HOW TO START A JOURNAL my journaling set up, suitable for beginners

Hi beautiful, creative souls, how are you doing? In this week's video I am adding more preparations to my journal set up. I'm sharing my process of making creative art journal pages as well as writing, using old journals and quotes in the mix! Also, talking more about the healing powers of journaling, writing and art journals. This is kind of a part 2 to last week's video so if you missed that you can check it out here:- • HOW TO START A NEW JOU...
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[@theunexpectedgypsy]

*Do you have any ideas or tips for journaling or getting over the fear of getting things down on the page?*

[@Decopainterandtea]

I just "practice" something on a scrap.loose page. Just to start and get warmed up. Then when I feel.the moment of " turning the corner" I start on the "good page". That way if I have a nice quote on a scrap page then I can keep it and write it nicely and better on my proper book. Hope that makes sense. Fearless on scraps when writing or painting ( but not tacking down of course,) for me really helps.

[@ruthwilson6524]

Hi, write illegibly, eg very scribbly and scrawly. The process of getting it out is important, but you don’t necessarily need to read it again. Write across the page, write around a shape or a collage piece. Lovely video. I’ve had a gap from art journalling but want to get into it again, so your videos are really helpful.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

@@Decopainterandtea makes perfect sense, great method and thanks for sharing 😚😚

[@Decopainterandtea]

@@theunexpectedgypsy 🥰

[@Bohemknit]

If it's fear of putting too much of yourself out there, you'd be surprised how many people can relate to raw honest humanity. If it's the fear of messing up... some of my best art pieces came from mistakes. Art reflects the artist, their emotions while creating, their circumstances... its a reflection of their life. In my opinion, if you keep it too neat with some formula, it has to look a certain way ideal... you're really limiting your creativity. Art is chaos... sometimes you just have to do what your feeling... even afraid.

[@ImaginethenorthNet]

I am 50 years old and was starting to feel over the hill like my best chances had passed me by... But I have started drawing again thanks to you and this channel. I feel so grateful. 🙏❤️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Amazing xxx so happy for you and I'm grateful too, to have you here... xxx I'm 50 and we are definitely not over the hill!! xxx

[@seven471]

53, so I understand. I feel pretty and young still, but it seems the world has its own view.

[@icantexplainmyfeetjuliecon3522]

I'm 59 and I know the feeling but we are still vibrant human beings, just maybe got stuck in routines.

[@brendagilbert7881]

I am 72 and peddling fast as I can..but loving life!

[@MameysMedley]

I am 48 and LOVE my journals.

[@pranjallpahuja]

wendy i just wanted to let you know that it's TOTALLY okay, it doesn't matter if you don't feel the best in every video, we are happy to see you being you and creating great content! everyone feels so! virtual hugs x

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Thank you so much! I was a little apprehensive about my mood tbh! I was definitely not feeling my best... TY for watching and encouraging me xx virtual hugs back x

[@Sissy_prints]

i completely agree!

[@elaineaspinall8810]

I think we all wished we lived next door to you. Thank you xx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Haha, ! Perhaps but not when I’m grumpy! 🤣🤣

[@annmcgee8960]

Agree.😁👏😁

[@christinemasson597]

absolutely ! :0)

[@lyric8529]

🤗

[@gazzabart]

For sure Wendy is so honest so good to watch x

[@ABirdWoman]

I am inclined to post at the outset “These are my thoughts and opinions on the day I put it here and if you are reading this, either with or without my permission, remember that I change day by day and that includes my thoughts.”

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Perfectly worded Sandy, love it xx

[@cozy_fern_]

I really love this, thank you for commenting it so I could see. I’ll be adding this to my journals from now on. When I was very young I had my mother start to snoop in my journals and I would be punished for venting and the things I wrote about within. Ever since I’ve been afraid of putting my true feelings down because my privacy was breeched so often.

[@shannoncamilli663]

I have been in a situation where my journals were read. It stopped me from journaling for years. When I started again I would sensor myself. Eventually I started giving code names to situations and people. It really helped! I highly recommend that to those worried about keeping things private. Also, I would take time to go deeper in to why I didn't want someone to read something. Often I would find that they were truths I needed to let out to the world and other people but I was afraid to. So just going through the process allowed me tremendous growth.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

I feel everything you say xxx TY for sharing xxx

[@martiseelye6443]

I've had that experience as well. I now use code or I write it out in pencil then paint or collage over it. I'm able to write it out and nobody knows it's there but me.

[@analiaf.j.6131]

Samething happened to me. I recently purchased a blank journal, to start an art journal and havent written anything for fear of being read again.

[@asjaberkana1163]

Wow amazing to hear so many others had this similar experience. My brother read mine out to his mates. I was horrified and humiliated. I have tried to write over the years but I often sensor myself or just tear pages out. Wendy I just wanted to say you have inspired me to try journaling again and to try a different form of journaling that I have never seen before. No matter your "mood" I always feel uplifted by your spirit and feel like I'm having an honest chat with an old friend. Many oceans and decades and experiences make us different but don't separate us. We are all kindred spirits on this journey of life. Asha from down under Queensland, Australia.

