confidence, they [women] know they're safe

[@brendacook5103]

One important trait for men that you missed: Empathy and Giving. Women get tired of selfish jerks who are only takers, but not givers. She is better off without them. Knowing a man cares about her needs and wants is sexy.

[@Rami2315]

Personally, I'm trying my best to become that very calm, suave, elegant type guy where you know that you're a badass. You can just casually keep quiet, maintain a humble smirk with people you you encounter and just reflect confidence. You show that no one can phase you. You get shit done and you can casually enjoy the finer things in life cause you know you got it like that...James Bond....