THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS!

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@Joy-mm3cz]

Just do what YOU would like the man to do. If you would like a random, playful text in the middle of the day…send him one. If you want a random sticky note with something cute and say missed you…write him one. The men will appreciate it and most likely recipient too. If they don’t reciprocate..then..NEXT. They are NOT the one for you. Men tend to put in all of the romantic effort in the beginning. Ladies, we can do little things to show them we care too.

[@EllieM_Travels]

My guy never wanted me to take him out. He took the lead and wanted to be the gentleman, the hero. It worked for us! I always did kind things for him, but the whole dating thing, planning the date, asking me out, picking me up… that was all him. He still likes to be my hero.

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes, some men can't receive or they like to be in control. How long have you been dating him?

[@nadiaoak5123]

@@cc-jn4kk Those guys are generally toxic. A healthy person should be comfortable with give & take.

[@elipotter369]

I thought what men expected in return was a home cooked meal and a night of sex at her place.

[@AliceS-lp3tn]

My guy is the same way and I love and admire that he takes the lead in planning our dates/outings/dinners/vacations and so on. No games or chasing. We are blessed to have found each other. Who has time for playing games at our age or ever??? Glad he has his act together. 1 year and counting….

[@renette0506]

That's what I want. I know he's out there. I can find him...then blend my life with them.

[@AliceS-lp3tn]

Every day is precious. You are right Jonathan. Life is fleeting. Nobody has time for time wasters and users.

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly!!!

[@sherriflemming3218]

👍

[@sherriflemming3218]

Im not a chaser. Healthy reciprocity.

[@JonathonAslay]

Amen 🙏

[@jennycabrera6689]

I love this 😂 you make me laugh to some of the stuff you say which is true!😊😊

[@solannthor4991]

You have to be brave enough to voice your concerns, needs, desires. This also doesn’t stop once the relationship is fully committed. I’m still learning that. If it ends, I will be sad but if I don’t speak up then neither of us will have risked anything. If you don’t ask for something then you’ll never get anything and people appreciate being given the opportunity.

[@kristinej.4182]

Well said!

[@lisabuckner243]

@Jonathon Aslay, the purpose of men paying for dates is to prove they can be good providers. Women can bring other things to the relationship- most importantly appreciating him; which makes him fall in love. I get your annoyance w the the female/male energy talk; but thanks to feminism going overboard, there ARE too many women on their male side which IS f#cking up relationships. 🙏💕

[@JonathonAslay]

That proves nothing... a broke person can buy a drink and a rich person can horde their money.

[@jodivorpahl4183]

You're content is getting better and better

[@EMuro-wu7uy]

It's hard not to be broken in some way. My spouse passed away, for some reason everyone always wants to know how he died. Instead of what kind of person he was. It's hard to go through that type of pain. Divorce can be a different kind of pain, both are painful, both can be traumatic. It's hard to say for each person, I've been through several bad relationships. They are painful, but there are good reasons they don't work out. Sometimes we go through situations to learn more about ourselves.

[@alibrough8780]

Jonathon, you have the best advice your deliverance is awesome . The woman you end up with will be a lucky lady ! I wish you so much happiness because you deserve this.

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that!

[@Meyouletsgo]

I’ve met someone who’s broken - divorced and bad dating relationships 😮I’m surprised he’s the only man who wants me to chase or do things for him ! It’s weird !!! Never met someone like that ! I feel drained ! Putting effort it’s always me who calls text etc ! He told me other girls told him the same too…😢it’s painful for me !!! He’s open to my chase but it’s hurting me !

[@Wizard-Girl9]

Ditch this loser - very not masculine! Start doing No Contact asap

[@esybe999]

Would like to share how I choose to say and affirm things in my everyday life. Instead of "I want" I say "I have". "I want" states that we don't have it and vibrates energy of lack. "I have" - we already have it, it's already here. We are satisfied and eager for more. And ready to be ready to be ready and open to receive. 🙂🤗 Stay phenomenal ✅

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly... I have an amazing relationship 🥳

[@montanasky2253]

Im a Gemini and most of the men who pursue me are Leos. Not sure whats up with that. 😂 I grew up with Leos in my family. They don’t want to be chased but they need to be adored and constantly told how wonderful they are. ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Indeed 😁

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

My ex was a Leo and wanted to be chased and needed constant validation.

[@DinaStrange]

I love Leos.

[@renette0506]

Leo's are the most fun...next to Gemini & Libra. I love them!

[@DinaStrange]

Honesty, i am Gemini too, and Leos and Aquariuses are my favorites.

[@beatricecooper60]

I acknowledge the Eloquence in your delivery of this subject matter that potentially could shift the world’s experience of cultivation into relationships.

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you 😊

[@beatricecooper60]

@@JonathonAslay You are welcome.