[@Sissy_prints]

I can relate with you! the same thing happened to me, and I still have a block regarding journalling and writing

[@RockStarVee]

When I was little, I had a diary that had a lock on it. My brother broke into it and read it, and proceeded to taunt me in front of his friends, when we were alone, etc. It was such a HUGE violation of my privacy (and I'm a pretty private person now; I wonder if that influenced it). I'm a professional writer and have avoided keeping journals my whole life because of my fear that someone would read them. When I discovered art journaling through you and your channel, I realized what an incredible opportunity this is to get things out without having to spell them out. Then the more I thought about it, the more I realized that my private stuff is safe. I live alone, and if someone I know were to ever read my personal thoughts, I would be shocked; I think that adults just don't need to worry about that as much as kids, maybe. But...if you are feeling vulnerable and want some extra protection, why not get a small lockbox that you can keep your private things in? That would give you the freedom to just say whatever you want! (And by "you" I mean the general you.)

[@lyric8529]

@FlutterBy I love your profile picture! 🧡

[@RockStarVee]

@@lyric8529 Thank you! I am lucky to have a lot of monarchs visit me each year. :)

[@gina9523]

Same here, my brother found my diary (way back when I was a teenager) and read it out to everyone, was years before i kept a journal again, now its a daily happy ritual.

[@watchmanonthewall77744]

I never fear about what I pour out onto my pages written or art......I have found healing in writing out my feelings emotions and even things that have happened to me and then ripped them up and thrown them away or used them as collage pieces in an art page . But the feelings were purged . When no one will listen or undersrand the page is always accepting and ready to hear anythjng I need or have to say. Panic attacks have stolen much sleep from me, but this helps me to deal with and even understand what it is that is causing my panic so I can see it in a tangible way and begin to deal with it.

[@BlueBirdsSong]

What you said about being worried about someone reading my Journal really hit home for me. 😪 my brother and I had very horrible childhoods. The only thing we had were each other. He passed away I’ve been dead inside for a long time. I wanted to do a journal but I had a diary when I was young and my mom would hunt for it when I was at school and read it. Ever since then I can’t put things to paper. It terrifies me still and I’m an older woman now. She died when I was 17. I raised my brothers and sister since I was 10 yrs old. I have to tell you though you have given me strength to try. Thank you Wendy, you are so sweet. I’m sitting here crying. Much love and peace to you🕊🕊💫🦋

[@marlena4720]

Delphine the mermaid as an oval fridge magnet would be devine !!

[@teresadrummond7123]

Even when you’re disgruntled you’re adorable. I think you are a breath of fresh air and I find you inspiring ❣️. Thank you for your videos.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Thanks so much Teresa xx

[@lyric8529]

Yes! 🙌🏼💝🤗

[@marybrotnitsky1461]

In 2017, I experienced life changing events, that shook me to my core. One was my mothers passing. In my grief, I found myself doodling, everyday for hours. I colored the doodles, its as if I needed the color in my life. I have saved them all not knowing why, just neatly tucked them away. You dear one have inspired me to another level just by watching you use the masking tape method! Bless you! Happy New Year.

[@tannaorr4133]

There are pens, called Secret Agent Pens, maybe also called Jet Pens. You can’t see what you’re writing, until you shine the little light in the handle, then what you’ve written magically appears, but only when you shine the light on it. Perfect for private writings, as no one would know the writing was even there. Fun too, because you can write on draw on top, then when you shine the light on you can see what’s written underneath. Got mine on Amazon.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oooh! fab idea!!

[@lyric8529]

In a little workshop I attended, the instructor wrote all messy almost scribbling so the writing really wasn't legible as a way of protecting ones privacy. But I love the ideas Wendy mentioned about painting or collaging or even burning the page! 😊

[@nancyrolfe3033]

Thank you!! I’m 63 and have never journaled. I’ve been thinking about this and why I am extremely careful writing texts/emails/notes, etc… I remembered! My mother would lecture us about being very careful with writing because of the possibilities of someone reading it or taking it. She scared us with different scenarios….all negative. She had issues….apparently! Bless her You have inspired me to start!! I know it’s strange BUT I can’t shake that feeling. Possibly because I’ve had it over 55 years. Good news! I’ll start journaling about this if I’m not certain what to say. It’s a start! I desperately need something. I’ve gone through therapy and tried some other things after losing my entire family and everything I owned suddenly 10 years ago. Strange but I got up the next morning and went through days and weeks as if nothing had changed. Of course, I was staying with a friend… It hit me hard and I shook for months. I was so blessed as there were certain people who had been put in my life under very unique circumstances. Those few people were instrumental during the first couple of years. When I was beginning to stabilize each one left, moved, retired, changed jobs, etc. I’ve learned that we will ALWAYS have everything we need and the people who help us in ways we don’t anticipate or imagine. It has given me a “knowing “ I can’t explain. No need to ever worry . Do the next good thing…moving forward even if it’s very slow at first…and one day we look back and marvel at how everything is okay; I am okay; life is good again and laughter comes easy. Oh! We have strength and wisdom beyond anything we’d imagined!!! Isn’t it such a blessing to treasure so many things others may have busy oblivion to… that feeling of soft grass on bare feet; smells before the rain; feeling of soft material brushing against my skin…. These are my treasures. they heal so much… Thank you! I can’t believe I wrote all this when it definitely wasn’t even a thought as I began….lol I’m going to leave it. This video is two years old so I doubt anyone sees or reads it. It made me feel good remembering some of those people and all the emotional and spiritual gifts I received during those years .. Sending love and kindness to all..especially those who are in need now

[@emiscozycottagelife]

Even when we have everything we need, our feelings and emotions are still valid. so don’t feel bad feeling emotions. We are allowed to feel the way we feel. I’ve been dirt poor struggling homeless and I’ve been blessed tremendously with a roof over my head full fridge full pantry etc. In both situations my emotions and feelings were valid. Perspective is in the eye of the beholder. 💜

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Absolutely agree Tea xxx TY x

[@robyndismon394]

What a beautiful perspective full of insight and wisdom. No reason 2 love yourself less simply bcz you HAD less (by orhers' standards). You've come full circle. Thnx so much 4 sharing.

[@emiscozycottagelife]

@@robyndismon394 having less materially and having more spiritually is the way to go for sure

[@waywardpelican]

Wendy, your grumpiest day appears to be better than one of my “good” days. LOL!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Hahah! Lols!!!! xxx

[@kathleenknott1646]

I'm watching this video, in late February 2024. I loved watching your journey to Scotland. What a treat. I love your art. Happy weekend Kathleen ❤

[@cosycatcris]

I love your handwriting! They look so aesthetically pleasing. I also love your paintings. Ugh I love everything that you do... And yes please design your own journal for us to have! 😍😍

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Awww thank you xxx I often don't like my handwriting!! I will get onto those journals one day!! x

[@karehhartig7287]

Oh yes ! That's a lovely dream. I think it will be joyfully welcome to have a few journals created by Our Wendy. 💜📚🧚🏼‍♀️🪄🍵🫖🍵🎨📖

[@kitgenz1114]

Hi Wendy! I'm like you, I waffle a lot as well so I love listening to your waffling :-) Don't change a thing.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Mwah! xxx

[@patriciakennedy4089]

Dearest Wendy, you’ve made me cry with so many of your beautiful Wendy wisdoms! I could never write my truth in my journals because my first husband would find them and criticized them and was so horrible about it. I am now married to a completely different type of man who respects me and makes me feel safe. He even stands in the door of my studio waiting for an invitation in! You are so blessed to have James in your life, loving and supporting you. That’s what love is, isn’t it? Keep up the amazing work you do for us and rest when you need to rest - we can wait, we understand. Lovelovelove, Patricia

[@niallwildwoode7373]

I love your authenticity, Wendy. Thanks for not holding back when you're feeling crap. Us creatives have a more mobile emotional swings, but that makes our sunny days all the brighter. Re package internal protection, get an office document shredder, and raid your local recycling centre for newspapers to shred. Works like a dream. Failing that, buy sacks of loose cellulose fibre insulation. It's only recycled paper again, but fluffier.

[@SilviaCollmann]

THIS QUOTE ABOUT "you don't need to be the enlightened one..." 😭🤯

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Yup! 🤪

[@bellap2570]

😊🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@Wildflowerafternoons]

@@theunexpectedgypsy me too please. 😊

[@u03agc4]

Yes 😂 my ego was like whaaaat 😅

[@PatriciaRossi]

14:47 the energy that you send to the world is the same that you get back

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Big loves and TY for watching and keeping me in such good company xxx

[@terryann8854]

Wow! I love your hair today!!!! And remember, It's ok to not be ok! You're only human, we all have off days!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

TY and soooo true Terry xxx

[@MameysMedley]

I write EVERYTHING down. It's just my husband and I and I really do not have any fear of anyone finding or reading them. I just figure it's my life, my thoughts, my journal....I LOOOOVE looking back on my journals. I am 48 years old and when I look back on my journals when I was in my 20's I see how much I've grown. Things that used to bother me, now make me laugh. It's fantastic!

[@themysteriousdomainmoviepalace]

I've been grumpy about lockdowns and face rags since we "flattened the curve" in March. It seems to have brought out the worst in.lots of people around here. Thank God for art!

[@pranjallpahuja]

hey wendy! this might be a very hard request but could you put together a document with all you favourite quotes so we can print it out and use in our journal? thank you 💘

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Gosh I can try yes, perhaps over the Christmas time 😚😚🌟

[@pranjallpahuja]

@@theunexpectedgypsy thanks so much, take your time 💘

[@nickn7047]

I believe if you are not profiting or doing business with the quotes it might be ok to copy them and not break copyright laws?