[@janespitfire9884]

Nice guide about men. Good stuff

[@sherriflemming3218]

Hi Jane! 👋

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@esybe999]

Joe Dispenza - Gratitude🙌🙏🌞

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes!!

[@anikoignath8892]

This was very wise, heartfelt, and encouraging. Thanks Johnathan. 😊

[@sandrasmith5887]

I liked once when you said that dating is to collect data. Get information to make an educated decision.

[@cathyhinder8573]

On fire there this morning Jonathon🔥🔥 ~ absofknlutely!! Love it! Great content, thankyou again 😊🙏

[@Kingdombuilder-j6u]

Great information!

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad it was helpful!

[@13803571]

Why a man said he appreciates u alot, spent time with u, do things for u and yet said u are only his platonic friends and that he is happily single?

[@rebel5140]

Broken people are "nice" users. They get support from their friends (flying monkeys) as they go thru one person after another. They are emotional vampires until they can heal themselves....which can be a very long time before they realize what the heck they are doing. I am under business contract to deal with one right now.....and am soooo excited to move on after the contract expires. It is unnerving to deal with this person in the middle of either limerance, lust or looking for validation. He is exhausting.....and I always have to be on guard. I got only 2 more weeks!!! YAY!!!!

[@EllieM_Travels]

Yep I chased a guy for months until I felt like PePe Le Pu. 😅 I finally gave up, and years later when I asked him why we never got together, he said it was because I left. Omg 🤦🏻‍♀️😒 I just can’t lol

[@sherriflemming3218]

Pepe Le Pew.....🙂

[@thesylly86]

Urghhh! Well, it’s a two way street to invest into a connection ♾️

[@chirokathleen]

I felt elusiveness or passivity in a guy on a first date. I went on a 2nd date with him last weekend bc I was curious if it would feel any different. When he didn’t open the car door for me more than once I told him I was curious why that was. He said, oh I really don’t know about all that so I just never do it. I said, well it conveys to me that you’re just not all in on this date. Are you looking for casual friendship w benefits, something you don’t have anything invested in? He laughed at my question, said “wow!” and ended up driving off. The old me probably wouldn’t have asked.

[@renette0506]

In my view your one question was you dodging a bullet. So smart, you! Keep up the good work, doll.

[@gayleneflower398]

Avoidant, personality disorder, runs rampant right now

[@walkaminutewithme4787]

Men like long distance bc there married😢

[@debs443]

I been doing Dutch or finances my relationships most my life while they smile at the world looking like they took on myself n my 2 kids... want one that is at least able to take me out sometimes on his dime..

[@marthalopez6662]

Thank you Jonathon 🌺

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I believe that completely Jonathan ❤

[@gayleneflower398]

I was so naïve. The guy I was with would fix things around my house and do nice things for me and to reciprocate I would make him his favorite lasagna or spaghetti sauce or I would offer to take him out to a hotel and pay for it or I would offer other things to pay the tip. He would always tell me no no don’t do that no or he wouldn’t eat what I made, or he would ignore what I offered… Like a weekend in Monterey?! It was really weird that way I felt obligated all the time. Just like he probably wanted me too

[@esleslirons2758]

Definitely NOT....no guy that can not feel when it comes fron the heart...

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Hi Jonathan I missed your live podcast. I had to go out. ❤️❤️❤️

[@JonathonAslay]

Next time! 😀

[@Laurenzroblox]

hi there Jonathon,this defenitely resonating with me! I agree with Doug, u open our eyes to dateing to the pot wholes, i have never done this or even kissed on the first date its called prostituting yourselves; I think of dating just like you! I try to do it to get to know that special person, the great powerful 1,wants to merge me, that one person Iam going to grow old with. I know its a late post from when you aired this show, but i just thought I'd reach out to tell you that I really like your message so many of us R afraid of. i also believe that many people R in a fairy tale game when it comes to dating because of the challenges of it all! tnx for all the good honest advice🥰

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I got a phone I can’t figure out how to my picture profile but you know me as Rosemary Brewington 😊

[@tanyaflanders2196]

Leo men do like to be chased. 😂

[@lindsay3793]

Omg I'm doing a face mask and you made it crack from laughing 😅

[@biancamichelle11]

I bet they do!

[@JonathonAslay]

🦁

[@sherriflemming3218]

@@JonathonAslay Jonathon, you're one in a million. I would date you.

[@jenniferl1908]

Absolutely My ex was a Leo man and I felt like and chased him and all women did. He eventually married a woman who chased and begged him to marry her. He is self absorbed narcissist and treats his wife like a doormat - she has to do what he says. My way or the highway.