[@pranjallpahuja]

@@nickn7047 of course not, i'll mention the credits and they're just for journal use :)

[@bethwebb3024]

Wendy, I love your videos! Your sweet fairie face and voice always make me smile! And yes, I also would love some of your quotes! You’ve inspired me to venture more into my art journaling!!! Thanks for being a bright light in my days!

[@ritapimblott5576]

Please don,t stop what you are doing. I,m sure you are helping many others as you help you.

[@mersearuane9553]

Being grumpy once in a while is a good thing, helps you appreciate the happy days! Hang in there!

[@catherinedouglas8049]

Thank you, Wendy, for this wonderful video. I am 68 yr old and live alone with my cat in the USA. I am on a fixed income so I feel I have to be careful with my money. But you have inspired me to get back to my creativity, that I abandoned many many years ago. I love your videos and look forward to them. Please know that you bring me joy, contentment and peace. Hope you and James are staying safe and well.

[@ladybooksmith3347]

I just wondered how you are getting on?

[@m.antoinetteadams41]

Thank YOU Wendy for inspiring me to write and create (draw, color, and paint) my feelings into my journal... I will be using all your suggestions. Love Antoinette

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Wonderful, so happy to hear this! Happy creating xx

[@ladycactus110]

Thanks for being honest about being grumpy. I live alone in a frigid latitude in a new town where I know no one, no social activities are happening because of Coofy, I can’t meet anyone, I am retired-no job to keep me busy-and I wake up grumpy instead of grateful almost every day! I finally set up a folding table and a space heater in the basement to return to a little art journaling 2 days ago. It does help!!! Thanks for your videos.❤️

[@marriec09]

I want to thank you for your videos! I have never been able to follow through with a journal. I start them but don’t finish them. Also I can hear my mom’s voice in my heard asking me to work in my art again. You have given me the courage to start again. I’ve actually started with watercolors. I just know that an art journal will work this time too! I can just feel it...if that makes sense. Sorry this is a ramble. If my mom was still here, she would thank you too. 🙏🏻

[@traceyparton9124]

Thank you Wendy for this. When I was going through cancer treatment many years ago, I had very angry moments. I made very dark, bold scribbles, shapes on paper in the middle of the night. I screwed it up and kept it. Then when the time was right I gave it to a trusted friend. Just as it was -screwed up. Just like how I felt. That was in 2003. Am very grateful to the NHS and I am still here in 2021. I really enjoy your videos and your honesty. Thank you x

[@christinebarone2151]

Wow, 365 mantras for today you read hit home ! We are all tired of the situation we are all experiencing. Thank you for the reminder !

[@karehhartig7287]

I'm just joining you over the past few months and I'll tell ya ; I found a home here Wendy. You and James and your community brings me heart felt warmth and joy. Thank you All.

[@ronicaellis7212]

I love the reminder that you can paint or collage over journaling that you feel vulnerable about

[@annette4392]

It's so OK to be not OK. I am menopausal and sleeping is a luxury. That's how I found your channel. I am so pleased I did x

[@folirantkinja]

wendy, you're all i ever wanted to be when i grow up. i'm so happy that i've found your channel, all of this feels so familiar and safe and i love it so dearly! keep it up♡

[@sherriewoods9538]

I totally understand how you feel because I feel the same way! I'm very blessed but I'm also sick of everything too! 💞

[@DrKimSage]

🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕💕I just want to tell you what an incredible gift this video is - I just stumbled across your channel early this morning, and it's just beautiful to see you creating art and healing, combining self love and expression, dreams and well-being....thank you. I talk to my patients about art journals a lot, and will be recommending your channel.💕💕💕wishing you a healthy and happy 2021💕

[@marysfolly2261]

I could watch you all day long, so inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us, it means so much to feel connected in spirit❣️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Yes, we are connected! It does feel wonderful... xxxxx

[@describer99]

A cool thing to do with a journal if you don't want someone to read it, is write in water soluble ink. It acts similar to watercolor paint so after you write, you can take a damp brush and paint over the words with water and smear the text. Of course, you need paper that will stand up to the water...

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Yes! I love that idea, perfect, thanks so much for sharing xxx

[@ISOShakespeare]

I recently discovered your videos and your channel has become one of my most treasured. I hope you do create a journal for us. I love your artwork and it would add so much to the journaling experience.

[@faithck6662]

Hi Wendy! An alternative to bubble wrap is packing peanuts made out of corn starch. They biodegrade and disappear when run under water. Great alternative!!

[@truseeker1]

I stumbled upon your channel randomly as I was desperately searching for a meaningful way to reconnect to my inner child and my creative side which I’ve denied for pretty much my entire life. I’ve literally gone through a dark year of the soul in 2020 and have come out with it recognizing that, through the life experiences I’ve had, that I was conditioned to deny and repress and reject not only my imagination but my femininity. And just like you, I have always felt in my essence a bit of dainty fairy❤️💕💫✨😊 coming to grips with all of the trauma and pain especially that of realizing how I denied myself love and joy and creative expression for years and years has been agonizing to say the least. I’m a writer who stopped writing. A meditation teacher that doesn’t teach. And an artist that doesn’t create art. So when I saw your channel and I clicked on it and I felt the beautiful energy and light that you are, I couldn’t help but feel like the universe heard me. You are a real embodiment of light and love and femininity🙌✨🌟 your videos have sparked a light in me to express myself that I haven’t had the courage to access in a long time. Your authenticity is inspiring and has helped me break through some of the beliefs I’ve had for wanting to share and express my story. Thank you 🙏 🤗 you are a blessing!

[@gina9523]

Started to draw again after 20 yrs, bit clunky at first, but drawing every day i have seen my art improve in leaps and bounds, the only thing good to come out of lockdown, is we are all getting creative, and picking up a pencil again, is joyous x

[@watchmanonthewall77744]

Hi Wendy, just wanted you yo know you are not alone in struggling with moods and feelings. Your beautiful videos have inspired me to start art journaling .....it doesn't always kick the ever rising anxiety and depression feelings but it has become a place where I can leave them behind for a bit. Getting myself absorbed in a journal page or other art has become a way for me to deal with my panic attacks . The following is a copeing strategy that has worked for me ....I acknowledge that what I am feeling is real and valid ....it should not be denied or discredited as that makes it worse ....I acknowledge the feelings ....especially the panic ....and then determine in my mind that that is all it is.....a feeling . I cannot right now change the circumstances I find myself caught in...or change what is happening in the world around me, but I do have control over HOW I let it affect me, how I let it make me feel. Doing this and using art and journaling to distract my mind from the physical aspects of those feelings along with pouring out my heart onto or into my journal pages has and is bringing me through all this , along with a lot if prayer . Thank you for how you put your videos together ....they have become like little vacations to me....little places of calm. Thank you again and God's blessings to you my friend.

[@sharontrueman3221]

Wendy. I’ve only recently discovered your videos and I’ve watched them each three or more times over. It’s challenging to define why your words, spirit, the works and your style are so gifting to us. Simply said, you set the perfect “tone” and we have to follow. Many blessings.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Thank you so much! So glad you are here, xxx

[@lyric8529]

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[@helencarpenter9158]

Thank you Wendy for another lovely, inspiring video. I think we will all agree that these are weird unsettling times we are living in so having a grumpy time is totally ok. I agree with you about getting your feeling out onto paper , very healing. I am really wanting to do this also, though a little scary and worrying about it being read. Then I started thinking. My loved ones should respect me, as I them, not to invaid my space and read such a personal item. I wanted to pass this thought on to all you lovely people too.. I think I might tie it up in some beautiful ribbon 🎀, just incase😃. Love to you Wendy. I look forward to your videos 🥰. Happy Christmas and healthy, happy vibes for 2021🥰🙏🧚‍♀️❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

TY Helen, and Happiest of holidays for you too xxxxxxxx

[@annettebarnhoorn2141]

Hello Wendy, not so long ago I discovered your KZbin channel and I have to say I love to watch your videos. I can watch them over and over again. It gives me something positive and it challenges me to pick up my creativity again. I also have a lot of issues with sleeping. I don't sleep enough and often I feel very tired. That keeps me from doing the things that make me happy. And being creative is something what makes me very happy, something that makes me feel relaxed. This was a crazy year. The year I turned 50 but this year really feels like a roller coaster. A year which often made me feel sad. But you show me that we have to look to the things that make us happy. That we have to look forward to a new year what can bring us new opportunities. Thank you Wendy for bringing this positive energy into the world. Wish you a lovely creative day. Greetings from the Netherlands, Annette

[@cherfauvel]

I have kept journals for years, it is sooo healing but also very vulnerable, in the past someone read without permission and i felt violated, so stopped, now i have found an old one and decided I would read and then cover with art etc., to show where i am now compared to back then, from this i learned something special, I love to write it is an amazing release, so i write and then burn with prayer and promise to myself, then paint or paste to express the release, i keep those and who ever looked would not see :)

[@claud1able]

Wendy I am many years older than you. But I still find you very inspiring. I have journaled on and off through out my life. With successes and failures. But I am out to try again because of you. Thank you

[@Musecollective]

Grumpy and then guilty for it because we’re so lucky... yes, we relate very much at this time I think. I love your honesty and openness. You’re refreshingly real and it’s awesome! 😎

[@kceles1]

I've been in a rut and lost touch with my creative, artistic self, so I treated myself to one of your cards and necklaces as an early birthday present. Every time I look down at the pendant, I smile and remember your videos and feel like this sweet artistic neighbor is coming over for tea and conversation ^^ . I hope to start journaling again next year, not just to rant or vent, but travel the creative woods and watch the birds fly around, see the stars and light and let my creative self visit.

[@ginnybrunson8134]

I did the exact same thing! I guess hoping that having a part of Wendy would not just inspire me, as she has, but to get started and have a little bit of this community with me everyday.