[@briankaos2654]

What if they only want to talk about their exes, but when you bring up yours they don't want to hear it or quickly change the subject? She even had one stalking her at the beginning of our relationship

[@JonathonAslay]

She's stuck in the past is most likely the answer

[@briankaos2654]

@@JonathonAslay thanks Jonathon 😊

[@elipotter369]

She might be feeling a bit traumatised and isn't ready for reciprocal sharing.

[@GloriaWatkins-uk4or]

Not to mention maturity not bathrm humour for retaliation for whatever excuse there backing ya empathy lacking some timing that's essential in relashionship with another person

[@monasaad3610]

Thanks!

[@JonathonAslay]

WOW, thank you 😊

[@lynnrandallbreton5083]

Jonathan you seem like such a great guy how come you haven't found someone yet what do you think is holding you back

[@JonathonAslay]

Timing...

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I know men and their interests but I don’t buy it usually

[@donnamarrie3272]

"Attitude of Gratitude" & Gratitude is the next sexy❤😉

[@jodivorpahl4183]

..and yep the really good lokin ones are always far far away lol

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I scare most men with my questions

[@wejoin]

Sad I missed the live.😢

[@JonathonAslay]

Next time

[@lesleyherrick3966]

Me too!

[@RosemaryBrewington]

That are so right❤

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I believe that ❤

[@RosemaryBrewington]

Yes Jonathan ❤

[@hannapiskorek9107]

Jonathan, I have a question. We met on line with a nice guy and we agreed to meet. Because of our individual schedules we could not meet the same week. Since i will be in and out of town for some time, he asked me to call him when I am back for good in town. It can be a month and in the meantime it seems he has no intention to be in touch. So, should i initiate some SMS message or just forget about him?

[@JonathonAslay]

He most likely wants to wait to meet you before creating a deeper connection.

[@charitymagwaza6921]

what if you give effort to a man who is not emotional matured

[@RosemaryBrewington]

What about widows?

[@TM-nb9zf]

I call them sassy

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I am incredibly to seek proper gentlemen

[@RosemaryBrewington]

Let me give you a hug ❤

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I am a widow for 7 years I can’t find a worthy man to date after the first date

[@RosemaryBrewington]

I live in small town and every man is uncomfortable to me so I should move ??

[@elipotter369]

If you want a man and can move, why not? I live in a big city with distinctive areas and feel it's highly unlikely I'll meet the kind of person who's right for me in my area. Right now, I don't have the physical health and energy to visit or move to a more likely area, but I hope some day I will - or live or spend time in other places altogether (cities or countries) if it would be a better fit and chance for me.

[@JonathonAslay]

Maybe or maybe not...

[@jannelove420]

Leo 💯 %

[@Carol-f6n8e]

How about an actor single that wants to me an ordinary woman(a nurse ).

[@leriamforte]

Im in a LDR HE is a devorced man... so, how can i know if he is a user or a broken?

[@JonathonAslay]

Do you homework about his life...

[@jasonreid1332]

Show idea: you mentioned random texts, how sharing....😊

[@JonathonAslay]

Noted!

[@susie115]

Why should women have to ask all the questions??? Haha, Isn't it nice when guys ask lots of questions of women also?

[@thesylly86]

Agreed!

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

Agree! Men never ask questions because most don't care.

[@JonathonAslay]

That's why I said... it's a two lane street.

[@susie115]

@@JonathonAslay absolutely! Sorry I missed that part Jonathan, LOL!

[@susie115]

Can guys really care and genuinely love you without asking questions to get to know you more?

[@wejoin]

My friend has had a long-distance relationship for 20 yrs. Works for her

[@JonathonAslay]

I far apart, do they live?

[@GloriaWatkins-uk4or]

You mean discard man oh man how bout teaching forgiveness which lane is what

[@ABRASILERA17]

All men are broken users

[@Reshme77]

No. They are not That's like saying all women are over emotional snakes.

[@jenniferl1908]

Not true at all. I do think most men want a woman to confirm to their life - many say my way or the highway.

[@elipotter369]

I guess what you mean is all the men in your life have been broken users. The men I've chosen to stay with are all emotional abusers - but I know there are a lot of lovely men out there too - I've just been in the wrong headspace to select a good one for me.

[@elizabethrolka7519]

Why man flirt

[@RosemaryBrewington]

Women don’t know what to ask

[@chicagoresident973]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️✌🏼

[@maryray6647]

Date me

[@HollyNaylor-e8l]

You are so interesting. You have wonderful content. I just wonder why you scream. And repeat things purposely. Woman get stuff, you come across intimidating. I am saying this in a kind way.

[@EchadLevShtim]

This man going on about broken men is Part of the Problem and doing a huge injustice to other men. Why? Because this man is a SIMP.😂

[@JonathonAslay]

Lol 😆

[@shirlenewilson8440]

Chill