[@jenifertaylorwisdom]

Ditto Wendy, so sending massive love to you and everyone xxx

[@rynnaO]

I love the drawn decorated girls faces so much! They remind me of Suzi Blu's. So lovely. Blessings.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

TY I loved Suzi Blu back in the day xxx Blessings back xx

[@SarahStephanieLandry]

Thanks for the beautiful video! I may be late to the comments section, but regarding bubble wrap: I asked my friends and family to save all the bubble wrap they get with their purchases, so I can reuse it while shipping my jewelry on Etsy. It's still plastic, but it's recycling something that would otherwise have been wasted. :)

[@MyFaceInATube]

You are such a lovely soul and I appreciate what you share with us here! I enjoy listening to you while I'm working away at my own art journals.

[@anitakingsberry2622]

I would Love to get Wendy Journal!!!

[@magpie_mel]

As a woman of a similar age to you, I can appreciate the sleep and grump situation 🤣....after months (!) of frustration with my waking up at unholy o'clock, I've finally come to a place of radical acceptance with it. I do what I can to nourish my sleep (magnesium supplement, limit caffeine etc) and then let it go. I've always been a morning person and I'm trying to reframe it as a gift....that I get these precious quiet hours to myself to read, make art, journal etc. Plus, the world is especially beautiful as it starts to awaken. It doesn't make me any less tired, but it has shifted my thinking around it. ✨. I love how you reuse pages from old journals -- that you're not 'precious' with them -- and I also love the idea of going back and working on pages over and over again....I've started doing that with pages I wasn't 100% happy with - just pottering about with them, really - and the results have been very happy-making. Be well, lovely Wendy...and thank you for shining. 🦄

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Loving your reframe of not sleeping... yes, it sure does help x

[@sandrasenergy]

Thank you for this video. It's the middle of the night here and so much is running through my head it's hard to sleep, hard to focus on a thought and so nice to feel not alone. Very challenging times and I'm sure there are so many who are afraid to speak their truth but it is part of the process of knowing how to move forward. The internet can be a place to come and feel better, not alone and grateful for positive reminders. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@harv11ewis27]

congrats on 20k, love your journaling vids, have a great christmas 🎄 😊

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Thank you 🙏 and you too 😚😚🌷🌷🦋

[@eanalafont2061]

Wendy, thanks so much. You balance me with your sharing. I too, was up at 4a.m. i went back to sleep early morning and just got up. Uh oh, grumpy. As I slept so hard. But your sweet self relaxed me. You and James have a lovely weekend🌞💙 Love from Texas!

[@magnoliabird]

I really love this last quote you read Wendy. It is true the earth has woven the web already for us and we are to walk (i guess like a spider although I dont like that imagery) gently along the strands. That is why I think Brene's quote in your following video is not right that we own our journey. The web has many different strands. Family, friends, colleagues, health, situations, events, timing - all really not in our control. I love this video, the music, your journaling. Thank you for sharing. Sending you wishes of gentleness and light in this season and to continue throughout the year. Let's pray we can all walk gently, that we all care about each other, that we realise all our actions and words work either magic or other on people and that our movements are all entwined. Certainly covid has taught us all that.

[@candydeaver4818]

I just started Journaling with silly drawings or doodles after watch your channel..I never drew pictures before because I have some very talented artists in my family and felt that I wasn't gifted in this way..but now that I have started it has really helped me release some stress and let out things that I didn't know I was holding in..I now have so many ideas that I lay in bed and think about them.. I pretty excited about it..

[@uenofuriya]

imperfections are the most charming things on a journal Im also free spirited on my journals I just do whatever is Im feeling on that day and write em all down

[@chelseadanielle1464]

Sorry you felt grumpy that day. I just want to say that after watching your videos last night I woke up in such a better mood. Like truly. It's true what you said that even watching someone be creative has health benefits! I set up my art corner today and bought a journal. Can't wait to start tomorrow!

[@gnometraveler]

Hi Wendy, I am sooo enjoying you sharing your voice through your video diaries. I was thinking just now, that at the 23:05 min mark, where you are showing a page of your journal could easily be a Card for purchase. I would love to have this as the front of a card with a 'blank' inside for sending a note to someone. How lovely that would be!! "It is worse to stay where one does not belong at all than to wander about lost for a while..." Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes PS: Can I just say here that I love, truly LOVE feeling excited and motivated to come to my own studio/office and work. Knowing that you will be here working alongside me, sharing your day. it's delightful. THANK YOU!!! I think that we have so much in common, the kinds of things you have about you, the attitude, the stuff you read/ have read, the general life views... ALL are so very similar to mine. I feel as if we are kindred souls. Hugs and beautiful journeys... I look forward to seeing more videos.

[@nicolashtagf6602]

Thank you, thank you, thank you Wendy. Yesterday I watched your 2021 Set-up video and it truly inspired me, but it was not until today, as I was feeling rather depressed and lonely, that I was remembered of how healing this process can be. I used to journal since I was a child and I still keep all of my journals as they are quite important to me. This beautiful way of self-care and I had a long break after my mother had read one of my most special journals so far. This lead to her questioning me into a coming out, it was really rough and it took a long time to trust her again, but also to truly commit and trust the art of journaling after what had happened. It felt like all magic was lost. Today I can proudly say that after years and years of trying to find what I thought was gone, I filled the last page of this year's journal and it actually turned into something similar to a love letter to myself accidentally. The magic was always there, I just had to believe and trust in it, because it was always within myself. This letter will be one of my first steps to initiate my next one. Thank you for sharing your kindness and love. It is so nice to see other people that honor journaling so much. The last quote was lovely, so mought it be. Sending you lots of love and sunny thoughts. Cheers, Alejandro.

[@shannonfowler272]

If only I could be as lovely as you are when I am feeling grumpy. 💕 You are quite a delight and I found you to be very enjoyable today, as always. Your stickers and cards are phenomenal!

[@deirdreclark2128]

Amazon sell Moderno notebooks. They have a great selection of all sorts of journals.

[@creativehub660]

thanks for the infor!

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

No worries about feeling grumpy. So much is happening right now. I’ve felt that way myself the past few days. I just start moving my hand around in my art journal and try not to stress about it. In fact, if I feel fear I am more apt to start writing or painting because I just need to get that out. Also I am multilingual so some of my family can not understand some of what I write, so I’m not as afraid of them finding my journals as I probably should be.

[@fionatomlinson7598]

Wendy you are such an inspiration, I'm so looking forward to starting my first ever journal in 2021 ⚘ I'm quite worried of writing my feelings down in case anyone reads it .... so thank you for the idea of using a code, journaling just became deliciously exciting lol 😉 xx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Oh good! So happy!! TY for being here Fiona xx

[@user-uh4cg6mv2e]

Watching you work put a smile on my face. Thank you. That last poem you read was very nice, very wise. Hope you were able to get some rest when you got home after this journaling session 😊❤❤❤

[@jyotichugani2996]

Wendy, that card of yours, 'Make your life come true' is simply magical. Your full video is very helpful 😊. Thank you very much for sharing ❤️ your thoughts honestly with all of us. Look forward to more such videos

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Thanks so much Jyoti, xxx see you soon and soft hugs until then x

[@RAG0407]

Hi Wendy, I also love journaling and while I am no artist (yet) I was compelled to listen to your experience. For me journaling enables me to capture all those thoughts bouncing around in my head. Even at night when I cant sleep I just write them down and it calms my mind. The big positive from my journal is it lets me think ahead beyond today, beyond covid and to a better tomorrow. I am also very lucky to be doing well during COVID, but I hide sadness for a lost friendship. I am working on using the journal to help with this... Meanwhile I see lots of moments of sparkles and positivity. Thank you for sharing you have given me some ideas. A new friend who found you because of covid and youtube

[@elizabethcameron6045]

Your words are bringing tears of relief to me...and also excitement. I have let it slip through a hole in my pocket...art journaling. I appreciate your honesty and I really admire your unique hair/clothes style. This is also you. Thank you, love!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

😙😙😙😙♥️♥️♥️♥️appreciate your comment too so thank you! 🌷♥️🌷♥️

[@quietandlight9491]

Hi Wendy, I am so grateful to have found your channel. You have inspired me to dream and create again. I look forward to watching your videos at the end of the day, like meeting with a friend. Thank you, and many blessings. ✨💜

[@janetburgess5781]

That is so true. When I am alone I enjoy your youtubes. I do wish I would have seen this one before I got rid of all my journals. Some of the things were so personal and hard to read while my husband was dying that I am sure the kids would not understand. They would not read the journals till I dyed so I would not be around to explain. So I tore and shredded them all. I could have just painted over that area. Perhaps put in a new view on the hard times, The ones I did as a child just got lost in the moves. LOL So may regrets over that but moving on. I am journaling again and I will use this tip should I feel the need. I still need to journal about my husband but it will not be negative,, I hope. Thank you,

[@lizzieh5284]

I love your videos. They are so calming. We all feel that the struggle is too much at times, especially at the moment. Please dont feel guilty.🙂

[@cspring5351]

Wendy, I love your artwork, and the way you you design things in your journals. I also love quotes, and use them a lot - everywhere, too. Lol. I am so glad I happened to stumble across your videos. They are just lovely. Keep up the great work. You, your artwork and your journals are all so inspiring. Love your down to earth approach, honesty and authenticity. 😘🙏🥰

[@magdastar2249]

Absolutely love 💘 your channel. Trying to watch all your past videos. You deserve all Good things 🙏❤🌹🌻

[@vitalsparkmassage]

Hi Wendy. Wow this video has really called out to me. I stopped what I was doing to watch it with focus and intent. I absolutely needed to see you paint the 2 pages black. That was a massive eye opener for me. I think it's because it feels like something that I need to do at the moment. I have been colouring in in bright colours, but feel as though it is incongruous as to how I actually feel. I am going to go get my paints out now. Thank you ever so much. Continue to Shine Bright.

[@sallylunamoth5542]

Loved this so much...You are such a Beautiful Soul 💞 The poem at the End made me Cry, Touched my heart. Thank You for sharing 🤗⭐📓

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

I know, it's beautiful isn't it xxx TY for watching xx

[@agonz1438]

Thank you. You emerge in this dark time as a light spirit there at the right moment and I found you and i'm so thankful because i find myself immersed in my art and have teared up to know that my work is pretty even if it's for my own eyes... thank you for coming into my life

[@KristieBittleston]

Beautiful lady, just be you because that is what is so special. I think we all have been struggling with swinging moods lately even in the best of circumstances, and the feelings are all valid. Thank you for sharing your feelings and your amazing talent - I love your work!!!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Wow, what a comment TY so much xxx and for being here keeping me in such wonderful company xx

[@spreadbookjoy]

Thank you Wendy. I’ve been watching you for a while now and just this week, I couldn’t wait for your latest video so I went back and watched all of your older ones! I just love how calming they are - thank you x

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Aww TY so much! If I could make them faster I would! XXxxxxxxx

[@buxtonfireworks6597]

Hello, i just got into art journaling, i have mental health, so this is a healing process for me, but for you as a artist, you opened my eyes, thank you !

[@bookworm102]

Code I fully agree with but the other side to it I feel that some people shouldn't be nosey either. 🥰 I do believe in burning or ripping it up and throwing it away. I would love to see designed journals in your shop. ❤ 🌺☘🦋 your journal is beautiful.♥

[@prairiecherie5743]

I was feeling grumpy till I saw your video was up. Immediate mood change. Wendy waffling is good for the soul. Don't minimize your suffering. We are all feeling the wear and tear but hope is on the horizon. I'm new to art journaling. Your tips are so helpful in getting past the block of starting. I want to thank you for sharing Tea With the Midnight Muse with us. I got a used copy and feel as if Shiloh Sophia stepped right into my soul. I read "Yanking on your Calling" every day to inspire me to plunge into my creative self to see what comes out. Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️ p.s. Don't feel obligated to respond to my messages. Having run a small business I know how busy you are. ❤️❤️❤️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

TY for being here.. xx and yes, Shiloh is wonderful!!

[@yoalaskan3275]

Its very relaxing to listen to you. And I love how you share quotes and items from books.

[@aimeemk44]

I woke up in SUCH a funk today but came across your page and went to work on some collage journaling.. I feel tons and tons lighter. Thank you for your content!

[@diannessewingroom7]

Hi Wendy I am watching and listening as I work you are shining your light over here. Yesterday I came across lots of old notebooks that need sorting but saw they had doodles, wisdom, etc in them and thought no I can't get rid of those. So now I am going to cut the best parts out and creat one special journal with all the bits i love, plus, textiles, colour, anything. Thank you for the ideas, encouragement and lovely videos.

[@dorob.9050]

The "Soul Sisters" Sticker...♥ I really would love to buy some of them. I had a best friend but somehow our paths drifted away from eachother 2 years ago...I really miss her and our chats and all. And then today, I found a little package in my post box: a small heart shaped bracelet charm with a short note from her, hoping I´m okay. Made me cry and text her right away...so the soul sister sticker would be perfect for her and me ♥ But anyway: your channel here has had a huge impact in my life recently! I´m in a state of change currently and art helps me with that, I found out. Thank you for being such an inspiration, for your honesty and your calming videos...means a lot to me!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

And TY for being here too Doro, means a lot to me xxx soft hugs x

[@lyric8529]

Aww how lovely that you and your friend have reconnected! 💞

[@christinemasson597]

In a world full of busy people running after their lives and in these times of unrest, your videos are like a little oasis of peace and inspiration... you make so many people happy by just being you...your simplicity and honesty are a treat... You make many of us, I'm sure, look forward to Fridays ! ;0) xxx from France

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Merci Christine xxxxxx

[@c.catlover4080]

I learned shorthand many years ago in school. If I concentrate hard, it comes back to me. It is a great way to write and not have anyone know what you are writing about.

[@suzannenichols6900]

I was feeling just the way you described in this video, yesterday. I love your artwork it's very beautiful and unique.

[@hollymichelleherndon9602]

Every time I watch your videos it makes my heart smile. You come across as quite an amazing beautiful loving soul. And if this is grumpy, you are way more ajusted than I think you give yourself credit for. I love that I found these vids and journaling in the craziness I've been/going thru. Thank you 💕

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Wow, thank you, I am so grateful to have this channel to help me throught the craziness too.. TY for being here and writing this amazing comment xx

[@kathygoodwin2970]

I have only recently found you & have been “binging” your videos & am loving them so much🥰Have really wanted to start art journaling for years but am just now circling back to it because life got in the way. I’ll be 63 this week & am starting all over, quite literally & this is my gift to myself❤Was wondering a) have you created a journal that you are selling yet & b) do you have a list of some basic favorite supplies to get started with? It would be greatly appreciated! So loving your videos, feel like I’ve found a “kindred spirit” & your artwork! It’s just FABULOUS!!! And thank you, I needed the message this morning in one of your more recent chats about it never being too late! ✨❤️✨

[@MonicaMolinar]

Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your ideas, your process, and that lovely quote at the end, most especially.